The Weight of It All

[@esthergrace6466]

I NEVER bring up someone's weight if they don't bring it up TO ME. And when they do, I try to support them in their effort to get healthier!

[@sursr2820]

Same.

[@sandyboo2]

right if I didn't ask don't bring it up.

[@hellelima6458]

I know! It's so rude!

[@AmmaMama]

FACTS!

[@narizdebrody97]

Exactly! Loni is right. People have mirrors home, if someone is overweight they know...

[@itsmakelarose1342]

Family is the worse especially black families if you are to skinny you get clowned and if you to big you get clowned they ain't never satisfied.

[@sammyjames1234]

Makela Rose if this ain't the truest thing I've read. I used to be naturally thin when I was younger due to a high metabolism but I always ate a lot and my family crowned me for years about it and even called me anorexic. Now that I'm older and that I'm thicker they complaining cause I've gained weight 🙄 can't win with black folk

[@myhextixmind8632]

I SWEAR!!

[@makalaa.2105]

I was just about to say that

[@TT-wj1kx]

true.

[@iwazhere67]

Makela Rose don't get me started on Africans. Ugh

[@Tbridgeford]

I absolutely adore Tamera. She is the definition of compassion, sincerity and class. She is an incredible role model for any woman.

[@MissHumble1000]

Completely agree with Loni. We already know we overweight, you dont need to point it out. it has to be them to make that choice and decision to lose the weight. Stop intruding on peoples' lives and telling them what they should do.. it's annoying..

[@NellieKAdaba]

That is true, my African and Caribbean family and church people told me as if I didn't know, saying don't gain anymore weight, and my mother asked my cousin if she gained weight, that's not acceptable. It's even embarrassing. Everybody should mind their own business.

[@MsBrooklyn11232]

My family is from the Caribbean islands and Caribbean people love to comment on people's weight. If you are heavy they make comments about you and make fun of you, and if you are very skinny they comment on it and make fun of you. I personally don't like it when people comment on my weight because it is a sensitive subject to me. However I agree with Loni, heavy people already know that they are big and skinny people already know that they are small. They do not need you to come up to them and say rude comments about their weight. If a heavy person wants to lose weight that is a decision that they have to make and they will lose weight when there are ready.

[@itsjuicenotwine]

MsBrooklyn11232 Totally off topic but is that a movie in your pic ? The girl is suzy right?

[@idontwannabelonelyijustwan1044]

I think that is the "poster" for the drama Uncontrollably Fond starring Suzy and Kim Woo Bin

[@Neeesha]

MsBrooklyn11232 You're right! That's how it is here

[@MsBrooklyn11232]

himeno19 It is a Korean Drama called "Uncontrollably Fond" and yes the girl in the poster is Bae Suzy and the guy is Kim Woo Bin.

[@itsjuicenotwine]

MsBrooklyn11232 Thank you ^_^

[@Key_1111]

Some family are just haters. Like my grandma; every time someone compliments my weight loss she says "she didn't lose no weight!" like I lost 40lbs and everyone see's it. Like instead of hating maybe ask for some pointers since you're obese and diabetic. **sips tea**

[@floatingwiththeclouds2016]

Key girl I need some weight loss tips I’m looking to lose around 40lbs too I’m so depressed, what did you do? I’ve searched and I can’t find the perfect most effective way for me to lose weight. HELP!😩

[@dancer2189]

Key YES BITCH you better say it

[@maloumasereel966]

My grandmother feeds me a whole lot of food and then says I’m getting fat

[@maloumasereel966]

Me Flora Very late answer but check Natacha océanes videos about fat loss ☺️

[@LydieAndAnthony]

My family (African family) just says "you are getting too FAT, you need to loose weight otherwise you will be rolling soon" with no filter. ughhh African people are so straight forward. They don't sugar coat things lol

[@titioke739]

Lydie And Anthony VLOGS So true my family is Nigerian they don't sugar coat anything

[@reppinghana]

Yesssss I was gonna say that!

[@Empressive]

My family does the same thing that Jeannie's family does lol. I never took a offense to it because I'm cool with my family being blatantly honest. I don't like when other people comment on my weight though.

[@hilmiahmad9769]

I feel like if the person was telling me that I'm gaining weight 1-on-1, I'll be totally ok about it. But I'll get defensive if it was said in a group settings.

[@calineotelo6244]

Caribbean parents don't be talking sweet either. if you're too fat, they'll straight up tell you, but when you lose the weight and get a little too slim, you'll straight up be called a damn cue tip," with your big ass head. " 😩

[@sharose7969]

lmao truth.

[@Julist1010Aviation]

lmaooooo this.. having Caribbean parents is your worst nightmare😂😂😂😂

[@sharose7969]

but not just parents, all your damn family, friends and neighbours will chime in about your weight. like stfu lol. meanwhile these same ppl are 200lbs +

[@meljohn550]

caline otelo Facts

[@meljohn550]

caline otelo and they dint mind saying it infront a group of strangers.

[@chelseamoore30]

when I was younger I was so skinny and my fam was like u need to eat something even had me go to the doctors and get weight gain pills.... I started eating and couldn't stop I got up to 240 pounds and alot of family members was harsh when they brought up my weight which made me eat more and I reached my highest weight gain 286 pounds I felt worthless bc not only was outsiders making fun of me but my own family was too.... it wasn't until a guy I feel in love with called me fat I knew I had gotten too big so a year and few months after we broke up I decided to do something about it and just take my life back and falling in love with myself again I'm now 275 pounds I know it ain't much but I'm 11 pounds lighter than I was 😘😍👍

[@Kembo14]

i'm ffrom an African family they always going to tell u the thruth about your weight especially your aunts

[@bennysmiley]

bts is lifeuu T_T or they lie to make you feel crap lol

[@christineowori750]

Me too....there's this OOOne aunt of mine that keeps nagging and nagging and NAGGING! gawrsh! what if im fine the way i am!

[@reaunasims]

I think it's important to be honest with your friends or family about their weight.

[@cicigetthat07]

Only if its a SUPER unhealthy weight change it is or if that person asks,,,its kinda of shallow if u noticed some weight change and or feel its ok to point it out

[@kk-lz1by]

Jeannie hair makeup and fashion on point.

[@jcanthony16]

I personally don't think it's anyone's business or place to tell you, that you need to lose weight. Most of the time when we gain weight we already know and can feel insecure about it, so no need for someone else to address it as well.

[@CourtneyA.]

These topics are getting redundant. Every topic seems to be along the lines of Adrienne's marriage, self-esteem/weight issues, same-old sex questions, Adrienne's marriage, cheating, rumors, Tamera's kids, Shade segments, and more on Adrienne's marriage. Here's a list of things I believe they should talk about. *Your thoughts on corporal punishment on children. *Pleasing your husband/wife sexually in spontaneous ways. Kind of like what Steve Harvey did on his show. *Colorism in the Black community. *Thoughts on women going shirtless in public. *Dating online advice. Is it a good idea. *Mainstream music of today *Your thoughts on marijuana. *Heck, even the topic, would you move to Mars? (NASA was given the greenlight to send volunteers to live on Mars) would be better. Those are just a few thoughts. Sorry if it's long. 😂

[@zora99ny]

Except for marijuana and public shirtlessness, they've discussed the issues you've listed. And why would women go shirtless in public? That's not even a concern for most women.

[@jazzyj904]

C Ali well, you're still watching, so it can't be that bad.

[@CourtneyA.]

Tanisha Williams I would hate to see The Real cancelled that's why I gave those suggestions. I watch to show support these ladies. Don't see the big deal especially since I wasn't being nasty or rude like most commenters on here. Go check them boo. 😕

[@thevintagebum]

Why is it that there is such a phobia about accumulating fat deposits. We are the only species that is concerned with this. Oh my gosh... I will just die if my body normally gets bigger. If it was meant for us to not accumulate fat so easily we wouldn't do it. I understand health but damn fat is not a disease. Why tell the person, so they can become self conscious like your senile ass.

[@LIZZyNIqUZZ10]

it's a talk show.. that's what it's about 😂

[@MajesticMyronn]

Anybody else finds them self eating a whole family size of Chips or a whole pack of cookies ?!?! No just me 😂😂 ! But seriously I believe that it's not what you say , it's how you say it ! If it comes from a loving place , and I also have to say that you want them to feel like they can do it with you because you involve yourself instead of making of them feel bad about themselves !

[@saywhatondat]

Myronn Coleman I'm def stuffing my face right about now

[@gudgurlgonebadd]

Myronn Coleman it's BO time for me 😣

[@MajesticMyronn]

Ash Farai and that's ok too haha

[@jannahnurul]

Myronn Coleman pizza right now real talk😂😂😂

[@CDMuffy]

That's impressive. In like a really gross way.

[@mckyisart]

I really love and appreciate all of you girls honestly. I've been going through the hardest of days like going through a break up and learning how to take care and love myself and how to be a boss and just be successful. You guys are like mothers to me and I couldn't help but place this comment because I really am truly greatful for these girl talks. It has been such a great vent and has made me giggle to myself a lot so thank you all so much for what you do and thank you for making my life as a young woman so much more fun.

[@hellelima6458]

My mom is the one who will straight up tell me I'm overweight lol. I gained some weight after having a baby (normal) but got lazy and didn't feel like putting in the effort to getting back to my pre-baby weight. It's like Loni said and I completely agree, when that person is ready to lose weight, they'll do it. I finally now have the desire to eat better (been doing it for 3 days so far). I already feel a little better but it's hard to be on a healthy diet when all I feel like eating is pizza, pasta, fried foods, chocolate etc. And I'll give it about two more weeks before I start working out to actually burn calories and continue eating healthy. #babysteps #I'vegotthis

[@yourgirlraex3]

Helle Lima yes you got it!

[@purestsoul3634]

Jeannie looks great today, lip color really suits her

[@sarahhill2853]

I actually like it when someone mentions it to me because sometimes I don't see myself putting on the lbs at first so it's nice to have that other perspective and try to do something about it before it gets out of hand.

[@esthergrace6466]

I am Tamera's size but occasionally gain like 5-15lbs. I appreciate friends like Jeannie that would help keep me accountable but I also like friends that would enjoy a good cheat day with me!

[@veeplopez5402]

I agree with Loni! I can completely relate as I have been called fat by family members or even worse asked if I was expecting. All these things can be extremely hurtful to people.

[@Onlybridgette]

Iv gained weight but I don't mind if certain ppl that I'm close to to bring it up .... It's fine but I do need to get back in the gym ... Gym partner needed 😊

[@VONiiE8]

I think if it's a size up, it's whatever. If it's a Rob Kardashian weight gain (a lot over a short period of time), then it's concerning. But I won't bring it up unless they do. Never bring it up first 😩

[@nokulungamthembu581]

Can i just say, I LOOOOVE Loni this season. She seems so present and more honest. It's like we're really getting to know her and she's not hiding behind cheap laughs❤

[@4daluvofnikki]

My Paternal Grandmother (May she rest in peace) whom I rarely saw because she lived in another country, but when I did see her she always mentioned my weight. I understand on one hand because she was so used to me being skinny and the minute I put on weight she had to say something about it. I didn't like it.

[@SallyandPaul]

I like this! I have had people ridicule my weight and honestly I did not appreciate it!

[@tianawilliamsrn]

Tamera is such an awesome friend! She is just the sweetest. I'm so glad I grew up with her. She is exactly how Ray and Lisa would have hoped😜

[@katekamerun1550]

Well back in Africa we are not that sensitive. If u gain weight everyone will tell you about it,they be like "man you've put on some weight,I see you living well" that's when its just a few pounds. When u getting to big they start telling you to hit the gym or do something about it. I used to be very big and my mum will tell me stop eating when she noticed i've had enough. Now she is very big and I gave her money to pay for the gym though she has never done it. It all depends on where i come from but i think people are over sensitive these days.

[@LozerChic7]

there is nothing wrong with being sensitive. I'm kenyan and a lot of my family do that but that's cultural it has nothing to do with being 'insensitive' or too 'sensitive' we are human beings and being empathetic and sensitive is a core part of who we are and it's okay to comment on someone's appearance if it's a friend or family but if they tell you they are uncomfortable you should respect it

[@Madonnaleilaable]

+Astoria habari yako......am from Kenya too and I agree with everything you said👍

[@GabyChronicles]

Thank you. Being insensitive is actually an abnormality, and sadly in Nigeria we have a lot of people like that. They don't consider your feelings or what you're going through. They just straight up tell you that you've gotten fat. When I was pregnant with my first child , the amount of ppl that kept telling me i've added weight and need to hit the gym was overwhelming. Telling a pregnant woman she is fat and needs to lose weight is extremely inhumane if you ask me.

[@guppiemitch]

Loni DOES look a lot lighter. looking back from past seasons i can totally see the difference! And I'm so glad she's going about it the HEALTHY way! Loni, teach me your ways!!!! You look great!

[@valerielynch4014]

Thank you Loni!! I've said this so many times. I'm aware that I'm overweight. I own a scale and a mirror.

[@janercherry]

I don't get bringing up someone's weight you gained a few pounds And......?

[@xAaeiynx]

See? See at 4:03? Loni apologized for interrupting! And y'all thought they hated each other -_-

[@aylaa4774]

"You bend. See, now you shake". Im done 😂😂😂😭

[@abbeydrummond]

LONI LOOKS LIKE AN ANGEL THIS SEASON!!!😍😍WHO AGREES?!??🙋🏽🙋🏽🙋🏽

[@kahliaazina4563]

Wtf. Wasn't adriennes 'tap out' the other week chokers?? HAHAH she's always wearing it 😂😂😂

[@YPM498]

I remember her saying she was self conscious about her neck because she has hyperthyroidism or something

[@murphyl8782]

She recently did a "tap it back in" during Dime Speak

[@MariahBraxton1]

My friend and I were shopping and she couldn't fit a dress. I mentioned that she had picked up some weight and she started crying. She then told me she had a medical condition and the medication had steroids in it. I felt so bad. From that point on, I learned to *never* mention someone's weight gain (or even loss), because you just don't know what's going on.

[@kimberlyjamerson2505]

I was never a watcher of this show. Just because I didn't have the time. But I love these ladies. They act more like sisters than co-hosts. I love it. I especially love the guest co=hosts

[@julianaaeriam3097]

A with the choker again XD tap out!:D

[@eyeganai]

right! lmao she couldn't resist

[@julianaaeriam3097]

yep XD

[@julianaaeriam3097]

jajajajaja XD yess

[@lexroza6422]

Juliana AERIAM she already addressed it last week, after loni called her out, basically she regreted tapping them out and she "dimed" them back in, they gave her side eye

[@staainibloggno]

where can I see it?

[@allysonmessina1785]

I dont understand, theyve been through this topic before, you cant keep recycling topics.... booo...

[@lexi219]

Nah, last time they were talking about it from a perspective of how you talk to spouses about weight gain. I'm glad they put a spin on it, because having that conversation with a friend is completely different from having that conversation with your husband or wife.

[@gabby6917]

I feel like you know your friendship is a really strong one when you can tell your friend that they're gaining weight & then understand. I can gain some weight but I might think no one notices so I'll think nothing of it. If my friend brings it to my attention, then I'll know I need to get it together

[@zoily8mii]

My momma is the only one that could tell me I'm getting fat. Why? Because that woman raised me and knows when I am healthy I feel good and feel healthy and happy.

[@GonexWithxAxTwinge]

I agree with Loni. Im 17 years old , 115lbs currently and dealt with weight gain and since I was 14. I've never been diagnosed but I suffer from what some call an eating disorder. I've NEVER IN MY WHOLE LIFE asked my family about me being fat or asked about my weight but continuously they tell me Im gaining weight and getting fat. I've never brought it up because it was a sore topic. Don't bring it up if they do not. Period.

[@jazze.2729]

You are skinny as can be. 115 is nothing.

[@zora99ny]

Depends on how tall the person is.

[@alexzandriahall]

GonexWithxAxTwinge 115? I wish I was 115. I'm pretty sure you look fine.

[@bookbag6432]

I will DEFINETLY tell a friend/bf that they're gaining weight because I would want them to tell me. To be honest catching it early at 10-20 pounds is better then letting them be 40-50 pounds overweight and struggling to loose that weight. Then I could offer to work out with them or give them better eating habits. But if I don't tell them and they get huge and hate themselves for it then i'd defiantly will feel partly responsible. Sometimes people know they are gaining weight but you saying something will help them realize that it is NOTICEABLE and they'll be more likely to change it.

[@adelaidethomas538]

My boyfriend and I both are trying to lose weight. He brought up my weight with me and now we support each other.

[@zenmusicambi]

Yasss, please tell me. Keeps me striving! #real #truth REAL TALK ALLDAY. Rather have it come from someone close to me than on the street.

[@starrynightsleep]

My family is very mean to me about my weight. Even when I was skinnier than I am now(I’m average weight rn), they would always tell me that I need to lose weight, I need to stop eating, im getting big, etc. I’ve never been okay with it. It’s been tearing me apart ever since I learned how to be insecure. They taught me. I blame a specific family member for my eating disorder

[@Im_LaurenB]

Tamera has really good tact with her words! Love her

[@ritap7458]

Loni is so real.

[@reaunasims]

Tamera looks stunning 😍

[@titioke739]

Nigerian parents will tell u. My dad would constantly call me fat , obese to my face and hint that I was pregnant because of my weight . I agree with Loni and Tamera. We have to be careful how we say things because till this day I still see my self as the fat girl and I don't like how look. But I've learned that I'm a beautiful girl and I'm working towards getting healthy. Sorry for this long comment I'm gonna talk about this topic on my channel.

[@titioke739]

Queens News thank you it’s definitely not okay

[@HerSpokenWords]

I agree with Loni girls in high school kept reminding me in getting fatter and i started starving myself people need to watch what they say weight is a sensitive topic.

[@ValerieAbena]

I'll tell friends and family when they've put on weight, more so when they ask. It's up to them whether they want to do something about it

[@stephaniec7216]

Wasn't Adrienne just tapping out chokers a few episodes ago?? 😂

[@laurahiggins3478]

When I started gaining weight, my grandma told me she would give me a dollar for every pound I lost XD. When she first told me this, it definitely hurt my feelings because I'm a sensitive person, but looking back I realized she said it as motivation for me and because she didn't want me in the same boat as the rest of my family, and she wanted me to always be and feel healthy.

[@idelizclarke9050]

When it comes to others i feel like you don't know the reason for their weight. It could be a health reason or medication. You never know. I just say what I feel. As long as your healthy and you feel good about yourself, that's what matters. If you don't, let me know how I can be supportive. As far as telling someone they're getting heavy or too thin, I don't. But then I get yelled at. " omg, I didn't realize i let myself get this far. Why didn't you say anything?!!" I'd rather only say something if you bring it up and start the convo. My family, however, never has a problem critiquing my weight. I'm petite, only 4'11, so when I'm gaining too much, they let me know cuz "too much weight on a short person is not a good look". But I also lose weight quickly, especially if I'm stressed out, and that's when they're like, "stop stressing. Your getting too thin. That's not healthy either". I don't mind cuz I know it's out of concern for my health - either way.

[@JRob594]

I won't tell anyone directly that they need to lose weight but I will give them clues like giving them some slim fast for Christmas😂😂😂😂

[@Madonnaleilaable]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@angiecastro1012]

Tap out chokers? What happened Adrienne?

[@nulezie]

My mom told me to not eat as much chocolate when I was gaining a lot of weight and developed a BAD chocolate addiction. As an adult it made me mad and it hurt, but it helped.

[@nehwonmantor7266]

Asians and Africans must think alike. When my mom hosts a party at house and I come down to eat some food. My family members will point out my weight in front me. Africans are blunt but they believe it comes from a better place. My mom will talk about my body image in front of her friends.

[@katiadjemoui4997]

This show is my favorite I didn't know about it from tv but from KZbin I believe the biggest amount of their fans are fron the internet so they better upload the whole girl chat here after the show airs ...🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😔🙃👀👀

[@swalker7150]

the problem is nobody says anything for fear of offending. .and then your loved one is 500 pounds!

[@layla8647]

I watch the show so I can hear Jeannie do her Vietnamese accent. She does it so perfectly and so funny😂!

[@stefanielauchman7489]

Jeannie slowly transitioning into her accent😂

[@amneomar7465]

Most Africans telling someone you've gain weight it's actually a complement. like "you look so good you've gain weight" But you don't have to be that FAT!

[@DelishaPowell]

Amne Omar listen!!! I’m trying to gain like 15 more lbs!

[@KeaYang21]

I hv never been big in my life but when I had a baby I did gain a lot of weight n u won't believe how many people told me how big I was,telling I need to loose weight,girl u are big,I mean I knew I was but I had a csection and I wasn't gonna exercise a week after giving birth but people can b mean,I'm a strong person and I just focused on the baby and I hv now gone back to my normal size after 9 months,my thing was it took 9months to put on the weight and it will take me 9 months to loose it. When u are big u know,like Loni said,u don't need to hear it

[@learning.growing.1017]

This is why cultural awareness is key...

[@skye7685]

Im 15 and I used to be really skinny and never really had a problem with eating and worrying about my body image, but I gained weight and a certain family member consistently made it known to me that she thought that I was too thick( I’m no nowhere near fat but have always been a little thick in the legs and it’s more noticeable now but I have a very small upper body). After her constantly doing this I developed a bad body image of myself and even developed an eating disorder, bulimia to be exact, that I’m still fighting 1 year later. I’m trying to stop and love my body for what it is, but it’s really hard, but I don’t want to be bulimic anymore and I just want to love myself. Is anyone going through the same stuff as me?

[@mirandac4229]

I totally agree with Loni!! I hate when people point out that to me. Like she said, we, fat people, know we're fat! We don't need someone to tell us lol Like even if they do it because they care about you, just don't.

[@misscindey]

I love you loni you inspire me so mucho!

[@srslytylerdurden3591]

I would NEVER tell ANYONE they look like they’ve been gaining weight. Not my sisters, mom, husband, nobody! They know if they’ve gained weight or not.

[@kendallbrooke173]

My stepmother and her mother have always told me since I was 9 that I was fat. That I needed to lose weight or I’d end up dead like my mom. I developed bulimia while I’m 10th grade. Now I have a thyroid disorder. My stepmom still looks at me like I’m hideous and talks behind my back. She makes me feel worthless, and I’m 23 almost 24 now. My fiancé loves, LOVES my body! He always tells me everyday how sexy I am! I’m trying to move on from all her words.. but from 9-23.. she ruined a big part of my childhood.

[@carolynrubido8424]

ADRIENE !!!! YOU "TAPPED OUT" THE CHOKERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!! girl i see u lolololol love u

[@goooglia]

1:49 she said LONI like how Loni impersonates her

[@ajaay9244]

I'm assuming this has to be for most families. But when you go to family get togethers, it's almost expected for them to say something about you or to you. Especially the older family members; they have no filter!

[@inujinuj]

The first thing I noticed was the choker LoL

[@rima110]

Coming from an African family, you will get told about your weight gain without you asking. I remember trying to have a third plate one time and my mom snatched it from me! 😂

[@pattysparkles8812]

I agree with loni, and if im fat thats my problem.. Unless i ask u for help and tips u can say something.... And adrienne u look amazing...

[@impasse0124]

I think it depends on the person and the situation. If someone gains a noticeable amount of weight in a short time it could be related to some sort of emotional or personal issue and in that case, it's not so much the weight that I'd be concerned about but the cause for the weight gain. I also think a good approach would be to talk about your own weight and goals and then somehow casually ask the person if they want to go walking or jogging with you and make it seem like you just want company.

[@murphyl8782]

My mom is naturally rude and intrusive and she'll be negative just from seeing you holding a case of cupcakes. You can spend most months eating light, but one day you buy something like pizza, cupcakes, cake, etc and from that she'll say you're getting fat...really, I just took a bite 2 seconds ago, how does that work mom?! And cupcakes, croissants, breadsticks come in multiples, I don't want just one, so when she sees you eating them throughout the week she says, you need to pull out the scale so you can see the difference, really, there's a difference in 1-2 days mom?! And she'll say, "I can't help you eat it because I'm trying to lose ?pounds", Good, because I didn't ask for your help. I don't gain much weight and she knows it, but she's just naturally judgmental and it's whack. You definitely don't want people like my mom "helping" you are saying anything at all.

[@fathomlessfitness8540]

I love what Loni said!!! :)

[@mesgsinta685]

Loool the family bit- that's literally my family

[@A925er]

I used to always weigh between 115-120, I started college and gained 60 pounds. The worst thing I heard was through a friend, she told me someone had asked her if I was pregnant....I have since lost 50 pounds and counting. Use comments like that as motivation to get you where you want to be at.

[@gracewilliams1841]

the only time people in Kenya get critisized is only when they loose weight... if u skinny everyone will tell u to eat eat eat.. bt never complains when one is thick

[@Madonnaleilaable]

Habari yako.....Am from Kenya too....but if your too fat....they will make it known😂😂😂

[@gracewilliams1841]

hahahha bt its rare... i mean pple don't get critisized like in US

[@paos6340]

didn't they do this topic in this past

[@jenniferdurrant2196]

paos63 yes!

[@redapple9488]

Loni looking DAMN good these days. Keep going girl

[@grannyfoshanny]

Personally I would never EVER bring up something like that, either to a man or a woman. Chances are that they are well aware that they have gained some weight and they either 1) don't care so don't feel like it needs to be addressed, or 2) know that they gained weight and are trying to do something about it but doesn't think there needs to be a conversation.

[@naecrest5151]

Awkwarddddddddddd . Tameras laugh at the beginning tells it all .

[@josephmendoza4658]

My family will straight up tell you sometimes my mom well talk about them behind their back and I'm like Mama please have a little respect. Others are sensitive they don't have the same feelings like you do.

[@koolkid6963]

some families don’t even CARE which sucks

[@as19J01]

I wish my family was supportive... I wasn't obese but just had little rolls at the age of 13 and my sister would never let me wear her bottoms because I would "stretch them out". When I lost a few kilograms (I was 15) and became just a bit underweight my uncle told me "Have you lost weight?" and I said "yeah", he said "Great, you look neat now"..... so what, I wasn't good-looking before???? I need to have bones poking out of my tummy to clasify as fine?

[@hannahlopez3411]

coming back later for the comments 😀

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

Why is it that the people who say have something about my weight gain are bigger than me! They have a lot of nerve. 😑 Especially when the cause of my weight gain was health problems.

[@livelaughlisten14]

If a person gains like 20 pounds, wouldn't it be better for someone to nicely bring it to their attention and work on it with them if they want to, instead of waiting until they gain 40 pounds and notice it themselves and have twice as much work to do?

[@annalyze5022]

someone just told me I'm over weight and I weigh 74kg 164 cm in height.. And she was big like Loni, *no shade* all I'm saying is she was way way waaaayyyy bigger than me to even say that..

[@deem132]

It all depends on your intentions & if that person & you have a bond, mutual trust & respect. If not I would be mindful & just mind my business.

[@luznevidy5756]

I luv this show !!!

[@tiffanymatsvai1929]

I'm naturally skinny, no matter how much I eat I don't gain weight. People always offer me food or dietary advice all the time. I really take offence to that

[@rosej5029]

Some people are in denial about being overweight and don't see it as a problem.

[@collegechicx]

Loni is preaching. Fat people don’t need people to tell them they’re fat? Like this blows my mind that anyone would think they needed to tell someone they’ve gained weight. THEY KNOW.