I have a lot of empathy for women who really want to get married. I’ve been there and I can relate. I am married now and I’m very happy, but I will definitely testify that being a good wife and mother is a whole lot of work. I do think it’s worth it though. I want to encourage women who want a good spouse to keep working on your relationship with God, keep working on yourself and making yourself the best possible version of you, and make wise choices about the men you spend time with.
@tarao43824 күн бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you for this.
@ginamariew4 күн бұрын
Thank you for this 🩷🩷🩷 the Lord has been revealing to me that I am already a bride. I’m His bride, He already died for me and loves me . That’s enough right now. When the Lord see fit, I will be a bride to a godly man.
@Asha_08233 күн бұрын
Amen! Thank you so much for sharing this 🫶🏿
@victoriawest54774 күн бұрын
And to all the single mothers like myself we need to be putting all that marriage energy into our kids and making sure we raise them up. We focusing on the wrongs things as women ❤
@PeaceBeStill-3 күн бұрын
This needs to be pinned! ❤
@tlindsey19773 күн бұрын
You better PREACH 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@jasha923 күн бұрын
Right!!
@EiaWea4 күн бұрын
Lord, please forgive us for any idolatry towards marriage. Give us an overflow of discernment to recognize what spirit is behind these people….
@tamudefoe71154 күн бұрын
AMEN
@julieanne4134 күн бұрын
AMEN 🙏🏻
@godivabaker66224 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@ginamariew4 күн бұрын
Amen!! 😭❤️🩹🩷
@michelledouglas-thierry31434 күн бұрын
Hallelujah 🙏🙏
@rosagreene43644 күн бұрын
“But seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you” ❤️❤️❤️
@cierastreeter80264 күн бұрын
I am so glad you are speaking this. I married prematurely to an abusive insecure man at 24 years old thinking God blessed me with a husband. Our pastor prophesied in church that I was his wife. Now free and divorced I am so happy this message is going forth. Ladies, predatory men feed in this foolishness. God is faithful. Enjoy your life and wait for a husband to find you. Praying for you, Tony.
@JBrazielGreen3 күн бұрын
"You can't manipulate God, you can't force GOD." 🙌🏽
@victoriawest54774 күн бұрын
Black women we don’t need to think about getting a husband once we elevate our looks and work on our diets and mind he coming to us anyway ❤
@j-tenn2264 күн бұрын
Okay!
@dinasaccount13 күн бұрын
THIS. This is it ladies. The gag is just take top notch care of yourself and you will attract him like bees to honey.
@queengweeezy78364 күн бұрын
I had to leave the church I was attending .. bc I got tired of them talking bout it’s time for givinngggg as soon as we walk in the building 😒.. and the pastor didn’t really read the Bible .. he told us his own stories that were riddled with disrespect. The Holy Spirit let me know that I can leave that church and do my own Bible reading and gain much more spiritual growth. After leaving the church , I’ve noticed that MANY people on KZbin and even some “Christian rappers” they use God to trick people but the Holy Spirit is NOT in them. Watching Tony is refreshing and it allows me to not be discouraged . There are some people that do truly love the Most High God. Thank you Tony
@GabyDee74 күн бұрын
This message is so important that we are reminded where our focus should be, on God. Let’s be better in all things and may His name be glorified.
@sross1990_4 күн бұрын
Yes!
@staceythorpe79383 күн бұрын
If you look at the women in the bible who got married, they were not looking for a husband. They were simply living their lives, minding their business while working and God at the right time positioned them to be seen by a man who recognized her as a wife: Ruth, Abigail, Rebecca, Esther, Rachel.
@Chelle1Love_4 күн бұрын
Being a wife is definitely an assignment. Being a wife definitely comes with hardships. The hardships constantly restore the wife to GOD. Being a wife is definitely not for the weak or faint at heart.
@DaintyAbby4 күн бұрын
So its that bad huh 😢
@Chelle1Love_4 күн бұрын
@@DaintyAbby the wedding vows doesn't say for better or for worse for nothing. It ain't all bad. Marriage under GOD comes with blessings and favor. It also comes with tests and trials.
@lifeventures66514 күн бұрын
@@DaintyAbbyIt’s not that it’s bad, but it’s not this fairytale Disney land mess we see TV and soap operas portray. It’s WORK. Just like u have to work at self, imagine bringing another soul to journey with you who looks at the world differently due to how they were raised and what they were exposed to throughout life.
@DaintyAbby4 күн бұрын
@@lifeventures6651 i was in a real relationship for 6months and boy oh boy.. even though hes a good person, we do see the world differently. So i can only IMAGINE what a lifetime with a person is like. At this point I don’t even know if marriage is possible.
@peptalkswithsharniciagrandy3 күн бұрын
Thank you for your honesty
@TheTerriniqueShow4 күн бұрын
These videos are an answered prayer. I prayed to God to send a voice I could trust to speak on this because it wasn’t sitting right with my spirit… then here comes Tony calling out these false prophets. 🙏🏾🙌🏾
@GYSBmovement3 күн бұрын
One thing Tony Gaskins is--> NEVER SCARED! Keep letting us know Tony! This is so good! Thank you for your obedience even when you're a bit reluctant.
@kamillealvarez80344 күн бұрын
Thank you for your service. I am 20 years old and recently left the new age spiritual movement to start my walk with the lord. I started watching prophets all the time not realizing the spiritual damage it was causing. And not realizing that the same spirit of divination and witchcraft is behind people like tiphani. I started feeling like I was going crazy. But this is the wisdom God knew I needed to hear thank you! So many videos of people claiming to be prophets and it’s so deceiving when people use the name of Jesus Christ for evil.
@Leelang9314 күн бұрын
So glad you speaking on this! This female prophet told me to get ready for my husband he’s coming, 😂my boyfriend was sitting right there with me. I was so uncomfortable
@LadyAngela6784 күн бұрын
💀
@melaniegriffin784 күн бұрын
Wow..
@MsLovelylady324 күн бұрын
😂😂
@marieb63814 күн бұрын
My goodness 😅
@wandak18894 күн бұрын
She was in the Jezebel Spirit trying to get your boyfriend to fell uncomfortable as if he’s not good enough! Sad
@vanessaharris63414 күн бұрын
God is a God of seasons. You have to step aside and let him be God! You cannot fast nor pray your way out of a season that has been delegated to you by God. We cannot move on until we get the lesson/growth that's intended. Yes, the Holy Spirit will be there to guide us through and comfort us.❤
@canditate7403 күн бұрын
Tony, the woman you mentioned in this video who released the book “The Year of The Bride” announced publicly in February 2023 on all her socials that she was engaged. She showed her ring, but never showed the face of her fiancé. By the 4th quarter last year (2023) she stopped wearing her ring; and when her followers with common sense asked about her ring she gave an answer, but it didn’t make sense because she didn’t wear the ring again. To date, she has not updated her followers or the thousands of women she has led into that marriage fast and movement on the status of her own engagement, marriage, or the ring. And if you ask her about it she might embarrass you or tell you off. She had a large following, but it went up when she announced her engagement. To not update her following on her marital or engagement status is deceptive, because that is one of the reasons so many woman found and started following her. In short she has sold books, journals, and business conference tickets based on her engagement story - but there is no ring, no marriage, and no fiancé (as far as the public knows). And she and the other woman you mentioned who preaches and loves money used to be best friends. They fell out and a lot of it played out on social media this year (2024). Ladies, stay away! Listen to Tony! I started following her years ago to learn about business - she would talk about God, but she was not preaching or teaching like she is now. Don’t waste your time ladies - just go to tonygaskinsacademy.com And read your bible for yourself. If you need to take a basic bible class on how to read the bible in context, please do.
@ladymb42373 күн бұрын
She probably wore that ring as show and may not have come from an actual person
@MANDEE7962Күн бұрын
Wow
@angeldmedia97193 күн бұрын
This is a Word from God for the people of God with ears to hear…Thank you, Brother Tony!
@imnotkidding67684 күн бұрын
I'm convinced this man is a man of God.
@starlash-aКүн бұрын
Seriously!
@LaTishaSoReal4 күн бұрын
Thank you Tony for this! I’m so over hearing so many different messages from people who don’t know what they’re talking about! All I need is the truth and wisdom from God! 🙌🏾
@maryihezie119021 сағат бұрын
Thank you Tony for sharing this! I needed to see this right now.
@scheherazadewherry14104 күн бұрын
Im happy you're speaking on this❤
@scheherazadewherry14104 күн бұрын
This is sooooo needed-Thank you Tony
@christineporter99143 сағат бұрын
This message was truly an eye opener Bro Tony
@shugandspice4 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for addressing “monitoring spirits”. I knew I wasn’t tripping. Cuz “WHAT DA WURL”
@kimtaylor52773 күн бұрын
WOW Tony you are so right about Tiphani but if you don't hear another side like YOU she can be convincing because when she went on Hardly Initiated the first time I believed something she said and had to go to my preacher and ask for a scripture and I'm born in the church she had scripture correct but using scriptures wrong 😢 thanks for talking about this.
@TraciHudson20244 күн бұрын
Right Ruth was working in the fileld before Boaz saw her
@elizabethhennessey64373 күн бұрын
Yeah, but she went and waited upon his bed for him!
@luckyb56194 күн бұрын
I needed this as God has put on my heart to feed the homeless in my city. I’ve had this on my heart for years and never acted on this. Thank you Tony for your wisdom!
@inchristwithadrianne4 күн бұрын
The point you made about music was excellent! Notice how Lil Nas X started with “Old Town Road”, not a song about God but a seemingly harmless song that was loved by children. Then once he had the kids drawn to him he switched up to the Alphabet Mafia agenda.
@nawi3323 күн бұрын
Alphabet mafia agenda!🤣
@inchristwithadrianne3 күн бұрын
@@nawi332 Seriously 🥲
@EFP.Elviria4 күн бұрын
Thank you, Tony! Moving in before marriage was a learning experience for me, and it opened my eyes to what marriage could look like. It’s made me appreciate my singlehood, as being a wife is a significant commitment and shouldn’t be taken lightly-especially as a mother. It can be overwhelming at times. I haven’t finished listening to your video yet, but the first 10 minutes were wonderful. Thanks again!
@dinasaccount13 күн бұрын
Wow!!! The video could have ended after the 1st couple minutes. God bless you Tony. I’m convicted and my life has changed because of you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@cherylriley84 күн бұрын
I'm so glad you said that all of the energy around getting married is idolatry. I've said the same and, in many cases, it's all to have sex without it being called fornicating. You've got single women wanting to get married and married women getting cheated on. 🤷♀ It's a lot of work and not too many people focus on the part that marriage is a Divine covenant, in order to do God's will together on the earth.
@everyonedeservestogohome29494 күн бұрын
Yes, it's a wonderful young parent on KZbin who started cooking meals, and when she got just a couple of dollars she created a nonprofit and shows how she cooks, packs, and goes out in the streets of Atlanta feeding homeless men, women and children who are battling homelessness. A truly beautiful young lady inside and out.
@TheAmhyacinth3 күн бұрын
I know exactly who your'e talking about! I love her! It's @clementineandthekiddos
@dbkaran50324 күн бұрын
HILARIOUS!!! T needs to join Kat Williams on tour 😂😂😂😂
@4rmbwithluv3 күн бұрын
Thank you for speaking about this and Tiphani because whew!😥 I tell my friends about her all the time and they never listen. You need keen discernment with these pastors today and think twice about some of these female prophets. Jezebel claimed to be a prophet too!!
@shemlahnaphish32604 күн бұрын
This is confirmation. Should never be revelation unless you’re a true new baby in the Lord. ❤ As I prayed last night, all I said was, “Dear Jesus, please let my husband remain pure.” It was sooooo simple. I also saw a KZbin comment from an old TG video, it was a top comment and it read, “If you need to write in to TG about your man, he is not the one.” That’s a good rule of thumb to go by for us ladies. ❤
@mmxw22943 күн бұрын
I have said this to myself years ago. Singles women is BIG Business and we have to be wise
@deyonkasims1925Күн бұрын
Thank you for a wonderful teaching!
@erlynesaintil83614 күн бұрын
Very excellent message Tony! Definitely enlightened me! It’s so essential to be careful to what you watch, hear and participate in.
@spokenpoet50743 күн бұрын
Thank you Mr. Tony the reason I'm commenting on this particular subject, is so once I finish my project I can give you credit and no one will be able to say I took an idea from anyone,this is something that I've been working on for many years, and now that all my children are grown I can finally devote all my time to my gift of ministry,which I've done all my life, but this commentary really let me know I'm on the right track, reading my Bible, feeding the community and Baking for the community,most times for free, because it's never been about the money,and you're right, the more I give the more God gives me back to keep giving. And as you said I can't watch these people who play with God, thats why I don't follow to many people. I don't fear anyone or about God.but I've known most of these false prophets are about money first,fashion,pride, and showing off, and these people know when you calling them out, because God will convict them.Most these churchs only take,rather than give,and once you call them out, they give back a few crumbs.....
@83ttaylor3 күн бұрын
This is good Tony….so anointed yet raw , relevant, and relatable‼️ Thank you and many blessings to you and your family🙌🏾.
@OhioGalReads4 күн бұрын
Being a wife is being a servant. You serve each other. It takes effort. Being single has its benefits also.
@maddie_3584 күн бұрын
I definitely want to be married but it’s The Lord’s will and His timing if it’s meant to be.
@TreasureTeresa4 күн бұрын
Truth! Read your Bible for yourself and pray to God for wisdom❤️ Thank you Tony🙏🏽
@SheriCheri944 күн бұрын
Speak on it brother!!!!!! Now I will ask god to preserve my heart, mind, and spirit but I definitely ask god to give me what I he wants for me, what’s in his will!
@cw83654 күн бұрын
Sir!!! Thank you for speaking on this as some people are building their full channel of a “word”, “kingdom spouses”, do this step and that step for a husband. I met my ex husband at age 18, we were married for 15 years and together for about 22 years. I can say the worst thing you can do is attach yourself to the wrong person, especially one that can find peace in being an armor bearer and deacon while being a liar and adulterer. It dismantled our family, but God has made provisions beyond what I experienced while married for me and our two sons. Getting unattached, the impact on your finances and life, my Lord! Trust God to orchestrate your love story, it does Not take all this foolishness going on. Tell it Brother Tony!!!!
@azareajones56873 күн бұрын
It's so funny that you mention this. God gave me a beautiful poem earlier today about enjoying the single-season and trusting in God's timing if you’ve given your love story to him. I love it when God presents synchronicity! God just gave me the inspiration for 4 books. Started with 1 and then it grew, praise God.
@lesapriv34962 күн бұрын
Amen 🙌🏾 I’m so glad you talk about so many other subjects giving us knowledge, I know God is using you. I see the elevation. Your work is not in vain 🙏🏾💕
@valenesesampson62684 күн бұрын
Amen! I was going to say something about Tiffany last week. I decided to hold my peace and here you are speaking the truth.
@KayGrier4 күн бұрын
Thank you for talking about this. Its seek God over everything
@kairosunltd1302 күн бұрын
Teach Mr. Gaskins. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@themultifacetedwoman2 күн бұрын
These videos are truly needed. A lot of women will be set free if they take heed to the message and don’t let their pride get in the way.
@daniellemackenzie66414 күн бұрын
I am seeing that broken or people that need to heal particularly from their upbringing misuse everything. Giving everything a bad name. Twisting everything to their warped inner world. To some degree, everyone on this planet needs healing.
@mjj56423 күн бұрын
They out here uppin tha BLICKY! 😩😩😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@tangiemo4 күн бұрын
Blessings Mr Tony🙏🏾💕. I’m only 10 mins in and you’re always speaking TRUTH. Women , Men please listen. This platform is a BLESSING🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@MartyMar-yk1ik3 күн бұрын
Thank you TG!
@sherriwilcox69163 күн бұрын
Tellll it Tony!!!!!! God is using you. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Vonnievon_4 күн бұрын
I needed to hear this 👏🏼🙌🏼
@tarahbruno37934 күн бұрын
We need this! I’ve learned to ask God and wait to see what he will do! Women go crazy obsessing over a husband. Then when there is one in front of them he’s not tall or athletic enough 🤦🏽♀️
@ScholarSkyler4 күн бұрын
Preach Tony!!!! You did it w/this video here!!❤️👏🏽
@KJ-gz2vi4 күн бұрын
“manifesting” is law of attraction and that is demonic. praying for a husband is hustling backwards-- men pray for a wife b/c biblical marriage benefits men! women give up their time, freedom, her body, and her name to serve a genuine God fearing man so that he can got out in the world, conquer, and be great without distraction. ppl honestly need to choose if they want to be Christians or if they want to be witches; cuz they got the two confused.
@moraemepasikhani91532 күн бұрын
This was powerful. Thank you.
@Anairis07014 күн бұрын
Celestial, I believe has the spirit of divination which God hates. Jeremiah 14:15 a good word from God on false prophets. Also in Acts 16:16-18 the little girl who had the spirit of divination and was harassing Paul and his group, she was right in what she said but it didn’t mean she was operating in the Spirit of God. Paul knew what it was, rebuked her and she lost her “gift” because it was not from God. We have to be so careful not to be deceived, it’s right in our faces. I came out of false doctrines many years ago so I’m always on high alert and read my Bible everyday. I don’t want to be deceived again.
@monicanicole7382 күн бұрын
Tony I commented on this a few hours ago and I ended up sitting down to do my daily prayer and I always ask God to reveal what message he would like for me to receive and then I open my Bible after channeling the energy through me. My Bible opener to 2 Peter 2 Danger to Growing Christian’s This entire verse relays exactly what you said in this video. If you didn’t feel you were doing the LORD’S work please know that you’re living proof of what the LORD is revealing to us all. Thank you, blessings Tony
@JW-qj8jo3 күн бұрын
Father God, please continue to touch and use Tony in this season. He has helped me so much and I thank you Lord for sending him and his channel to those in need of his lessons and information.
@queenofsound13044 сағат бұрын
I brought the book Your talking about a while back. I never completed the fast. It didn’t feel right. I threw the book out and started focusing on myself. I’m in my 20’s
@montricec87954 күн бұрын
This is so very true!
@queenro30323 күн бұрын
This is a word!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
@dianemajor51412 күн бұрын
This was enlightening. Thanks
@robincain52874 күн бұрын
I detect no lies.. GM and thank you!
@A_Kingdom_WellКүн бұрын
Thank you Tony !
@dorae62504 күн бұрын
Thank you Tony for keeping it real and addressing these things that are really troublesome in the body of Messiah.
@vanessareid1634 күн бұрын
Mr. Gaskins thank God for you and the message that you’re sharing. It’s much needed. 🙏🏽
@ishaw98944 күн бұрын
Yes Tony I love your videos about self development and preparation before marriage.
@kimtaylor52773 күн бұрын
Thanks Soo much for giving everyone clarity and teaching me how to talk to GOD.
@marissat26824 күн бұрын
I am so grateful to God for giving you this knowledge, because even when I tried to listen to celestial I literally cut it off within 2 seconds. People have to learn how to build a relationship with God on your own. So that you’re able to discern what’s from him and not. He will guide you through anything in your life if you allow him too.
@MZJJ19874 күн бұрын
Thank you so much Mr. Gaskins, for walking in purpose and doing God’s work. Forgive me Lord for my ignorance and sin. Thank you for your Grace.
@lakendrawilliams98144 күн бұрын
Well this taught me some things. But I do wanna say that I fell out of these things “naturally” as I continued to get closer to God. My desire to know God increased over wanting a covering from a husband (even to protect me from spiritual predators) Fasting, praying for wisdom, understanding and the ability to RETAIN scripture I was reading, and overall being in His presence was fulfilling enough. I stopped lusting after what wasn’t real yet.so I truly thank God for that because this message of witchcraft just convicted me. AND I’ll add that I’m grateful to be single right now, because I’m afforded the opportunity to go to therapy, hear from God, be intimate with Him at any given moment instead of seeing to a husband. And it feels amazing. So I would advise those things, and ask God to show you and help you fix why you feel like you NEED a husband bad enough to get tricked by a demon. I pray for ALL OF US… it can be hard out here.
@alissakennedy46964 күн бұрын
you be spitting 💯 i need to join the blessed tribe
@12FitReps2 күн бұрын
Knowing God and honoring him are two different things. My "1" life (that one lost sheep) was saved the moment I heard your old video "Close Your Legs". I was reborn after that video alone in my apartment 10ys ago. I'm so grateful for your obedience!! Keep going!!! I'm sooo happy with God and single then I ever was w/o God and in a relationship. The crazy thing is when you upgrade your relationship with God lots of gentlemen become interested because you become a light in so much darkness!! I never comment on videos. I hope you keep going for as long as God wills you to!!
@JasmineLanea-tko4 күн бұрын
When you said what you said about RC Blakes it made me think about Nicodemus, some people are people of God but don't have the capacity to be people for God🙏🏾❤️ very self reflecting, made me ask my self where do my heart really stand.
@katinagooch4 күн бұрын
😂😂😂when you said chile please . I had too love your word bro💯
@aprylclark37963 күн бұрын
Great message
@lerandabrewer39234 күн бұрын
Expose the enemy coach T.....too many people being deceived....time for folks to be awaken #GodsWordGodsWillGodsWay
@Missbusybee20104 күн бұрын
Dr. Alexis is like Tipphany Montgomery..exploiting single women in the church desire to get married
@AnnesiaVienga4 күн бұрын
So sad
@TheTerriniqueShow4 күн бұрын
Let me tell you, this is some common sense right here… we’re losing all common sense being in idolatry trying to find a husband when the Bible says, He who FINDS a wife finds a good thing. All we need to do is read our Bible.
@GodDogPassport3 күн бұрын
Embarrassed to admit, but I needed to be smacked with this word today about idolizing the idea of getting married.
@cocojonestwin4 күн бұрын
Taking notes. thank you Tony.
@marileneair35624 күн бұрын
Thank you Tony 🎉
@bernetajohnson32964 күн бұрын
Thank you Mr. Gaskin. God is in charge.🙏🙏🙏
@flowers79514 күн бұрын
I have not seen these women but what you said the thing about the fire 🔥 so true. And cursing people 😮 I don't see where the fruits of the spirit be in doing that.
@kitamariemartin20694 күн бұрын
We just need to go back to Bible. Period. Read the word for yourself and have a relationship with God🙏🏽
@beatriceprior85084 күн бұрын
the desperation for a husband is only of the world, us women have purpose outside of men and not all of us are meant to be married or have kids
@princettastovall32044 күн бұрын
This is REAL & RAW🙏🏽 Keep giving us THE WORD, Sir Tony🙌🏾✨️
@MsBrown-hl9pe3 күн бұрын
I read my Bible daily. But I’m a baby as you stated…I just started January 2024. I appreciate your videos. May God bless you and your family.☺️
@jam13694 күн бұрын
I definitely needed to hear this.
@lifeventures66514 күн бұрын
This reminds me of my late cousin (rest his soul). He preached a sermon called “Titletown” about people who are more into their titles than the call of God. The congregation was hollering in a good way, but in the pulpit….👀it was quiet. Smh
@Nyobi094 күн бұрын
Thank God for this word
@tonyasherrod90424 күн бұрын
Good morning, Tony I'm so glad you spoke on this. I ate this up. Like a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.
@1goldenbutterfly3 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this knowledge and wisdom with us Tony. It's so important for us to establish a close relationship with God.