The Vibration Of Breakups (And How To Heal And Move On)

The SCARY TRUTH that will make BREAKING UP EASIER than ever before! Join the 21 Day Raise Your LOVE Vibration to heal and release love blocks so that you become a more magnetic loving you in less than 21 days! Join here: ➡ AaronDoughty.co...
The only reason breakups are hard is because letting go is hard. And if people learn how to let go easier to understand the true mechanics of attachment, breakups would be so much easier.
And in this video, I'm gonna show you the scary truth of reality that will make breaking up and letting go easier than ever before.
This is the video that I think you'll finally really be able to let go and come at peace with whatever's happened in your life so that you can really either allow something new in or understand the vibration of the breakup in general.

[@AaronDoughty44]

Hey guys! Join the 21 Day Raise Your LOVE Vibration to heal and release love blocks so that you become a more magnetic loving you in less than 21 days! Join here: ➡ AaronDoughty.com/Love

[@a3Dp777]

you've been playing the meow game for like 2 weeks..haha

[@ajwright5677]

I just love you soooo much!!! I needed this tonight more then you know. I'm so glad I came across you!! Namaste.🙏❤️🕯️

[@bridgettnash6844]

I'm in

[@Dr.Kunal1656]

Is it free?

[@marissabergado7112]

I missed this in July! Is there a 21-day program coming up? I need to do this because I’m planning to break up and also like someone new but I get anxious and weird lol😅

[@JulienHimself]

Whatever you break up with externally… Find it internally within yourself instead! If you feel empty, it’s because you were trying to “complete yourself” with someone or something outside of you… 🙏

[@cheezenuggets]

holy shit father J!!!!

[@madeliiine8035]

Thank you! 💛💛🤗

[@mklove8]

How do I let go of sugar?

[@brianm9748]

Woahhhhh look at that! Julian Blanc!

[@charlesbukowski7730]

@@mklove8 Simply dont buy It

[@bignickenergy]

“In true love there is no heart break. A broken heart means broken demands, broken expectations and broken hopes.” - Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

[@deepikabali9199]

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️

[@ladyj8878]

Love Ravi. Thanks. Namaste.

[@STYLISHHILLS]

Good one

[@marte1376]

Wooow

[@arjit5923]

Dude you don't how much reality you've shown to me with this comment

[@AhmetKaan]

*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."* The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤

[@ellaleggett9628]

Thank you for the advice ❤️ and you have a nice day as well

[@sujatah3399]

You too have a nice day 🎉

[@AhmetKaan]

@@sujatah3399 🙏🙏

[@robertm669]

Took a year, but I seen it! You have a nice day today!

[@bindasgirl350]

well said

[@DanielKI]

As a breakup coach, I can confirm that understanding letting go is crucial to process the emotions and to really move on.

[@pinkypie445]

💖

[@taydavies9971]

A break up coach? Never new they existed is this different than a life coach?

[@xtrol4330]

@@taydavies9971 they're all types of different coaches

[@capricecraigmill9926]

Was involved with a fake who lied and pretended about EVERYTHING..found out he was on the run from the police....after he got arrested.

[@paolothorpe1461]

@@pinkypie445 Yo you got an insta?

[@AndreyZenperial]

Remember that you are not alone, there are thousands of couples breaking and forming every day, what matters is that you start honouring your body, mind and soul because that’s when you’ll align to the vibration of love and the right one will always find their way into your life💙🙏

[@Bazza5000]

I would love to attract love. I am working on it in all sorts of way and trying to change my vibration, patterns. I am going through the aftermath of a break up where a major reason why it happened was because the person was emotionally unfaithful by spending too much time with a superior at work, though she initially told me there were no feelings. Yet, I made lots of sacrifices and supported her. You would at least appreciate honesty in such a situation. Breaking up happens, but I don't know why some people can't be honest and hide.

[@pinkypie445]

This is what alot of people say.

[@lesliecabotaje3923]

Yes that's true

[@earthlyng_official4599]

As much as I listen to Aaron here none of it actually comes naturally and every time I try this stuff all it does is make me focus on what I’m “lacking” and overall all this stuff feels very un intuitive...

[@Queenofrap2011]

No I’m to lazy I had a baby

[@Dray.TheChosen1]

The truth is, unless you let go, unless you forgive yourself, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize that the situation is over, you cannot move forward.🙏🏽💙💫

[@pinkypie445]

True

[@justinwawa7671]

Good point

[@david.walters]

To whoever is reading this, You are loved. You are blessed. Your dreams are manifesting as we speak. Time is on your side. Everything will work out in your favor. May you find more love, peace and prosperity❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@carolinavidal662]

Wow thanks

[@EamonnJ3]

Beautiful

[@queentrio191]

I claimed it,thank you.

[@gavinspeaks]

*5 Powerful Things that changed my life in all areas* 1. No longer identifying myself with thoughts 2. ATTRACTION has the word ‘attract’ & ‘action’ with it (Law Of Attraction) 3. I'm not a human but a HUE-MAN = LIGHT-MAN = LIGHT WORKER 4. Investing my time in figuring out my purpose in life 5. BE-ing ok with death and creating urgency to make the most of life! ~ Much Love from a Growing KZbinr💜

[@againstallodds404]

Thank you

[@Yonah_144]

The law of attraction is not so much as to what you want, it responds to what you are. If there's something you want, you have to match the vibration to what it is, and that means modifying your emotions.

[@bigt1160]

Key key 🔑

[@AyeZo]

Be open to change, everything is temporary

[@AhmetKaan]

*Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life.* If you saw this comment, I hope you have an amazing day! 🖤

[@edinkciku6449]

I hope you too 🍀

[@nainamishra3155]

Thank you...❤️

[@everlastingmind8603]

Hey, friend. Take this time to relax. Don’t overthink. Even if there is a problem, there is always a solution. Breathe, take care 💕

[@SahraMahamed]

“Maybe you’re not willing to play the games any longer.” This was me. That’s exactly why I walked away. It felt like a rollercoaster ride with no end in sight. I had to get off, on my own terms, I had to put myself first and walk away.

[@rarasirius3795]

I completely relate

[@ashb6074]

Has anyone else gone through the same thing? 3 days ago my partner of 2 years just SUDDENLY broke up with me. We were on the verge of getting married, one month away from moving in together, had an awesome relationship and he just suddenly told me that it's not going to work. We didn't have an argument. He didn't give me a reason why and blocked me on everything. I will never know why and it hurts that he wouldn't tell me the reason.

[@ruyko6300]

Search for : Avoidant Attachement Style. Hope u doin better now and know already that it had nothing to do with you but with the other person

[@res5849]

I honestly started to cry when you said there’s nothing wrong with me. I stayed in a relationship where I was extremely forgiving and I was also projecting my past hurt. We decided to part but I still miss him and love him. He’s broken my heart more then anyone in 38 years. I will be working harder then ever on myself and give myself healing that I deserve.

[@ronaldelliott4373]

Hey Res, I’m just watching this channel for the first time, and saw your comment from 4 months ago. How are you doing now, and did you put any of this advice to use? Best wishes to you and yours.

[@AyeZo]

They say attachments cause suffering And from my experience i’ve realized that to be accurate

[@shereesmith8073]

Yep!

[@nibletnibs1040]

There is NO way. I was travelling today and I started to cry at one of the stops along the way as I’ve recently been left by my long term partner. I went onto KZbin to watch Aaron and a few others as an uplift. I remember thinking “It would be nice to get something more direct about this heartbreak so I don’t feel so alone”. And BAM this video gets uploaded???? I am so so so shook. The universe really is cool.

[@AhmetKaan]

*If you have a dream, you don't just sit there. Gather courage to believe that you can succeed and leave no stone unturned to make it reality.* I believe in you. 🚀

[@tahneeblack9667]

I read the comments, thank you everybody. He decided to go back to his son's mother. I've cried so much my head hurts, this popped up for a reason. I've been single for 5 years, met him, fell hard for him... I'm blessed and highly favored, so I know life will go on. Aaron you are right, theres no such thing as fixing others, our vibration matched at one time, I choose to let go today ❤

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure.

[@gladysm6857]

The timing can't be more perfect 🔥🔥

[@decemberlotus]

If only I understood him

[@pinkypie445]

Same for me 👸

[@balshaansingh5458]

For real

[@SB-ft4mr]

It’s taken me until the age of 61 and the end of a 25 year relationship to get this. Good on you for coming to this realization sooner than later!!

[@miryana79]

Let go? Just broke up with a guy I loved. How to let go? It might sound easy for some,for me I need to do around 10 hours of Aarons meditations in a row. Pray for me 😂 mira

[@Nilvolentibusje]

How can u break up with someone u love?

[@miryana79]

@@Nilvolentibusje he didn't feel the same way for me

[@noone-hd1ck]

@@miryana79 I think you framed the sentence wrong. You should have wrote, "the guy I loved just broke up with me". Also, personally, I don't know anything that can help except the fact that you can cry whenever you want on your cushion at night. Crying makes it easier. Also, it gets easier with time.

[@gracemoon4527]

Wow! Timely... thankful for your message and Spirit's timing as always! 🙏

[@jeffersonburton1006]

I Am grateful, happy, joyful, and thankful that I AM worthy of ALL that I desire, and I give myself permission to deserve it. I AM ENOUGH. I Love Myself. I AM whole and complete within myself. Everything I need is within me.

[@hassaninuwamuhammad9999]

He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship

[@hassaninuwamuhammad9999]

M e s s a g e h I m n o w

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[@ava198]

Thank you Aaron, a friend moved and I am still grieving. I realize through this video that I'm attached to the meaning that he represented protection, understanding, safety, his masculine energy I haven't felt from others, and he has seen me at my absolute lowest point and still was a caring friend. So I choose to believe who else will accept and care about me at my worse and possess his type of masculine energy. You helped me see I will never know or allow that in as long as I'm holding on to my grief.

[@Curiouslynikki]

Wow, this really helped me. I’m going through a terrible break up and this stopped me from crying. Thank you so much!!!

[@robpopplestone1835]

This is insane. My dad was already married when I was born and I was the product of an affair. So I rarely saw him growing up. I’m 33 now and have had all sorts of relationships (some toxic where I’ve been a fixer), some mutually codependent and others where I’ve been ‘the other guy’. And watching this video it’s really hit home that I just want to be chosen, and that’s why I’d go for the ones that need help, or in a shitty relationships already, so I can be chosen. That’s fucking insane!! Normally I wouldn’t comment my life on these things but I thought it’d be good for you to see that this video has made a profound impact on my life and realisations today. So thank you.

[@nosockaccounts9766]

Everything is ego. The more ego the less spiritual.

[@Daxifem]

Impeccable timing, Aaron. In the midst of a romantic breakup, long term 5 plus years. Definitely feeling the emptiness and uncertainty, etc. Everyday seems just so...... idk. Anyway, great video and helpful reminders about the meanings we tend to give to our partner's potential. Namaste, brother.

[@miryana79]

Me too. Hope you get better, Melissa I am going through this crap too 🌺🌹

[@joerusso133]

34 years for me but I think time is relative...

[@joerusso133]

And, actively/currently going through it Now! Impeccable timing, Aaron - Yes!

[@TheAnteamar]

Same

[@miryana79]

I'm sure you will find someone nicer 🙂

[@TheEllsbury462]

Idk why but I’ve been so triggered this week from a breakup 18-19 months ago, haven’t fully let go and I would love to find my peace so I can let something new in and stop harboring this anxiety and dread. Thanks for this one Aaron.

[@paulwilliamsofficial]

Great video, we all need love, however, there is a difference between needing love and being needy for love. When we truly love ourselves; we operate in a frequency that is never needy.

[@moonlightwisdomwellness855]

Aaron this was very helpful for me today. I have been doing my best at getting over my ex. We broke up almost a year ago now so thank you for this guidance 💖

[@dealer77005]

I know the feeling 1 yr for me still hurts

[@bellaanthony464]

I ball my eyes 👀 out every time I let go. But it is refreshing once it settles

[@lindsaypastor3978]

Yes I have recently caught myself reliving childhood dynamics .. spot on. I feel extremely shameful. Yes I’m sick of these games. Loving the long hair 😻

[@mysticuniverse26]

the hardest thing I had to learn about selflove, is detaching myself and from everything that didnt resonate with my new self... that was painful but all worth it

[@Fretuska007]

Since the last time you spoke about the meaning we give to things my life has change so much. Thank you for that.

[@countcrow]

"... fix them so they will love me" ... bingo! That's the key! Thanks so much

[@MissP412]

The potential.....exactly of what could have been. I am so grateful I am seeing this right now.

[@radiantbird]

I’m struggling with this. Good message to listen to today. I have been holding on for far too long.

[@socalsays]

You all are much appreciated and very loved family

[@tarikafenner8620]

I really needed this. Although I initiated the break up, I immediately thought-what if he finds someone. Listening to this has given me the strength to let go of that. It won’t be easy, but it’s extremely necessary ❤️. Thank you

[@hassaninuwamuhammad9999]

He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship

[@hassaninuwamuhammad9999]

M e s s a g e h I m n o w

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[@dejavous_diaries]

I was the one who did the break up, but next day I wanted to talk, he refused, and now after two months, I really feel heartaches! Although I know he is not good for me.

[@ItsmeeTiTi]

You helped me I was crying before I started this video. I found some relief

[@alshavanattia8773]

Try to keep in mind when you're breaking up with something or someone that you're giving up energy that you've been around and essentially what you are doing is closing one door so another door can be eventually opened because that is how energy works sometimes because we all have our own energy everybody is different and has different paths in life !

[@yokyikkkkjtiijjtiknfujjbh5078]

We were about to get married and I found out Im cheated after all we planned and dreamed you made it so much easier for me thank you it was so painful

[@dr.ishitamandal950]

Same story here

[@dant3113]

Sorry to hear that. But that was the best thing that could have happened. It's a blessing in disguise trust me

[@bellaanthony464]

My meaning was that I could help my “SP” to be the best he can be, I want to help him and I want to share all my insight because I love him so much that I want him to be happy too, but with me and be by each other’s side and go through our lives together. But now that I know what true love is, I let him go and set the intention of him to embody that regardless of being with me or not. I let him go to free him and myself, with no attachments or outcomes!

[@sawyerfarrell4594]

I have watched every video you have on letting go and I still cannot let go of my ex. I’ve been blocked on everything and it just sucks. I feel like this is just God giving me what he knows I need to learn

[@zoenavarro9131]

It’s all good bro I’ll be praying for you. Sorry to hear that. Maybe it’s all a learning lesson

[@victoriordaah6560]

Hope you're in a better place now.

[@SamHolland]

COME ONNNNN! Thanks so much Aaron :)

[@TeamForwood]

Weight just lifted off my shoulders as I was watching this

[@dalelemac3394]

I find myself struggling about a person I’ve held onto for 20 years. Through a channeling i found out she had passed away. A part of me is asking for physical evidence, I’ve messaged her and no response came in yet. I guess it would be best to let it go, since it is draining my energies

[@pw519]

very interesting !

[@jeaninea820]

this came at the perfect time. thank you so much much love and light ✨

[@sahilssscarface]

Bro fuc, you probably wont see this comment but THANK YOU WITH ALL MY HEART, those words I wanted to hear from a long time. My heart hasnt been this calm in months THANK YOU

[@Itsgoodtobehere95]

Great video. Please make one about us (me) being the toxic one and letting go of the guilt and forgiving myself for it rather than the other person being the “bad guy”

[@nik1128]

There's something so appealing about you, Aaron. Like you just have such good energy. I especially like listening to your meditations on spotify, they have really helped me.

[@montsefiguera4619]

Honoring both the feminine and the masculine within yourself will make you whole and attractive/ attracted to a person that is also whole 💓

[@hassaninuwamuhammad9999]

He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship

[@hassaninuwamuhammad9999]

M e s s a g e h I m n o w

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[@pla4825]

I’m going through this now had to let go of a friend who was being toxic and just draining my energy constantly talking bad about other people and looking forward to someone down fall due to jealousy

[@junaidmir3888]

Move on love yourself like u did to that person i swear if we love ourselves like we loved someone who don’t deserve seriously we will archive and be happy if we love ourselves like that

[@L91-r5b]

This is true. We want relationships usually out of needs and when we are content with ourselves then we don't care who come and go.

[@CaseyRyan]

I can't tell you how deeply this resonated. Specifically in relation to the childhood dynamics with my mother, and thus translating that into adult intimate relationships that I always felt that I had to prove myself. Or fix them. Or show them that I was worthy. It bred years of dysfunctional love and the belie that was inadequate; which in turn led to me closing myself off and refusing to be truly vulnerable.

[@barbaracevasco]

You have just saved me a year of therapy ❤

[@xyzxyz777-b1s]

Aaron since you moved to Sedona your videos have become super powerful! Holy cow! I can't stop watching and is highly resonating with my soul deeply. Namaste

[@MagicTurskimusic]

I feel like I kinda manifested this video from You Aaron. Thank you so much for sharing all of this! It is really helpful and very meaningful. I recently broke up with weed as well, after watching your videos on weed vibration, but I also feel that there are people in my life that bring me down and sometimes just the feeling of letting go of them makes me feel anxious, but your videos and listening to you are very comforting and supportive in a sense that I don't feel like I am crazy, because I want to do what is best for me. I am so grateful for all of your videos, because they have been changing my life ever since I started watching your channel. It's been amazing journey. You help me to understand myself much more, and start questioning my beliefs that I have not consciously chosen. Every video you make feels like chilling with you and listening to a "good friend's advice". I wish you all the best Aaron and once again thank you for all the effort you put into helping me and your community. THANK YOU.

[@14720509]

Your early childhood attachments will dictate how your future adult relationships play out. It doesn't mean you will always have those attachment styles. Life happens ad experience can sometimes change those attachments. Aaron is on point about the vibrational energy and how we attract like minded vibrational people. Ever wonder why some people always attract toxic people and wonder why? Check your attachment and vibrations. Focus on you and change your vibration or you will keep attracting the same people and circumstances.

[@almaa1877]

You just made me ball my eyes out at 3 something in the morning, thank you so much for everything you do. This video helped me a lot thank you for explaining to me that I am worthy. And there’s nothing wrong with me. All my life I’ve been made feel worthless by family and people who’ve claimed to care or love me. I’ve been depressed since I was 10. Went thorough childhood abuse and neglect so it’s tough, cut off everyone so now I’m alone. I wanna get close to people but I can’t trust them anymore I’m too afraid bc when I’ve let people in they use me or hurt me. so it gets lonely but you gave me hope a little thank you 💙

[@sawyerfarrell4594]

Crazy timing. I’m going through hell right now for screwing my ex over so badly

[@karenortega2046]

I came to the realization a few days ago that i created a childhood dynamic with a man , his mother and adult daughter. Its crazy how this is playing . Opened up YT there is this video. ❤ it feels like such a loss because it feels familiar as in the dynamics represented my family so long ago. Sibling abuse, unavailable mother, loving father with anger issues, the golden child brother. I have i think CPTSD. I think you hot the nail so many times in this video for me personally. This man and his family were enablers, emotionally abusive and no one said a word. I was not heard, seen or felt in this relationship. Just like my childhood. I was a daddy’s girl but he worked nights for years and did not see him as much as I wished. Many great memories with him living on a farm back then. He was scary at times too. Doing one of your meditations every morning it is really healing Letting go of past memories one at a time. I am raosing three grandchildren alone he was supposed to help but his personality disorder became very real to me when i couldn’t take it anymore and started researching. Gaslighting was huge with him and now I have removed myself from his grasp. A car and dogs are my only ties to him now. I cant afford the insurance and i would have to go to civil court to make him release the car that is in both our names. Im scared but strong…❤

[@samanthadawnNz]

Makes a lot of sense, thank you I feel a shift from this!

[@nesharjones251]

So true I am moving on with my life and those who are going through hard times be strong for yourself and your family

[@NancyRuthDeenBreakupCoach]

Yesss! As a conscious breakup coach I am all about attachment styles and investigating the meanings we give to the actions of our exes and how it reflects what we learned or were modeled in childhood!

[@shjh798]

I used to smoke weed a lot myself. I stopped because I didn't like the way it made my brain and body feel asleep. I turned to cactus (mescaline) as it was more mind-awake inducing and heart opening. It made me deal with people better, I could talk to any one. It is really beautiful, mescaline. You go on super deep and inner journeys in the mind and soul. I feel like you might like San Pedro or Peyote, Aaron :)

[@kgj626]

I'm IN!! So excited!!

[@JessicaNora]

Thank you for this video! I’m glad that you mentioned that people can “breakup” with friends and other things too. I’m going through a process of letting go of my old identity and the meaning of that. My Dog just passed away and that has been my identity for the last 18 years, I’m having trouble letting go of the meaning of being a dog mom. Even my friends are having trouble letting go of this image of me. My best friend today mentioned that her apartment is pet friendly and then immediately stopped because she realized that no longer have a pet. This is going to be a whole new identity for me and it’s hard to let go of the meaning of being a pet owner. This video is helping me to reframe my identity after this loss. Thank you for making it!

[@hassaninuwamuhammad9999]

He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship

[@hassaninuwamuhammad9999]

M e s s a g e h I m n o w

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[@thespiritualmetamorphosis2676]

The timing is insane ! I just broke up with my TF 2 days ago 😂😂 I love the universe ❤️✨

[@christina2023]

Do you think it is possible to get back together with someone from a past relationship when both really had their "break up"? Like, when both sides REALLY have let go of the meaning and both sides don't feel a need to be with each other. There is just a new attraction because both people moved on and changed their vibration and it fits again, on a totally different level. Do you think this works out?

[@rhythmicelegance4670]

I know of people in that situation right now, very much in love like never before with anyone else, but it arrived at an impasse then a recent dissolution of contact because during the time they were apart, one of them had gotten married (to the wrong person according to them, but it still is what it is at the moment), and the relationship could not go further than friendship (if were to develop in a healthy non-toxic way). It was too difficult to remain on the fringes of each other’s lives instead of all-in. Edited to add detail.

[@lightraveler333]

It's sooo funny how many of my favorite channels are simultaneously talking about letting go/release in newest uploads. I've just experienced an extremely painful nasty break up, I've been completely distraught just beyond words. I've never hurt not physically or mentally so terribly in my life. I know it's not a coincidence that I'm seeing these uploads It's desperately needed! Thank you!!🙂💜

[@hassaninuwamuhammad9999]

He is the best when it comes to recovery relationship

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M e s s a g e h I m n o w

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[@amyk8488]

That relationship and childhood stuff sounds like how I feel now. this is a great video thank you.

[@tearlessonions1488]

I like your energy. Shadow work coach never heard of that one before. Interesting.

[@ladyj8878]

Whoa. New realization about the whys for multiple choices. It wasn't what I had thought. "...leave your post/light a match/burn the ship/never look back/..step into a new day.."

[@craigslaunwhite579]

This may also be useful for a person that has passed away. Thats where I have a struggle. My partner passed away on my Birthday in 2017. I'm still putting efforts in to letting go and living in the now.

[@christineduck6718]

SOMEONE ELSE'S HAPPINESSES AND WELL-BEING OR NOT, PER THEIR CHOICE, ISN'T ANYONE ELSE'S RESPONSIBILITY BUT THEIRS!!

[@marydellgeorge2425]

I love your honesty You put things Into great Perspective 😊❤

[@wendyaskew5593]

Your voice, your energy, YOU.. are so therapeutic for me… thank you Aaron🙏🏼❤️‍🩹blessings

[@truditrulove]

aaron you’re so funny!!! your animated facial expressions & how you’ve turned your pain into power & profit have given me hope & happiness during the most difficult time of my life, on this twin flame journey. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! i appreciate you more than words can express. namasté❤️💛💚

[@teresaz7152]

Such a great message. Right on point and right on time. Thank you💝💝💝

[@baileyb8619]

Aaron, you are incredible. This is pure gold.

[@AgapeLove878]

Next level Accept the story Embrace the meaning Acknowledge and value all that was. Acceptance and acknowledging and valuing all that was. Not all that have a hard time breaking up or letting go are dealing with shame. You don't even have to let go of the" meaning ". In fact I would say it's better to lean in to the meaning to be able to find peace with that meaning. You don't want to " replace " the meaning with another person. That is a product of repeating cycles. Each relationship has it's own meaning. You cannot just erase it. Letting go and non attachment are 2 different things. You can lean in and validate meaning and cultivate greater non attachment. When you keep beating yourself up for shame and not being able to let go ... The cycle is perpetual. In this approach of LEANING IN you will mourn , you will feel sadness , you will feel loss , you will feel hurt , you will feel anger, you will feel abandoned and lonely and ALL the feelings that come with that lesson. LEAN IN. Don't try to throw then off. Cry scream , write letters , vent. Allow. And then observe. LEAN IN. Break ups hurt and they are complex and messy or can be. And sometimes it messes you up for a bit. And when you accept that it's all OK. No way that you are feeling is wrong. And if there are root causes or affinities to attractions that you have , they will reveal themselves as you LEAN IN. Do not try and replace a person ... Process all that emerged snd transpired of the person whom challenged you ... In any way that comes up for you. Yes discover root childhood causes and then take ownership of real life adult COMMON expiereneces. Sometimes these things are not connected. Sometimes it's just humans being messy. Sometimes people are so good at letting go ... They just drop others for selfish reasons. it's ok to really be hurt by that without making it about some hidden childhood shame ... You know. Sometimes ... It's them. If you LEAN IN ALL of it will reveal itself to you. Joy Full Journey

[@AgapeLove878]

Another thing is depending on how deeply you were integrated into that connection , it will take longer to untangle. It's just how it is. So say I have done a lot of self work ... And I meet someone and I'm ready ... I'm ready to jump in. This other person not quite there but loving the energy ... jumps in ... Then gets scared and leaves and time has gone by and deep connecting has occurred ... The entanglement that sex creates ...you cannot just avoid that ... If you can ... To a degree then you are not really in ... And realizing that .... That person was not really that in ... Is painful ... No matter how you slice it ... But you can choose to focus on your ability to be fully in ... That is a skill ... Trying to learn to be more detached ... So that you don't get hurt .... Robs you of the gift of being all in. Discernment comes and you learn to recognize the signs of people who are letting go expiereneced. That is their way of keeping from being hurt. They keep you at a distance and then seem to let you go ... So easily. It is not really a skill you want. They also lose out on genuine all in ness bliss. Chemistry at the beginning is only a smidge of all in bliss. So there is a cost. People who feel deeply ... Are deeply affected by endings of relationships ... Have a gift... We do have to untangle things in our lives... Sure. But just trying to detach from feelings ... Keeps cycles rolling.

[@CrystleSky]

Thank you for a great video and sharing your love with all of us. 🐎💛🐎💛💛💛

[@Aphrodite004]

Ah I love you! You’re the best Aaron! Keep doing what you’re doing.. you’re helping so much more than you know

[@JannaBailey-elegace-of-the-few]

I don't want to let go. I'm trying to manifest healing

[@jolandina]

WHOAHHHH🤯 So grateful that Source guided me 222 you 🙏🏽. I’m going through the same exact dilemma that you went through with your past partner. I just wanna thank you for affirming 222 me that I WILL find another person that is as complex and “deep” of a person that I am :))) blessings 222 you my friend 💕.

[@lakeishagilchrist3885]

This is so good dropping a lot gems in this video!

[@Ellechemy]

I’m in!! See you soon

[@lornahaynes7886]

Blessings ❤️😊 l am working every day on changing my perception of love ❤️🙏 it's a lifetime of learning for me...

[@_.WildMoonChild]

I love being a part of the HighVibe Tribe! It is such a warm and loving place! ❤ I also can't wait for the challenge to start!!!!! 😁

[@lovespacemeditationandtarot11]

thank you for your videos! I have to remind myself of these concepts almost daily as I recover from a break-up... even though I initiated it it still feels so difficult to overcome!!

[@millazilla3811]

U literally are amazing. I listen to u every day and u really slap on the right perspective. THANK U

[@Katel0u_x]

Such a powerful message. really resonated, thank you

[@samanthasullivan3090]

The universe sent this video to me today . thank you .