The Truth About Aspyn Ovard’s DIVORCE.. (stop shaming her)

[@haleymckenna9958]

These two are a great leason for anyone who thinks the people they follow online have perfect lives. Everyone thought they had this cookie cutter lifestyle, with the happiest marriage and kids. Look at the amount of people who are shocked by them splitting up. The truth is that NO one knows what really goes on when the camera gets shut off.

[@Sarahxxxxxxx]

I do believe something is wrong with C because I feel like otherwise Aspyn would have come forward saying it wasn’t true. The whole situation is so sad

[@Jac-Jay]

They grew up and realised they weren't for each other, happens all the time, I'm sure there's a lot less drama than some people think there is

[@ptown20]

I always thought this was such a phoney relationship to begin with. They were never affectionate or romantic. Personally I also felt that he or she were gay. Not a big deal. Just saying. Just got that vibe. She is pretty bossy and him seemed wife whipped. Oh well. Better futures to all concerned.

[@Myhusbandrenamedmyhandle]

They probably got pressured into marrying young. They live in Utah where a good amount of people marry and have kids young (majority LDS).

[@corpselizzy]

@@ptown20Kay and Tay are the same their stuff is so fake it got found out that Tay was super abusive to Kay before they tried to become influencers he was arrested because he assaulted her and everything so how they act online just gives me the creeps knowing it’s fake

[@henkagomez]

tbh i always knew this would happen, even when i was like 12 i was like wow they don’t even look like they like each other, a part of me was like well maybe it’s just how they communicate but it never felt like aspyn liked parker, she never laughed at his jokes and always poked fun at him in a bitchy kinda way and parker just always looked sad and annoyed, i started watching them back in like 2015 so it’s been a while but it’s just crazy how i was able to cop that even back then, it was definitely more apparent after cove was born tho, after that it was like CONSTANT dislike for each other and parker always seemed to wanna help but aspyn never listened

[@lesliea.7174]

Aspyn has always given me princes vibes. I too have seen them before they got married. She is cruel to Parker and not only that but she acts and thinks like she is thee most beautiful woman with no flaws (after her nose 🤥 job) that ever walk this planet. Totally unhumble and mean. Treated Parker like her butler. I remember watching and vlog where she was butching how he didn’t fuel ⛽️ her stupid cat and just ranting about husbands should always do that and girls should have to I was like tf he’s your hubby and your equal not your “the help” she so vibe me the wrong way after that. Their vlogs are heavily edited and from time to time she shows her true colors. Ngl.

[@zwzechul96]

Same I was watching her vlogs till she got pregnant with her second daughter , unfortunately they don’t seams lovers to me as well

[@BabaJaga]

She is too good for him

[@elisemarie3670]

If their daughter is indeed sick, how would anyone actually know that? Unlike divorce records, medical records are 100% confidential, so there is absolutely no way someone could just go dig that up on their own. The only thing I can think of is that someone who is close with them could have released that but that would be sooo messed up. Whether her daughter is sick or not, and I hope that she isn't, that isn't a topic that people should be spreading around the internet.

[@amandajs21]

There's been pictures and videos shared. The person posting the blind items is allegedly someone in their family. Which is even more sad. They haven't been wrong about anything yet.

[@elisemarie3670]

@@amandajs21 Pictures and videos about their oldest daughter being sick? That's really awful and whoever leaked that should be totally ashamed of themselves. I can't wrap my head around how someone can leak personal information about a child to stir up drama.

[@amandajs21]

@@elisemarie3670 I agree. Especially family.

[@elisemarie3670]

@@amandajs21 Does anyone know who it was?

[@Revelia-rp9vv]

So please show kindness and no matter what you are going through you and parker I still love you both and I hope cove is ok

[@Revelia-rp9vv]

Please spread kindness aspyn is going through a rough time

[@sarahmarie3317]

WHAT oh my gosh I’m actually devastated about this. I had no idea 😭

[@lisae3663]

I think we all saw this coming. Parker hasn’t looked happy in a very long time. Everything is according to Aspyns rules. I hope Parker finds someone who respects him and finds happiness.

[@Teebee300]

This is so sad, I couldn’t imagine divorcing right after having a baby. I hope everything is okay. I stopped watching family vloggers but when aspen stopped showing her girls. I resubbed.

[@amberklaire9419]

If they had a baby for the purpose of making the new baby a "savior sibling" like IVF and stem cell concerns would imply, that is so screwed up ethically. That child will have no quality of life and will grow up knowing the only reason she exists is to keep C alive. If any of their children are sick, that is tragic. But the savior sibling thing doesn't sit right with me at all. Hopefully C, L, and their new baby are all okay and this is just an unfounded rumor because of their divorce.

[@melanie7068]

You say that but if you had a child that was sick you would do anything. I don’t think its “right” but I would do it too. But I would draw a CLEAR line. I wouldn’t let it go on for long.I would hope it helped but I wouldn’t drag it on forever like what happened in the fictional book/move “my sisters keeper”

[@merveceren97]

I think that is ethical because she wanted a 3rd baby and she always Said that. Also that baby will be happy knowing that she saved her siblings life ❤

[@mireyar2040]

@@merveceren97 Absolutely disgusting mentality. It's not right to sacrifice one child for the other.

[@nikitabeatrice]

​@@mireyar2040shes not sacrifising her new baby in any kind of way! The new baby girl doesnt even know if they have taken stem cells for cove, as its harvested from the ambilical cord AFTER GIVING BIRTH. So in the same process you cut the cord, you harvest stemcells to store. Its like a whole thing. many people do it for the future of their kids health. I would do it too if one of my kids end up sick

[@kezianatassia6091]

@@nikitabeatrice- I’m so confused. Please explain what this means and sick how ? And how does the last born safe the first borns life ?

[@astrabula329]

FIRST OF ALL- stem cell treatments ARE EXPENSIVE AF!!! Maybe the whole loop hole here was her providing the stem cells and they realized that by having another baby, they would be able to do that- and they LOVE their babies! So “kill two birds with one stone” sort of thing- could be their reasoning. They get a beautiful baby and they get to try and save their eldest with new baby’s stem cells. If money for this whole process and treatment isn’t an issue for them then WHY NOT DO IT!? Everyone is judging without seeing the situation through the eyes of a parent who is willing to try anything possible to save their child.

[@C1nderfire]

People are upset because it’s been put out there that the only reason she had this baby was to save her eldest. So not really out of love is what they are thinking. Just to use the baby to keep her oldest alive. Essentially the baby had a job before it was even born. And once that baby learns, if this is the case, of this, then she’s gonna be messed up mentally, especially if her oldest sister doesn’t make it. Anyway, that’s the talk out there.

[@astrabula329]

@@C1nderfire I understand what your saying but having her “just” to save the eldest doesn’t mean that they don’t love her or that she wasn’t wanted. After Lola was born it’s not like they said “ok that’s it! We don’t want anymore” they’ve always been open to wanting more! They’re both great parents. Now putting myself in this baby’s shoes- if upon growing up I found out this information ( I think it depends on HOW she finds out particularly!) I would feel like a hero. I would feel like I was out there to be a savior! A savior of my big sister! That’s not wrong- that’s special af!! If they told her since little “you are so special! You saved your big sisters life and we all love you so incredibly much! You are our little miracle/hero” then there’s no way that baby would feel any remorse or mental instability.

[@astrabula329]

@@C1nderfire another thing- maybe the people commenting those things are still young and don’t understand the point of view from a parents perspective- having the option to save on of your babies doesn’t come often so if they told them that this was a way then as a parent, whyyy would you deny it?!? No parent would say “nahhh we rather just seeee how it goes” 😅😭 u kno?

[@anac.4280]

that is literally the plot of My Sister's Keeper!

[@alistairrae9807]

So she had a baby to save her oldest daughter sorry anyone else getting my sister keeper vibes and your surprised people are sending her hate

[@Alorajones19]

It is and its so wrong but i hope none of it is actually true and that cove is thriving.

[@The.Caroline]

I hope it's not true. And surely it's unethical for the IVF clinic to do that?

[@PratyushaMishra]

People think that once a baby is born, a woman is just supposed to be a mom and sacrifice her life for the family! Good that things are turning now. She doesn’t treat Parker like shit from what I have seen - she is just a take charge woman. Women like that are considered rebellious and perceived in a negative way! Hope she gets better

[@WARxxECONOMY]

when you have kids its not about you anymore thats why modern woman cant stay married

[@blue_0.0]

​@@WARxxECONOMYthey can't stay married because men want a 1950s housewife and want their wife's to completely ditch who they are and make their whole life revolve around the kids. Which isn't healthy. Mums are people too, they deserve breaks, deserve to go on the odd trip, deserve alone time, deserve to find themselves and be themselves.

[@BabaJaga]

Yeah and most people just speak with their internalized mysogyny

[@yvpb]

This Reddit post is very likely the reason she decided not to reveal her 3rd child’s name! If she says her name is Elle she is basically confirming the post validity. I understand wanting privacy about her child’s health but putting on a lying front about her and parker being still together and acting like all is okay online is gross even for Aspyn.

[@mariealicenaud]

It is confirmed in Aspyn's dad obituary, he passed away recently. Says his three grandchildren, Cove, Lola and Elle... Sad if they really wanted to keep it private :/

[@kylieeeeep]

I'm confused about why they would do IVF and try for baby #3 AFTER separating (if that timeline is correct). If your marriage isn't working out and you're already under a lot of stress why would you start IVF

[@ssrose18]

Probably for stem cell treatment for C is my guess

[@Jennifer-xd1vy]

@@ssrose18so just asking no offense so would she use her child to help her other daughter like the movie my sister keeper. That the mom only had a child to save her other daughter?

[@AmandaAmanda-sh8lx]

I highly doubt that anyone close to the family would leak the private medical information of a child.

[@taylorlurati6034]

“Its sad to see drama videos about them on KZbin” says the person posting a drama video about them on KZbin 😂

[@savannahhhh777]

Maybe the comments I see are veered towards fans since I am one, but I’ve seen a lot of support and good wishes for her

[@emmmmmveeee]

i will be so pissed if people made up these things about a child being sick. honestly even if she is, leaking it is insane. i just went to google if she ever changed her last name because i don't watch her that much and saw "files for divorce" and was confused because i know she JUST had a baby. i actually saw "daughter cancer" as a predictive text for google and thought "that's really fucked up to say," not realizing that apparently this is becoming widespread gossip.

[@lornatw]

Not a speculation just got really emotional because My Sisters Keeper came into my mind when you mentioned a problem with the other girl and a new girl on the way via ivf. If you know the film/book/real story youlle get what I mean. Honestly wish everyone the best and wish people wouldn’t make assumptions on someone’s character when they don’t have facts or know the people. I know that comes with being known but I hope people just decide to live and let be and send out positivity on all sides reagardless. Anything could be happening or barely much atall and it doesn’t really matter ❤

[@gabirose6532]

10:10 I would say it’s more about how you treat people. That daughter that didn’t get a wave back could turn into a stuck up person later in life

[@sonder1593]

I hate that it's always "I can't imagine what she (the mother) must be going through." It's not like the dad isn't around, and highly impacted over things like the death of a child, or coming to terms with a child having an illness, especially a severe one. I am a woman, and I know how important it is to have a father in the house and present in the lives of a child or children. Some men suck. But the exact same thing can be said about women, just sometimes they suck in different way but I truly (and I'm viewing this form both perspectives, as a woman, seeing my woman friends, shitty relationships with men, good relationships with men, and same with women, I've even been romantically involved/dated women before) and honestly I'd say its pretty even when it comes to either gender being cruel in relationships. I understand generally the mother is the care person for the child, but we really don't give men enough credit for the sacrifices and work they do to give their family a life. You could argue some men walk out of the father role and leave it all on the woman, but you completely forget about the countless times, news stories, etc of women lying about who the father is, refusing to allow a father (a father who is a good man, wants to be present in their kids life, works hard, isn't abusive, and would give anything to have a family of his own or relationship with their kid) but the woman is either caught up in petty drama and not only puts the father through the torment, but also robs their child of having a father, for no reason but petty drama. I've seen so many cases of fake/false allegations that were proven to be false allegations to make the man out to be the bad guy/rob both him and their child of that relationship, or to find out it was the woman being the abusive one in a relationship but everyone sides with the woman because Yknow, its a woman and men are perceived as bad and "believe all women". As a woman, I've personally heard from other women (who I cut out of my life after hearing this) talk about how they made false claims, almost laughing at the fact they took almost everything from the man (the house, money, getting payments from the guy, gleefully telling me how they have full custody just because of some petty bs, when the guys a good man. Who worked hard. Was in love with the woman, and entirely happy to be a father) while the chicks being entirely malicious. Of course I've also seen and experienced abuse myself from men... AND WOMEN. And a good chunk of times when women are abusive it's not taken as seriously. This is coming from someone who's been raped by a man (and also by a man and a woman on a separate occasion when I was young) and had complete proof of it but none of those people got charged. Why do I say this? I agree we should all have equal rights, but that means in all regards. I think men don't receive nearly as much credit (I'm not talking about abusive men) as they deserve. And I think women are continually praised and have ppl side with them simply because they are women, even when tbh, in my personal opinion, I've had way worse experiences with friendships and intimate relationships with women, than I have with men. Men often feel like they can't talk about shit, they are outcasted when it comes to family court matters, mental health, ptsd, and basically told to suck it up. I know this video was mostly regarding the woman, but it angers me that nobody, or at least its rare for me to see people praise men, or consider how the man or father may be feeling in times like this, when they're good men. I just watched a news story of a woman who lied saying her baby died at birth to the father, who was so ready, happy, and excited to be a father, with toys, clothes, a crib, got a place and entire room set up to have his baby girl, when in reality the woman did have the baby and then gave it up for adoption/sent it to foster care. By the time the father found out the truth (she never even told him she was going into labour and I mean he had extensive proof of the abuse and power she held against him, threatening to never let him see the baby if he didn't do x, y and x for her even tho they weren't together anymore, and the abuse, both physical and mental/emotional, that went on in the relationship but he was in love with her and found out she was pregnant and knew how easily the courts side with women (turns out she also ended up becoming a crack addict after they broke up) and when he found out the baby didn't die he proved he was the father, she accused him of using drugs so he took a drug test the exact same day he heard that and took them regularly (even without being told he had to just so he had evidence to get his baby girl home) and the courts still sided with the woman even with the proof, honestly mostly probably because the baby was on its way to being adopted... and this man worked everyday, saving money, buying clothes, improving himself, doing everything he could to prove to the courts, and still, the woman won. That's is wrong. Again, there are always two sides to the story, and I'm not discrediting the cases where the men are abusers, or the women are right. But I think people are so arrogant and quick to side with the woman, not give credit to the sacrifices men make, or their mental health and well-being, and I think its selfish, pathetic, and forked up that our collective society can't and won't, basically refuse, to show men that same respect. There are so many men out there who are amazing. Would do anything for their family, their friends, to have a family of their own, and to protect and provide that are instantly given a bad rep solely for the fact that they are a man. So many men have been told a baby is theirs and isn't. So many don't get the help they need because women priority, and yet we as women still complain men have it better? Each gender has their respective things that they usually have better luck with in life, but tbh, I consistently see men get the shitty end of the stick more than women. Again, I'm not discounting the true stories where women endure a lot of hate or abuse, or cultures that view women as lesser than, but in societies like the US, Canada, UK, etc, I think we need to give men way more credit than we do. It doesn't have to be a war between who gets more credit and which gender is better. But it seems everyone makes it out to be like that nowadays. Why can't we just appreciate both? I don't have a single men's shelter in my city but there are 4 women's shelters. Yknow how many stories o I've heard of men being robbed, SA'd, drugged and robbed, had their kids taken away, experienced abuse as kids AND as adults, and most of society tells them to get over it? Anyways I know I rambled on and kinda got to the point where it didn't have much to do with this video but my point stands. The baby may very well be sick, but it's not just a mother who grieves that. We need men. And it takes both to create life/a baby. If you read this far, thanks for "coming to my Ted talk". I hope you learned something or if you're a man going through something similar than I hope you feel understood or validated in some sense. To everyone, man or woman, stay strong. Love yourselves, seek help if you need it, and to those who rob a parent of their right to be a parent/see their kid when they are good people who do care, love and want to be apart of their kids life, and you rob them and rob your child of having that parent, just over petty drama then you're a foul human. (I know, at least as far as I've made it in the video the woman isn't doing that but I felt inclined to touch on that subject as well) To everyone who reads this... have a good day. ❤

[@MommiesSimmpleLifee]

I just started watching but i just wanted to say people who say getting married early will definitely split later on is not true. Marriage has rough patches and now almost being married for 11. The 7/8 year mark is a rough one

[@loomonda18]

This is so sad if her child is sick, but it seems so incredibly wild to me that you'd choose to get a divorce when something like this is happening. Wouldn't you want the full support of your spouse, regardless of marital issues, to be there for each other during is insane time? Why put even more stress on each other by getting a divorce now? Ofc these are just my speculations

[@BabaJaga]

But of the spouse is not supporting why stay lol smh

[@simr44]

Ok, if I was aspyn getting this insane amount of hate… I would also try and make people think everything is ok. My life is normal. So posting pictures with Parker would make it look normal. I can’t fathom the hurt they are going through if these things about C are true. My heart hurts for her.

[@Leesliie]

Wait what?!! Omg what is happening?😳

[@PacFilms-x4d]

I think that their daughter C had a health issue like what was stated, and thats why they had to sell their house and her business

[@stephaniewright340]

I wonder how ppl feel NOW being months later and nothing is wrong only that shes going through a divorce...yes, sad but it happens maybe ppl will stop getting in other ppl personal business... and putting rumors up on social media that wasnt confirmed by NO ONE... stop and think about how you would feel if ppl posted crap about you..probably not happy... I personal dont follow aspyn or parker..and if im being totally honest im at an age in my own life that i DONT GIVE A CRAP about ppl i will never know..... I have my own problems with my terminally ill husband ... i dont have time or energy to waist .. i mean really if ppl paid more attention in their own lives like they do on social media we as a whole might be better off ... Also why do ppl always think the worst when a celebrity or a social media influencer stays quiet and stops making contact with social media ..they always think the worst has happened...maybe they decided enough was enough and they dont need outsiders sticking their nose into their business.... just saying... there is more to life than that...one day you'll understand... spend more time with your loved ones...or start making amends with the ppl you are not in communication with ..life is too short ... who cares what a couple does in their personal life to actually make up rumors or spread rumors your not helping the situation...

[@jenniesmythe8188]

who speculates like this about a person. lord is so sad that viewers do this.

[@fegrace_1]

I like Parker, he seems personable and emotional mature. Aspen admitted in a few videos, that she was controlling and mean. As a viewer I stopped watching their channel when it seemed to become her channel 2.0. She portrayed herself as a single mom that is the bread winner! When some woman on YT act like they are a single mom or use my in every sentence when you know they have a partner it is eye raising and over time that is not going to fly in a relationship, especially a marriage. It like some women use their boyfriend/husband, children, and house as props! When men behave like that that it get’s called out but on YT women get paid and brand deals.

[@claudiewachance]

I’ve always thought they were an odd match, very different personalities. Which is OKAY… there are many successful relationships that work out well. This is sad tho.. idk HOW I’m just finding out about this.

[@brooklin_bernek]

Damn she’s sassy AF! For someone who got her money from her subscribers and her social media family she’s quite mean to them….. it will all come full circle.

[@xiomara4362]

She’s not mean she’s just established something called boundaries.

[@choiceslife7481]

I think Aspen and Parker are a perfect couple. Their daughter probably had a cold

[@lehaiilzxo]

You’re soooo hilarious

[@taylorsimon4572]

Imagine the baby isn’t Parker’s and that’s why.

[@akabaneaki]

Im still confused to what happened in the end lol so she just had a baby health problem? or???

[@blue_0.0]

No people are speculating that her eldest (or middle?) Has health issues.

[@jordanmargolis-z7n]

Where did you guys see she was getting divorced? It’s not posted anywhere

[@jessicaripko]

It’s in the public court records.

[@randysenase4008]

She left him cus the same reason she got with him

[@watthope]

So she had the baby to save the other child? Yea she'd get lots of hate

[@Amyabadabadoo]

Let me guess-- he’s switching teams 🙃

[@saramarierod5234]

I feel like she is !

[@maikolosav]

Why do you keep calling her "Espen"? Her name is Aspyn.

[@christyb7455]

I think it’s her accent lol at least I hope so!

[@ainou2001]

Her accent bro

[@perle13930]

You really are grasping at straws. Leave the woman alone. She is alowed to have her own life off screen

[@Sm20057]

May Allah Guide Y’all to Islam

[@wanya_telborn]

Hey look she wanted this then those of us that know what she did yea we can trash her all we want when you put it out for millions to see 🙄😏😒

[@lametron]

Who are these people 😅

[@pinkpuff6]

Aspyn treated Parker sooo terrible i truly believe she’s a spoiled narcissistic brat

[@hannahreynolds847]

Evidence

[@WARxxECONOMY]

another woman destroyed her marriage what a shock

[@angelharmon20.21]

wow, hateful much? Men destroy marriages all the time, you probably don't care about that tho

[@kylieeeeep]

What a rude thing to comment