The TRUTH About Saving A Marriage

[@joem7893]

You made a great point about FOMO. I also believe there are far too many so-called "therapists" out there actually encouraging FOMO on people.

[@RealCoachLee]

Absolutely! That’s very true!

[@anaclaralopesdasilva]

I love how you communicate. Thank you for the advices!

[@johnmolehill8363]

I really appreciate you. I think you have literally helped save my life. I wish I could afford coaching and I appreciate your videos. Wishing you the best!

[@flightattendantkatie]

YES CLASSICAL MARRIAGE! I tell people about this and they think I'm crazy. Where can I find men who want this?

[@CiluhStyle1]

I did it for 7 years until she decided to do her own thing or put herself above the family

[@fireshot5536]

Classical Lol! Def not what I see these days.

[@petermwangi1069]

Simple and true in today's world. Powerful. Thank you.

[@cyiengi]

Coach Lee, this is serious stuff but the funnies in between... are precious😂😂 thank you! for the light touch, too.

[@SaudaraLink]

Yes! Great video. Communication might help if you are communicating 5 or 10 positive things for every occasion of gently and respectfully pointing out a relationship problem. Some issues are not worth mentioning at all. Proverbs 17:9 Whoever covers an offense seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates close friends. (ESV)

[@Hiimarob]

Probably not the right video to comment this but it’s the most recent and best chance I have to get a response. So my situation is a bit weird she broke up with me and then you know I didn’t know any better did the classic try to convince her for a couple weeks and it was such a weird situation because she was still telling me she was in love with me I’m the only one for her she needed time. But her actions weren’t reflecting her words and I was hurting bad when I stumbled upon your videos. Your videos changed me from a depressed sack of nothingness to someone who is back in control of their own life. Hanging out with friends eating well, running so much everyday and working out. It gave me control of the situation and insight on why I should be doing no contact. I started no contact and 36 hours later she messaged me asking if I was okay making small talk and then she asked if I was over us (us as in the relationship?) which is such a weird question for the person who did the breaking up to ask. I kept it casual and according to your tips and that was that. I went back to no contact for 6 more days and she randomly texted me last night and then followed it up with a call. She was asking again basic small talk questions about work and how I was and again I matched the energy. She then asked if I had been seeing anyone or if anyone caught my eye, again a weird question to which I replied no I haven’t we just got out of a relationship that would be pretty fast. Call wrapped up and she texted me like ten minutes later, so are you completely over me? To which I reply what makes you say that? And she says I can just tell you are I’m happy for you. Like what? Isn’t that so weird? I replied and just said [name] you know you broke up with me right? You knew how I felt about the situation. You act like with these questions I was the one that did this. You wanted to break up, you wanted me to not talk to you, you wanted me to focus on myself so that’s exactly what I’m doing. I’m in control of how I feel. And I left it at that. I’m in a really good place right now it’s just so weird and would love to know what you think

[@OM-1111]

This message is so timely! Thank you!

[@MrBlack-pj1jk]

Godliness with Contentment is great gain

[@bryguy-2fly]

Theee best video regarding this subject. Excellent job.

[@LK-sk2wv]

I hate my ex, the longest we’ve done no contact is 3 days. And it’s being going on and on for 3 months. I don’t ignore but my ex does, and won’t reply for days, just to continue the conversation. What kind of communication is this? I can’t forgive right now, and these mind games are driving crazy.

[@omararnarsson6840]

we are in the divorce process now after 30 years of relationship and of which 17 as a married couple, 4 children. I only regret not finding you sooner.

[@RealCoachLee]

Get information on my Relationship Reignite workshop. It’s for marriages in crisis. Go here and book a free call with Johnny on my staff: myexbackcoach.com/relationship-reignite/

[@CiluhStyle1]

I told her how good we were doing for two weeks and she said sex felt God oriented and amazing but once we got into an argument about something that we could easily let go...she just put back up a wall...inpray you can regain those feelings back cuz what we were feelin in the first two weeks was really amazing. Ima be patient tho

[@EssyDee-t4z]

Well so far I messed up all these points. Now my husband won’t really listen anymore and now we’re separated and he has taken up with someone else and pretty much given up on us. We relied on useless counselors for years who totally messed us up. I’ve tried everything so far including coach lee’s marriage kit. I’m broken.

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

He is a narcissist. Get information about them...Sam Vaknin

[@jdclaizio6229]

Tremendous video!! Thank You!

[@thefinalcisco537]

Hey coach, unrelated to marriage, but I saw my ex last Friday during no contact, I said hi and she said hi and we had a decent short conversation. She didn’t say she missed me all she said was “sorry for not texting you” so I’m pretty sure no contact isn’t necessarily working yet. I said “we’re good” and left with my head held high. I haven’t spoken or reached out since. Did I do the right thing?

[@RealCoachLee]

Sounds like you did fine. I didn’t see anything that said for sure one way or another how no contact was impacting her.

[@1636276]

coach! helloo. on the kit. module 8. you mentioned that you will have a video for no contact rule if you live with ex. but I cannot find that video anywhere. If you have a link to that video, I would appreciate it!

[@PerfectSuperSaiyan]

Coach Lee could we get a video of what to do after a month after the break up and no contact from either?

[@ahnaftabib4848]

After breaking up , started no contact and ngl i begged a bit but eventually gave her the break up. She wanted to stay friends (we were friends before relationship) but i politely refused the offer. After 5 days she called me , and I didn't pickup, just replied casually, she asked "how am I holding up?" i said "not bad trying my best". 1 month has passed but didn't hear anything from her. Am I doing it right or is there any mistake?

[@milagrosbyrd6461]

I wish my husband would listen to your advice. He left our marriage to get a motorcycle, tattoo his entire body and spend time with his friends playing baseball and drinking. I was never a perfect wife, but I tried everything I could think of to make him feel loved until I realized I would never be enough. Our kids still wonder how much money we would have to have to make him happy.

[@RealCoachLee]

Let’s talk: marriageradio.com/marriage-coaching/

[@albertuttrup9119]

I love you videos. They help me a lot. But I’m unsure about some of your advice. I’m only 18 , and I have had a girlfriend for 1 year ish. And about 3-4 month’s ago I dictate I need kind of a break. But my girlfriend didn’t understand and didn’t accept it in some way. so it, end whit me kinda cutting contact, didn’t respond so fast, and kinda kold when I did. I know she was really hurt because, before that, we was together every day,( she is a kinda person huh can’t really be alone. Always kinda need to have some people around her, and before, that was me) and I thin she was kinda obsessed whit me (I think she loved me more then I her). And after a little over a month in to the break. She broke up whit me. And I really want her back, because doing that break I realize how much I loved her and how we could fix ure “toxic traets “ and make ure relationship I mature and better then berfor. But now it’s like she don’t even wanna hear from me. And we are kinda work realatet. So sometimes I need to se her. I have been wanting to write to you and book a call. Because I feel like my situation is kinda special. And I really don’t know If no contact at all, is the right t way to do this. But I really brok and really busy. And it wold mean the world to me if you could write back to me❤

[@albertuttrup9119]

And im pretty sure she did not except me to chase her. Ore put her one a high horse. Cus if alerts been the one in controle. And befor she broke op I kinda showed her I didn’t need her. Not really on purpose, with that I just wanted to say, you often talk about. She needs a break from the relationship because it was too much. But this kinda reverse

[@ztokkiz]

Hey coach, have you ever heard of the term "comfort ex"? My girlfriend dumped me, got into a new relationship but still contact me once every 2-3 weeks to talk about her education, career and her life. We had almost 7 years old relationship together, so I found that I am the "comfort ex", because I know everything about her, we were so intimate for a long period of time, you can say we grew up together as well (15yo - 21yo). It's been 4 months post break up, she's been with the new guy since day 1 and keep checking on me every a few weeks. What do you think about my situation? If you can please recommend me some videos that is related to this, I don't know how I should talk to her. Thank you coach.

[@masterchief5833]

Do no contact, in your case itll probably take a long time. Even 6 months or more.

[@ztokkiz]

@@masterchief5833 I'm on > 40 days NC already, maybe I should just move on and forget about her, she doesn't deserve me after all..

[@fletch944]

I've been doing no contact for 2 months (except for 1-1 conversation here and there about our shared dog). There were no issues (she just lost feelings) and we were together for 5 years. She keeps telling people that although she misses me sometimes, she is very sure about the breakup. Should I give up?

[@hitmanlamar8544]

She broke up 2 months ago and we are in no contact since 47 days after a fight. She had me blocked initially but later unblocked me from everywhere. She even put a Whatsapp story for me (which i knew was for me). Later she kept blocking and unblocking me from the 26th day to 34th day of no contact. Since then she has not done anything. Im unblocked. I cannot see her Whatsapp about section which suggests that she deleted my number. Any suggestions if i should contact her or no ?

[@valeriejul4243]

Could you speak about what other coaches say, that if your ex works on his problems with commitment etc and wants to be in a relatioship again, he won’t go back to an ex who seen him at his weak and vulnerable state, but will go to impress a new woman? That’s currently my concern, because my ex in our break up talks is saying all the things that should give me hope for making it work with no contact - that he doesn’t want to lose me completely from his life, that he won’t say he’s lost all feelings for me etc, but he doesn’t want to be as commited as i do now. But i’m scared he’s just gonna work on himself and then go and bless someone new with all these improvements 😆

[@valeriejul4243]

He does say he wants to work on his commitment issues, go to therapy etc, it wasn’t clear

[@dahotone106]

great video

[@muzih.ngwenya9768]

Coach; My partner doesn't initiate sex, intimacy or any affection. We've been dating for about a year now. Sometimes I feel tired of being the only one who initiates things. Can you make a videos addressing a one-sided relationship in the future. Thank you.

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

Listen about avoidant personality disorder... In short ruuuun 😅

[@thewanderer2041]

My wife was avoidant and it was the same story. Horrible stuff.

[@muzih.ngwenya9768]

@@thewanderer2041 Ya ya... it can make one feel unloved.

[@rajwinderkaur7786]

You say right, but I never saw him in real .He met me in 1981 .l could not recognize him,he did not introduced. He met me after five years .

[@FlappyPaws_x]

Hey coach lee after four months she reached out to me and asked me to calrify why we dont talk and what happned to us ?. While she was the one who broke up with me 😅

[@RealCoachLee]

LOL like it’s a mystery. She wanted her cake and to eat it too.

[@FlappyPaws_x]

@@RealCoachLee what should i tell here coach i still love her but this weird and feel controlling how should i talk tp her ?

[@CiluhStyle1]

Thank you

[@seekingfreedom9020]

I think marriage and relationships in general were actually a good thing back in the day but in today's world, I feel like being single is the only way you can succeed. especially if you're a guy and you're having to pay for everything for your girlfriend how are you able to move ahead in life with the price of everything LOL

[@WitchOfwishes-mt1ii]

Hello dear i do all type of spell work💫 and tarot reading✨ e.g ex back🫂, love spell💝, promotion spell🤝, pregnancy spell🤰 etc. what would you like me to do for you love ❤️

[@rogerwaters2724]

If your in no contact, and your ex texts trivial stuff like they are going to be a bit late picking the kids up, do you respond?

[@RealCoachLee]

Just be casual and polite. Simple but polite answers and nothing about the breakup, etc. Since you have kids together, I highly recommend you get my free mini-course on saving a marriage or marriage-like relationship at myexbackcoach.com/hope-for-marriages-in-crisis/

[@TundeEszlari]

Impressive premier.

[@angie5100]

Beautiful

[@chibuikenelson7486]

My ex is flash me , should I call her

[@loganfurr3170]

What if there were a lot of mixed signals from the dumpee while she was breaking up with me. I had gotten multiple mixed signals.

[@Pickles1497]

Good morning caoch❤

[@fireshot5536]

The more of these vids I watch the more I'm glad for the single life. Its just 2 much these days.

[@dinosauce8097]

Hi coach Lee! If the 2nd time ex reaches out but he doesn’t seem very enthusiastic (not carrying the conversation ) should I bring up can we hang out/have coffee?

[@ceyciemateo9411]

Do you take questions?

[@RealCoachLee]

The best place to ask is LoveDynamics.com

[@sam-uo2dm]

Does no contact still work if your ex got married by the person of her parents choice immidately after your breakup? Does it still work if she already get married?

[@fromabovefrombelow1272]

If she is married, then she has a life young union with her spouse. You are done and can’t get between them, because that will be adultery. Move on.

[@thewanderer2041]

My wife stopped having sex with me, and just before she left, told me she hated it. It was brutal.

[@user-fn4my3tx2r]

HELP!!!! I made all of the mistakes I could make before I went no contact with my ex gf. Is there any hope if getting her back after I inadvertently made myself look weak and pathetic. I really need help.

[@neskorock]

No contact, work on yourself. Watch coach lee on the no contact.

[@LK-sk2wv]

@realcoachlee please help, I’m too hurt by my husbands, accusations and his behaviour overall, he left 2 months and we’ve been in contact, but we only talk about our issues. He keeps blocking me, and then blaming me for not chasing him. As I go into nc when he does this. This time he blocked and said to communicate through his family. I don’t know what to do, I tried to save the marriage but I can’t move past how he treated me, I want him to change but he just blames me for everything. Our conversations always end up in viscous circle. Do I just stay in nc? His family is getting inpatient as well as they expected every thing to be sorted quickly and then I get even more blame thrown my way.

[@RealCoachLee]

I highly recommend that you book a free discovery call with Johnny on my staff to speak about my Relationship Reignite Workshop. You can book your call with him at MyExBackCoach.com/relationship-reignite

[@hitmanlamar8544]

She broke up 2 months ago and we are in no contact since 47 days after a fight. She had me blocked initially but later unblocked me from everywhere. She even put a Whatsapp story for me (which i knew was for me). Later she kept blocking and unblocking me from the 26th day to 34th day of no contact. Since then she has not done anything. Im unblocked. I cannot see her Whatsapp about section which suggests that she deleted my number. Any suggestions if i should contact her or no ?