The "Talking Stage" of Relationships

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Not Even Emily

Not Even Emily

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@notevenemily
@notevenemily 3 жыл бұрын
Hiii guys!! Thank you so much for watching :) 💖💖 I know I haven’t posted in a while, I was focused on graduating nursing school! But I’m going to try and post more often for y’all, lemme know what things you want me to talk about! Luv u guys
@nayninx7844
@nayninx7844 3 жыл бұрын
HII I love you❤️/p
@rottingross
@rottingross 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats
@siapabbchan1915
@siapabbchan1915 3 жыл бұрын
No hun! You become a badass nurse!
@bread7865
@bread7865 3 жыл бұрын
Ooh nursing school, nice! I liked the POV: We're on a first date video, could you do another video like that?
@averypasc24672
@averypasc24672 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!!
@daylight137
@daylight137 3 жыл бұрын
sometimes I forget that Emily isn’t just a KZbinr but she has a normal job😭
@notevenemily
@notevenemily 3 жыл бұрын
Becoming an RN soon 🤪🤪
@user-wo2hr2oj9i
@user-wo2hr2oj9i 3 жыл бұрын
@@notevenemily become MY rn😏
@jeanmichelurbano2673
@jeanmichelurbano2673 3 жыл бұрын
@@notevenemily proud of you!!!
@daylight137
@daylight137 3 жыл бұрын
@@notevenemily yay congratulations!!!
@Expanses02
@Expanses02 3 жыл бұрын
@@notevenemily What does RN stand for ?
@greta1614
@greta1614 3 жыл бұрын
“Are you seriously doing this on our five minute anniversary??” Sounds like middle school.
@ebi605
@ebi605 3 жыл бұрын
yeah, it reminded me of this girl I went to school with that was constantly "on and off" (I mean we were sixth graders) with a guy and once told me they had been together for a grand total of 15 minutes lmao
@raperepublicanwomentheysee1786
@raperepublicanwomentheysee1786 3 жыл бұрын
My friend had a similar situation with a boy when they were in fourth grade.
@brinsley4599
@brinsley4599 3 жыл бұрын
I snorted hard XD
@Dhead-io4om
@Dhead-io4om 3 жыл бұрын
How the hell do you have a five minute anniversary?!???
@outsider1305
@outsider1305 3 жыл бұрын
@@Dhead-io4om lol
@pearla1744
@pearla1744 3 жыл бұрын
The talking phase shouldn't last long for anyone. *Not even Emily*
@lolibalto1410
@lolibalto1410 3 жыл бұрын
Ha I see what you did there
@MariosPOS
@MariosPOS 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoooo
@yve4889
@yve4889 3 жыл бұрын
Smooth
@Joemama-hj4zn
@Joemama-hj4zn 3 жыл бұрын
This is an underrated comment
@ungabunga4339
@ungabunga4339 3 жыл бұрын
Emm like how much should it last:(
@narxmagee727
@narxmagee727 3 жыл бұрын
I don't know man, but that Syphilis was pretty chill. Would love to catch a movie with them.
@definitelynotfrank9660
@definitelynotfrank9660 3 жыл бұрын
you just sitting on their trunk, blood-rushing on their veins and obviously not on you because your blood has probably dried out ugh so romantic 😩✨
@rockmaniac9223
@rockmaniac9223 3 жыл бұрын
420 likes
@ysaysaysaysa
@ysaysaysaysa 3 жыл бұрын
Just don’t watch a horror movie they might get aroused
@krishactpatel
@krishactpatel 3 жыл бұрын
emily: try not to hurt yourself everyone who gets attached easily: ...
@sunsetdreams4921
@sunsetdreams4921 3 жыл бұрын
If thats you in your pfp then you're really pretty!!
@krishactpatel
@krishactpatel 3 жыл бұрын
@@sunsetdreams4921 it is, and thank you sm!! 🥰💖💖
@sunsetdreams4921
@sunsetdreams4921 3 жыл бұрын
@@krishactpatel ofc!! Just wanted to let someone know they're beautiful 💕
@krishactpatel
@krishactpatel 3 жыл бұрын
@@sunsetdreams4921 OMG JUST NOTICED UR NAME AND PFP LITERALLY WATCHING MIRACULOUS RN LOL it's so cool that the dandom is growing! Idk how long you've been watching, but I remember not many people knew abt it when season 1 came out, ans I didn't have anyone to talk to abr it and stuff
@sunsetdreams4921
@sunsetdreams4921 3 жыл бұрын
@@krishactpatel LETS GO ANOTHER MLB FANNNNN. I was in the Fandom prob around season 2 or 3, so its been a short while hearing adrien say that marinette is "jUsT a FrIeNd" which is why I named myself that 😂😂 its so cool seeing other fans notice my pfp and username! And same with the not being able to talk to anyone about it, my brother thinks it's cringe lol. IM SO EXCITED ADRINETTE IS FINALLY HAPPENINGGGG
@imani0nline
@imani0nline 3 жыл бұрын
I think we as a society need a guide for dealing with a break up in the talking phase… not for me personally, for society 🧍🏾‍♀️
@HereToProcrastinate.
@HereToProcrastinate. 3 жыл бұрын
For Jessica, she seems like she really needs it.. not us tho.. just Jessica.
@jnetwork3232
@jnetwork3232 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr like I feel like sometimes we just too fked up to even recover from the talking phase
@babybluearts7416
@babybluearts7416 3 жыл бұрын
@@jnetwork3232 mooddd
@yourfavoritepessimisticexi8041
@yourfavoritepessimisticexi8041 3 жыл бұрын
You are everywhere
@bluevlilac09
@bluevlilac09 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree. For society.
@heinluvwitdacat656
@heinluvwitdacat656 3 жыл бұрын
you need to be an actress how do you give me second hand embarrassment for both of the characters when they are both you that’s amazing
@notevenemily
@notevenemily 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you that’s always the goal!!!
@blkganymede
@blkganymede 3 жыл бұрын
@@notevenemily I came here from the tweet 🤩🤩
@nakamotorskrskrvroom8038
@nakamotorskrskrvroom8038 3 жыл бұрын
I was fearing for emily's life when she started telling syphilis how this was a bad idea
@valeriaferrari9737
@valeriaferrari9737 3 жыл бұрын
Yo same I had to remind myself this was a sketch 😭
@lucidfangirl1030
@lucidfangirl1030 3 жыл бұрын
Same I expected syphilis to yank out a plastic knife ir hammer
@CrystalineFawnReader
@CrystalineFawnReader 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@harristing3592
@harristing3592 3 жыл бұрын
learn from school: ❌ learn from emily: ✅
@arizonathecatlover
@arizonathecatlover 3 жыл бұрын
facts
@naomikidane5473
@naomikidane5473 3 жыл бұрын
School can be wack sometimes lol doesn’t teach us about the real world and real life problems
@DeclinedMercy
@DeclinedMercy 3 жыл бұрын
"There's no cameras" so she was lying, very convincing
@imani0nline
@imani0nline 3 жыл бұрын
Wait you’re telling me that we all don’t refer to bodies in our trunk as baggage 👁👄👁
@ddjsoyenby
@ddjsoyenby 3 жыл бұрын
i've been saying it wrong all this time................i owe an apology to my last 5 girlfriends and that one jogger who knew too much's bodies an apology.
@vanessabrown5438
@vanessabrown5438 3 жыл бұрын
Shit...
@emmamarkel8410
@emmamarkel8410 3 жыл бұрын
"Situationships" are just dumb and useless. The way she described them as, doing what a couple does, but not calling yourselves and actual couple so that you don't know what's okay and what's not, that's literally manipulation. You should have your boundaries with everyone, and you should be just as mad when someone crosses them no matter what phase you're in.
@jama3997
@jama3997 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I lost my v card in a situationship. I think the red flag should've been the fact that he's half black half latino like me, but only dates white latina women and hardly expressed any other nonsexual interest in my dark skinned self. I became a whole fetish and don't realize it🤦🏾‍♀️
@lgee8383
@lgee8383 3 жыл бұрын
@@jama3997 I'm sorry ma. He is so undeserving of you. I lost my V to someone undeserving as well. After that, and maybe this vid...I hope you know how special and worthy you are of a real loving relationship.
@owochocolate9298
@owochocolate9298 2 жыл бұрын
OMG FINALLY SOMEONE THINKS THE SAME they are so stupid!
@Claire-cc6xy
@Claire-cc6xy Жыл бұрын
situationships are literally ppl who dont want to be completely alone but dont want to commit.
@emmamarkel8410
@emmamarkel8410 Жыл бұрын
@@Claire-cc6xy Yeah. Which I guess is good on it's own if neither of you are sure whether you want to commit, but then you can ask, if you're not ready to commit, why be in a relationship?
@mayahall8034
@mayahall8034 3 жыл бұрын
Emily giving us relatable and teaching content is more than my teacher taught me this year
@gali13896
@gali13896 3 жыл бұрын
First commenttt!!!
@mayahall8034
@mayahall8034 3 жыл бұрын
OML IM FIRST I- THANK YALL
@bjp1101
@bjp1101 3 жыл бұрын
Oop- if that ain't the truth
@reginarodriguez1477
@reginarodriguez1477 3 жыл бұрын
“Not top tier, necessarily...” Me : *flashbacks to John, if you’re out there*
@salonii6345
@salonii6345 3 жыл бұрын
omg yes
@joshuamelgar6251
@joshuamelgar6251 3 жыл бұрын
Cheerios
@s29nv1sr1
@s29nv1sr1 3 жыл бұрын
"I eat Cheerios because they're heart healthy ...and my heart has been severely damaged"
@mariaochs
@mariaochs 3 жыл бұрын
Yessss
@zeenie5489
@zeenie5489 3 жыл бұрын
i feel like emily is one of the few voices who dares to talk about the most awkward and untalked of shit on youtube. we love you sis.
@lostsomewhere3763
@lostsomewhere3763 3 жыл бұрын
And makes it funny and enjoyable to watch!
@zeenie5489
@zeenie5489 3 жыл бұрын
@@lostsomewhere3763 exactly!
@raperepublicanwomentheysee1786
@raperepublicanwomentheysee1786 3 жыл бұрын
I wish Emily had more subs. She really deserves it. She's way more talented than Gabbie hanna, lele pons, etc.
@zeenie5489
@zeenie5489 3 жыл бұрын
@@raperepublicanwomentheysee1786 yeah. also nice user name 😂
@poltergeist7776
@poltergeist7776 3 жыл бұрын
Okay that Syphillis sketch cracked me up, really well done. The writing, the acting, i love it. I hope I didn't wake my neighbor cackling at that "I killed her" - "... with ... kindness?" line
@izzylynn8632
@izzylynn8632 3 жыл бұрын
The weirdest thing is being in what feels like the talking phase but maybe he just thinks of us as good friends? I dunno. That’s where I’m at
@laaadybird
@laaadybird 3 жыл бұрын
tbh the best thing you could do is somehow bring up your feelings, but not force them on the other person yk? make sure to say your intentions and ask for theirs, if they say they aren’t into you like that or just want to be friends then that’s fine! as cliche as it sounds shoot your shot dude you got this
@izzylynn8632
@izzylynn8632 3 жыл бұрын
@@laaadybird yeah, im just scared that he'll think its too awkard to still talk after. we play video games together a bit and honestly its a highlight of my day. he often asks to play first and every time i get excited. im so scared of messing that up.
@micahsnow346
@micahsnow346 3 жыл бұрын
I’m on the opposite side - I already know that this guy wouldn’t be a viable long-term partner but I still like hanging out with him.., but idk at all how he feels about it. So... we’re “talking” lol
@auandaily
@auandaily 3 жыл бұрын
no hate but if he really wanted you, he would've already asked you or made it clear by now. Idk but it's just my speculation + my own experience. At least you'll have one more friend. isn't that at least good?
@Al-bb2xt
@Al-bb2xt 3 жыл бұрын
Ooh in one of her older videos she said “what if someone made a movie about the talking phase, ugh”... and here she is. (Also I love how she is way more open, and her jokes are more... out there, and hopefully less autobiographical..)
@salonii6345
@salonii6345 3 жыл бұрын
ooh omg yes she did
@winterland110
@winterland110 3 жыл бұрын
Well i dont mind the autobiographical jokes
@catattack7639
@catattack7639 3 жыл бұрын
@@winterland110 I think they're saying that because of the murder
@Al-bb2xt
@Al-bb2xt 3 жыл бұрын
@@winterland110 (1:57) omg I didn’t mean that in a rude way, and I think i phrased it incorrectly. I was referencing the part where she said she killed someone, and I was saying that I hoped jokes like that weren’t based off of real life experiences... you know murder lol
@winterland110
@winterland110 3 жыл бұрын
@@Al-bb2xt haha no i didnt mean you were rude. Dont take it the wrong way. I was just merely stating that i appreciate her sharing autobiographical jokes. You have a point on the murder joke though, which i missed out
@zacharyhowellbassoon
@zacharyhowellbassoon 3 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: its phyllis from the office. Thats why there’s fourth wall breaks
@navareeves8976
@navareeves8976 3 жыл бұрын
she broke the fourth wall? i dont remember that.
@emery7531
@emery7531 3 жыл бұрын
you mean to tell me that syphilis vance is cheating on bob vance of vance refrigeration?? and she killed somebody??
@Sonjacrow
@Sonjacrow 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a lot older than the target audience so I’m going to sound stereotypical. Back in my day, the purpose of the first date wasn’t romance but do something fun so you can know the other person. Sex and romance was never expected especially on the first date. First date, dinner and a movie, roller skating or anything you find fun and talk to each other so you can better know each other. Maybe young people see dates differently than what we did back in the before time. The purpose of dates and first dates was to get to know someone. Love your videos
@alkaidc9862
@alkaidc9862 3 жыл бұрын
I only just realized this a few months ago haha. Makes me feel a lot better about the idea of dating. Thanks for sharing this
@Garden0flowr
@Garden0flowr 3 жыл бұрын
Yea, do something fun or cool to see if you'll like eachother or not Its a first time going out together at all, so its a baby step It could end up platonic or romantic Whats important is you know eachother
@tylajo.moonflower
@tylajo.moonflower 10 ай бұрын
This is how I’ve always seen dates. I’ve found that some of the people I went on dates with tried to be too close and romantic on first dates, and I thought it was just me being cold when I felt uncomfortable by it.
@sofessoft13
@sofessoft13 3 жыл бұрын
Idk about you, but I feel like Emily is like a big sister, I don't have that tipe of figure in my life so this feels nice. Thank you Em ❤❤
@notevenemily
@notevenemily 3 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺🥺🥺
@xxTheSkilletFreakxx
@xxTheSkilletFreakxx 3 жыл бұрын
EMILY AND PHYLLIS SCENE THOUGH I CAN’T BREATHE
@dizzyandbusy
@dizzyandbusy 3 жыл бұрын
i’m dreading this as i’m cringing at my current dating life
@alexterieur8813
@alexterieur8813 3 жыл бұрын
It'll all work out in the end
@gioovannabp
@gioovannabp 3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@adeline1182
@adeline1182 3 жыл бұрын
If you are in a “situationship” and decide you dont want to be with that person you can just tell them “hey you seem like a good person, but I dont think i am ready to be in a serious relationship right now” or telling them that you dont want to be in a serious relationship. Dont lead them on or ghost them
@maristogner6219
@maristogner6219 3 жыл бұрын
I have a couple of friends who had been in the "talking phase" of their relationships for over a year at one point. I'm all for getting to know the person, but for a year? After about six months I would've been like "okay, cut the crap, what are we?"
@lili-oy1xf
@lili-oy1xf 2 жыл бұрын
That's way too long wth
@girlzonfilm
@girlzonfilm Жыл бұрын
my rule is 3 months max
@LittleJana
@LittleJana 3 жыл бұрын
This literally was my same situation, I "broke up with my gf" a month ago, and only after I did, I have realised how toxic the situation was
@ddjsoyenby
@ddjsoyenby 3 жыл бұрын
my last boyfriend was really sh1tty glad i'm free of him.
@mohanthegay4398
@mohanthegay4398 3 жыл бұрын
i love how she seems even more... idk. confident? anyway, the vibes are on point lately and it's just really nice to watch :)
@BOTTLEDSPRITE
@BOTTLEDSPRITE 3 жыл бұрын
The little look at the camera after saying she didn’t do a fourth wall break is actual comedy gold
@sehersings2543
@sehersings2543 3 жыл бұрын
Emily being brutally honest is a whole mood
@brianna37
@brianna37 3 жыл бұрын
“I already feel like I know you so well, Gabby” “My name is Phylis” ... “It’s short for syphilis” I’m sorry but if that energy didn’t describe my dating life I don’t know what would
@character4627
@character4627 3 жыл бұрын
"yeah, my ex died" -oh... Ad: soft, gentle as a mother's hug!
@flipflopflapjack
@flipflopflapjack 3 жыл бұрын
Solution: talk to nobody, move to Antarctica (no spiders :)), live alone until you die, never suffering because of other people, just the frostbite from when your home gets raided by a gang of penguins who break your door and heating system and steal your sleeping bag.
@unknown_Fe
@unknown_Fe 3 жыл бұрын
I love this plan, this is a brilliant plan
@DeclinedMercy
@DeclinedMercy 3 жыл бұрын
Breaking news: Antarctic Spiders discovered, believed to have migrated from Australia
@flipflopflapjack
@flipflopflapjack 3 жыл бұрын
@@DeclinedMercy Mars it is then
@alioix
@alioix 3 жыл бұрын
huh... interesting
@fruitygarlic3601
@fruitygarlic3601 3 жыл бұрын
@@flipflopflapjack Don't trick us like that, Bowie. I know there are spiders on Mars.
@MaryJane-th7mg
@MaryJane-th7mg 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I agree ambiguity is frustrating in relationships. Relationships are all about clear communication so that all parties can have understanding on the nature of the relationship. I agree with you Emily and I think this video goes hand in hand with your playing hard to get video. If you like/love something just cut to the chase and tell them, life's too short to be playing games like that!
@chickenbiscuit574
@chickenbiscuit574 3 жыл бұрын
“There’s no cameras” “I’m just checking!” *me when I’m doin weird shit in my house*
@kaisetic3150
@kaisetic3150 2 жыл бұрын
sometimes i think I'm in the talking stage and other times I think I'm literally delusional
@fallvibes3437
@fallvibes3437 2 жыл бұрын
I FEEL THIS!!! I like don’t know if I’m in it right now
@eliasjohansson
@eliasjohansson 3 жыл бұрын
ugh that relationship was nearly as murderous as my last one😍
@AURORAstuff
@AURORAstuff 3 жыл бұрын
EMILY! FINALLY quick thought: you seem like a different person here than on Twitter and Instagram
@notevenemily
@notevenemily 3 жыл бұрын
Omg that’s so interesting u say that I wonder why LOL
@AURORAstuff
@AURORAstuff 3 жыл бұрын
@@notevenemily i mean i love all versions of Emily even if she's not even emily anymore
@sbrocksman
@sbrocksman 3 жыл бұрын
Theory: there actually are multiple Emily's and each social media account is run by a different Emily
@mdnd8
@mdnd8 3 жыл бұрын
she is not even emily bruh
@nakamotorskrskrvroom8038
@nakamotorskrskrvroom8038 3 жыл бұрын
@@mdnd8 good one
@scarlettteague3260
@scarlettteague3260 3 жыл бұрын
Syphilis : he had it comin ensemble : HE ONLY HAD HIMSELF TO BLAMEEE
@isabelmatteo7095
@isabelmatteo7095 3 жыл бұрын
Most underrated comment here
@estherrosezuercher7667
@estherrosezuercher7667 3 жыл бұрын
She*
@skrttskrtt8355
@skrttskrtt8355 3 жыл бұрын
If have been there, If you had seen it I BET YOU YOU WOULDVE DONE THE SAME
@heinluvwitdacat656
@heinluvwitdacat656 3 жыл бұрын
got the notification and clicked immediately because i relate to this topic too much thank you queen
@autumngeorge3255
@autumngeorge3255 6 ай бұрын
It literally makes me so depressed hearing Emily talk about how happy she feels in her relationship in this video, because I know how it turned out 😭😭
@JustBeeCharmer
@JustBeeCharmer 11 ай бұрын
my gawd this is so me im gonna d**, like im in a "situationship" rn and like she's often "ghosting" me for like 5 days then comes back like nothing happened and im like an anxiety bomb
@valentinlanger7488
@valentinlanger7488 3 жыл бұрын
Emily I'm so happy for you and your horse prince, you go girl
@------country-boy-------
@------country-boy------- 3 жыл бұрын
Well actually it could be a pony princess - Em keeps us guessing. Its a cruel form of torcher for us devoted fans but we've learned to live with it.
@izzy-gb8us
@izzy-gb8us 3 жыл бұрын
@@------country-boy------- she is with a lady horse :)
@------country-boy-------
@------country-boy------- 3 жыл бұрын
@@izzy-gb8us proof ???
@nazliby
@nazliby 3 жыл бұрын
@@------country-boy------- she is posting about it on her insta i guess
@------country-boy-------
@------country-boy------- 3 жыл бұрын
@@nazliby just got back from insta...... im gonna need some time to recover.
@uselesstrash8018
@uselesstrash8018 3 жыл бұрын
10:30 🇨🇦 SHE MENTIONED MY 🇨🇦COUNTRY🇨🇦 why does that 🇨🇦 make me 🇨🇦 so happy 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦
@maciejkaczarniecki8564
@maciejkaczarniecki8564 3 жыл бұрын
My "situation-ship" lasted for two years. This video verbalized many of the things that I myself couldn't. In all honestly, Emily did more for me with this 11 minute video than my therapist in the past year...
@Erthalni
@Erthalni 2 жыл бұрын
My god 2 years?! I hope you're doing fine and well now
@renno2679
@renno2679 3 жыл бұрын
Your videos always takes me back to those late 2000/early 2010 vibes.
@themysteriousturtleneck
@themysteriousturtleneck 3 жыл бұрын
EMILY BEING HAPPY IS SUCH A GREAT LOOK ON HER. IM HAPPY YOU'RE IN A RELATIONSHIP YOU DESERVE GOOD ONE. Great video as always
@cricket.b2610
@cricket.b2610 3 жыл бұрын
I was stuck in a situationship for almost a year, and I agree, it was awful. Great video as always Emily!
@nya5735
@nya5735 3 жыл бұрын
THE QUEEN HAS POSTED 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️👑
@deemah3602
@deemah3602 3 жыл бұрын
my strategy is to talk as friends, develop the relationship to the good friends stage and confess your feelings worked for me and my boyfriend
@KittyGamingtheBestYoutuber
@KittyGamingtheBestYoutuber 3 жыл бұрын
yes that seems like a good plan
@icravedeath.1200
@icravedeath.1200 2 жыл бұрын
I can't tell if somebody reciprocates them.
@icravedeath.1200
@icravedeath.1200 2 жыл бұрын
I've screwed this up multiple times and completely ruined everything.
@avuci
@avuci 2 жыл бұрын
this is a good plan but as a man I always keep the physical tension in the air to try and avoid getting friend zoned
@YF-cj9ep
@YF-cj9ep Жыл бұрын
From experience, I don’t recommend this..
@loughs6789
@loughs6789 3 жыл бұрын
emily uploading every month doesn’t matter since her videos cover the next year worth of happiness
@Ak00003
@Ak00003 3 жыл бұрын
DAMN, these skits got deep
@justbncece
@justbncece 2 жыл бұрын
“Sleep with his dad and make his parents get a divorce”🤣🤣😂 You’re KILLING me with these skits
@curse4384
@curse4384 3 жыл бұрын
If i reach the talking stage i slowly break down until i am at the blocked stage
@anshuchoudhary5081
@anshuchoudhary5081 3 жыл бұрын
Not even emily: My relationship history before my current relationship was nonexistent. Me: Same girl, same, but I hope I end up in a romantic relationship though.
@Salvation123..
@Salvation123.. 8 ай бұрын
Here in 2024 ..And this video came at the right time for me, thanks Emily
@silverboy100
@silverboy100 3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that you are in a healthy relationship with someone you trust :)
@mikeblistien9061
@mikeblistien9061 3 жыл бұрын
"Its short for syphilis" bro I'm dying
@alveena676
@alveena676 3 жыл бұрын
i am in a situationship and its sucks, i like my guy best friend sm:(
@okkelly6207
@okkelly6207 3 жыл бұрын
*not* even emily can make my day better… oh wait… she can!!!
@gllrycruz
@gllrycruz 3 жыл бұрын
I really love seeing you happy. U and ur girlfriend are so cute ily both!!! 💕
@phantomr277
@phantomr277 3 жыл бұрын
Hi, I recently came across your channel a few days ago through tiktok and I want to let you know that YOU have been a massive aid in helping me cope with the sadness and exam season. Thank you so much.
@izayahemerald2070
@izayahemerald2070 3 жыл бұрын
Story time, the only time I was in a talking phase/situationship was when he was pressuring me to date him, and I semi-caved-in and we were in the talking phase. Then it transitioned into a situationship. However, I still wasn't sure if I liked him like that or not, and trust me when I say that I told him numerous times. He would keep saying "are we in a relationship yet?" And I said "I'm still not sure yet, I'm sorry" and stuff like that, because I genuinely wasn't. Keep in mind that I haven't had an irl boyfriend before him (but had a few online ones), and unfortunately, later, he used that fact in an attempt to manipulate me into becoming official with him. I say unfortunately because it was a successful attempt, and we dated for about 3 months. The official end was actually completely fine, but there was an unofficial end soon after that that was not fine. End story time. Edit for more context: Near the end of our relationship, I genuinely fell for another guy at my college. Needless to say I realized what he said was bullshit about irl love vs online love, but he is low-key a psycho so I had to plan to break up with him because I don't know how he would take it. Then he ended it himself later after I distanced myself from him, but I started dating the dude I fell for soon after. Then my ex found out and it.... wasn't fun. Needless to say, I used my talking stage/situationship to figure out my feelings, and also thoroughly communicated that and all my feelings up until he manipulated me into mistaking my confused feelings for real feelings. So yeah
@camille6873
@camille6873 3 жыл бұрын
This explained my situation right now. Not sure if im gonna laugh or cry
@arizonathecatlover
@arizonathecatlover 3 жыл бұрын
these skits are absolutely golden
@daleferia1640
@daleferia1640 2 жыл бұрын
I’m in a situationship rn and it feels like I’m running in circles
@ClaritaDiamond
@ClaritaDiamond Жыл бұрын
FOR REAL I was literally the Jessica in this video😭 We’ve been “talking” for 3 months asking me to the dance, lovey dovey good morning texts from him for weeks straight, and FaceTime/ texting till we fell asleep and then out of the blue he started becoming more distant. Plus I’m a chronic over-thinker so I was both trying to figure out why he left me on delivered for two days and if I even had the right to be mad over it bc there was technically no label on us. Last week I thought over our “situation-ship” and I legit said fučk it I can do so much better than him bc this sh!t is too stressful😂
@caitlyn9833
@caitlyn9833 3 жыл бұрын
I've been in the talking phase so many times and never been in a relationship 😭💔 it still hurts me
@brookedavis7796
@brookedavis7796 3 жыл бұрын
As a queer girl and still very young, I am always in a talking phase so...
@nicole-rb4iw
@nicole-rb4iw 3 жыл бұрын
UGHH FELT like does she actually like me or are we just .. close .. friends ..
@brookedavis7796
@brookedavis7796 3 жыл бұрын
@@nicole-rb4iw YES, I can never tell if it’s flirting or just joking around
@shamidkpzd
@shamidkpzd 3 жыл бұрын
As a baby gay I understand. 😩
@sarahbear5601
@sarahbear5601 3 жыл бұрын
Mood 😥☠️🤡
@junkoenoshima2756
@junkoenoshima2756 3 жыл бұрын
True my mind is like she said she loves me but did she mean it platonicaly or romantically
@blaidd666
@blaidd666 3 жыл бұрын
Okay this channel is gold
@Ruffdogg21
@Ruffdogg21 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad Olivia is still making videos. I love her on Smosh.
@happywithdrawal
@happywithdrawal 3 жыл бұрын
i'm actually about to be ending one of these today 😅 it's fun for a while, but i need someone who genuinely likes me and is serious about it, lol
@happywithdrawal
@happywithdrawal 3 жыл бұрын
and congrats on your relationship, emily!! i'm glad that u have someone who cares about you
@quantumtwig1303
@quantumtwig1303 7 ай бұрын
I was looking for something like this, im so glad i found one of your videos!
@butterfly22432
@butterfly22432 4 ай бұрын
coming back to this after seeing emily’s video on being scared to fall in love… she’s so real
@leeya9257
@leeya9257 3 жыл бұрын
emily constantly sounds like she's delivering a news report
@--s.s.c--
@--s.s.c-- 3 жыл бұрын
Omg....I'm in a situationship. Thank you for helping me clear this up, Emily!
@ketsiamayenne8844
@ketsiamayenne8844 3 жыл бұрын
I am literally in the talking stage with someone right now, how did she know ?
@sammich6257
@sammich6257 3 жыл бұрын
emily has this incredible talent for uploading when i remember that it’s been a while since she’s uploaded
@joshuamelgar6251
@joshuamelgar6251 3 жыл бұрын
She listens to girl in red people, and good for her 😌
@estherrosezuercher7667
@estherrosezuercher7667 3 жыл бұрын
Does she? Or is she more of a sweater weather type girl, like me?
@joshuamelgar6251
@joshuamelgar6251 3 жыл бұрын
@@estherrosezuercher7667 I listen to sweat her weather, but she confirmed she doesn’t find reptiles neat but does enjoy cats 🐱
@estherrosezuercher7667
@estherrosezuercher7667 3 жыл бұрын
@@joshuamelgar6251 wait.... reptiles? I'm afraid you've lost me a little with that one
@joshuamelgar6251
@joshuamelgar6251 3 жыл бұрын
@@estherrosezuercher7667 ughh she’s an exclusive friend of ellen
@sanjanaishas2096
@sanjanaishas2096 3 жыл бұрын
@@estherrosezuercher7667 she’s a lesbian, she tweeted about it
@AURORAstuff
@AURORAstuff 3 жыл бұрын
Emily if you ever quit making videos I won't have a favourite youtuber anymore😩
@JamesonThomas24
@JamesonThomas24 3 жыл бұрын
I deleted tiktok and am happy I found your KZbin, because I am a big fan of long form content, and this is gold haha
@timei2221
@timei2221 3 жыл бұрын
im so glad content like this still exists on youtube
@AURORAstuff
@AURORAstuff 3 жыл бұрын
This time your video feels like a whole a$$ personal journey , I hope you aren't hurt or "expecting a disappointment" you know.. sometimes it feels like it's just a matter of time before the other person loses their interest of you or just get bored of being around you which is saddening.. I wish you all the best emily Sending love and strength ❤❤❤✨💫
@brianna37
@brianna37 3 жыл бұрын
*reads title* Yes, I, have been in a relationship. Yes, very relatable. *continues writing Valentine’s Day letters to send to myself next year*
@monalizafr3313
@monalizafr3313 3 жыл бұрын
I was actually thinking about prolonging the "not in a relationship phase" a few days ago because labeling it feels like it would put such a huge pressure on me BUT after watching this video thankfully i already know what will happen. It's funny how i can relate to ur videos like the issues are pretty much similar. I think we are 1 spirit into 2 bodies LOL.
@AllanLimosin
@AllanLimosin 3 жыл бұрын
3:40 Imagine if she actually *was* talking about hit and run with a car lmao 😂
@izzatulnajihahazham8717
@izzatulnajihahazham8717 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this today!😠😭 You're so relatable it HURTSS BYE-
@blossomnessstudios4446
@blossomnessstudios4446 3 жыл бұрын
My best friend is in a situation-ship rn, she's getting frustrated bc the girl(Z) she's talking to is jealous of another girl(T) my friend was talking to years ago, but plans with Z keep getting cancelled, and T is commenting and posting about bff on IG . Everyone's advice (including mine) is for my bff is to confront Z about labeling their relationship, and either staying with Z and making it official, or leaving her and dating T (who she really likes and have been friends with for years) Me and bff's sister are rooting for T, we know that they work well together and obviously like each other. Plus, Z doesn't seem that interested and is kinda leading her on, never texts first, dry texter, doesn't talk much, and only talks a lot to vent about her own problems. While T is super sweet, super engaged with conversation, calls bff 'princess' and reminds her to take care of herself, ect. Z asked bff to block T, even tho they haven't talked in a while and are still on good terms, and I don't think that's fair if Z won't make it official. Even I'M getting frustrated at this point. What does the jury say?
@purpleco5883
@purpleco5883 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a lot I have advice
@basmalasalh1231
@basmalasalh1231 3 жыл бұрын
finally a video ... miss u girl
@uselesstrash8018
@uselesstrash8018 3 жыл бұрын
LADIES AND GENTLEMEN EMILY IS BACK
@epicdjyoshi648
@epicdjyoshi648 3 жыл бұрын
Tbf after the murder scene I did think 'hit and run' was hitting someone with a car 😂. Also please can the presidential debate be this fun!
@nebeskyranc
@nebeskyranc 3 жыл бұрын
This really brought some flashbacks... I mean, it's hard to believe you deserve better treatment when all you know are people using you, ghosting, making you look and feel paranoid and all the other BS. Sometimes it takes a healthy relationship to open your eyes and really see how toxic all those "talking phases" were.
@annabellescobie
@annabellescobie Жыл бұрын
Omg this video had such a good balance of funny and serious and also everything is SO TRUE
@scottiliciousmcfabulous
@scottiliciousmcfabulous 3 жыл бұрын
It makes me so happy knowing that you are being treated well! 💗
@scienceatitsbest5836
@scienceatitsbest5836 3 жыл бұрын
5:17 would have an amazing opening for a sponsorship XD!
@SamSam-lt6lv
@SamSam-lt6lv 3 жыл бұрын
the way that an ad immediately played after "my ex died" lmao
@dxhyunjin
@dxhyunjin 3 жыл бұрын
Since I’ve never been in a romantic relationship I am relating this situation to kdramas 🧍
@moonpeachxo
@moonpeachxo 3 жыл бұрын
“I can’t do this” plus ✌️ is the most gen z thing ever
@shadearistotle1136
@shadearistotle1136 3 жыл бұрын
Emily's videos are like old KZbin and it's very refreshing.
@nikteckreviewsandtips6082
@nikteckreviewsandtips6082 3 жыл бұрын
Your ingenuity is mind blowing
@emixprvs
@emixprvs Жыл бұрын
I'm in the talking stage right now and the person I am talking to is so nice and really handsome. But, I've had horrible relationships in my past and this new talking stage has caused me to have flashbacks and strong panic attacks. In the past I have jumped into relationships so fast cause I got a sort of 'high' from it, causing me to downfall and spiral at the end cause the honeymoon phase feeling isn't apparent anymore ( leading to massive trauma) It's really scary and he knows that I go through it and understands everything I communicate, but it's still SO terrifying. I'm really trying to take it slow and communicate to him, it's really nice to talk to someone who is patient like them. I even had to make a list for myself on what I can and can't do when in the talking stage! ( just to make me feel better lol ) This video made me feel a lot better :)
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