After watching this video three times, I was able to summarize the following secrets to master our life transition. 1. Linear life is dead 2. Life is a deck of disruptions and transitions. 3. Develop skills to cope with our emotions 4. Seek wisdom from others 5. Rewrite our story This is an excellent example of the power of storytelling, even to ourselves.
@daispawon86512 жыл бұрын
tanks
@lexusashley7152 жыл бұрын
I am grateful to be alive and I’m writing my own life’s stories and I’m the main character in my life. I am becoming my own heroine I believe I will and so it is ❤️
@LoremIpsumPeach Жыл бұрын
The stories we tell ourselves creates the reality we live in. Tell yourself stories that create the life you want.
@eirikalbrektsen82312 жыл бұрын
Really comforting talk, immediately felt an ease of pressure. Expecting life to be linear makes it difficult to deal with new changes, even when they are exciting and positive.
@lin902102 жыл бұрын
Wow this video is so in sync with me. My family has been going through a lot. Two family members discovered they had cancer. We have had go fo through step by step. Thank god there is treatment. There is still hope.
@exiledeve2 жыл бұрын
Same boat but in my family's case, it's incurable. A lot of sudden changes recently, for the worse... but this TED Talk was comforting. Good luck to you and your family!
@LoremIpsumPeach Жыл бұрын
Wow this is a profound ted talk. I am 30 and going through a "life transition". Thank you for normalizing this. It can be a scary time of uncertainty and self doubt, but slowly, you will get through it and come out on the other side. The only way is through. Thank you!
@Itiswhatitisitiswhatitiswhatit2 жыл бұрын
I have watched so many talks and listen to so many people give advice and tell stories, but I have never been hit as hard as this one right now. The family business that I married into is struggling, and the fights that have come with it are tearing the family apart. No one expected this, no one had planned for this, and no one can handle this. We literally had another fight last night, and I just can't take it anymore as I am bipolar and my environment triggers me regularly. This has given me a lot to think about and discuss. I greatly appreciate your work. Thank you.
@Sbannmarie Жыл бұрын
Hang in there Nick 😊
@nila.conzen2 жыл бұрын
#4 is so important. Our healing, transitions, and transformations are our own - yet they are never meant to be done alone. 🦋
@refundform2 жыл бұрын
This is incredibly helpful not only for people who are about to take on changes and challenges, but for all of us simply living our lives everyday. Many thanks.
@The6thelement94132 жыл бұрын
For me, this was so good to hear right now. With the world, my country and my health at odds, it’s encouraging. Thank you.
@mizukishigemi76292 жыл бұрын
Every single person has a different, unhappy and difficult time. I have no idea why I survived cancer while my student passed away almost at the same time.
@VZ-Warrior_Soul2 жыл бұрын
I think I know what you mean. I few years ago I fell gravely sick. I caught meningitis and endocarditis at the same time and went into a 6 month induced coma. No brain activity. Doctors told my family to say their goodbyes. I flatlined 9 times. “The man with 9 lives”, was the nickname they gave me. For my own reasons, I wasn’t fond of that name. Through the toughest times of my life, learning how to walk again, use a cup, lift a cup and even write again still seemed not fair when after 6 months leaving the hospital all I saw around me was people close to me die or being diagnosed with a disease that’s un-curable. I guess for others, they see things somewhat different. Maybe for some, this hiccup in life where a person that actually does touch death and survives, lives with the pain of a unhealthy body and mind. I’m not even quite sure you know what I mean.
@vak54612 жыл бұрын
The fact that you reflect on it at all is beautiful and shows some gratitude. 💕
@gujju_yeoja2 жыл бұрын
This TedTalk was so amazing... Really needed to hear this today !!! Thank you so much 🙏🙌
@ThePsycheGym2 жыл бұрын
Life transitions are unavailable. Thankfully, these 5 Tips should help grind through them. Great speech Bruce Feiler 👏
@alaccou2 жыл бұрын
The timing on this was brilliant, my recession-induced stressed future self is thanking you in 2023
@graviely46962 жыл бұрын
Probably one of the best Ted Talks I've heard so far. I appreciate the words, encouragement, and ability to continue through our nightmares in order to reach our dreams.
@franny33172 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@aeinthmuee59652 жыл бұрын
🍁🍁🍁
@Success.AppealАй бұрын
Thanks, Bruce! This is exactly what I needed to hear today:) Grateful for your perspective and your models. Professionally I offer Midlife Makeovers after divorce, etc. Will gratefully incorporate some of what you've generously shared here. Plus, I am currently in the messy middle of several life transitions: starting over financially after a huge loss in my 60's during the pandemic, relocating to a new state and recreating my tribe, saying goodbye and expressing my gratitude to my amazing 96.5 year old dad as he is close to passing...Again, your perspective helps me to reframe the overwhelm!
@fireman8722 жыл бұрын
This is really good to hear right now!
@ventanillabonvincentm.33972 жыл бұрын
I needed this as a college student with adulting crisis😫
@jarrodsio Жыл бұрын
Just finished reading Bruce’s memoir on his time at Cambridge, where he earned an MPhil in the 1990s. It’s called ‘Looking for class’. Recommended reading. So happy to see this Yale and Cambridge boy, all grown up and giving Ted Talks.
@vckard67932 жыл бұрын
Amazing speaker and great message
@thanhtamnguyen14742 жыл бұрын
I appreciate his tips for overcoming difficult crisis We all need heroes in our stories...
@Monkiger12 жыл бұрын
The most helpful contribution from this work is the number of individual stories contributing to common motifs. The findings provide good support to Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, where one may find many evidence-supported, effective practices to support the pivots at life transitions Bruce is talking about here.
@NathalieLazo2 жыл бұрын
Remarkable person reading this.. It’s going to get better; all it is a season of opportunity to grow and be better than before. Challenging times are meant to strengthen us, not to break us. Success doesn’t define to what happened to us; it is how we choose to deal with our circumstances. The more you grow and develop as an incredible person as you are, the more things will change for the better. Forgive more (for you), be grateful for even the smallest things (we have it way better than someone else), choose love over ego, choose humility over ego (humility is strength), and finally, invest into new skills so that your future self will thank you. Our lives will change forever the more we grow. Be thankful for the challenges for we know something greater is coming. Love you always - Nathalie ✨❤️
@thanhduong3342 жыл бұрын
so meaningful and motivating. I love to read it. Thank you
@chrissipero22742 жыл бұрын
That was exactly what I wanted to hear now, thank you
@jamesanderson80782 жыл бұрын
Yes you can say that and I agree with you, Hello chrissi how arr you doing 👋👋👋👋
@christineboone28502 жыл бұрын
One of the most useful TedTalks I’ve ever heard!
@tinglovegood39532 жыл бұрын
this is one of the best ted talk i've heard so far in 2022!! thank you Bruce for this amazing content!
@YTFangirlJ2 жыл бұрын
I needed this. Thank you TED.
@acer42372 ай бұрын
Love this one, transitioning can be difficult to accept.
@keyavahyde299 Жыл бұрын
Might be the best Ted Talk and most impactful message I’ve heard in a long time. So needed today and yesterday. ❤😢 🙏🏽
@robinwinter88242 жыл бұрын
The best ever and most helpful insight into navigating our way through a pandemic. Thank you !
@carleenmonsegue3322 жыл бұрын
Carleen Adom’s Reflections Life transitions. Life-quakes! Trauma Growth paradigm. Healing, recovery, resilience. Stuck in quicksand, mud. Where on earth, may I find the safe pod? The cycle of life transitions. Suicidal ideation, reality. Life disruptions, unpredictability! 25 years of Life Transitions! Embrace self-determination. Be kind to yourself, friend. SuperPower saturates sustainability. Validate emotions: fear, sadness, shame, anger. Sing, dance, garden here. Try something new. Shake off the dust! Gain beauty for ashes. Diamonds for charcoal. Seek wisdom and discernment to share. A social network cares. Rewrite Life Story. Add a new chapter With anticipation, confidence and creativity, the moral of life-quake will inspire others to thrive. Thanks so much, alumni, Elliot for introducing this very powerful masterpiece and eloquent, phenomenal speaker.
@talhabedir3812 Жыл бұрын
Amazing. This was comforting and alerting at the same time.
@Doomsday_Life2 жыл бұрын
Wow, super useful talk.
@TomNook.2 жыл бұрын
In a sea of mediocre and timewasting TED talks, now and again along comes a gem that fundamentally inspires or shifts your mind. Great talk
@ginhanah61332 жыл бұрын
So comforting and useful; thank you for sharing!!
@marialvarez79542 жыл бұрын
“If you banish the wolf, you banish the hero” wow, that meant a lot for me
@bear0942052 жыл бұрын
i don’t understand why we banish the hero
@HeyReia4 ай бұрын
@@bear094205 same
@mary-vo4wp2 жыл бұрын
This helps me a lot in my present situation. Thank you.
@NatalieBohlinАй бұрын
This help me today. Your work, and words helped me. Thank you
@daniel235542 жыл бұрын
Brilliant. Thank you, Bruce.
@safetydave7202 жыл бұрын
My biggest transition was spiritual. Jai Gurudev!
@exiledeve2 жыл бұрын
Great TED Talk. Really needed it right now and reminds me of the old good ones from TED.
@neshapany Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!
@jean-baptisterutsche1688 Жыл бұрын
It seems to me that lonely and alone are two very different things: Lonely = excluded; Alone = included (all one part of all, the universe) i love to be alone.
@adrianaordonez-vargas42652 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@dbunnysport2 жыл бұрын
This is so good. I’m going to save and re-listen a lot. ❤️ thank you.
@Tomm9y2 жыл бұрын
This must drive a change in the concepts unerpinning the justice system. Millions are cast into a hellish life on the linear model, when they need support to make transitions. Equip people, the institutions, legislation, education, etc, around them to prioritise these processes. Unfortunately, this is a big disruptor to those who rely on the linear system.
@kathika02192 жыл бұрын
I m in the transition period
@Sbannmarie Жыл бұрын
“We’re going to sourdough our way through the pandemic!” lol
@joytekb2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@魔幻现实主义2 жыл бұрын
In my most difficult moment,I saw shis video,was shockde, i must rush out ot trouble,thank you
@angyt10704 ай бұрын
So good ❤
@chubbydaniels16952 жыл бұрын
Point 1: linear life is dead Point 2: the norm in involves multiple transition
@ishratbatool3112 жыл бұрын
Great talk......
@jordan27602 жыл бұрын
Life quakes haha love that!! Great talk man some wise things said
@hoaphuongvlogs81112 жыл бұрын
Very great one
@maunarose2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@jamesanderson80782 жыл бұрын
Yes you make a good point in your comment,Hello mauba how are you doing 👋👋👋
@Swimdeep2 жыл бұрын
What about when you get several of the life quakes hit all at once?
@RoseJetExhaust2 жыл бұрын
try to handle them one at a time, descending order of priority. You just need time to get through it
@brucefeilerchannel2 жыл бұрын
I call that a 'pileup.' You're not alone.
@firerunner356242 жыл бұрын
Being born into a wealthy family sure does ease those rough patches through life. Lol
@KathyPaquette-nb6gz2 ай бұрын
My husband and I just got scammed $265K from a floating home business in Port Severn Ontario. This talk helped me…..thank you so much
@olahola122 жыл бұрын
I am suffering right now. And I don’t want to get out of it.
@عبدالمجيدالعمري-ز7ث2 жыл бұрын
how ??
@vak54612 жыл бұрын
Woah, in my meditation I ended up coming across a snake metaphor. I tend to say something out of anger that is like a venom. And I thought maybe I should shed and become a new, happier snake when I get angry. This talk 🤯
@necmettinkararer73352 жыл бұрын
Ey insanlar! Sizleri, nefsinize KUL OLMAKTAN ; ALLAH'A KUL OLMAYA DAVET EDİYORUM. UNUTMAYALIM Kİ; "'LA İLAHE İLLALLAH MUHAMMEDURRASULULLAH" DEYİP KALBİMİZLE İMAN ETMEDİKÇE DÜNYADA DA AHİRETTEDE kurtuluş yoktur.
@assialife79232 жыл бұрын
Her derde derman kelimeler. Allah'a giden yoluna şaşmaz.
@necmettinkararer73352 жыл бұрын
@@assialife7923 Rabbim (celle celaluhu)bizi kendi yolundan ayırmasın.bizlere hidayet versin.amin
@shafiquemughal30262 жыл бұрын
Every person please pray for my ielts exam.....Allah give me fully success in my goals....Ameen Suma Ameen🤲🤲
@shafiquemughal30262 жыл бұрын
Ameen Suma Ameen
@englishwithmiranda2 жыл бұрын
Good luck. I hope you passed!
@anishapea49352 жыл бұрын
Super😘
@andyir___ Жыл бұрын
Vill du bli tröstad, uppmuntrad eller utmanad?
@asdrubalvelasquez28302 жыл бұрын
Life is not a strength line! never will be! (I always say this to my self = not as a ritual) deck of disruptions change from cell to cell, from body to body, from society to society, from country to country! a life without any kind of fanatism is part ot the solution exposed by Mr. Feiler!
@orunhaf2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏
@nikel0072 жыл бұрын
Сделали бы русские субтитры
@استبرقحسين-غ8ر2 жыл бұрын
Wow secend
@eternalskeptic2 жыл бұрын
One word: Cannabis
@みっきー-z6c2 жыл бұрын
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@MrJinadan2 жыл бұрын
First!
@Tonyforeman6592 жыл бұрын
Great content, Money is worthless until you put it to work.... I made my 1st million invested in Crypto. Making money is the plan and with Crypto Investment your plans can be fulfilled.
@jasmineitzen82282 жыл бұрын
@Sheryl Parker I agree with you... I had a senior colleague at work who was doing well but never had an investment. Unfortunately he lost his job and went from living a comfortable life to hardship. There would had been something to fall back on if he had an investment
@SimonKelly78362 жыл бұрын
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@LisaRomero.2 жыл бұрын
@Susan Karen I'm a little confused here, do you mean copying her trades as it is done in etoro? Do you hand over your funds and what does she charge for her services?
@pablosmith17472 жыл бұрын
@Susan Karen It fascinating that you just recommended Mrs Camille.
@pablosmith17472 жыл бұрын
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@quitplayingboss6092 жыл бұрын
🙏🙂🏞️สวัสดี
@VladyslavKL2 жыл бұрын
🐋
@limlimlimjanice2 жыл бұрын
How long before you guys realised the audience was fake?