The Things No One Tells You About Designer Shopping |luxury worth buying? avoid worst purchases haul

[@jheisparkles]

"Luxury fashion shouldn't be consumed like fast fashion" - yes, and I'm not even a minute in! ♥

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad you liked my video, thank you! xx

[@jonnamakkonen]

and fast fashion shouldn't be consumed. full stop.

[@KateKay28]

“Not carrying any credit card debt is a luxury of itself.” The BEST luxury! Such an important message! Keep these videos coming Eileen. The encouragement is so good to hear. Well done.

[@ColourfulNoir]

This really means a lot to me, thank you! xx

[@sorenmn6799]

“No one really cares what we wear.” This is so true and why people should really change their mindset and start dressing up for THEMSELVES, not anyone else. If it makes you feel good, DO IT. It really is life changing when you start to do things for yourself rather than anyone else, because when YOU feel good about yourself, others will start to perceive you more positively too. Try it and see for yourself!

[@ColourfulNoir]

I totally agree! xx

[@celiaso8589]

Exactly! I buy for myself because I love it. I dress up for myself as well. I think if I bought for other people’s approval, I would totally be broke... I am trying to not slide back to my old ways and Eileen puts out these great videos to help me rethink my path.

[@654ujala]

Well said!!!

[@deborahcurtis1385]

But people actually do care what you wear if you're attracting attention or eclipsing them in some way! I used to dress for myself and still largely do but it was pointed out to me that I was the only woman in law school who "wore red lipstick" as if that were a crime, and I made some electric blue jodhpurs which I wore with a black mohair oversized sweater and black patent leather pointed short boots with zip at the back. I was just genuinely enjoying myself and I created a massive stir. Everyone knew who I was. It may not help that I'm tall as well. But I figured if not now then when? I was told "turn it down" but I realised it was getting up people's noses and I had to just not listen or I would become a mouse. Clothes are an important means of self expression and sometimes people just do not want to allow you to shine.

[@deborahcurtis1385]

PS it was the early 90s if that helps.

[@grassroots8165]

Love this quote!!! "The things you don't buy are the hours you don't have to work." wow.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you! xx

[@allhermight]

This quote hit home for me too.

[@nikitaamerie]

You're the only person who does these types of videos that actually makes me double think my purchase and the true perspective other people have on you. Truly we need to invest into the things we love because we actually love them.

[@ColourfulNoir]

I appreciate that! xx

[@dianvandevyver5729]

My dream Chanel bag costs 6050 Euros today. It's the same as my mortgage payment for 12 months. That's why I still don't own a Chanel bag yet. It's the last subject on my priority list.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Kudos to you for setting your priorities xx

[@Lornawhitney]

WOW this video NEEDS to be watched by hundreds of Instagrammers/ KZbinrs. The levels of excessive luxury shopping, the mansions, dining out, press events and gifted products is WAY out of control now. I hope this current way of online life ends soon. I don’t want my child to aspire to be like any of them. Thank you for your informative video and being a breath of fresh air in this world of clones

[@ColourfulNoir]

I'm really glad you liked my video, Lorna xx

[@almawong513]

You made a lot of good points. Of course I would rather travel and build memories with my love ones than spend it on a purse. I think I need to watch this everytime I feel like impulse buying. Thanks Eileen 😘

[@ColourfulNoir]

Love that! Thank you for sharing xx

[@oneofeverything9820]

YES! Do you want a life? Or a lifestyle? I feel like people get caught up in "keeping up with the Jones" but true luxury for me is being able to go out for a nice meal on a Tuesday because I want to treat myself and my husband!

[@missb1097]

Totally agree! 💗

[@ColourfulNoir]

Taking an afternoon nap is another fabulous luxury for me 🙈

[@missb1097]

@@ColourfulNoir me too! So peaceful to have a nice afternoon nap💗 - I luv luxury but sometimes it’s dangerous and unattainable, especially when I see 20 something girls think they aren’t good enough cuz they don’t have a classic flap they “only” have Gucci as they say. It’s a true luxury to be alive to enjoy all of what we have and our families💗

[@LuxLimited]

When i feel the urge to go shopping i go to your channel and listen to you! ❤️

[@RidaB33]

I need to start doing this everytime I start browsing online for "fun"/out of boredom.

[@Yuri-ot4ze]

I do the same!

[@ColourfulNoir]

That really means so much, thank you! xx

[@LuxLimited]

@@ColourfulNoir pls continue making this kind of video i need a breeze that let me inhale a no buy thoughts 💭 😂 i also have a KZbin Channel about luxury items and yes I’m a luxury addict.

[@marimarino6981]

That’s what I have been doing too

[@kateanette9398]

Good points. I also always try to remember, that unboxing and hauls does not mean that the person is actually keeping the stuff. They might order, unbox, show haul clothing with tags on, and send them all back 🤷‍♀️

[@chloeanastazia7398]

Many do that.... Which is not necessarily « wrong » but it does lead candid viewers to consume more and more as if it was normal. I, for instance, buy a lot online 🙈... however, once my packages arrive home, I try them on, inspecte the quality of the fabric which is hard to tell when shopping online, then only I keep the pieces that make me look like a million bucks. The WOUAH pieces. 😍😍😍..which are not that many!! However, it takes months or even years before I splurge on a designer handbag.... and even in that case, I’ll buy bags that I ADMIRE even if they’re not «trendy» anymore and the flock has moved on to another « it bag »... I don’t have time nor the desire to keep up with that... I focus on buying what I LOVE, what WOKRS FOR ME AND MY LIFESTYLE.

[@macakombucha4816]

So true

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you for sharing! xx

[@jheisparkles]

And that unboxing and hauls does not mean the person is happy either.

[@minicufer]

Some are also sponsored and sent free things to unbox!

[@debm9413]

In early 2019 I took my daughter and son-in-law on a safari in South Africa. It was the most well spent money ever. It was a truly special experience and provided memories that will last a lifetime.

[@SoAnesu]

Hear, hear to experiential luxury! Next safari stop Kenya, Zimbabwe or Botswana?

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you for sharing with us! I have a very good friend from South Africa and I would really love to visit one day xx

[@xmochix604]

I enjoy Eileen's videos. Most asians, at least in our culture, don't really talk about money like this. It's so wonderful to see more asians talking about money and it's not some taboo.

[@ColourfulNoir]

I agree! I never understand why money is such a taboo seeing it's clearly part of life. I often talk to my little boy Isaac about money too, hopefully he will have some financial literacy when he grows up xx

[@dianeb2349]

Each and every video you make makes so much sense. You’re so good. The whole psychology behind shopping you’re able to analyze and explain. You’re a pro!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad you like them! Thank you xx

[@chinchillin6280]

@@ColourfulNoir did you specialize in this form of psychology/branding in your masters program? You have a masters degree, right? I’m just wondering if you’re practicing your degree on here because it rings true to what you share.

[@jmah9766]

Great points. Sometimes it makes me sad to watch these massive unboxings, and the person is just numb... like they’re just going through the motions with no excitement for these items that cost thousands. Esp. disheartening to watch when these girls are so young.

[@palomadamasceno307]

I feel you . I am 40 years old andei can’t understand how much the twenties ish girl has been spending on luxury . Maybe I am just really poor 😅😅😅

[@jmah9766]

@@palomadamasceno307 Seriously. I know everyone’s financial situation differs, but I do wonder how many of these gals have major cc debt. I def am guilty of way over spending, but am thankful for a frugal hubby who keeps me in check. And videos like these are also good reminders!

[@missb1097]

Such a great video! I totally agree about “classic” bags etc. My fave days were before IG etc and walking to a luxury store & picking a bag I loved just because I loved it. I feel there is so much pressure now to have all the “classics” first ... but truly they just don’t work for us all at the same time. I learned my lesson with certain styles and now I buy what I know will fit my lifestyle/climate where I live and then of course the fun ones that makes ur heart smile, but making sure it’s mindful. Such lovely thoughts u share ty💗

[@ColourfulNoir]

You've put it nicely, thank you for sharing xx

[@gigisplayground4657]

😩 when the client advisor in Chanel says "I can't believe you don't own a classic" 🤦‍♀️ my FOMO kicked in... even though i knew it wasn't for me! I always thought they were granny bags and impractical but I just have "sucker" written on my forehead... she brought the small and medium out for me and told me to try them and then I said oh you know what they don't look that big or frumpy. Maybe I should have just one. The thing is I didn't impulse buy on the spot. I went home and watched every YT video I could find and everyone raves about the classic flaps. So after I few months I decided I HAVE to have a M/L classic flap. Problem was - Chanel had just hiked their prices but I had made up my mind and ended up paying $2k aud more for a bag I thought I needed. Didn't use it for about 5 months not just because of the price but because I'm alway reaching for my WoCs and mini and small bags. Had the bag for maybe 10 months and used it twice. Once on a day out in the city where I was shopping and found it really impractical to get in and out of (double flap and small interior), and the second time I learned my lesson and took it to a Hamilton where I didn't really need to constantly open the bag. Don't get me wrong I'll never sell it now, but does it work for me? Right now, not really... I need to stop being so easily influenced by what people say and just go with my gut.

[@tamiewert808]

Yes I so agree with the items having lost their lustre as soon as you step foot out of the store!!

[@focusbabe69]

Yeah, i've always wondered why is it? Sometimes right after u pay for it, then you'll have doubts

[@ColourfulNoir]

I was looking at my Chanel brooch a few weeks ago and I thought it definitely looked shinier in the store 🙈

[@Annet1608]

So true! I bought a lot of luxury goods between the age 25-40 but now at 44 i just kept my favorite items and sold the rest. I still buy high quality items when I buy something new but always check how many combinations i can make with the rest of my items. I also tend to buy more designer items decond hand nowadays.

[@SoAnesu]

Quality always!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much for sharing! xx

[@littleluxuries_01]

Completely agree with everything you’ve said! 🙌 especially your point around the excitement of just having something new, but after a few weeks or months, you want another new thing!

[@ColourfulNoir]

It's a never ending cycle unless we stop it xx

[@epifanny]

Define what's timeless for you! I completely agree and always tell my friends this

[@CS-ly3lx]

"We would worry much less what people think of us if we realized how seldom they do!" (Ethel Barrett)

[@ET_8lienet]

I agree! Having not to spend luxuriously and sees your money grow is itself a luxury. Also agree we dictate what is timeless as these items go into our closet!

[@ColourfulNoir]

So true! Thank you so much for sharing xx

[@Lifeisbeautiful-ri2tb]

I love your point about not aspiring to be one of the fashion influencers because I honestly don’t hav the budget for it but it used to make me feel bad I couldn’t afford all these items. It certainly does make a lot of sense when it comes to regrets regarding FOMO. I would choose the vacation over the bag. I have made a mental note. I have watched videos in the past about how to save for luxury goods and they emphasize giving up eating out, coffees, vacations, which is basically all the things I enjoy. Eating out once a week does not make a huge dent in my budget like a luxury handbag does. I stopped watching those videos because I realized those are things I don’t want to give up to buy expensive stuff. I just want to enjoy a couple of items and live my life.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Beautifully put! I'm so happy to hear you've figured out the things that truly make you happy xx

[@yeelinhee169]

You are a very sensible person who has got her priorities right.

[@rosebudlf8694]

The more I watch your videos ,the more I love watching more of your videos and listening to your soothing voice. God Bless you.

[@AshantiLaNegra]

Thank you so much for your helpfull advise Eileen. You really encourage me to be very mindfull when shopping. I’ve had a very serious shopping addiction and some people find it funny or can’t see the danger in it. To a point it got so bad that when someone else opened my packages for me I felt so depressed. It caused me so much anxiety. When an beautiful item was in stock and it says ‘only one in stock’. I just needed to have it. It gave me so much stress. But now I’ve deleted all my accounts on shopping websites.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Well done for taking the step! xx

[@vk-ph4kh]

Wow these tips were so refreshing to hear, especially in a market where the trend is to "buy buy buy" luxury like fast fashion. Thank you for your insight!! 💛

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad it was helpful! xx

[@irinka_kat]

❤️❤️❤️ the video that we all need. Thank you so much for reminding us why luxury brands are called luxury brands, but the real luxury is when you have financial security.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much xx

[@tippytoe1250]

I of course rather travel and spend time with my family. This has always been our number 1 priority over luxury shopping.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Definitely! xx

[@christianvanderzeypen6091]

Spot on, very true all you've said about those taboos of buying luxury items. I used to be very impulsive before but this pandemic really has opened my eyes. I realized now that travelling and going to a different place each year with your loved ones is far more worth of money spending than buying luxury goods.

[@ColourfulNoir]

I agree 100% xx

[@bernadinewest8462]

This is the most valuable message I’ve ever heard of, everything you say makes sense. Credit 💳 purchases are a waste of money. Save your money instead if you want something and pay cash or think about it! Is it a need or want? Don't try to impress someone just to look great. Having financial freedom is a much better choice than working hours and hours just to pay for something that's going to display in your closet! Great advice!!! Thank 🙇 you. 😊🥳

[@ColourfulNoir]

SO happy you enjoyed my video xx

[@paolamarcaida1473]

I feel like some people are buying excessively during the quarantine to compensate for not being able to travel to the places they want to go to. I’d ride a plane to a different country over buying any bag anytime. 🤍

[@focusbabe69]

Guilty

[@SoAnesu]

Or people are more sensitive to how precious life is and now splurge on the things they often overlooked?

[@mscocobelle]

…And Shopping is a form of “self-soothing” like any other addiction to cope during tough times in life.

[@ColourfulNoir]

I agree! The older I get, the more I value experiences and memories, and travel is a major part of that xx

[@mindbodysoul8214]

*Eileen...🙌🏾YOU🙌🏾 My DEAR!!!* MAKE IT MAKE SENSE to us...🔥🔥🔥🔥 EVERYONE needs an Eileen on their LUXURY list of YT Favorites. 🌼🌸🌼

[@ColourfulNoir]

Aww thank you! It really means so much xx

[@luxeydaze]

Have a happy Mother’s Day. Thank you for taking the time to make these videos to help us stay grounded and focus on making wiser decisions. ❤️

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much! xx

[@stunningbeaute1037]

As always, your analyses are right on !!!! Couldn't agree more !!!! Thank you very much Eileen for posting videos that help consumers being more conscious and mindful regarding their shopping habits as opposed to following other youtubers who are constantly tempting us to consume endlessly

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you! xx

[@josephinewong5105]

Thankyou Eileen for your reminder on making wise decisions on any luxury purchases. I’ve made the same mistakes like you, buying and selling and losing $ and we should all learn from it rather than repeating it! Mostly they sit pretty in the wardrobe collecting dust! I also totally agree on spending more time going on holidays with your love ones and having good memories are much more priceless than having so much luxury. You’re such an inspiration to us all! Thankyou again! 😘😘

[@hurmaes]

I just came across your channel and this video started playing. As I was about to pause it, your words stopped me and made me think twice. I listened all the way through and have learned so much; this is a really good "real talk" and grounding perspective. As a young person, I've nearly plunged myself head first into the luxury world when I knew I had no need nor the capability for it yet. Thank you so much for this. One hundred percent convert here and a new subscriber of yours

[@ColourfulNoir]

Welcome aboard! I talk a lot about luxury minimalism and responsible spending, hope you'll find some values from my content xx

[@ivy0727]

Having a clear visual on what I really want and why saved me a lot of credit card debt. I always think before buying something - am I just trying to make up for not being able to afford my wishlist yet? - because otherwise it’s just making me further away from what I really wanted in the first place. My resources are finite, so I have to be disciplined when shopping and the things I want are not trendy enough to make me fear they will be out of style when I actually can afford it. In the end, it all boils down to knowing myself. Personally, what makes my shopping experience much more enjoyable is when I buy anything without worrying about how much is it or if my card will be denied, it’s liberating!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you for sharing xx

[@DaniOchannel]

I like the idea of travelling to another country AND luxury shopping there (After researching and knowing what I'm gonna buy). For me, that creates an extra memory. Of course to achieve this, I have to be financially mindful first xx

[@SoAnesu]

Do you ever dabble in experiential luxury as well when you travel?

[@DaniOchannel]

@@SoAnesu Hi So, I used to experiment but I'm more mindful about my luxury spending now. I just want my dollar to go much further😅

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you for sharing, Dani! xx

[@tara5742]

These videos help me de-clutter as I’ve held on to things that I no longer or never did enjoy. I kept them because I paid for them and I thought I’d need it for a trend or specific situation. But none of those things really matter. I want my space and simplicity back like when I was a child and had very little yet was really happy.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Kudos to you for making such effort! Happiness really can be quite simple xx

[@sonja0372]

Wow.. you said many things that are true to the core Eileen. I know them but feel like i need to hear those over and over again. Thank you!

[@LadyGrace67]

I love your videos! You are a breathe of fresh air with your realistic attitude towards luxury shopping. Everything you said is so true! Thank you💗

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much!! xx

[@anitakomma509]

I love your videos so much. Your wisdom and insights are helping me so much to tackle my shopping habits. Much love and appreciation for what you share! Thank you!

[@ColourfulNoir]

That really means a lot, thank you Anita xx

[@rowsmarico]

Your videos are so refreshing.. I actually unsubscribed to those youtuber that keep on buying and unboxing. I know it’s their money but it’s my way of keeping away to those that can make me feel less and make me feel that I need those bags. I am now more mindful with my purchases and your videos helps a lot. Thanks!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you for your support xx

[@PhuongAnh-ue8hd]

I love the mention about vintage goods! They are much more affordable and I always enjoy the thrill of looking for the right and only piece.

[@AdrienneMint]

This is one of your best videos, Eileen. The biggest thing I got out of it is that nobody really looks at what anyone else is wearing. I had never thought of that before. I like to dress well, like you do, but going forward I’ll be doing that just for myself and wearing things that I love and not for what complements I may get from others. Yesterday I wrote you that m cutting back on everything, on all shopping, just like you. It’s a good feeling. I want less of everything and I’ve donated a lot. Please keep making these videos for us❤️

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much, Adrienne! It means a lot! I'll keep working hard xx

[@AdrienneMint]

@@ColourfulNoir ❤️I want to wish you a happy new year and also tell you that you’ve had such a positive impact in my life. Thank you.

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Great comments ALL of them! Strangely, I've been doing this already especially about Sales. The whole thing about Sales is to generate excitement. Then you lose perspective. It't not a bargain if you don't actually use it. The other thing is the excitement factor especially with the lighting. I saw this today, I tried on a Valentino Rockstud bag and it looked terrific. BUT then I realised it was the lighting.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you for sharing xx

[@rosya.traveler4269]

This is a very good reminder!! Love your honesty about this and mentioning about financial independence being more important

[@ColourfulNoir]

Financial independence is definitely one of the best gifts we can give ourselves xx

[@faylandan5553]

thank you for this ! I've been curing of myself with this excessive spending ! I'm trying to be more altruistic with my money now

[@lizelbernardo4039]

I really need to hear this every day. Plus your voice is so relaxing to hear. I'm so glad I found your channel. Keep inspiring people Ms Aileen and more videos to come! You deserve millions of subscribers! ❤❤❤😊😊😊 Cheers! ☕☕☕😇😇😇

[@ColourfulNoir]

you're too sweet! Thank you xx

[@lizelbernardo4039]

@@ColourfulNoir Thank you for noticing.. ❤❤❤😊😊😊

[@CeylonLover]

You’re so lovely and a pleasure to listen to. You’ve made me rethink luxury shopping in terms of over spending and going minimalistic. Just subscribed. Thank you!

[@becausemultitudes]

Really loved this video. This channel has made me reconsider my purchases and buying choices for the year. I've purchased one luxury bag so far, and I really think it may be my only bag for 2021. Thanks for your perspective, Eileen!

[@ColourfulNoir]

I'm so happy to hear my content helped you in the smallest ways! xx

[@sherlockhooked1175]

Thanks for not normalizing luxury goods. Hello Eileen, On your question for travel vs luxury, I never thought of luxury before lockdown as my main expense was travel. But due to the current situation I noticed I had surplus money and wanted to spend on luxury to fill that void. The only thing that stopped me was the question: ok in this much money where could I have travelled! and voila just like that luxury shopping felt unauthentic to me. Thanks for your content. Cheers.

[@anthorpology]

omg I agree, especially not buying classics! I feel like if I got the bags I got in the classic colours, I wouldn't wear them as much!

[@frainespiritu9312]

I really love watching your videos 😩❤️ You’re like a therapist talking some sense into me. More power to you!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much!! xx

[@LifeOfSindiswa]

I’d definitely pick experiences over things.

[@2601Wendy]

Very wise, thank you. An excellent round up of the issues we should keep in mind.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad you enjoyed it! xx

[@Luftballon1970]

I needed this. During Covid I got so wasteful with my money, because I am unhappy and I feel frustrated about the situation. So I have the urge to make me feel better and having a shopping fix. But it feels so wrong. I need to change this. But at least I would never put myself into debt.. Thanks for the video!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Emotional shopping can be quite expensive. I'm glad my video was helpful! xx

[@Olenka_prozorova]

It is interesting how items I didn’t love in the store are really serving me so well. And items I loved so much in the boutique become just a things in my closet😀 small example here. A year ago I have purchased a simple Longchamp la pliage backpack. When I purchased it there was not so much excitement about it. But i am using it so much right now that I started to appreciate this bag more and more. And my one and only lady Dior in abc size. I swear each time I am thinking to take this bag out to the public I started to be paranoid that something will happen and my expensive bag will be ruined. 😒 especially because I have a Dior clutch that got a little bit dirty over times😩I can see the point right know.

[@ColourfulNoir]

I totally get what you mean! I guess our everyday items don't excite us but they certainly serve us well xx

[@Begining2013]

This video should be required viewing for all IG and YT influencers. Excellent content and points made. Thank you for sharing your ideas. I've just subscribed to your channel and am very impressed by your work.

[@ColourfulNoir]

I appreciate that! Welcome to my YT family, Natasha xx

[@oldsoulabode]

Thank you!! Your videos are so refreshing. It can be very easy for us “regular” people to see influencers with new luxury items all of the time and feel the need to keep up with them when it’s simply unrealistic and quite frankly not worth it. These luxury goods only have the value we choose to ascribe to them anyway, and as you said there isn’t any bag pretty enough for me to go into debt over. Especially with the decrease in quality of a lot of supposed “luxury” brands. Happy to keep my money. 🤗

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much for sharing! I'm sure the future you will thank you for leaving the money in the bank too xx

[@TaraBeauty.Lifestyle]

Great video Eileen! And I definitely would take the trip to Bali!!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Me too!! xx

[@leabetanio-arevalo4383]

I totally agree with what you said, being credit card free debt is a luxury as well☺️☺️☺️☺️

[@ColourfulNoir]

Definitely xx

[@kittythebabyrabbit]

Such a lovely and heartfelt video. Thank you so much for this

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you xx

[@bella0667]

I agree with you, and i feel the only luxury exclusive now is traveling

[@ColourfulNoir]

I feel you! I missed my trip to Malaysia last year. Hopefully it will happen soon xx

[@roseg1333]

I would pick the Chanel bag because I have always dreamed of owning one, but I definitely see your point. Once I check off the very few items on my luxury wishlist I want to feel good that I am saving money and working towards my financial goals 💯🙌🏼🥰

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thanks for sharing!! xx

[@Laceynova]

So glad to see someone being so truthful about luxury items and shopping.

[@lvaa3744]

I think there is a balance to this. One extreme was my sister in law who didn’t get many luxury items even though she desired them. Then she was diagnosed with a terminal disease and bought what she wanted to enjoy in her last few months. Too late for my liking. I, on the other hand, need instant gratification, only to regret later, and have lost too much money in the process. I cover the one remaining spot in my collection with quick fixes rather than to wait and get what I really want (H Kelly 28). Working on this this year.

[@ColourfulNoir]

I'm really sorry to hear about your sister in law xx

[@opalbeach9626]

I have always choose trips over buying a LV or chanel handbag. My trips are usually so memorable and I get to expose my son to different cultures , people and food. A chanel handbag does not hold my items no better than a handbag that cost $600. However when I see my investments and my bank account that's what makes me happy. Thanks for sharing Eileen. Have a safe week.

[@ColourfulNoir]

It's really a lovely thing to be able to let our children see the world when they're young xx

[@jessicab.2088]

Thank you for this! I love listening to you omg you speak beautifully 😍💗

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much!! xx

[@maribelnegrete4735]

So refreshing. You hit every thing on the mark! Thanks for a great/reality check video. Priority is everything. I chose Bali.❤

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad it was helpful! xx

[@mariacumbo1112]

Hi Eileen , great points again. I was always told when I was younger to make sure to save money as you never know what's around the corner. Obviously, it's nice to also treat yourself in something whatever it may be. As long as you enjoy that item....and brings you happiness and not guilt. Thanks again . Xxx

[@ColourfulNoir]

Living below your means is the true classic xx

[@namalengkap4781]

You're voice is so calm. I do agree with you.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much xx

[@cup_o_TMarie]

Eileen you keep my head in style & my feet on the ground😉🙏⭐️ A wish list for wardrobe & really any other important places in our lives, can truly keep us on track. I like Karma (formerly Shoptgr) for keeping wishlists & when those items are on sale. Buying more classic styles with multiple uses helps to keep those items in rotation. If you don’t find yourself utilizing most of what you own, those items can be removed. Over the years, I’ve had a few items I regretted selling & I bought them again. Those I know I love! I was able to purchase an amazing car a few years ago and for me, the shine has never left. I appreciate my car every time I drive her. She’s an Audi Q5 with a German name of course, Karlie💝I am a Motorsports lover & I feel so happy & grateful behind the wheel of Miss Karlie🏁 I think, as you’ve often discussed, that intentional shopping is the key🙏

[@belindahearn721]

Thanks so much for all the wonderful messages you share on your channel. Take good care and have a blessed week. This is really hitting home for me and I appreciate you and your content/views! I wish more people shared these ideas more openly!

[@ColourfulNoir]

I'm so happy you enjoyed my video! xx

[@bashayer2891]

That was very illuminating Eileen, I'm glad I subscribed and watched your videos and especially this one!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much xx

[@darwingalbis4149]

Luxury is the feeling of sleeping at night knowing you will not go hungry in the next 5 years. 😍

[@elizawang9232]

I do genuinely enjoy the artistic and designs of certain luxurious things and would be very willing to pay/work my time for them instead of rationing from financial perspective, especially with an attitude that life is to savor/enjoy with mistakes and unsound discretions . With that said, your points have been like breeze to cool things when certain times I clearly knew I got deeper in certain directions. While I am still the reasonably unreasonable me inside, I take second/third thoughts to prioritize my desire/decisions, such as I feel more willing to wishlist a Hawaii vacation house instead of owning beautiful thing which will bring me joy. Money wise, it goes to more important place; and reality wise, owning less certainly benefit more to have a stress less life especially luxurious things do not seem to take a place in a side beach style life where I may only need comfortable clothes, canvas tote and sunscreen to feel good. Thank you.

[@talesofahazzelnut9749]

Cheering at every point!! I definitely at one point had started consuming luxury bags like fast fashion. This past year I have stepped back and looked at my spending and wardrobe and am trying to focus on my finances (thankfully no debt to worry about!)

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thanks for sharing!! The last 12 months have really changed the way I look at shopping too xx

[@Enchanteralle]

So true. I do like luxury items too but everything I bought and own have sentimental value. So many so called influencers or youtubers buy luxury on a regular basis…it seems like they are fixated on the next trendy thing rather than enjoying the item itself. Exactly like fast fashion. Also, we don’t know ppl’s financial situation. To me, luxury items should be bought when all your regular living expenses are well managed and you saved up extra to pamper or reward yourself. Ppl getting into debt from shopping is just sad. I used to watch videos on ppl doing review of the items before I go to the store but channels are now full of haul and unboxing videos…I don’t want to spend my precious time watching what ppl buy all day. A little dose is enough.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you for sharing! The occasional splurges sometimes feel more special than constant shopping in my opinion xx

[@goodjob6582]

I love how you mentioned financial security!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Financial security over any Chanel bags lol xx

[@ajohonly3721]

Girl Trip to Bali absolutely I’d choose that any day.

[@ColourfulNoir]

It definitely sounds like a place not to miss xx

[@chloeanastazia7398]

I totally agree with you on sooo many levels!!! Especially for the « timeless pieces » ... I suppose that each and everyone has at least one piece that fit like a glove. That looks like it was made especially for you.... well, that to me is a timeless piece!!!! As for handbags, I definitely don’t listen to others’ opinion, As a matter of fact, if I’m still in love ten or twenty’s years from now with my handbag... and the quality is top notch....well... that’s timeless to me!!!!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you for sharing xx

[@PrincessM888]

I am glad you are teaching young people about real luxury which is financial security in opposition to other vloggers on YT who constantly encourage them on spending money on the things they don’t need....leaving most of them with massive credit card debt

[@k2t3a]

So true that being solvent is most important! :)

[@alison-b1v]

Just found your videos. It has helped me clean up my shoe collection! Starting slowly. I would definitely go to BAli!!! ;) Thank you!!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you, Alison xx

[@mules8662]

Wow. Truer words have never been spoken. Thank you for this precious piece of information. Greetings from Austria.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you! xx

[@simplypreciousable]

Such a beautiful humble, down to hearth and healthy soul.

[@ColourfulNoir]

You're too kind, thank you! xx

[@vffashionista7429]

You are a UNICORN - thank you for this video. Keep them coming :)

[@ColourfulNoir]

Aww thank you! xx

[@GracefulKnots]

You are right. No one cares what we wear and no one cares whether our makeup is from one luxury brand as compared to one from a drug store so long as it looks good on us. In fact there is hardly any difference. I say this as someone who did makeup for other people for a few years when I was in between careers. I was just buying Huda, Mac, Anastasia etc for my clients and honestly I realised later that they are just the same as some drug store ones. None of my clients even cared what I put on their face as long as it looked good. I now have quite a few luxury makeup sets that I just admire and will give out to friends in Nigeria whenever I am able to travel back home again :)

[@ItsOnlyWarPaint]

I have said many times, people couldn’t care less what someone is wearing as they are too busy getting on with their own life’s and worrying about their own outfit 😂

[@ColourfulNoir]

I agree! xx

[@snam626]

Another great vid! I have a wishlist and even with those items, over time I end up removing them from the list. Ty!

[@jbchua1]

This is great!! Thanks Eileen!! Talking g about putting things into perspective 👌

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad it was helpful! xx

[@CCMRPM]

love your insight!!!! You're amazing!

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much xx

[@tanyawilliams138]

I would rather go to Bali. Thank you so much for this video. When I 1st started watching KZbin videos...I thought of myself as a failure bc I couldn't buy the newest handbag, shoes or jewelry. Now when I look back I'm so glad I couldn't afford those items. Because I didn't really like them and I was just caught up in the hype. Now I really have to love an item before I purchase it.

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thank you so much for sharing! I think it's so important to spread the message to more people-- you're not less of a person if you don't carry a certain bag. What you wear doesn't change who you are on the inside xx

[@tanyawilliams138]

@@ColourfulNoir Thank you so much

[@mules8662]

Having finished the video, I need to add another comment. Your mindset is so enlightening! I really needed to hear that. You‘ve got a new subscriber :)

[@ColourfulNoir]

Welcome onboard! I'm so happy you liked my videos! xx

[@abbie9757]

Would choose 1000x trip to Bali with my husband. Best investment for our couple over a Chanel handbag. 😉 though i do admit Covid restrictions made me shop unreasonably 😅 Thanks Eileen! Always looking forward to your monday morning videos

[@ColourfulNoir]

Thanks for sharing!! Hopefully we can all travel again xx

[@shawndavis7878]

Thank you for another informative video. I would definitely choose a trip to Bali over a Chanel handbag.😊😆

[@ColourfulNoir]

Me too! I think we are all getting a bit desperate to travel now xx

[@suzannehall5200]

With your question it very much depends on what is going on in my life at the time. I did prioritise travel and then my house for many years over luxury but it has changed in recent years. Due to circumstances beyond my control travel has been out of the question for the past 5 years or so and I won’t be able to go anywhere until at least 2024, so I have prioritised luxury. After 2024 that will probably change again.

[@mariaau1182]

I really love watching your videos! Thanks again for all your tips on mindful shopping ♥️

[@ColourfulNoir]

Glad you like them! Thank you xx