Dating men isn't challenging Dating boys is challenging
@Madonnaleilaable8 жыл бұрын
I wish I could like this comment a million times👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@lester25888 жыл бұрын
Say that again, girl 👌👏
@ryanamari22338 жыл бұрын
Dating boys is mothering...lol or at least that's how it feels
@naylani77908 жыл бұрын
+Natalia Alva True true👌
@deanageorge52828 жыл бұрын
word!
@Empressive8 жыл бұрын
Interesting discussion. There is a blessing in being single. I can totally relate to what all the girls are saying about having freedom. While you're single, take advantage of all the freedom you have. Travel, eat out, go to the movies alone, pamper yourself, pursue your dreams, etc.
@RDCFemmes8 жыл бұрын
my best friend is married with 2 kids whenever i moan about being single, she sets me straight. She loves her family and would not change it for the world but there's a lot she cannot do because of her family.....she goes enjoy it as much as possible......
@CJacksonMark8 жыл бұрын
Empressive you can do those things while in a relationship
@Empressive8 жыл бұрын
christine jackson It's a little different when you're married with kids. You can't do things spontaneously, which is what Tamera was saying.
@RDCFemmes8 жыл бұрын
I have done it many times and going to a restaurant alone. I can enjoy my own company.....it is daunting at first but a great self esteem booster and you learn not to depend on "what would ppl think" and do you and be you. When you know your value then you can add value to someone else's life
@brittneygarcias24027 жыл бұрын
Empressive i seriously see shade here , now that tamars gone i see 2 here tagg teaming the asian . :/
@summerxo32038 жыл бұрын
Nope Tamera don't miss the single life 😂she's obsessed with her husband
@melmel242478 жыл бұрын
if she got divorced she would kill herself she's wayyy too clingy and attached
@GospelGal818 жыл бұрын
That's how you know someone has a great spouse.
@melmel242478 жыл бұрын
I have an amazing spouse but I make sure I have a life I have built on my own cos if anything happened I wouldn't be like how she would be. I'm very independent with my husband and without she clearly isn't.
@summerxo32038 жыл бұрын
Mel MD Obviously she has her own career and everyone knows her so she's independent business wise but in everything else she's very clingy to her husband and everything starts with 'my husband' and she's dependant on him in those aspects.
@melmel242478 жыл бұрын
I find that really needy though! She shouldn't be like I find it sad in some ways
@alexapolitis8 жыл бұрын
I think if your with the right person, you can have as much independence as you want, being with the right person makes you limitless, not limited
@BeautifulDreamerK8 жыл бұрын
Alexa Politis very true. I'm lucky that I'm with someone who understands my need for independence. Like what Adrienne said, I can go to a bookstore and just read self help books alone or on my day off, just drive around somewhere.
@alexapolitis8 жыл бұрын
yay! congrats :) that wonderful and very special.
@alexapolitis8 жыл бұрын
would you mind checking out my channel :) i love to story tell through broadway music
@tammiemichelle68808 жыл бұрын
I agree with this. :)
@jannahnurul7 жыл бұрын
ameen!
@HewanYitagesu8 жыл бұрын
Never been in a serious relationship to compare my single life. And by "life" I mean staying home to watch tv lol
@LeaEspinoza123458 жыл бұрын
girl you're my spirit animal
@HewanYitagesu8 жыл бұрын
aww thank you!
@serlomcole29588 жыл бұрын
+Eve Yitu are u ethiopian?
@trendafile63568 жыл бұрын
I'm the same,,,,,,how old r u=?
@ThexIAJBxx8 жыл бұрын
Me to🌿
@latifa17358 жыл бұрын
I wish Loni actually expressed herself like this every girl chat and was more serious
@lmariebryan8 жыл бұрын
la I've noticed she gets serious when this topic comes up, constantly feels the need to defend being single
@milcahnd8 жыл бұрын
Yes because folks ridicule her for being single. saying she is lonely etc.
@lallipoppin8 жыл бұрын
+Lisa-Marie Bryan people assume, and often say, that she's single because of her size or because no one wants her. So she always has to remind us that it's by choice. I believe her
@schnitty62088 жыл бұрын
Being single is a choice though. If I wanted a man today I would go and get one. I enjoy dating and meeting new people all the time and I'm way to selfish to have to explain myself and actions to someone at this point in my life. I totally agree with Loni in this segment.
@selfrespectingfemale68118 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I don't know why people think being single is so taboo. And Loni's right, it does take a special kind of woman to choose singleness. Especially with the desperation of the world we live in today.
@hawaydadir17378 жыл бұрын
loni. Girl, ur make-up n ur hair is on point.. 😘😘🙌🙌
@s_.7778 жыл бұрын
Habiba Waliyow right? she's looked great every episode
@hawaydadir17378 жыл бұрын
yes last session her make up was not this good. its like they were feeling lazy.. im glad they took the time
@tiakelly95238 жыл бұрын
Loni, gurl ur summer detox is working magic on you. I'll do the same...uhuh
@hawaydadir17378 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂You tried it
@dlo52968 жыл бұрын
+T Goree i dont agree its always been good i actually enjoyed it more when tamar wasnt there she just had im better then you attitude with them i was annoyed and tired of her lip smacking and her eye rolling wasnt funny at all glad shes gone
@MajesticMyronn8 жыл бұрын
Just the exciting part of being single seems amazing : You don't have to deal with no responsibilities in a relationship , no broken heart , but you still have fun , you don't get too attached and you just try to find yourself while trying find the perfect person for you !
@allthingsmicahandbeauty87668 жыл бұрын
Come on Lonnie I love what her glam team is doing for her looking good
@AlphabetSoup1238 жыл бұрын
She looks amazing this season! You can see just how well her detox is working for her, her skin is glistening and she even looks more youthful and her face is slimming down. Go head, Loni!
@geminig85508 жыл бұрын
I came back to read the comments about Adrienne 😂
@kianah5448 жыл бұрын
Gemini G Me too. They were already dragging her in the preview clip, I'm here to enjoy the rest. ☺️
@gigglingboyinthebackground39738 жыл бұрын
Is Adrienne still wearing that tapped out choker??? 🤔
@SammySam3168 жыл бұрын
lol
@cnf23688 жыл бұрын
I think she doesn't want OTHER girls to wear it because they look "better" than her since she has a "fat" neck. So hypocrite.
@leilani74858 жыл бұрын
Lol yeah but I think it might of been scripted, when they did tap out.😄
@emmabeckett64518 жыл бұрын
Don't forget, a lot of this is pre-recorded. That tap out session might not have happened.
@mjlovahh128 жыл бұрын
Emma Beckett but pre-recorded or not, it was still taped close to each other.
@ashketchum13778 жыл бұрын
since I've been single for so long I got used to all the "Me" time and honestly idk how I can even be in a relationship now because I value my me time so much and a lot of guys don't understand or respect that !
@memoir028 жыл бұрын
GIIRRRRRLLLL! You just spoke my truth! I long for the companionship every now and then, but I've had so much ME time for so long, and there's so many activities that I enjoy alone (mainly cuz it's hard to find people that enjoy the exact same things), that I don't know how I'd invite someone else into that space ALL THE TIME. Nice to know there's others like me out there
@yolandagrant84148 жыл бұрын
I'm the same way! I have gotten really good at being single. I go on dates here and there if I meet someone interesting. But nothing serious has come out of them. Guys will say they want an "independent" woman. But if you give them space, don't blow up their phone every 5 mins, and basically are not needy, they get confused! I think it gets harder to date when you hit your 30's. Also like Jeannie was saying, dating is a lot of work. You really have to dig through the BS. It gets exhausting. For the most part, I like my single life. Maybe one day I will meet that "unicorn"!
@akosuasabi96068 жыл бұрын
OMG I thought I was alone with this kind of feeling
@memoir028 жыл бұрын
No you're not alone :)
@alexzandriahall8 жыл бұрын
Quick-Sword Ilena I'm in the same boat but I'm only 20 so I have plenty of time to find someone.
@jbrown87268 жыл бұрын
Soooo Israel used to call Adrienne when she was "living single" on the west coast...interesting🤔🤔
@naylani77908 жыл бұрын
lol ikr I was like Adrienne girl I think you maybe spillin' a little bit of your own tea right now😳💀☕️...
@MegaCadette558 жыл бұрын
lmfao I swear y'all don't miss a beat! FBI needs to hire y'all investigating azzes
@ashketchum13778 жыл бұрын
lmfaooooooo Nothing gets past us man
@yonissafa51918 жыл бұрын
yeah its hard to miss it when adrienne open her big mouth 😆😆😆😆 I think she's in trouble at home after work 😑
@juicienyad75828 жыл бұрын
yes...she running her mouth and do not realize she told but then catch herself and say they were friends first... she said isl was divorced 5 years before they met but also said she was frds with him and his wife and lenny was too..lies lies lies lies...
@sxcgirlieox8 жыл бұрын
I'm 21 and being single is perfect right now. I'm having fun rn with my friends and dating casually but nothing serious. I'm focused on myself and getting my degree. But everybody's different. With that said, I can't wait to be married 😍
@sandyboo28 жыл бұрын
umm sounds like Adrienne's been talking to Israel way before she broke up with Lenny. BUT I agree with everything Loni says. I am single by choice and I don't date bc I don't want to nor feel that dating is for me. If I want to sleep my weekend away I don't have to explain myself to anyone.
@michellemadison25398 жыл бұрын
They were friends for years you are allowed to have friends
@britbritnicole8 жыл бұрын
Candy Flores when you're friends you talk right? Ok
@sandyboo28 жыл бұрын
GLAMCULTURE not according to Adrienne's logic about her man having "friends that are girls". but I could have just imagined that ...oh well double standards
@britbritnicole8 жыл бұрын
Candy Flores she wants mutual friends lol
@KLB12188 жыл бұрын
Girl bye Adrienne. Sitting on the floor in B&N is NOT something a friend needed to be cool with before or after marriage. You'll make up anything to say Israel is so amazing. Sitting on the floor is not weird anyway cause everyone does it.
@vizengwa8 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly lol
@kemyabryant64973 жыл бұрын
bitter Betty's 🙄
@jocelynjimenez67035 жыл бұрын
Lani you are so smart!! Love what you bring to the table sometimes the conversation starts shifting to a different direction and you always bring it back to the point in a very intellectual way and with some class and humor. Girl you are awesome 👏🏼
@wayNAY878 жыл бұрын
Random - people need to stop this whole "the show is getting cancelled" deal. Look at girl chats that have been posted on youtube for a week-plus this season already at 200,000+ views. Older girl chats took them months to get to that level of views. Lets use our common sense - the fans are still here, despite Tamar being gone and Adrienne going back on her word about chokers lol
@gigglyfitzgirl8 жыл бұрын
Your last sentence 😂😂😂
@sunrise2day4628 жыл бұрын
Agreed. They are all very talented and intelligent women and they can make it without Tamar (even though she was so hilarious on the show). Optimism ladies!!!!
@dianatrejo20067 жыл бұрын
wayNAY83 😂
@clarke44003 жыл бұрын
CANCELLED ❌❌❌❌❌
@keimonte148 жыл бұрын
Idk why Loni annoyed me in this segment Lol. Jeannie had a point regarding the dating world. It is hard now, don't let Loni fool you.
@powerblades8 жыл бұрын
There are nice people out there. That's what we have to believe in. You could try to find someone to date and just become good friends wich is already very good. So not everything is lost when you dive in the dating world.
@susiesolangesimpson28288 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! For most, getting asked out on dates probably happens often but finding someone worth being committed is the hard part. I'm newly single and I hate it. lol.
@liyakidane20858 жыл бұрын
I think every generation that comes and goes says "oh times are though" or "it is not how it used to be" but we all get by somehow. I mean the good things in life in general (good career, genuine friends, committed partners etc.) need work and patience. For every single person that you deem to be lonely and low-key jealous, there is another who is stuck in a dead end relationship that tries to make single people feel like there is sth wrong with them for being single and enjoying their time. I think in this instance Loni was genuinely speaking her perspective. It is true at times you have to walk a lonely road to fulfill your dreams & that's what she did by choice to be this successful.
@TiffanyRayneOfficial8 жыл бұрын
+Shawn Villalobos Single people don't make anyone feel bad like they're missing out on something. Nor are they lonely and jealous just because they refuse to be in a dead end or bad relationship, putting up with all types of unacceptable behavior just to say they have someone. Then again, married people say the same type of stuff. You've never been married so you don't understand, it's different. Yet if marriage is the sacred commodity it was taught to us to be, then why is the divorce rate 50%? That's half the marriages in the country. Something isn't right in that water. People need to rethink their ideas of what this thing consist of.
@truthtube10008 жыл бұрын
Everyone married is not in a " dead end ", strained relationship etc etc. . . and if you are happy to be single...you don't feel the need to bash others unions. The truth is this...not all single people...want to be single. Single people don't even need to defend being single...why be defensive about it ...especially if you love it
@joyfulsoul20118 жыл бұрын
Whatever is best for you rather you want to be single or married, just do it! You don't have to prove to anyone that you're content with your life. You are the only one living your life so live it the way you feel you should. And stop trying to change your friends' mind about if they should to be single or not. It's their choice!!
@kealebogalepholletse80626 жыл бұрын
I feel you Loni.There is really beauty in being single.
@Loops-18 жыл бұрын
Every segment starts with 'I read a post', 'I read an article'. Don't lie, the show researcher read it and the producer told you to talk about it.
@portiamatlabe56844 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@jahnoyawalker42273 жыл бұрын
That’s clearly just for the purposes of the show . Y’all and y’all negative ass mentality
@britbritnicole8 жыл бұрын
Single life is good but lonely but I love my independence
@linaluv2158 жыл бұрын
I love this side of Loni, she doesnt always need to be so extra comedic all the time. When shes chill and just gives genuine answers and conversation, I love it. These gals need a 5th person though, one with personality but not extra ratchet (Monica or perhaps lala anthony), 4 isnt working.
@RoyalMasterpiece8 жыл бұрын
Adrienne, You are engaged. That isn't single. Single is when you don't have a boyfriend, fiance, or husband. And when you do have a relationship, things change. You both change. Yes, you can have space with your friends, etc. But you do change. Jeannie, It's challenging to find good men and women. You can't just pick on men. Loni: It's very hard to find someone. I am a Single Mom of a young daughter with Autism and a blended family. My ex is married and him and his wife are involved in my child's life. Not every man wants to take that on. I'm sure some people have it easy, but I think it's hard on us single parents, let alone a special needs parent. I would love to be married, but haven't found the one. So I keep on keeping on and trusting God for His best. And I strive to be my best. You are right. The world needs singles and married people. P.S. #imisstamar
@ledyag74778 жыл бұрын
Well, legally, those who are not married are considered single regardless of their relationship status. I think that's what they were talking about here.
@odesza73278 жыл бұрын
she dumb lol let it go
@2write2sing2dance8 жыл бұрын
I pray for the one to come for you and for me.
@pf52198 жыл бұрын
If you mark single on your taxes, you're technically still single. haha
@TiffanyRayneOfficial8 жыл бұрын
+RoyalMasterpiece I thought it was you're single until you're actually married😂😂😂😂, but ok you got it.
@OnyxGoddess8 жыл бұрын
Loni, You is kind, You is Single, You is important.
@Tamarashadow8 жыл бұрын
When Israel used to call her before oop she just threw herself under the bus 🐸☕
@manudid39715 жыл бұрын
wdym they never made a secret out of the fact that they were friends before they got together? you're the only bus here dumbass 😂
@person85203 жыл бұрын
@@manudid3971 ade was a side chick in his first marriage before
@plw84148 жыл бұрын
I can understand the new love feeling but I definitely don't miss being single. I agree with Jeannie dating now is tough
@loreah27948 жыл бұрын
Loni says "it's not hard to find anybody" which is true. Cos you can pick anybody up, but the challenge is finding someone long term. Single folks can get their life, but Jeanie's talking about people who are single and wanting to settle down.
@CaapriceTube18 жыл бұрын
TAMERA's HAIR IS GIVING ME LIFE. Hair is on point!!
@monikaranee8 жыл бұрын
I've heard a lot lately from those close to me how they are glad to be out of the dating world and married. I look forward to joining the married crew for sure. There's a lot I've learned over the years from dating and a lot that I wish I had looked for and valued when I was younger that I do now. I continue to pray for the day that I meet the man I will spend the rest of this life with that will love, cherish, and adore me. I will value and cherish that relationship and continue to thank God.
@britbritnicole8 жыл бұрын
I wish people would stop critiquing everything Adrienne says about Israel. They're together whether you like it or not. Stop reading the blogs about it and listen to the facts. And that doesn't mean the blogs have them. Yes he was married when he met Adrienne but not with his wife. A lot of people know he was still married but they moved on before actually divorcing ok!
@MsCassiexo8 жыл бұрын
That's the most objective view ive heard so far. Completely agree. People are so pressed about someone elses relationship. Leave it alone!
@britbritnicole8 жыл бұрын
C Fas yes and not trying to flip what she says and make it worse than it is. It's not really our business and we shouldn't judge we don't anything about.
@britbritnicole8 жыл бұрын
Bethsaida Romelus she should be able to express her happiness. But people need to stop judging off of assumption
@britbritnicole8 жыл бұрын
Bethsaida Romelus but people keep lying on her and assuming she stole someone else husband which she did not do
@britbritnicole8 жыл бұрын
Bethsaida Romelus true but she's speaking for herself not anybody he was with before. Like ok you did that years ago with someone else but don't do that with me. People make mistakes so give them a chance to make it better the next time.
@airoulove8 жыл бұрын
Being married to an active duty is like living a single life, you go to the store alone, you eat alone, sleep alone but I absolutely love when he's home to do those things with me ❤️
@TheStylinstar8 жыл бұрын
Totally love Loni's perspective on being single. And I can completely relate with Adrien.
@atyourdadshousetoday90068 жыл бұрын
One day I hope that they talk about home wreckers in girl chat. And Loni was spot on about being single!
@theafromath6 жыл бұрын
I love seeing how Jeannie has grown from this segment, knowing what we know now. She is flourishing now even more now than before and it’s all over her face ❤️
@relatv2168 жыл бұрын
I'm single now after being in a relationship for some time... Had my relationship not ended the way it did, I think I would be ready to go back into the dating world. But I'm so jaded now, I can barely trust anyone. But I do miss being in a relationship every once in a while. I miss having someone call you everyday to check up on you, someone that says good morning and good night. Someone that asks you to dress up cause they're taking you out. That kind of stuff I miss
@iamsoiexist71928 жыл бұрын
being single for 2 yrs now after a 4 yr relationship made me realize that I wasnt actually being myself in the relationship, I was playing a role. I get what Loni was saying because I wouldnt have finished school to get my degree if I was still in a relationship because I would been so busy playing house. I see a lot of women who do this and I see so much wasted potential because they didnt do anything for themselves. Its nothing against parenthood or anything but especially women who have children young, the only thing they have is being a parent because it all they know. I don't wish to be single my whole life, there nothing wrong with sharing my happiness.
@arieljj48968 жыл бұрын
Smart girl!
@BlahBronxJodes8 жыл бұрын
Adrienne girl, I love you but... What is Israel (a married man) doing calling you (an engaged woman) and asking you "what you''re doing" in this previous "friendship" you all had? #WeReadYou
@misseydj1238 жыл бұрын
Jodie K and she was the same one saying she didn't really feel comfortable having a boyfriend/husband that had female friends... Double standard I guess...
@ceecee87668 жыл бұрын
Jodie K Ikr she pissed me off right here
@odesza73278 жыл бұрын
she's a flip flopper I'm so over this girl and her personal life .
@MiMiOrt8 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I'm starting 2 believe Israel's ex-wife with all that mess.
@thewrestlingpalace99898 жыл бұрын
their engaged
@Lifeofsmith8 жыл бұрын
I love what Adrienne said at the end. When you're single don't think about the negative of " oh I'm lonely or I don't have a man" you don't have to be lonely when you're alone. Take the time to get to know yourself and find out what you interested in. I don't like when people especially young girls rush into relationships because you start doing stuff for the boy and then all of a sudden he becomes everything. Get to know yourself and when you do get into a relationship don't lose yourself.
@Sindy_SG8 жыл бұрын
I love listening to girl chat. They need to upload the full episode for each episode.
@quiahtueseeyon52228 жыл бұрын
This episode made Adrienne look really bad...if she was friends with Isreal before that means she knew his wife and children. This could also prove speculation that she was a mistress the entire time...hmm
@quiahtueseeyon52228 жыл бұрын
***** Exactly bust that lid wide opened lol
@peachlife51188 жыл бұрын
But she already said they started off as friends for 5 years....Obviously since he was married like 20 years, she knew his wife and children. It is still odd that she got with him after the breakup but to assume she was a mistress is a bit much when she already said she been friends and business associates with him since at least 2009.....
@britbritnicole8 жыл бұрын
A Winning no 😂 that is incorrect she's only known him 3-4 years since I'm in love with a church girl came out
@quiahtueseeyon52228 жыл бұрын
GLAMCULTURE Exactly! She one of those friends you can't have around your man...js
@dance4life12088 жыл бұрын
why is it a bit much to assume she was a mistress. if she wasn't she was plotting to be with him..her whole story is fishy and always has been
@Shawniefication8 жыл бұрын
I love that Loni always keeps everyone on topic and isn't afraid to clarify or correct her cohosts.
@tamarastuart99048 жыл бұрын
Loni seems annoyed at what Jeannie said about today's dating world...
@vlo48298 жыл бұрын
Well, Jeannie is not part of the dating world. She was just going off of what she sees/hears from her friends who probably know how to make a dull story of "I wasn't feeling him" into something salacious.
@UrbanDecayLova2478 жыл бұрын
1:10 It's ALWAYS been hard to find the right person...I mean why does Jeanie think people get divorced so often maybe because it's hard to know if someone is really are who they say they are. It's great when you find "your" person and get married, but I hate this notion that some married people imply that the "dating world" was much better and easier when they were in it. No Jeanie & Tam, y'all just forgot.
@BigbossBonita7 жыл бұрын
I think Adrienne just prove Tamar point on why she doesn't allow Vince to have female friends. Israel was married and him and Adrienne had been friends for a couple of years, then he divorce his wife for her.
@MajesticMyronn7 жыл бұрын
cholt121 him and his wife were separated for 5 years... Him & Adrienne didn't start dating until after the divorce...
@monkrona44718 жыл бұрын
Loni didn't sound convincing when she said "she's living the life" being single
@dnicole42368 жыл бұрын
lautner cruz if she wanted a relationship she would've been in one. Why is it so hard for people to believe older women just prefer being single? Like Loni is said it's for a special type of woman
@Thisismyhandle4238 жыл бұрын
lautner cruz ironically I thought she sounded very convincing and made sense. Maybe I heard it differently than you lol.
@mrssalimaroseel-amiin58028 жыл бұрын
I agree, she was not very convincing.
@funtoayenakin57538 жыл бұрын
she sounded very matured and convincing, even though I'm very single,loving it but will rather be married right now.She sounded very convincing and serious
@teff47058 жыл бұрын
I don't like how lony corrected Jeany . Jeany is right ... Meeting someone that is worth it is hard no matter who you are
@ABeautifulMess1018 жыл бұрын
Tam Bam is workin that look honey!
@ronicaferreira21548 жыл бұрын
Jeannie. My God! you're killing it today!
@Godluv4L8 жыл бұрын
Jeannie is right Loni is just butt hurt and doesn't want to admit it cuz she is single. In the dating scene these days things are hard if you are someone that expects to be respected, that your partner stays faithful and loyal to you and if you expect to get married one day, cuz nobody wants to get married they just want baby mamas
@hawaydadir17378 жыл бұрын
I'm almost 22 and i love my marriage life and my kids... I miss hanging around with my girls but I love my new life its better and challenging
@oooweeitznee68478 жыл бұрын
Miss Tamar
@powerblades8 жыл бұрын
tap out! please
@Burnflesh828 жыл бұрын
i miss tamar
@distinctiveelegance59478 жыл бұрын
Tamar was the real. It has died since then. That being said Gurl you better get your life!!
@dlo52968 жыл бұрын
+Elms ????????? tamar seemed like the fakess one on te show you cant be that annoying in real life and have a husband and friends. she was rude and thought she was above everyone else. it seemed like she was trying too hard to be something she was not. glad to see her go.
@distinctiveelegance59478 жыл бұрын
Tamar was keeping it real, some people couldn't handle her straight forward, no chaser approach. That didn't fall into white america talk show requirements so they decided to fire her, because she was increasing the rating whilst being unapologetically real. Which was causes corporate riffs that they couldn't handle. Difference strokes for difference folks, you call it annoyance some people call it unapologetically real.
@IsabelleMN118 жыл бұрын
let us all admit it, we think fat women don't get to be picky right? I mean why else would we constantly question Loni's credibility whenever she speaks about loving her single life? somehow we assume that because of her size, she couldn't possibly enjoy her single life and be dating around. if it were a thinner woman making this statement, we'd likely not react the same way.
@TheMusicalFeeling8 жыл бұрын
Uh no ? We dont question her because of her weight Tf? Thats the last thing on my mind. Its how she acts it comes off as unbelievable. It has nothing to do with her weight lol
@IsabelleMN118 жыл бұрын
maybe that's not the case for you, but this is something I see a lot. and exactly what is unbelievable about what Loni says? because in this segment especially, she emphasizes that being single doesn't mean you're not dating, it just means you don't want to get married. but somehow, she's constantly dismissed for her thoughts. something that we don't necessarily say about Chelsea Handler for example.
@juicienyad75828 жыл бұрын
lonnie has a man...they just not married...they were on another talk show together and he cute... he love lonnie...i was like whatttt!!!
@UrbanDecayLova2478 жыл бұрын
I get what you're saying but I do agree I think it's more about Loni's delivery when she talks about being single, she always seems to be exaggerating dating stories that I think people just don't believe her. Like for instance when Whoopi Goldberg on The View talks about how she's been married before and has no interest in doing it again, recently said she likes to hit it & quit it, I don't think people question her...because even though I hear people say they find her "unattractive" she seems genuine plus Whoopi in the past has been linked to a number of men. I do agree when people think someone is unattractive they often assume they can't be picky and are desperate, but I think in Loni's case specifically a lot of people think her stories on The Real are either exaggerated or straight up lies.
@SabrinaMascarenhasFiineArts7 жыл бұрын
isabelle happyfeet I'm with u on this. I personally know some beautiful talented witty women who always hv men falling for them. Why is Loni any different?
@musicgal4216 жыл бұрын
Single life is great if that’s what you want. Married life is great if that’s what you want. I don’t miss the single life but I wanted to be married. I agree with Loni for sure! You can’t be married until you’re perfectly fine with being single! Ain’t no one guna love you more then you love yourself. It’s ok to never want to be married and live life “single” it’s ok to be married. People don’t be pressured into any situation you’re not completely comfortable with! Respect yourself!
@izzyduzzit61996 жыл бұрын
When I felt truly happy with myself and didnt want to be in a relationship to avoid the nonsense, my long time friend and I got serious. I wasnt looking for anyone but it just happened and I can even talk to him about all my exes who try to talk to me now and we laugh at them together.
@doritahuff39985 жыл бұрын
You ladies are like life and I love you all dearly 💜
@stajamarie44318 жыл бұрын
Loni's hair and make up is on POINT. And Jeannie's hair is on point. And I agree with Loni, being single may be hard for some people but not for all. Some people would rather be single.
@dianecollins81428 жыл бұрын
Adrienne will never let us forget she's engaged. She knows Jeannie meant single as if being in a relationship, not necessarily marriage 🙄😂
@danasjah6 жыл бұрын
Diane Dancy she love him she want the world to know..
@Glitterpop7858 жыл бұрын
Loni has been turnin ittt uppp on the looks! Girl you look amazing!
@melodysmith54688 жыл бұрын
loni dear, I wish I can agree with u, cos dating in this generation is a full time job...its so hard😥😥😥
@alejandracortes36558 жыл бұрын
I miss Tamar! She's the only person who kept it real on a show called the "real."
@vizengwa8 жыл бұрын
Cry me a river
@cookiegirl8917 жыл бұрын
+fai naz Loll finally someone said it
@oliviaishmon72567 жыл бұрын
ive noticed Tamera has been wearing her hair more natural, and i am LOVING IT! she looks so beautiful and neutral!
@myyoutubechannel29448 жыл бұрын
Loni is living the "singo" life ya'll.
@alexjade0328 жыл бұрын
Yea, you can meet anyone; the problem is finding someone with substance. I completely agree with Jeannie! There is absolutely too much rift raft out there! To meet a decent person who is what he or she really claims to be and a person you can actually have a future with.. is like winning the relationship lottery! Sad but true... Smh!
@gloriaruiz74046 жыл бұрын
Everyones relationship is different. I have been in a relationship with 'freedom' (going to barnes & nobles to sit on the floor for two hours without being looked at weird), I have been full blown single and extremely happy. Now, I am married and I dont have the same freedom as the first two BUT I do almost EVERYTHING with my husband. We travel the world full-time, we go to the movies together, we party together, we pamper each other and we encourage ourselves to follow our dreams. Now THATS another level that everyone should experience.
@AmerrahKeezy8 жыл бұрын
I'm with Adrienne. My boyfriend and I were friends, then bestfriends before dating. It's so much easier to enjoy our own time.
@jamieahugesse10358 жыл бұрын
Look at Adrienne who taped out the chokers and now she's wearing one like girl do what you preach
@riseup61125 жыл бұрын
There's so much growth that comes from being in a relationship
@christina23116 жыл бұрын
There is nothing better than dating your best friend. You always have things to talk about, and you just genuinely enjoy talking to each other and being with each other.
@althaconley8 жыл бұрын
Is Jeanie leading the group now. Cause she seems to have taken over. And talks even more then ever!!
@MajesticMyronn8 жыл бұрын
Jenna Smith actually Tam said that was a rumor so they aren't getting cancelled thank god !!!
@aw78718 жыл бұрын
honestly i think it is a waste of airtime, the show is just yyrrrrrrrh. #myopinion
@__isixda3 жыл бұрын
they ate this title cant lie
@KeenLagerfeld8 жыл бұрын
Tamera's hair is giving me Anita Baker!
@TheMusicalFeeling8 жыл бұрын
sweet looOOOVe
@KeenLagerfeld8 жыл бұрын
***** Lol.
@keymonmurrah44208 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@summerlyric60718 жыл бұрын
I so agree with Tamera. I didn't appreciate the ability to be spontaneous until we had little ones. It's not a small adjustment at all.
@Wotchwithme1236 жыл бұрын
I have been single for little over a year now, and it is great. I am enjoying the freedom ♥️
@liliamestiti29586 жыл бұрын
Girl Jeanie welcome back to the dating world hehehe good luck !
@TheMellrou8 жыл бұрын
I feel like Adrienne has been wearing chokers ever since she taped them out the other day 😂
@delindawilliams39358 жыл бұрын
Tamara's hair is beautiful! Lonie,it's the truth! The single life is not for me,can't wait for my wedding day. Some independence is good,but at the end of the day,I want to talk about my day,his day,and when the talking is over,just cuddle silently and sleep.
@ashleyd51258 жыл бұрын
Jeannie practically calling guys dirt road trash with that comment, offensive. Lonnie is always on point with her comments. You go girl!
@spybubbble6 жыл бұрын
It’s not about being married, it’s about when you live with someone. But even then, it’s just double checking in with the person to see if you guys had something planned that day. Which really isn’t a big deal. Even when you’re single and you have a friend asking to hangout, you have to see if you don’t have something planned with another friend or an appointment or something. It’s if you have kids, then that’s the problem because that takes way more planning.
@caseymart57378 жыл бұрын
I feel the sane way as Adrienne.I'm in a committed relationship with my boyfriend but I really enjoy time by myself.going to a museum. the park thinking about the present the future its an awesome feeling.just yourself and your thought 😁
@MariahBraxton18 жыл бұрын
Jeanine looks so beautiful! I *love* her look!!!!
@SuperGinrummy8 жыл бұрын
I am happier married. I hope Loni is truly happy. Not trying to judge anyone, but I cannot understand how you can have intimate physical relationships with people without any commitment, and by commitment I mean marriage. I would feel so empty.
@misseydj1238 жыл бұрын
SuperGinrummy you can't understand because people are just different. Some are disgusted by the thought of marriage, others can't see anything else but marriage down the line.
@SuperGinrummy8 жыл бұрын
misseydj123 i guess so. I meant to say, I was happy single but happier married. Every season of life is different.
@mjlovahh128 жыл бұрын
I don't want to doubt Loni when she says she's happy being single. But with all the obvious lying/exaggerating she used to do about her dating life before, it makes it difficult for me to be convinced.
@MKLuciouSTV8 жыл бұрын
she's a comedian so I'm not sure why people take everything so literal all of the time
@odesza73278 жыл бұрын
exactly preach .Awe loni lol bless her heart.
@mjlovahh128 жыл бұрын
MKLuciouSTV so because she's a "comedienne" that gives her the right to constantly lie? Especially when she tries to play them off as the truth
@MKLuciouSTV8 жыл бұрын
That wasn't my point, the point I was making is, we don't know if they are really lies because she's a comedian I think they're just jokes disguised as stories. When you're a person that likes to be funny and make folks laugh you do things like that and I can relate, I think that just like most people these days you're knit picking at something that most likely isn't even a factor. If you know comedians and how it works to be comedians you'd easily be able to tell that this is what they do, they hardly ever tell true stories or scenarios, not saying they never do but rarely. Even considering this show, she's doing what she was hired to do, which is be herself, she talks about real stuff on this show all of the time.
@protestingwithjimmy8 жыл бұрын
Loni has blossomed this season! looking better than ever
@hopemelody58985 жыл бұрын
I feel like u r my best friends at this moment of my life
@cookiegirl8917 жыл бұрын
That was a very beautiful chat. Anybody else wish they can be on that show and just talk?lol and slay with those amazing clothes and makeup?
@amaj_lex5 жыл бұрын
Loni said it best. It's not hard finding anybody. Anybody can be in a relationship!
@dfranklin54978 жыл бұрын
Jeannies hair looks like how i do my hair before going to bed when I want it to be curly the next morning :| Love her tho
@sandrao55138 жыл бұрын
Dasia Franklin bahahah so true! what was her hairdresser thinking?! terrible. in fact, i'm not sure what her hairdresser is thinking in general...she needs to find a more flattering style
@BrandyD17775 жыл бұрын
Single or relationship.....never stopping doing you.....always be you. If you cant than you need to fix the issue. Remember, you are 1st!!! And must be in order to be in a relationship and balance the time for yourself, the relationship as well as the time for the other half.
@NallahBrown8 жыл бұрын
Loni's explanation seemed more for herself to hear... hmm
@0vertaker18 жыл бұрын
Ms.Loni Looks better each episode !!
@JHoneySanchez6 жыл бұрын
Omg, this could have been such a juicy conversation. Ugh. I kinda miss dating, I am in a happy and healthy 5+ year relationship now but we just started to technically live together so I do miss meeting new people and seeing different sides of mens personality and not being obligated to always inform someone of what I'm doing or how late I'll be gone or who I'm with. I miss my social life cus now I'm such a home body but Jeannie is right, dating is ruff in these streetz. My homegirl are dating and they tell me their stories and that also makes me glad that I have such a wonderful partner at the end of the day.
@ackeelholness76526 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the dating world Jeanie
@thatgirlshanti8 жыл бұрын
Adrienne has been irking TF out of me for a while now with all her contradictions and now she's basically telling on herself regarding Israel without even realizing lmao
@brianab.5378 жыл бұрын
Adrienne got them chokers on again😂
@veralee28188 жыл бұрын
You have to embrace and get used to being alone so that you'll appreciate being in a relationship , only then will you see if you're choosing someone out of love or out of loneliness .
@heatherhernandez91398 жыл бұрын
I love you long thanks for holding it down for us single women! don't let them talk bad about us !
@krysmegmah287 жыл бұрын
I love how loni just comes in and be the voice of reasoning
@MarinaAxo8 жыл бұрын
Just because you're not married does not mean you're single. Why would you marry someone acting or thinking they're single because they dont have a ring yet? Just like the episode where Tamar said Adrienne should have given her number out to the baseball player even though Adriennes man was with her because she's not married.... Just because some of your mans were acting single does not mean you should tell people its okay. Why would you commit with someone like that?
@MarinaAxo8 жыл бұрын
Have you seen the episode I'm talking about though? Tamar did not care if Adrienne was with her man at the baseball game she thought she should have given her # to the baseball player because she is "SINGLE" as in UNMARRIED..... Just because you are not married does not mean you shouldn't respect the person you're with.
@noramars57408 жыл бұрын
adriran has to make it bout her and that man again..
@8Beba8 жыл бұрын
Lenora Mars I know so annoying
@MariahBraxton18 жыл бұрын
For her own sake, let's hope this engagement at least gets her down the aisle, because it would be embarrassing asf if she bragged on another guy for one season and didn't again.