The Whole Truth and Dealing with Mental Health

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Darren John

Darren John

Күн бұрын

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@susannah1184
@susannah1184 Жыл бұрын
An inspirational video. Many people's lives changed due to lockdown (mine included) and you have expressed your thoughts very well. Sometimes difficult to put into words how you feel, but you have summed it up beautifully. I hope that anyone who is experiencing mental health issues gets some comfort from your video. I took on some other charity work during the past few years, it gives you a purpose. Take care and I wish you and your family a happy and healthy 2023 xx
@carllockpick6179
@carllockpick6179 Жыл бұрын
Well said sister.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Very kind of you to say Susannah - appreciate your thoughtfulness, best wishes to you
@anonymous77173
@anonymous77173 Жыл бұрын
Lovely comment 🥰🥰🎩®️©️⚘🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿
@davidwoods6090
@davidwoods6090 Жыл бұрын
Great well done keep it up
@dawncollins6306
@dawncollins6306 Жыл бұрын
Darren, I watched this, not realising that I needed to hear your story. For that I’m thankful. You’re an inspiration, it’s a raw truthful video. Keep doing what you love and most importantly keep being you. ❤
@jonathanharrison1
@jonathanharrison1 Жыл бұрын
I have struggled with my mental health for quite a few years, I have low esteem, I worry about what people think of me, put that all together & it’s tires me out. When I get home from work I’m in my safe place, I do have my good days, it’s not always bad, but when it’s bad it’s really bad. One thing I really enjoy is watching your videos, so keep doing what you are doing 👍
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jonathan - stay positive
@janw1746
@janw1746 Жыл бұрын
Your mind is the only room no one else can enter..it's yours and yours alone.💐...and only look back to see how far you've come..🌹
@adejames1960
@adejames1960 Жыл бұрын
Be assured my friend, that your wise, and knowing words will make a positive difference to those who are struggling right now. Some really good nuggets, and it's touched me greatly. I really appreciate your honesty and insight. I'm definitely gonna take the five second rule ! Take care ! 🙏
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that
@mikejsretroarcade4612
@mikejsretroarcade4612 Жыл бұрын
I am 48 yrs old and up and down in weight myself, which has happened with age bc I was fit and skinny up into my thirties… I separated from my wife after 18 years and like you it wasn’t to be… but I have realized that my health is important but so is my happiness, so I have put myself and my kids happiness first, and I have been single now for 6 years but have been happy and it’s been nice finding myself! Your videos are very inspiring to me so thank you!! Keep up the great work!! And thank you!!
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Good man, thanks for sharing
@georgemurphy1966
@georgemurphy1966 Жыл бұрын
Darren I was Listening to you in the background while working away at my desk & you said something that made me stop what I was doing &just stare at the screen. That was well worth listening too & you spoke from the heart mate, what a guy. your planned trip to Tenerife on your Motorbike, wow, that'll be some trip that cant wait to see that Vlog. Off the charts my friend.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼👍🏼
@anonymous77173
@anonymous77173 Жыл бұрын
Darren you are a credit to us all .. me and Mrs anon had many problems.. I became an alcoholic.. and I think we all put on weight lol.. but u need to remain head strong as ur mind is the most powerful thing .. bless u Darren John 🙏 🥰🎩®️©️⚘🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿
@anonymous77173
@anonymous77173 Жыл бұрын
Anyway I'm 50 .. but never gonna grow old 🥰🥰🤣🎩®️©️⚘🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿
@raydegs1602
@raydegs1602 Жыл бұрын
Well said .I am 62 struggle with mine.dont want sympathy just understanding.but like all illness until you or someone close to you has it no one understands.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼
@carriexplores
@carriexplores Жыл бұрын
Thanks Darren. Great video. I love your channel. Got diagnosed with a chronic health condition last year which has changed my life so much, but channels like yours really cheer me up when I'm struggling. So glad things picked back for you. It just shows doesn't it. We all have to keep going and like you said, those brighter days will come 💜
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Nice one Carrie, stay positive
@kyndrydspyryt3867
@kyndrydspyryt3867 Жыл бұрын
tough times dont last but tough people do. make sure you have goals and aspirations. remember to talk and share with others but also listen to their thoughts too
@sandrastubbins3715
@sandrastubbins3715 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Darren last 6months been tough for me but getting through it by talking and medication we've got this ♥️👍
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼👌🏼
@TimK2646
@TimK2646 7 ай бұрын
The Lockdown killed me Darren - pre 2020 I was so different as a full time worker - I am now so different
@johndvmcdavid7452
@johndvmcdavid7452 Жыл бұрын
darren you are a good man look you like a pal all the best dave ghin up buddy love to fow you darren
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
😊👍🙏
@RommyTobinson
@RommyTobinson Жыл бұрын
My daughter has psychotic depression and my partner has bi-polar. I feel for all who suffer this horrible illness.
@PJL27-02
@PJL27-02 Жыл бұрын
Very moving vlog Darren ... you really don't know people on KZbin unless they're honest like you've been .. stay safe 👍🏻
@karengalley3669
@karengalley3669 Жыл бұрын
My son has mental health issues and my heart breaks a little more every day. As he’s 23 there’s nothing I can do even though I have access to his medical records. He refuses counselling because he thinks there’s nothing wrong with him. It’s blatantly obvious that there is and it’s really soul destroying as a mum to watch her child (young man) struggle during what should be the best years of his life. I’m going to forward this onto him Darren, hope that’s ok. Whether he watches it remains to be seen. Thank you for sharing a little of your life with us♥️
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
I hope he watches too Karen, best wishes
@karengalley3669
@karengalley3669 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t tell him what it’s about but he said no. I’m not giving up yet.
@NB-zt1rj
@NB-zt1rj Жыл бұрын
Be grateful even for another day for the beauty of the world around you. Claim small victories and know you are not alone reach out for help
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼👍🏼
@ХельгаЗапетровская
@ХельгаЗапетровская Жыл бұрын
"If you're going through hell, keep going"
@stevencoyne4971
@stevencoyne4971 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Mate My Partner Has Mental Health Problems ,Doctor,s Put Her On Prozac,She Was like a Zombie,So Stopping A Few Meds,So Now we get out and and try to enjoy life ,with our New Puppy Albert 👍👍👍👍
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
All the best Steven
@Issacsgamingchanel
@Issacsgamingchanel Жыл бұрын
It's so nice to hear you talking about mental health it's so important nowadays! Love your Chanel
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@siouxf2461
@siouxf2461 Жыл бұрын
You are amazing and an inspiration. Your soulmate is still out there for you. I can relate to you almost loosing everything. The key is to not give up, stay focused and positive, just like you said ❤ xxx
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
100%
@kevinwestwood6668
@kevinwestwood6668 Жыл бұрын
My older brother as suffered with mental health issues for many years,on Christmas day I had to take him to hospital,as he had suffered another breakdown, were he is now sectioned, it's terrible to see someone breakdown, the long dark winter months don't help, keep smiling.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@GSFxEdge
@GSFxEdge Жыл бұрын
Cheers Darren! Thanks for your candor.
@keithrowe4317
@keithrowe4317 Жыл бұрын
Well said Darren- Quality before quantity!! Very inspirational especially for this S.A.D. sufferer….😎✔️🇨🇦👍
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼👍🏼
@keithrowe4317
@keithrowe4317 Жыл бұрын
@@DarrenJohn I remember your message & hopefully I can carry it DAIlY- CLEAR EYES, FULL HEART ❤️, CANT LOSE! Also Noel Gallagher’s Newest Song “Easy Now” also inspirational to carry me through the WORSE Season of the year….
@soo5jon1
@soo5jon1 Жыл бұрын
Aah Darren. What can I say. You hit the nail on the head with this one. Saw the C4 interview too. You look so much better now. You havd a twinkle in those eyes again. You did look ill, bless ya. So glad you're back on track, & now you have Daisy & Luke too. Not many people would open up & talk like that & therein lies half the problem. Keep on " setting the mainsail Cap'n " Thanks for shining a light on these issues. Turn that frown upside down ☹️🙂
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Appreciate it Sue, thank you
@sandiemarian304
@sandiemarian304 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Darren for sharing.💐🌄
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@neilelles3954
@neilelles3954 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Darren.
@jayr4857
@jayr4857 Жыл бұрын
Top vlog Darren, raw and real. Respect mate. 👍
@TheSpokesman69
@TheSpokesman69 Жыл бұрын
Another amazing video. So honest and heartfelt. We'll done sir 👏🏽
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
👍🏼🙏🏼
@philliphopkins6903
@philliphopkins6903 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely brilliant blogg. Darren Mate this an inspiration true to the heart video . Your a great guy. 👍
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks 👍
@andywrong3247
@andywrong3247 Жыл бұрын
Some people without mental health problems would be amazed what you have achieved through the adversity that has challenged you over the last three years. It's amazing how people feel, no up & go, are you lazy because you want to chill or is there an underlying problem festering, it must be awful being in the rut of a vortex when insensitive people say pull yourself together, does it help surrounding yourself with positive people, I bet having luke around helps you emmensely, I bet the return of the mac keeps you on your toes, at work we had to do a course on mental health awareness, I got the certificate it was 20 to 40hrs well worth it. It opened my eyes that's for sure.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Yeah, me too Andy, lots of great courses out there
@TimK2646
@TimK2646 7 ай бұрын
♥♥♥Thanks Darren
@carolburke9153
@carolburke9153 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou darren .
@davidpike6338
@davidpike6338 Жыл бұрын
Cheers Darren. Your Words Resonate Immensely With Myself. Take Care Man.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks, you too!
@gardenroom65
@gardenroom65 Жыл бұрын
Your roast dinners/breakfasts are epic. I wish you well. I hope this channel gives you a purpose.
@gord6961
@gord6961 Жыл бұрын
Oh my god darren i thought it was just me but reading all your followers comments and hearing your side of it makes me that little bit more hopefull about life iam just a steelfixer in construction,i had all what your say and lost my dad in 2020 to cancer after his treatment was stopped during covid time . I love watching your little vids mate if you only have time for just the one vid a week mate we will still watch them ,👍👍👍stay strong mate 💪💪💪
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, appreciate it
@kezzacollinson621
@kezzacollinson621 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@andrewdavis9223
@andrewdavis9223 Жыл бұрын
Hi Darren your not alone I'm 63 just bought a tent had a stroke 7 years ago live 4 today mate best wishes 👍
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks, you too!
@patrickanthonybutler3969
@patrickanthonybutler3969 Жыл бұрын
Enjoying all you do seeing London through your eyes is great , The Ivy looks great, the Sunday ,lunch, off the chart, who says that? Keep it up.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@jonathanmoran3181
@jonathanmoran3181 Жыл бұрын
Love this. Absolutely love your videos Darren!! Much love from Scotland 👍🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Awesome! Thank you!
@johnmayne2773
@johnmayne2773 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Darren I enjoy your video's and looking forward to more 👍
@UnbrainwashingYou
@UnbrainwashingYou Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@mikewilliams4499
@mikewilliams4499 Жыл бұрын
The weakness of YT is that very few people open up about difficulties. Thank you Darren. I would ask people to read Stevie Smith’s poem, Not waving but drowning. How a person who is always the life and soul of a party is really calling out for help. From a beach someone sees a man in the water, apparently waving...in fact he is signaling for help but nobody understands.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Maike - it makes you think doesnt it
@mikewilliams4499
@mikewilliams4499 Жыл бұрын
@@DarrenJohn one of the few poems at school that kneecapped me and proved I was not alone👍🙏 Smiley joker in the day...sobbing my eyes out at night.
@justinshore5566
@justinshore5566 Жыл бұрын
I think it's important to think about others rather than always one's self. Different to most, I don't really understand all the mental health talk that's really common now however I do understand the dark times and the light that we must all go through.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼👍🏼👊🏼
@kevingoodyear5869
@kevingoodyear5869 Жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
@steveuk8816
@steveuk8816 Жыл бұрын
Hi Darren, many people in the same boat. Well done to you for your honest , and having the guts to put this video out.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@NB-zt1rj
@NB-zt1rj Жыл бұрын
Remember NO ONE fakes anxiety or Depression what they fake is being OK. I have a depressive disorder I am 6’4 and 20 plus stone the proudest day of my life and the best thing I ever did was admit I suffer from MH issues. No stigma no shame. Big love to you Darren ❤
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing N B
@nialld1766
@nialld1766 Жыл бұрын
From someone who has followed you for last couple years, and often comments on your great video content, this one sure hit a chord. Best advice I can offer you is what someone said to me when I was not in a great place, and I say it now to myself whenever I feel a bit low….”Above every cloud, there is sunshine”! 20.6k people can’t be wrong mate, you contribute something special to others, be very proud of that Darren.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
😊🙏👍
@jonathanbowles2577
@jonathanbowles2577 Жыл бұрын
Good Evening Darren. Just watched a very Honest video of You my Friend. Absolutely Love watching your Excellent and Professional video's, that i can tell that You have taken your time and Thoughtfulness to make really High Quality video's. Your Positivity and Smile spreads with every person you meet. You and Lee just go together like very Close Brothers. It is not easy talking about Mental Health. Yes, i have been in that Dark Hole of Deep Depression and Suicide. I thought at the time, there was no answer. My very Bestest Friends came and Rescued me from my Black Hole. I feel that i am much Stronger and very Positive now. I do try to Help and Support people that need my Positive and Strength to pick them up and make them Smile and Feel Good about themselves. Take Great Care of Yourself Darren.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jonathon - a positive mind has got me where I am today
@lorrainedance2945
@lorrainedance2945 Жыл бұрын
Hi Darren I just wanted to say thank you for sharing it's not easy mental health and by being open and honest you have helped other people.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
I hope it helps Lorraine
@lorrainedance2945
@lorrainedance2945 Жыл бұрын
@@DarrenJohn it will.
@Happyheart146
@Happyheart146 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Darren. I needed a bit of a pep up. Schizoaffective here, been in bed all Easter. I'll do the 5 second rule tmw - promise! You've probably kept more people smiling with your content than you can possibly realise. You don't do things by halves man, you do the best food vlog on YT! I agree with trying to keep positive if you can, my motto is, same breeds the same. Love to you and best wishes from Durham!
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing - appreciate it
@grahamandmary38
@grahamandmary38 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant. I'm a 73-year-old lunger cancer patient. You made me think of life differently. I almost cried, thanks, mate.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you Graham, best wishes
@darkdestroyer322darkdestro3
@darkdestroyer322darkdestro3 Жыл бұрын
A couple of things that changed my mind set is the phrase you can't move forward satsnding still and also I'd nothing changes nothing changes it's mad what life has to throw at you
@mariaalbornoz4621
@mariaalbornoz4621 Жыл бұрын
So nice to see you again Darren. Good man! 5 seconds rule to get up, excellent idea! Glad you are working full time and back on track. Thanks so much for all your vlogs during and after lockdown, together with Tim, Dan and Lee, you gave us joy and entertainment... I thought you were going for a barraquito when poured condensed milk in your coffee, that definitely will motivate you to get up!😅Best wishes and looking forward to see yor new vlogs 🤗
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼👌🏼👊🏼
@nickgolding5786
@nickgolding5786 Жыл бұрын
Ty Darren for your story I unfortunately lost my father at the age of 13 when he committed suicide due to mental health issues which hit me very hard and still upsets me 49 yrs later
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
They are always in our thoughts Nick
@JohnWalker-ho4gl
@JohnWalker-ho4gl Жыл бұрын
Really respect your honesty as it could not have been easy to open up like you did
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Without honesty, there's nothing
@traceycottrell5643
@traceycottrell5643 Жыл бұрын
Don’t judge a book by its cover is what i say. Stay positive enjoy everything 😊
@jackiehodgson2261
@jackiehodgson2261 Жыл бұрын
Wow that really hits home Darren a down to earth sincere vlog I think we all can relate to something I have lost my parents, had a still born grandchild lost my little dog September then had a fall & broke my leg Mentally I was rock bottom but kept focusing on seeing my new grandchild and starting my new job I'm back at work and getting there..its been tough Like you said the key is positivity xx Great vid
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
👊🏼🙏🏼👍🏼
@thomascrown3320
@thomascrown3320 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Darren sound advice .
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Very welcome
@positivechampion4448
@positivechampion4448 Жыл бұрын
Well.....hats off to you....I work in Mental Health.....nice to see a different side.....onwards & upwards !!! 😃😃 HOW ARE YOU ?
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Im ok, thank you for asking
@MrMalarkey-z5s
@MrMalarkey-z5s Жыл бұрын
I've been struggling and still, was homeless for a year after splitting up with my misses after 22 year's. I don't believe I've been the same since. Great video
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
You got this!
@bethancurtis7322
@bethancurtis7322 Жыл бұрын
A very honest and inspirational video. I am sure that it will help and reassure many people who are going through difficult times in their lives.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@michaelmcbrearty6705
@michaelmcbrearty6705 Жыл бұрын
💗💗
@dryflyman7121
@dryflyman7121 Жыл бұрын
Very inspirational video Darren, thanks a million and well done. So glad you are back in work full time. I don’t think we will ever know the full effect that Covid 19 has had on us all and it will continue to spread like a secondary decease for years to come. The problem is that it probably can never be measured. All I know is that the NHS wasn’t prepared for it either before or after and that is understandable , it may even eventually break it. I am mid 70’s now and the lock down caused my total loss of self confidence, so I rarely go anywhere these days except for my fly fishing which I fought so hard to keep up. Without that I don’t know where I would be. 👍
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 👊🏼🙏🏼👍🏼
@garywatson1869
@garywatson1869 Жыл бұрын
People judge folk by the outside without feeling the pain on the inside. Proud of ya mate for being so upfront and opening yourself to the world
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Appreciate it Gary - one thing I am is honest
@thepeakydiners
@thepeakydiners Жыл бұрын
@@DarrenJohn At times its takes a brave person to show the REAL side of themselves - Keep strong and Keep going ❤
@MrMalarkey-z5s
@MrMalarkey-z5s Жыл бұрын
Why do you come across like your so hard done by. Bruv you've got no idea what hardship is about. You've never had to worry about your next meal
@858493
@858493 Жыл бұрын
From one Darren John to another, thank-you for sharing your journey thus far...I many years ago now had a dream Job without going into details it all went off the rails, to the point one evening l was driving back from work and thought you know what those trees are looking good at 110kmh and l nearly did it but then thought hey what about my family, what about those 1st responders, what about my friends So l drove straight to the Drs was lucky enough to Catch an Older GP finishing work and then started a long journey...of which your words reverberated...never give up...I was 25 years old at the time and now Im 60..and you know what Ive done so much and seen so much and ridden the good and bad but l survived and that wind still blows lol...still have the odd issue but you learn to work with it...enough rambling from me just a big thank you for your Candidness and insight into your story and how others too can get going again regards Doc from Down Under aka another Darren John
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your words of wisdom. I am so humbled that a large amount of people who watched the vide have shared their stories. It's important to talk.
@pennyharrison536
@pennyharrison536 Жыл бұрын
Nice personal vlog Darren alot of people mental health has changed during lockdown and hopefully because more people are open about there own struggles then they can get help and support, its sometimes hard to let others in to help but it's so important to talk to someone xx
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
👊🏼🙏🏼
@danmcmeekin1937
@danmcmeekin1937 Жыл бұрын
Hi Darren, what a fantastic video, you normally make me hungry 😁 but this one is inspiring 👍
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Appreciate it Dan
@GillianBamber
@GillianBamber Жыл бұрын
Hi Darren what can I say we always watch all your blogs and love everyone of them but this one in particular was inspirational I am writing this on behalf of my self and my husband Mike , Mike is having a few issues at the moment with anxiety and just watching this blog now was so moving you are amazing and love to watch your blogs take care and keep doing what you are doing this did bring a tear to my eyes❤
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Gillian, best wishes to Mike
@FabulousWanderers
@FabulousWanderers Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Darren, a great inspiring and motivating video, may you see much love peace & joy in the coming years ❤ Ps, can't wait to see your adventure to Tenerife Darren.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks Neil
@thunderplumps
@thunderplumps Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story Darren. I completely agree with what you say about positivity. 2022 was especially difficult for me as my dad died unexpectedly then 5 days later I was diagnosed with a form of Leukemia and then 5 months after that, I became unemployed. It would have been easy to just go back into the dark place, but I had to keep going, even if some days it's just by taking it one day at a time, this is real life and there are no hard rule's but you're right, be kind to ourselves along with others.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼👍🏼
@thelmabrindley2369
@thelmabrindley2369 Жыл бұрын
And this is why we all love Darren John. Your honesty makes us come back for more each and every time you put out a vlog. I for one admire your integrity and would never want that to change by the influence of other people. There is another quote from a film called Field of Dreams and that is "If you build it, they will come" This is what is happening to your channel DJ, you are building it and people are coming to support you and your subscribers. Sometimes it is hard when you are in a rut, to get yourself out of it and that is where I find myself at the moment. Trying to motivate yourself to do other things can be so hard, but the quote of The Wind Blows on us all and its how we set our sail says we all hold our own destiny really, there is only us that can do something about it. I too love Tenerife and I am going to make my sail take me back there at some point. Loved this chat and inspiration from the Off The Charts Darren John.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thelma, thank you for your heart felt words, best wishes to you
@williamtaylor874
@williamtaylor874 Жыл бұрын
honest and true thankyou ! ive been there to many times ime good now ps bikes help cheers, bill age 67
@gazellis1961
@gazellis1961 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant video Dazzla,mental health issues are in most families and is not a stigma anymore Be it Depression anxiety theres always an answer . Like you say a simple are you all right...can be a real game changer. Happy 2023 and keep these top videos coming out.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Appreciate it, thank you
@marymags8432
@marymags8432 Жыл бұрын
Wow what a lovely vlog so honest and by the way i also watched Friday Night Lights and i loved it pity there wasnt more of it .
@kazzsimo8276
@kazzsimo8276 Жыл бұрын
Amazing vlog Darren thank you so much for taking the time to do this one , I imagine it wasn’t easy . I identify with so much of what you have mentioned and I find that walking around the docks and London helps my mood greatly it’s the getting motivated bit I have trouble with sometimes a specially in the winter months. Also loved the 5 second rule idea I’ll definitely be giving that a go . Thanks for sharing 👍😁
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Kazz
@sharonokeefe7708
@sharonokeefe7708 Жыл бұрын
Thanks DJ .I'm going thru a bad time at the mo,its getting better but its a struggle and your Vlog has helped me ,,I've been in this place before and I no it will get better. I won't give up there's to many people rely on me . You have helped .Thanks x
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Glad to help
@ellamayy2k
@ellamayy2k Жыл бұрын
Bless you for opening up lockdown for us was tough...workwise for me I was lucky in that I kept a job and worked from home which was amazing as my office was a toxic environment so was wonderful however my husband who suffers with anxiety and depression had a breakdown...we broke up and spent 6 months during lockdown apart as we both had to focus on ourselves it led to me having a fitness focus and losing 9 stone over the last 2 years....my husband got himself on the mend and we got bk together and really focus on our health and wellbeing more than ever ...I came across your page during lockdown and its been amazing following you Hooe 2023 treats you and the family well 😀
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Amazing story Lisa, thank you for sharing
@1948Squirrel
@1948Squirrel Жыл бұрын
Thank you Darren, talking and sharing are great healers. Listening to other people's experiences all help. Love watching your channel. Cheers mate ✌️
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you kindly
@sarahwilson5872
@sarahwilson5872 Жыл бұрын
You intrigue me, keep keeping it real 💯 as you always do. I will continue to watch your videos ❤️ especially the ones with your son in 😊 xx
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sarah 🙏🏼👌🏼
@marksimpkin9490
@marksimpkin9490 Жыл бұрын
Great Video DJ very informative and interesting Thanks 🙂👍🏻
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@trevorveail
@trevorveail Жыл бұрын
In my late 50's due to trying for over 30 years to be an extrovert in my working life in the computer industry I had a full mental break down. I was pensioned off from work and spent 3 or 4 years doing group therapy. Eventually when i reached full pension age at 65 most of my depresion went. Early in my 60's i went cold turkey and weaned my-self off of anti-depresion drugs. It was very hard but now at almost 75 I am glad that I did it. I am not fully cured but i think that I am in a better place than I have ever been in. Thank you for your honest video.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Trevor
@goody1238
@goody1238 Жыл бұрын
Buddy. An honest and very humble addition to your channel. One that personally I can relate to and appreciate and respect. I suffer myself and tend to keep it to myself which is a negative but I intend to reset the sails and make way for the future. 👍🏻
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Good man Mark 🙏🏼👍🏼👌🏼👊🏼
@goody1238
@goody1238 Жыл бұрын
@@DarrenJohn Any considerations for maybe a Summer ride out to a cafe for some of your subscribers! Daisy and I’m sure other bikers for a morning poodle and some quality food. Just a suggestion.
@hedisanders
@hedisanders Жыл бұрын
You seem like a lovely man! And you're single? Sorry to hear you've been through so much over the past 3 years. You're an inspiration to many people, including me..
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Very kind, thank you
@gaylemcclelland7002
@gaylemcclelland7002 Жыл бұрын
Hey DJ your vids helped me last February to navigate London on my own and your vids excite me to go off beaten track try new foods and visit new places in London. Plus I have autism so your vids have helped me and my mental health also especially when I come home from working in the NHS in Northern Ireland. Much love from Derry/Londonderry. DJ you should bring daisy Duke to the North West 200 for some road racing and fab food
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to comment Gayle
@angelagraham9533
@angelagraham9533 Жыл бұрын
I suffer from mental health,it’s really hard,but not as hard as it was in lockdown,I worked all through in a supermarket. It was very scary and weird.Now I follow my plans and not my mood.God Bless you Darren.😘
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Good for you Angela
@spencerboult2228
@spencerboult2228 Жыл бұрын
Just to say thanks Darren. Thanks for the videos you post and your honesty that shines through all your videos that you post, not only this one. Here's to a safe and memorable 2023!
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
So nice of you
@tommyhiggins4367
@tommyhiggins4367 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video Darren ,I'm sure it will help a lot of people
@NickyDunn
@NickyDunn Жыл бұрын
Hiya Darren. Brave to share yourself and be so open. More men need to open up and share. You will help so many. People do not realize how early you wake up for work and your daily life outside youtube. Life is a rollercoaster. It just depends on how you ride it. Riding Daisy on a nice day, good vibes. It is amazing how people can hide behind a smile. The road trip. What an experience to ride that route. Have a great Weekend.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Hi Nicky, I have always felt it's a subject that is overlooked and since the Channel 4 video I wanted to remind people (and myself) just do youe best. Thank you for sharing Nicky 🙏😊
@dougtrigg1814
@dougtrigg1814 Жыл бұрын
Good on you mate keep going you have given me a lot of joy
@arthurdawes1477
@arthurdawes1477 Жыл бұрын
Loving this video Darren! Definitely gives viewers something we can all relate to! Chin up pal!
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
I hope so Arthur
@tinawoolmore5328
@tinawoolmore5328 Жыл бұрын
WELL DONE DARREN
@lainydepp
@lainydepp Жыл бұрын
Thanks Darren, I'll definitely be taking your words on board ❤ Got me crying here lol. You should be proud of how you've done 👊❤
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Bless you Lorraine
@christinejones8020
@christinejones8020 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being honest, the video will help a lot of people including my self. X
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Glad it will help Christine
@angelahardy6217
@angelahardy6217 Жыл бұрын
You are the best ...speaking out is huge...I'm also going through a lot..well done and I love your channel
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@conormcguinness2310
@conormcguinness2310 Жыл бұрын
Mental health is a battle .. it's hard .. I agree keep positive depression is a massive struggle .. siobhain mc Guinness xxx
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼👍🏼
@northbankgooner6126
@northbankgooner6126 Жыл бұрын
What a lovely guy, I never sub youtube content unless it specifically has something to do with Arsenal maybe a travel channel if I am looking to go somewhere. Just clicked the like and subscribe button mate. The lockdown was tough for a lot of people, it does feel like we lost 18 months staying at home and here we are 3 years later thinking about where has all that time gone.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Appreciate it, thank you - welcome aboard
@kevingoodyear5869
@kevingoodyear5869 Жыл бұрын
Love this vid Your best yet Perfect 👌🏻 thanks
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@Jay-Leigh
@Jay-Leigh Жыл бұрын
This was wonderful to watch because you become very candid about your mental health, and touched on your personal life too. Although you still have down days it’s heartwarming to see you have your own ways to get through the hard times. Always remember feet face forward and although it’s perfectly fine to looks back, don’t stare to long as the past can have wonderful memories but also very painful ones too, “if that makes sense?” Embrace every second Darren for life is extremely fast isn’t it? I think a Q&A would be wonderful. And, as a side note you know that five second rule? Don’t forget to make the bed also as it’s such a positive thing to do in the face of feeling down. Also remember you have all us lot out here.. we are your invisible friends Darren but I’d like to think you secretly know that. Have a super lovely evening a fabulous weekend, keep smiling, keep being you we all love ya 😉😊
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thanks Jayleigh - an important message I wanted to share - it gets missed so much
@Jay-Leigh
@Jay-Leigh Жыл бұрын
@@DarrenJohn couldn’t agree more 😊
@zulunepal
@zulunepal Жыл бұрын
Thanks for talking through. May we all have the power to overcome our fear.
@nataliebarron423
@nataliebarron423 Жыл бұрын
Love your videos, planning a trip to the UK to visit friends and relations and you have shown some amazing places and food in London that will be a part of our itinerary for at least a week. Thank you, Max and Nat. Wynnum, Queensland, Australia.
@DarrenJohn
@DarrenJohn Жыл бұрын
Thank you - enjoy your trip
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