6 rules to heal your broken heart 💔 after a breakup

[@BarbaraLinton-k1c]

Cool video, My relationship of 6 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

[@AntjeMoench]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@BarbaraLinton-k1c]

amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him

[@AntjeMoench]

His name is fatherabulu, and him is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...

[@BarbaraLinton-k1c]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive

[@josealfredfernandes]

1. Stop endless question loop 1:15 2. Reasons asking questions, fantasies, trying to create a false sense of connection (break the false connection) 2:45 3. Memories, feelings, questions, stop it all to save yourself, move on 5:49 4. Emotions like sadness, grief, anger etc, don't supress at beginning.. let it all out.. 8:26 5. Start with small things (eat properly, sleep properly, take care of your most essential basic needs, get new friends, pet, do activities, find healthy relationship, etc) 10:53 6. End of process, once you feel better, start focusing on goal.. gym, plan, goal, meaning working on that, project, small business etc 12:09

[@Katie8ginny]

Broke up 8 months ago.still hurts. Someday it will be better and I’ll be over it

[@katarauchiha7332]

You are worth and you deserve being loved and supported, keep that in mind always, and I am sure you will heal and raise your energy. You are not alone

[@Katie8ginny]

@@katarauchiha7332 ❤️❤️

[@arkokarmakar3596]

Working on yourself is the best way I think.. being there for yourself.. Be your own protector.

[@marklee331]

i hope you are doing fine now

[@KALYANEY_AOM]

😢 mine is almost 2 years already

[@daniwanicki]

These are great tips. What helped me process breakups is walking on nature trails. I make sure to not listen to music so I can be with my thoughts. I've also used the emotional charge from breakups to fuel my workouts, setting new goals like beating a speed record for each mile jogging. The idea is to leverage that emotional charge towards a goal, otherwise it can destroy you. It's kinda like surfing, you either ride the wave or it pulls you under.

[@sinnombre3594]

Beautiful analogy

[@rohitsancheti96]

Waves analogy was a home run

[@monicamonica5924]

imagine that person doesn't exist, just doesn't exist in this world, and watch how you feel? Thank you Francesca, as always good video

[@brittanysmith3716]

That makes me feel depressed, but that could be because of the stage of grief I’m in

[@brianhornak5937]

​@@brittanysmith3716I'm so sorry 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@skromnyasha]

I feel like I have no reason to live because there is no one that I would feel comfortable with, thanks

[@fabiob.7070]

Hi Francesca, thanks for the vid. There's a way I learned during my cognitive-behavioral therapy to stop the infinite question loop, it's to write on a sheet of paper every question and answer and the questions the first question brings until you're totally tired of writing, this will clear your mind, and it works!

[@peterspadafora6717]

Thanks Francesca yes men suffer from a broken heart . We trying to keep it hidden. Also a broken heart can be a death of a llove one

[@aryseuphony9991]

Omg...one of the best videos on 'how to move on after break up'.. I am going through a similar process that you just described! Thanks a ton dear ❤

[@subashparajuli2135]

Choose right words to describe events in your life. It is your illusion that breaks, not your heart.

[@AfolabiAdebajo]

Yes, working on goals creates a diversion from the heartbreak hurts

[@malwaysfine]

Thank you. I am grateful to be a subscriber of this channel. Lovely lady and ofcourse you distract me in a good way always! Stay happy and keep smiling.

[@roopeshkumar2335]

Thank you Francesca for this video, it came at a perfect time for me.

[@Dino-fl2cv]

Thats what I needed. Ure and Angel. Thank you ❤

[@funnytv-1631]

There is a way to break free from burnout’s disengagement. It requires stepping outside the cycle of work that does not provide motivation and finding it from another source. The fact is, you are important. You are surely as important as all that you tend to. If daily tasks do not feed you right now, get your nourishment from those things that are most beloved to you. Be kind to yourself. Don’t forget to have beauty in your life. You are worth it.

[@JaffaCakes-c7d]

Thankyou for this. I'm still hurt from being cheated on and wake up everyday with anxiety and depression. Could you give me some tips to do other than cleaning the house? I go for walks in the evening but still don't feel good once I get home 😢

[@ashch4811]

Thanks for your explanation, your tips makes me feel better, u know loves come with emotion and goes with pain, like bread and knife, the first time that I remembered to fell in love a girl and after break up, I wasn't myself almost a year, now I'm just falling in love with someone that doesn't care about to give me a msg but thus feeling that you mentioned are exactly going happen to me, it's eating me from inner without someone notice, your words make me calm, god bless u 🙏

[@ShiftDrift-kh6wb]

This really helped me. I'll try to watch it every time I feel down

[@elsajavinez]

Thank you so much Francesa for this video it's very helpful,I'm so broken hearted right now,By the grace of Almighty God I can moving on maybe not now but someday I will.

[@Theone-ou2xt]

Once a person have accepted that the relation has ended then moving on and returning to previous level of happiness can happen faster if the person is willing to focus on health and do the things she said in the video but sometimes in some cases that false hope is so strong that the person doesn't let go , it keeps their suffering alive in many cases. Parents should take test before having kids if they are psychologically ok to be parents because most of the times times the extreme fear which a person feels sensing the end of a love relationship is due to mistakes of their first caregivers like fighting Infront of kids etc etc .

[@sundance222]

Ok. This has helped me like nothing else. Been kinda stuck without proper help. This affirms things I know plus since I feel like rock bottom, this gives me a game plan better than a close friend. Thanks a lot❤💙

[@alexanderalzate8560]

how are you now my friend?

[@tamiajanica4406]

Watching this while crying over a breakup. I know i will be okay soon. Thanks for this!

[@virginiemazy7054]

I hope that you feel better now 🤗

[@christinakosma4988]

Very very helpfull !!!! Thank you soooo much!!!!!❤

[@ankitahahaha]

This women changed me for good

[@CitiesOfAsh]

Every woman ive dealt with has changed me for the worse.

[@gregglockhart9551]

Thank you Francesca! That was very helpful!

[@159lekamgel.r.r4]

Thank you Francesca. This is so valuable

[@neverdenyChrist]

It was very helpful. I couldn't breathe before I watched this

[@doddsy900]

You are very helpful. Thank you.

[@annegreen8214]

Thank you Francesca for your very basic advice. But that’s all about this. Keep it simple when going through a very painful time. Simple! At least try to keep it simple and run down your overexcited system. Most important. Thank you again 🙏

[@cmbbfan78]

Very good advices! ❤️

[@rando9820]

so fucking helpful!!! i wish i had this during my first break up, but grateful i have it for my second.

[@buhaybisdakinabudhabi]

Thank you I really need it this time 💔

[@Yellowlabratory]

I really like your expressions and your voice. Your presentation of your information is always stellar

[@thelilflo]

Hi Francesca ❤ I really enjoy watching your content, it’s really helpful 😊 I would like to ask if you can please make a video with some tips for the high sensitive people, and how to overcome the intrusive thoughts during the day ❤

[@flightydancer]

great insights and wisdom. thank you!

[@FreeGuitarSecrets-RG]

If I have a guitar... And 4 decades... Easy mija... Tis' all I need... How smart and beautiful!

[@xenoxia8326]

Just recently went through a breakup with whom I consider as my greatest love. It hurts and I really don't want to love anyone anymore. I'll try hard to apply the learnings I received in this video. Will get back to this once I'm fully healed.

[@alexanderalzate8560]

ill wait for you. we can do this, you can do this. i believe in you. we'll get through this ☝️

[@alexanderalzate8560]

we have our heartbroken the same time very very fresh.. ill wait for you.. we can do this. ☝️

[@JuliusAu-ff4ip]

Healed?

[@jessicalong6011]

Very helpful. Thank you ❤

[@Praaaise]

Hi Francesca, thank you so much, i’m 6 months nearly into a breakup, i was left by someone i never i wanted everything with, we lived together and her family was like mine so i pretty much lost like 10 people along with her, we haven’t spoke in 5 months now, i keep feeling so lost and sad and they come in waves but i constantly think about her still and miss her & just want to have a chat but i know we can’t its the worst feeling, i know with time i will naturally be okay but its so hard with the trauma to ever give so much to a girl again, we broke up nicely and left it on good terms but i was a mess and was so emotional that she ended up never replying to me, i wish her the best and she’s a great person i just feel like i lost the love of my life and i was a good boyfriend and would of done anything for her, just so hard but thank you for the video 😊

[@JuliusAu-ff4ip]

dude. You didn't lose her. She lost you and the things you would have given to her

[@JuliusAu-ff4ip]

This video did help me and I am going through some of it. I keep telling myself something which is true and that is I didn't lose her, she lost me and all then things I could have given her. She'll be looking for me in her next person but I won't be there.

[@winstondsouza3177]

Hey Francy ... been watching your videos past weeks ... u r cuuute nd seen to hav a great Insight! ... , its very rare to find Beauty with Brains! ... keep it up 😃👍

[@veronicac3562]

I can't get past the second step. I'm trying so hard. But it's so hard.

[@ArtMusicLife15]

How do you feel now? Did you feel hopeless when you wrote this, but now you're (hopefully) better?

[@ArtByOreo]

I wish they see this and reply

[@quinnkiwalabye7187]

Her advise really worked for me

[@alexanderalzate8560]

im happy for you. soon i will be healed completely.

[@monikanimje5635]

Thankyou for your videos, Francesca can you make a video about guilt and mistakes?

[@alessadolan5718]

I broke up with my situationship almost 5 months ago, and i still feel so broken and i miss him everyday. I can’t wait to get over him 😭

[@alexanderalzate8560]

how are now? i hope youre at a much better place now..

[@alexanderalzate8560]

how are now? i hope youre at a much better place now..

[@ectasy5394]

It looks very helpful gonna try ❤😢

[@marsfab3979]

Thank you ❤

[@Yellowlabratory]

My heart was broken. I’ve been alone for 5 years

[@monicamonica5924]

❤

[@JaffaCakes-c7d]

Me too. I'm 35 years old and have been alone for nearly my whole life. Every time I meet someone they end up hurting me so bad. I'm constantly having to heal from emotional wounds. It feels like a never ending cycle 😢

[@alexanderalzate8560]

someday youll find someone. dont lose hope. just ask God he is always there no matter what. we will be okay. our hearts will heal one day.

[@brianhornak5937]

Thank you 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@boolkid4098]

when she said "u promise the sad goes away" 2years later........idk how much longer

[@irfanqaisar5591]

Thank you lady. You are so nice. But its not such easy. Its lonliness.

[@Jasmin-gt5lu]

Best video so far. Thanks for the good tips ❤️

[@katarauchiha7332]

Fell in love with my friend, that is taken, and I really fell some connection between us.. A month ago I confessed to him, and he confessed that he liked me first time when we met, but he js afraid to start relationship with me, if it won't work, he would think to cheat, and he would feel as the biggest sh*t if so. So I continued to communicate with him, and it was really nice feeling, till I realized than I am the only one who changed towards him, and he stayed the same. He is still in the relationship with his girl friend, and I never understood why did he continue to be my friend if it is right to say... we had nothing, nor kiss or anything like that as I would never be someone's second option.. it is hard to explain how I feel right now

[@qj2003fall]

@katarauchiha7332 I would not be his friend or will keep my distance since he’s already taken. Imagine how sad his girlfriend is not knowing you are always there waiting. It’s scary.

[@saikanusrat5864]

Can you make a video on Disorganized attachment style? and how to heal disorganized attachment style to Secure attachment style? please?

[@McKelT]

YOU ARE FREAKING AMAZING 😫

[@luzvez]

Is everyone getting broken up this month? Lol

[@pallaviverma2505]

I guess

[@monicamonica5924]

Yes 🥸

[@jennabelanger1892]

Yep

[@KALYANEY_AOM]

😢 I still miss my ex

[@suryanshshukla0777]

Apparently yes

[@pranavwani]

Thanks!

[@don-ent8272]

Thank you. i need this now 😢

[@alexanderalzate8560]

you will be better, you can do this. i believe in you. feelings come and go. we will not feel the same forever. i dont know if this helps but i love you, we all love you. our hearts will heal just trust in God that hes always on our side no matter what.

[@ΒασιληςΑλλος]

You are the best

[@gusso.leonardo]

Thank you 🫶🏼

[@LauraPaglari]

Long Distance....😢 I had to go...I didn't want to but , my soul was lost.

[@JuliusAu-ff4ip]

Yea my ex broke it off becasue of LDR. It sucks

[@jcpolititalk378]

This was fantastic

[@jessklay8594]

Great advice

[@yunsemree]

sahiden epey düzgün ve inci gibi dişlere sahipsiniz.

[@Martha34554]

Creative thumbnail ❤

[@ketakideshmukh4430]

Love this ❤

[@harini_ssri]

❤awesome video

[@candymasesane7785]

Thank you

[@slyyneha9254]

i love this video sm and youre really pretty ^^

[@microstar81]

Great video

[@alexanderalzate8560]

i hope and pray that ill get over this sooner.. God will get me through this very hard and dark part of my life.. Feeling come and go, i cant be sad forever. i love you all guys, ill pray for us all. we can do this. God will help us. ☝️

[@deerlow1851]

how are you?

[@sonali.dfernando7603]

Much love❤

[@owenclay8230]

Over a year since the love of my life left me. I'm still suffering, my heart aches every minute of every day! Why is it taking this long?! I want the pain to stop. I don't want to love her anymore

[@Goal_Zone10]

give us some book recommendations please

[@RosemarieSadimsandilantan]

Silent quitting 3months ago. We just ghosted each other and assumed that we broke up. It hurts to be abandoned and never spoken 🥺

[@qj2003fall]

I will speak about it for closure if I were you.

[@amitbhojwani2675]

Very helpful

[@mina8XO]

Visualizing myself take care of the little girl version of me made my cry my eyes out omgooodness

[@saraiallure8713]

This is very good information

[@mwahha6965]

still stuck on the first step, because he can’t communicate clearly for months

[@KensWorld]

I usually eat dark chocolate to heal my heart

[@yunsemree]

😢😢😢

[@alexanderalzate8560]

how are you now my friend? its been 10 months, i hope that youre completely healed now.

[@Wookinpanub235]

I guess the same could be applied after losing a spouse to cancer?

[@nyxecyrim]

We will be alright guys

[@TheExistenceClass0]

Hope in reality is Opium

[@TheExistenceClass0]

We Have To Do Something To be alright ! Which is not right ! Not Wrong Either !

[@TheExistenceClass0]

I don't know if you are saying this to others or yourself ? Hh don't worry Cuz, "Everything Matters But Nothing is Important " Why Bother or Worry About It Then ?

[@TheExistenceClass0]

Regretting ur Decisions? Hh which means adding to the first act of Stupidity a second

[@TheExistenceClass0]

Everything matters I know But Nothing Really is That Important

[@JaffaCakes-c7d]

I feel sick from being cheated on. I have really bad anxiety and depression every day. I don't know if I will ever get over it 😢

[@JaffaCakes-c7d]

@@alexanderalzate8560 it's okay. You'll be okay. In time you will find someone better too!

[@alexanderalzate8560]

thank you so much. every little kind words helps me. i do believe ill be okay. not now, but in time i will heal. theres no storm that lasts a hundred years, after the storm, the sun will shine. how are you now my friend? i hope youre in a much better place now.

[@JaffaCakes-c7d]

@@alexanderalzate8560 thankgoodness I am, after 3 months I feel better. I'm surprised that it took that quick because usually it takes me much longer to get over emotional pain. But I think it's because I went to my place of worship and prayed in peace so it really helped.

[@陈秀蓉-b6g]

I can't help thinking if my decision was the real trigger for him to end the relationship all of a sudden. That's the reason why I enter the vicious question loop time and time again. I think that maybe it was all my fault due to my decision, my complaining my insecurity.

[@qj2003fall]

Just ask him

[@radheradhejayshreekrushna2517]

💯 🙏

[@user-vw1qp2vr2u]

7. Forgive yourself .

[@ericmensah6402]

There's is lady i'm crushing on we've been friends for a year and she know i love her we talk almost all the time she shows her affection towards you but the end of the day she tells you she doesn't have romantic feelings for me but always want to be with me and it really hurt when she tells me she's has no feelings for me but her action is the opposite. What should i do?

[@nataliadtut]

Run from her. She’ll break your heart.

[@JaffaCakes-c7d]

Maybe use some of the tips from the video to implement in regards to her not wanting you in return. Maybe try to seek someone else who may want you and you will feel better that you eventually moved on? I know how you feel too, but back into the day when I went through this there wasn't youtube to help me

[@painbil]

beautiful eyes

[@arvindjindal111]

After breakup she is still with me on Instagram and WhatsApp what should i do ? Should i remove her after talking with her or not? if yes/No why ? Could you tell!

[@arvindjindal111]

Hey?

[@Blushdoll5]

@@arvindjindal111talk to her

[@the_masked_pianist]

Where to dm herr... I wanna have a session

[@JacquiQ]

💥💛

[@TheExistenceClass0]

No One Has Clicked On Video More Fast Than Me Reading The Thumbnail

[@MariaFlores-yx3ke]

❤❤❤

[@tess9481]

What about no one understands you at that moment, instead they’re judging…

[@TheExistenceClass0]

Wow ! I understand Your This Statement Because I've Been Saying Something similar thats Why I Prefer being Alone and Talk With Myself ! Me and I have Deep Conversations With Each other

[@latoshaadams3828]

I hate when people say get over it

[@SS-in1ts]

❤

[@Theone-ou2xt]

😭😭😭😭😭😭4:08

[@i_like_to_move_it_move_it]

9 months...still awful pain everyday

[@alexanderalzate8560]

😢😢😢 mine is 3 months. i give up everyday. i cant handle the pain at all. i pray non stop. i cry non stop. i dont know how am i going to survive this.. i pray for your healing 😢

[@i_like_to_move_it_move_it]

@@alexanderalzate8560 11 months now. I got a lot better mindset. Then small events trigger me back into the pain cycle. But hope never stops that ill one day meet someone better.

[@alexanderalzate8560]

ill pray for you.. we can do this.. we have to. i hope and pray that well overcome this very dark part of our life.. ☝️

[@alexanderalzate8560]

dont hope for someone to come to your life, otherwise you will never really be free from the pain my friend.. you can do it alone, only you. dont cling to the idea that you need someone to heal you.. we have to let go.

[@JuliusAu-ff4ip]

Whenever I have a memory of her pop up in my head, I immediately imagine a door in front of it and turn off the lights in my head. It takes training to have it on auto but it works for me

[@RamonRomero-s9p]

Here

[@aiin07]

No voice 😕

[@josealfredfernandes]

1. Stop endless question loop 1:15 2. Reasons asking questions, fantasies, trying to create a false sense of connection (break the false connection) 2:45 3. Memories, feelings, questions, stop it all to save yourself, move on 5:49 4. Emotions like sadness, grief, anger etc, don't supress at beginning.. let it all out.. 8:26 5. Start with small things (eat properly, sleep properly, take care of your most essential basic needs, get new friends, pet, do activities, find healthy relationship, etc) 10:53 6. End of process, once you feel better, start focusing on goal.. gym, plan, goal, meaning working on that, project, small business etc 12:09

[@josealfredfernandes]

Here to help

[@ModifyGame]

Im not broken heart :)

[@urielbp2756]

I'm the kind of person that is six months hahahah

[@JaffaCakes-c7d]

It takes me a year to get over being hurt by anyone anywhere 😢

[@alexanderalzate8560]

​@@JaffaCakes-c7da year? im only 3 months now 😢😢 does it get better as time goes by? or the pain is the same all through out?

[@JaffaCakes-c7d]

@@alexanderalzate8560 I can honestly say that it does get better as time goes by for sure. I've been through this a few times in life, so sadly have repititive experience lol. You will honestly get through it quicker once you train your mind to not think of them at all and focus on something more worthwhile instead.

[@alexanderalzate8560]

@@JaffaCakes-c7d thank you so much ♥️🙏 this will help me a lot from getting over.. im in so much pain right now. i hope and pray that ill be completely healed in a year ( feb 2025 ) i think im only on step 2 in this video but i will definitely get thru all of it with God's help.. im glad that you gotten past that dark times of your life im happy for you.. thank you so much..

[@alexanderalzate8560]

@@JaffaCakes-c7d thank you so much 🙏🙏♥️ i hope and pray that ill get over this very dark time of my life sooner than later. i know theres no short cut to this. may God be with me and light my path until the end.. im glad that youve overcome this, im happy for you brother ♥️☝️