THE SINGLE LIFE AND LIES

[@crossing.the.cosmos84]

"im 26 and have the mindset of an 85 year old man who's been through slavery twice " xDDD. I'm 25 and feel 85 mentally, I feel you.

[@TheLikquid]

I am the most quiet and dry humored person, but i always seem to laugh and connect with what you are saying. It's so honest, real, and transparent. You have a wonderful and genuine aura about you.

[@KingofReads]

:)

[@jonahsahn]

There's a meme I saw on instagram that said "never trust a person who when you text it takes hours/days for them to text back but when you're with them, they always on their phone... texting!"

[@Mr301547]

You nailed every fucking point I SEE BS I HEAR BS I JUST FLUSH THAT SHYT!! great video.

[@carmenvita]

What you're saying is so true. Dudes don't want to date anymore. They just want to have friends with benefits. My take on that if you just want sex without any attachments. They have people you can pay for sex. I suggest you find you one. Getting to the friendzone thing. Most people don't know how to even be a friend. Just be real about who you are from the jump and that will keep down any type of confusion in the future.

[@Yellowgirl565]

Before I met my husbands Justin J I was celibate for 6 years. I used to always have people telling me oh my god how could you be celibate that long and my reply would be its not that hard. Your Mr Right will come when you least expect it, when you stop searching he'll be right there!

[@KingofReads]

thank you boo!!!

[@brittsharell6113]

I am so glad I found this video! it feels good to know that I am not the only one who feels like this

[@shawntasingletary2854]

I tell people I might be young but I have an old soul

[@americanalien6411]

People are never that busy!! people are just lazy/not bothered. Whenever you talk to someone they're like "oh I'm just chilling" "oh, I'm just at home" "oh, Im just bored" but you guys aren't ever meeting up or spending time together, and when you bring it up they say they're busy........like, girl bye -_-

[@briannadubose]

I guess relationship troubles are the same no matter what your sexual orientation is. #SadButTrue

[@Strawberries0000]

Definitely True 💯

[@carmexkisses6306]

Omg, Justin this crap is so true. Something that really irritates me is that they claim to be busy all the time, but let you text back even 5 MINUTES later they have an attitude. Honestly people are so full of bullshit I don't see any of my relationships surviving beyond my college years. Well that's if I end up in one. (I'm also single)

[@joyfitzgerald9878]

Yesss

[@SoulGlamGrl90]

You are PREACHING on here brother!! YESSSS!!!

[@DemornBrown]

This subject definitely hits home to me like the others who have comment below. I know personally that I was tired of the BS that comes along with dating. I have been on the sites, the apps, and everything under the sun to try to reach out to some potential guys who want meaningful relationships. However, a lot of guys here in Atlanta, and elsewhere comes off with this superior attitude that self image is the major goal when dating someone. I understand that guys like what they like, but some definitely place those images above everything else. Furthermore, they are constantly saying "I cannot find no one that's on my level" or "You have to have the three C's in order to talk to me" , but majority of them don't even have a cot to sleep on at night, but want you to have this and that. A lot of these boys as I call them needs to grow up and figure exactly what they want and stop trying to fit into society way of living because at the end of the day you have to look yourself in the mirror and if you like what you see then kiddos to you, but if you don't then you need to make those changes within yourself....

[@MISSDAJAVU22]

I totally feel you... I refuse to believe that people expect you to not notice when they switch their routine up... Just keep it real and stop the bullshit!

[@SayconTalks]

I like you we could definitely be friends! I'm old school I enjoy real friendships not just texting my life away with shallow people!

[@BlessedLady82]

TRUTH! You are on point!!!

[@Justinsayswhat]

You aint NEVER EVER LIEEDDDDD.. But you know what what most folks don't understand is if they are just HONEST about who they are and what they want they wouldn't get READ so FIERCELY!

[@BDollScream]

I am loving all these videos today. Giving me my life here at work all day!

[@tamcar04]

It's my birthday and I am enjoying all these vids!! Thank you!

[@quilaquila5462]

I tell people the same thing even friends need a certain level of respect

[@nodrama1990]

Mature or Immature....Real or Fake....Friends or Foes....everyone! you meet will fall into either or of those categories...so once you see! which category a person fall's into....then it's no longer on them to play their games!...it's on you! to make a move! to...play or go!!!.... You! just seem to be waaaay more! Mature!!! and Focused!...then the dudes you date ....and that seems or sounds to be the problem....good luck in your next relationship....I pray that you find...Realness!

[@nodrama1990]

Amen!!! You! Told! That!!! ....and I always say...if it ain't! REAL!!! ...Get! Rid! of! It!!! ie: Person! Place! or...Thing!....and may God bless you in to the New Year with all your hearts desires and nothing but total! realness!!1 in all area's of your life. All great! points! you hit on....thank you for the realness!!!

[@nicolep6138]

Exactly ain’t nobody that busy

[@dat1406]

I'm starting to live you down!!! I just started to view you because of scotty and I love you both down because tor REAL... KEEP doing what you do because your the TRUTH!!!

[@neshapooh23]

yes sir!! it's like you speaking to me. that's why I love your videos. you read like its nothing, you keep it real, and you're from Memphis lol

[@Adelola53]

I agree tell me the truth and give me the option to decide if I want to continue dealing with you.

[@sweetandsmooth513]

This video is everything on this dry Friday at the office😂😂😂 thank you Justin J

[@TheAfricanqueen911]

That's why I don't mess with Facebook and instagram im in a relationship for 7 years Justin I wish you the best you are an amazing person I love your videos they always give me life u deserve to be happy and Facebook is not the place to find happiness I think social media is full of shit u deserve better than that Justin I been a fan of u for awhile now and I love you and hopefully soon the lord sends a good man in your life

[@quilaquila5462]

No it's people in general it's not just men sad but true

[@rynickahawkins4937]

😩😫😩😂😂😭 you are funny but everything you are saying is true!!!!! You have to pray to God and believe for a miracle!

[@kierahmax]

I like this video and this topic. Basically what it is is that people just want ATTENTION!! And they don't care how they get it. Thats why everyone is on every social network available and that's why they will talk to you knowing they don't want anything. They just like knowing that there is someone who likes them. It all comes down to insecurity and and low self esteem. Thats my unofficial theory lol! Anyway goodluck and I hope you find what you're looking for one day because you seem to be one of a few people that are left lol

[@keta4332]

i added this to favorites b/c this is truth

[@plur8146]

8:28-8:35 😂😂😂😂😂 dying

[@petranilla14]

Well said! "Don't piss on me and call it rain..." consider this stolen and I just may pay a copyright fee!!

[@CooKieMonStarr53]

I will bet ur a nice guy && dudes take advantage of that!!! Don't stop being who u are!!! Jus make bettah choices ... Find someone that appreciates ur kindness &&& welcomes ur sensitivity!!! And returns the loyalty!!! (Sounds like #teamScotty, jus a lil)... Lol

[@StephTheYah]

You should start making vlogs. I cannot get enough of you

[@12MangoTango34]

YAAASSSS JUSTIN KEEP EM COMING!!!

[@CooKieMonStarr53]

Yessss!!! U read his ass!!!

[@mybabyb15]

Everything you just said is nothing but the truth!!!

[@ChatiseE]

oh god im one of the people who try not to care lol :O caring hurts though

[@browneyes4188]

I had to tell a guy that I was going to stop lying. Once I started telling the truth our relationship improved. Also I had to not tell the truth but act the truth.

[@delightful75]

thought i heard an alter call...#Preachinnnn

[@fibrofighterphilly1629]

TRUTH!

[@IAintY0M0mma]

Enjoyed it As usual

[@carlyevans5080]

Yasss PREACH 🙌

[@champagne5552000]

So true!

[@batyayaweah6915]

I love you Justin.

[@katrinabutler1385]

Real talk👑👑👑

[@TheeAntisocialXxtrovert]

He said drinkin soup! Lmaoooo On some real shit tho, I agree. Now I dont want a lot of friends bcuz a lot of ppl cant be trusted but I still dont want to be friendless. I do have one bff. I get tired of ppl that claim #TeamFuckYoFeelings or #TeamIDGAF. Im like bitch we're human! Shit we all got feelings so u might not give a fuck about all things but u do give a fuck about some things so save that bullshit...

[@SayconTalks]

AMEN!!!

[@tamikarivers4476]

Truth damn💯💯

[@mskane808]

you truly are a old soul. you need to call me so i can share a story with you.

[@AtomicZero]

Well Justin, you're gonna go thru a whole lotta lumps of coal before you find that diamond! :D Maybe some from the military like yourself.

[@zanxxx]

justin you gave me life today phewww

[@PTFBen]

Preach!

[@TheDasoulrebel88]

I was going 2 stop watching I notice u are gay. Then I thought let me hear what u have 2 say before I leave. U drop some knowledge from a different point of view. Respect what u was saying I sub. Keep doing ur thing u have a new subscriber.

[@Eclectic_cookie]

why do you constantly breathe life into me! ok! anywho, will you be able to update twitter and such while you are on deployment? I'm not sure how it works exactly but I am a huge fan and would like to know you're ok!

[@dagrungedoll989]

they gon fall on death ears

[@toshadevon]

PREACH

[@angelheart6754]

love your video

[@mskane808]

u spoke then baby.

[@msnicole5316]

Preach

[@ChatiseE]

you need to get out of memphis lol

[@SweetChocolateDropTV]

YESS ! Keep these videos up justin....do a REAL HOUSEWIVES review!

[@KingofReads]

working on that next :)

[@SweetChocolateDropTV]

AWWWW SHITTTT! Turn up -grabs my library card- hope errbody else got theres i gotta feeling we all finna take a trip to the library.

[@DaLoRdTrAg]

lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooo

[@katrinabutler1385]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@aocm01]

Why would someone do a nice handsome guy like you wrong? I hear ya sometimes people are skank!

[@himaintenance100]

powwwww just like that!!!!

[@theoriginaljustasubscriber9445]

😘

[@TheAfricanqueen911]

I heard u was dating lachat Justin lol

[@LEOJULY241981]

Maybe I watch to much tv but Justin the gays are pAid honey. I love watching the house shows And baby the gays have the best houses. I'm in a 100income but the boys get their shit right ...: fuck that justin I'm going to college but how can I be like y'all. Yes my husband makes a lot of money but I'm ashamed to say it I on my 30000 a year until I finish college.