The Sensitivity Of A Man | Therapy Thursday | Issac & Elana Curry

[@talawoods25]

Thank you Curry's! These videos are preparing me to be the safe space my King needs.❤

[@unbelaneablebeautyy]

I adore the couples on this channel. So classy, so wise and you can feel the love. As mid 20s aspiring Godly wife, I am truly inspired and grateful for these videos!

[@yahkar]

Communication is Key, the way God was moving them to speak on their actual life made this more than a lesson. It was Transparent and Healing to see a couple look into each others eyes with sincerity and love. Many Blessings to the Curry Family! We See You!

[@msaverielle]

You have to create a safe space.❤

[@msaverielle]

Sensitivity of a man.❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

Jesus wept and HE is VERY strong. 💜💙💚

[@uniquefaces86]

My god my god!! This just spoke to my spirit on so ms y levels!! Thank you so much this was so good you two!

[@babynae00]

I think silence is okay as long as you communicate with your partner that you need time. I agree communication is key. If you are silent and don’t explain yourself it can be interpreted as rejection. If you say “I need a bit of time to process what you are saying”, then I understand you need time. But silence without communication is not healthy.

[@jaybird5589]

“He told me to go sit down” 😂 Love this! God is so wonderful and patient, He listens to us so grace filled and lovingly then like the awesome Father He is He gives us the reassurance to not worry about it and “go sit down” while He takes care of everything👏🏼👏🏼

[@nattyreal]

This is my 1st time listening to you guys 👍🏽🙏🏽

[@lunsha25]

Unlearn what you have learned so when God gives you will know how to properly pour & love into one another.

[@donnamccollum2846]

"You need a lion and a lamb". Powerful!

[@nuance10]

Thank you for this preparatory therapy! Love and blessings.

[@glo1005]

We need a book about what we as women need to learn about men in every aspect

[@roseoil8068]

With EACH soul we meet in Life....there is a BRAND NEW Learning-Teaching experience. Every souL is so unique, there is no other way than to be selfless and LISTEN to how each of us interacts, sees things, understands things...what is disrespectful to one...REALLY may not be to another. 💜

[@shakinahmathers1266]

🙋🏾‍♀️My first time and enjoying.

[@tonibrezill7120]

This was so powerful. I have some unlearning to do! 🙌🏾👏🏾🔥

[@jberryberry6677]

This is Incredible, Gratitude 🙏🏾 ❤

[@veew9500]

We DEFINITELY need to LISTEN to both the man and The Holy Spirit leading, to know what is going on and how deal with the situation accurately. Thank you both for being so open to share from your continual growth and experiences.

[@ladennayoung2939]

THE SENSITIVITY OF A MAN. 💜💙💚💫

[@scheherazadewherry1410]

I love you guys honesty💕💕Thank you for teaching....I ended a relationship with a great guy because of this very reason--His shut down lasted toooooooo long without reason. The tooooooo long was....months....nope-done with that. Im much better. Glory to God.

[@Seanboogiefilms]

I'm so amazed that God, yes is concerned with our faith, character, sin, but also that he is concerned for our emotional health. Thank you, guys for this.

[@carliciabrown4523]

Thanks you all for being vulnerable and open with us...Love you guys ❤❤❤

[@janellamurphy5665]

❤💙Love you Mr. & Mrs. Curry for being so transparent with your relationship🙏🏾🙏🏾👋🏾👋🏾🤴🏾👸🏾! I started sharing with others especially the man (future Boaz in my life)🙂😁! Thank you for your teachings🙋🏿‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️🔥🔥🔥📚God bless you and your marriage union👑👑🦁🐑🤵🏾👰🏿‍♂️💣

[@claudiaferguson5829]

Welcome back Elana 🥳

[@ReneelovesGod]

Amen! This is greatly needed in this life and generation where women don’t truly know how to submit to a man and where men’s and women’s minds are so corrupt. This helps to put perspective on your relationship.. y’all already teaching.❤

[@kjenkins3939]

This was so good. I had to stop the video several times to take notes. “A man who is not emotionally intelligent (or not growing in this with the Holy Spirit ) or emotionally mature ( or not growing in this with the Holy Spirit ) cannot gird his wife and/or cover his family”. Powerful! Yes Lord, thank you and help me to better understand my assignment during this season

[@marilynrobinson6910]

This is TRULY THERAPY! I THANK YOU and appreciate YOU guys for being transparent & sharing your personal experiences. Blessings to your marriage and this ministry!

[@healinghubwithPraiseMercy]

So true,us ladies refuse to entirely listen to a message that talks about what our men need;we always interject with the , "...why don't you tell men also..." Sad😒

[@fungameswithlifeofguiani1069]

Beautiful couple!!❤❤ she is glowinggg❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

AMEN. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU LORD JESUS. HALLELUJAH. THANK YOU LORD JESUS FOR YOUR WORD. THANK YOU PRECIOUS, BEAUTIFUL, POWERFUL, WONDERFUL, AWESOME, AND ANOINTED HOLY SPIRIT FOR SPEAKING THROUGH YOUR BEAUTIFUL AND HUMBLE VESSELS/SERVANTS IN THE MIGHTY AND MATCHLESS NAME OF JESUS CHRIST OF NAZARETH. IN JESUS NAME. IN THE NAME ABOVE ALL NAMES. AMEN.

[@ladennayoung2939]

YES. EMPATHY WAS THE PERFECT WORD. THANK YOU LORD JESUS. AMEN. THANK YOU LORD JESUS.

[@dinajohnson5371]

This therapy was everything. I love what you guys are doing please never stop doing what you’re doing.

[@ladennayoung2939]

That Sunday message was SUCH a blessing. Thank you Lord Jesus fid that, and thank you Lord Jesus for it all in Jesus name. AMEN.

[@janellamurphy5665]

My first time watching and love you husband and wife team = GOD'S COUPLE🫂👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨👑🔥🧎🏾‍♀️🧎🏾‍♂️🙏🏾🙏🏾. Great teaching!!!

[@Shawn_Shawn]

Sunday was awesome we need more of messages like that

[@itsrade809]

Wow 🤍what a word, God Bless!

[@robertgraham2368]

This is food for both Man & Woman already in & entering into a covenant with the lord one another and the Voice of God speaking toboth how to better understand His plan for the rest of their most prosperous lives.....SRG & MAW

[@Pandas0918]

This was so good! Thank you for blessing us with your ministry. May God continue to shine brightly through your union!❤

[@tunisha4346]

I needed this today

[@Iamlehia]

This was so deep on many levels. I appreciate the raw and open transparency between this lovely couple. It's preparing me to have different perspective when I become a wife. Thank you

[@ladydignity]

Love,love,love the transparency! 😍

[@leilag1076]

I love the way you spiritually complement each other. Go 901 fam! This is definitely on my heart. I just posted about this this morning. And yes, the wife speaking to this with you, is so beautiful.

[@zoeponi6719]

I look forward to hearing from God through your ministry every week. May God richly bless you and your family, stay obedient.

[@soupearth4]

Hello pastor, Issac. HI Elana :) Good to see you guys together preaching and teaching us. Profound words. Thank you so much. Keep up the good work. God bless your family and minister. Say hello to your beautiful princess.

[@Jlove85]

She values you, so your attention means something big to her. This whole vid is good.

[@kiracassiani6340]

Mmmmm... This is where my husband and I are right now. I didn't realize that and honestly I don't even think he realizes it disrespects him yet. He gets upset when I do this and now I think we have to have an open conversation. Thank y'all for this.

[@shaniece6789]

In Jesus name Amen❤️‼️

[@desiredsolutionz3536]

Wow!! The Curry's did it again!! YESSS!!! Pastor Issac you helped me and confirmed a lot to me about my husband. And Mama bear... You're beautiful and anointed.. You are my twin 😆. THANK YOU BOTH!

[@ChristVoice8]

I love you guys !! Just today I was trying to speak about this with my future wife 🙏🏼🔥

[@roseoil8068]

Thank you both for allowing Abba to use you as vessels. ❤️🗝️✨

[@betty1hope]

I believe it is really important to understand that a man just like a woman is responsible for communicating what is going on within him. If you want to take time say that. If you want to not talk say so. What bring problems is when one party thinks the other party should know what is going on within them without carrying the responsibility of communication.

[@darrisjeffersonjr6202]

This was 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@kikifrazier3970]

I'm learning more and more about a man...

[@chermainewoodley4974]

Teach Me. Thank you Lord in advance 🙏🏽

[@jenniferlove4601]

This is great! Thank you both, what a word! 👏👏

[@mariaayscue4750]

This was so good to me! Truly spoke to me in how I’m NOT creating a safe space for my husband to feel/speak/process his feelings.

[@lunsha25]

I truly Thank you two for this, This is was so good. spiritual food for my soul. Thank you lord for the power of listening to understand.

[@alialex731]

This is a such a blessing 🙌

[@Brotha_Allen]

Definitely a helpful resource 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@TheBox620]

I am not sure who else was BLESSED by this but I was and after watching Therapy Thursday a lot of my actions and words (or there the lack of) become clearer. "I can see clearly now..." :) Thank You Issac and Elana Curry...

[@dennisariannacook717]

Thank you for the transparency here this is good

[@maralinautube]

Elena I can't help but see your flawless skin.

[@TheOnlyRebeccaLHall]

Thank you guys for this. Your Love and faithfulness with God allowed Jesus to speak from one to the other in a highly sensitive way. Where you both were comforted. That spoke to me the importance of being honest with Jesus about the way we feel. Because he can actually be the true advocate we need to be understood by another. “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.” ‭‭Romans‬ ‭8‬:‭28‬-‭29‬ ‭NIV‬‬ “to be conformed to the image of his Son” The Lion and the Lamb

[@iSurrendHer]

Excellent teaching

[@traceydumase]

Basically, a man who emulates the characteristics of Jesus. When he said "you need a lion and a lamb"; quite literally Jesus is the Lion of Judah but also the sacrificial Lamb of God. Jesus wasn't a whimp but He was gentle and meek. He wasn't a tyrant but He was stern and principled. Gentle and strong can exist simultaneously. Jesus is proof. What I'm learning as a woman is to; 1. Choice: Give my husband room to process his thoughts and feelings. Give him grace to work through his emotions by himself until he's ready to share them with me. 2. Chains: Cover Him in prayer so that the Holy Spirit will help him work through any learnt behavior based off of trauma. To never stop surrendering him to God because only God can work on parts of him that I cannot reach. 3. Consent: Learn to create a safe environment for him to speak. Not everytime he opens up about his emotions am I required to have a response. Sometimes he just wants to know that he is heard. I'm learning so much in this season Holy Spirit. Especially where a man and his emotions are concerned. Granted, I'll only really truly be able to apply all this wisdom once I'm actually married but what a privilege it is to be learning all of this in my single season❤️ Thank you🥰❤️

[@elizabethaustrie9371]

amen

[@darciborelli9153]

TY Four the explicit transparency. As always, I am greatly impacted, I cherish and love the learning from the both of you more than words can speak. I continuously pray for a relationship such as both of yours. It’s awesome, beautiful when both of you are sharing. Sending love, hugs, safety, sunshine, positive vibes. I truly appreciate both of you.🥰🥰🥰🙏🏾

[@markiyaodom]

Wow my last relationship was definitely the right one but I didn’t heal fully the way I needed to Lord help me please

[@roea7846]

Thank you for your honesty and transparency. This will help so many couples. I am single but I shared this with my friend who is married. We all can learn from this. May God bless your marriage.

[@shanekawallace-graham2190]

Most brothers in my nation only want to be lions 🦁, I hope there comes a day when they allow the lamb 🐑 to show itself when necessary 🙇🏾‍♀️🙏🏾

[@acrawford26]

I feel like the man 😂 but I can understand and express my emotions around others, I just choose not to because it doesn’t feel safe. I only open up around safe people.

[@neshisquirrel032]

I agree with this so much lol. A lot of times when my fiancé and I watch these sermons, the roles when it comes to emotions are reversed but we try to apply it where needed 😂

[@tonibrezill7120]

Same, I feel like i connected to the man’s way of emotions 😬🤦🏾‍♀️

[@marcelllyles3199]

This was absolutely amazing’ 😭😭😭😭😭😭. I loved every bit of it! So much to take from this

[@claudiaferguson5829]

This is powerful, power pack for the help and guidance to walk and live in sensitivity and openness, in accordance to the will of God, thank You Lord for this, great examples and experience’s set to nurture us on our Christian walk with God 🔥💫⚡️

[@kayj8480]

Many blessings to the curry family, And so glad your beautiful wife was able to join, this was truly a blessing for me, alot of knowledge that will definitely help me to unlearn my toxic ways as a woman born again I've been seeing alot of things that I need to allow HolySpirit to work out in me, and this video truly shed light.Thank you guys for your transparency, truly appreciate it may God continue to bless you guys union abundantly

[@jessepera2457]

So needed. Thank you

[@ALOYALLEO2815]

Men need respect and women need love. If these two principles are displayed in our relationships the flood gates of communication will flow freely and then there's more transparency and vulnerability in both mates

[@lunsha25]

My! My! My! When he said emotionally sober that took me out

[@doco925]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Milo_and_kennedi]

This was good.

[@iamjakeya]

This was so good. He needs to be a Lion and a Lamb. 🙌🏾🙌🏾 I have some unlearning to do and Im excited to continue the journey. Thank you all for the transparency, vulnerability, and wisdom. God is pleased with your union. ♥️

[@Letstalkaboutit07]

This speaks to me so much!!! Been telling God about what's happening and it seems this is the answer to those prayers!!! Wow! 🙌🙏

[@Delroy61]

Aye, this was phenomenal. Thank Jesus for you two 🙏🏼

[@mastervic47]

Thank you both

[@shadaecarlisa8012]

Excellent conversation

[@mariegreenwood7831]

Sensativty of a man

[@lanelldelgado9322]

Truth! Thank you for sharing this video!

[@zakiyareignshinellc4299]

I love your vulnerability. I don't like fake pastors that makes it seem as if everything in a Godly marriage is perfect.

[@brendabeautiful3096]

This is so good, I have learned so much..thank you both..blessings..

[@BearingMySeoul]

OMG. I was just TRYING to have this conversation with the last guy I was dating but he just couldn't get there. He was trying to EXTRACT agreement on every issue pertaining to men but was dismissive of my desire to agree to disagree. I'm like, "If I love you and know this is a source of disagreement, why are you going to continue to bring this up again and again?!" He's definitely chasing some sort of psychological need but couldn't recognize that's what the bottom line was. It was super sad to experience. 😞

[@silver92406]

Powerful

[@kikifrazier3970]

Wow!!

[@YahairaDelgado]

I love you all. All of these smiling photos got me cracking up. I love it. 😄😂

[@Shawn_Shawn]

Been waiting on this !!

[@Listentomusicist]

Be sensitive and be sensitive!!

[@dorothywalker4608]

❤❤❤

[@ladennayoung2939]

Yes. The Holy Spirit told me that just because we can communicate as women. Don't mean we communicate well. Women need to learn how to listen accurately, be quiet for a minute, and sit in it for a minute in Jesus name. Everything don't need a response, and don't need it right then and there. Women need to learn how to let things simmer down and just be, and just simply be in JESUS name. AMEN.

[@DrMomsFarmacy]

I pray my husband who isn't present until he traumatizes me is sensitive and sensitive and starts to provide a safe space he took away. I've was always his safe space until we married and he started abusing me like every other woman he was with. He doesn't see me. He doesn't hear me. He doesn't invest or take time for me. For everyone else he does. For himself he does. It kills me. 20 years of friendship and 2 years of marriage and he has never chose me.

[@2881coco]

Sis I want to apologize on his behalf. Your responsibility and role as a wife doesn't require you to feel and be treated horrible. Relationships are supposed to be reciprocal and safe for both. We need to be affirmed, loved, heard, seen and respected equally. I pray you receive these things back. ❤️

[@mentalshampoo]

nutritional value.

[@fawnboone9235]

This was painfully impactful for me

[@YahairaDelgado]

The sensitivity of a man.