Thank you for sharing Eddy, great content as normal.
@yawenyin26385 ай бұрын
Eddy, I m a police constable in Canada approaching 20 yrs mark. I am tearing up as Im watching ur video. Even smile a bit when u started to apologize to ur ex coworkers. Im looking forward to see more of ur videos as u are so genuine. Love n care from Canada 🇨🇦
@Eddy-Hope5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@Jsatchel2010 Жыл бұрын
My son has been autistic since he was three years old. However, he is intelligent and does a job, so in Japanese he is a Shakaijin (works in society) I often think I have it too. I always found it difficult to make friends and ended up being bullied. Thanks for your great video. It just shows how many people must be out there undiagnosed.
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Francesca 🙏
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Francesca 🙏
@jackngedb27255 ай бұрын
Really nice and positive, you can openly talk about your condition eddy,
@markhargreaves15734 ай бұрын
So much honesty and bravery. Keep doing what you do
@Eddy-Hope4 ай бұрын
🙏👊🏻
@daveharruk2 ай бұрын
It is a shame that it took so long to be diagnosed but great that you've taken control of your life again. Being outdoors is really liberating for so many - on the one hand,an incredible challenge which teaches you a lot about yourself and others,but also immensely satisfying
@Eddy-Hope2 ай бұрын
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@jimfell7147 Жыл бұрын
Wow, Eddy thank you for this, it should be jumped on by some societal groups on how to cope. If only kids today got the chance to see the wonders of the world or even the countryside.
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
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@DavidLayfield Жыл бұрын
Fabulous video Eddy, lovely to hear your story…my wife is a Social Worker for SSAFA so we have a special interest in the ups and downs of life in the forces. I am a Mental Health Social Worker and so enjoy hear such insightful explanations of the difficult issues that people manage. I have dyslexia and some ADHD traits, so your heartfelt words and descriptions of neuro-diversity and masking i especially associated with. I admire your decision today to maybe filter your video making the more watched ones, but just wanted to say, I enjoy all you do, niche or footy, Setu or Isak! All the best to you and all that comes next
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Lovely message and really appreciated David 🙏
@continentalcoxons5 ай бұрын
Fantastic video Eddy. This really helps people understand autism and described really well here. It does resonate with me a bit as I have suffered terribly from stress and anxiety in the past, leading to some panic attacks years ago. I still do suffer with stress and anxiety, still, from time to time. Really hope the new channel is a lot more therapeutic for you. Pleasure to meet you last week.
@Eddy-Hope5 ай бұрын
Cheers Jamie, you too 👍🏻
@geordieal Жыл бұрын
From getting to know people over the last few years with ASD and from a few YT channels I follow opening up about ASD, it’s definitely had me questioning whether it might help explain who I am and whether I should talk to my doc about it. So thank you for being so open about it. Next time I see my doc I am going to ask him about ASD ❤
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Al 🙏
@NorthernTravelVids Жыл бұрын
I was always doing things different to everyone else and at one point in nursery, I was always left on my own as I was seen as "the stupid kid", and well I was diagnosed with Autism when I was 4 years old. I find that long walks, such as coastal walks, helps me cope with my Autism and it just feels good just being out in the middle of nowhere just by yourself.
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🤛🏻
@steviepee8624 Жыл бұрын
Nice one Eddy…..straight from the heart that…
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
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@TI_Ted Жыл бұрын
very moving . this brilliant description will very much help a lot of people
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
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@michaelsmith789 Жыл бұрын
Hi Eddy what a great video! This resonated with me so much. I don't believe I'm on the spectrum, but I was recently diagnosed with anxiety (due to childhood dysfunctional relationships where I was always the adult as a child) and getting that diagnoses and understanding the symptoms just made everything fall into place for me, which it sounds like your autistic diagnosis has for you. I was diagnosed with high blood pressure as a teenager, but we now think this was all to do with anxiety. I was able to function in high stressful situations and I would say I even thrived on it and went looking for these situations by helping people, but ultimately, it takes its toll! I'd imagine it would be very similar for you in the police force and the military. People would never think I'm anxious, but it's so ingrained in me that it's just my normal state, which obviously is the same with your autism. Thanks for sharing. You often mention your autism and I sense you sometimes, worry that you may come across differently because of this. For me, you always come across as thoughtful, respectful, and insightful for what that's worth. Finally I completely agree that the Great Outdoors is so good for mental health, its something I don't do enough, but I know when I spent a couple of weeks way up in the Scottish Highlands I've never felt happier and just watching your lake district clips here brought some of those memories back. Thanks again for sharing!
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing and offering your kind words Michael 🙏
@debsmostexcellentadventure5353 Жыл бұрын
Loved this video,hope you have a lovely weekend and stay safe debs xx.....
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thank you Debs 😊
@debsmostexcellentadventure5353 Жыл бұрын
@@Eddy-Hope My pleasure you have a lovely channel debs xx
@markbowers4241 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I love all of your videos. Glad to see you have got a diagnosis and sought assistance. I had 18 months of hell with a breakdown but with professional support and the support of family and friends am now better. The outdoors really helps as does wslking my dog. My go to place is the beach and the Ocean. Only 45 minutes away. I practice gratitude daily which really helps. Anyway glad you are moving in the right direction. Finally thanks for your service. YNWA.
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 🙏
@lalisismo Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Eddy.
@lv2keepfit4934 ай бұрын
Nice area! looks like a great tranquil camping spot. You should do a short video on your dogs, something a little different for us dog lovers :)
@Eddy-Hope4 ай бұрын
Might just do that 👍🏻
@Flukey_1970 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing that. Sounds extremely tough. I worked for Northumbria police back in 92 as a civilian in the Meadow Well est after the riots, tasked to combat auto crime. I was never aloud to join the force in any way as I have Crohn’s disease. Sounds like there is still a lack of support for disabilities going on, certainly in mental health. It is certainly good that you have a diagnosis now and know what you are dealing with and you are doing a cracking job on both your channels mate.
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Martin. It’s unlikely I’d have got into the police if I’d known I was ASD. It’s a learning disability that doesn’t work very well in that environment
@Flukey_1970 Жыл бұрын
@@Eddy-Hope no i can imagine and hats off to you for getting though it.
@outdoorsman11405 ай бұрын
Thanks Eddy. This resonates a lot with me. Just subscribed. I’ve always loved the great outdoors and feel at peace there. 16 years in and contracted to the RAF… loved it. I agree, it was very structured. Also worked designing, developing and auditing management systems… very logical and systematic, so a lot of black and white and logical systematic stuff, so became a high flyer, and was very driven and hyper-focused. KZbin started showing me stuff on ASD and it ticked a lot of boxes, and recently did an online AQ and EQ self-test and had a very high score on the AQ test and a very low score on the EQ test! I was diagnosed with dyslexia when I was nearly 30 while studying Higher English while posted up in Scotland, so have a neurodivergence there. I’m wondering if it is worth getting a formal assessment/diagnosis for ASD and what the pros and cons are of a formal diagnosis and if it’s worth doing?
@Eddy-Hope5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing bud. For me, a diagnosis has been a huge positive. It has been a way of now looking at life and my part in it through the correct focal lens. Getting a diagnosis however is a very lengthy process now. I’d caution against doing online tests for ASD as they don’t reflect the ADOS tests which use face to face experiments and clinical observations to determine a diagnosis. An online test will only provide an indication of whether one ‘could’ be ASD. In the UK there is no longer such a thing as being Aspergers either. Good luck bud and keep me updated 👍🏻
@someblokecalleddave1 Жыл бұрын
Very commendable, I can relate to almost all of what's been said here.
@SteveGraham-wb2zs6 ай бұрын
Love your positivity Eddie,I’m ex-Army had a bad accident last year recovering,your words have helped me mate,well done for stepping away from Tyneside life,I will miss it but fully understand your reasons 👍🏻 sending best wishes to you and Helen Lilly and setu 👍🏻
@Eddy-Hope6 ай бұрын
Appreciated Steve 👊🏻👍🏻
@jimfell7147 Жыл бұрын
Without doubt you are an inspiration to those out there with any kind of challenge, your lifestyle and how you've adjusted is something to behold. Understand your problems in the police force it must be a task for anyone with common sense and a bit of a thinker. Keep up the great work.
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jim. Cognitive Dissonance isn’t one of my strong points being autistic so it was a constant struggle
@graeme4540 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Gets me thinking. Cheers
@markr31406 ай бұрын
Great Video Eddy - Being genuine, open and honest to ourselves first is priority but seldom encouraged especially in the past! My youngest son has autism, only when you see it do you see it and can never unsee it thereafter - like most things in life! Funnily enough I’ve just done an online test this morning and the results are pretty much as I expected - remember, everyone is on the / a spectrum of some sorts! It’s once you know what the issues are, means we can deal with / cope with the symptoms plus put strategies in place! There’s no doubt for everyone who’s able - get out there into the fresh, doing anything, good food and exercise, keep things simple and straightforward! General life has become complicated in our lifetime, too many easy distractions and excesses - KISS: Keep It Simple Stupid. An old sales and marketing strategy! Keep strong 💪
@Eddy-Hope6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing Mark 👊🏻👍🏻
@michaelvandromme Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your video, I'm not autistic although am neurodiverse ADHD, my wife is Autistic with a recent diagnosis. Nice to hear someone opening up about their experience. 😊
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
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@stigfloberghagenphotography5 ай бұрын
Great video 👍
@MountainsAndMore5 ай бұрын
Aye Eddie you live round the bend from me ... and we have had similar career paths!! Small world! Give me a shout if you fancy a camp some time .... always good to hit the hills and de-stress!
@Eddy-Hope5 ай бұрын
Haha! Small World! Always up for a wild camp. I’m a full time content creator so anytime suits me. Just let me know. You can email me at enquiries@tynesidelife.com and we can swap numbers 👍🏻
@Helen-nz1xp Жыл бұрын
Proud of you xxx
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Proud of you too xxx
@MrAndywills Жыл бұрын
What you're saying rings true. Was diagnosed autistic at 47yo after I found masking to weigh heavily on my mental health and could no longer cope. Did 15 years as a 'STAB' (medics then airborne). Irony is, officially, the military don't support autistic people. However, looking back, I can now recognise a significant minority of people I served with how are autistic/neurodivergent. Actually live in the North Tyneside area. Love the outdoors. Will follow you with interest/curiosity.
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Thank you bud. I should clarify that being in the military was actually a safe space for me, even though I didn’t know I was Autistic. It was my career in the police that was a ticking time bomb
@MrAndywills Жыл бұрын
@@Eddy-Hope iroonically, the main struggles I had was working, undiagnosed, in the NHS. A lot of ignorance and disregard coming from manages/physicians. #olivermcgowan
@OrijinaruBTC Жыл бұрын
As someone of a similar age on the autistic spectrum to yourself I appreciate this video.
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
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@cannyscott8 ай бұрын
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@Welshadventures Жыл бұрын
Awesome video new sub here
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
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@nlr70 Жыл бұрын
A nice pint soon
@IanEckert1977 Жыл бұрын
Go On Eddie Hope Son...
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
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@thegeordiefellwalker8878 Жыл бұрын
Good on you for speaking out.i can relate in a big way.i actually have to go for a walk every day (it's my escapism a way of coping). there's no such thing as normal mate everybody has a place in the world.embrace who you are & keep getting out there👌👍💪
@someblokecalleddave1 Жыл бұрын
Do you reckon it can get worse as you get older, or do you think the 'Masking' has its limitations? At 62, I just feel that life is now moving at such a pace that I can't keep up with it all and I find myself feeling increasingly anxious with all sorts of aspects, to the point where I've ended up in hospital thinking I was having a heart attack to be told it was a panic attack. I could especially relate the wilderness example. Throughout my life the only time I've ever felt where I can switch off totally has been when I've been surfing - nothing matters other than to be tuned in to that environment and aware of how raw and potentially unforgiving big waves can be. It's only then that I feel relaxed in a primeval way.
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
I believe that we can drop masking when we decide we don’t need to fit in anymore. I’m at that place now. I’m answerable to nobody in life and if I don’t like someone, they don’t need to be in my life. The simpler you design your life, the easier things will become 👍🏻
@owenbell307 Жыл бұрын
Cheers Eddy, one of my favourite videos from you. Didn't realise you were in the police, always knew about the army. You are a bit of an inspiration being so open and honest. Struggling with my mental health after having somewhat of a breakdown in Dec/Jan. I do think it's about time I got checked and I'm going to ask my GP if they think my mental health could relate to undiagnosed autism. I've always suffered with rage but was always put down to be an angry child
@Eddy-Hope Жыл бұрын
Ahem… Royal Air Force 😉 You should definitely seek a diagnosis Owen but in a short space of time the NHS isn’t fit for purpose these days. Hope you get something sorted but you’ll need to be patient. Thank you for your kind words 🤛🏻
@owenbell307 Жыл бұрын
@@Eddy-Hope apologies Eddie, my mind was on other things. I'd say I have two friends I can rely on, I just lost touch with everyone else for one reason or another. I'm going to get the ball rolling. I know how hard it has been with the NHS for other things but thankfully I have a great GP
@markbowers4241 Жыл бұрын
@@owenbell307 i live in Melbourne . My GP saved my life. She was amazing during my recent breakdown. I wish you well on your journey to recovery!!
@andrewlonsdale..walkingthewalk Жыл бұрын
Wow lived the life aswell as been through the mill and back eddy ...sad for you as it took so long for the autism to be picked up and the mistreatment you took along the way ...living the life now I hope ..ATB Andrew👍⛰️⚫️⚪️