The Video of 4 Women Being Beaten In Public That Sent China Into A Frenzy

[@PoppyUr]

This is exactly why it’s not as easy to “just say no.” Thanks for covering this, Stephanie. It’s terrifying that there are people out there that are so quick to violence.

[@PoppyUr]

@@technobladeliveon7363 I never go out at night alone, even as a teenager. There’s just too many risks, especially since I live in a secluded area. It’s sad that this is the reality of how women can be safe, but even then it can still be a risk.

[@faeezapatel4599]

As a girl even walking around during daytime i still feel paranoid. Not all males are violent and not all girls are innocent

[@PoppyUr]

@@faeezapatel4599 Your comment sums it up perfectly. It’s so hard to know what someone is capable of.

[@kirasun1982]

Actually this new was a big deal at that time, the restauranteur posted the video on the social media, and almost all the Chinese people know this case. the guys who assaulted the girls was gangster and they do some illegal business and at last they all Sentenced. At that time, they was drunk and they were really fu*k. cause china was fight crime and eliminate evil for more than 10 years. so this case was very sensational.

[@faeezapatel4599]

@@PoppyUr its actually scary not knowing what someone is capable of. You could just be walking and someone could be trailing you Just a reminder its always good to carry pepper spray with u And never ever get distracted when walking alone. Day or Night anything could happen

[@pvdm4684]

The 3rd girl who was throwing her body in front of her friends is a hero. The girls especially girl no. 1 running in the alleyway to save their friends are all heros.

[@roka745]

All 4 women were so incredibly brave. They ignored their own injuries to try and protect the others. I hope that all 4 are now safe and recovered.

[@pvdm4684]

@@roka745 they are all heros. This story brought/ brings me to tears everytime I think of it.

[@Humpor]

girl no1 saw green jacket guy coming back and taking another bottle and she just ran for "safety" to her friends. Alas

[@stumpedII]

their time would have been better spent getting a weapon.. or calling the police.. first thing you do is get help not join in and ensure there is no one to get help. also consider reporting a fire.. not a rape.. response would be quicker. and firemen prob give a crap more about citizens than police do.

[@stumpedII]

if you find a cave.. your friend goes in .. and collapses cus there was no o2 in the cave so you would rush in .. and die too? is that bravery or stupidity? wouldnt it be better to get help FIRST so your not the last dummy to run into the cave. Now it would be different .. if you had a gun.. or a huge knife.. or a baseball bat.. and had a chance in hell ( like having a forced air supply before you run in the cave). Being brave get you dead fast.. unless your being smart first. it is wrong to shame anyone into risking their life on very bad odds.. to the point of just throwing their life away. go interfere with one of the gangs in usa.. YOUR DEAD.. YOUR FAMILY IS DEAD.. etc... and if you want to blame someone.. blame your corrupt rotten govt.. for not making the country a safe place to live and thrive.

[@mkkrcb]

Girl 1 did everything correctly. Say no loud enought to let everyone around her know that attention wasnt wanted. And she still ended up a victim. My heart goes out to the victims of this situation, and to the girlfriend who bad tried to help. Thank you for covering this Stephanie.

[@ackerman7490]

yeah dude wtf im so scared now

[@mrosario1866]

These are friends for real . They had each other back .

[@sprikitik9719]

Coz disgusting men don't accept no

[@dd-em7hh]

No I think her saying no loudly, is what made them respond that way , Because not only did she say no but loudly embarrassing him in front of a bunch of people, No means No his ass was just embarrassed. and that's just crazy

[@tonywang4032]

@@ackerman7490 Then you are weak. A true man would never be scared of something like this. I'm so disappointed in you Levi. You have Ackerman blood running through your veins but you're afraid because you watched some girls getting beat up?

[@snakesilvanus]

girl number 3 is the true hero.. she kept throwing herself in front of GROWN MEN using her own body to shield her friends. its insane how those by standers couldn’t do anything, but all the girls collectively tried to protect each other but failed. it’s heartbreaking.

[@stephenwest6738]

Chinese men are not grown men.

[@stephenwest6738]

Look at this story...was there a single redeemable man? Men beating women, men doing nothing about it. None of this would fly in us

[@MiaEZ]

​@@stephenwest6738only bc Indigenous are rising in usa

[@RobertSmith-bs4hl]

The fact that you don't know a single man in your life that wouldn't at least try to do something shows you that you don't live in that culture..... You live in a culture where men do care and women get convicted and charged with less severe punishments for the same crimes as men. It's the opposite in America. You're always going to find those extreme cases in any country. But for the most part in the United States of America we do care about equality in fact we care so much that we make sure that people of color or female genders get benefits over straight white males. Your welcome. Did you know most women didn't even want the right to vote because they fear that that would make them eligible for the draft and it was straight white men that overrode the majority of women and gave them the right to vote without those consequences? Your welcome. Don't think like a victim. Love everybody. Buy a gun and stay safe. Get strapped or get clapped! Especially women.

[@LA-sf6ub]

​@@stephenwest6738You are truly delusional if you think this doesn't happen in the u.s. Especially in the black community.😑

[@Ara_Arasaka]

15:21 “he decides his anger is not over.” What a powerful and damning line. And you’re so spot on. He DECIDED to still keep going. He wasn’t a mindless animal. He CHOSE to do it.

[@worldwidefunnyguy]

15:12

[@bungeepete7393]

That's the thing, he's worse than animal because he is a human, with free will, choosing to act like this.

[@izamsyafieesyah5432]

They more like not even an animal..more lower

[@Riza-123]

Seeing all these situations is the reason why I want to go to the gym so badly and workout, just so that I can defend myself from anything like this.

[@tinatieken8840]

Animals never act like humans!

[@chongkiez]

There was a video of a woman afraid to share an elevator, alone at night, with a strange man. The lady was called a Karen and psycho for not wanting to be in that elevator alone with him. The dude was loud and swearing at her and still, people said she should've just let him go up with her alone in the elevator. Unbelievable how some people feel so privileged that they don't have to live in fear of the other sex. No one cared to think she grew up taught or lived with these kinds of fears in mind to not be alone in a confined space with a strange men at night.

[@tenwaystowearit]

People need to realize that being “polite” can cost you your life. If the elevator doors open and I don’t feel comfortable going in, I don’t care who gets offended or who’s feelings get hurt. I’m not going in it. If a person is walking toward me on the street and I get an uneasy feeling, I’m crossing the street. I don’t care who it offends. I work in law enforcement and I tell people this all the time. The days are gone of being so polite because you don’t want to offend anyone that you put your safety at risk.

[@RozettaVyper]

No one thought that maybe she may have been a victim of SA in an elevator or an enclosed space like a closet. Elevators are just closets that take you to places. SA does happen in elevators despite cameras being in them. People were also calling her racist because the guy she feared was a big black guy and she's an Asian woman.

[@inannavenus2768]

@Genevieve Dove All that holding the elevator up was dumb. If she was sooo scared, she could have got off. Not hold the door. She got out when the Caucasian woman entered, miss me with that scared crap.

[@thekalenichannel1812]

​@@inannavenus2768 better to be safe than sorry. Women don't owe politeness to strangers

[@inannavenus2768]

@The Kaleni Channel Then she should have exited the elevator, to be safe. She wasn't worried about her safety.

[@utena2]

The footage of the girl who tried going into the fight but was pulled away by her date nearly made me tear up because its like I can feel how frustrated and desperate she felt to help them. She had more bravery than every single man there.

[@soldierbreed]

The job of the men on the date was to protect the women they were with first and foremost.

[@slipslip9163]

​​​@@soldierbreed no, it was to be decent human beings and do SOMETHING. A job that the woman seemed to understand perfectly. The rest are failures

[@ashley-ek4kz]

@@soldierbreed could you lead me to where this is said or did u just make it up urself

[@McNugge.]

.... Bravery? More like stupidity. The reasons were noble but ffs..... Who'd let their gf off to fight solo against 4 big men? Idiocy at it's peak....

[@sajadiab4018]

i would have broken up with the boyfriend what kinda human are you to not help these women ! and let alone a man who is supposed to be stronger ! clearly women are stronger than men in this video

[@Laura24.9]

A man once tried to make me “go out with him”. Saying “no” was making him angry, he was about to get violent, but then he found out I was “taken”… I had to tell him I have a boyfriend for him to leave me alone. A woman’s “no” is not enough, but another man’s “claim” is.

[@daisymartinez4173]

Ik it’s sad that us as women have to say “oh I have a bf” to make our word enough

[@roundsdm]

& even that doesnt always work! But youre right a lot more men leave me alone after i tell them that.

[@kalyasaify]

dude this is sososo true! can't get overthe fact how messed up this is 😭

[@annakabradley5086]

This is powerful! Thank you for writing this.

[@ServiceUnavailable]

To some. Except my Dad and my son almost all men's behaviours disgust me

[@tenwaystowearit]

For years I was told that men are logical and women are emotional. But as I grew up I learned that it’s the exact opposite. Many men can’t even handle rejection. They take it so deeply and it’s weird. Sometimes even if the woman is married or in a relationship and she tells them, they can’t take it. Many can’t handle when a relationship ends also. They’re so emotional and the emotion they express a lot is anger.

[@HighLevelPlayer]

I don't think there are many women who take rejection any better. You simply don't see women losing it as often because women rarely make the first move in the open. The fact is that rejection is a big strike to anyone's ego.

[@kleeyourenemies2927]

​@@HighLevelPlayer yeah...but you don't beat someone up??? Like those men need to check for any sight of anger issue.

[@kuro_emiya]

yeah and instead women who get rejected lie and call the police to say that you SA them, put you in prison for 15 years and once he's in there for several years admit that you made it up and face no legal repercussions. yes this exact situation is something that does happen to tens of thousands of men every year. truly women are more logical and don't show a massive amount of emotion in situations like this right? fucking egotistical shit right here.

[@rjlee-cc4xy]

@@kuro_emiya Show me all the cases or stats that showcases this. Genuinely never heard of them and I can’t find a single article.

[@HighLevelPlayer]

@@kleeyourenemies2927 I believe that's only because they know they don't have a force advantage over the man. So when you multiply the low odds of: 1. a woman asking a man out directly, 2. the man rejecting her, and then 3. the woman thinking she could beat him, it seems like women would never have the temperament to attack a man for rejecting them. When really, if a woman retaliates, she will do it socially like spreading rumors he's gay or that he sexually assaulted her. Such women would absolutely attack the man if they only had the strength. The truth is that both need therapy.

[@mxsimone1097]

I got serious chills when the woman bystander who was on the double date tried to rush in and help. I also do think that the woman in the group who tried to protect her friends IS a hero.

[@annejia5382]

same

[@faeezapatel4599]

It kills me to know how heartless people can be I just dont understand what people get from doing this sort of things💔

[@jadibdraws]

Bruh honestly I dont think I could stay with a man like that. Just makes me think that if I faced any danger he would also runaway.

[@BeatvWILLIE]

What is the link to the full video

[@elisalin5577]

@@BeatvWILLIE kzbin.info/www/bejne/mauvZYOarNR0oLs

[@tlh0121]

My moms friends daughter rejected a guy while out celebrating her college graduation, and she ended up with one bullet in her back and one in the back of her neck that paralyzed her from the neck down. It’s unbelievably sad and insane that we have to fear the possible consequences of rejecting someone’s advances.

[@katya5573]

My friend says she’s HIV+ when someone approaches her.. it works better than a simple “No” sadly.

[@itsygolele]

​@@katya5573I tell people I practice celibacy... it works almost as well

[@t4kfamily735]

​@@katya5573whoah. I've never thought about that. I'm definitely gonna steal this and share it amongst my friends! I usually have a lanyard around my neck with my phone, car keys, pepper spray, and the sound alarm thing that is obnoxiously loud. And a taser that's easily reach on my driver car door. It's insane how much safety precaution we need to have just to feel safe 😢

[@huntmercury]

Oh my god that’s insane

[@bleehh]

​@@itsygoleleplease be careful. I'm pretty sure that helps with men who just want to get into your pants, but it could also be a motivation for the sick ones.

[@BBBear546]

The fact that none of these girls stopped trying to protect each other despite how badly they were already injured themselves is unbelievably selfless, beautiful and horrifying all at the same time. They are so incredibly strong and loving and loyal to eachother. My heart shatters for them. Even the girl that got dragged away felt a loyalty and need to try and help protect these girls that were complete strangers to her. That speaks volumes about her character. NOBODY, male or female, deserves this. It's insane that none of the men stepped in to protect these girls when its clear they would've jumped in to help protect them if the tables were turned. And people blaming the girls are insane. I hope all 4 of these incredibly courageous women are alive and safe. Physical injuries can be treated and hopefully healed but the emotional and psychological damage done will last a lifetime.

[@planetbb5519]

The girl that tried to help but was dragged away by her boyfriend is so brave.. I noticed how scared she was at first when the fight started but she couldn't hold back, she was about to risk her life unlike all those bystanders... Her guts deserve Respect👐

[@itsinesantonio]

Yes indeed👏

[@mutya5809]

only her have the guts to try to helps the girls why those bystandard men just watching like its normal for them

[@JasuminV]

@@mutya5809 for real they are not even real men their disgusting and should not even be counted as a life

[@jemlebeau]

Lol, every girl expecting the men to do something but at the same time expect gender equality. EVERYONE THERE SHOULD STEP UP NOT JUST THE MEN. Well, I guess it's gender equality ONLY when it's convenient for you girls right

[@imeaniguess.6963]

True, but it was still dumb. The guys should’ve did something her alone would’ve just easily been another victim.

[@jessicaji9096]

As a Chinese girl I remember this night so vividly. Every girl in my social circle was outraged and deeply saddened by the incident. You covered this case really well and thank you for raising awareness

[@CN-qt3jb]

i am so sad to hear this. was there justice for this case?

[@clos1393]

Where can I watch this video?

[@likhwezititus]

​@@clos1393 it's on youtube

[@clos1393]

@@likhwezititus Yeah, I looked it up. Horrible. The clip I saw said they were arrested. I want to I know what their punishment was.

[@mi4iku]

@@clos1393 they probably didn’t get heavily punished

[@kira_908]

I'm actually terrified how much gender-based violence against women is rising right now. I'm literally scared of things like this happening to me or my friends, family, and etc.

[@rainmarleya4851]

It isn’t rising rising right now It’s just that we have become more aware of it

[@danp7304]

Don't buy into the hype.. remember they run massage parlours in every country in the world, they legally traffic there woman to first world countries just for 1 purpose..

[@nicoinformatics]

You do realize that gender-based violence against men is still substantially higher right? Women can hit men even causing permanent damage without repercussions, and if for some reason men fought back, it's the end for them. Also, do you realize that men falls victim to unprovoked violence in a far higher degree of frequency than women right? There's no indication that gender-based violence against women is rising, it's just nowadays it's recorded. Quite infact, the stats shown the complete opposite that gender-based violence against men is raising in an unprecedented degree, esp. in the west.

[@orange-ranger7089]

@@danp7304 stfu, racist. i doubt you've traveled to every country in the world to confirm this. besides, got nothing to do with what happened to these girls

[@amiray8856]

@@rainmarleya4851 no it’s rising and probably because of incel culture

[@nanakmetova3463]

getting horribly beaten up just for saying no? this is crazy poor women

[@liveyourlifefree]

To the passing by stranger. I mean, just couple of seconds passed before the beating started

[@Flowers4Fischl]

Welcome to china

[@wrenpattison7540]

@@Flowers4Fischli mean this has happened to me in canada before cuz i said no, but it was no where near as brutal as this, i think its not just china but most asian countries that dont priortize protecting women, at least here i had other men step in to help me

[@maxcepe-j1x]

They put a dog down for biting it’s abuser or a person one time but they will let these men walk the streets at some point in their life again especially with all the clear-cut evidence…. Makes me sick…

[@jassyvasquez5834]

The cctv of this incident made my stomach drop. It’s so disturbing how many people watched and did nothing. Even more disturbing how these pathetic small ego men could do something so disgusting. Watching the friends get more and more defeated as they tried to help their friend unsuccessfully is heartbreaking.

[@VideosOfRandomContext]

Men are disgusting asf 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

[@ihartcookie]

Where did you see the video?

[@TokyoBun]

I can’t find the video either. I tried the link that was provided but it dosen’t work. If someone has it, can you let me know?

[@lhs_bae]

​@@TokyoBun kzbin.info/www/bejne/mauvZYOarNR0oLs

[@rueliaju4115]

​​@@TokyoBunit's super disgusting hope y'all aren't faint hearted:( kzbin.info/www/bejne/mauvZYOarNR0oLs

[@babybush164]

To the "just say no" crowd there are times we can't. We say no and we have abuse thrown at us. We say nothing and walk away and they take that as an invitation to follow. And it's worse when it's a group of them and only one of you.

[@imitationporcelain]

You have to read the mood if you can say no or not and sometimes people can be just crazy,I been followed and scream at just because a grown ass man toughr I was been rude and condecendent because I dont said him hi back (I am shy and he was a complete stranger on the street) and also I was a high schooler back then even wearing my uniform ,so he got angry and start following me and calling me names to "teach me a lesson" I dont wanna know what kind of lesson he would want to give me probably will try to punch me or something , but I run until I found a police car and he literally sprint as soon as he saw that. I was just in shock that day.

[@cilantro_4839]

That's just an excuse so women can never "win." In any given scenario where a woman is sexually assaulted, men want to have an "out" to get away with it. So they have devised two primary ways. If a woman does not fight back and acts submissive in order to save her life, they will tell her she should've said no. In the case that she does say no and fights back, they can claim you were too combatative and provoking. They simply want to have it both ways. And they have also entrapped women into believing this rhetoric as well. What those women don't realize is that these men would gladly do the same to her and use her own logic against her. I think it goes without saying that obviously not all men are violent, but a good portion of them are. I mean, seriously. When was the last time a woman beat the shit out of a man anf his friends for rejecting her? Why are the overwhelming majority of pedophiles men? Why are most murderers men? I think to say that men are not inherently violent or atleast more violent to some degree is just wrong. Across the globe there is a clear criminal difference between men and women. At this point we have to face reality. All women need to be carrying weapons and taking self defense classes. Not because we should have to or because it should be our responsibility, but because many men out there are nothing more than primitive animals running on basic emotion and impulse. And it is clear we cannot rely on other men to protect us. I have a hunch that if one of the men's girlfriends in this video was attacked, they would've ran off leaving her behind. Just basing that off their demeanor.

[@DavidMedina-lu1wf]

@@cilantro_4839 why don't you go to China and fight for women's rights there, see how they treat you

[@artorhen]

The truth is, people who think that women are the ones that always need to do something different when something escalates to violence. Because there is no recipe to avoid it since the irrational one is the man that is violent. Any type or rationality wouldn't work, which is why victim blaming is just mysoginistic. In many ways, even the women in the video did plenty of things that likely kept them alive and could've been the deciding moment of whether or not they live. The fact that they still survived is proof that they handled things well enough. Likely if someone tried to talk to the police sooner and if the police were actually ready to do their job for cases like these, it could've been solved faster.

[@DeaconUSMC]

Samuel Colt made the Peacemaker to even the playing field!

[@amiiredhead2676]

This really makes my blood boil with rage! I heard of something similar here in Germany and an elderly went in and saved the woman! AN ELDERLY MAN! None of the other people that took notice did anything other than stand there open mouthed and watched!

[@21sashalee]

You know what's so heartbreaking about this.. I can guarantee you 90% of women watching this immediately got a familiar feeling because they too have felt unsafe when rejecting a guy before. Men like to make fun of that and call us snakes for making up lies and excuses when we are not interested in someone asking for our number etc but we are literally walking on egg shells trying not to offend a man's ego because we are SCARED for our safety. Whenever I say that I'm just not into him it's not good enough, they feel the need to convince me and persuade me against my will. I always have to bring up the fake boyfriend to make it stop. We have to teach our sons better, consent is so much more than sex.

[@morenamontes9504]

I was in a similar situation but at the time with a current boyfriend and he was getting really abusive and I kept it going cause I was scared he was gonna do something to me. So sad to see women go through this 😢

[@bloom953]

Now that you mention it I do have a creepy experience. When I went out to get some snacks this guy who was walking in the opposite direction suddenly turned around and started walking next to me. I just smiled because that’s what I do when I‘m uncomfortable and I guess he took that as an invitation because he started asking me If he could get my number. I tried politely rejecting him but he wouldn’t stop following and yelling after me even after I said no multiple times. I swear my mouth went dry from how many times I said NO. I started power walking to the main street because I knew there would be people around (we were walking through a wooded path). He stopped and walked away when he saw people ahead. I felt like crying and called my mom after to calm down. It’s insane how low of a value the word No holds to some people.

[@IronKore]

Look how the west appropriates terrible situations. Damn... Man make you so unsafe huh

[@Nininguyenthi12]

Totally related 😢. My mind went blank.

[@mm-mr3rg]

@John Doe good for you that you can do that but it doesn't change the fact that women still die/suffer due to this shit

[@wintertoastie]

My mom always tells me not to be scared when I go out into the world. How am I supposed to feel safe with people like this sharing a planet with me?

[@Nettepooh014]

Yea but I’m sure she just meant try to enjoy your life but be cautious always but don’t let the fear of these ignorant men stop you from living. Unfortunately it’s just being a woman 🥺

[@stumpedII]

exactly.. even a man knows with "common sense" that he has the right to be anywhere in this country in a public space.. he wants to.. but that having the right to be there does not mean once common sense is applied that that right is a reality in practice. i have a right to go swimming florida fresh water lakes and rivers.. but there are aligators there.. and even to "demand my rights" i wont be swimming in florida with aligators. its the same in every city.. there are places you cannot go.. unless your packing and have a us navy seal team in a van following behind you. even if you have the right to go there. its stupidity ego and ignorance that gets you killed. Little common sense, little bit of respect and paranoia and situational awareness is healthy.. very healthy.

[@MszEveryShot]

I'd like to say you can't live in fear...but I do too🤦

[@davidlaw9686]

That's good, but the law must protect victims, esp women from aggressive unreasonal men.

[@britsunvaar9297]

A force multiplier.

[@tatiabkk]

men who assault women for simply rejecting them should face a punishment suited just for them, bystanders who witness and dont take action should also face punishment as thats pure negligence towards human life as well.

[@colinacker5781]

Take action how? Put themselves in harms way or to get help?

[@mi4iku]

@@nightmate8108 are you dumb? What is a man 🤓🤓

[@STasugx]

Uh… there’s no way I’m getting myself in the middle of that. Wtf you talking about. Calling the police is the only thing you can do.

[@colinacker5781]

@@STasugx that’s my point tho. People say help them. Okay but I can’t take on 7 grown men alone. Calling the police is the only option but how long will that take for them to actually arrive to the scene. There isn’t a Good Samaritan law when it comes to violence. That’s for saving a life from (airway, breathing, circulation) situations. That’s about all I can do. Putting myself 1v7 situation because “morals” and hoping other people would help me will put me in just a dangerous situation or worse. I see in the newspaper “hero bystander deceased trying to help 4 woman from 7 men”.

[@lorenebonsu146]

No they shouldn’t, you don’t know if someone has a weapon and by standers can get killed for intervening. Also this is a prominent gang.

[@leandraK]

In South Africa, as a woman, we have been taught to be super nice and polite to men who approach us. If they ask you for your number, give them your real number because they dial it right in front of you to test if it's real. All this so you do not become a victim. It makes me so angry and I hate that I will have to teach this to my little sister. We shouldn't have to live in a world like this. To many people it sounds like we are being extra or something but imagine someone becoming violent simply because you said no, imagine someone slicing you in the face or throwing acid at your face. These are things that have happened. Yes not all men but how exactly are we supposed to differentiate these monsters from good men when they are so good at hiding their true nature.

[@CharneSlater-kg2ns]

I'm also a woman in South Africa and this is so true, the other day a man asked for my number and he called it right infront of me, when i told my mom about it she asked "why didnt you just give him a fake number or say no?" like are you kidding

[@stellathomson1904]

They also attack who only stand by and watch.

[@Sailorlluna]

This is exactly why women are so terrified of being alone with men. You really never know how they’ll react to rejection and it’s like a balancing act between remaining firm enough to have them understand your seriousness and bubbly/respectful enough that they don’t call you “a selfish bitch” etc etc. it’s so scary. Literally my boyfriend is the only reason i usually don’t deal with that anymore but when I go places without him he’s always so thrown off by how quickly men surround me and try to coerce me into giving them my number. That’s why i have a taser. I hate violence but i’m so scared leaving my house alone.

[@Sailorlluna]

Unsettling how many men in the comments refused to see this as gender based violence and how many of them feel personally slighted bc Stephanie made a video calling attention to misogyny and DV against women. These are probs the men we need to watch out for, the ones that think any critique of men is a critique of all men and not simply a critique of the systemic oppression women endure everywhere in the world for centuries at the hands of the patriarchy.

[@rianelson5032]

@@Sailorlluna I know right, this definitely is gender based violence, many guys in here are refuting that and are quick to claim that men are the most physically attacked but that's totally not true at all... nobody can't fool me with that crap, not even articles on Google...I once had to call a guy an ignorant îdîots for this assumption, he was like “your the queen of assumptions, because I have stories about myself and friends " etc as if the stories of a few can somehow match up with the amount of women who suffer on a daily basis, men are less likely to be attacked by another man than a women because most aggressors prefer to attack the weak and majority of women fall in that category, it's infuriating to see so many men trying to make men in general appear to be the most victimized than women when true statistics says otherwise, especially considering many societies where lots of women are being raped, battered, sold as slaves etc, and besides, most men who are attacked by another man were attacked for excusable reasons like raping one of their relatives, stealing, gang related stuff, arguments over owing money etc meanwhile most women are attacked for little to absolutely no excusable reasons at all which is a fact...!

[@babatunjiadetunmbi4921]

yeah it is so scary for us women

[@Sailorlluna]

@@areitikeyks omg I take my dad, brother or boyfriend to the mechanic too. The mechanics bullshit women so much there bc they assume we don’t know as much about cars which literally isn’t true.

[@qwandary]

We can't use any self-defence here legally. No taser, no knuckle dusters, not even pepper spray. The best we can do is hold our keys in our fists like we're wolverine, which is only helpful when you're nearing your house really.

[@thatweirdchickbecky4730]

That whole police show is outraging. And to say "call your husband to join you at night. Don't confront strangers." Makes me so freaking mad. We should be able to go out at any time without the fear of being assaulted and/or raped by men. And the fact they were still like kinda putting blame on women is disgusting. And by saying "Don't talk to strangers. Don't confront strangers." kinda implies that it's the woman's fault.

[@vanrosauch5659]

the police is saying you get beat reguardless , its yout choice to fight back or not to show hoe stupid they are and entitled.

[@strudelh]

They might as well say, “just don’t go outside” like that helps lol.

[@bluliite]

Kind of like he's trying to school a 5 year old.

[@CogniVision]

Nothing to do with you being a woman. Men have to go out at night too with the risk of being beaten, robbed, or killed. That's reality. Bad people exist and do bad things. Them giving advice to help women be safe is something that should be obvious. I swear, if we still lived in the wild you women would be saying stupid shit like "It makes me so mad. We should be able to go out in the woods at anytime without the fear of being assaulted or eaten by wolves. The fact that they're putting the blame on us women is disgusting. Saying things like 'Dont go out alone in the dark. Don't feed the wildlife. Don't go near bear cubs.' Kinda implies that it's the woman's fault." The world isn't a peaceful utopia. You have to be responsible with your safety, or deal with the consequences. As strong, independent women, you're now dealing with the same dangers men have always had to deal with. Enjoy the equality.

[@pragatisingh8467]

@@CogniVision you just said 'enjoy the equality' under a video of women being mercilessly beaten by a group of men for rejecting their advances? 🤢

[@MiaCarter7]

Being asaulted by men, in public, with no one doing anything to help, is one of the worst feelings in the world.

[@shawmiserix404]

this is a literal sign of cultural differences on the most grotesque scale

[@tianwong7168]

​​​@@shawmiserix404 Buddy, I live in the West and never help women in distress. They wanna be strong modern independent women, they fight their own battles. If they get knifed up, their problem. I'm sick of helping women and then get accused of being the culprit when they want somebody to blame and the real culprit got away.

[@shawmiserix404]

ok thats your experience women where i live aren't insane like the ones you have encountered i guess that comes with the territory living in the country cityfolk are crazy so well off and without strife that they have to make problems so they don't get bored@@tianwong7168

[@Alex-mc5yn]

@@tianwong7168 lmao, dude. Even in pissholes like mine no one helps women. And guess what, hurting self-defense gets punished with harsher terms than rape and assault combined. God forbid you have a weapon or something as harmless as pepper spray. All either illegal or restricted and considered damning in court. I also don't believe you got accused for helping, what an absolute joke. Keep whinging about feminism, though.

[@hanii333]

@@tianwong7168 but in a situation like this you would sit and watch? crazy

[@shodan6401]

There's an exchange of lines in a 2008 movie called "Blindness", with Julianne Moore and Mark Ruffalo. She asks him what he fears most from women. And he says, that you'll reject us. He asks her what women fear most from men. And she says - that you'll kill us.

[@IkesPimpHand]

Good. Remember that when you start believing girl power movies.

[@vivi-ws9yl]

​@@IkesPimpHand people like you are so disappointing. I don't even have any words for y'all. It just truly makes me sad how people just say stuff like this

[@IkesPimpHand]

@@vivi-ws9yl I know,right? It must be so disappointing to feminists to see their decades of social conditioning and brainwashing starting to lose its effect on men and men giving back some venom that we've received. You've hated innocent men for no reason, so we can give you a reason.

[@IkesPimpHand]

@@vivi-ws9yl I know,right? It must be so disappointing to feminists to see their decades of social conditioning and brainwashing starting to lose its effect on us and to see us giving back some venom that we've received. You've hated innocent men for no reason, so we can give you a reason.

[@IkesPimpHand]

@@vivi-ws9yl I know,right? It must be so disappointing to feminists to see their decades of social conditioning and brainwashing starting to lose its effect on us and to see us giving back some venom that we've received. Hate us for no reason, we'll give you one.

[@quadashabailey6775]

I started tearing up, girl number 3 a real friend but when I heard how girl number 1 ran in the alleyway to help girl 3&4 and after how bad she gotten beaten it broke me. After everything she’s still fighting to save her friends. These monsters deserve to rot in prison, and to everyone who said what could the bystanders have done I understand not wanting to fight but someone could have called the police or something

[@TecTitan]

See no illusion The people with anything less than complete condemnation of the men involved are just actually wholistically incorrect

[@BrainlessHaya]

I felt the same. It was so difficult to watch.

[@OfficialUncleIroh]

I feel like by description if it weren't for girl number 3. 1: calling the cops and. 2 :shieldIng her friend 3: overall trying to help them I feel as though someone could have died

[@c0nicalflask]

I feel girl no.3 was the only friend who was stable enough to move the other two were REALLY badly beaten

[@ArbytheStrawberry]

This reminds me of when I was in middle school and these 3 boys who were all on sports teams would constantly harass me. They’d drop something on the floor in front of them and asked me to bend over and pick it up. They’d pretend to fall so they could take pictures up my skirt. They would make jokes about me and my body. And one time one of them groped my butt. I had enough so I told my male principal how they had been treating me and his reply was along the lines of, “Those boys are on sports teams and they have some big games coming up. I can’t suspend them or give them detention because they need that time to practice.” After he had told me that, I went to the assistant principal, who was a woman, and she suspended them all immediately.

[@jikaarthou]

Great ending! I'm glad they got suspended!

[@s.r1racha]

Shouldve gotten them expelled and blacklisted idk

[@ayior]

I have a friend who worked with disabled children who had a co worker that harrassed her. I encouraged her to bring it up, when she did, she got dismissed. Later a different girl approached her, apparently he was harrassing many. They came together to band against the guy - and still got dismissed. It was only once he started going after the disabled children they got rid of him.

[@jikaarthou]

@ayior that's so sad! 😔 I can't imagine how many kids he harassed who didn't say anything. I hope karma comes back to him sooner rather than later!

[@madsxg]

wow.

[@carolinawilson3790]

When men approach me and even if they make me feel uncomfortable I act polite and tell them no gently because I’m scared of this exact thing. It’s so horrible to have to act “nice” to men who are potential aggressors. Most men don’t understand how horrifying it is when a man won’t stop asking you questions or following you around. They’re like “oh he’s just persistent” but in our head as women we think “is this man going to hurt me?! Is he going to rape me? Is he going to attack me?”

[@internaut4257]

boy am I glad I cant relate to this, sucks to be a woman, I wonder if it ever could get better, or if this is just the fate of the animals we are

[@knottoday3142]

It's even worse when your "kindness" is misconstrued as an invitation to continue.

[@sydneyps]

It's definitely an issue, especially with a lot of young men being taught no means no and abiding by it, then a girl or two get upset that the boy stops pursuing when told no. Completely turning everything on its head. Why is it so difficult to just stop being a crazy world?

[@SmartK8]

But if you like him and eventually marry him, you're glad he approached you. You basically want men 'who you want' to approach you, and men 'who you don't want' to not approach you. You think it's obvious that you say 'yes' or 'no' to him, so he should not even attempt, if you're about to say 'no', but it's not evident at all. So men have to try to find out. Yes, there's a small percentage of men, who are aggressive and will react violently, so it is a good idea to be polite. As he can't recognize if you say 'yes' or 'no', you can't recognize if he'll be violent or not. Why would you want to be impolite? Nothing is stopping you to be, but then you run into a risk. It will never change. If you're impolite to people in general, you risk someone getting pissed off, man or woman.

[@moththefairy1917]

​@@SmartK8...ainoway that this is what u had to say when someone talks abt their fears

[@Gaius_Sinstone]

Men mock women for “playing games” w/ them, but beat them for being honest w/ them.

[@muayboran6111]

That's a very naive perspective. You need to grow up, everyone is different. Men can harm, women can harm. Why not judge people on individual case instead of lumping everyone into categories with conclusive evidence?

[@Gaius_Sinstone]

@@muayboran6111 obviously I don’t mean *all*, that’s clearly implied. You’re pretending to misunderstand my point.

[@tianwong7168]

Play too many games, and it's like the kid who cried wolf. We no longer know if you are honest or not. Not that I defend the guys in the story, they got justice served, but maybe it's time to be honest all the time rather than play games.

[@Gaius_Sinstone]

@@tianwong7168 So you obviously didn’t even watch the video. The solution is men not beating up women when they’re honest with them. What’s wrong with you.

[@Applesucks-xc8us]

@@Gaius_Sinstonehe’s a man that’s what’s wrong with him. That’s what’s wrong with all of them.

[@meli4880]

The girl that went in between the criminal and her friends is such a hero. Knowing she can't beat him or make him stop and doing the only thing she could do: giving up her own safety to shield her friend from the injustice of the situation is such an act of bravery. She is the real hero here. Not one person trying to help. Scared or not that goes to show something is wrong with that town. Very wrong. When good people do nothing, evil wins.

[@elinama7061]

If nothing else, I am so proud of the girls in this video. I love all of them, the first girl stating her boundaries loudly and firmly, the second girl even when knowing they're not as powerful as men would still stand up and fight a dude twice her size, and the third one even shielding them with her own body , the fourth girl not even knowing what's going on but still trying to help and the other girls trying to protect them even if they're not directly correlated with the fight. Even the girl that was on their side tries to break up the fight and only gets slapped by her own group. Their only downfall was that they were outnumbered and no one else was as brave as they were. You see how when one person goes into action, another one will as well? I just wish more guys would do that. Like you're literally as strong as those men, plus, they would feel more threatened and back off if its a fair fight and other guys coming into help might've scared them off. Like how are these women who are outnumbered, overpowered, and don't even know these girls more braver than you? Yes, it's not your business but can you even call yourself a man if you allow this shit to happen right in front of your eyes? It's not about knowing the person because obviously those girls didn't care if they knew them. It was about helping someone in need when you see it and setting a good example for other men to follow, not other men to cower. Imagine your own mother your own wife your own daughter being beaten up like this and having 3 tables of grown men staring them down without helping. That is the type of behavior they're encouraging.

[@Andre-wf8cb]

LOOK deeply, all the so call progesse is a illusion men are to be trusted power corrupts ,men feel a lost and expessing that

[@raifthemad]

@@elinama7061 Well, it's china. The more densely packed people are, the less human life is worth. You think, that culture, where Mao killed 45 million of his own citizens in 4 years is going to value a strangers life. To be fair, I could see this happening in the current generation west as well. Decades of, "men are all rapists, creeps, thugs, stupid etc." combined with loads high profile false allegations and "woman needs a man like fish needs a bicycle" "words are violence," "male gaze," and all the other demonizations. Many western women chase the top 10% of men, not giving the time of day to the rest, yet still expect men to fulfill their end of the social contract. Many men want nothing to do with women, let alone jump in, risking their lives(men would get beaten even worse for certain) to save some stranger, who would probably just see it as your duty and likely have zero gratitude. Yes of course they will risk injury or death after being demonized ostracized or ignored for all their life by your gender, just for maybe a thank you, if they're lucky. What happened to women are just as strong as men?

[@zucchinhi]

The first time I heard about this incident was when Shuhua, a kpop idol spoke in support of the girls on weibo. At that time the only details I knew were from news articles but to hear in depth about how everything took place makes my heart ache even more. It’s disturbing the amount of violence that came from someone simply setting boundaries

[@VeeAmericanEagle]

First time too!

[@Emily-9005]

I saw the cctv video on Weibo I was so furious I was literally shaking. When the incident went viral so many celebrities spoke in support of women, if you see a guy speak up in support of women or just have shown respect towards women that’s when you know you follow the right person. Because of the incident I saw a video of a guy just asking people about their opinion on the situation, some of the guys they asked just walked away like wtf the guy was so confused just them walking away I don’t want to know what they think because I’d be more than furious, the girls deserves some respect and the crown.

[@arinontop143]

Wait shuhua talked about it?

[@Emily-9005]

@@arinontop143 she posted on her Weibo about it, you can still see the post on her page.

[@kristi4113]

Shuhua isn’t one to hold back when she’s offended or disgusted, so this isn’t a surprise to me.

[@Emma_yin]

Thank you Stephanie for covering this case. As a Chinese girl I was utterly disgusted by some Chinese netizens defending the attacker, saying the victim “got what she deserved” because she dare to disrespect and humiliate“the man” in public. Some man are just so narcissistic and entitled that they think everyone should respect them and protect their ego just because they are “the big strong man”, while in reality they are nothing but petty loser who can’t find fulfillment in other aspects of their life that they just take their frustrations out on other physically weaker people, including children, women and the elderly. Even some women were blaming the victim, saying she could’ve handled things in a gentler manner instead of standing up for herself so “aggressively”. Although things have gotten better in the younger generations, this type of mentality still exists in older generations around us.😢

[@marianagaoka9687]

That's the testosterone mindset, I can say it's pretty much the same in eastern "developed" Asian countries, the big 3.

[@TecTitan]

@@marianagaoka9687 I'd go so far to say there's always going to be people with the wrong take

[@shivshivie]

I cannot believe this. The people are actually defending the attackers? This has got to be a joke. Right?

[@catatoblob8598]

​@@marianagaoka9687 you say that, but even this comment section is filled with the same type of incels

[@tomotrono242]

@@shivshivieits mostly out of touch retards implying the girl could have rejected the guy more nicely, making it out to be a morally complicated situation for no reason

[@HOTBEENSZ]

“Just say no” She tried

[@atotalstranger3523]

Saying no is never enough, I can’t say one time in my life can I tell people that I said no to someone and the took it as a answer

[@AmyDuan]

Girl says no aggressively People: should have been more gentle ...... Girl rejects gently People: you were too gentle, maybe he thought you didnt mean it .......

[@MichelMawon4982]

Exactly

[@LORDMAD98]

😂

[@MaiasauraMia]

"should have been more gentle". People who say that are dangerous. If you think that way get yourself checked. The way they were attacked was 100x times worse than a mild insult that was deserved. That man is not a man, he's a mentally handicapped idiot, not even animals behave this way, he's something worse.

[@shayz0z]

deadass

[@Bluewinds-on1xt]

Of course it's always girl's fault because boys were just being boys. And then they make memes about girls

[@minam3016]

This case boggles my mind!! it’s crazy how the men just sat there and carried on with drinking ?? And the way the women blamed them is just wow 🌚.

[@Neo-Queenserenityt2l]

I sure hope the women blamed them they beat the hell out of those women

[@minam3016]

@@Neo-Queenserenityt2l I’m talking about the women on the internet saying they should have just been nice.

[@noraa.616]

*And then those males wonder why more women are rejecting dating, rejecting marriage and rejecting having children. Because it is clear that so many males are inhumane misogynists and a misogynist is an enemy to women (just like a racist is an enemy to a black person, for example) and of course a woman doesn’t love and doesn’t want to date and she doesn’t want to have children with an enemy. And yes, most males are enemies to women since statistically (according to the WHO organization) 1 in 3 women globally is experiencing physical or sex-al v!olence from a male intimate ‘partner’ (and the numbers are actually higher if you remember that women in the Middle East and women in Asian countries like China and India are usually too scared to say that the reason for the divorce is because the male was v!olent to her, so the real numbers are 2 in 3 women; not 1 in 3. This means that 2 in 3 males are so emotional to the point of being v!olent to women. This is crazy. So males are illogical when they behave like enemies to women, but they also want to date or spend time with women. And as you saw: random males attacking a woman because she has a right to reject males that she doesn’t want. And the other males watched as he attacked her; this further shows that most males are enemies to their mother’s gender. People if you agree with this comment, screenshot and share, to alert people about the statistics.*

[@kosiii]

Probably because they couldnt take on a whole gang. Who knows if they had weapons. I wouldnt get involved unless im ready to pull my gun out and risk my life

[@elijahlinna]

Was it a gang? That might be why they help.

[@kerrydowdle1578]

Hi everyone! Some more info on the story. This area actually is known in China for aggressive men, or men getting into fights with other men. Also, many people were arrested over this story, the Chinese government took it very seriously bc of how viral it went. One of the men involved got arrested for 24 years. The others involved were punished as well. The prisons in China are not pleasant, so rest assured that they will be getting what the deserve

[@L.-I.]

So that means, if this hadn't gone viral and global, Chinese government wouldn't have done anything and brushed it under the rug or the perpetrators would've gotten off easier? Because let's face it, the majority in government are male with that old patriarchal mindset. I wonder, if this area in China is already known for its violent outbreaks, why hasn't the government taken any actions and measures to prevent these fights?

[@yuyulliz]

@@jenagrippa9632hey were 24 people involved? Or did they also arrested bystanders?

[@izadorad]

@@yuyulliz I read that it was also police officers were arrested

[@secondace9495]

For everyone's information: chinese prisons are known for their....brutality. The men will be beaten, tortured and forced into manual hard labor under the blistering sun for 24 years.

[@Geannanana]

Yes. They got arrested because it went viral. Not the right reason. In fact, the main assualter here had his history of criminal violence dug out after it went viral. Turns out he was out running free while the government prison record showed he was in prison for years. He was only out on the street despite all those offenses because he was rich and the local government was corrupted.

[@horangmochi4616]

I remember one content creator that was talking about this research that basically said if people saw a women getting harrassed/sa'ed/gr@ped, women were the ones that said they would step in to help, meanwhile the men said they believed that the woman deserved it.

[@jonagreen7323]

Would you have taken on 9 people by yourself?

[@hanii333]

​@@jonagreen7323 still doesn't cost nothing to at least try to help in any way shape or form, most just ignore. that's why people are angry.

[@jonagreen7323]

@@hanii333 it has literally cost people their lives. Just 2 months ago a lady was stabbed to death trying to break up a fight near where I live.

[@hanii333]

@@jonagreen7323 that's sad asf n i understand that, but why would yu respond like you did to a comment that points out how men say the ladies deserve to get harassed??

[@Aliyaaaa]

With most respect I'd recommend not spreading vague information about some sort of research (what kind of? What population?) that you heard someone else talk about. I'm not saying that you did something inherently wrong but it may be somewhat skewed and lead to people believing most men actually think women deserve getting harassed. When it's probably not that simple🙆‍♀️

[@mon-ii6gg]

the victim shaming in the comments is absolutely horrifying it really puts into perspective the amount of horrible men out there

[@Jubilantia]

Honestly it crazy the mental gymnastics these people do to justify the actions that these men did

[@levtieart3409]

​@@Jubilantia they only do it cuz they wanna do it to If you have basic human decency and are a real man /woman you have logic Im a female construction worker, since im in germany rn women have actual rights, about 5℅ of workers are female All my coworkers and boss are super nice Im the youngest at 21 and the oldest is 68 (my boss /meister) My team is amazing nice not racist or sexist (we have another woman also) We have a black guy and 2 romanians and 3 poles also in our team Everyone talks to me normaly, no sexist comments no sexual advances, noone touched me or made comments We chill, make jokes, work, talk Iv also had a lot male trauma to the point of panick attacks when smelling a man, so the fact i feel comfortable enough to be around my cooworkers alone shows a lot Equal pay/payed for position/skill also We had a incident this wenesday My teammate left me for a bit cuz we ran out of bolts *3 incell young french men come* + old french boss I tell them we arent finished and to be carefull cuz the pipes werent screwed so u know "accident etc " Old french took it While the young ones ages like 20-30 started crying about me being female for like 10minutes (They also came back 2h later and cried 20meters away from me for 15minutes) I was scarred theyll hurt me cuz their behaviour was 1 o 1 "i am a agressive bastard and will try to murder you eaven thou its illegal" Since i was assaulted etc before also u think men who cannot use the bathroom or meltdown when see a person are mentaly well? (Im dumb and mentaly ill but im not that also i wanna go to therapy + im aware i have issues( I reported it to my coworkers They went to the french boss and sayed "if they wont leave me alone they will castrate them" The old french boss taught them a lesson , moral of the story Men vs "dikked creatures" Saddly males my age are mostly degenerative, spoiled incells who werent disciplined as children My coworkers/team are the best men ever im so happy to be with them, they arent eaven Muslim but they dont look at me eaven Its so refreshing comparing to my experience before and childhood Heck who thought that men from a male dominated industry would be so manly and not anti women The hungarian from the storage also was nice af And the 2 shitpost painters when we worked together (- the fact when we as 4 worked random men decided to shower in front of us, but all 4 of us were discusted cuz it is.... We work and u get naked like wtf) There are also the women here, all funny women My team member woman is super feminine , long hair, nails, dripped out bike, but shes a badass Heck my housemates from the rent place im in rn are also chill A hungarian with hes 20 year old son teaching him how to work and be a man Chill serbian Weird german but yea And ironically they come from countries where women basically have no rights etc but they are masculine and non sexist I have a serbian friend who says shit happens there and eaven they dont deny the bs I wish people would be more like those people than the agressive unmanly incells

[@thecollegedropout2031]

Saw someone saying he was “damn near this point” like ummmmm

[@internetstranger-]

It's mostly the men who are victim blaming as usual

[@DM-nw5lu]

the college dropout Let's be positive: If he does reach that point he'll be behind bars. Good for women... AND men. As guys like that are the same type to rob and beat up other men, too.

[@meganrowley]

These women are FIGHTERS. The keep going to help eachother despite being attacked and abused. I hope they are okay now but honestly I acc feel so much rage

[@seabreeze667]

Agree. Those men/attackers are cowards, men who play violence on women are weaklings. Those bystanders are shameless. I'm surprised that no charges were pressed on the bystanders who act-dumb-act-blind-act-blur. The only thing necessary for evil to triumph in the world is that good men do nothing.

[@stumpedII]

best way to win a fight is not to fight.. once the fight begins you have already lost so much..they got the crap beat out of them for not choosing a wiser path. and they didnt change a thing.. these guys .. they got punished.. BUT NOT FOR ANYTHING THEY DID TO THESE WOMEN.. they got punished cus they got negative attention focused on china.. for all the other slave owners (and there are a hell alot in china) and abusers nothing will change.. you disrespect the ccp.. a gang member.. an elder.. your gonna get a smackdown. thats the reality.. and if your doing the smacking in china your ONLY gonna be held accountable if you embarrass the CCP or if someone's family you smacked was more powerful than you.

[@Coore2351]

I started to tear up seeing the bystander girl wanting to help but getting dragged away, it genuinely hurt my heart seeing that she was the only one willing to help, even though she was probably just as scared.

[@LeloLeeleeRamirez]

I'm not gonna lie, I'm in tears. I would never want, if I had a daughter, for her to have to go through this. 😢

[@MintySchokoChip]

I called the police on my father for slapping me twice. Two cops showed up, male and female. The male cop couldn’t be bothered, asked me what I did to provoke him, seemed extremely impatient. The female cop was the only one who stuck around, took pictures of my face, gave me resources. She even defended me in front of my father, her hand on her holster the entire time. That why I absolutely agree with the quote, “Not all men are violent, but all women live in fear of violence.” I’d choose a bear over my father any day.

[@jth4242]

Calling the police over a slapping is embarrassing, even if it was between unrelated adults. And I hope the situation is at the very least that you are an adult living at your own place.

[@rikimura_rishi]

@@jth4242 tf? are you saying slapping someone is okay?

[@jth4242]

@@rikimura_rishi Are you saying there is no space between "okay behavior" and "behavior to call the police over"?

[@rikimura_rishi]

​@@jth4242 I doubt she did anything to provoke him lol

[@rikimura_rishi]

​​@@jth4242 slapping your child over nothing isn't okay. And yes, it's police call worthy

[@EmoBoyXiao]

The girl who attempted to save her friends and shielded them is a true one. It makes me upset that everyone else just sat around watching this awful incident. I understand they were scared and all but I do think they at least could have done something to help these women. Although they still got beaten badly and had to be hospitalized she did everything in her power to help her friends and the girlfriend who left also wanted to help. The audacity of these men to hurt them and the people who defended these awful monsters. I do hope they recovered and are well and are being able to cope with the trauma.

[@seabreeze667]

I cant believe no charges were pressed on the bystanders who act-dumb-act-blind-act-blur

[@aspdlsp2420]

@seabreeze667 Stop spamming stupid statements

[@rexlapis1075]

@@seabreeze667 What was they suppose to do

[@soleater7615]

@@rexlapis1075 6 grown men, they could've intervened

[@meganmoney3479]

@@rexlapis1075 called the police

[@GorgeousPenguin]

Hi. I really hope you read this comment. Violence against women is a very big problem, especially in places of Asia. I'm Indian, and recently, I came across a crime which took place over here. A girl, a mere 16 year old, was beaten to death by her ex-boyfriend publicly. People who were there just walked by causally, even after seeing what that monster was doing to her. The video of the attack was so traumatizing that I couldn't help but cry at the pain she must have endured before she met her end. She was killed at the hands of someone she had once trusted. It is the Sakshi Dixit Murder Case. I would be glad if you could cover this case on your channel. Crimes like these must receive international attention. We must spread awareness about the injustice women all over the world are constantly facing. So please go through the Sakshi Dixit Murder case once.

[@Mother.Mulberry]

I am about to take my country to court , I hope to work with my Asian sisters soon ❤

[@cheng-x10]

i'd like to see a video on this! I hope that girl is in a better place now :[

[@mirrorflame1988]

A wife along with her affair partner are legally torturing her husband and his family after they supported her dream of becoming a government official (the cost of education for that is insanely high especially for a lower income family like them). There are women killing their husbands in favor of their affair partners, etc. So bottomline is that innocent people are getting screwed over by criminals because society is too bigoted and biased in one way or another. What we need is an impartial mindset that "All crime is disgusting and should be stopped/punished". Only then will we have a safe and just society.

[@katz0625]

Please stay safe!!! Sending you my love!!

[@kynacortez2539]

Equality is what we want equality is what we should get ! Right 🏳️‍🌈

[@nemomagnum]

I can understand not wanting to put yourself in harm's way by physically intervening but I'm baffled that no one even called the police right away when the attack started

[@mariacidaliapereiragaidola5405]

All of them could of stopped it&call police it wouldn't have gone that far

[@GypsyGirl317]

I was thinking that at least the manager could have called police. Maybe someone did, but the police didn't get there soon enough.

[@fairygirlie3013]

I can imagine that if the aggressors overheard a bystander calling the police they would’ve got beat up too. That’s why the girl bystanders called the police as soon as the aggressors went outside. It’s such a scary situation, I wouldn’t even know what to do if I was watching it unfold. But yea calling the police when it’s safe to do so would’ve been the best course of action.

[@careful1348]

Sounds like police were notified and kept away on purpose until over, though they said they were there in 5 min but actually took 30min when station a short 5min drive away!

[@tsukimother]

She will probably never forget how his disgusting hand felt on her back before she was beat to near death. How traumatic.

[@TianWong-pi1pt]

Her own fault

[@Jibrilll-ll]

@@TianWong-pi1pt bffr your parents clearly went wrong somewhere troll if you even have parents that is... Also no means no leave women alone

[@LaughingLlamaLodge]

@@TianWong-pi1pt Okay, we get it, ince1. Your fragile mind can't handle it when people sympathize with a woman even after she went through something as horrific as this. You think you're making a point, but you're just making a bigger fooI of yourself. Using two separate accounts isn't helping your case either, you've only made yourself look more ridiculous. If your goal was to prove your idiocy, congratulations, you've earned a degree in it

[@VladimirMakarov-t8r]

@@TianWong-pi1pt Just say nobody loves you

[@renukapasupuleti575]

Are you the one who ran away from the incident​@@TianWong-pi1pt

[@frankvolz7021]

As the father of a daughter, this story left me totally enraged! The men that perpetrated this horrific attack were animals, but the spineless worms that are so called males who did NOTHING should hang their heads in SHAME!!!!

[@letsdothis9063]

Same here. It's crazy. When I was growing up, I don't remember anyone getting mad when a girl turned them down. Yeah...we would have our pride wounded a bit. But that's just how it goes. If anything like this ever happens to one of my daughters, I will definitely be going to prison.

[@saragonzalez7839]

You shouldnt have to say this as the father of a daughter, just as a fellow human being

[@oliviabarrand1045]

I think most human beings hopefully feel the way we all do when hearing a case such as this. That being said, i do not think that there is a need to comment negatively on someone specifying the most core reason as to why the story resonated with him. Each person’s lived experience does in fact change how they absorb information and process it. If someone includes that as a part of their comment in why the information moved them and felt so impactful…. Then what’s wrong with that…?

[@joeschmooz-it6nh]

If your daughter is out drinking at 3AM maybe you failed as a Father. I don't need to shame others for not protecting my Daughter. I raised her Right.

[@anasdyanee]

​@@joeschmooz-it6nhdid you watch a different video? Stephanie's husband is Chinese and he literally said in the video that it's normal to hang out at 1-3 AM in China. After seeing this video, you still have a way to blame the women?

[@gr8fuldeb699]

It’s infuriating that people would victim shame these girls. It doesnt matter what they are wearing etc nobody has a right to get violent with somebody. Maybe they are a known gang and thats why everyone was so scared.

[@mitzara25]

people who victim shame them also pigs, its disgusting...

[@liandoaethend2403]

Well i dont like both gender, but know that women dressed like that wants to be looked pretty, not to be asked for "segs" or sum inappropriate things

[@spiceyboogerspiceybooger6437]

​@@liandoaethend2403 😑

[@L.-I.]

​@@liandoaethend2403 I hope you understand that the girls all wore casual clothes and Stephanie emphasized this in the beginning!

[@shiniboros]

they werent a gang，news reports after the people were arrested showed everything about them lmao

[@Celisar1]

Woman number 3 is actually a true hero. Not once but several times she risks her health and life to help her friends against several men! She should get public recognition and a reward!

[@azkadeelia]

The onlookers who did nothing remind me of a famous case from Qeens NY where a woman was murdered by a man in broad daylight. There were 37 witnesses and noone thought to even help her let alone call for help. It was so bad he left and came back twice to inflict more damage on her body. He attacked her 3 separate times (over half an hr of time) and each time she screamed for anyone to help her as he left and they all just stood around and did nothing.

[@xylema.]

Kitty Genovese !!

[@jessicahinojosa8784]

It's called the bystander effect in psychology. With the presence of so many bystanders the percentage of those that will help lowers significantly.

[@corysanderson6177]

and risk getting sued for saving her, thats the real problem, if it were illegal to sue your savior a lot more people would help

[@bloodymetalangel287]

Girl number three WAS a hero. Heroes risk themselves to help others. She risked possibly losing her life for her friends.

[@unitydestiny]

Facts! she's so brave unlike the bystanders.. I'm not saying that they should've helped them like physically but in a way of calling 911 or search for help or smth like they be watching like it's some normal show that they can just watch without doing anything.. like it's such a serious situation and all they do there is just watch like it's not serious.. honestly I wish i could slap those bystanders, like these girls are fighting for their lives and you're here just watching without doing anything or even call 911 or the police. and the guys there is so annoying and sickening. Just because a stranger rejected him.. he was willing to end that stranger's life! he's a pyscho and plus I think it'll be fair if the same thing happened to him too! and his friends needs it too

[@waltercolombe6105]

I know right? I wonder the reluctance by the host to just admit it.

[@snakesnoteyes]

Girl 3 was definitely on that pre-serum Steve Rogers life.

[@gabileitti]

i got so mad i started crying, women are not safe anywhere and that’s heartbreaking. what did we do to deserve this?

[@mengyg]

being born a woman, duh

[@unknown-gq7bm]

​@@mengygand people wonder why i Hate being a women-:/

[@acornwinter]

@@felicitycollins4764a curfew????? educate the fucking men not punish the women.

[@LORDMAD98]

U started acting up

[@aisha2684]

@@felicitycollins4764 even in broad daylight these type of things happen

[@lauraberry960]

It says a lot about gender inequality, doesn't it? The fact that those men sat around and did nothing is unforgivable. I hope the ladies are ok.

[@sankalpdatal3039]

How is it gender inequality?? If a guy was getting beaten he would be getting the same treatment or even worse.

[@yomin2162]

It's a culture thing. There are lots of videos of people (both men and women) in China getting hurt in the streets and no one helping them.

[@g3n0sc1d3]

@@sankalpdatal3039 how is anything worse tho bruh. a beating is a beating. y we gotta one up every scenario

[@jessieshih5467]

@@sankalpdatal3039 But a guy is unlikely to be beaten by four girls because he refuses a girl.

[@sankalpdatal3039]

@@g3n0sc1d3 well if someone brings up gender inequality than I have to also show them how it is not. Sadly that could be only done by giving an example of what usually happens to a guy in a same situation.

[@javi5810]

I just want to say as a man who has been abused by a female partner for almost three years until I was brave enough to actually leave. I know women aren’t out to get me and know women don’t want to hurt me but I am literally scared of women now and I just can’t help it. That being said, I don’t understand how men and women try to dismiss women saying how they all have to be scared because of stuff like this. Them being scared is so valid and invalidating them is insanely stupid. Glad I can at least say I’m not friends with any men like this.

[@ericanguy1]

I’m glad you were able to escape your abuser. I am also so sorry you had to endure this.

[@Nonyah123]

women don't try to dismiss other women, men do. There's a massive physical size difference that makes a man assaulting a woman so cruel. Women can psychologically and physically abuse but unless she is larger and stronger than the man, he is able to overpower her if he chooses to. an average woman cannot physically overpower the average man and has no choice or option to stop physical assault against them. This is why women are fearful, if a man chooses to randomly assault us, we cannot stop them. Like you said, youre aware that women arent out to get you, sadly we cant say the same of men, many of them are out to get us, even things as simple as walking ourside the average woman is not going to run up on you in public, wolf whistle or physically assault you in a way you cannot stop. Most women are under 5'6 on average and 30% weaker than men even at the exact same size. Testosterone in men also leads to elevated hormone levels and sexual desire, which is why men doing this to women is so common ...this case is specifically about physical violence against women. Other women rushed to protect. the men stood and watched tiny tiny women get physically assaulted because of men that cannot take "no". Stephanie said it best "not all men assault, but all women live in constant fear of assault" And sadly that fear is rational , I've tried to get over it but knowing that I am barely 5 foot tall a man could kill me with his bare hands over rejection

[@bubullibooooo9928]

Hope you are doing better ❤

[@Nonyah123]

women live in fear of this every single day, it's a very real fear because many men ARE out to get us due to a severely misogistic world and a size difference we can't change or physically fight against. Invalidating these women is not only awful, it literally makes no sense when it's been statistically proven that every woman rightfully should be wary if not very afraid. I am aware good men exist out there, but we live in a world where a woman can't walk 5 minutes in broad daylight without fearing for her life from a complete stranger. it's horrific

[@princesscrybaby8026]

Because of cases like this, woman are forced to see every man as an aggressor before they're even harassed. Not all men are bad, but how do we know who's good? How do we know who to trust?

[@felicitycollins4764]

"Not all men are bad" No, they are all bad.

[@hurricaneofcats]

This exactly. Some men get upset being always treated as potential aggressors, but unfortunately the bad men of the world have ruined it for everyone. I wish I could trust people more, but the danger is too real...

[@_SunscreenQueen_]

Yep not all men are violent BUT A LOT of them are

[@_SunscreenQueen_]

@@hurricaneofcatsyep! I’d rather be too cautious than not cautious enough

[@snowflowersuna]

Exactly, we know it’s not all men, but we don’t know who those men are. So we have to assume everyone is bad to try and stay safe.

[@abigailbustos1231]

This is every woman's worst nightmare. It's so scary that standing your ground and speaking up for yourself could result in this.

[@net0525]

Never seen a video that perfectly embodies the female experience as women in so many ways and the courage it takes to protect yourself and those around you. Thank you for this video.

[@clos1393]

Where can I see this video?

[@lincolnjeon2666]

wtf are you talking about? your feet, is the best protection. you dont know what they have or what they will do or who they are. of course you have to protect your seolf first, but getting out of the situation to asses is the best. if you get stuck in alask wilds, you need to find shelter first, water , food, there are process, just because you are not awre, ignorant, dosnt mean you are right.

[@bassssaasuuuup]

@@clos1393why do you want to see it? Why do you want to see those women’s trauma?

[@bassssaasuuuup]

Honestly ! this level of violence is terrifying all because of male ego

[@clos1393]

@Badtothebone Javis I don't want to see it to enjoy such trauma to women. Come on now. Let's be adult. Why would you even suggest such a thin? Itbis an outrageous assumption.Point that question to someone else, Honey. Now since you did ask, I would like to see the video to make form my own opinions according to what I see. Otherwise, I am simply hearing a story. Terrible as it it. I mean no disrespect to you and I feel you said that to me because you felt such hurt from such an ordeal still occurring in the modern world. Now sidenote, I also asked if anyone knows what became of the assailants. Someone commented that some of them got 24 years in prison. They also replied, unfortunately, because of some laws in the area, they could possibly not have to serve the full sentence. We are on the same side, Friend.

[@minini5571]

Wow. Their mothers must be so proud. Despicable.

[@manejimenez8601]

I agree, but also why do we always say "mother" when we're talking about education. Men are never mention in parenting and that's the point, they are never held responsible for being healthy rol models and being activly involucrated in parenting. Men should stop replicating a model were violence is considered manly

[@Nonyah123]

Their FATHERS should be disgusted..Why is this always on mothers

[@minini5571]

@@Nonyah123 fathers too. In most cultures, mothers do most of the parenting. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Nonyah123]

@@minini5571 and thats something we can change by pointing it out constantly. Men, especially men like these, need fathers to demonstrate how to be a good man. A mother cant do that, by 13 her son is already bigger than her and meeting older gang members

[@minini5571]

@@Nonyah123 …Using your logic, all boys raised by single mothers are doomed.

[@sunflower4879]

This is a perfect example of bystander effect. As a domestic violence survivor it's something I experienced often. People fully cable of calling for help, doing absolutely nothing. Even if it means saving someones life. They're just as bad as the abusers in my opinion.

[@Maya_hee]

They are absolutely just as bad. I am not saying they should have stepped in even though they could have, they should have at least called the police or authorities to stop the situation.

[@prettyevil6662000]

Bystander effect is actually legally enforced in China. A couple comments mention it. But you get sued if you attempt to interfere in things like this, plus you may become the perpetrator as far as the police are concerned if you are easier to arrest than the actual perpetrators. The police do not stop incidents like this. It actually puts everyone in danger when the police show up. This is the world of the CCP. Where citizens are too afraid of having their lives destroyed or being arrested for convenience and are unable to help their fellow citizens.

[@JulieSevelson-nb9nj]

Bystanders are often content to watch the drama,they have no ethics. Not to mention the restaurant staff ! Any of them could have called the police right away.

[@stumpedII]

there are gangs in china.. you can die helping someone.. how will that make things better? yes you can help if you have a gun and start shooting.. but if you dont have a gun your just going to be another victim.

[@knoxham]

@@stumpedIINo one said they were

[@snippetsofvictoria]

When I was in college, I turned a guy down for a date and he punched me in the head twice and tried to drag me into some bushes. There were so many bystanders and absolutely no one even tried to help. Unluckily for him, I have carried a nightstick in my bag since I was 15.

[@bridykes9986]

My dad makes me carry 2 kinds of mace just in case can't get to the other plus I carry a knife my area is so bad with drugs lately when it never has been before with crime too etc im afraid to go out at night alone I want to carry a gun honestly only thing I've had happen when I told guy I wasn't interested he followed me home luckily I saw what he was doing and drove around till I lost him I def wasn't pulling in my driveway with him following me lord only knows what he had in mind

[@MusMasi]

where was this? in front of those many people?

[@snippetsofvictoria]

@@MusMasiat my university during my first year.

[@taylorweems3746]

@@MusMasiyou’re asking as if it’s unlikely, while watching a video about how a group of strangers watched and did absolutely nothing. If that’s Your point you’re choosing to not see the reality of situations like this and that’s on you

[@ebel-mt2dm]

@@MusMasibystander effect

[@Mary-sh2bp]

These girlfriends is the literal meaning of loyalty. Those women have more courage than that pea sized genital green jacket guy. I hope he and his friends get the attempted murder conviction!

[@nightowl7261]

The green guys shirt and his crew are also loyal. They came in and just started fighting without even knowing the details. Loyalty on both sides.

[@0piumdevinityx]

@@nightowl7261Yeah went to go fight 4 TINY, PETITE WOMEN without any context😭 I don’t know about you, but that sounds like stupidness and using the fact that it was people they could easily beat up rather than loyalty.

[@0piumdevinityx]

@@nightowl7261I don’t care how loyal a person is to his friends, any sane person that would go in ready to fight would pause and think for a second “what would these tiny, unprotected women possibly have done to get beat up this badly?”

[@nightowl7261]

@0piumdevinityx Don't take your anger out on me. I was just going off based on OP talking about loyalty. And there is no doubt, there is loyalty on both sides.

[@Usergin-c6d]

@@0piumdevinityx Stop taking opium

[@cry432]

I hate how the FIRST comment supporting those monsters was: "If the woman wasn't so harsh when rejecting him, they wouldn't be beaten, TO THAT EXTENT." So they knew that if she said: "No please, leave me alone" she was still at the risk of being beaten just "not as bad"? What the fuck is wrong with these people. I have been in a position of saving a girl from a man that was trying to take her away when she was walking to the bus stop to get home. The second I heard her say no I started to get her away, while also threatening police. I got him to leave and I got on the bus and took that girl home. It was around 10 pm when I got her home. We told her parents and they didn't want to let me leave to get on my next bus home. Which I went on anyways because I just needed to make sure he wasn't coming back. Thankfully since we called the police while waiting for the bus I was met with 2 officers and was told he wasn't seen anywhere near my street. This happened right next to my apartment building. I always told myself that my experience of no one helping was because no one else was around, but watching this makes me feel so disgusted that it doesn't matter who is or isn't around, women are still alone.

[@chickenpermission6969]

“it takes two to tango, she provoked him” um? no? he provoked her by harassing her for sex. this video made me so mad i can’t even express how much

[@marianagaoka9687]

I didn't know that saying "NO" was equivalent to provoking someone.

[@PinkiL]

I am relieved to know all 4 of the victims are alive and were not violated. This is such a horrendous situation and these monsters cannot leave jail alive. I hope Central will hold the local government accountable too.

[@dafrankfranklyspeaking4288]

What do you mean that they were not violated??? The mere fact that he dared to touch the woman without here consent is a violation of her person.

[@vaevz]

i heard 2 passed away?

[@hyman9915]

You may need to re-check your story to get full story about this SAD, SAD Saga of humanity. There is a 2nd part, where they chased the 4 girls into an end alley, continue the assaults with more ferocity, then gang-raped one or more of the girls, then run over one of the girls with a car, over and over. By the time the girls got brought to hospital after the gang of animals left, 2 died soon after from their severe injuries. The other 2 may or may not have survived , still unclear. I fully agreed with you that these animals should be caged up for the rest of their miserable lives, like zoo animals. And their families should be made to compensate the victims and their families for life. Just wishful thinking on my part. It is China and the Biggest Gangstas of all China of the CCP, so it won't happen.

[@cr-jy4qm]

im chinese and i have a lot of insights about this case so im here to let u guys know what actually happened bcs the chinese government have been protecting these bastards and hiding the truth. Unfortunately, all the girls have passed away and they all died horribly. the girl in white shirt got her throat slit by the guy in green shirt using broken beer bottles. blood was scattered all over him. The girl in grey shirt died after they use a metal rod to poke out her eyeballs. they even beat her until her brain was seen falling out. the girl in black was dragged into the second floor and raped. she was thrown from there and got ran over by their car multiple times until she died. (there was a leaked video where she can be seen screaming and crying begging them not to do it while being ran over and beaten, it was really heartbreaking 😢) another girl was sent to the hospital but she was dead shortly after. all of them were killed in the alley. according to netizens, their faces were unrecognisable and their whole bodies were covered in blood. they were lying down helplessly and not able to move. just like that, all 4 brave angels are gone... Rest in peace angels, you girls are truly brave and such wonderful friends. May justice be served and hopefully karma hits them real hard.

[@aya-zi7cx]

they assaulted them in the alley way bro, she said their clothes were bloodied and pants unzipped...what do you reckon? do you need more proof of violence?

[@kathymaru667]

my jaw dropped when stephanie said that people were actually defending those "men's" disgusting actions, its very scary having to know that really nobody will be on your side no matter how much CCTV footage of evidence there are.

[@ewno1566]

@@henryettoit897 what does this have to do with feminism? Also they were literally harmed by males so why would they need a man Hnedry?

[@XRTSDFA]

@@henryettoit897 Are you stupid or what? Not everything revolves around Americans. This is Chinese, and what does strong independent woman has to do with this incident?

[@remurin3147]

@@henryettoit897 get a life and stop being an embarrassment.

[@Lof_Lof-]

@@henryettoit897 because you're a weak ass wet rag of a person

[@nataliesparks4829]

​@@henryettoit897 exactly why there's feminism because of male violence, this is why I don't believe in false allegations against men, because it's in their nature to be violent and rapists and pedophilies, it's better to be safe than sorry, so it's better to call the cops on a suspects whether they're innocent or not

[@hajxra]

Out of all the the true crime cases I have watched this one is the most scariest and saddening one I’ve heard. I hope these girls always stick together

[@i.am.heather]

As a DV survivor, I’m afraid to even look up the cctv footage. Any man that beats a woman or child has a very small sense of self worth and zero self esteem. The pain these women will carry for the rest of their lives is immense - I can’t imagine having to work through trauma while also dealing with netizens.

[@m.donez8]

❤️‍🩹❤️

[@joocytoesntitzz]

You are unbelievably strong for escaping that situation. ❤

[@sanukaru-dr5vy]

What happened in DV?

[@Army4life82]

@@sanukaru-dr5vy Domestic violence.

[@EepyBnnuy]

They know they serve NO purpose in society and that hurts the only thing they have, their ego.

[@AmandaTaylorversion]

I remember when my cousin showed me this I was disgusted and when she told me the backstory I was enraged.. all bc this women didn’t consent to be groped… men will never Stop disappointing me everyday

[@clos1393]

Where can I watch this video footage?

[@onenightofsinn]

@@clos1393it is on youtube

[@Ozarka636]

Video?

[@onenightofsinn]

@@Ozarka636you can find it by searching women attacked in china

[@guts8770]

This are not ordinary men this a gang there's a difference

[@colewebster7463]

I feel that the "people" who did this should be imprisoned for life. To have people like this living freely is incredibly dangerous. It breaks my heart as a man to see this not only happen, but to not have a single man try to break this up. It's heartbreaking as a human period to see something so atrocious.

[@wolfgirl8260]

You are right but the one's that did not help them are not real men and never will be

[@Valchrist1313]

Women need to figure out whether they want to fight the patriarchy or want paternalistic protection. They can't have it both ways.

[@publiccake]

men vs men results in death though not just a few bitch slaps, and do you really want to go against a gang?

[@iamadogge3749]

​​@@Valchrist1313 I find it kind of sick that you women want to fight patriarchy or want their protection..? This was a case of basic human etiquette no even an instict to help those girls and that's what I think colewebster meant : D ... I hope we can discuss regarding this topic . We women just want equal rights as men and equal opportunities that's all . Sure , we have anatomical, psychological and physical differences ..We accept them ..Women are incomplete without men and men without women . And sure, there are many , not only women , but people taking advantage of this feminist movement but feminism is very different from matriarchy. You seem like a good person . I would encourage you to educate yourself in this regard . If you want , I have an excellent ted talk link on this topic . If you want , I have no problem sharing it with you !! :) ps : This is all with good intentions and love .❤ Ngl , your comment did make me a little angry tho XD

[@elalala576]

He didn't think his friends were becoming too cruel he just didn't want a murder to inconvenience him.

[@hyang1980ify]

Thank you for sharing this. I’m married already and a guy asked me to marry him. When I kindly told him no, he got aggressive with me. He started threatening me that if I don’t marry him he’ll rape me & take me by force. He even said “”go ahead & refuse me. I’m rich and I will have my way with you one way or the other.”” This happened to me at church. I tried to report this but everybody at church just acts like I’m being a bitch about being upset about this. I feel like the world is going upside down. Where people are making bad shit look like it’s not a big deal when it is. 😢

[@UserFin]

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you okay =[

[@Leslie_Knope]

I hope you changed churches and reported that psycho to the police.

[@m41497]

Unfortunately sometimes, a public announcement helps. Ue social media for protection if you need and it doesn't matter if people believe you or not, just simply making it known who he is and what he did. Any small knowledge or details can help ♡

[@Diotima0fMantinea]

Saying no to someone reveals their character.

[@JulieSevelson-nb9nj]

Church !!!!!!!! How crazy is that guy !?

[@Nothin45]

Was punched repeatedly in the face in the train station by a random man. He asked if I had a bf and when I said yes, he called me a b**** and punched me. Stories like this and what I’ve been through make me feel like women can’t just say “no” or be polite when declining advances. And the legal process of it all is even more discouraging for those that have been through something like this.

[@emilymiguel8198]

He was incel who was mad he couldn't date you. F that guy and all his like.

[@T_E_G]

Plus it's not just the violence that comes with it, I've heard girls with "guy friends" only ever really wanted to date them instead of having a good friendship with them. Which is a horrifying realization.

[@Nothin45]

⁠​⁠@@emilymiguel8198 I really believe that he was angry because of that as well. This happened may of this year and he was just released and the FEMALE judge dismissed the case. This happened in the public train station and the public transportation workers were witness to what happened. I did not get an opportunity to speak in court nor was I granted any kind of restraining order. This world and it’s legal system are not on the side of women getting justice for these kinds of crimes. It makes it ten times worse that a female judge dismissed the case even after seeing the evidence. It’s too disheartening to pursue any further

[@Nothin45]

@@T_E_G I’ve never thought about it in that way and I’m glad you gave me the perspective. It’s very true that this happens in so many instances 🫠😞. I just try to be positive as much as I can though.

[@julesverneinoz]

I'm sorry that's horrible @@Nothin45. Wishing you strength in your recovery... If it's not too offensive and it's ok if you don't want to respond, may I ask which state/country this happened in?

[@audrey8275]

That video of the girl that needed to be dragged away by her boyfriend gave me a feeling that if that restaurant had been filled with women, most if not all would have joined in to protect those girls. We have to protect our own.

[@madalice5134]

In my experience, women are more likely to help and protect women and children. Most of us have experienced harassment or violence, or know someone who has, so of course we're not going to just sit and watch it happen. It's ironic that the redpill guys always screech about women needing men to protect us. Really? They're the ones hurting women, or just twiddling their thumbs when crap like this happens.

[@Riszka-y5n]

Meanwhile men do nothing. They don't see us as equals so they don't care -.-

[@Valchrist1313]

Women need to figure out whether they want to fight the patriarchy, or want paternalistic protections. You can't have both.

[@rayamariel9715]

​@@Valchrist1313 How about we protect one another regardless of gender?

[@ADaniBear]

@@Valchrist1313feminism is when you can't accept any help from men 🙄 you're so shallow

[@Eli-wl4vj]

Thanks!

[@CheeseFrLife]

how didn’t anyone notice you yet 😧

[@brittney9281]

I sobbed when the video popped up on my feed. Those poor women, I cant imagine how terrified they were and knowing there’s so many people around and yet no one is helping makes my stomach ache. No one should ever be treated like this, ever

[@RusticRonnie]

In China people who get involved can get in trouble with the CCP, so you trying to protect the women could land you in jail and in a lawsuit

[@TheJarric]

its wise you get lot of truople for helping

[@brittney9281]

@@TheJarric Would you still say that if it was someone you love being brutally beaten by a gang of thugs? If everyone in that restaurant intervened like they should’ve the women probably could’ve avoided serious physical injuries but no, everyone was a coward.

[@TheJarric]

@@brittney9281 yes law hits hard on vigilantes even if you can deal with thugs

[@brittney9281]

@@TheJarric Obviously the law doesn’t do anything to anyone since these gang members were on the streets.

[@jesek9631]

I remember hearing about this! Disgusting that they’d attack women like that just because they were rejected. Thank you for todays video Stephanie, can’t wait to watch the whole thing!

[@FanofSC17]

I’m crying while watching this. I was carjacked when I was 21. 4 people attacked me & beat me while tons of bystanders just watched. No one helped me. At the time I was so embarrassed, ashamed, and angry. I now understand why boons helped me- they were fearful for their own lives, but it made me feel so helpless & alone. I wish the best for these victims & hope they recover quickly from their physical/mental pain/trauma. ❤

[@mariacidaliapereiragaidola5405]

Situations like these need lots of hands on deck to stop the situation escalating &if need be the rest as well,technology the bystanders are in the same group as the aggressors.

[@homeytoyer8303]

What?? You are a woman. Strong and independent. No way any male or group of males can beat you in combat or a gun fight. A real woman can fight and kill with her bare hands. Men fear the strength and wrath of a real woman.

[@gender-fluidARMY]

I’m sorry that you went through that. I’m around the age that you were at the time, and I still live at home. I have a physical disability, so I know that I’m even more vulnerable. I’ll have keys on me to use as a weapon and/or pepper spray. My mom always says that I should follow crowds even if I’m not part of the group that I’m following. I’m constantly checking my surroundings even if I know that I’m in a relatively safe area. Please be as careful as you can.

[@FanofSC17]

@@gender-fluidARMY you too love!!! ❤️

[@pennyp7382]

Yes. I'm so sorry. It's terrifying....then a total mindfuck. I'm a survivor of sex and labor trafficking. We go out in public. People don't help. They all sit on their couches imagining they'd do this and that...well, not how real life works. I asked for help...from a cop once. He called me a "whore" and told my traffickers they had "nice pants" "Thanks Versace" 😢 I had to just take my chance one day. They kept us naked when locked in a house or weekly stay. My 2 watchers started fighting and I ran butt naked screaming for help. I was screaming "if you're going to kill me do it now!!" Over and over just to make noise in case they caught me someone may help. It was summer in Las Vegas....people were laughing and honking...throwing shit at me. One person thankfully threw a smoothie or something like that. It was cold and my feet were on fire. Ibwas stopping in little bits of shade begging for help. Finally an angel of an Ethiopian cab driver pulled over and threw his coat over me...I started fighting and he calmly said...I'm not one of them. I'm not one of them. You are safe now. I will take you to my wife for some clothes and a meal. We are from Ethiopia we have been through a lot." ❤ I relaxed a little bit and he got on the speaker phone saying something to his wife in a language I didn't understand. She was an earth angel. She had a warm bath with soft music playing She had clean clothes from her oldest daughter that would fit me and a little piece of candy on top. She had a meal prepared when I got out. Her kids were so sweet and funny. I finally, with these strangers, felt comfortable a little. I slept for 14 hours. I woke up to her saying she got me a ticket to my hometown where I could get my barings. She told me some things they survived in a was zone with their children and how happy they were to be in the USA. ❤Right before I was about to get on a bus she handed me $100. 😮 She lived with her husband and 3 kids in a 1 bedroom apartment happily in Las Vegas. I tried to make her take it back. She insisted and smiled such a big smile with her arms wide open. She said just keep going...no matter what...just keep going. Accept your blessings. I've never forgot her voice saying that at very low times. Trauma comes in many forms. When the people you assume will help are sometimes as harmful as the perpetrators, it's another level of trauma to layer on. I believe in you. No matter what...keep going.

[@panzerdad]

As a father myself, this is extremely heartbreaking. Thanks for sharing these stories. Much love.

[@SIX.Sph3re]

When I was younger my grandma was often the person to say “the clothes she wears, reflects what she wants.” Or “what was she wearing?” Or “why didn’t they just say no?” But at the age of 10 and even now I realized saying No isn’t as easy as people make it out to be. And what makes it scary- is *NO MEN HELPED* kinda proves that u aren’t even safe in public- another way of human nature?

[@user-dh6tk7ym4w]

many people resort to victim blaming because if they believe the victim were to blame, it means that that they wont get into the same situation as long as they dont do the same thing

[@stumpedII]

beggs the question.. why would anybody put themselves at risk in the first place. why werent they armed with machete's to open coconuts or guns to hunt rabbits.. or a nice big fat CCP lapel pin.. no situational awareness? no common sense.. or perhaps they just live in a sheite hole country that is unsafe for anyone but the rich who can afford security? if guns not allowed a big dog or 2. no one messes with people with a big dog. sure these women had the right to be there.. but fi you applied risk assessment and common sense did they do the right thing in the first place.. if your going to go to war over civil rights at least be armed. the ONLY reason these guys were punished.. is cus they brought shame to china. that's it.. it went viral. this does not help 99% of the other victims brutalized every day in china. one thing thugs respect.. is power.. point a loaded gun at them. issue a dire warning. if they move toward you .. dont even blink.. do the right thing.. then get out of dodge fast.

[@huynhyurivanvladamir7978]

Where stròng independent women chant go ?

[@NelsonStJames]

Saying NO MEN HELPED is kinda' blaming too, because you're assuming all men are equal when it comes to ability. Just being a man doesn't mean any random dude off the street could go toe to toe with Mike Tyson, and yet that's the kind of idiocy our culture propagates. Our culture wants men to do stupid stuff on some occasions simply because they are men, which is just as demeaning as making certain assumptions about women simply because they are women, and still people want to play dumb as to why some men are obsessed with trying to live up to these insane ideals of manhood.

[@halostill-alive5790]

​@@stumpedIII'd rather die defending someone honorably than stay without doing anything, like a coward.

[@AngieLea]

This is horrific. I was in my car with my husband and kids in the back. A young girl was being beaten up by a guy. We literally stopped the car and both me and my husband ran to them. My husband grabbed the guy to stop him and i literally carried the girl to my car. It was her boyfriend. He swung at my husband and he litetally knocked him out. He came round as the police came. The girl wouldnt press charges. My husband had to go to the police station as he hurt the boyfriend. No charges were filed thankfully. I would do it again and again.

[@naglfar6305]

All it would've taken is one weapon in that boyfriend's hands and your husband would be dead, think carefully whether you'd do it again or don't, your only reason for caring if your own husband dies keeping some random woman safe is your husband's income and if you are rich, that's not that important.

[@jeonghq]

@@naglfar6305 im trying to read comments and all I see is you replying whining and whining. and the copy and pasting lmao

[@naglfar6305]

@@jeonghq I'm trying to read comments and all I see is a bunch of women expecting men to just fight without any care for the mans safety, to be expected, considering women treat men like disposable objects

[@sgu1645]

@@naglfar6305 It's ok if you don't want to help but going around and criticizing people for helping is outrageous . All it would take for you is also one serial killer and if you are in a situation where you are a victim and people nearby are not helping and only watching , you will know what it's like .

[@naglfar6305]

​@@sgu1645 Save the hypothetical scenario for someone else 🤡 I've already been in a scenario where I've been in danger but no one helped me and I wouldn't expect anyone to put their life in danger to help me either, that's incredibly entitled. What I hate however is rampant misandry in the comment section and the women here that are shaming the men for not stepping up and putting their life at risk. I'm not surprised though, most women see men as a disposable object to be used and thrown away. Any man that isn't useful and self sacrificing should be shamed, according to women. So go on 🤡, shame every man for not doing anything because they wanted to keep themselves safe and to go home to their family instead of losing their lives to some save some random woman who wouldn't even remember them the next day.

[@CocotheChameleon]

I truly believe no ones able to do story telling like stephanie does

[@angelicbeing9432]

I agree!! 💗🙂

[@zenpaistudios]

Agree it's a true talent that she has 🙏🏼💕

[@cupids4angel]

try dark asia by megan if u like steph

[@youxarexmyxsunshine]

Also check out this guy “the dark and strange…” forgot his name he’s also a good and captivating storyteller.

[@crowzet0]

glazer

[@RemyDarling]

Girl Number 3 is a friend all girls want and wish they had if they don't already.

[@natalieyun9365]

I literally hate whoever on the internet defended the guys beating up the women, like are you not stable? Do you have no feelings? Do you know how it feels the trauma the women had to go through? I just hate people like that and even the pick mes who just said that for attention.

[@unitydestiny]

I agree! I can't believe sick people are born into this world, but that's not really surprising.. and the pick mes are very very very annoying! like this is NOT the time to act like a pick me.. like girl get out of here and stop tryna please the boys /nay

[@raaaaaaarr]

Yes, yes, and no, is my guess

[@divineboi97]

Men shouldn’t hit women under any circumstances but I cannot fault a man that chooses to hit a woman back if she hits first, but these men attacked women because they got rejected it’s just sad and sorry asf

[@m.donez8]

Thank you for covering this case. Violence against woman is such a despicable crime, it’s so infuriating that it’s seen as “controversial” to some. Women’s Rights are Human Rights.

[@kaddy2]

Some men do not realise, the chances of them knowing a woman over the age of 13 who has not been harassed, abused or assaulted for saying no to another man is almost zero. i remember at 14 getting hit on by some old man at the shopping centre while waiting for my dad to get smokes, he comes up to me grabs my hand and tells me im beautiful and goes to kiss it, so i rip my hand out of his and step back looking into the tobacconist for dad, next thing i know the mans shoved me, almost knocked me down and yelled: youll get taken care of you little slut. my dad was a 6ft8 dark skinned hungarian man whos face looked in pain when he smiled. old mate regretted his decision and we all agreed to leave once security got my dad to stand down, as once it was explained by us and those around us what happened, it was clear old mates beating would end in a jail cell next to my dad. i was in public. in a busy shopping centre less then 4m away from my dad, on the seating you see down the middle of large walkways in malls. the only thing i did wrong was be female and appear to be alone.

[@nahimgood4]

That last line rings so true I’m almost in tears. I was 15 and just trying to get my burrito and guacamole that I had wanted for weeks beforehand before being harassed by a grown man. I was victim blamed right after by a loved one. I’m so sorry that happened to you and I’m happy your father was there to protect you❤

[@angelpixiegirl]

I always got catcalled by older men when I went to my local 711. Asking if I had a husband (starting at age 12!) Like girls get harassed starting at such a young age

[@stumpedII]

ya it took me a marriage and wisdom of old age to realize your chance of finding a woman who will not destroy your life. is pretty low too. Men approach women with caution.. its a big trap.. and its set for you. if your young wait for the robots... and never ever forget women are the most deadly predators on the planet.. they are not the strongest but they are the smartest. evolution designed them to run circles around you. touching a woman without her permission in writing and in front of witnesses and before a blood test, is a horrific risk. get body cams.. so you can defend yourself in a biased sexist court that presumes men are guilty. most of the dumber men are in prison already. but they can get a few smarter ones too. the number 1 thing men should fear AND RESPECT on this planet .. are women!

[@bhavya5692]

Make that 5 years old. Heck even 7 months old because the youngest victim of crime against women is an 8 month old baby girl.

[@NaNa-ou1sg]

​@angelpixiegirl Yeah, the tween years are honestly the worse. They know you don't know how to respond or even really understand what's happening. It's so gross

[@cinthiatorres7314]

Its always so frustrating to me when men say they're "protectors" and im not saying there aren't men who do intevene in situations like this but a lot of times women are more likely to intevene.

[@lilac841]

I've seen 3 public assaults happen and EVERY time it was only women who intervened even though there were plenty of men just standing around. I was at Starbucks a week ago and a man was screaming at a woman who was apparently his ex. He was in a huge truck and blocked her car in so she couldn't leave. When I arrived there were already two women trying to keep her safe. When he got out of his car and went to try and what it looks like attack her the other women in the crowd and I all rushed to help. There was probably 8 women helping and at least 4-5 men all just standing by the side and watching. In another instance, I saw a woman running out of a resterunt screaming and beating up her boyfriend. He just sat down on there curb crying and trying to block his head. Who intervened? Several women. I told her I was calling the cops and she tried to go after me and 2 other women physically stopped her.

[@anadubar4819]

That is exactly what I heard a cop say in a lecture about civil courage. It's normally the women standing up to protect someone else, and men normally just stand and stare.

[@DesireeEagle]

Women have stronger protection instincts!

[@teodorasavoiu4664]

So, men are selfish cowards? What else is new.

[@Celisar1]

@@DesireeEagle It is NOT instincts! It is courage and bravery but people like you downplay that in women while calling men for the exact same thing a hero. Sexism in women is hard to stomach.

[@Qmohd1]

We only owe a responsibility of protection to our families.

[@housewife_ninja]

To me, the biggest reason why people were blaming the original woman was because she was angry and responded angrily. As an easily angered woman, I can confirm people do not give you compassion often and this desperately needs to change. I shouldn't have to be quiet and submissive to be deserving of acceptance.

[@rumjhumgupta7137]

Do they think a different kind of reaction would prevent this? Those men have no respect for women.

[@510235]

joining u on affirming that people's perspective of loud and easily angered woman (me) is always blamed/the problem. just telling u u're not alone

[@45suad]

Ppl who say that it was her angry response are just looking for any reason to blame the women because if she didn’t yell or fight back they’d say she liked the attention and was being a flirt. 😑

[@artorhen]

However, if you look at the situation, the violence already started and it would likely put her in more danger to try and talk to him or deescalate. The only time you can deescalate a situation is before the violence starts, once it starts, you need to prepare yourself to defend yourself. When you are smaller, you might be physically incapable to block an attack, which is why it could likely be a better tactic to fight dirty. But the truth is, there is no guarantee to what can happen in this situation and with someone irrational that wants to start violence regardless of how the woman responds or chooses to defend herself. The fact that these women survived does prove that what they did for survival was good, because in many of these situations, it leads to the victim's deaths. The best thing to do in this situation is actually for someone to call the police. The person that is being attack obviously can't, and even the self-defense should be used to buy enough time until the police arrives, which can easily be called by anyone that isn't in direct contact or near the fight. You can even legally protect your identity when you call the police, or go to the bathroom and call from there for extra reassurance, but there was absolutely no risk or effort required for anyone in that restaurant to call the police.

[@alextorres1038]

@@45suad not blaming "because" being a woman, just blaming for the reaction. As a guy if I reacted the same way to another drunk stupid ass guy, I would get the same reaction back, going to places full of drunk people require the skill to be able to evade these angry drunk guys.

[@sherlyn3771]

hearing stories like this always make me so afraid and it’s so scary then i realize this is real life and this could happen to literally anyone. it’s so sad actually /:

[@BLUE_OCTOBER-TRIX]

Get a firearm to defend yourself. If you don’t want a firearm. Learn martial arts, and self-defense. Don’t let the world treat you like the victim. Most of the time you have to be able to defend yourself. When you need help in seconds. the police are minutes away. When you know you can defend yourself. You won’t feel so defenseless. I definitely recommend martial arts to anybody. Especially to ones that feel defenseless. Especially to women that cannot defend themselves. Once you learn some martial arts. You will be able to defend yourself. You will feel confident. that you can defend yourself. You won’t feel so afraid. I tell you if I was there. I would take care of business. I am a black belt 🥋 in martial arts. I cannot stand predators. attacking defenseless women, children, disabled, or the elderly. Also, animals are included. If anyone messes with anybody. that’s defenseless against them. They will feel my wrath. They will not like what happens to them. No women of today. should be afraid. to be able to go outside. living a regular life. I promise, if I ever come across a scenario similar. I will do everything in my power. to help the defenseless. Where are the real men indeed?

[@IceBioshock]

here in germany somebody like me would come to your aid - I just couldnt stand by and watch and I know the outcome - cause something like this happened in my city already: one guy was fighting against 6 others, a bystander came to his rescue and he was attacked by them aswell and ended up in hospital my personal story: somebody was attacked by somebody else, and even though he was a fully grown man, he was so afraid that he acted like a toddler, I came in between and stood the ground for him and stopped the attack, but it was only 2 vs 1 and im in shape - could have ended differently if i wasnt

[@BLUE_OCTOBER-TRIX]

@@IceBioshock I Agree ☝️I definitely would help out too

[@jeannerogers7085]

Not only sad, Sherlyn, but terrifying and outrageous. Carry bear spray and get self defense training.

[@TheJarric]

@@jeannerogers7085 45 beats bear sray

[@RueDelilah]

If my man tried to stop me from defend another woman we’d be breaking up

[@Diana734]

The woman that was hanging with those men...says a lot about her character. If the police are not willing to do anything the military needs to get involved.

[@otmossampacado1550]

Sure 🥱🥱🥱

[@nightowl7261]

They're into bad boys

[@Zomboy123456789]

Kinda odd how she was allowed to maintain her humanity when the rest were just called pigs… bit of double standards there.

[@mx.n.3682]

​@@Zomboy123456789because all she did was hang out with them and she tried to stop them when things were getting out of hand, but as a woman herself there's little she could have done. If she'd stood to the side, hyped them up or even joined in then yes she'd probably also get name called.

[@jadekai8208]

​@@mx.n.3682nah man, as a female I am really disgusted with other females like this. If they were threatened to be with them, I'd understand but at the looks of it, considering she just grabbed a chair out of instinct says a lot. As a female if you can condone and be with friends like that, you should be ashamed.

[@bani2899]

I’m not a woman or a girl, but I lived with mostly women in my life. I always saw my sister get beaten up by my father for stupid reason and as a 6-8 years I always froze when it happens and cry because I don’t know what to do to help her. Even till today I still feel guilty that I couldn’t do anything to help my sister. It makes me sad knowing a lot of women get abused for absolutely zero reason. All we can do now is just hope this stops and this toxic culture between men ends.

[@lauraanderson8785]

That's completely different since you were a child and you would've had to go against a grown man if you had interfered. You don't have to feel so guilty, your situation isn't the same as this one where adults didn't do anything. Plus abusive family dynamics are different, the children in these types of families have been taught to fear and obey their parents from a young age. In this case there were no family dynamics at play and there were multiple adults present who would've had the power to stop it if they had tried. Of course it's sad what your father did, you were both his victims

[@Jianener]

And many man chose to turn a blind eye to these things, just when can they face their problems. When they ask why can’t woman accept man’s anger, just look at how severe domestic violence is, it’s not we don’t want to, it’s just too risky.

[@IkesPimpHand]

​@@Jianener remind me again,how many women care and don't turn a blind eye to men's problems? Why should we care?

[@8makes1_team80]

​@IkesPimpHand omg, go bother ppl somewhere else

[@IkesPimpHand]

@@8makes1_team80 go be a burden somewhere else

[@kindlyignore]

One of the girls from the couple tried to intervene but was held back by her boyfriend who then dragged her away. No adult male tried to help any of these women, only other women. Sounds about right….

[@SittingComfortably]

I wonder what difference there is being male in such a controlled place as China.

[@VelvetRed-rz8ur]

But they still claim you need a man for “protection” biggest scam on history..

[@Nikolas-Abdul-Hamid]

Why should men protect women? Dont you support feminism?

[@badcleric86]

Dude, with the disparity between the women to men ratio, you would think there would be MUCH harsher laws for s/a, and s/h against women

[@Mr.WestcottX]

For real. Especially in China. 🇨🇳 More Men than women in sex ratio. 😮 Likelihood of assault/S/A on women

[@SiaD777]

Victim blaming is almost as vile as the act itself. God bless the girl who tried to help. And as for the rest, may God have mercy as one day judgement is coming, make no mistake about it.

[@genkosan6083]

Your imaginary friend gets you nowhere. 😂😅

[@SiaD777]

@@genkosan6083 this is where you're seriously mistaken. You sound so certain yet have no evidence to support your claim. Whether you believe it or not judgement IS coming and we will all be held accountable for what we do and say. I pray God opens your heart and mind to the Truth. 🙏

[@sharlacewilliams9797]

@@SiaD777 Why didnt god stop the assault?

[@4m4n40]

@@sharlacewilliams9797 Dw god’s already given them a Mercedes Maybach with a 200k+ no. plate tens of millions and immunity to crime for decades. He’s just giving them a taste till they get to heaven and get treated even better.

[@Glamstvr]

​@@sharlacewilliams9797God has given everyone free will and brain in this world, Some just use it wrongly. God has also told what is right and what is wrong, And the punishments of doing Wrong.

[@tuesdaywithjisoo8395]

"She had the audacity to reject one of the men" "All 4 of them hospitalized" And people wonder why we don't just say no.

[@DeaDiabola]

We keep saying it and they never listen. Social credit for all men pls

[@ShiningXxStars]

Like, why is it so hard to accept a 'no'? We shouldn't be scared to say 'no'.

[@alvinsmith3894]

And they still wonder why women are angry at men.

[@md_0930]

​@@DeaDiabola And exactly those statements lead to the fact that there's so much anti-force. "We", "They", "All men". There are assholes out there who dont accept a no, and they should be, imho, enprisoned, but yet like 90% of men are super nice and respectful. So dont overgeneralize like that.

[@randomlygeneratedname5620]

​@md_0930 while I'm aware it's not all men, you're pulling that stat straight out of your ass. They did a study a few years ago and around 1/3 of men would force themselves on a woman if there were no consequences, and that's in the US, iI'm sure in countries where women are seen as little more than objects it's even worse. In addition, there's the men who stand by and do nothing when their buddies do shit to harass women. Look at men in power and how many have (and likely still do) participate in sex trafficking, look at the shit early Hollywood actresses had to put up with if they wanted to be in the industry. Yes, it's likely the majority of men are good, or at worst neutral, but to sit there and say 90% as if you didn't just make that up is ridiculous, especially when so much of current and past events tell us otherwise and how much shows us that the only thing keeping many men from being predators is the fear of being caught.

[@Rain5x]

I watched the CCTV and this group of guys is disgusting. The attacker wearing a white t-shirt even hit his own gf mistaking her for one of the women is insane like they just saw a woman and started swinging without thought.

[@토끼-k96]

Jail for life.

[@madmadmadz]

Such a good point, if that woman stays with him she is a lost cause too. Imagine seeing all of that, even getting hit YOURSELF and thinking the man you’re with is a good man. Insane.

[@artorhen]

Idk what some girls see in these types of guys.

[@artorhen]

@@fartsmella9267 who knows, it is plausible. Though some women do really start out with thinking that a guy that presents themselves as more aggressive would not be towards them and instead think that they are somehow more reliable on protecting them. But most often men with this nature don't really care where they hit, because they never actually have in mind to protect anyone, they just get frustrated easily and the people around pay for it. And then when these women realize that's how things are, they are stuck in a bad situation where it's not so easy to leave from anymore. Though with help and the creation of a girl code to stick to one another, we could probably find ways to help.

[@seabreeze667]

@@artorhen those girls are victims too

[@atourversace4032]

Man: if there was no men, who would've protected you? Woman: From who??