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Let's be honest. Most people can become offended and hold a grude for a long time.
It's a human thing. And I'm guilty too!
But EASILY offended people -- especially in a toxic family -- are difficult to share this life with because any and everything you say or do may offend them.
How are you going to be yourself, live your own life, and feel some kind of freedom when you have to share space with someone who may become offended by you?
It can be very challenging to share space with family members like this.
In this live chat, I discuss a common factor in toxic family dynamics that can lead to years of family estrangement.
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#trauma #tamarahilllpc #TOXICFAMILY
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DISCUSSED IN THIS CHAT:
0:00 intro
3:22 being easily offended is sometimes a socio-cultural concept
6:23 complex emotional state ("what did I do wrong?")
7:25 some research says gender could be an issue
14:51 enmeshment within the family can complicate things
17:06 WHAT IS GOING WRONG WITH EASILY OFFENDED PEOPLE
24:00 SKIP TECH ISSUES
25:02 WHAT CAUSES THESE PEOPLE TO BE THIS WAY
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Mentioned In The Video:
1. The psychology of offense www.sagu.edu/thoughthub/the-p...
2. Zander W. Kränkung aus tiefenpsychologischer Sicht ["Taking offense" as seen in depth-psychology (author's transl)]. Psychother Med Psychol (Stuttg). 1976 Jan;26(1):1-9. German. PMID: 940915.
3. Feeling Offended: A Blow to Our Image and Our Social Relationships
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti...
4. You’re offended, I’m offended! An empirical study of the proclivity to be offended and what it says about employees’ attitudes and behaviors
www.sciencedirect.com/science...
5. People who are easily offended are bad employees, research finds
www.humanresourcesonline.net/...
RESEARCH: www.homepages.se.edu/cvonberge...
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