The Single most important aspect of Being Influential

Understanding the difference between what I want to say and what you need to hear is the single most important ingredient of learning to become influential. When emotion jumps, intelligence drops. Practice using the word “interesting” when you start to feel a surge in emotion. #emotionalintelligence #influence #tiktok #getmunch
Hi, I’m Conor Neill, I speak and write about Persuasion, the art of Moving People to Action. I have the privilege of being father to two great little daughters. I live in Barcelona, Spain.
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Conor is a sought-after keynote speaker on Leadership. He teaches Leadership Communications at IESE Business School and is the President of Vistage in Spain, part of the world’s leading CEO organisation. As an entrepreneur, he has founded 5 companies, selling 16 private jets and building the 3rd largest fleet of private jets in Spain. He is a visiting professor at University College Dublin, the University of Montevideo and Permanent Faculty on Entrepreneurs’ Organisation’s Global Leadership Academy.
What is Persuasion?
What does it take to move people to action?
What does it take to have impact when you communicate?
How can I inspire the people around me to be the best version of themselves?
These are questions that I answer. I answer these questions with tools that work for politicians, business leaders, entrepreneurs and professors.
Where do I begin?
The Complete Guide to Personal Habits: 158 Positive Reflections in 7 Categories to Be The Best Version of Yourself bit.ly/1Z3baAz
10 Personal Habits of Resilient People bit.ly/2N0PqsQ
14 Things Highly Productive People Do Differently bit.ly/2MXWdU9
Simple Rules for Effective Meetings bit.ly/2N8A2KK
6 Ways to get your Email Ignored bit.ly/2MXWCpD
17 Daily personal habits for a fulfilling life bit.ly/2MXWM0d
Free Speaking Course bit.ly/speakpra...
Speak as a Leader is an email driven course. You will learn to deliver speeches that are interesting and lively so that you can capture and maintain your audience’s attention.

[@christopheRocco77]

Even knowing this, it's hard to practice in the moment. It's a muscle that takes time to develop. I still slip from time to time, but internalizing this advice has made a tremendous different in my professional and personal life. Thanks for sharing!

[@TheRedPiLLvs]

The Acknowledgement of business versus personal can be life changing

[@DaiNguyen-jf7ip]

When emotion jumps, intelligence drops.... It's really an impactful lesson.

[@BossGeorges]

When emotion jumped intelligence dropped. I like this heroic verse.

[@ConorNeill]

Thank you 🙏

[@BonkersAboutAlice]

Wisdom.

[@MCR0709]

When there are two persons it would be easy to understand the difference and the choice. But how do you decide what to say for a group of people where their listening wants would be diverse?

[@BossGeorges]

I do believe your topic categorized and gathered together your audience. Most of them just want to engaging with different viewpoints and broaden their understanding. No need to be afraid about the diverse personality. What we have in common is the crucial aspect and also that what bring us together at this specific place at this particular moment. That's why when we address the audience as "YOU" you the second person. It is a journey let us continuously learning from experts so we can be more prepared to our next talk or presentation.

[@HeavenestStCyr]

Know the diff between what you want to say and what your listener needs to hear