THE TRUTH ABOUT OUR DOG | Ali Gordon & Lydia Millen

[@cloefleure5301]

I am working for a dog rescue organisation in Germany and am so pleased that you have thought this through! Also I wanted to quickly say, that in these corona times 50% more people decide to get a dog just because they are at home all the time and didn’t really knew how much time and effort having a dog takes. And so they give up (sometimes after having the dog 1 day) and give him to an animal shelter-.- So my point is, that you could maybe spread some awareness around the topic of corona and dogs, cause people really should commit to a dog and the min. 15 years of having kind of a child, also after lockdown etc. Much love 💕

[@EmmiLa]

All of this that you're talking sounds so good, so responsible! For first time dog parents you've really done your research and it sounds like you've found a lot of really good, important and sound information. Porter is a really lucky pup to have you as his family!

[@ellejoie1280]

Ali is smart, specific and clear. Earth-bound. Thank you for sharing.

[@midwestlakelife]

Adopting my puppy was one of the best things I've done in my life... and I've done a lot and have stories to tell. There's nothing like a dog. Nothing. Pure love.

[@sofieeriksson7880]

We had a cat similar to Lumi and when we got our dachshund she hated it. When he wanted to play with her we showed her that she could always jump up on the kitchen counter to get away. Making sure that she knew she always had a choice. After a while they started to sleep together in his bed🥰

[@lidiakuhn6505]

So happy for your family. Porter seems to fit your lifestyle perfectly. He is absolutely gorgeous. You are being so responsible about all his needs. Enjoy your time with him as a puppy, they grow up fast( just like kids)

[@Rawrecoverycouk]

Porter is a lucky chap to have such considerate owners, he is a special little dog you can see that. Enjoy him. x

[@sonnylovesfreddy340]

Love this video and the sweetness of how much you both love him. Animals bring so much joy into our lives. I also love having watched you both over the years and how your relationship keeps getting stronger. You both clearly love and respect one another and your communication is strong. What a lucky boy Porter is to be a part of your sweet family. And so so happy that Lumi is adjusting. She deserves the best.

[@1x56]

I thought you were both thorough and clear in explaining your decisions with Porter. I love how you communicate with each other

[@SweetMelin213]

I’m literally surrounded by love. ❤️ Beautiful statement and realization.

[@EEN63]

I love all things puppy/dog! I’m so thrilled for you both that your journey with Porter has been so thoroughly researched and has gone so well! Although pets are a tremendous responsibility and lots of work, to me the payoff in love and joy is so worth it! The footage you show seems to be indicative of the love and joy Porter has already brought to your lives! I couldn’t be happier for such a lovely family and so proud of Lumi for being such a good big sister! I hope they both become dear friends as well as “siblings”! 💗💗💗

[@lisamg9571]

Porter seems like a dream pet, and it's probably because of the time you took to research and learn what would work for you ahead of time. He's so fun to watch.

[@MoniqueARuiz]

Ali, your example about not assuming based on a version of events that you see is so true. I had a situation like this happen to me that ended up getting me fired from a job in my 20s. But ever since then I’ve always tried to look at situations from different angles and not make harsh/hasty judgments on things. On another note, how’s Porter doing with the new kitchen project? Is he like wait a minute, what happened to my room? 😂

[@LondonFan2010]

I got a cat from a shelter who, I was told, was totally fine, just had a mild gingivitis going on, probably due to stress. As it turns out, he has stomatitis (autoimmune disease attacking his teeth) and had to have a tooth removed, with more coming in the future. Now I brush his teeth every day (won’t help much) and save money for the next operation. I would not trade him for anything or anyone, but I totally get why you went with the breeder. Porter is so freakin’ cute, btw 😊

[@TheAmelia1986]

I had a cat named Potter and he passed away in 2018. I teared a little when you announced Porter's name because now, I get to hear people call Potter's name again. Well sort of because the pronunciation is somewhat similar. Kinda nice to see this lil sausage dog running around and at the same time, reminiscing happy memories with my Potter.

[@natashaarvanitis332]

Well done guys, as a dog trainer I wish more people would do as much research and homework as you did. You're doing a wonderful job with your pup, I look forward to seeing all your adventures with him.

[@rikkesn90]

Don't normally comment on videos but as a vet nurse -hearing your procces and consideration of energy level and desiding on the right dog for the home just makes me really happy. This is something we struggle with getting people to really take in. just lovely to hear you did it right and spark that thought in potential dogowners who might watch your video. Thanks from Denmark

[@dprieto7503]

I love the dynamic between you guys ❤️. And the close ups of Porter!! He’s so sweet!!! Lots of love xoxo

[@Msshburg]

This is a hugely important video. Thank you so much for going through all the important details of caring for a dog. And how to introduce animals to each other. It is wonderful to hear from responsible furry parents and sharing this is brilliant. Please do more as he grows and his training develops. Love Hxx

[@alisontull9208]

Ali’s example at the beginning of not assuming was exactly what my late Dad taught me and I’ve hopefully taught my children....... You never know the whole story and if you can’t find out the whole story by maybe asking then don’t assume. Xx 🇬🇧

[@hollystiener16]

And, a lot of times you do!

[@alisontull9208]

@@sallyannc3176 Maybe it was to show us how good intentions don’t always work out even if we think we’ve covered all bases... xx

[@bibit3856]

I mentioned in a comment that I was shocked that they wanted a dog. Mainly bc having a dog is a huge responsibility (I’m talking about a happy and healthy dog). And someone replied to me saying that they got a dog for Instagram and KZbin content...due to COVID-19. I had no words after that.

[@hollystiener16]

@@bibit3856 It is possible. I am sure she did want one and loves it, but maybe there is some truth to it. In a video the other day, she said that she has had a really hard 9 months and that "the only positive thing was getting an Hermes bag".

[@alisontull9208]

@@bibit3856 I’m not surprised you were lost for words 😶!Xx 🇬🇧

[@deberaschroer6384]

Very glad transitioning porter into your home has been good. I have two Siamese cats and appreciate your love and commitment to Lumi.

[@janaculbreth1170]

We have always had doxie’s growing up, my mom and dad recently had 4~ Sassy, Sadie, Bama & Bailey. They still have Bama & Bailey, Bama has saved my moms life twice. She had passed out from her sugar level severely dropping and the other from being severely dehydrated. Bama ran to my dad in the den and barked and ran up and down the hall barking telling him something was wrong. They truly are the best dogs and they become almost human on how they love their owners so much. ❤️

[@amandahall4992]

Hi Ali, congratulations on Porter, I totally understand your hesitation in the responsibility of dog ownership it’s important to consider all the factors. Also it’s great that you shared all the due diligence you both did on breeds, breeders and health etc, very helpful for people considering their first dog. Dogs are the most wonderful companions I couldn’t imagine life without mine, it’s a unique bond, truly a best friend for life. He’s adorable, treasure ever moment ❤️🐾 best wishes Amanda and Bogart (pictured in my icon)

[@jenniferlturner9330]

Porter and Lumi are very blessed to have you two as puppy and kitty parents! Enjoy every tail wag and puppy kiss!

[@allywicks2912]

Thank you, what a lovely video ! Such a smart couple, be very proud of yourselves. ❤️❤️

[@dianemilligan7370]

Porter is adorable! Dogs love doing zoomies on carpet because of the great traction. Same thing happened with my hubby - he didn’t want to be tied down with a dog and now he doesn’t want to travel unless we can take our Yorkies with us.wait a year before getting another dog - you develop a much different relationship if you get two puppies together as the pups form the close bond with each other rather than with you.

[@connielahman5725]

That little fur baby is Blessed that he has his awesome life with you two.

[@laurashort3716]

What is Porter’s full pedigree name? Does he have one of those long complicated names like you see on Crufts? He’s a total gem, cuteness overload!

[@jencaseysmith1]

I’m getting a puppy in 33 days (not that I’m counting lol) I’m getting a Maltese and I’m so excited. I couldn’t click on this video fast enough!

[@jenevievewallace7678]

Ah amazing - you will be so happy! I have two Maltese and adore them

[@jencaseysmith1]

@@jenevievewallace7678 I had 2 little girls for 16 years and lost them both a few years ago. I can’t wait to have that energy in the house again. 🥰

[@jenevievewallace7678]

@@jencaseysmith1 awe I’m so sorry. I couldn’t bear losing my girls. Good luck! I know you’ll adore your new little pup!

[@jencaseysmith1]

@@jenevievewallace7678 it was definitely heartbroken. What are your girl’s names?

[@jenevievewallace7678]

@@jencaseysmith1 Rosie and Bella 🐶🐶 do you have a name for your new pup yet?

[@rsartore12]

"he would love a friend!" lol too cute

[@shooanna1]

Really glad you guys are setting the record straight on some of the silly things I read on the internet! I mean, how are some people wired so negatively that they believe Winston was simply discarded given the the way your spoil all your animals! Loved the video, thank you both! Xx

[@donnasullivan7911]

Thanks for sharing Porter with us! 🐾🐾💕🙂 you both look so happy 🙂🤍

[@nartarlyiatremaynne1239]

Your breeder was sending you pictures of Porter before he arrived at your house. I thought that was so jolly kind of the breeder. Also the excitement as to when Porter arrived to his new home. Porter is very calm, which says everything about his first home. Australia 3.24am

[@vanessascott2009]

I have two standard poodles. Coco was my first dog in my life. I wanted a very intelligent dog who would get along with my cat and African grey. My husband didn’t want another dog nor a female but Coco picked me at the pet shop. She bonded to both of us and is inseparable from my husband. He stole my first dog right from me❤. I had to get another. I hunted all over for another female poodle. Found a breeder two states away. We took Coco to help make that life choice. Coco picked Ginger Bear and they are bonded . They are always together. Coco is 11 now and Ginger is 8. They are brilliant! Oh they are both bonded to my husband. So much for not wanting a dog. He loves them so much and takes them to the beach every day. They are show stoppers for sure.

[@anniecampbell7375]

Lumi & porter are lucky to have such caring owners x

[@user-xf7wy4ts7v]

Dear Ali and Lydia, Thank you so much for all your wonderful vlogs, filled with positivity and joy (and sad moments too but it's life you know). And Porter...he's just a heartbreaker what can i say Lots of love from snowy and freezing Moscow xxx

[@suzannejackson5534]

We lost our King Charles last year .... she was the most perfect dog and we we miss her enormously. We now have an 11 week old min dachshund... I forgot how hard work puppies are I’m exhausted 🙈🙈🐶

[@AD-ks8fw]

We had the very same feeling getting our lovely Golden Retriever pup after losing our 13 y.o. Goldie....so much work! But so worth it! 🥰

[@catherinepenny3971]

If you don't know the whole storyline what do you expect from your subscribers???? I still love both your channels.

[@kerrymagill2061]

check out on YT lydis elise millen - the real me - the true me

[@KupCaKeDelight]

I still hold hope for Linx’s safe return.

[@trinacrossin]

Can't wait to see porter bolley playing together in videos

[@GloriannaCenter]

He is so adorable and still so tiny.

[@MissEvans77G]

They stay pretty tiny too 😍

[@desireem.kaplan2573]

Omgsh. I have always wanted a dachshund but recently moved into a house with three floors and didn't think it was possible to get one because of the breeds' back health concerns. Fascinating to hear how you are making it work in a similar setup. Such a great and informative video (that's given me hope!) Thanks for sharing all this.

[@raffinee_3763]

Porter is an absolute doll!

[@neeloferseward5898]

We had the sausage dog for 15 years. So much personality. Our son picked him. He was so much fun. Seeing Porter makes me very happy

[@pamkirby4390]

My sister has a King Charles Cavalier and he is the best dog, with so much personality! Loved this video you guys are goals in so many ways. Your pets are so blessed to have you! 🙌🏻🇺🇸🐶💛

[@belindaschatz5316]

What an absolutely wonderful and informative vlog. I love your dynamic together, so loving, respectful, funny and endearing. Porter is one lucky little sausage. I look forward to any and all appearances of him and Queen Lumi in future. Thank you again 🥰

[@alisontull9208]

I’d love a Wire Haired Dachshund.....my friend rescued one who was apparently vicious....He was so quiet and adorable and actually cured my younger son of his huge fear of dogs. I’m worried about people getting dogs due to lifestyle changes,what’s going to happen when fingers crossed 🤞 in the future people go back to work and hopefully a vague semblance of their former life.....I just hope post Covid isn’t going to result in a dogs are not just for Xmas situation ! Xx

[@eileenchang2173]

New dog owners also don’t consider how much time they are now spending at home due to lock down. One has to start training the dog getting used to being alone otherwise there’s going to be major behavioural anxiety issues.

[@SarahSmith-nr2wj]

You are both super emotionally intelligent and aware. I think this is the number one asset in creating a nurturing environment, and a proper home for all inhabitants. I wish more people functioned like this both in relation to children and pets and partners, and the the whole world actually. I know people with dogs who leave them home alone most of the time, I find this unbearably cruel but it is quite culturally normal.

[@jenevievewallace7678]

You’re so right about the energy of the dog being an important consideration. My Maltese girls sleep like 80% of the day and it suits me so well (cos I’m lazy).

[@olgaantoshkin9636]

I was actually quite surprised that you guys chose a Dachshund because I totally see you with a Doberman for example or a Weimaraner. I love Porter though! he is such a cutie and Lumi the queen of the house lol

[@artzk1]

Loved this Q and A! Please continue updates on your pets and hobbies. It is a welcome change from the fashion videos. Those are nice but pets, hobbies and home are most important for me.

[@Ab74by]

It's nice to see that you did some research into the colours ! Some influencers have been showing their double dapples off to their followers...

[@happyrelationshiptherapy2197]

So good to hear how you fully researched how to buy a puppy, in a world full of puppy farms and "in it for the money" breeders. Well done

[@msveejay75]

I recognize that our opinions as viewers/subscribers regarding decisions you make in your home/for your family, holds absolutely no weight. However, I was not pleased with the idea of Winston. I, personally, felt like Lumi had gone through too much re the expectation for her to adjust to yet another cat. (Mind you, I am NOT fond of cats....At All. But, I seemingly fell in love with Lumi through the years, even from the old house you lived in. She's lovely) I was happier that you opted to get a dog. (Dog person, here) But also knowing that Lumi would possibly adjust better with a dog. Welcome to the Family, Porter!!😘

[@violetrosegold]

You explained the story about the man running and different perspectives and how you came to get a dog really well! My daughter asks for a dog almost everyday but I will wait until she a bit older and can assist more with training and taking care of a dog. And I will have to do more training to see which dog would work best with our family

[@violetrosegold]

Just thought about this, maybe it’ll be answered later, what do you have to consider when deciding between a male or female dog?

[@debbiehenderson4821]

Great info Thank you guys! He’s very lucky to have you both and Lumi as well

[@reem7710]

What an amazing couple you are .. loved the answer around 13.19 about why Ali said yes to the dog.. that is real love ❤

[@lotuspetal5143]

Loved hearing all about little Porter 💕 he’s such a little cutie!

[@emmaleach1164]

Fantastic video Ali I think you coved everything really well and I’m sure you will all be very happy together xx

[@MetaMM]

The best content. Enjoying this very much, thank you.

[@kei-chwan]

Puppies hump to relief the stress and/or excitment. :) I love how you explained how important it is to find the right breed and the most ethical and best breeder. :) x

[@rachaelwilson3226]

Love my two sausages!!! I have one full dachshund and one that I rescued that’s mixed with a Australian Cattle Dog. They are the best cuddlers and emotional support animals ❤️

[@Kolious_Thrace]

What a wonderful evening, having my hot chocolate and listening to my favourite couple! Love you guys! I wonder, am I the only one that liked more the name Porter? I liked both Parker and Porter, if I had now two puppies I would probably name them Parker and Porter! For now I have my beloved beast, a amazing Rottweiler named Hugo!

[@investor.z]

Can you imagine if they were ugly tho? Gross, amirite?

[@holly1865]

hey, i dont want to be a backseat annoying person and i hate to try give you guys tips, but i feel that we have both trained our dog in the same way, i was wondering if you would both take this tip on board and maybe just discuss it. When my baby kingcharles caviler ruby- bently was a puppy everytime that he done his business outside we said quick quick for the next time you put him out we used to say quick quick and he assosiates that with going to the toilet almost like a buzz word.

[@katrinawest1671]

If Lumi was in the picture, that would be the best thumbnail picture ever ❤️

[@deniseadams3981]

Someone may have asked this but how does Porter get along with Carrie's dog?

[@MarniMedia]

I really liked the IG story where both Lumi and Porter were on Ali's lap and legs. It was so cute and makes it really seem like they'll be best friends someday. :-)

[@patriciagilani6369]

Nice to meet you Poter❤ you are a lovely and sweet boy!

[@myraconnelly4090]

Loved this vlog sooooo much what a lovely mummy and dad u two make 🐶🙋‍♀️❤️

[@_quartzyoucan2369]

I wish all pets the love, care & consideration you give Lumi & Porter. Incredibly lovely to watch. Well done!

[@tcrobinson6798]

Awwwwe!☺️You guys are great puppy parents!! Enjoy both your contents!!♥️🇺🇸

[@kath6585]

I have a dog and a cat and they both sleep in the laundry room closed door every night and they love the routine. So much that when the dog goes for his last wee at night as soon as the dog comes back inside the cat runs on her own directly in the laundry room and the dog follows. From my whole life of having a dog and a cat I’ve learned what works best for me and my family. I can sleep great at night and so do the animals. As soon as I get up I,open the door and the dog knows it is wee time outdoor. The cat litter box is in the laundry room as well.

[@clairemarie4621]

Love you guys ❤ Loved this video, love how you are both so open and honest. Love Porter so much too he's so lovely 😊🐶❤

[@valeriehill6382]

So enjoyed this Q&A session, beautiful family ❤️

[@kateoliviaireland4270]

When you find the right companion you know.

[@mysonruns]

He is so precious! I love the footage of him playing fetch & running around! I think Porter is a perfect fit.

[@alexjoanes2896]

I cannot begin to tell you how jealous I am. I would love a mini dachshund, but my husband would not be able to cope with another dog (we have a mini schnauzer already). And I couldn't cope with him not coping, so there we are. I just love seeing Porter on both your channels.

[@cheche2174]

Awww lovely. Just lovely. Enjoyed this so much xx

[@dorothysliben777]

😂😂 poor Ali. I see more pups in your future. You two are adorable 🥰🐾🐾

[@natashaluna717]

Loved this video so much! This was very insightful and helpful, thank you 🙏🏼💙

[@Nadia-sd9ng]

Interested to know why you picked this breed if you wanted to go on daily walks, as I am sure you've seen all the comments they're not supposed to be walked this young. x

[@blancalopez3443]

Hi, In the U.S. We preferred to adopt cats and dogs who are in need of a home and stuck in a homeless shelter. I was wondering and really curious to know if this not a culture that exists in the U.K.?

[@essjai5D]

It is a culture but unfortunately a lot of people don’t do this

[@blancalopez3443]

@@essjai5D Thank you

[@heavymetalbanshee]

The way they went about it I think was great. It’s not like they bought it from a puppy mill which I assume is what you picture when you hear the word breeder. It’s a very regulated business to ensure rules are being followed for the health and welfare of the animals, and the consumer knows what they are purchasing. Realistically you would want the whole business of purchasing pets to be regulated with very little dogs to adopt. As adoptive dogs are the ones that are coming from unregulated places and that’s how you end up with so many needing homes. If it’s regulated and registered and producing only enough to satiate the market, then it’s a better way to do it... my opinion (not a pet owner, but contemplated owning a cat in the future)

[@donnacraven1190]

Of course

[@alexjoanes2896]

A lot of people adopt pets from shelters in the UK, to the point that animals are now being imported from various European countries to be adopted here. Adoption is not the right thing for everyone. For example, I would not be allowed to adopt as we do not have a garden. I bought my dogs from breeders and they are all walked several times a day, and are perfectly healthy and well looked after, despite no garden to just throw them out into......As Ali said - it's all about perceptions.

[@nilufersenyuva7087]

Loved the vlog, as well as good shoot of Lumi & Porter individually, Lumi looked very elegant & nice. Love you both, stay safe & healthy. Take care...

[@lilwhit28]

I too did an Oscar winning performance to my husband to get my Doxie 🤣. Amazing what a few good tears and puckered lips can do, lol.

[@grammybear4226]

🐼 Big Bear Hugs from a 67 yr old grandma in Kirby, Texas, USA 🐼

[@stormskies3861]

Carrieeeeee

[@thebabsalmighty]

As someone who owns 2 cats and a husky x shepherd, all of whom get along, EVERYTHING you said about taking your time and knowing your animals is SO important. Seriously, kudos for taking it slow and being so caring with both your babies!

[@ASIT7TR]

along time ago, when we lived in Singapore, we bought a computer software that choose the right breed of dog for us by answer questions.... This software choose "Shih tzu" on the top of the list that suits us and suits our life style... and it absolutely right....

[@Hair-today]

Bless you both and Lumi and Porty Poo .. thanks for this!

[@carolebuckle7977]

People are so quick to judge. We can all look out of the same window, but look at different things, that is for every perspective in life , love to you both & furbabies 💕xx

[@janetclark7300]

Yes yes yes get him a friend when he is still young xxx

[@nancyelisabetta3690]

Ali you're a saint.... can just imagine that Oscar award worthy event to convince you to get a dog :) hope you're not the one who is left to do most of the work x

[@traceyyeoman8391]

Porter is so dinky he is so so gorgeous like my Flynnie they get better and better with age. I adore Daschies they are so funny they are children furkids.I love the fact that you took the time to consider his welfare, I did when getting mine.

[@cristinamac-kay7175]

Love you both and your fur babies so much!!!!! ❤️😻🐶❤️✨💫❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@princessjulia5646]

Porter is so sweet. Its funny though because I could always imagine you having a golden retriever.

[@karencurtis2697]

Magical 😍🤗, Porter is a perfect fit for your family xxxx Stay safe stay well

[@marciabryant5593]

Loved this vlog; loved the Q&A sess

[@ireneclark3993]

Porter is lovely on camera

[@collectinggiraffes]

Somehow I can also picture you two with something like an Irish Wolfhound! Something big and elegant, but a little rustic.

[@lorrainegiblin8631]

Porter is a cutie along with Lumi, you are so right in collecting all information etc before getting the right dog for you and the point Ali made about the breeder taking an interest in you is so true. I have two westies and our breeder came to look at our house and environment before they would let us take the puppies and when the day came for us to get our babies they actually brought them to our house and stayed for a little while( they left when the puppies started to explore around the garden). Have a great week guys love from sunny Cyprus xxx

[@karenmickens4854]

Great work guys. As an animal rights activist I'm happy you did your homework and realized that all that glitters isn't gold. There are some really shady "breeders" out there. Pure scum really.