The Sexiest Thing A Man Can Do In The Bedroom‼️ Men Should Know This

[@barneyrubble957]

62yr old guy here , just come across your channel today and listened to a few . Super impressive, so wise and superbly articulated . You are doing Gods work

[@jamespooler9082]

yes she is.

[@leguied68]

55. You stoled my words 😊

[@Fielion]

She talks about the man giving... not a single word about what the little princess is giving.^^

[@VivatVeritas1]

She did mention taking.

[@tilmatsch5141]

And the video title is literally “what men can do”

[@DarrenThackray-p2b]

Best thing a man can do is leave em well alone for your dignity and mental wellbeing in today's westernised world

[@RS-xo7rd]

Of course not. They can't even leave their friends or get off their chair to talk to you.

[@assessobserveandexemplify4112]

When a man a man knows how to give through dominance, the little princess will give a lot back. She will serve the master.

[@thedocsides]

When a woman can surrender to her feminine nature without vilifying a man for his natural desires and a man can assert his masculine 'dominance' in a patient, unhurried, tender, non forceful way...skies the limit to the level of intimacy and pleasure that can be achieved. Communicating desires and intentions is a great place to start.

[@NifflerTV]

Dominance is psychological, not physical, men. If you want to learn more, you can look up soft dominance. Also, if you are in a long term relationship, you can benefit alot form 'holistic sex' as taught by Alexey Welsh. I was in relationships where women were just so used to physically rough intercourse that they convinced themselves this is what they like. When I tried holistic sex for the first time, it was way too intense emotionally for the girl I was with and she shut down completely. So better delay that. Start with soft dominance. Create trust and safety, safety, is everything for women. EMOTIONAL SAFETY.

[@alans8771]

What is holistic sex? I currently only have a lot rough sex with my ex gf , so I got used to being aggressive and it’s the only thing that gets me going , if there is no rough going on I lose my drive. So it’s an issue for her and me now to only want it rough, shes way too into aggressive and I got so used to it

[@NifflerTV]

@@alans8771 I had the same yeah. Even had trouble without myself because the dominance part was a big turnon for me. And I was used to rougher stimulation. But you can work on desensitizing. Problem is that the longer you get into your relationship, it'll just be about 'getting off' and you'll be too tired for it, lose energy, and it'll kind of die out because you don't really get anything out of it. If you search Alexey Welsh on KZbin he has entire video guides on holistic sex, including new techniques to unlock sexual energy in a woman's body. He worked with thousands of people. For soft dominance there's some sexologists teaching this on KZbin too, it was a pretty good replacement for me. You take on the role of a 'caring dom'; daddy vibes you could call it I guess hehe. It was very hard for me to get into it because, my ego would always pull me back to rough especially because the women I was with kept asking for it, but it just kept needing more and more, it didn't end well. On this path you always go looking for more stimulation, more dopamine, more 'kicks'. But I just tried to work on my self-awareness, tried some mindfulness, and started learning about holistic sex. The girl I was with was actually shocked at the start like, she didn't know what was happening, she pulled back emotionally even because of it. So I don't recommend doing it unless you are actually in a relationship with built trust. Better to start with soft dominance, praise kink, possessive kink, and you can still play around with pinning down and grabbing but I think the aggressive part is the damaging part long term; I don't judge people for doing it ofcourse if it's built on consent and pleasure, but, I do believe if you are looking to build a strong long standing relationship/connection, make a woman feel safe, holistic sex is really, really good. No one talks about combining it with soft dominance it's just something I did myself because I thought they fit well together. Because being truly dominant is psychological. Women often like more aggressive stuff because 1. its culturally ingrained 2. regular sex is boring so it gives them a kick 3. they like being dominated or feel strength. But this feeling strength thing is still psychological, so if you can provide that through words and actions it can stimulate ALOT harder in a much healthier way. Also through holistic sex you learn really good techniques, which will awake alot more high intensity feelings than any rough sex ever could. If you have good trust with your woman you can send incredible full body orgasms on repeat; Alexey also teaches it very clearly and well. You just have to be beware of your ego. It will come in the way. For me personally I started thinking when my last girl got scared of it; like fuck, if I don't give her rough sex she'll get it somewhere else or something, or she'll think I'm not a man or that I'm weak idk. I'm just being real here, but I got over it and just thought about the person I wanted to be, I'm protective, I like providing containment, I'm a little possessive at times, I gotta work on that, although some women like that. But as soon as I stuck to it and we gave it some time it unlocked wonderful experiences, really. Sex drive also permanently activated but in like a really healthy way. And you just get out of it having more energy and trust, I don't really have words for it. But everyone is different you know, this is my personal experience and I've been working on it for over a year after having a really bad BDSM experience which ate at me alot (nobody got hurt; except for me emotionally hehe). I was doubting abit to be this open about this but honestly who cares, if it helps someone I'm glad.

[@NifflerTV]

@@alans8771 I'm a criminologist and I'm also educated in sexology, maybe I'll make some youtube content about it myself soon, we'll see if people find it interesting.

[@alans8771]

@@NifflerTV That would be awesome if you did, I will def keep tabs on your channel

[@NifflerTV]

@@alans8771 Wait I typed out an insanely long answer for you on the phone but it didnt post. Zzz...

[@nathanislove]

I love the beautiful choice of words and how you chose words that dance so well together in a way like you mentioned that it brings a sacredness back to it.

[@fahimrahman9824]

Sounds complicated to me. Just going with the flow and enjoy the moment is the best policy

[@omnislasherRX7]

Delicate dominance yeah. Its for a man to keep steady in his demeanour and undeniable / unchallenged masculinity while keeping the connection with a woman and the woman to revolve around him and able to express her femininity in a sexy way. I think its difficult for us men to combine the dominance with delicate gesturing unless the woman can really bring that protective / caring aspect of a man towards her without diminishing the carnal aspect at the same time!

[@Fielion]

I am now 43 years old. I never had a girlfriend. Every women i have met in my life has hated me, even my own mother didnt wanted me... and no matter how hard i work nothing will ever change that.

[@henkdevries4687]

Fix the relationship (emotionally/mentally) with your mom.. 32 here same story my mom died because she got raped by her father, i knew and took this pain during birth. Although i get approached by the most beautiful women i never let them close..

[@JoeyLocig]

I would say it sounds like a curse. Look into to it, its a real thing and work to be delivered from this

[@ClutchGene]

Find Christ

[@perryj1230]

You can beat this. I've went through similar. I'm 42 and it can be done. Get a therapist that specializes in relationships.

[@johannesbichler9592]

First of all, try to love YOURSELF with all your strengths and weaknesses. You will see that with more self-confidence and love for yourself, you will also open the heart of the other person. Good luck on your own path to happiness. Because ONLY when you are happy in your heart will you light a flame in someone else's heart!

[@jdr4674]

You are doing good out here. Healing the world, a video at a time. Thank you for that

[@abundantmarcus]

Insane that you're 24! You've definitely accessed the wisdom of past lives no question. The wisdom you're dropping runs circles around your contemporaries in this space, and you come across as someone who cares and feels called to help. Bravo!! Hope your message and channel continue to grow. Would love to see a video of what sort of communities women like yourself hang out in. A top ten places to meet women with depth IRL in "your city" would be sick!

[@jedtulman46]

Yes foreplay needs to be emotionally...accessible Men you need to be embracing an older mindset. When I waa a youth we both. .boys and girls needed to learn about sex together we didn't have porn in a way . Not like today. ( was born 1960 ) & I'm by no means out of the game at 64 .. thanks Maya

[@MarcShelton-dn8uz]

Maya, another great show my Top Shelf girl😊 you guys seem to be having a lot of fun and I love it❤

[@Pleaidian-z3x]

No KBrewski or tromo to hassle you here Mr Shelton.

[@brianlockard1435]

Keira’s gonna be jealous

[@MarcShelton-dn8uz]

Keira, jealous why would she be jealous this woman has her man🎉

[@jcvanbreugel]

This rings true! Good information.

[@CornelNorocea]

Great advice 🙏

[@ryanamendala6524]

Secure dominance is positive ownership. Not about control

[@theoneandonly3499]

Woman: Men are all the same!!!! Wise Cat at the dinner table: Who told you to try them all? :D

[@Nhaflm1821]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@theoneandonly3499]

@kastro1821 A math teacher once asked his class to solve a math equation on the board so a girl volunteered to come up and solve it. The math teacher corrected her by telling her infront of the class: Here's your mistake. You added a f*ck I didn't give. The girl felt smarter and when the class time was up the math teacher told them to f*ck off.

[@DualBoyy]

Who writes these comments I don’t understand what you guys are trying to say 🤣 it’s like your using English but in such a weird way that I totally don’t get what you mean

[@theoneandonly3499]

@@DualBoyy 🍻

[@MorgueInTheVoid]

Delicate dominance is equivalent to graceful leadership. We want a man to take the lead and be in charge as a loving, caring provider. Everyone thinks dominance means being aggressive. If we want aggression, we'll say that. But if i want you to be dominant, I still want you to treat me like a person. Not only that, but I want you to show me that i can trust you and that Im safe being in a very vulnerable state around you.

[@cakecard]

Great info!!

[@gregthompson9434]

You do realize 90% of guys watching this hasn’t had sex in years

[@mrStraker888]

Duuh

[@DualBoyy]

So what? Maybe we’re in transition period of our lives and our vibration is elevating to the level of deepness and connection required to meet our next woman, that is going to be with us for us, not just because of attraction?

[@UserRobot215]

At this rate, I never will either. I'm too ugly for that

[@practacticaloutdoorsandthi6962]

As a man i have known this stuff about sacred sexuality and now looking my female match that also wants to understand

[@RockStar____]

You’re right on the money! 😉

[@dannyp6419]

ty' ur so right sometimes. cant go left.

[@VladislavBabbitt]

Unless you are a Communist, haaaaaaaaa! xD

[@RoshaFR]

I‘m in a 15 year relationship (8 married) with 2 kids. As I experienced it, it gets better and better with every year. Of course there are some bad experiences as well but overall it improves with every year. The reason is, that the trust and the comfort with one another brings more open communication. And that heals all the fake sex ideas of porn. I’m really glad we listen closely to one another to improve the whole experience to heights that I even don’t know when the limit is reached.

[@paulsowards8345]

Variety is the spice of life.

[@hannuhjelm2596]

Trust is the key and it is most likely to be earned first.. 😊

[@VladislavBabbitt]

Sex is not a sin. It is an affirmation of Life!

[@Koltkaze]

Sin is just a man made concept as far as I can tell.

[@michaelsasylum]

Sex is a sin outside of holy matrimony.

[@Koltkaze]

@@michaelsasylum Cool story, do you have any evidence for that? Nope!

[@vin3421]

@@michaelsasylum”holy matrimony” is a legal document designed to enslave

[@s7robe297]

@@Koltkazetake a look at how depraved and sick our society. Casual sex is the biggest lie we’ve been sold. There is no truth in succumbing to lust.

[@MistahKurtzASMR]

Maya. It would be easy to explain referring to the classical dance. Delicate leading.

[@MarcShelton-dn8uz]

😊 what do you mean she's going to be jealous she's a friend🎉 she's just like Keira❤ she's got her loving man

[@davidself77]

I agree, great content as expected

[@jamespooler9082]

I didn't know that. thinking thinking thinking. self aware. Love.

[@TheDWZemke]

If a woman can not list 3 things she is grateful for she is not worth my time as I am looking for a long term relationship. Hopefully that sets everyone for success.

[@giovanim9338]

Sex is a dance, and it takes two to tango. It is an energy exchange, both surrender to each other's stimuli, and, overall, both enjoy their time together.

[@scottguitar8168]

Old guy here, I generally agree. Every woman is different and sometimes drastically different to what they are looking for in terms of a turn on. It also depends on the type of sex, your description is more for relationship sex not one night stands or friends with benefits sex. Some women like to control the situation while others want to be controlled. Some want to jump right in and some want a full production to occur. Generally speaking for relationship type sex, sex for the woman is more than just the physical act, it is the closeness and emotional bond that they seek. This is usually tough for the man where purely physical is perfectly fine and doing the full production can feel like a chore as it does for women who know they are not going to get what they want from sex with their man.

[@kingslate1]

Hey, excellent clarity. What type of camera 📸 you use?

[@viktorpaulr2e]

Gentle Dominance. Beautiful sexual philosophy. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@estuchedepeluche2212]

I thought I was going to do learn something new, but this is what I’ve being doing since age 18

[@Byronofcrypto]

Finally you found your man, stoped your "challenge" and creating psychology of relationships content. Every good woman or man deserves to have their second half in the life! Although videos are good, genuine and beneficial

[@patrick4625]

I was thinking you were going to say "clean it before she comes over".... 😂🙏

[@pslgodmindset]

Please make more videos, this is my entertainment!!!

[@Fielion]

If you are not willing to be my mommy, to care for my emotions, stop expecting me to be your daddy and to deal with your drama!

[@DualBoyy]

I don’t understand what is your point dude

[@Fielion]

@@DualBoyy ... women allways say they are not willing to be the mommy for a men, but they allways expect men to lead, to be the daddy.

[@germanpatis9136]

amen,both sides need to give

[@conscioussubconsciousness1976]

Bro needs to be quoted in a textbook (unless it’s already a quote from somewhere)

[@JoeyLocig]

Trying to get men to understand woman Is good because you have a female perspective, But the world/ our society needs more woman explaining to woman how to deal with and accept a man. Just like the ladies of old. They always gave great wisdom and marriage advise to their daughters nieces and granddaughters. For my Intention, I'll watch your training videos for 6 moths in hopes that I learn something so great that I will be ready for you and we will have the greatest marriage.... lol c'mon You know others are thinking the same thing

[@iampicasso1811]

Thank you Maya… this message really resonates with the way that I’m feeling about s3xuality and the s3xual experience, love making should be a consistent journey between partners… always in a state of becoming… as an opposed to a destination… that being said, orgasm is healing within this context. I agree with you regarding the sacredness of the experience. Beautifully articulated.

[@Fielion]

The flow of give and take... what is the little girl giving?

[@paulcooper-n2v]

Chao's disorder and a little town called misery.

[@zegy8454]

Maya is spot on. Practiced this with my ex and the sex was always great. She enjoyed it every time. However, the issue then was that I wasn’t always feeling satisfied after having intimacy, but I feel that was more due to stuff on her end.

[@christopherbehrens7996]

This made a lot of sense. I know what you mean by matched energy.

[@johnmorganjr769]

💯 👍 24k advice. Y'all listen up....

[@johnmorganjr769]

Oh wow, no porn since the new year !! (Wasn't counting actually) It can wreck people like drg/alc./gamb.etc. My viewing was 'sporadic' at worst, but don't miss that bull#hit. 👎

[@jamil1418]

we're only mammals that's all, don't need to have a phd to understand what sex is it's just an urge, if both partners feel intense urge towards each other then the sex is good otherwise it isn't that's all it's like when you're really really thirsty you just want to drink like crazy you're not thinking of anything, same for sex you don't have to drink if you're not thirsty at least a bit, same for sex, you don't have to do it if you don't feel like it period.

[@ajdynamo6866]

How does a man exactly lead in the bedroom if he has no experience but the woman does? I remember the first time I ALMOST lost my virginity, she was way more experienced than me but she still expected me to take charge like I knew what I was doing. My nervousness ended up turning her off a little.

[@derekkase7884]

I remember like a year ago when I started watching you sr videos I was on a good streak at the time now look at you 😅 ..so successful 🤛👊💯💯

[@ultrasone8450]

As a man i aggre 100% !

[@happytoo69]

Absolutely love ❤🎉

[@Ash-jv9gx]

Hey maya mam,thanks for creating such a beautiful video,we love you when you make videos for us but we specially want to know about what women want ,their hidden desire what they want actually ,their needs everything,we want to know about women more and more ,so we can fulfill their desire,we want more content like that focused on women's desire

[@jaidee9570]

Whilst you might be correct, it's not for me to say, you're barely out of your teens, your claim would require you to have a wealth of personal experience, or to have spent you life confirming what women want. I'm going to suggest the reality is neither of those. For anyone watching this, if you assume ALL women want the same thing in the bedroom or any other aspect of life, you are very quickly going to learn that speaking in "absolutes" is a guaranteed recipe for disaster. Some women might respond well with this approach, some will not.

[@scottvillian]

In other words, experiencing life through the internet, in any form, is not really experiencing life. Get out the house ya'll.

[@yvesgysel9834]

All well and good, but a man can only love 1 woman truly, deeply with all his heart. The woman he would move mountains for. The woman who makes him doing better makes him more driven. The woman who he always comes home to. Either you are it or you are not. No good looks, nor being the best person can change that. A man can experience this only once in his life or not. If he does, he can no longer love any other woman truly deeply. That's why you see men staying single after the passing of his truly love. It's a fact.

[@okayaresd]

What's your take on sex before marriage Maya, do you think people should abstain and build a more deeper connection before getting into intimacy?

[@CesarHuescaMusic]

Thanks, Maya.

[@gymthink6587]

Sex Soooooooo boring, get it out your system early fellas and then find your true purpose. Trust me

[@Seanus32]

Not sure if it's sexy and don't really care but sleeping alone in the bedroom is super peaceful. Serenity guaranteed. I'll stick with that, thanks :)

[@mcmentalmusicmakers3219]

Fine line for people who play hard. Not wanting to hurt your partner is why we look for direction. Strangers make the dominant thing easier because no fear of damaging the relationship. So much put on men and still getting beaten and hammered emotionally. So where do we go from here. Why does hooks be so much better than relationships sex, why women do things with strangers that they don’t do with their partners. Why If women don’t care about the guy or stepping out the sex tends to be so much hotter. Validation from strangers please women more then the significant other whom over time repeats the praise which has less effect to her libido .Also theres not tonight repeated creates less incentive to be creative just trying to get some closeness is hurting in this environment. Lately women are taking joy from breaking down that man they once chased. Those that control the door should clearer about what is needed. Gamblers chase the loss

[@lancemarchetti8673]

Some guys are fearful to approach due to having erection issues. We should deal with this reality. Advice?

[@viktorpaulr2e]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@jayantyadav9125]

Need more people like you

[@deank.4169]

I hope your audience IS women. Women need to hear this from you, then tell us.

[@CED-x4d]

i agree that porn consumption has some negative effects on men. however, erotic literature has caused some sex issues as well for women -- especially by creating scenario that doesn't happen in real life. imo both gender has to unlearn and work on themselves to bridge the gap

[@funkymunky]

TL;DR: be like Pierre Woodman.

[@victorlamothe6732]

You are the goddess of love damn it girl.😂

[@smferreiro2610]

The best food is cooked in a barely warm oven!

[@bruhbruhh5103]

A lot of work for a few mins of sticky friction

[@richardlenz2655]

I do only understand railroad station 🤭

[@victorlamothe6732]

I think I’m in love with this beautiful real woman🥰

[@losbopfos5637]

*The spiritual definition of sex*

[@jimbosen14]

the sound is weak

[@tyronechurch7626]

😂 interesting

[@davidrusso4249]

You say you want to bring more sacredness into sex. What do you mean by that?

[@joseph233382]

Women Need to Feel Safe at first Right. Start off with Candles. Do you Thinks a body Massage can help with Her Sexual feelings before sex

[@hongolloyd8728]

Leave the money on the dresser?

[@Marrow32]

Only valid comment

[@JhonnyStone100]

8:55

[@MichaelSeeed]

Can someone fill me on this? I can't watch this rn

[@xMetcine]

Following

[@mr_man-d8d]

Imo what I get from it is being Slightly forceful when interacting an feeling that energy wether its slow or not, a simple way I can say it is like, being a stick In bed is a bit bad because it shows your a scared. being more comfortable to move your body an a bit controlling. But not in a un-acceptable violent way. in a sexy groovy way

[@michaelsasylum]

Save it for marriage.

[@Doodlefisher]

👍

[@Fielion]

And its allways the man that has to do the job, that has to lead, that has to be her daddy so that she can be the little princess without any responsibilities and without accountability. I dont want a little girl, i need a grown up woman that dont needs me to guide her through life. I just want someone that makes me feel in peace with myself.

[@jamarcusstrahan8597]

No one can make you feel peace within yourself, that comes solely from yourself.

[@akotarakz]

It is not always, my man. Sometimes enthusiastic girls come across. Most of the times though, they expect you to do everything and it gets really boring very fast, so you just need to pass her up to the next guys and search for a non-boring one. No tolerance for starfish bedroom, unless you haven't had it in a very long time and just need to let loose" a bit.

[@RadicalLinguisticDescriptivism]

Women make rules for betas that they happily ignore for alphas. good luck squaring that circle.

[@Nhaflm1821]

When my girl get to excited ontop she slap the s*** out of me😂😂😂😂😂

[@kekceo3942]

The realest realisation is that sex is kinda gay, I just play Enter Sandman (not the whole song, just the main riff) for 1 hour, this gnostic knowledge is enough for me.

[@Awesam3rd]

😉👌🏽🇺🇸

[@sergimartratmarti.7181]

😑

[@chiefenumclaw7960]

Pick up his socks off the floor?

[@jasonrocksvegas]

Fuzzy wuzzy is a little microphone

[@frankmueller6522]

You are so pretty! I would like to meet you personal!

[@HarryCallahan-uf4ou]

😂😂

[@Honest-n6m]

What is orgasm lol 😅

[@ormark3006]

100%

[@robertchavez5647]

Aren’t you the “Hawk Tuah” girl who spits like “The Fremin” do in the movie “Dune”??