The Wives Tell All! | Charisma and Hannah

[@coleandcharisma]

It’s our 7 year dating anniversary!! (Me and Charisma, not Hannah and Charisma lol)

[@Sarah-fy3qf]

Congratulations. Lucky 7.

[@sireeshak1979]

Happy anniversary ❤🎉😊

[@Dr.TeachPrayze]

Happy 7th Year Dativersary

[@keishg.3838]

Happy 7th Anniversary Colisma!

[@YouTubeDave-tp7ij]

Sure. I can see Hannah and Charisma dating. Would make a good couple. LOL JK.

[@marciawright2600]

I am so glad that you two have each other, and that all four of you have each other.

[@katglby]

Can we talk about how precious Chloe is when she kept putting her paw on Charisma and snuggling up to her? Sweet girl. 🥹❤️

[@blessingsbestOtedola]

❤ I noticed this. She wanted the hug and love from Charisma.

[@kellyps2024]

So sweet. My cat does that to me and especially when I am on Zoom calls with clients. He is not impressed with my work, at all!

[@katglby]

@@kellyps2024 Awwww ❤️

[@deborahnelson7905]

I love that both of you have become good friends!!! Having someone to have girl time together is important!!!

[@januarysteward9574]

I think sometimes the word "BURNOUT" can carry negativity when, in reality, it just means we are overwhelmed and we need a break.

[@chronically_bqueenb]

You might want to remove the numbers from your handle it looks like KZbin put the last 4 digits on your credit card

[@kss8866]

Will add southerners usually care for the sick at home and elders out of live and respect. You earn a break.

[@4everafanofcc857]

Well done ladies, well done! 😂 at your southern drawl accent, Charisma. It's SO cute how Chloe was demanding attention from you, Charisma. ❤

[@coleandcharisma]

Hahaha it keeps slipping out 😂😂 Chloe was being so cute in this video 🥰

[@africanawang2674]

Soo adorable how the dog keeps prodding Charisma for a petting. Soo nice and cute.

[@Bunnyness]

This was SO good! I think it resonated with me because of the caregiving I did for my precious father for about 14 years. Dad was not always bedridden during the entire time of his illness, but as time went on, he became less & less ambulatory, and sicker & sicker. Fortunately, my parents had the resources to bring in outside nursing support to help me, but that didn't stop the toll it took on me mentally & physically, especially because I was doing all I could for him to get better. I had a hope & an expectation of a better outcome, and that fueled my energy & perseverance for almost the entire 14 years. Eventually, I felt myself burning out. The two of you are simply wonderful. One advantage you all have that I didn't have is your youth factor. Youth was on your side. I was pushing senior citizen age when Daddy became ill, so the toll on me might have been a bit heavier. Nevertheless, I congratulate BOTH of you for the outstanding job you are doing. What you are doing demonstrates real love, and that's encouraging to all of us who just want to see a little more goodness in this world.

[@wunmikeji]

Super Model Caregivers! Well done ladies.

[@841tabby]

If you two ever started a podcast I would be listening

[@janiebrossmann1178]

You two are so beautiful and definitely strong women, wives, and friends that truly can understand each other’s lives 😊❤️🙏

[@Jsunsetsky87]

I adore all 4 of you guys and I love that you’ve all become good friends. I found Shane and Hanna years ago and Cole and Charisma not long after, completely separate and now you’ve all joined forces. Love it!

[@Sarah-fy3qf]

I often feel so in the moment and compartmentalize so much that I don't realise I'm stressed until I'm not stressed anymore. Then feel wierd for having a break down when everything is fine.

[@mableluswanga6860]

You are ladies so realistic and Relatable. These are questions that make other inter-abled couples uncomfortable.

[@ShayleeOfficial]

I love you both! I’ve been watching you both for years and I’m so happy you’re such good friends IRL!! ❤

[@lisasmith5760]

Great info gals! I have admired your enthusiasm for a bit as a sub. I never thought I would endure any sort of issue (for the record, I am a healthcare provider). On 11/20, hubs was diagnosed with Parkinson's. He is doing great now with the meds, but I fear the trajectory of the Dx. I will be watching you both for ideas. And if you're considering moving to FL PLZZZ, move on my street! ❤❤❤

[@manushka7297]

Charisma, your hair is scrumptious!!

[@sonjabeckford4196]

Excellent job ladies becoming friends both experiences can help to enhance your abilities to navigate through lives with your husbands 🙌🙏

[@anitayee9084]

We love The Wives tells all. Yes more video Hannah and Charisma ❤ and we love Q&A video.

[@myrlandepierre5330]

Charisma your hair is beautiful ❤

[@kerry-lynnekryvenchuk1881]

That was a great video. Nice to hear from the wife’s perspective. Both of you are so great

[@joshvanklomp]

I love that the pink couch brought out “Southern Accent Charisma”!

[@ginger-witch]

I've enjoyed both of your channels for so long. Is it okay to say that I think both of you are angels and just super special people? I don't mean that to be any insult to the men at all but, for instance, I'm the caretaker (in general not for special needs) in my family. If there's an emergency I typically step in and care for my older relatives. My aunt also is the go to family caregiver and I've been burnt out many times but wouldn't change anything. You two are caregivers on turbo and do so gracefully with so much love and your friendship is SO SPECIAL. I love watching the videos where you both are together (of the boys or all of you). Anyway.. thank you for the education.

[@sireeshak1979]

They really are ❤

[@susantimko4811]

Thank God for caregivers. I am the disabled one (MS) and my husband is my caregiver. People often ask to help but they have no clue of the extent of caregiving I need. He is having gallbladder issues and I am concerned that I will have to go to the nursing home if he has surgery.

[@cindys2995]

Praying that all things work out for you and hubby!

[@hopemoberg7473]

God is always with you even if you think you are alone

[@ednanelson1897]

I had gallbladder surgery and went home the same day. Maybe you can get a relative to stay with you while he heals. At least he will be there to direct your care.

[@Dayholly86]

​​@@ednanelson1897MS does not impact intelligence. She can manage her own care choices. She doesn't need her husband to supervise her care.

[@melbaalexander9475]

Charisma you are right Cole family would come in a heart beat You are very blessed in that way.

[@lettiegrant9447]

Her family would come as well. They love Cole.😊

[@melbaalexander9475]

I know they would😊

[@melbaalexander9475]

Didn't mean to exclude Charisma family I know they love Cole and he loves them Both families are wonderful people Cole& Charisma are very blessef

[@vanesachiodo8009]

I LOVED this!! You guys should definitely do more of these types of videos together!!

[@YesWeWillchooseWisely]

Great content. It's nice to witness true friendship and sisterhood. Continue to cherish that bond and create wonderful memories.

[@franceschoi4555]

Love this, Wives Tell All. There you have it. ❤❤❤

[@RianShafer]

Loved hearing this. I do think one of the hardest things to deal with, politely, is unsolicited advice about my disease. Even doctors & specialist don't know what actually living with it is like & they do learn things from me not found in their books or work-a-day practices. Both of your hubby's are so different in their needs & no one knows them better than you (or them) but you are open for new ideas. Those are best given from folks who actually live with a disAbility. It's hard to not see you as that different from any other couple. Means it works for you & so it works for us as your followers/fans too. I'm off to watch Shane & Hannah's video & even if it is just the same, it's well worth a re-watch! You ladies are awesome humans.

[@Dayholly86]

DisAbility? No, do not give that connotation to the word disability. It's a normal conversational word. Capitalizing the middle makes it stand out more in the sentence, rather than change the emphasis within the word. People who fear the word don't advocate for themselves as effectively. I am protected at work by the Americans with Disabilities Act. Not the differently abled act. Knock it off with euphemisms and trying to dress up disabilities. They are a normal part of life.

[@RexieG]

Charisma love the dog asking you for attention. That was so adorable ❤. Great video thank you Charisma and Hannah for being so honest and open.

[@lenorasmith9104]

❤❤ You TWO are wonderful A wife job is Never done ✅.

[@120candicane]

I love this video ❤️ my hubs is a c5/6 complete quad and wish I had a close friend kinda in my shoes and understands day to day life ❤

[@edithmihertab2262]

You two are awesome ❤❤ I'm a caregiver to my mom she had a stroke two years ago ,that was interesting and informative,thank you for sharing BLESSINGS 🙌 🙌

[@ddbird1967]

You girls are so cute, it was nice to see you in this natural conversation.

[@myrlandepierre5330]

You guys doing a wonderful job

[@joanie6385]

I love how Chloe kept trying to get Charisma to acknowledge her. ❤❤ I am so glad that two of my favorite channels are good friends

[@deejohnson3470]

I appreciate you both sharing your information 🎉 I so am encouraged for cole and charismas you tube. I appreciate all four ( both couples). Thank you 😊

[@candisbar524]

This was good! Hope you do this more often. Would also love to hear the men's perspective, once in a while, lol.

[@MiiWhisper2]

Love how you interact with and support each other. I've followed your both for years and it's been refreshing and informative to be a part of your journeys. This was a great feel good posting.

[@claudiaferguson5829]

Awesome 👏🏾 Thanks for sharing ladies, and you keep doing what you do best for your husband, God blessed 😇

[@judahbusby]

No, I cannot believe I missed it darn it. I’ll catch hit the next one. I’m sure anyway guys this was really good. I love you both. I mean both of your channels are so so inspiring.❤

[@ZellaWerk]

Having a supportive friend who truly understands the wife caregiver role is exceptionally valuable. The dog's tapping to avoid being left out was incredibly endearing.

[@Cherimor-zl4oy]

That was awesome and very interesting! Kudos ladies 🎉

[@lisadwyer3473]

Such beautiful young women! Both faces and spirits ❤

[@nellieleigh228]

I love you guys and that you found one another in this mad world! I can imagine having someone to relate to really helps when you start to feel overwhelmed.

[@lauragc7832]

delightful conversation. More of these!!! I can touch the chemistry heheheh🎉❤

[@genuinecathy2947]

There is an emergency chain that vulnerable people can wear. If there is an emergency, you press a button on the chain, and you get instant help. You have to register and pay for that service.

[@danashick1732]

You two are awesome! Great video 🩷

[@shannonhatton6321]

LOVE your friendship

[@kerrabquantae9356]

That was pretty insightful. I kinda like this statement. Because my partner is my caregiver also

[@bettyfreeman9253]

That was fun and informative. Thank you so much.

[@radiumlyte]

Sophie looks like a black version of Chloe. just thinking of my own back injury, and how my life would be if I hadn't fallen while rock climbing. anyway, happy holidays :)

[@claudine1928]

I took care of my parents for a while. Nearly sprained my ankle, just my ankle, that was a scary moment at that time. I understand your concerns, but am in owe of how you four live your lifes. Not just the care part, all that you show us on your yt channels.

[@RakaelBoozierre]

This makes so much sense

[@MeganElizaStott]

Loved this! We need more supermodel caregivers videos 😊 x

[@TheMessyDeskxyz]

Love this chit chat with the ladies ❤

[@bluepearlagain]

My fave combo !!❤🎉

[@annettepilgrim9626]

YOU TWO LADIES ARE JUST AWESOME. I LOVE THE BOTH OF YOU. I AM SOO HAPPY YOU BOTH HAVE EACH OTHER. MANY BLESSINGS TO THE BOTH OF YOU.

[@Dayholly86]

Excellent callout about how there are specific callouts on how to lift Shane safely. My bestie (with SMA, very similar to Sean's level of progression) found this portable sling online that is exactly like the sling on her hoyer lift. She was able to go to Disney World and do a ton of rides with her siblings. It was configured with four handles that the others would use to move her. It also helped them transfer her on the plane.

[@latanyafrancois6108]

❤❤ Thanks for sharing cause I was so curious how you Care for your husband's keep coming back Hannah your sweet 😊

[@ArtistryMindsCook]

You all should go on a double date at Morgan Wonderland! It’s the most accessible amusement park in San Antonio. I would love to see how helpful and accessible it can really be. Also 😂 Cole and charisma on a rollercoaster together seems intriguing given the roadtrip videos. Love the channel! Happy holidays!

[@Dayholly86]

I remember seeing both channels a number of years ago and being like, "these couples should be friends."

[@ebb7328]

I love this type of content from you two. ❤️❤️

[@e5581]

The video was very interesting but the Dog was hilarious at the beginning trying to get attention from Charisma

[@Chelle-yz5sc]

This helped me ❤ sometimes I feel my health issues are just too much to be in a relationship. I can do most on my own but sometimes you have to do things solo too. We all get sick though and need help. ❤ this was cute 🥰 thank you ladies. I do feel women are more open than men. With talking and dealing. Men in hospitals omg 🤦‍♀️ but I don’t need company if I end up there. lol 😂 go play a sport or video game lol I still feel like with my health physical and emotional can be harder for men. I get emotional

[@Chelle-yz5sc]

There are good men out there I’m just bitter lol 😂 exes have been in hospital with me idk why it’s still a huge fear setback of mine.

[@Chelle-yz5sc]

I’ve had stomach issues whole life but 18 needed up in er over it and by 19 diagnosed and I’m 37. It’s not new. Disabilities have always been so taboo. ❤ love the change that’s happening

[@sjariciamercera86]

I like the vibe...... beautiful ladies

[@LeahDisher-y5o]

We need more of these ❤

[@bevl7989]

Care giver work never stop it’s 24/7 you guys are super woman’s super wife’s gods bless you and continue to bless you always 🙏👏👏👏

[@AdventureswithNolan-gz9xl]

Love you guys!

[@ljones269]

This was such an awesome and informative video i love cole and charisma upbeat energy 😂 when the doggy sat up on butt i fell out 😅 beautiful 😍 intelligent pupper😊

[@janicelvance]

This was great!

[@scottsmith4612]

Charisma could be a world-class supermodel. The fact that she is devoted to her husband has to have caught God's all-seeing nature. She has a special ticket to heaven.

[@TuggerAbbey]

Both women are stunning inside and out.

[@lettiegrant9447]

Yes they are. They're great together.👍😊

[@LR11306]

Both are gorgeous but more importantly, smart, funny and genuine. Being with their husbands isn't a saintly selfless thing, though. It's a marriage. With unique circumstances but it's still a two-way street like any other. The guys are also amazing!

[@HeidiWright-x6d]

So has Hannah ffs

[@valjean9581]

I agree with you!

[@Nicole4771]

I am a caregiver to my husband he has MS. I wish I could be like you both.

[@lolarennt90210]

I love how you know that if something were to happen to Charisma she wouldn’t be dead or in the hospital but always able to whisper directions from the couch. 😅

[@WackyLisa]

I really want a friendship like this one. The OH and I do the mutual caregiving thing.

[@victorialonje4837]

I think you are caring loving spouses which is how it's supposed to be. Loving greetings from Malawi

[@Pooky715]

That was interesting love your friendship 😊

[@MelvinJoseph-m7i]

Hanna u are angel both devoted ur life for ur husband

[@moniquecooper5905]

Great video!!! ❤❤

[@blessedblessed4323]

Continue to be wise and careful of relationships

[@OnwardMotion]

Great information, thank you for sharing!

[@nannapatty110]

You two girls are amazing love you ❤️

[@CarolynSmith-vc1bv]

Wonderful women love 🙏💜💚❤️🙏

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

You can be both yesss.

[@blumberg1982]

I don’t know if I could ever do the bathroom thing because I have a weak stomach and a real sensitivity to smell. I’m sure however that this is second nature and not something you think about. You do it without thinking and that’s part of the love too.

[@shirleyhardnett6067]

Beautiful lovely couple. I love watching your video

[@laxclimblive15]

Watching you two together makes me realize…I’m not sure you need the boys. You two should have your own channel just you! What do they really bring to the table?? 😂

[@stephaniemcqueen4107]

It’s LOVE

[@pierredur]

Cole can do more movements. There is a movement that people are not aware of they have. It comes directly from the brain. I call it hydrogen X. We use it for direction only mostly. It just takes a long time to discover, and then it can be used to condition the body. If he makes any kind of movements he uses hydrogen X. He just doesn't know that he uses it. It only works one.

[@antoinettewilliams7085]

Hello everyone from DC

[@DariusMorgan-fr7fs]

Charisma’s southern accent. 😂😂😂

[@coleandcharisma]

Haha right?! Where did that come from? 😂😂

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

How did you and Shane meet?

[@dmp1177]

If you don’t mind me asking, are you both wearing Oura rings?? Might be totally wrong, but I’ve been interested in getting one if those are them and y’all have any insight! ❤

[@AnishaAfrica]

❤ Just I love you both 💓 ❤️ ♥️

[@JanealJohnson]

Any married couple could become a caregiver/receiver relationship.

[@Leshio-w7y]

You wouldn’t be dead 😂😂😂

[@Aquintisburnett]

The country accents were catching me off guard but it was funny

[@starlisejun.from.1799]

Yes the doctors don’t care they will still do it that way unfortunately 😮 hopefully they let u lift him

[@cindys2995]

I really like this setting!

[@ericvonwiegen5672]

Nice 👍