The Truth from MARRIED WOMEN 😱

[@peaceflow1416]

Women will stay with a man who threatens their lives but throw away other women for an eyelash

[@TheQueenMaker]

Facts

[@annt.7785]

😂😂😂

[@uniquelyme3581]

Okay!!

[@LovelyM404]

This!!!

[@lf3554]

I have come to realise its all in the bonding. Bonding with a man is totally different especially when you are under the chemical influence of dopormaine, seretonin and oxycotin in the brain. Definitely makes it harder but if you are determined with time it gets easier to leave.

[@imalivegirl66]

I left my husband for cheating and I've never returned to that fool. I am never getting married again!stop thinking about the D ladies

[@chrisharris2367]

The D isn’t that good if there’s not emotional connection and or if there’s cheating Love nor sex pays the bills These men make me nauseous Sorry you had to deal w a dog like this I’m going through something similar

[@sonyamitchell292]

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY 💯 THE HIGH POWERED QUEEN.

[@la6136]

@@chrisharris2367💯The average man is not physically or emotionally attractive there is literally no purpose in having sex with them.

[@beautifulextraterrestrial]

@@la6136 💯🙏🏻

[@sungaze342]

@@la6136💯💯😂💁

[@toscadonna]

I really don’t understand when it became normal for a woman to give money to a male. I watched my father not work and ride roughshod over my mother, sister, and me back in the 80s, and even as a child, I knew to never give a man money or to trust one to provide. I knew it was wrong for a man to take from a woman. I used to watch the bulls and stallions on our farms, and they all worked hard to keep their girls and progeny safe. They were always on guard and doing their best, yet a human male can’t act better than a bovine?

[@eyeshaveit591]

You are speaking facts. Men today are the new females - embarrassing 😮

[@mamamoonie]

Lmao leeching? ​@@ImThePrizeXY

[@samueljohnson2314]

He was getting high 😂😂

[@1love847]

Never.

[@1love847]

​@@ImThePrizeXYSaid the non-provider. OK JD.

[@naturalleeshan1601]

That’s why men never get phased when the woman says she is leaving to find better . It’s because he knows the psyche of men and men will never be good to women .

[@lillady1770]

She said God won't bless you. Because you have a demon with you. After I separated from my husband. I was able to buy a house😂❤

[@Mimi1988-d8u]

I love this for you! The truth is women are more successful without men.🎉

[@aircraftboy1648]

​@user-lp8jk6vg7u They have to be if they are alone. You don't have to be as successful if your partner is the primary provider.

[@kiawashington7365]

Preach sister. That statement is 100 true. Unevenly yoked. Cannot bless the women and her children.

[@chosen1316]

Wow. This is true

[@aircraftboy1648]

@karinazrzu single people who are struggling can always run back to their parents' home. If you are married, you have to bite the bullet and make do.

[@Laroc1982]

Two songs sung by men prove and illustrate your point: “I wanna know what love is…I want you to show me.” - Foreigner “Teach me how to love… show me the way to surrender my heart…girl I’m so lost.” - Musiq Soulchild They are truly incapable of love, and that’s frightening.

[@lovelystarchild]

Salute to the SINGLE LIFE. I don't EVER want to be in a relationship. I ❤️ my freedom. Relationships are slavery for women. Nothing more. I'll be damnd if I waste my life being anyone's slave. Everything Princella said in this video is TRUTH

[@peaceflow1416]

I posted on fb marriage was slavery for women a decade ago and got dragged for filth, especially by my church family. I was married 6 months and he gave me and my kids hell. I was supporting him. I never broke my lease and moved back home 2 months after moving in with him. Been single since. Married 3x’s. Super submissive and in hell. Credit, mental health and physical health stayed on the decline trying to figure out what they needed while staying depleted. Never doing that again. Ain’t no great man out there… just how much you willing to put up with for the title wife. You 💯

[@peaceflow1416]

@@srb4722 I’ll take that cause how “right” was I gonna be at 21, 23 and 25.

[@peaceflow1416]

@@srb4722 I thought you were a woman. Not interested in your weird explanation of why women don’t find men satisfying

[@chanelwinston7723]

Dang where was you in my younger life when I really thought I was nothing without a man !! I’m jealous lol uk how bad I wish I was single for life !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well I am now forsure !!!!

[@lovelystarchild]

@peaceflow1416 Wow..sorry you went through that. Seriously, when I was in my late teens & early 20s, I'll admit I was a "pick me." Then I grew up & I began to see men for who & what they really are. Truth be told, 99% of them ain't shit. Deep down inside, they only really care about themselves. In my 39 years of life, I have yet to meet a so-called "good man" True love? None of the women I have ever known have it. I personally have never had it either. Truth is relationships benefit males more than women, which is why these males are shaming single women. Cause if women stay single, then that means they are focusing on themselves instead of catering to males & males cannot fathom the mere thought of a woman not wasting her life catering to them. The best thing any woman can do is choose herself because none of these men are the right man.

[@jaybae7315]

I was married for 7 months and that was TOOOOO fucking long! I have NOT remarried and there is a GOOD chance I won’t. After learning about marriage, I NOW don’t believe in it anymore. My life is SO MUCH more peaceful.

[@Lakishia]

what happened?

[@kokopuffs1986]

Me too, 7 months, and I knew I wanted more for me. He was exhausting. He tried to suck the life out of me.

[@jaybae7315]

@@kokopuffs1986 gurrrl!...."suck the life out of me" is an understatement. A lot of these dudes need therapy but instead of going to therapy, they hide behind hyper masculinity (a.k.a. fake masculinity) and jump from woman to woman. Then when the women don't put up with their sh!t, they make themselves out to the victim and talking about "bitches aint shit". Hmmmmh...no accountability whatsoever.

[@jaybae7315]

@@Lakishia HE happened😂

[@aircraftboy1648]

What did you do wrong in the marriage?

[@jobunny919]

Ladies, if you're in an abusive situation like the story with woman with 3 kids... keep in mind the most fatal phase of an abusive relationship is when the victim tries to leave, It's very important to move SWIFLY in SILENCE. Don't give your info out to ANYONE either because you'd be risking your life. Everything must be in secret. Your life depends on it.

[@theheartdetoxheartflow4602]

My mom was murdered when I was 9 months old when she tried to leave . The guy claimed insanity and it was called a crime of passion , he’s out now 😑

[@balle-roblox]

​@@theheartdetoxheartflow4602😡😡😡😡😡

[@bonafide_forever]

@@theheartdetoxheartflow4602that’s extremely disheartening on so many levels sis😢

[@aircraftboy1648]

Generally happens when you don't have a strong father or male family member present in your life. Nothing emasculate or embarrass a man like having his manhood and status checked by another strong man.

[@ReysRants]

@@theheartdetoxheartflow4602omg I’m so sorry how could they give that beast such a light sentence I hate the system

[@shelmie5]

I was married 4.5 years and I was miserable the entire time. My dad pushed me to stay but my mom and aunt encouraged me to leave, even after the first 6 months. I stayed, like a dumb ass under the principle of “marriage is work” LIES ALL LIES! I’m divorced now, for 4 years and I’ve progressed so much in my life. Being married held me back all around, personally, professionally and tore down my self esteem and self worth, trying to make a man feel “needed” whatever tf that means. That was my exhusbands biggest complaint, but mind you, he never protected or provided and never tried to. I did it all! And he felt inadequate in our marriage. He tried to keep me away from my family and friends, he was jealous of my professional growth, overall he was a monster. Ugh.. just stay away from them. Ok my rant is done 😊

[@eyeshaveit591]

They are useless monsters.

[@MeMyself984]

❤🌹💜🌹❤️

[@NigerWifeChronicles]

2017 lived with him thru four pregnancy two live births one terminated after being diagnosed with cancer may have something to do with what I was experiencing in the marriage bc of the abuse and my own neglect of self I left last year I call it my year of jubilee which happens every seven years okkk I’m gone the next lady will or may be as naive as I was back then and will likely be a pick me and accept the role as step mother for him until she wakes up and I hope she does honestly. she is picked for that need Whether u marry a foreign man or not they the same .I picked one from a land that still upholds patriarchy society ugh and I accept the consequences of my choice . and I also accept that I can’t change the choice I made to choose him. naivety is not a bail out card that was the hardest thing for me to accept and to get over bc I had the signs I ignored them frfr. Naivety doesn’t change the consequences nor lessen them and that hurt to accept this on that basis but I accept it bc it empowers me bc I chose meaning I have power over my choice as do u I stayed until I couldn’t when he left me stranded over a 80 miles driving off I started my exit that same month. There is a limit it’s really my hope that every woman’s limit to abuse is lower and lower not higher I hope our level of abuse to tolerate lessens and decreases mine was high but not anymore

[@go_off_Sis]

I was married for 7 years and as soon as we got married he stopped doing everything that convinced me to marry him. He expected me to serve him and clean up after him but I worked full time. He wouldn’t even do anything with our children. It’s gonna take a special kind of dude to get me to marry again ✌🏽

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

It's called the switch up.

[@theREALESTrealistUNPOPULAR]

Chile I just ain’t doin it again. They cost too much energy and I’d rather give my energy to myself

[@Goddessoftarot216]

When my husband start switching up i start switching up, my BPD wont let me be a regular pick me. When he start turning Narc i start to level up and open up my options again. I mean its gonna happen. The marriage will get stale after a while of the same ole shit 💩 even i get bored

[@saltycat662]

Don't do it again. My Aunt and mother learned the hard way. They became single in their 40's. My father passed away and my Aunt got divorced. They were dating for many years and all the men were trash. My mother remarried and she found out her husband was using her for a green card. She's the happiest I've ever seen her as a single woman, now in her 60's. She says she's so happy she doesn't have to deal with a husband anymore. My Auntie said the same thing. Women give too much in a marriage. I've been married 19 yrs now and I have a good man but tbh, I definitely put in more work in this marriage than he has. I had to deal with his evil family too and that was pure hell. Thank God I never had kids. Stay blessed and single. You don't have to worry about arguments, cheating, or serving a man.

[@socol76]

Were we married to the same fool ?

[@sagittariusblack2879]

34:35 He was not there to help her with her 3 kids, he was there to become her 4th!

[@TheMrsatlazdrama]

He was there to take her down.

[@Mirror_My_Ambition]

Some of these marriages are so unhappy and thier egos and man taught religion (not God self) won't allow them to leave these toxic, one sided, misogynistic, male beneficial, marriages. Remember, they look down on the childless, self sufficient and happy singles because we are happy and they wish ...baaaaaabbbbbbyyyyyyy.. Misery loves company..

[@NigerWifeChronicles]

It’s a form of bullying ain’t it!? They look down on the simps and the childless and unmarried. That’s a sign u on the right path imo. When you are ostracized for not doing and going along with the falsehood and lies and fantasy

[@CharWrightMBA]

I will never remarry. Married for 22 years, total time 27 years raised 3 children . Divorced for 4 years now. I feel free, go and come as I please. Some men hate it that I am free. I run a lot of them away. They call me a gold digger ect. I don’t give a Blank!

[@youlittlewitchyou]

My relationship with males is so much better since I have gotten your book. I am free and getting my needs met. Men are chasing me and I don't pay them no mind unless I want it! Thanks so much!

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

Men and children benefit from marriage , women don't. I filed for a divorce and didn't look back. He contributed absolutely NOTHING to my life.

[@BlackEnchantress]

BINGO! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯💯💯💯Finally someone said it.

[@angelflorence]

Children can’t benefit from marriage if the mother is not benefitting. The mother is seen as the primary caretaker so if she’s being abused or taken advantage of, so are the children and the children will end up thinking it’s okay to be in an abusive marriage. Marriage is ONLY for men and they’d rather live with a woman they hate than pay for a chef, maid, pr0stitute, housekeeper, laundromat, therapist and life coach. And y’all know most women are ALL of those things when they’re in a marriage…

[@ivoryreviewsstuff]

😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

[@MeMyself984]

@@BlackEnchantressomg I was about to say the same thing! YES! 👍🏾

[@lorrainewilliams3649]

I am 65 years old, and have learned that after 2 narcissistic husbands, marriage is not what fairytale society says it us. I am. HAPPIER being single. I agree with every word u are saying. Thank u young lady for educating us. I learned the hard way about males. The generation of women before us is spilling toxic information to their female children because of ignorance

[@americanexplorer459]

Girl know who you say we my father taught me to chase my dreams education is key. You should’ve left that fictional fairytale nonsense at 16 those Disney characters is made up Cinderella all that fictional they ain’t real characters. They ain’t real people.

[@Mirror_My_Ambition]

I've always been happily single. But NOW more than ever

[@sonyamitchell292]

You and me both

[@msgee123]

Right on!✊🏽

[@MysticalPreshXO]

Same!

[@chepossible3953]

Real talk!

[@Hijinx44]

WHEWWW the truth. I found myself trying to FORCE myself to want to be in another relationship but I can't see it!!!!

[@Traytriunetheomnist]

As you said "he don't love none of y'all" I had a song come to mind "we don't love these hoes'' they have been telling us how they feel for centuries and generations we just didn't have the ear to hear 🙉

[@ambo9569]

Exactly.

[@Shotofbrandy33]

1:45:00 I stayed because I was always told that ain’t nobody going to want me after having 5 kids by my husband, he’s Islamic he also told me about “the ‘white man’ plan to destroy the black family”(bullshit), he also said I needed him to raise our kids (since we separated he ain’t done ish, he moved to another state) . I’ve been doing mother,father all the duties 7 years long. And I refuse to ask for his help and he doesn’t even offer, and I don’t even care. When he does call it’s ask me if I want to try again with him, never to check on the kids. marriage is for male survival

[@MeMyself984]

Yes! For male survival! They are so needy 🙄

[@mothership9234]

Smh, black women stay getting duped by these dusty and bummy hoteps

[@LotusFlower732]

Salute to all the sisters on their journey to healing… it never stops!

[@EarthlyGoddessOya]

Yes! I too wish BW healing from the generational into current traumas.

[@LipGoddess68]

🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 You are wise, well beyond your years. This 54yr old Queen is so glad that you are here, walking in your purpose. I never wanted children or a husband, and you can imagine how much criticism I've come cross. Even when I was in my 20's, I knew that was not for me. No matter what others would say, it NEVER made sense to me. I could go on and on, but I'm not trying to type a dissertation. I just wanted to give you your flowers 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 and say that I am glad that you are HERE.

[@TheQueenMaker]

Thank you very much

[@LotusFlower732]

@candace beautiful flowers 💐 aka message

[@hannahs4779]

@@srb4722you big mad lmao

[@hannahs4779]

@@srb4722 there’s nothing to elaborate on, you don’t even know the origin of the word ‘spinster’ and you like every other uneducated male is using the word incorrectly.

[@shellylen]

@@srb4722 Happy spinster club here! Meow 😺

[@queencrissy5980]

This needs to be a class in all schools. My daughter is 9 and when she gets older I will definitely be letting her see this and hear it!!

[@oOIIIMIIIOo]

After ten, the kids start to not listen more and more. Just sayin'...

[@GoddessSignature]

I will say start the subconscious training from now, she doesn’t necessarily have to watch the video but put it in loud around the house when she’s around. That way she will sink into It subconscious and it will guide her before you officially introduce the videos. She may not understand the message now but it will make sense to her as she grows.

[@angelflorence]

I’d recommend raising your daughter to have a strong character. Emphasise the importance of exploring her environment, trying new hobbies, tasting new foods, questioning everything and learning new things instead of focusing on boys. The vast majority of women don’t have a strong character or critical thinking skills because we’ve been raised to simply become a wife or mom. Organised religion domesticates women and convinces us that we live for men, that our entire purpose is to be a mom and/or wife.

[@mamamoonie]

​@@oOIIIMIIIOogirls are different at least the ones that aren't male identified. No one taught me anything and I was over it by 20. I'm currently 27.

[@whitneynoss]

You know what my pick meisha azz mother told me that I don’t know what it’s like to have a husband basically I’m not on her level so thank u for making these videos bc I’m 36 and no father in my life don’t even know his name nothing my mother won’t tell me anything about em but she ain’t teach me nothing so I either learned on my own or my gma what she could and my homegirls so u helping me and other women cuz fr fr these men are dogs

[@parklady4233]

I was married to a man I admired. I thought he was a unicorn. 26 yrs later, got mentally healed and realized my husband was a narcissist.

[@olympiastargazer4469]

Chileeee next life time I will not fall for the BS!!! No Marriage no kids! The sacrifices not worth it at all!!!!

[@ggoodvibes23]

Same! I also believe you have to learn and prepare in each lifetime to make the next one better. Maybe if women can finally get it right we can completely destroy patriarchy since this is not how the devine feminine originator intended for us to live.

[@TheBeautifulBre]

I love this !! I found this community 1/1/23 for a reason this is what I felt in my soul. I been married 11 years filed for divorce 3 times and been running and hiding for 10 years. My entire family look down on me for holding it down alone and I am actually happy now that I'm not getting cheating on and beated on anymore. I got married as soon as I turned 18. No one decided to help me escape .they so called let me live with them just to spread my business and look down on me for leaving. Thank you beautiful strong women for fighting the good fight. Love u all .

[@trudiamond30]

They liked to see you suffer. Glad you got away now just make your divorce official.

[@kokopuffs1986]

Good for you, sis. Wishing you the best of everything

[@ambo9569]

Stay strong queen ❤ hope you are finding peace in yourself now

[@sierrahodges343]

Your message just lifted my whole soul when I read it!! Thank you and all of you queens that have given many women cognitive change needed to keep living and refuse to allow monsters to rule and destroy our worlds no longer!!🤞🤞💯💯🙌

[@BlackEnchantress]

I'm sorry that has happened to you, but I hope that you get to have peace. Just a reminder not everybody that's blood(Family) isn't blood and I know it's hard but when you realize who's for you and who's not. The ones that aren't for you your gonna have to cut them off.

[@laplusbelle7982]

And this is what women should want? Break their neck to get into? Miss me with it. Don’t let anyone Shame you into marriage

[@TrishaM-uq2hh]

OMG!!!! I am so glad I came across this podcast!! I had a family member lose her home in the same kinda situation. She was working and met a guy who promised to marry her and told her she didn't have to work and she has kids. Turns out guy was a dope head. Oh and she put her mother out who watched her children while she worked. Her life has not been the same since, but always asking me if I have a man. Sorry, I don't want those problems. She's way older than me too. 60 still dealing with bs.

[@go_off_Sis]

I have an Uncle who has married FIVE times and taken TWO of them wives houses after they hey divorced them because they both naively put his name on their Deeds because they were trying to be submissive and let him lead them 🙄 He is a hobosekual but was very good looking with Billie D Williams silky smooth hair so from the 80’s until the 2000’s he extracted many of those wo.me.ns resources for himself and left them in a worse condition. Yes he met them all at church ⛪️

[@jobunny919]

That's crazy because recently someone with baby daddy problems asked me when will I have kids and a man,

[@gailainsley6939]

@@jobunny919. Misery loves company 😅

[@kokopuffs1986]

@@gailainsley6939 yes, and they think it's a normal condition. Use to seeing women enslaved and being miserable.

[@aircraftboy1648]

@Audacious_Bistreaux Smart uncle. After losing from the other three marriages, he learned from the female playbook. I bet they initiated the divorce. He probably viewed it as taking out an insurance policy.

[@goddessinfinity1]

I can't wait until you have over 1 million subscribers 🥰. They can't stop the revolution. The revolution will not be televised. THE FUTURE IS FEMALE......

[@sandymack6834]

After my last relationship, I made a conscious decision not to be in a relationship with a man. I decided to have one with myself. I've literally spent my whole life catering to men. All my decision-making was based on what he wanted. Even as a child being abused by men. I've been over men and their shenanigans. 🎉🎉❤

[@sagittariusblack2879]

21:28 “Narcissist, or men” synonymous 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Sad truth in too many cases.

[@nikkilong7377]

😂😂😂

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

😂😂😂

[@Mimi1988-d8u]

I got married at 19, pregnant at 19. Years went by and so much abuse. 4 children later at the age of 34 i left and got my own place with my kids. It feels like the elephant sitting on your chest has left and i can breathe. My anxiety went and i am happy and successful. My kids and i go wherever we want and eat whatever we want. It has been years of abuse and it wasnt easy. But i hwve made my boundaries with him and told him that i will never be with him or any man ever because my peace is my best friend. I have suffered. But i am free now. ❤

[@themystictherapist-flameso7537]

❤you are a powerful Queen

[@Mimi1988-d8u]

@@themystictherapist-flameso7537 💟

[@Mlookad]

I got married at 18yrs old and divorced at 24yrs old with 4 children. I'm 41yrs old now, and the youngest graduated last year. It may get tough and exhausting at times dealing with 4 children but there is light at the end of the tunnel. Now that the kids are embarking on their own journeys, I'm about to start a new one and I'm so happy. I left my job at the hospital to start driving across the country while seeing places on my bucket list. Freedom has never felt so good❣️

[@Mimi1988-d8u]

@@Mlookad I love that for you.💕

[@MaroonRose3216]

Cheers to freedom, ladies!

[@SovereignPleidianPisces82]

Ive always known I was smarter than men. I tell them all the time. Ive been told that my education doesn't make me smart. Lol. And whenever I logically bash their heads in they call me emotional although usually they are hemotional.

[@GoddessGreene]

he-motional. Haha!

[@DearYoungerSelf111]

22:24 My estranged ex calls me last night (have been gone for 5 months no contact for the most part) and asked me to go with him to the car service place so he could feel some normalcy! And here Princella using the exact language he expressed is crazy! And he is a narc which is why I left. Anybody curious - my answer was no.

[@animaldictatorship5965]

Princella can you talk about women and the fear of getting old and how to overcome it? I notice many women my age (late 20s and early 30s) are very very afraid of aging and feel that they are getting old when in reality 30s and 40s is young...

[@toscadonna]

You’re only feeling like that because of what men say. But my father is 75, and his girlfriend is 15 years older. She has more suitors, too.😂 Just take care of yourself, and you’ll always be attractive. Worry about yourself and not what males think. They want younger women for control and dominance purposes. So why would you want to be used? I’ve always felt sorry for the young women who are being preyed upon by arseholes who are my age. I certainly wouldn’t trade places with them.

[@hannahs4779]

Once I turned 26 I began to love getting older. I used to be insecure about ageing but that’s because i was listening to MEN. Once I woke up to male nature and became celibate that’s when I truly began to love myself. Every year women get wiser and more confident as long as we take care of ourselves mentally and physically. Men on the other hand.. they age like milk. They’ve projected their own insecurities onto women

[@SacramentalASMR]

Simple. Stop listening to men.

[@karenridgeway7556]

I am a 66 year old divorced woman and I can say for me getting old is wonderful. I have my family, friends and social networks that I enjoy. There is nothing to be afraid of if you align yourself with friends and social networks. I have at least 20-30 female friends from my gym, book club and wine adventures from all nationalities and age ranges. It's awesome!

[@sweetpoptart9486]

For me, its not the aging that scares me its the dying edit: typo

[@jerrieyum]

I married a man who when he fell for his side piece he took his side piece to introduce her too his mom(my mother in law) and his momma hid the side piece from me. I was a virgin when we married. His momma didn’t tell me about this until after I left. They are all garbage. I took my son and ghosted them. I should’ve left my son behind too but I was weak.

[@SummerJ200]

This.. some women are pick me’s for the men in their families too. I’ve always refused. I told my brother : ‘ don’t even think about bringing no side piece around me because I’ll tell your baby mama and you know I will ’ 🛑

[@Esme26433]

Glad you didn’t leave the little man though. You can cut the chord slowly as he grows. Don’t punish him for his father’s sins please.

[@aircraftboy1648]

You must have been lacking for a man to ditch the mother of his child for a side piece.

[@SummerJ200]

Why would you want to leave your baby with people like that? Just curious. x

[@aircraftboy1648]

@@SummerJ200 Misandry. If it was a female baby, she wouldn't have considered it. There is a low level of disrespect for men in general. It usually comes off naturally.

[@AncestorsGotMe]

Marriage does not benefit women unless the man has assets. You have to have so much patience for each other.

[@Laroc1982]

And the reason you have to have patience is because men and women are functionally and fundamentally incompatible.

[@Egg_Apron]

Being in close proximity to a man with assets, is not the same thing as having that man share his assets with you to compensate for your labor. Don't waste your life smelling money that is held out of your reach.

[@saltycat662]

We don't need them for assets, we can make our own now. If you're living off that man's money, he owns you. It is not wise for woman to rely on a man's money, ever!

[@Mira-gu6we]

This is correct. I married a narc. Emotional withdrawal is when he jumped into action and tried to 'change'.

[@chocolate_cosmos]

I just want to say that if your god has you stuck on whether or not to leave a bad situation, then it's time to find a new god to pray to. Ain't no way I'm dedicating myself to a higher power that doesn't allow one common sense and clarity.

[@Jaayaabodyworks]

The bible God wants a man to be a servant head. It ìs pastors and men who have twisted it to use the submit to abuse women. In God, men should serve, and out of it, women are to allow so he doesn't suffer. But this male is nothing Godly to lead nothing they are male, not men

[@saltycat662]

The Bible doesn't say that, men in church do. The churches have been lying to people for centuries. You can divorce for several reasons. It's in scripture. Even God Himself divorced Isreal. But these people out here will tell you you're wrong.

[@nikkilong7377]

I was married and within 1 year of that the craziness started. Within two years of it I was lost, felt like a slave and nothing I did was ever right. Money was always tight, I walked on eggshells and .y life revved around him. When I had focus on anyone or anything else it was a problem and I cared about everyone else. Down to the point I made a friend (which was a whole issue in itself) in his eyes I was a Duke all of a sudden. Before our 3rd year he started realizing I was no longer ger playing his games. I was over it all. He started pampering me and being with the kids more. Then he died. Not sure by his own hand as they say or if it was someone else. Either way I believe this is where I am supposed to be at. I was seeing the games he was playing and wasn't going for it anymore. Now I am perfectly content being solo. My bills are paid, I don't walk on eggshells, I love being able to do what I want and can on my terms.

[@MaroonRose3216]

🥂 cheers to being freeeeee!!

[@BlackDaddy]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Shall we say rest in piss😭😭😭🥳🥳🎶

[@ruterewanjiru9575]

@@BlackDaddy😂😂😂😂😂yess

[@BlackDaddy]

@@ruterewanjiru9575 Let the church say Amen🥳😭💅🏾

[@LittleBirdG]

@@BlackDaddy 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@leyahquinnzellyisrael3643]

SHE TOLD THEM KIDS.. "GO SITCHO A** DOWN!"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LotusFlower732]

😂

[@GLAMNUBIANA]

Thank you for this confirmation, Queen P! I wanted to be married once upon a time but I'm so glad I didn't. I have too much of a temper + will go 0 to 100 fast when I see disrespect + when I'm hurt. The men in my past have paid for hurting me. I'm no longer looking for a relationship. If a man wants to take me out, he pays for everything + I even make sure he pays a bill or 2! 😆 My exes used to speak the word love just to get what they want in the present. I'm glad I woke up + stopped looking for a relationship. They are not worth it.

[@LotusFlower732]

Sis you smokin these female rappers! Just confirmed this is you. I was unsure! Fire 🔥

[@sabisweet]

At least she got real subject matter…I’m tired of Ho rap

[@LotusFlower732]

Proof that women just want to be married. She should be saying ex fiancé

[@weirdalpleasenoticeme]

My ex fiancé left me for his coworker 6 months before the wedding date, and I'm glad he did. I never would have woken up, or if I did, it would have been much too late. I was delusional, dealing with so many stress related health issues from it all, and gave him thousands of dollars. I'm glad to be here, awakened, jaded, but wised up living my best life starting at 27 rather than some of these poor women's stories 💔

[@jessicapatrickjessicataylo5285]

Oh, wait, I did forget to say YOU ARE AMAZING AND THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR VALIDATING THE WOMEN WHO KNOW SOMETHING IS WRONG but are too scared to do anything about it.

[@mrs.informed1191]

They never change,

[@viewingyoutube5352]

When you do NOT change you are becoming obsolete. Change gives you the highest probability to evolve not changing means you are rapidly becoming obsolete. That's why males have a toddler brain at best, more so than not. Evolution is part of Mother's nature

[@MaroonRose3216]

Unless it’s for the worse.

[@michelledavidson1781]

Men always know exactly what you desire, they refuse to do it. When you leave, and say no, they are children. Then they want to tell you everything you want and say they'll now give it to you. Manipulation. Get back and you see it's all words with no intention.

[@SummerJ200]

I went to therapy before I got my divorce. When somebody is abusing you believe it .We are waiting to be seen, heard and validate by the perpetrator. That’s not gonna happen because he would mess up the game and gains for himself. Wake up ladies. If you can’t do it alone get some help.. but do it. Lastly.. if he really did change and level up, what makes you think that he’ll stay with you.. ??? You..the person who tolerated his former self will not be welcomed when/ if he decides to level up.

[@MeMyself984]

Yes! That last part! Exactly! That’s why they leave when they level up

[@trs7983]

In love my single life! Turn them down left and right!!!

[@TrustYourself77]

You be having me DYING laughing!!!! NOT you'll order him the XL Uber and give him money for Whataburger 😂😂😂😂😂 whatever it takes for you to stay OUT my face

[@missqlalah]

Hi Queens! Im happy that I found you, Princella. You are beautiful, da bomb + delivering the truth! Thank you, Queen! ❤ I never wanted to be married. My grandmother would tell me to move my feet as she swept because if the broom touched them, I wouldn't get married. As a young girl, I made sure my feet were always in the way when she swept. 😆 I knew from the misery women's faces + how my uncle's cheating affected his wife, NEVER to get married. The men I was in relationships with asked + even bought rings... I ran. I thought I could do it once but I vomited when we were at the courthouse. When a man Im dating talks to me about marrying him, I immediately break up with him. Im happily single, successful + have no need for a man except for the occasional romp. I never wanted to give up my name, deal with a man's complacency, his cheating, his porn, his ego, his mismanagement of $$$, me having to cover him, his flirting + lusting over other women while Im supposed to fake happiness + be supportive while he's making me unhappy. No thanks. 😂 I havent met 1 woman who's been married + whos husband hasn't dragged her for yrs before FINALLY acting right.

[@makeitcount2985]

What you wrote is exactly how I feel about marriage

[@cerise5317]

I've always been more happy single I actually hate relationships. I'll only get involved in relationships I it's beneficial as soon as that changes im out

[@izzyqueen2700]

If he cheat leave his ass. I was with my man for 20 years .....I found out he cheated and I left ....yes I threw away 20 years for 1 time cheating......ain't nobody have time for that shit. Then I met a guy was with him for 3 years and he also cheated ....gone. now am gonna stay single am over relationships specially since I saw the queen maker she said how I feel so I was right 😊

[@makeitcount2985]

If they cheat once they will cheat again...

[@jmarienewkirk1]

I love God and I am always trying to do better but, God gave me common sense. If someone is trying to or has hurt me, it is over. There is no counseling, mediation, or going back. It is over. That is the end of the matter. God will still love me. My life is way more important than any ego or feeling.

[@suzannaflores1164]

How many women have experienced car trauma? Arguments, yelling, speeding scares by the hands of men? I can't stand these HEMO-tionals. I'm glad I called 5 different friends the last night I was in one of those traumatic car rides- TOTALLY UNNECCESSARY, to wake me the f*CK up. It worked - I cried for help from this man and was protected. People will protect/save you ONLY after you set the standard for yourself. Then people will reflect that positive, loving self-treatment.

[@ObsessionbyKen]

I have, I actually was pregnant and my children’s father grabbed on the steering wheel while his mother was driving because he wanted control got damn shame

[@angeliyah2879]

Wow I never looked at it like this but so true. I broke up with an ex,calmly, and he jumped the car over into opposing traffic and said we were gonna die. What I believed saved me is me flipping out screaming we’ll kill us then. He stopped the car.

[@chosen1316]

@1:45:00 I always wondered why the vows say " Through sickness and health, 'til death due you part?" Because it isn't in the bible. I started asking where this came from and I have yet to get the answer 🤷‍♀️

[@MzImperfectCrys]

The church always speaks on this and propose it’s in the Bible and that is what God said and wants. Most people don’t read the Bible to decipher it. They attend church and turn to whatever scripture the pastor tells them too.

[@israelsfusion4727]

THe Hobo Sexuals are a trip and can be violent when they are unstabled or loosing ground

[@lisa196409]

I would suggest audiobooks for a lot of these women. If a man sees a woman reading something that's going to better herself possibly take yourself away from this man or abuser or narcissist then yeah audio would be better

[@LotusFlower732]

16 years Sis! It’s ok now beautiful! We can’t do anything about what we don’t know! Oh but when we know! “You can not unknown what you know.” Wishing my young sister healing!

[@orealdenney]

Facts 💯.....I refuse to tolerate foolishness.

[@tammybanderes3404]

I just keep coming back 🤌🏾 Pastor P 👑

[@LotusFlower732]

Anita Baker “Fairytales”

[@plwhite40]

Javonne

[@queennefertiti35]

Marriage is overrated!

[@SparklingForYahusha]

Mmmhm i went through that myself....my own mother, grandmother Never spoke about sex. Never. And a lot of pain i had to go through because i was never taught. Never received any lessons on that part of life. However, i do know I am Loved by my Creator, and it is the love i've received from The Universe that has allowed me to heal into a Whole and Complete human being.

[@ZeeGeeBee]

39 yo female never been married and don’t have kids. For the longest time I couldn’t figure out why everyone I dated lacked the depth and self awareness it takes to cultivate a dynamic that made me feel the relationship and man was authentic, secure and safe. I’ve been feeling insecure.. like something is wrong with me. All my friends are married with kids and I always feel like I’m low key being pitied for this reality. I also felt some form of shame. Listening to all these podcasts is making me realize that my issues with men aren’t a me issue and that many many women struggle with them. Only difference is, I couldn’t ignore and dumb myself down enough to accept their reality and get married.

[@mothership9234]

I’m a 37 year old black woman and I’ve felt the same all my life!!

[@lemonaid13]

New Subbie from Jerome Whiteside's channel. I'm sooo glad you were featured over there. I would have never found you. You're like a breath of fresh air for me. You're underrated. ❤️🥰

[@COJAMALIK]

Jerome Whiteside 🧐🧐😢😢

[@Natalia-gi1jh]

I made him comfortable, he got bored quickly

[@skinnyaccount7607]

You are a remarkable, graceful woman, I love you speaking mannerism, its calm and relaxed, not fast talking, high-pitched frenzy causing anxiety. You are smooth and cool 😎 👌

[@hazel1190s]

Thanks!

[@tammybanderes3404]

Reading my book by Princella Carr The 5 Components of Love ❤ 👑💅🏾💃🏾🍾🥂

[@aaabbb8812]

A marriage certificate has less legal weight than a receipt from Wawa. It is less valuable than Monopoly money.

[@sierrahodges343]

😂😂

[@Feb73Pumpkin]

I can’t stop laughing 😂😂😂

[@reneishasmith8983]

Smh. I'm not even done yet but you had me at the mama told her to pray for her husband, like your daughter could have been killed! You can't just pray about everything. Religion have people in a choke lock smh bless her heart. ❤❤. He played that real smooth wait until she left her good job smh real strategic.

[@MeMyself984]

Yes. And black people are so religious to death, literally and figuratively

[@322Mermaid]

Chile im a married woman.....but MY HUSBAND knows. He works and provides but we have had conflicts centered around porn and alienation of affection and him getting lazy and complacent; also HIS PETULANT mouth and ATTEMPT to devalue me and manipulate me at times. But i never lost my cool and called him out and showed no fear when he resorted to bullying. I took the baby and left and that woke him up FAST. 😂😂😂😂 my dad told me and im telling yall "let him pull the trigger"---in other words let him play himself out like a fool and let God deal with that mess

[@RebeccaReynolds-e5v]

This is every relationship with a man. We have to educate them about how to not be total fkn assholes. It’s way too exhausting!!!

[@healingv1sion]

2:00:24 very powerful words, I will definitely be spreading this message to any parent I ever come across for the rest of my life. I just lost a friend over a man and she took her own life because of this very issue. This one message could save sooooo many lives.

[@catherinedocherty6100]

I'm 56 now, 2 marriages plus 4 longish terms relationships. Everyone of them did me wrong and I was the breadwinner & the homeowner each time. I've already lived your course and workshop because Ive always refused to deal with or take, zero shit from a man and will walk the other way while blocking their number the moment they screw me over and I've found them out. I5 yrs single now and living my best life but love listening to your podcast and nodding my head as you talk.

[@redgoddess]

Loving these videos! Just got the Components of love book! Excited to read it. Always wondered why so much was wrong with how women are treated and why this terrible treatment is encouraged, normalized and expected. Princella has shown me why.

[@shermainewilson1]

Planning is crucial. When a woman decides to leave an abusive marriage, she and her children can become especially vulnerable. Navigating the transition to single life without adequate preparation can be perilous. It’s important to seek discreet support and cultivate a resilient mindset before taking the leap. Without proper planning and support, both women and children are at a heightened risk. A strong community is essential for women, many of whom become isolated due to the continuous abuse they face. Trust often becomes a challenge, not just because of the abuse from their partners, but sometimes also due to betrayal by other women. As for me, I’m eager to join a support workshop, but my husband controls all our finances and hasn’t allowed me to work for 23 years.

[@LotusFlower732]

Sending love and light to these women! 💫

[@veldehobson4277]

Oh my!! This is so true. Keep telling it like it is Queen❤

[@jessicagerou4132]

"FEAR IS KEEPING YOU SITTING THERE."

[@KCruz7]

Princilla, keep doing what you do mamma. Respect ✊. Thank you for sharing your story and most of all ., thank you for being that lighthouse beacon of light 💡 for us ladies out here navigating 🧭 life in the storm ⛈️ and ocean 🌊 of rough waves. You’re a gift 💝 🎁 to us.

[@MeMyself984]

Your music is 🔥🔥🔥 Sis you’re very talented! I don’t really listen to rap but I’d buy your music❤❤❤

[@tammybanderes3404]

I need this playing in my V on blast 😩

[@liz090833]

😂😂😂

[@nothereyetlost]

Lmaoooo

[@akinazara]

Same

[@littlecherryful]

Absolutely RIGHT !! EVERYTHING THIS WOMEN HAS SAID IS RIGHT ! AMEN 🙏🙌🏻🙌🏻💯💯💯💜💜💜✊🏻

[@Symplimarii]

I felt this and I am ready for liberation 🎉❤🎉

[@gailainsley6939]

You will be really good at answering relationship dilemmas and giving advice. I can see that being a real hit. 💯

[@TouchofShunshine]

If people will just read the Bible themselves they will know that God does not encourage or punish anyone who leaves a marriage because of adultery. Matter of fact, it's the only basis for divorce within the Bible. In addition, Bible teaches that you can separate.

[@marieglatt6656]

My 1st Marriage, he started cheating as soon as we returned from our honeymoon. It was a Nightmare. 2 years later we were Divorced. His excuse was, I was an alcoholic. He wanted me back but I couldn't because he made a baby with someone else while cheating on me. We don't Divorced for no reason.

[@unconventionalgenxer]

@@marieglatt6656 The last part....

[@NekeishaWise]

@@marieglatt6656 You were supposed to leave. Good for you! The Bible says that we CAN leave. God doesn’t want His daughters being abused by anyone.

[@MW-rn1vg]

Today would've been my 14 year anniversary. I got out 6 years ago. Couldn't be happier 🍾

[@vannamarie8430]

Powerful Message 🔥

[@d.l.bamlett4393]

I wish I could find the link to the book and book club. I have to add im with a "demon" but ive followed The Queen and learned techniques he serves me by $$$$ and i get my self fullfillment though other means not other men lol A BIG THANK YOU for qualifying what i already knew on some level. I really enjoy listening to your callers power to the feminine im teachable and glad to be schooled by a lady queen such as yourself. Ive always been self taught much resepect❤

[@parisjej]

@1:20:00 Good Lawd 😢😢😢I’m so glad she overcame all of that bc this was a lot. Men put women through so fycking much smh And she sound like she straight from Robeson County.

[@KCruz7]

I love this jams!!!

[@herhighness4423]

Darling dear most women especially the ones that sit in the church they think that they came from Adam

[@amilya4u304]

😂

[@tre9656]

"Fairytale-ism" 😭😭😂

[@LotusFlower732]

The lyrical content 🔥

[@lulimau8478]

Just found your podcast/channel!❤

[@semonewithane8625]

That one about the lady with the 6 figure job and 3 kids though?? I mean…😳

[@mariahg.6811]

He set her up to fail. Unfortunately she believed the lies.

[@TouchofShunshine]

God (Jehovah) states that it's okay to leave a cheating spouse.