The SHOCKING Moment I Realized We'd BOTH Dated My Husband

[@a.m97]

Omg I remember Jared telling us about the time he took out a loan for a date. Nice to put a face to the story!

[@AG-hc1sw]

did he take out a loan for shan! GEEBUS!!! lol

[@theeuniqueperspective]

@@AG-hc1swthey started out as friends with benefits so their entire relationship structure began differently.

[@newworldlord643]

this is why men make me sick because they will pay to max for some women and just do the minimum for others this is why this whole conversation about men not paying for dates is stupid, MEN FIND THE MONEY WHEN THEY WANT U PERIOD. idk i would feel icked by knowing my man did this

[@KneeGrowDoingKneeGrowThings]

@@newworldlord643you find it stupid that men treat each individual woman differently and won't shell out the same for each one, yet your solution isn't to remove the obligation for me to shell out but to standardize it unilaterally.

[@KneeGrowDoingKneeGrowThings]

@@newworldlord643you're weird

[@ShondraRenae]

The fact that Shannon is so sure of herself and her marriage that she brought it up and can laugh about it is so dope.

[@ry8745]

She’s the wife… she won the contract

[@ChrisTheAspergerGuy]

Qimmah is absolutely stunning! Sweet Jesus! I also have to respect the maturity of both of you since you both have been with Jared. People can be weird with each other when one is the ex of the person the other one is currently with.

[@preciousgugzikgomo7060]

Shan you’re such good vibes! Love you man!

[@delifly]

It’s Shans outfit for me 😂 on one hand I know she’s comfortable, went full blown GMA on us

[@geormarysanchez1788]

Of course 29, her Saturn return love what Shan brings out of people.

[@peacefirst00]

I feel like she was basically saying he is a loser without saying he is a loser.

[@supernova7848]

That’s the vibe l got too … but good for her for not settling and taking herself out of the build-a-man cycle

[@greenmatrix30seven]

I didnt get that from the interaction tbh. Maybe y’all get a vibe that I didnt

[@shameikapeebles4544]

She's talking about ending a 2 & a half relationship with someone else, not Jared.

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Jared got great taste in beautiful ladies

[@blueingreen1717]

Jared just matches the ideal archetype. The ladies come to HIM. Shannon pursued him. He was born with good genetics. Other men can work incredibly hard, go to school, sacrifice, earn multiple degrees, be good people...and they will never be able to match what a genetically gifted guy with a good mouthpiece can do in terms of women. Luckily these ladies aren't a match for me anyway...but in general...his persona of rapper & model goes a long way. Not surprised at all.

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

​@@blueingreen1717Is Jared a model as well? Didn't know that.

[@newworldlord643]

every man loves beautiful women

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Shan congratulations 🎉 on the new show on the Roku channel

[@WillieFordham]

What’s it called?

[@heymsparker2816]

Oh nahhhh Jared dated Qimmah??? She is fine fine good lawd 😩

[@AG-hc1sw]

shan do a video on being comfortable as a women dating a man with lots of options or obviously in jareds case high quality options

[@themandinkafamily]

What do u define as high-quality options?

[@SeboHyatt]

@@themandinkafamily Judging from their sentence. Fine looking women who may be available to only rich folk, assumedly?

[@victorias5272]

This is a good video idea that I think will help a lot of people I know you didn’t ask the audience (me lol) , but what helped me get out of my head about it is to stop viewing attraction or desirability on a 1-10 scale. If you see yourself as a ‘7’, you’re going to get nervous any time an 8 or 9 walks past your partner. This is an incredibly stressful way to live life. Instead, think of it as a simple yes/no. You’re a yes for your partner. As long as you’re on the ‘yes’ side, you can focus on building other aspects of your relationship that will get you closer to each other than any physical improvement could do.

[@sunsetfromvenus]

@@victorias5272 agreed, I view it in terms of “types” either you’re someone’s type or you’re not lol

[@Calbizzle]

I guess you have to make yourself comfortable first. Is that what you want? Is the person worth it? Do you have good communication? Can you feel comfortable living your life with someone people may openly desire? Do you feel secure enough for that? Etc

[@sunsetfromvenus]

I’m pretty sure she knew that she dated Shans hubby…anyone else think it’s a (lowkey) red flag that she came on the show and was (planning) to say nothing 🤔 I dunno but if I dated someone’s HUSBAND I’d honestly probably reject the opportunity to appear on their show…and I would definitely let the host know that’s why… or I would tell Shan I don’t wanna be awkward but this is what’s up!

[@chloecat9095]

Girl it’s not that serious

[@sunsetfromvenus]

@@chloecat9095 actually it is lol…I’m actually speaking from experience lol. After my ex cheated on me I left him, and several months later a “random” girl started following me. She looks A LOT like me (he had a type for sure!), we instantly hit it off became friends and much later I found she actually targeted me. She knew I was my exes ex-gf and didn’t say a damn thing! Very awkward indeed and certainly something I feel she should’ve mentioned FULLY knowing who I was. My ex is a micro influencer who used to post a lot about us before the break up so she watched ALL of it and then tried to befriend me. Weird AF and it’s definitely serious…ly CREEPY! She dated him before I did. He actually had told me about this girl in England who he almost married before me! He tried to go back to her after me lol On the other side I have another ex who is an actual influencer not micro and if his ex wife wanted to collab with me I would turn it down! And I would definitely let her know I almost married her ex husband. This industry is super close! Everyone knows each other and it’s very easy to get awkward quick!

[@KneeGrowDoingKneeGrowThings]

@@sunsetfromvenusyou're the common denominator. You're the one feeling creeped out and uncomfortable. You might be right that those girls were purposefully being stalkers and weird but for you to suggest that's the only reason is kinda telling.

[@AmbersCloset]

I loved this convo!🙌🏽🖤✨✨

[@AG-hc1sw]

youre a better woman than me shan cause i aint sitting with none of my potential mans exes

[@ChrisTheAspergerGuy]

Why is that? He's with you now, right?

[@WilliamsPinch]

Lol after years and 2 babies, you probably won’t care too much.

[@noraMD]

My ex “forgot” to tell me one of my newly made friend was his long term ex…. I found it out from another friend 😂 he was a weirdo!

[@ITSCHANELSWAY]

Chile… this is going to be interesting..

[@MsMak03]

Ima park right here, will be back

[@timbit827]

I enjoyed listening to her on the podcast. she seemed like a good listener

[@Rachel4momo]

Shan yes.

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

I love this podcast so much

[@newworldlord643]

men ALWAYS have money for dates.... this whole conversation women having about men not taking them nowhere, he just dont want u. or dont want to spen money on u. i would feel icked by finding out my man sacrificed so much for a date with someone. idk their relationship i assume shan is secure enough to not care

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

Shan and Qimmah have different attitudes towards money. Before Shan met Jared, she dated a millionaire and realised that a man making a lot of money wasn't a priority for in a partner for her. She had other priorities and a good sex life was one of them. For Qimmah, a man making a lot of money seems to be more of a priority for her.

[@tiffanyelainestubbsfarrull2204]

It's so interesting about perspectives because all I heard her say was me, me me. It's all about her and her work and his support for her. I heard nothing about her supporting him. Honestly, she basically says she had to carry him basically. And I feel like he saw the fact that she was all about herself. It's funny, women's perspective about growth and change and hearing that he wasn't deserving is a way to take the accountability away from yourself. Men dont women who focus soley on the careers cause how does he fit into that how does a family fit into that when your 30 just focusing on your career. supposed to be a team effort. Dude saw the red flags and the fact that the goal wasn't to be a wife and mother and he fell back on the support caus eclearly her career is more important then marriage and a family. And that's how most women operate when their making fear based decisions they fall back on career and schooling to be ALONE in the end. You get your cash and education up so high that no guys that want you can match that because women are all about Hypergamy.

[@ReyHaynes]

I'm glad someone said it...because that's exactly what I heard.

[@Girlwithapurse03]

Maybe her career is bringing her the most happiness, can’t blame her for it. I dont think having children will make me happy, and maybe she feels the same. It’s her life and she should focus on what’s making her happy.. you are only young and pretty for so long. trust me, that’s how most men think.. they just think about their happiness first.

[@tiffanyelainestubbsfarrull2204]

@@Girlwithapurse03 and so do women. That's universal it's not a man thing. And that's fine ppl are welcome to die alone with no kids and husband.

[@maveric13]

Exactly. Well said

[@bleepbloop7039]

@@Girlwithapurse03 qimmah is an outlier though imo, with qimmah's natural genetics and with how much she works out at her frequency she will be very attractive well into her late 40s maybe even 50s, she can easily maintain her OF subscribers and IG thirst followers well into the next decade, so her career is not a problem, I guess she will have to decide when shes had enough fun and made enough money to want to actually settle down

[@Rico4Prez18]

She looks so much different from when I first seen her

[@sunsetfromvenus]

Yeah I swear she used to be prettier but now she looks like every other IG girl since all the work

[@cleartrueblue66]

Plastic surgery

[@KH-vv6kr]

Wigs

[@oliviajoans]

She described me and my dynamics in so much detail here

[@ivanamicimici]

I wish we would stop guarding our sex life so much but in the current setting of relationships it seems impossible. I feel very lucky to not have this problem. A lot of people here in DE live a poly life. Its the best thing ever.

[@TruePathLiving]

Is it normal the video cuts so soon ??? Cliff hanger lol

[@supernova7848]

The rest of the video is on the other channel

[@sweet2sourr]

Good for you, taking charge of your life and walking away. I think this is a great example for women to learn from when you try and build men. Loved this Shan

[@LoyisoVabaza-wu3fq]

I have seen an angel on planet earth in the form of Qimmah Russo hence now I know that heaven is going to be a sexy place for real and as a direct result I decided to become a devoted Christian in order for me to go straight to heaven when I die because I want to meet lots of angels that are looking like Qimmah Russo more especially bodywise

[@Cravenn5]

What a beautiful brown skin❣️

[@Joshua-re3xw]

She’s light skin

[@p.o.p.presents]

I love your brand Shan. I meant to make that rhyme. ❤

[@tatyana5028]

Why does this feel so awkward?😭

[@SonsOfLorgar]

Because religious and capitalist indoctrination is promoting jealousy, envy, and destructive competition as a means to capitalise on our fears of missing out and fear of isolation. And it has gone on for milennia.

[@MissMecca]

Love Qiumma❤❤❤❤❤

[@skilomic]

I was a stan of Quimmah until she started the surgeries (breasts lips eyes..)

[@JamelVVanderburg]

It's excessive. Every post is mostly being half naked and having fake body parts, but you keep it real. Those post accent the surgeries and the unnecessary work that done. Looks distasteful at times. Let' see if she's still doing that at 30,

[@EfrainParra-ns6hd]

Lopez probly king parra Id rather be a panther

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

This is very interesting

[@Alexander07211]

So according to this Jared was in a relationship with Qimmah Russo and Shan at the same time and she has her on the pod? Qimmah Russo said she's was going to be 30 soon and she's currently 29 so the break up was recent right?

[@xnaturalbeautyx]

It wasn’t a recent connection

[@Alexander07211]

⁠@@xnaturalbeautyxQhama recalled that when she was with Jared she said to herself she’ll be 30 soon, and she’s 29 now right. So basically Shannon was sharing Jared with Qhama. Even though they have a kid no jealousy at all it seems. She’s even comfortable with her on the pod, Qhama is speaking like she expected her relationship with Jared to become serious long term.

[@Alexander07211]

@@xnaturalbeautyx She just turned 29 and came out of a 2 year relationship with Jared?

[@Joshua-re3xw]

@@Alexander07211 I thought she was talking about someone else not Jared

[@Alexander07211]

@@Joshua-re3xw Shannon: do you know we’re connected in a unique way. Through Jared.

[@EfrainParra-ns6hd]

I had heard 14 it was two or three

[@Rachel4momo]

Yikes awkward

[@AC313_]

😂

[@AP-ge3ud]

gurls dont do molly might be fentonol it will be the last trip you take you want a high seek Jesus

[@reginaquaye3911]

First here

[@KxNG_RxME]

Second