The Ultimate Guide for Attracting Quality Women!

[@MrOgynist]

A high value woman: One that enhances your life. Supportive. Is capable of adoring you. She doesn't need to be a particular number; she just needs to put lead in your pencil. She doesn't have to be an 8+ to do that. One that holds similar values as you. I've mentioned here a particular GF I had. Both of us? Average. Together, we raised our mutual quotient by a good 2 points. We brought value to each other.

[@YourWingmam]

Exactly!

[@hmmlemeeshink]

Yeah but you couldn’t tell her value on the first day. You could only assume it. All my relationships started as flings and hookups. Suddenly I had ten girlfriends and they were all faithful to me. They were high value. They also thought I was but I was broke. They knew it but didn’t care.

[@honor9lite1337]

Okk

[@MrOgynist]

@@hmmlemeeshink Can you tell anyone's value immediately? The value, +/-, is recognized over time.

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@hmmlemeeshink If they were all into flings & hookups, how did you get them to be monogamous?

[@jcronin3155]

Recently I've come to notice that watching too many of these types of videos is a really unhealthy place to start from and can lead to an overwhelming feeling followed by stagnation or "fuck it" mentality. It makes it sounds as if there's a thousand things a man must achieve before a woman will accept his approach when in reality men need to do very little....... just take care of yourself for yourself. All this "you must do this and you should say that" is a very unhealthy place to start from. The reality is the correct woman is wonderful to be with, but the majority are just a massive expense. Put your effort into yourself for yourself.

[@YourWingmam]

Sounds like you wrote this comment before watching the video. I say that very thing in the video, you don't have to do much to stand out. I also suggest that developing these traits will win your own respect in yourself which is more important than any woman's opinion.

[@jonahbert111]

Yes. Women will tell you how much they love you. But if you give them a choice between you or their best girlfriend, they are likely to keep their best friend over you. To a woman, a man is typically like a piece of jewelry, used to impress other women.

[@jcronin3155]

​​ Yes, I did write that before "finishing" watching the video and I alluded to that by writing "these types of videos" so not any specific video. It's not a negative criticism of your content but rather a little alarm to individuals who watch them obsessively as I used to. It's important to use all content from the correct place and yes, I still watch and will watch this one too, but with a health warning in place wiich is vitally important to any man.

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@YourWingmam What if they all reject me for lacking wealth, high status, height, good looks etc.?

[@phabeondominguez5971]

​@@DavidZ4-gg3dm WATCH THE VIDEOS, its been answered 1000x over..

[@YourWingmam]

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[@WaterlooExpat]

The title of this video says it all. Concentrate on improving yourself, and everything else in life will become less complicated. Another gem of wisdom was found at 0:18: "Isn't one woman enough work?" You said it!

[@YourWingmam]

Right! Improve yourself and your life for you and you alone.

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

Not if you don't make much progress.

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@YourWingmam How does that work if you're in a LTR?

[@stevedavenport1202]

9:29 LOL. I am from Seattle. I thought Seattle was a perpetually overcast place until I visited Vancouver 😂

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@cm-kl2wx]

Possibly the most important video you've made Wingmam!

[@mypov4343]

Great advice Wingmam! IMO working on the best version of me is more important than looking to be high value...you just become that by default :) Also as a relationship becomes serious....unconditional love should take over for both parties. There is nothing more empowering. It's freeing...anything is possible and I would be motivated to take action with such support! Many will never understand or even accept that.

[@YourWingmam]

Agreed. They don't know what they don't know and don't trust what we know because the risk is scary.

[@pariaheep]

Anna, your wisdom is GOLD!💄👄💋

[@actmyage2149]

Okay, now this is different... You 're content: excellent, as usual. A very thoughtful and truthful set of things for both men and women. Anyone woman who "don't need no man" complaining about "where have the good men gone?" only needs to look at you man's needs list. The "don't need no man" mantra is poison to the requirements of a high-value man, and, therefore no true man of quality will want a relationship with her. Your energy: excellent, as in recent videos. But your s3xual innuendos: off the chart compared to anything I can recall in months! (years even?) Maybe it's a new peak to your energy, or maybe some fortunate fella has managed to reawaken the "naughty" side of Anna, but it's something I haven't seen in a VERY long time! It's good to see you having fun! Can a neglected naughty potty blog post be far behind? Praying for you! -- Russ P PS/Dreary, drippy, quiet day today results in 2 pooches passed out cold on the sofa this afternoon.

[@YourWingmam]

Just this week a boss babe woman said that very thing "don't need a man" but she clearly wants one. I told her she needs to drop the attitude, men need to feel needed, just not by needy women. Women are just as confused by men, no wonder there's such a divide. Anyway, my energy is better! Generally. Though I do caffeinate on filming days, which helps. Similar weather here today, feels heavy. Good day to follow the fido vibe and nap! Thank you for your prayers!

[@amaigus]

Anna, you’re so sweet. Thank you for your work. 😊

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your kind words and don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@briar35981]

Great points here Anna. These are traits of solid stoic man for sure. No wonder these men are highly sought after. A man that brings it all to the relationship and does it all for the woman. Making her his priority in all aspects of a relationship without any reciprocation for his effort. At all times a man must require equal effort from the woman. (A word to men who attempt to offer all this to a woman. Especially in the early stages of their relationship. Be ready to do all this FOREVER !!!! Anything less will be disappointing. N 5:21 o failures and no excuses. If you do she will begin planning her exit. (Yea she has a guy lined up. ) As always, every woman wants a good man until, that man requires her to be a better woman. A woman’s happiness is a moving target. Driven by emotions, feelings, and hormones. These change daily or even hourly. So be ready to work your ass off for a high risk reward. Hypergamy is real. At all times she will ask herself. “Is he the best I can do”

[@DiscussionsWithEkmel]

I can agree with your "Men's Needs" I have a female co-worker that shows me a lot of appreciation. I was put in charge of training her for a new job and made sure I went at her speed and helped her out to the best of my ability. I even went a little above and beyond because she said she learned best by having a list so I took time to write up and print out a list of work details just for her. She was very appreciative and that is really what won me over about her personality I took the chance and asked her if I could invite her out to a dinner date sometime. Bad luck struck as she was nice but said no thank you. I at least left the situation feeling good I had planted the seed that I have interest. I made a special point to always be just as nice and helpful as I was before I asked her out. I think she really took notice that I didn't change how I treated her. It's the best way I can think of to show I respect her as a person and that I wasn't just trying to "get with her" after work. Hope she comes around, she's a super sweet gal. 🙂

[@Анжеликакискова]

@@DiscussionsWithEkmel training her for work is not high value, it's a way to get me2d. You are just another nice person in the sea of nice people cause that's how the world works. Until she hits the wall. Hope it was worth it to her to exchange her time and value for $

[@charles0207]

Dear Anna, I find your videos reinforcing and I play close attention to your advice, working through some issues currently.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for being here, make sure to give yourself grace. 🙏

[@mikestroud9969]

Had to add AJ. You would make a good News reporter. You just put out facts and speak truth. Take care ❤️🙏💯

[@woodliceworm4565]

Being a high-value man is too hard, and if you're not of Chad-like quality pointless, however, you can concentrate on and achieve perfection in being a low-value man, the worst of the worst, you won't 'get' or meet any woman but you can live proud in the knowledge that you have created a floor, from which every other man looks better. It's a tough job but someone has to do it.

[@foxtrotoscar4015]

I like this. You should start a KZbin channel.

[@YourWingmam]

Sense of humour: check. See you're already on your way! ;)

[@ChristopherFisher_78]

Some of the best dating advice from both sides

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@chrislim7976]

I'll just walk up to the most gorgeous woman and say "You think you're better than ME?" Works like a charm.

[@richcrozier1108]

Thank you for your content, it is speaking to me!

[@robertallison9653]

I love this video, I hope this helps my love life! I want a high value woman, and think I deserve one! I have more work to do with myself to make me the most valuable man out there, but not much more, just a few personal issues. I think by the end of this year I'll be a high value man. Not sure what that means exactly, but I think I know. I''m not an Alpha, I'm a Sigma if any girls out there want to reach out to me!

[@BlairPittams]

Self awareness teaches me that everyone we eventually like has that unique side, What I think is the important factor is if I adore her enough to if possible to know her forever

[@YourWingmam]

without losing yourself :))

[@BlairPittams]

@@YourWingmam tend to think if it's sexual then i loose myself, when it adoration without it being sexual it's ideal

[@alvinwhitlock4306]

One woman is enough for me last to long relationship where 17 years but now single I like your videos Thank you

[@YourWingmam]

You're welcome, thank you for watching!

[@michaeladams6913]

You're delightfully high-value, yourself!! 😎

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you!

[@BlairPittams]

I wish I could recall someone around to show her how well I'm now doing. I would love her to be pleased for me, that's my most important

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 ❤️

[@x-man5056]

I am avoiding any hookups. They keep you from being with who you should be with and keep the right woman from interest in you.

[@YourWingmam]

Wise choice. Often casual sex leads to catching feelings for the wrong one!

[@x-man5056]

@@YourWingmam It sure opens that opportunity up.

[@rascallyrabbit717]

i am 58 a few hook ups sound good before my body falls apart

[@x-man5056]

@@rascallyrabbit717 I get you, but for me it would be a setback.

[@Mrmajellan123]

I used to use that excuse too.then I had to succumb to reality

[@scifirealism5943]

I will need to eat healthier, sleep better, and get in shape. I will become a high value man.

[@YourWingmam]

Reasonable goals! 🙌

[@liviumarginean1474]

Yeah. I think these things alone will make you of higher value on all plans. Even if you don't do anything else they will also reflect in your career. Cause you more likely to be liked if you have more energy and are healthier and more fit

[@kamranelyaspour3453]

So: 1) Maturity 2) Decisiveness 3) Congruency 4) Strengths 5) Integrity Interesting. Aren’t these 5 elements more or less related and fall under the term leadership? If so I would say, that a man must first lead himself. And if he succeeds in leading himself, he can lead the others like his partner. But…. we men are also human beings and sometimes we get lost. Even true leaders like Mandela, Gandhi, and George Washington used to get lost. A man can strive to leadership, but when he gets lost, he should forgive himself and say to himself: let’s try again. And his high value lady should also forgive him if he once or twice is not decisive, is not strong, is not congruent and is not looses his integrity. Example: I always promise myself to get up early morning and exercise but some how I don’t do it. Laying in my bed at 5 am is more fun 🤩. Does it mean that I don’t have integrity or I am not strong? Hell no. Nevertheless wake me up tomorrow at 6 am Brussels time Anna 😂 (joke)

[@musicandairplanes6330]

Thank you Anna!

[@antoerickson4152]

Happy Sunday Anna. How are you and how is your health now. So, Anna you made lot of videos and gave lot of information about how to be "High value man" to a "High value woman" and it all helped and these traits are very valuable to have in our lives. I recently heard something that one woman who is emotionally unhealthy managed to get a boyfriend and got engaged to him and probably you may say that he got attracted to that woman because he is most likely a "low value man" but I don't know about that, but I do know that she is narcissistic and very unhealthy mentally and emotionally. You look very good Anna as always.

[@YourWingmam]

Either he *feels* like a low-value man (regardless of outward appearances) OR she's manipulating him well enough for him to feel like there's hope or that his love can save/fix/please/appease her. My health is stable at about 85%, more good days than less good, thank you for asking!

[@antoerickson4152]

@@YourWingmam I believe that second one which is happening that she is giving him hope that his love will change her and save her, but I'm not much concerned about that anymore. It's good to know that you are doing good with your health now and I'm very happy Anna 💖.

[@glenfagan4424]

For me in a 45 year marriage I have found my wife’s BPD growing as she ages. I am 68 and she is 72. I feel like leaving and having my own life but am tied to my caring, commitment and loyalty to her and marriage important although trying.

[@Mrmajellan123]

What's a bpd?

[@MaximusOfTheMeadow]

Wow, the world is so different form both of my families. In both my maternal and paternal extended family is quite unheard of for Him to make any big plans or big financial decisions The only way to, let's say fix a car, was to buy the parts without his wife knowing

[@si_w8201]

One of the things I found was that my now ex-partner would never make a decision on anything, leaving all decisions to me. I found this really annoying...

[@YourWingmam]

That comes up in next week's video on needs vs neediness :)

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

My favourite quote feom startrek. First contact, picard says to 20th century lilly „ The acquisition of wealth is no longer the driving force in our lives. We work to better ourselves and the rest of humanity.“ I think the over acquisition of weakth is morally reprehensible And the bible says. A rich man has about as mich chance of getting into heaven as a camel through the eye of a needle needle

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

But i also know making a virtue out of a necessity exists. And wealth in relative. Living i. Europe i am richer tha. 90 of humanity. But relative to the mean income in below and if you are the top 1% of the riches 10 nations on earth. Then by all relative standards. You going to Yup

[@YourWingmam]

High-value isn't about wealth, that's high financial net worth. Value in a relationship comes more from character traits (some of which may result in financial worth). :)

[@hern4384]

Nice information thank you ❤

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@steveharvey7712]

Good Morning . 😘

[@YourWingmam]

Hello 🙂

[@andrewprettyquick2070]

hey, 'take it easy' 😇

[@gracia130]

That usually happen in a new relationship that both partner are respectful, appreciative, being desired as as if your lovelife is perfect because you're both hiding your true colors. 😂😂😂 However, a real characters and behaviors of both partner will be revealed when years gone by in your relationship. It's takes time to know the real attitude of a person. You're lucky if you've got the good and right person that last for a lifetime. A good relationship is not one sided, however, it should be balanced, candid and unbiased to have a lasting relationship.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@khalidaziz1262]

How are you You are right A man is good if he is true A working woman works very hard But men should be respected If a woman finds the right man, she will give you lots of love In reality, a man is a man Who respects all women I look at women with respect. A woman is a mother A woman is a sister A woman is a daughter The woman's wife A woman is a friend A woman is a flower I am looking for a foreign disabled woman Whom I marry to tell people Disabled women also have rights Talk about disabled women Accept this advice my sister You made a great video May Allah bless you always

[@opaz6149]

You forgot to mention height. Most women will lose interest right away if you are under 5'9", so you won't even get the opportunity to show her the other traits in the shopping list of "requirements".

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@opaz6149]

@@YourWingmam I'm starstruck! Lol! Thank you.

[@aruba55]

Your facial expressions are great.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@wanr5701]

I knew a friend who loves Bad Girl type. Maybe a video on how to attract such person, someday?

[@backyardrailroader]

It is a dreary wet weekend here in Delaware. But of course Monday will come along and it will be nice for three days As forvyour section of what a man needs, I get the first two. The third... well, I am still single. I'm still keeping my eye out for ladies who are interested in me other than being an option or showing some interest, then ghosting me. As for what a woman needs, I feel that I can show all of the 5 qualities....but I had a question on strength. Even though one needs strength to accomplish things, what if one goes to accomplish something, but finds out that it is way over his head. Would it still be Strength to stop, back up a bit and admit that he is unable to do what wanted to accomplish or learned.

[@YourWingmam]

Great question! Part of it depends on the woman, part on the man. Did he bite off more than he could chew? A good woman understands every man has limits and limitations. But if he gives up because of laziness before he's tested his limits, that's not going to be nearly as attractive. (Unless the task was irresponsible to the relationship, like quitting a job without savings to follow a dream of being a rockstar lol)

[@YourWingmam]

p.s. dreary rainy here too!

[@backyardrailroader]

I was thinking of myself and my adventures of learning tango dancing. Too many times, the instructors in Intermidiate class attempt to teach everyone there, attending certain dance moves that, well, I am unable to do due to my coordination limits and dancing skills mechanics. I try them a few times, and when I fumble around and either constantly lose my balance or not be able to do the steps, I stop and say that I am not going to do them. My feet get tangled up, or I am not able to move fast enough. The ladies ( and a few guys) try to help me, but the coordination is not there. I would rather stop or not do them them be frustrated about me, unable to do it while everyone else can.... sorta.

[@backyardrailroader]

...ah....quitting my job at the age of 65 and become a heavy metal guitar player. WATCH OUT WORLD!

[@SpeCialeDDoC454]

9:10 "relax into her feminine nature..." I've literally never seen this. From ex wife, from daughters, female employees, anyone. They all want to steer the ship or noisily wreck it if they can't be captain. The first female employee I fired brought a wrongful termination suit my insurance company had to settle. My eldest daughter chose to cut me out of her life rather than be led. My remaining daughter breaks into a cold sweat when I plan the simplest of weekend activities. Hey, were going to see this play, we are going to tour this local castle museum, hey were going to a friends house for a pizza party, we’re going to visit my sister. I'm reminded of when Jordan Peterson says women are naturally more agreeable than men. I scratch my head and ponder, who? Where does he find all these agreeable women? Especially amongst consumers of mental health providers. ? 😕 Ya lost me there.

[@Amir76fresno]

Hello Doc. I really like this content🙏. Much appreciated for sharing your knowledge with us. Have an awesome day. Cheers from RIGA 🙌🏼🤍🤍

[@EricMoore790]

The man has to be perfect to get a woman that's a 4.

[@worshipwhilewewait]

Not true. I got a 15 and I'm a 3. WAY outta My league. It's how You view things. You attract what You are.

[@YourWingmam]

You didn't watch the video. Maybe watch my stay single videos, it's ok to stay single :)

[@DavidZ4-gg3dm]

@@worshipwhilewewait How? What attracted her to you?

[@PossibleOffside]

@@worshipwhilewewait why did you not attracted what you are?😭😂

[@jayphive2468]

Don’t waste your time on a 4

[@scifirealism5943]

I love your videos.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching!

[@katherinew1366]

Anna, you left out one key trait women need... accountability. Most women disrespect men and then when he gets upset, they don't have the emotional IQ to be able to own THEY F-ed up. So rather than alter toxic behavior, they assume their partner is defective for getting upset.

[@YourWingmam]

Yes, it’s critical that both people in the relationship take responsibility where and when they should, true. ✔️

[@bman6180]

Love the hair. Very clean and classy.

[@marcellinden7305]

The 5 qualities of a man I have in spades... Meeting any available women seems harder than winning the lottery... House, a few cars, Three jobs in male dominated industries... Nope, I can't find where those single pretty gals be hiding.

[@YourWingmam]

I pray that you receive the girl who is truly best for you, the girl God has for you 🙏

[@foxtrotoscar4015]

So I ended an 18 year relationship 3 years ago. Haven't asked a woman out for 21 years. I'm now quite an introvert and way out of touch with flirting etc. Any tips would be appreciated.

[@YourWingmam]

Three years is a good buffer after that long of a relationship! Flirting playlist: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnONIdMCi60rCpPOlRDjDBW Where to meet women (33 places): kzbin.info/www/bejne/pKaZp6ONoKx0oqs

[@anthonymcnamee6297]

Be nice n peace love n light ✌️

[@joe_hoeller_chicago]

This is great. High quality is NOT “high value”. Intelligence, kindness, values romance, great sense of humor, and lifestyle/couples goals over looks all day!

[@MaximusOfTheMeadow]

A man has needs too? I was thought by my mother: "Uiteindelijk moet je het met jezelf doen" That translates literally to: "Eventually has you the with yourself doing" That means you have to satisfy your own needs, Emotionally speaking

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@js5665]

I cannot help but notice a few things about you Anna. I see no commit ring. You never speak of your social life. I don't mean intimate details of your life, love life or others. I mean you never mention "your guy". I did peek at your Long Bio on your site, and I found it interesting. I forgot that women can be as awkward and shy just as men. Now that I look back, I see that. Life lessons were always so forgotten about in our young formative years. Too many of us relied on the worst advice ever. We all looked at TV, movies and fictionally books for advise on how to meet someone. I have to say that anything I ever watched or read was 100% wrong. In this world for a man, that man has to be 1 part Einstein, 1 part James Bond, 1 part Woody Allen. But I still enjoy your videos. They are very informative. And now you have given me the magnum opus on understanding women. By the way, do you know where I can get some plutonium so I can generate 1.21 gigawatts? My De Loren will be out of the shop in a week our two. Or maybe I can use the Quantum Accelerator and change to great wrongs of my life. I promise to look you up in that “Canadian logging camps in Western Canada with only lumberjacks, grizzly bears, and trees for company.” and tell you everything is going to work out. You'll turn out just fine.

[@AutoBodyEverything]

Your good

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@daveogarf]

Anna, you look exceptionally wonderful today! (HI, Stuffy Cat! 🤩).

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much! 😻

[@worshipwhilewewait]

This is GREAT stuff but reading just the few comments here already it seems like there's a LOT of bitter guys out there. You can't move forward being bitter. You can stay where you are and do nothing and that where You'll stay. But if You want CHANGE, it's GOT to start with YOU. Period. That's where We ALL get it wrong. LOVE THIS!! TRUTH! btw You got Us BOTH smirking and even winking at 10:26 - priceless!!!

[@YourWingmam]

Bless you, you get it! Please copy/paste your comment as a reply to all the bitter (aka hurt, scared, angry) fellas who don't yet understand my suggestions are to improve their lives never mind a woman!

[@TeriG23-]

Big Amen! 💯

[@ArneAsada69]

Yup, the old dilemma where you flirt with one girl, she leaves for a bit but another girl jumps in. Us guys have all been there. I have to literally announce I'm busy with my date to get these scavengers off me.

[@hmmlemeeshink]

I don’t discuss things with my lady about how to make more money. I love her but I don’t need her input.

[@YourWingmam]

If you've proven you can make enough in the past she won't need to know anything. :)

[@hmmlemeeshink]

@@YourWingmam a man who asks a woman for advice on how to make more money is not a worthy man. A woman giving her input without being asked, that’s ok, as long as she’s respectful. But men should never ask for advice from their lady on money matters. Exception, if you have one of two choices to make extra money, ask her what she thinks of each them. That’s fine. It makes her feel good that you include her, especially good if she makes the choice for you lol.

[@spudskie3907]

Anna will you ever do an ASMR video?

[@jonnydallas6507]

Hello beautiful lady! You look amazing !❤

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you! 💞

[@jonnydallas6507]

@@YourWingmam you are very welcome!

[@RobCoghanable]

You once told of a house party a slippery lap

[@scifirealism5943]

You are intelligent

[@YourWingmam]

I appreciate that ❤ 🙏

[@andrewprettyquick2070]

I have turned down a plethora of 6-10's. But I'm poetic and 'deadly'* *metaphorically

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@jtrojan]

There are degrees to the level of being high value. If your not in the top 10% then your average or above average. Men just need to leverage what they are. The big question dating and relations in todays culture is, what percent of women value maturity, decisiveness, congruency, strength and integrity, and, what percent of women value looks, height, physical fitness, money and life style before considering Annas list?

[@xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoo]

So now i know what you like❤

[@YourWingmam]

Well, I am a woman lol ;) Thanks for watching!

[@xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoo]

@@YourWingmam not just any and every woman though 😉 thanks for sharing

[@wanr5701]

Be a high value man, not a rich simp.

[@64maxpower]

Your hair looks shiny here.

[@liviumarginean1474]

How can a man who is not as phisically strong as others phisically protect her?

[@adanray320]

Grow through pain or satisfaction.

[@vlajster]

Either train Judo or carry a piece

[@YourWingmam]

Great question! 1. Intention. A man who is willing to try to protect her is more attractive to women than a man who can but won't. Of course, there will be men who can and will that can kick another man's butt. What can the physically weaker man do? (Watch my how to make her feel safe video again and...) 1. Try to protect her from dangerous places, people, and situations by avoiding them. 2. If possible, take a martial arts and/or self-defence class. 3. If a man is physically unable (wheelchair, disability) focus on other ways to make her feel safe (emotionally, sexually, financially, etc.). I know a woman who was married to a man who was 6'4". A good man, but submissive. Years after he passed she met a man who is 5'6". She told me she feels safer with this older, shorter man because she "knows without question he would at least try to pummel them if anyone ever threatened" her. Intention.

[@mikestroud9969]

Cant we just have Netflix and chill anymore Red ??? 🙈🙊🙉🤣🤣. Good advice as usual sweet lady. You are the best 💯. No Simp here ❤️🥰🙏💯🇺🇲. I always hit like when i first come here 😊

[@YourWingmam]

Some days, yes, Netflix and chill is the right answer lol not every minute of every day must be spent trying to improve yourself. :) 💞

[@mikestroud9969]

@@YourWingmam alrighty then 🤣🤣✌️✌️. Your too cool for school girl ❤️🙏

[@marklion]

I think if a high value lady sees her man as low value, disrespects him and talking to resolve does not work, the man should walk away. If the beauty of a lady, keeps the man in a disrespectful relationship, the lady knows she can do as she wants. When a man walks away, the lady knows she has to give respect or lose the man. The man will also have self respect.

[@YourWingmam]

Exactly! Well said.

[@DavidLawsonGeneva]

"High Value" and "Low Value" are offensive terms. There are no ways that we ought to be, other than those we decide for ourselves. A "High Value" man could easily fall in love with a "Low Value" woman and a "High Value" women could fall in love or be attracted to a "Low Value" man.

[@DavidLawsonGeneva]

High Value and Low Value expressions are morally bankrupt. There is no difference in the value of any human being

[@YourWingmam]

Either you didn’t watch the video or you missed the card in the video indicating that high value is up to interpretation by the person interpreting. It happens to be the word people are searching for on the Internet, which is why it’s used in the title. Choose wisely what to be offended by, there is much to choose from in the world and one could waste a lot of valuable energy that could be better directed elsewhere. :)

[@kevinscott59]

I believe you're well-intended and certainly some men may achieve success with your advice, but I fail to see how being a high-value male or female is a longterm solution to the current dating crisis across the broader society.I mean,by it's very definition, "high-value" means being in demand because of scarcity.And yet the moment these people are no longer scarce the logic of the dating market holds that demand will fall for high-value people precisely because everyone has access to them. If the counter-argument is that most folks will never conceivably become high-value then we're back to square one regarding the mass despair and repudiation of relationships.

[@YourWingmam]

Nah, most people don't need a partner in the top 10% to be happy. :)

[@kevinscott59]

@@YourWingmam But the bottom 90 percent do?

[@searlearnold2867]

What's with the cat there, Red?

[@YourWingmam]

Was in an early video by accident and now makes an appearance for fun :)

[@searlearnold2867]

@@YourWingmam Checking to see who notices the little things? Good strategy...

[@Prudenism3030]

“Your workmate goes to the bathroom. Another attractive woman sits beside you and talks to you. You text your crush that this place is getting noisy” this is one of the most nonsensical, delusional scenarios I’ve ever heard. You’re gonna get the homie fired and block him from the non-existent attractive woman.

[@HectorRojas-yq7kj]

I just wanted to remind you that your very beautiful and talented your husband is a lucky guy 😜

[@francescozzononsisa1078]

All in all i think this video is the final omnicomprehensive guide on how men have to be with women but above all how women HAVE TO be with men. Having women astrayed too much from this has led men astray too. In God's will many women will see this guide on "how to be a real woman again", thus allowing men to be real men again and attracting them. I would add this need of men: "women can't be gold-digging hypocritical and victimistic beaches". (Yes, I say beach cos otherwise KZbin censors me.) That's it

[@64maxpower]

What were you doing before this video. You're glowing

[@YourWingmam]

Caffeine ;)

[@JSwift-jq3wn]

Are you a high-value woman? This question is genuine, not a tricky one. Watch the best version of Anna Karenina, starring Vitorria Puccini, if you have time. Religion is fundamentally feminine.

[@YourWingmam]

It depends on the man. Judging by the traits in this video, I probably qualify ;) but I'm not perfect and I wouldn't be high-value to many men for other reasons that might include beliefs, values, goals, lifestyle etc. :)

[@JSwift-jq3wn]

@@YourWingmam Looks, physical attributes are important. However, the one characteristic of a High-value woman is her intelligence. Strong character, a woman who has a will of her own...without intelligence is impossible. I hope you fund time to watch the best version of Anna Karenina with Vittoria Puccini. The man alone is the true artist. The High-value woman is the work of art.

[@initiatorhater0688]

i've felt this way for years now, the way a man talks and behaves, acts, in a conversation or interaction with a woman, is what either makes or breaks attraction, not the other way around. Another way to put it, its only men that need to know or learn how to talk to women, not the other way around. True or False? A woman doesn't need to know or learn how to talk to, interact with men, its only men that need to know or learn how to talk to, interact with women. Or another way to put it, the way the man talks, acts, behaves, in interactions or conversations is what ultimately matters, thats what determines if the woman is gonna be attracted, interested or not, not the other way around.

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

High-value men are lonely because there are no attractive, feminine women on the dating market to match with. As a high quality man myself, over the years I met some awesome, high quality women in my life. Never, not once, one of these women was single/available. If you are a high value man and you have standards, you are screwed.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@TeriG23-]

@ProfWho-ut5he, Ditto. I believe a lot of traditional and classy women share your sentiments. 💯 It’s challenging to date in a ‘modern’ dating (almost hostile) climate when one is traditional with standards. My circle of friends and I are not on date sites, do not have social media (or use it sparingly), and don’t go to bars/clubs often. I think demographics can make it challenging as well as I live in the most married state, or those living in college towns, rural areas, etc. With that said, I think it’s important to continue living your best life single…and enjoy activities/events such as; intellectual conference/seminars, farmer’s markets, outdoor concerts/festivals, wine tasting/wineries, golf, hiking group, dog park, church…as maybe you’ll connect with someone who has a similar paradigm. 🩶 I hope this helps. ☺️

[@hmmlemeeshink]

What is a high value woman?

[@winchill2002]

A high value woman?

[@YourWingmam]

You didn't watch the video lol

[@arman8097]

As a man high value woman is the one who is feminine, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, has no tattoos, cooks and cleans, has morals, is not in social media with thousands of pictures and videos of her ( selfish, narcissist, in love with her) By nature there is a difference between man and woman= man and woman aren't equal

[@hmmlemeeshink]

@@YourWingmam I did. You can’t tell a high value woman by looks or personality. You can only tell a high value woman after you’ve been with her for some time. Now, I’ve never been stabbed in the back by a woman-so I guess all my gfs have been high value-but I guess a large number of men are. Women are even starting to divorce the "good guy." In my mind a woman is high value mainly by her loyalty and respect and her worship toward the guy. Nothing else makes a woman a high value woman. Intellect doesn’t do it. Money doesn’t do it. Even being a lady doesn’t do it. Only loyalty does and the other things. The rest…every man is different. Some want a boring woman. Some want a kinky woman. That’s my take. But I don’t think you mentioned what a high value woman is, not in a deep way at least. My question still is what is a high value woman?

[@jcronin3155]

​@@arman8097......I thought you said "has no tattoos cocks.......".......😂😂😂😂

[@Pssst.ByTheWay]

Being a good person is its own special punishment. Its harder. But there is this joke my physics teacher made. The fastest path down is the one with least resistance. The lowest point takes no effort (all objects want to reach their lowest energy states) And this is probably from jbp. Uphill is hard , down easy

[@YourWingmam]

So true! Good person = strong character = sexy (to emotionally healthy women!).

[@Jarratt-420]

Thanks so much for always illuminating the female psyche and bridging the gap in a peaceful and lighthearted manner. I’m just getting on my feet again after divorce. I hope to one day, with your guidance, find a peaceful and civil companion that enjoys peace and tranquility. Thanks again. Ps- I don’t know why I sometimes feel like one of the littler scavenger dinosaurs that steals eggs in regards to approaching women. Maybe I’ll eventually meet a fellow scavenger, or maybe I need to reassess my situation. Thanks

[@YourWingmam]

That feeling is natural at the beginning. Try to imagine talking to strangers not just women with the intention of conversation and curiosity nothing more. it takes time, effort and practice to build conversational skills that translate from anyone to a woman you’re interested in.

[@shooz4unme]

“High value woman?” Lol

[@jameshunt3504]

Allow me to show my appreciation for you Anna ⚘️🌺💪🏽😉😂

[@YourWingmam]

🙏😊✨

[@Bazej-jt3wz]

What does high value women mean in your understanding?

[@YourWingmam]

A high-value woman is confident, self-respecting, and authentic. She values herself and her time, and she seeks meaningful connections. If you're looking to learn more about high-value relationships, check out the Wakeup2luv program - members.wingmam.com/get-women/. You got this!

[@joem.8277]

Dear Anna: Happy Sunday!! How is my favorite high value woman doing today? Outstanding video today. I like how you also had a portion for the ladies. Not just that, you managed to connect men's needs to women's quite well. Out of that list you gave, there is one issue that stuck out and I think both sexes need to work on it. That is maturity. I really see a problem with maturity across both men and women these days.. I do admit a few years ago, in some aspects of my life I was immature for my age. That is an area i have definitely foucused on. However, I do know many people, both male and demale who need to really grow up. That is my comment for today. I am off to go bench press concrete blocks. I hope you have an amazing week, Anna. You are not just beautiful Anna , but also amazing at explaining things. Hug and a peck on each cheek!!!

[@YourWingmam]

Agreed! Maturity seems to be in short supply these days. The best way to practice maturity is the golden rule, treat others the way you would want to be treated. This requires risk, giving the benefit of the doubt, and asking questions from a place of curiosity not judgement. Thank you for the compliment! (I'm tired today. #rain)

[@nobodysperfect06]

It shouldn't be a surprise... women don't need to know or learn any particular skills or behaviors in order to have men want to date them or to get men to be attracted to them, just be attractive and available... But men have to demonstrate value right from the beginning in many ways - so we as men have to end up having to working on ourselves a lot more than women do just to get dates and be able to attract the other sex. So yeah, when people and Society say that women have to learn skills or learn behaviors or how to communicate or how to talk a certain way in order to get men attracted to them, that women also have to learn how to meet men or how to get a danger how to get a boyfriend, it just makes me laugh and cringe and I just find it very stupid, it will never make sense to me as to why women have to learn or know dating skills when they don't have to do anything during the seduction or courtship phase. Mind boggles me that there is even dating advice for women

[@BlairPittams]

Maturity most of these wink winks nod nods, honestly

[@scifirealism5943]

You are beautiful.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@glennmartin2192]

Secret love triangles Anna. I want to be under the radar with the girl I have designs for, proving to her that we are an excellent match. She is currently in a relationship with considerable emotive investment. She responds with positive novelty and can see my worth and is excited with my seduction, knowing that we are a meant to be couple. My slow burn for her, is attracting other girls to me who I cannot see a future with. I want to be delicate without abrupt consequences as we are work colleages. Your thoughts.

[@YourWingmam]

Triangles are always dangerous. Not necessarily physically, though sometimes. But emotionally for sure. There's no guarantee she'll leave the comfort of familiarity and if she does there's no guarantee she won't leave you for someone else later. She may also be using you (potentially unintentionally) so satisfy her need for stimulation she's not getting in her primary relationship. For you, it could be the novelty of the forbidden, playing it safe by not being attracted to someone who is available (aka self-sabotage), or limerence. (Find and watch my limerence video.) Or maybe she is your soulmate lol As much as I understand how this can happen (for you and for her), you're not building a foundation of trust. She should try to fix her primary relationship or leave with a clean slate before entering any stage of flirting with someone else. Sorry, probably not the answer you wanted. :(

[@Phaedrus-th7bi]

Anna, I hung with you until you started giving an example of "flirting" with a coworker (and approaching at a bar). DANGER !!! DANGER !!!! At least in the States with our company policies etc. All that woman has to do is mention NOT particularly liking you, and she mentions it to the wrong people (HR Dept) at work. That's a horrible example !!! Men are EXTREMELY vulnerable in the United States work environment. If she does like you, you get a Pass ............. but God forbid she is NOT attracted to you. It doesn't matter if she was 'flirting back', many women will deny it when caught in the workforce.

[@YourWingmam]

Abide your companies policies and make sure you keep receipts along the way. Despite the risks, many couples still meet at work. If it's too risky for you, find my 33 places to meet women video. :)

[@dmark2639]

Sounds good on paper, but all too often these are NOT the traits that women actually respond to.

[@petereastwood7868]

How to attract a high value woman: 1) Make a sh!t ton of money. 2) Spend the money on the gold diggin’ b*** Lather, rinse, repeat.

[@Daddy2025HQ]

Damn I wish I could find that type of women.the woman Ive been around with either they drug addict or gold diggers.I rather be left alone 😔

[@nads6152]

👍🙂

[@stephenwright8257]

Women want 2 things… Attention and stability I.e..Money

[@scifirealism5943]

New things that improve my masculinity: 1. Comedy club 2. Orchestra 3. Musical 4. Sports bar 5. Pub 6. Anime convention 7. Baseball games 8. Women's lacrosse

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@JohnM...]

Woman’s lacrosse?….🫤

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

You mean high maintenance

[@YourWingmam]

High standard vs high maintenance: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aWfNfWuqmZZ_kKc

[@oliverlahr2688]

High Value Women??? Where??? Not in Germany 😂

[@YourWingmam]

They are out there. I would suggest going to new areas and trying new things to see if that helps 🙏