The Ultimate Guide to Expert Interpersonal Skills

Do you have strong interpersonal skills? I would love to help you level up your people skills. A strong interpersonal intelligence can help you in your career, personal relationships and even romantic life.
In this video I will go over the interpersonal skills you need to know to get ahead in work and life.
In this video:
0:00 Intro
0:29 What are interpersonal skills?
1:35 Interpersonal bucket #1: Verbal
2:21 Interpersonal bucket #2: Nonverbal
3:06 Interpersonal bucket #3: Relationship Management
3:42 What is your interpersonal rating?
4:43 Action steps for improving bucket #1: Verbal Resources
5:07 Action steps for improving bucket #2: Nonverbal Resources
5:42 Action steps for improving bucket #3: Relationship Management Resources
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Vanessa Van Edwards is a national bestselling author and founder at Science of People. She is also a recovering awkward person.
She is the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People which has been translated into 15 different languages. Vanessa’s unique approach has been featured on CNN, BBC, CBS, Fast Company, Inc., Entrepreneur Magazine, USA Today, Today Show and many more.
Vanessa shares tangible skills to improve interpersonal communication and leadership, including her insights on how people work. She’s developed a science-based framework for understanding personalities, decoding body language and improving people skills to help people communicate professionally, socially and romantically.
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[@Writethevision2024]

Thank You

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[@Grapesforbananas]

Thank you so much for this guide to interpersonal skills! I’ve been taking this class for about two years and I love it

[@shahidrehanPT1]

I have two interviews this week. Wish me gud luck!

[@SennaAR16]

How was it?

[@shahidrehanPT1]

@@SennaAR16 I got a job offer from Oxford and gona join in September.

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Congrats!

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Hope u got it bro!

[@Random-sw2xf]

Hows the job going mate

[@valerialeon5615]

I’m feeling anxious just by thinking of this. I use to block my expressions and emotions when I was a child because of many traumas. I struggle so much with this but I’d love to improve.

[@BobbyGogios]

AMAZING videos! I'm so happy that I found your channel with so much high-value content. I'm impressed. Thanks for sharing!

[@admirbarucija2018]

I’m so glad you posted this, I need a lot of help with this!! :)

[@Blue-SkyandStatetour]

Verbal communication is my problem sometime how to express myself becomes a problem. Not that I don't have something to say of I do but everything shut down in my head not knowing where to start from.

[@delfokronic]

Yep, I feel your pain. The words are there they just don't come when needed.

[@conversationcorner1837]

You improve with conscious practice

[@dilnafathimap1505]

This is the most fucked problem.when you really want to say something in a crowd, but you dont do it , because you know that you will struggle for words in the middle of the conversation and make yourself awkward . I can feel you bud

[@marycatherine5347]

thank you very much for your guide to interpersonal skills it is very useful to take classes on interpersonal skills to the budding teachers !!!

[@1chanelno5]

I haven't looked at any other video for this channel and I've subscribed to the KZbin channel, taken note of the channel name, website and article link. This seems to be a potentially high value page for me to study. The resources, the links, the engagement, video length..... 5 star content in my book.

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New Viewer, I think you're an undervalued based on this video alone. I will be in the lookout. Great work

[@thanosave7112]

wow she has amazing energy. She made me feel really warm and good just listening. thanks for the help

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You're so welcome ❤

[@marni9861]

Had a midterm today. Lol. Came here to get some information. But got me looking at them beautiful eyes. Got to learn some information off this video. Thank you. Was hard to not listen when you look gorgeous and have a beautiful smile.

[@thereal4114]

I agree! I used interpersonal skills and the '48 laws of power' to climb up the ladder in no time at my last job. The HR lady let me get away with everything because she loved me! I became a very popular person there in practically every department. This stuff work! People will like you and want you to like them.

[@jairusenad9333]

The lies we tell ourselves 😂

[@rajinitv2619]

Thank you for clarifying doubts of interpersonal skills.

[@blanenaidoo4302]

This like the ultimate guide to being artificial for professional purposes. Nice!

[@nennettedebs8333]

I've been having a hard time with some of my gifriends. Through the pandemic I have realized how dysfunctional they all are. So shallow..so when I spoke up. It was interesting to witness that they were pretty unavailable for the talk which was a huge insight of where they truly are. I feel resentment with them right now. It has helped me to see that I also need to work on managing how I ask for my needs and have assertiveness.

[@imthepowerer5000]

Show me your friends and I'll show you your future, you become like the top 5 people you surround yourself with.

[@paoladeandrade2308]

Thank you for sharing, Vanessa. I love your work.

[@yankee2666]

There’s a great little book on Amazon entitled, ‘Hoots and Grunts’ that addresses common everyday communication flubs that we make that can push others away from us.

[@MV.Prasanth]

Cool video.Mastering interpersonal skills will make you stand out from the crowd and help you take control of things.

[@bestskillsacademy1418]

This video is awesome! Great Job!

[@medhovemedhove8472]

Thanks, a lot Vanessa for this.

[@benergy100k2]

Good job V.V.E. You deserve a loud round of applause👏👏👏👏🤝

[@faz3662]

I didn’t set boundaries. I set a whole fortress

[@aaron6968]

And a moat for good measure 😅

[@lexie02jones25]

🤣🤣

[@faiqshakil9074]

I just needed it thanks

[@alexdoom7520]

I don’t know what I’d do without your help

[@nataliagreen6169]

Thank you so much for this wonderful guide.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you for watching! Glad to know you value the content =) hope it helps!

[@abujaforshamsuddin9336]

Vanessa, Excellent presentation.

[@virtualtreadmillwalknature1488]

you are amazing. Thanks for sharing these tips!!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

You are amazing! Thank you for watching =)

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Your courses are amazing. I'm glad I subbed after I took your udemy class.

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I didnt know she was on Udemy - thank you for sharing!

[@JeenieJolie]

@@firdosvohra4315 She has some amazing courses in there. I really enjoyed them.

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Great, very helpful for me

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Excellent information madam.

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Glad to see ur content has blown up ^_^

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Thanks a lot, Ma'am 👍

[@mubarakshabir9290]

Thanks for video

[@himanshuusain]

Thankyou😊

[@patriciaquine2053]

Hello Vanessa Van Edwards, I find this video very helpful as a learning material. May I ask permission if I can use the link leading to this video for the Oral Communication Module that I am presently working on. It is intended for Grade 11 students. Thank you so much, hope to hear from you =)

[@nitongpelingon8374]

she has that captivating smile

[@linf8912]

The third one is a bit simple for me. Some relationships i find it easy to say what i want, and others i do not.

[@jpjp9111]

1) I used to be a 1 but I think I've improved to around a 3. 2.a) I've improved to a 2. 2b) I'm around 2.5. 3) 3

[@victoriabeckett1138]

This is very informative. Thank you

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Glad it was helpful! ❤

[@diamondback3150]

Introverts: "I introduced myself, you introduced yourself. This was a good conversation."

[@floridamanpolo4589]

Great video 😉

[@schauniyal]

Well explained

[@johnthomas1224]

Could u also do a video on ADHD on ur channel??

[@Writethevision2024]

Nice video, verbal guides

[@KingKhan-vo9og]

I have been criticized for my interpersonal skills in the workplace. But I'm an introvert and I only like to chat when I feel I have something relevant to talk about (mainly work related). I don't particularly enjoy small talk for no reason.

[@willjay1202]

Honestly I believe that’s a good thing tho but i think interpersonal skills are more about the other people in the and how you impact there experience at least for me ill say

[@nandanp7669]

Nice Presentation

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Thanks for sharing this useful content.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Of course! So glad it was helpful ❤

[@psychologistmariamjabeen]

Extremely helpful

[@ScienceOfPeople]

So glad to hear!

[@dr.ravinderkaurcheema9015]

Very very useful content and amazing presentation .. Roll no 74

[@64maxpower]

Oh, I see if I got a lot of points and thought I was good at it I don't need any work on interpersonal skills but I v I only got a medium score I'm kind of good at interpersonal skills and I need some work but if I got a low score and I don't think I'm good at interpersonal scores then I need work on interpersonal scores and then I should work on it. I understand because I was confused

[@varvar1593]

Hi, i am a law university student, and used your channel this video reference you in one of my non legal subjects

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I'm honored! Thank you!

[@varvar1593]

Hi, your reference worked out, I got a distinction for the subject at university level, because I referenced you , thanks soo mich

[@harini1603]

Hi Vanessa. Could you help me in tips to know about myself better though your Video.

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really nice video

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BEST WISHES !!!!!!

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Completed

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This is a 7 minute commericial.

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Thanks for saving my time 💕

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Come out. Do not hide. Be strong.

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Very nice

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Great

[@addyro12yt]

OK thanks

[@ScienceOfPeople]

My pleasure!

[@johnthomas1224]

HEY VANESSA!! how long did it take u to get to where u r today in ur people skills?

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lol no answer...

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@@RokkitAk hahaha

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@@RokkitAk still waiting...

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@@Random-sw2xf stiil waiting

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Stiiiillll wwaiiting

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Nice mam

[@agentkido]

can someone answer these 4 questions using the video? 1.What does PQ stand for? 2.Explain the three buckets of interpersonal skills. 3.Which bucket do you need to work on and why? Give an example. 4.What does “speed reading people” mean?

[@stanzavik]

I wonder if Simon Sinak had to take classes

[@sunilchaudhari03]

Nice

[@jpjp9111]

I set boundaries although some people don't follow them and cross anyway. What do I do?

[@filipefranca5866]

Posture, improve it, also no smilling, be serious. Look for Jordan Peterson advice on youtube that also help.

[@jpjp9111]

@@filipefranca5866 I always have perfect posture. Something I was required to have growing up. I didn't know about the "no smiling" part though. Sometimes I do and sometimes I don't. Now I'll be a bit more mindful about that. I like Jordan Peterson. Any specific videos of his that you recommend that I look up?

[@filipefranca5866]

@@jpjp9111 Any JP is good, but look at this video about him: kzbin.info/www/bejne/sGO6XmiAZtufbtE. Also you might be living with a narcisist, CUT THEM OFF of your life. GO AWAY, TRAVEL, DISAPEAR AND NEVER COME BACK if so.

[@mingtoiisaac4623]

Keep reinforcing them til they get. They will keep trying til the see you're serious

[@jpjp9111]

@@mingtoiisaac4623 That doesn't always work.

[@sherrelljames7930]

I struggle w this 😦

[@celinahuezo5518]

I'm listening to this because I have mild autism.i struggle most with verbal followed by relationship I think.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I hope it was helpful

[@StabilityMan]

silliness

[@samdvlogs6686]

PQ stands for ?

[@jlrainbowpie400]

I had to watch this for school. It was alright, I guess.

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☺Vanessa !

[@anthonyajube6142]

Non verbal communication, my vote is 1. I am Italian and I speak using my hands! lol

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so cute!

[@bhieyu449]

Describe your concept of effectiveness and healthy interpersonal communication

[@ze-dude2192]

4, 2.5, 3

[@633_ayushanand9]

1 for everything

[@joysandy333]

I have asperger's, sheldon cooper level. What can I do?

[@HeartsForCheese]

Make a room mate agreement lol

[@kurtdogg2042]

i am absolutely terrible with people skills and i know it but i dont know how to improve. considering theres a pandemic going on and its hard to get out to talk to anybody. i have roommates but i dont really talk to them because i dont know what to say.

[@conversationcorner1837]

How about you join a Toastmaster's Club ?

[@kurtdogg2042]

@@conversationcorner1837 making toasts is easy. its the one on one conversation and holding up conversation i have trouble with

[@conversationcorner1837]

@@kurtdogg2042 you can try doing that once the session is over. Start by asking open ended questions

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I rate 2 both😢😢

[@thanosave7112]

I got 3

[@championschoiceas2085]

pls made on smart work

[@TheImperfectReader]

What do you do if you score high but your employer tells you that this area needs improvement? What do I do?

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Maybe ask them to be more specific about what areas of interpersonal skills they want you to improve!

[@baogia-yearies776]

HE wants to know whether Vanessa is still single so that he could and how to best execute the knowledge and skills learnt from her?

[@magnificentfellow7481]

😍

[@TheLeoPoint]

I'm score No1 in all aspects 🤣, I have cracked many interview they want to hired me as per my terms n conditions but I rejected it bc they failed in my observation when it's comes to WPR ,work ethics,.. it's IP goes both way ri8?Why only I should prepare? :) They said what planet do you come from ,me: it's your prob🤣

[@bhieyu449]

HAYI VANESSAAAA

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Proo:)

[@Cowwy]

I got 3. :(

[@mkutty2048]

in formal sphere I'm a communication 🙂 ,in informal space I'm 1😩

[@bhaveshbhuptani6856]

BENEFITTED EXPLANATION TO IMPROVE PUBLIC SPAEKING SKILL

[@xXKillaBGXx]

Why would anyone rate themselves?

[@nikkibunnyluv]

I'm 7.

[@James-vk5ov]

2:02

[@ronaldallanaljunrupuesto2714]

Unlike IQ, PQ can be developed. IQ cannot be developed?

[@goldensquirel]

I love you, Vanessa. You are extremely talented. You are more worthy than the self-serving politicians or MAGA 2020 Trump Trolls.

[@nobodysperfect06]

It's a sarcastic mentality but I feel they are much more valuable for men than for women.

[@annahouchen6276]

anyone else super distracted by how nice her hair is

[@MrShoji5150]

Interpersonal skill…so many different people in such a every complex situation…😂

[@ngammehsu3794]

I’m not good with interpersonal skills , that’s why no one likes me