The Untold Story - How Moving To Ghana Destroyed Dela’s Marriage & Nearly Destroyed Her

[@Naledi_22]

One thing about Dela's journey is that it triggers a lot of people, especially in Ghana. I like her a lot and she is very relatable, she reinforces something I learned sometime ago and that is people belong to themselves, and we owe ourselves the courage to live authentically. ❤

[@fitnesswithtoney]

That was the best interview I’ve seen you on Dela. He asked really relevant questions. He asked questions that the audience want to know. Also, BRAVO to you for having the courage to leave a relationship that was not serving you, but look what has come out of it. You are an inspiration for many…❤

[@silibazisomoyo2499]

Thank you Jay for having our lovely Dela and sharing her story. We love you both xx

[@lennieadi]

Great interview with my dear friend Dela. She has helped many people to speak and live their truth. Straight up questions were good. 👊🏾🙏🏾

[@e.r.videography6209]

Hey brother, I like the format of your interview. You earned a subscriber.

[@jaycameronofficial]

Thank you and welcome!!

[@VictoriaBoatey]

Great interview she’s been honest through out very transparent ❤

[@EB-fy5zr]

Jay this was an excellent interview! Dela don't settle. My mother was divorced with 4 children and she eventually met and remarried her life partner, he was by her side until she passed away.

[@rositascarborough5751]

Queen, keep building and climbing and thriving!!!!!

[@shelliemonroe7629]

Great interview; very inspiring!

[@josephshonga178]

One thing for sure is she looks lovely and lively after the divorce. The one thing I noticed when I first saw her on Wode Maya's channel, she looked skinny and had a sad look, despite the forced loudness and seemingly confident projection. Look at her now, filled out, lively and genuinely happy.

[@Flourish_today]

Some one once told me that marriage benefits men. Most times women put in so much work and it drains them with time but they keep it together. When they divorce, you notice big changes in them health wise. Good changes.

[@jean-claudemangan2708]

I Like her because she is clever, bold, beutiful and very truetful. I Like her boldness. Very nice Interview.👍🏾

[@Cadence_Media_Lab]

I can relate to Dela's story,especially the greying and ageing part 😢

[@hadtrust5927]

Thanks Jay , this conversation is very educative , even for a man .

[@tequishamcdearmon9152]

Great interview... hats off to Dela

[@myafricarockmission]

New subscriber after watching this and the interview with my girl Ivy Prosper

[@jaycameronofficial]

Welcome!!!!

[@LaWandaKnoxPhDcMBA]

Wow this episode is fire 🔥 thank you so much for your vulnerability and openness Dela. The questions were on point Jay, you didn’t miss a beat!

[@jaycameronofficial]

Thank you!!!

[@chaniawillow]

Well done finding yourself Dela. I am currently dating a great guy and i've noticed a recurring comment from my friends along the lines of 'you better take good care of him, there aren't any good men out here, etc'. I wonder why society feels that women over a certain age must operate from a scarcity stand point?! I agree, do not settle.

[@HoneyBunches100]

Perhaps your friends know you have a propensity to mistreat men or that you haven’t appreciated good men in the past. Less about scarcity, and more about you. Just a thought.

[@chaniawillow]

@HoneyBunches100 worth thinking about.

[@Flourish_today]

How about he better takes care of you.

[@soulfullywise165]

It all begins, within. Life, is about learning. Not one generation, will exit this world, without learning something. Learn to love. Fall in love. With self.

[@rosehughes1169]

Therapeutic episode. Not for the lightweight.! Well done folks

[@johnaxe4real]

Maybe is better to remain single if people are not willing to compromise in a relationship.

[@Jazz-fg2dm]

Cmpromise on your selfish expectations? Why don't you compromise on your partner's expectations?

[@HonorineS]

Lovely interview. Dela always makes me laugh, empathise, cringe.......go through all emotions. I am so glad that she is at a point now where she knows herself and knows what she wants in life. She has worked so hard. It has been quite a journey. I love her honesty. Mawu li.❤❤❤

[@cannastartup2794]

Nice interview

[@EvaAnika]

This is so good. And as per what they were talking about at timecode 44:00, people often forget that south of 25 years of age, human beings are ADOLESCENTS. This is not an excuse; this is peer-reviewed research. The decision-making part of the brain isn't even fully developed. Yet society expects us to be grown and we are given the opportunity to make adult decisions. Though I expected to be married long ago, I can't say I could have selected well at 24. Especially with the indoctrination I had at the time.

[@godschild2-yd3jy]

I married my high school sweetheart after 6 years of on/off dating. I left him after 39 years of marriage. Not all bad but halfway through he left our family emotionally, physically, and financially. Finally, I realized I was holding on to nothing. We were merely living separately in the same house. He was ok with that. My only regret is not leaving sooner. I have a peaceful life and not looking for another relationship.

[@bigGhana]

Man our new president needs to make changes currently in Ghana building houses but the government needs to start put Ghanaians first. Got my people feeling like second class citizens in their own country.

[@msisrael439]

I have learned to be in a relationship with someone. You have to be almost compatible with your husband their where the man lead you in righteousness. We always trying to get the baggage when you do you are by yourself lonely wholing the baggage by yourself. Money is okay, if you don't mind being by yourself at night that's fine which I truly don't believe no one what's to be alone. Money can't make you happy. Money can't hold you at night. Money can't talk to you and have a lovely conversation you would like to hear from that special someone. A lot of us as women give other women bad advice. That's why I truly believe what TMH say where men's should lead and the woman should be submissive to your own husband. No one can tell me anything different. I see how systematically we are broken,

[@LuciaLakpor]

This lady is not making anyone to listen by force, there are many other videos you could be watching, why watch and comment that she should stop explaining her story, it’s her story.

[@niiamu3300]

There are millions of millions of divorces around the world.

[@myafricarockmission]

She said she has her faults and is not an angel. She said ahe communicated poorly in the marriage. Clearly she is saying she had issues as well.

[@reparations9910]

❤💛💚

[@Numbers-lq2zo]

Will Smith

[@gabistar3046]

😮😮

[@GhanaLove-eg3nj]

I can bet my last penny that marriage will be a non existent institution in the next 5 to 10 years time

[@jackiedelvalle]

Only in the west.

[@GhanaLove-eg3nj]

@ you’ve forgotten how much influence the west is now having in Africa?

[@hadtrust5927]

Marriage as an institution is increasingly being looked down upon in many societies . It does not hold the value it once held . People are doing it for customary or traditional reason , to comform with societal expectation. Is it a dying institution ? Yes , but it would go on for longer than you think , way longer.

[@TheChariot99]

Her husband Kwame needs to come out and say his side. His name is being tarnished for some years. The husband needs to come and defend himself has a man. I want to hear his side too. Love Dela though but where's the ex husband ? For his business sake he better come out and say his side of the story!

[@dzifabello]

The power of silence.

[@kanti8942]

That's exactly what I wrote, but my comment was deleted because it probably didn't go well with the agenda. There are 2 parties in a marriage, and to be fair the husband also needs to be interviewed and hear his side. I've made this comment in every interview she grants other You Tubers, but they delete my comment every time I post it

[@TheChariot99]

@@dzifabello Silence doesn’t cut it.

[@jaycameronofficial]

No one deleted your comment and she never mentioned his name to me in any of our conversations. I would have no problem interviewing him if he wanted to be interviewed. The truth of the matter is that I have no idea who he is.

[@niiamu3300]

@@TheChariot99 , Terrible, what she is doing to the man in public. Something is not right. She needs to see a psychiatrist and a psychologist.

[@mikewalters4045]

Why did she wanna married to her own people, to empower ewe man than them always looking for different tastes 🤔 😊

[@kanti8942]

Have you heard from the other party to make a conclusion?

[@py20]

Who says marrying an ewe man guarantees a problem-free marriage? Why must everything devolve to tribalism?

[@AvogadroAvogadro]

Dela is still young she can get a reliable decent guy in no time and forget the past.

[@mikewalters4045]

She don't want her own to sharpen him,that's how our women behaves,they have different tastes ,they are many here in Europe having children others

[@gibson2675]

Not easy when you have 4 kids

[@HoneyBunches100]

@@gibson2675Your mama.

[@jackiedelvalle]

​@@gibson2675She doesn't seem to be experiencing any difficulties attracting them - not surprising as she's very attractive. If her channel is anything to go by, she's had at least 2 attempts at new relationships this year.

[@nobs997]

​@@gibson2675Extra baggage some people call it

[@tee5634]

She is too negative, unhappy. I live in Ghana now. If Ghana is the way she describe it why don't she move somewhere else.

[@HoneyBunches100]

Wahhhh!🍼wahhh…wahhh👶🏽 That’s you. Stop whining 😂

[@myafricarockmission]

She is positive and glowing with happiness. She can also speak her truth about Ghana without moving from Ghana.

[@arabaarthur5282]

Bro Kwame(Della’s ex) let the public hear the side of your story. Silence is not golden

[@enoasante6664]

He will do no such thing. He needs no public validation. Social media is certainly not the place to settle. Hope her children approve her actions when they are old enough.

[@jackiedelvalle]

​@@enoasante6664Maybe he effed up badly and literally won't say anything bc of shame? I'm not saying Dela's automatically right or perfect, but I'm not assuming that he's got anything constructive to say either. I find it VERY hard to believe that if she was running up and down lying about him he'd stay silent!!!! And tbf she's been pretty gracious in what I've seen her say in never going into details of what caused the breakup. I haven't watched this, tbf.

[@simp1eone]

For goodness sake Dela we have heard it a billion times of your divorce story and never once from your ex. You even wrote a whole book. Move on sis and stop hammering on this divorce as if you are the 1st person to divorce. Besides we not interested in your side anymore we want to hear your ex side of the story

[@jackiedelvalle]

Maybe he's keeping a low profile precisely BECAUSE he effed up the entire programme? Just bc you seemingly don't like her, doesn't mean he's some sort of saint!

[@SovereignJames]

Typical. It's never their fault.

[@EvaAnika]

Your comment means you didn't even listen for 30 minutes 😂 And it also means you generalize an entire gender. Which is your choice, but please continue to stay away from women until you get healed.

[@KwabenaX]

There is something not right with her stories on different platforms. She is the problem, not kwaku/kwame (ex-husband)

[@niiamu3300]

@@KwabenaX , Sooo true!

[@jackiedelvalle]

Thought the hubby was Kwame? Where do you know him from?

[@KwabenaX]

@jackiedelvalle kwame or kwaku don't remember.