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[@freckledandred]

Calling your partner weak for crying is abuse

[@Hawthorn6852]

Yes it's a hard thing to hear but if your partner refuses to be a safe person for you to show your emotions that is abusive.

[@tofoo1]

Lol men get called weak for crying all the time

[@ada1312]

@@tofoo1Yeah and its wrong, they shouldnt be called weak for showing their emotions Usually they are called weak by… other men… it’s really sad and it shouldn’t happen

[@Hawthorn6852]

@@tofoo1 That 👏 doesn't 👏 make 👏 it 👏 okay 👏

[@freckledandred]

@@tofoo1 you can't speak for all men just because you do all the time. And women get hit by men all the time too that doesn't make it right

[@ttintagel]

The thing about the woman who wrote the book is, you can't just skip your lunch break and come home an hour early. Labor laws say you have to have a break after four hours.

[@v.k.8153]

In Arizona, where I'm from, there is no such law. Your employer is not required to give you a break here.

[@hippiealien8726]

A lot of states in the USA actually don't HAVE to give you a break at all. Not even a meal break.

[@witchassbitch3]

@@v.k.8153holy shit why is it not a federal law

[@pringlebatch]

Maybe a UK thing? I work 8 hr shifts including an hour break, and in lieu of taking it in the middle, management *can* send us home early instead. Happened to me once, when we had non-stop customer footfall of a Saturday 😜

[@_allegra]

Yeah, it's the very similar in Australia, though the specifics differ based on a bunch of stuff (industry, union bargaining, etc)

[@jojol.2630]

The “causing people to stumble” thing is so funny to me because if my ugly butt makes you stumble, you’re practically committing insurance fraud.

[@JamieWamie-ep1fz]

Thank you for not saying that everyone has nipples, I feel seen :) (top surgery healing was a lot easier with no nips)

[@rhymerlegend2717]

Sad that you mutilated your chest. Though yes some people are born without nips

[@rhymerlegend2717]

Sad you mutilated your chest. Though yes not everyone is born with nipples

[@trashbagkinnie1108]

@@rhymerlegend2717wtf??? Top surgery can be literally lifesaving for people. And deciding to not have nioples after is more than okay. Especially since there’s risk of them falling off anyway

[@blakewhite3131]

Congrats on top surgery! :)

[@blakewhite3131]

​@@rhymerlegend2717 do you see what channel you're on, dumbass? I suppose my appendectomy a few months back was mutilating my stomach, too, since I had to get life saving surgery and remove a useless part of me that was going to end up killing me.

[@arcanineryu]

Soon as they include god in the argument, unless youre specifically talking about religion, then you can pretty much just throw the whole argument out.

[@professorfoxtrot]

Any argument that includes climate change is BS. "Climate refugees" etc. Same with trans (unless we're talking about trans fats, which are actually real)

[@matthewcaldwell8100]

This statement has angered the Lord. Oh no I did it. *gets into trash*

[@WynnWynn-gl3fk]

Even talking specifically about religion with god I the argument needs to be thrown out

[@babowasalwayshere]

This right here. It's like "do I look like I care what god thinks? DID I ASK?" my mom's bf told me to "bring up the scriptures, that always stops people in their tracks" and it's like.. yea, because it's an utterly unhinged argument that doesn't correlate to what we were talking about at all. It stops people in their tracks because they're realize you're too insane to understand where they're coming from!

[@infinessia4019]

The American flag boots make me laugh because for some reason conservatives think they are exempt from this rule: “The flag should never be used as wearing apparel, bedding, or drapery. It should never be festooned, drawn back, nor up, in folds, but always allowed to fall free.”

[@atingeofsalt_]

I had a guy in elementary school ask me if I liked him because I quote “smiled every time he was in the room/walked into the room” and I stood there like, “am I not allowed to smile for other reasons?”

[@KiboSanti]

I had a boy ask me if I liked him because I was "blushing". 😂 Boy, no, my face is red because we just finished GYM CLASS.

[@Zectifin]

hey I'll give young boys a pass. I'm awkward as hell, probably on the spectrum, I was so awkward in school around girls I liked and never noticed when girls were actually flirting with me and mistook instances as flirting when they were not.

[@robfortune6]

I mean, a young boy asking a genuine question as to whether or not a girl likes him is a lot different to these "are the straights okay" kinds of things imo (assuming the boy just went along their way after you said you didn't like him)

[@Barakon]

No, but it’s just confusing so clarify that it wasn’t a sign of affection.

[@RPGLover87]

In the womb: X Chromosome happily moulding the nipples Y Chromosome: What are you doing? We're going to be male, we shouldn't need these... X Chromosome: well I've already installed the mammaries and they need to plumb in somewhere... do you want me to open 'er up and take em back out? Y: Nah, it'll be fine. Check next time though... X Well he might need them later... easier to put 'em in and not need 'em than need 'em and not have 'em. Y: Fine...

[@dontbotherme8097]

As someone who studies genetics everyday I say this is the most correct way to explain the X and Y chromosomes lol

[@triciad4100]

Good for X for being prolactive. 🍼

[@lonelyone-hs8jw]

@@triciad4100This is hilarious I can’t 💀

[@moonshinershonor202]

@@triciad4100 I am lactose tolerant so I approve this message. 🥳

[@Ruby_Eve]

​@moonshinershonor202 apparently being able to digest lactate is a mutation that is more common among Europeans. In other words, the x-men need to make some room

[@jessebrazeal1861]

My father once said that my nipples were "distracting"

[@USSAnimeNCC-]

That concerning

[@haylene7521]

Wtaf

[@NettylSpryngs]

Ewwwww

[@Moszan]

I'm sorry you have a father like that. I know the feeling of having a male parental figure saying disturbing stuff like that to your face.

[@jessebrazeal1861]

@@Moszan I'm still trying to save enough money to get an apartment and I had a interview for a manager position at my workplace, so hopefully I'll get the promotion.

[@crawdaddy2004]

8:10 Also, I would bet a fair bit of money that there’s a HUUUUUGE overlap between the men who shame women for doing OnlyFans and men who pay for OnlyFans…

[@NettylSpryngs]

I think they would rather stream unethical porn for free and leave angry comments under their favorite videos

[@moonshinershonor202]

😥 As a dude can confirm. It's not an absolute overlap, there is enough to see it be ironic. Like did you hear about Fresh n Fit fat guy who was screaming at his girl about being the prize? Like half the guests or dates of theirs are on OF....

[@Zectifin]

they're probably the types that upload the OF videos on shady sites.

[@LilChuunosuke]

I used to work with a dude who would slutshame attractive women saying theyre all selling their bodies online, then miss his rent payment because he spent his entire paycheck on, you guessed it...

[@dorian9769]

​​​@@ZectifinThat's the only way the original post makes any sense. How can she simultaneously be unsuccessful on OF, but also somehow "the whole town" has seen her content? Either it's a paradoxical misogynist fantasy that only exists because these men hate these women, lust after these women but know they will never "hAvE" them and erego feel rejected and ego-damaged without ever having met them, and wish to see "karma in action" or whatever they wanna call it; or someone paid for her content and then spread it around, probably for the same reason. And it's also probably both.

[@carriebryan1211]

I love appropriate reading glitches: I misread the ad warning as "includes paid pronouns."

[@elalovatt2751]

I would maybe identify myself as having paid pronouns 😂😂

[@31hashtag]

pronoun dlc dropped

[@witchassbitch3]

Wish I could get paid for pronouns lol

[@zerada00]

Love that, would add them to my collection

[@leahkentra6016]

Context that makes the first one worse : The groom had asked the bride if he could wear them multiple times before, and she had refused. Before the actual ceremony he asked again, and she refused, again (as she should). Even though she explicitly said no, he ran down to the car and got them before the reception started. I don’t know what happened to the couple after that, but I think it’s awful that he did this despite her explicitly saying no multiple times.

[@crazcatladeestudios9956]

Somehow I don't think that marriage lasted/is gonna much longer...

[@ThatGreenNugget]

Wtf

[@nordikkai7185]

Man, I was really hoping that first one was a joke. I can totally see a software engineer (especially one who is very into their career) taking a funny pic with a VR headset on and the spouse being in on it.

[@leahkentra6016]

@@nordikkai7185 nope, she said no, multiple times, and he did it anyways.

[@leahkentra6016]

@@crazcatladeestudios9956 I thinks she canceled it, but I’m really not sure.

[@jotarodio4750]

if my girl wrote a book and sold it for 100k id be putting on my apron leaving her in her study alone and care for our child alone get dat bread

[@SarastistheSerpent]

23:03 I like how, in addition to sourdough bread and milk, carrots are also “rebellious” now, and somehow related to being anti-LGBTI

[@triciad4100]

Oh no, I had carrots and milky tea with my lunch! I guess it's only a matter of time until I start picketing outside libraries and get the urge to breed with a High Value Man™. 😰

[@islandgirl10164]

I’m pretty sure they mean gardening/homesteading but EVERYONE gardens so still wth are y’all talking ab 😭

[@SarastistheSerpent]

@@islandgirl10164plus, wouldn’t these people consider gardening “woke” because it’s good for sustainability and the environment?

[@usermollyjimbles]

i LOVE carrots, I'm gonna eat more to spite bigots

[@islandgirl10164]

@@SarastistheSerpent eh I think some of em might see it like that but I think most see it as ‘going back to how things used to be’ (trad wife type vibe lol)

[@crawdaddy2004]

19:39 He’s just upset that he actually had to spend that hour raising his kids instead of pawning it off on the wife. I’m pretty confident that she did literally all of the rest of the childcare.

[@doodlydungeon8576]

I want to be in a relationship, specifically one where I like my partner?? It's crazy to me that some people really just marry the person/people they hate and won't leave???

[@ClownHoundII]

So many straight people are pressured to get married and then get married to their first crush. They then get bitter when others are living differently and happy.

[@Zectifin]

yeah I like hanging out with my partner. at this point I don't think I'd even consider dating a woman who didn't play video games. they're too important to me and I like doing it as an activity together. I don't get the "opposites attract" BS.

[@jimileecrawford328]

I got married because I was afraid of losing my daughter and it was the biggest mistake that I ever made.

[@Overseer2579]

I wonder if those same people idolize relationships like the ones in After or Twilight, or especially The Notebook

[@P-P-Panda]

Me too. I don’t understand why people want to have that kind of life. It’s ridiculous

[@mageofmagic870]

The thing that makes the facial hair one even worse is the fact that growing more facial hair is often a symptom of PCOS. She could literally have a medical condition that causes her to grow more facial hair, and here he is making her feel ugly for it!

[@Scatscar1985]

Why do some people think only women work on OnlyFans?

[@SarastistheSerpent]

Women sex workers are always the ones who get the brunt of the hatred. Same with women in mainstream pornography or prostitution. People never consider that that there are men in porn and gigalos

[@jacktadash]

Isn't the male version MostlyAirconditioners?

[@Zectifin]

didn't markiplier make a fuckton from OF?

[@professorfoxtrot]

Not all women, just Kiwi

[@Shingo-ok1lz]

​@@ZectifinYeah, man made bank and then donated it, I think. I don't remember the specifics but I know man got a truckton of money from it.

[@Emmathelady]

10:16 This is basically every Steve Wilco’s episode about abuse. The person, usually a woman, knows she is getting abused and wants it to stop, but puts more focus on finding out if her partner cheated, even though Steve will repeatedly tell them that that does not matter because they are being abused.

[@autisticnation7140]

Sour dough makes them seem relateable because it is just water, flour and salt. Making it affordable for even the most broke. But at the same time is a type of labor they can do that doesn't make them look poor. I think its a good example of leisure class theory

[@Da_Shrimp69]

25:57 I saw a very interesting take on tiktok a couple weeks ago related to this that I wanted to share. It was from a creator named Yuval who had said he believes the man should paid for the first date. The reason he said this however wasn't because it's a man's job to provide or anything like that, but rather because in a straight relationship where 2 strangers meet for a date, the woman is taking a larger risk than a man. He, as a man himself, said that he never felt the need to give his friends his location when going on a date, but that women often times will do that to feel safe in case the man they meet is a dangerous person. Very interesting perspective on the matter that I don't think a lot of people consider, so I wanted to share it :)

[@Kiyoko_TheRat]

That is an interesting take I've never had a feeling where I was like "this party should do this" with regardless; but this definitely makes me think more than the traditional reason. I personally think it depends on the bill sometimes, too

[@crawdaddy2004]

20:54 I’m pretty sure it’s that the girlfriend is asking the guy to vacuum or do the laundry… after she has already cooked, done the dishes, cleaned the bathroom and did the grocery shopping.

[@Hailey-bz2ym]

As someone who is a leftist who also happens to be very interested in self sufficiency and homesteading, I will explain the sourdough thing to the best of my ability! So basically sourdough isn’t just a “flavor” of bread, it’s actually a technique that is extremely traditional where you use wild yeast you cultivate yourself to leaven bread and in the process it ferments it, causing that sour flavor. Its traditional nature and possible health benefits (fermented food) are why “crunchy” and tradwives find it appealing. It’s also seen as a badge of honor sometimes to not use any processed or commercialized food, like store bought yeast. ALSO, raw milk and growing your own food is a big thing in these circles. I don’t agree that raw milk is really a good idea in most cases but do think everyone should grow more of their own food! But yeah, it’s essentially seen as “subversive” because they’re going against societal norms in the way they procure/consume food, not purely for the food itself. Hope this helped, it’s a current hyperfixation of my ND brain 😅❤

[@deereye87]

My mom and I always wanted to learn how to make sourdough but never had the patience. I admire anyone who can!

[@Hailey-bz2ym]

@@deereye87 totally understand that! Especially developing a starter, that can take ages. Now I’m getting in the groove of making bread though it really only takes 30 mins or so of hands on time!

[@bluejay9425]

That’s really awesome! I’m also ND and have been kind of hyperfixated on having a sustainable lifestyle and making my own food or foraging for ingredients!

[@TaiK-el5pv]

thank you for the mini info dump! it was genuinely pleasant to read :)

[@BoredArtoast]

I love ND comments explaining things they’re hyperfixated on, it’s always so cool to read and learn something new :3

[@clementinegrant1749]

I need to spend tomorrow with homophobic family so thank you for giving me my last meal before I go back into the closet for a day :( love ur vids

[@NettylSpryngs]

Good luck! Stay safe ❤❤

[@Diamond123682]

"If your girlfriend isn't the most annoying person you've ever met in your whole life, is she really your girlfriend?" Sir, I don't think I would've asked her to marry me if I found her annoying.

[@SpineBones]

why are they corrupting my beloved sourdough ;-;

[@NettylSpryngs]

Ikr?? I always think of sourdough as a part of the gay village fantasy life, where it has pretty designs on the crust

[@SpineBones]

@@NettylSpryngs THIS!!! Exactly :>

[@bellakeksi8313]

My bf once jokingly said "you couldn't be any more annoying" and I immediately broke into tears cuz it was so hurtful. To his credit he regretted saying it the way he did and immediately said "I wasn't being serious" and comforted me while repeating that he didn't mean it and he's sorry. But yeah I love us teasing each other and being playfully annoying but that was too far and I don't think he'll ever say that again. Even if you have a relationship where you're teasing each other be careful what you say because you shouldn't want to actually hurt them and if you do acknowledge it, apologize and do better.

[@ChristaBlack-gn8ys]

They're far from "OK"!!! ☠️

[@unwrittenpaige7791]

Saying that your kid is a mistake is so hurtful. I was a shotgun baby and I'm so sensitive about being a "mistake". My mom would say it jokingly and even though I knew she wasn't serious it stung.

[@sassylittleprophet]

That whole story about the husband who cried in front of his wife, who was disgusted, makes me so sad. Literally, the exact *opposite* thing happened with my partner and I. When my partner and I were still friends (really good friends, but still just friends), he had a really hard day and was telling me about it. He cried a little, and I hugged him and comforted him. I remember just feeling so hurt for him in the moment and thinking, "He is so sweet, he doesn't deserve this." I started liking him at that moment, specifically *because* he was vulnerable with me and showed me that he was a genuine person and that he trusted me that much. We just had our 9 month anniversary of our relationship. 💜

[@deereye87]

That is adorable! I appreciate when my partner is vulnerable with me, too. He was basically that way from the start, and I fell for him right away. I knew that if he felt comfortable being vulnerable with me, I could do the same with him.

[@Zectifin]

I'm a huge crybaby and my gf always says its one of the things she likes best about me and she always gives me shit if were watching a movie/show thats emotional and I try to hide tearing up from her.

[@strawberryshortcake4345]

Vulnerability is just so delicate and lovely and it takes so much courage to express Hope you and your partner stay strong for a looong time!!

[@sassylittleprophet]

@@strawberryshortcake4345 thank you!! 🥰

[@strawberryshortcake4345]

​@@sassylittleprophet 🩷🩷🩷

[@JamieLBW]

I can't imagine not feeling closer to my husband after crying together. Why have a marriage with no emotional intimacy?? I think it just shows that really see marriage as another job and it's like their co-worker they hate cornered them while they were waiting for their lean cuisine

[@puraidoeustass]

18:00 If my wife was an author, I'd cut my hours short so she could write. I'm a hobby writer myself. I would worship the ground she walks on if she brought home 100.000 Dollar like that. (I would do it anyway, regardless of the money. After all, why wouldn't I worship the person I married?)

[@SweaterWearingaTree]

You're mad your wife wrote a 100k book on her lunch break? Why 'csuse she proved how much of a badass she is? Also she should've skipped lunch to come home an earlier to take care of the kid?

[@cherrytree3400]

12:56 mans really just said "my gf looks like freya(ff9)" like it's a bad thing

[@elainahaney6686]

Love when I’m early to a Kiwi video

[@p-__]

My farts are better than The Queer Kiwi's farts.

[@yellowtomato854]

Same :D

[@calorawetsock2749]

same

[@Silly_lil_scribbles]

Same!!

[@professorfoxtrot]

No.

[@allysontousignant591]

Kiwi, as a straight person I don’t own these people! I was literally told by my parents that my grunge/emo style I like to dress in is childish and it kinda hurt my feelings, especially with my dad since he raised me and my sister by himself before my stepmom came into the picture, yes I’m not normal and I don’t dress normal but I also know when to have fun with my style and when I need to dress for certain occasions, we need to beat down the stigma of traditional and “normal”, we’re humans and we each have our own personalities we aren’t drones

[@Ale_V72]

My happiness has gone up by 230% ever since I decided I will never use a Bra again. #freethenipple

[@snowicorn]

Same. I had to wear a bra when I was still in school, because it would be kinda embarassing changing for PE class with my clasmates there, but now that I don't have that I can just not wear it and be happy uwu

[@ada1312]

I stopped few years ago and its was so annoying to use them… I wore a bra yesterday for a first time in very long time and i did it bc i had a transparent shirt and wanted to wear a cute bra with flowers to make the outfit full Other than that - i cant Imagine wearing this everyday

[@crazcatladeestudios9956]

I avoid it as much as possible. Sometimes it's necessary for exercise or under specific clothes but if I don't need to, I will not wear one. They're so uncomfortable!

[@eMpTycurses]

I think the sourdough is more about making it them eating it, the whole trad wife "farming & made from scratch" vibe but I'm not 100% but it also be some conspiracy theory thing.

[@NettylSpryngs]

I always wondered if it was that plus the sort of anti-gluten-free thing

[@eMpTycurses]

@NettylSpryngs Omg I didn't even think of that, that's definitely a factor.

[@Hailey-bz2ym]

@@NettylSpryngsit’s actually sort of related to that. Those circles believe that wheat/gluten intolerances are caused in large part by modern farming practices and that sourdough (fermented flour) will solve that issue. It’s a sort of purity thing

[@codybutler7742]

Before we get into the vid, I'm predicting that they won't be ok. That's just the straights for you ig. Always remember that you're loved and you're valid no matter what anyone says.

[@AlwaysWatchibg]

woke asf

[@bluchu22]

The only one not ok here is TQK herself…

[@AlwaysWatchibg]

@@bluchu22 Only reasonable person in this comment section

[@mihirjain753]

I'll be honest, your vids are just so helpful in coping with the world as an obese queer man I feel so happy and validated from them. Really enjoyed this one as well :)

[@Drockthehouse95]

The cognitive dissonance is so palpable. These guys dont want to see women show themselves in public but reaaaallllyyyy want want women to show themselves to ONLY them. Like wtf man, youre just a guy too. Somehow if she did what you wanted to any other guy then it lowers her value in your eyes. Its entirely an ego thing at the end of the day. I can confidently and comfortably say that at the end of the day that Im just a man, nothing more, nothing less and thats cool. There were many men before me and there will be many more after. What women have done or will do with men is entirely up to them, and it makes no sense to take it personally.

[@HiBuddyyyyyy]

It’s them wanting to control women, it doesn’t matter what women wear, they’ll find a way to objectify them.

[@CarsonZXY]

The very first image... God, my girl (I'm lesbian) loves VR stuff but if I found out that shit even found its way to the trunk (or boot)... well. I probably wouldn't do anything drastic because that's abusive, but I will certainly not be sleeping with her on our wedding night.

[@clarrytheclam]

I think it’s Augmented reality, not virtual, but still such a shitty way to spend your wedding day 😅

[@moonpoolsmadness2520]

Storytime about crying from this past weekend: I was hanging out with a group of friends, one of them was hosting and I got a notification from the grading system our college uses that triggered a panic attack. My friend who was hosting came and found me and helped me calm down, and you know what he did instead of getting upset at me for disrupting things or crying? He helped me calm down and sat with me for a while, and made sure I was alright to be left alone in a quiet space before going back to everyone else, and made sure I knew I could get him if I needed to. Thats how you handle people being upset. You should be there for them, not act like they shouldn't have emotions

[@usermollyjimbles]

There is a time and a place for wearing your vr headset, your wedding is not one of those times.

[@SailorSaturn1994]

I will always wonder if straights are aware that you're supposed to love, like, and respect your partner

[@Hawthorn6852]

As someone with a gluten intolerance I fucking love sourdough because it's the only kind of glutenous bread that doesn't try to kill me

[@Thisissarah815]

You can see a dude’s bulge when he’s wearing gym shorts or a bathing suit or tight pants. What about that? Why is that not a problem?

[@tofoo1]

Cuz we cant control that (besides wearing tight pants shouldnt be doing that as a guy lmao)

[@ttintagel]

@@tofoo1 Women can't control having breasts, either.

[@Thisissarah815]

@@tofoo1 we can’t control having nipples

[@Tigerman303]

Because ✨️misogyny✨️

[@cloudyskyz2237]

@@tofoo1like women can control their nipples??

[@noodledude07]

For the sourdough thing, its one of the easier breads to start baking yourself. My mom started to bake bread at home and sourdough is the cheapest to continuously make. :)

[@quak7912]

just started my weekly kiwi binge :D hi savvyyyy 🤍

[@One-of-many-names]

Okay to explain what Apple Vision pros are as someone who doesn't own them but does own a quest 2 the Apple Vision pros are a AR headset apple is pushing them as a laptop replacement as you can have a bunch of different screens of many other things that you can do work and stuff on but you can see the world around you. (I am not excusing the man in the first post that is still completely wrong.)

[@Shingo-ok1lz]

The only way to make that first guy right for wearing them is if they agreed beforehand for cool looking pictures at the party. Because those would be nice pictures if he looks kinda like a terminator robot.

[@clarrytheclam]

@@Shingo-ok1lzThey didn’t agree, apparently she specifically asked him not to bring them but he snuck them into his car to put them on at the wedding 😬

[@Shingo-ok1lz]

@@clarrytheclam Ew gross gross yuck yuck. Hate that, then.

[@DeadJester935]

hating what your peers are doing and acting like your Grandparents/Great-grandparents is not rebellion

[@arcadiaberger9204]

The guy putting White-Out over his wife and kids seems like a Batman villain -- no, a John Constantine villain. Like, they're tied to chairs in the kitchen while he paints over them, slowly, while they're begging him to stop, with the room filling with fumes, empty White-Out bottles piling up on the table next to a loaded revolver.... Something like that.

[@YourUpstairsNeighbor]

That song at the end always soothes my soul

[@young3961]

I love your content queer kiwi and usually watch when I am drawing but I wish we could have your amazing commentary and personality over more positive topics. Even if we clown on them sometimes these videos are quite gross and depressing, especially when we touch upon how men view women and sex workers. Not trying to say you should change your content of course❤️

[@young3961]

I understand this is a political /social commentary channel but if you had a side channel where you just chill watching cat vids or smth or even boosting up other women/lgbtq users on different platforms would be so much fun. Anything really, you could make us a video introducing all your plushies in the background and I'd be down

[@Hana_H]

She has some videos about lighthearted topics on her side channel quiwi

[@kokichi4015]

4:23 I don’t have nipples! I got top surgery last month and chose not to get them put back on.

[@ElocinLuna]

With the Apple headset one, they are AR (augmented reality) not VR (virtual reality) So you see the world around you rather than VR putting you into a completely virtual world that isn’t real (I’m a tad surprised that you didn’t confirm that with a Google search before commenting on it (not that I feel your disgust with it would have been wiped away, and it shouldn’t be lol)). I feel that hardly makes it better, ya know? I still think it’s pretty disrespectful to wear an AR headset on your wedding. Like what?

[@jadziajan]

I also wish she'd Googled it to confirm. (I feel like a lot of reaction KZbinrs opt to not Google things as though that'll make their reaction more sincere, but it just... makes them make mistakes sometimes.) Personally, I feel as though we don't have enough information to judge this man as being "disgusting". Is there other info, like his wife having asked him not to, or him being against his wedding, etc.? If we don't know his reasoning for wearing them, it's kind of just dunking on someone for being plain "cringe". Not really about his heterosexuality. Like - would I get along with a guy who's this into tech like this enough that I would marry him? Not personally, no, but that's my prerogative. That's not even mentioning that some blind people have said this improves their vision, so I'd truly avoid judging someone for really liking their AR headset.

[@garyrobinson5655]

​@@jadziajan!!! Bro fr why do they always say shit with no research

[@Shingo-ok1lz]

​@@jadziajanoh no we actually do have proof that the husband asked multiple times to wear it in every single time the wife had refused and so basically he snuck it into the car with them and when it was too late to do anything about it he put it on. Completely disregarding her feelings and desires about the situation.

[@Shingo-ok1lz]

​@@garyrobinson5655^^^ read my previous reply thanks.

[@jadziajan]

@@Shingo-ok1lzthat's interesting to know, though it wasn't included in the video, so the judgement made was completely off-base and just for the sake of being judgemental. (I understand this sounds harsh - what I mean is, Kiwi makes a lot of good commentary, so this mistake surprises me and is to me worth commenting on.) At the same time, it seems to me like a more complex situation than just "hetero cringe". Did he do it just to spite her (at their own wedding, which is indeed more fitting of the theme...)? Or did he just really want it and not understand why she was against it?

[@mikkat8613]

13:05 love home girl means friend not girlfriend or partner 😂

[@NettylSpryngs]

I noticed that lol, but 🤷‍♀️

[@gracelovely3838]

The apple vision is actually supposed to let you see everything around you while also having a screen somewhere in your vision. Basically its the same as being on your phone, but you look more stupid

[@HectoGames]

22:22 bro arent these the same people who mercilessly used to bully millenial men for making sourdough bread and kombucha?

[@Nate6603]

Her outfit looks like an elderly woman who just got home from church and was spit up on by a rainbow and she slays it lol

[@cloudyskyz2237]

I could not tell where this was going. What a roller coaster.

[@joshuacoleman8000]

​@@cloudyskyz2237Right?

[@ellis7796]

The tradwife sourdough thing is bc tradwives are really into homesteading and off-grid aesthetics. Sourdough doesn't require store-bought yeast bc you can cultivate your own yeast (a sourdough starter) with just flour and water. And they think that makes it more "natural" and thus "good"

[@TTGGrave]

As a straight man, I can say that, from everything I keep seeing, my fellow straights are clearly not okay. 😂 Your videos are awesome.

[@clarrytheclam]

In the first one, I believe it’s an augmented reality headset, not virtual. So, it works in a similar way to Pokemon GO, in that it adds fake things to your view of the real world. So he wasn’t specially escaping to a different place like in VR, and he was sort of at his wedding physically, but while talking to people he could also have been scrolling Facebook or TikTik etc, at the same time. It brings the power of your smartphone into your view of the real world. Still a gross way to disconnect on your special day though, obviously 😅

[@darkstarmike85]

One important part of the rebellion starter pack was the glass of milk. I'm not sure about the sourdough thing, but dairy milk has been an open white supremacist dog whistle for a while now (increasingly so with things like non-pasteurized milk). It's based on pseudoscience around lactose digestion in adults as a racial metric. The sourdough thing sounds like a similar track.

[@spiffywolf2850]

You should try and collab with the KZbinr Jammidodger

[@haylene7521]

Id love her reaction to working with roly.

[@SarastistheSerpent]

I would love that! I think they both live in the UK so it could very well be possible

[@Hana_H]

That sounds really good! They know about each other too!

[@shaivisingh872]

I have an exam in 2 hours, but ✨ priorities ✨

[@AnIdiotRaccoon]

My first thought when reading the video title was: “When have heterosexual people ever been not-cringe?”

[@bruhmoment5974]

the heterophobia is strong here

[@AnIdiotRaccoon]

@@bruhmoment5974 whatever you say, bruhmoment5974

[@cloudyskyz2237]

@@bruhmoment5974you sound like you support straight pride

[@Lemondrop157]

@@cloudyskyz2237 Thank a straight person for your existence. There's nothing wrong with being straight. The fact that your hypocritical community demands acceptance yet bullies straight people while thinking gender is a broad term with no ends is quite ironic.

[@GarnetHeartIllustrations]

The meme about onlyfans saying “and now the whole town knows what their pepperoni nipples look like” There’s a shaming element directed at the hypothetical woman, but nothing shaming towards the whole town that consumes nsfw content. Sexism at work yet again. If you don’t shame the ppl consuming the content and creating the demand for it, don’t fucking shame the ones providing it

[@babowasalwayshere]

Loving the SKZoo plushes in the bg, nice taste. I don't think I've seen your vids before today but now wonder if algorithm saw SKZoo and recommended you lol

[@4lovebysara]

1000% NOT ok! 🤦‍♀️

[@ChristaBlack-gn8ys]

I was just rewatching the "Hetro cringe" videos last night 😭

[@babyyoda7417]

I love being early to one of Kiwi’s videos

[@professorfoxtrot]

I love schooling Kiwi's fans

[@Shingo-ok1lz]

@@professorfoxtrot You're not really schooling anyone. Plus, don't you have anything better to do than spam hate comments on a vid and boost it in the general algorithm and also in your private algorithm making it so you get more of these videos that you clearly disagree with.

[@professorfoxtrot]

@@Shingo-ok1lz I hear this "boost the algorithm" about the power I bring to table... What if I leave though...

[@Shingo-ok1lz]

@@professorfoxtrot then nothing happens since you already boosted the video. You just wouldn't boost future videos in the algorithm if you left. But that's ok. Us fans can easily cover whatever tiny gap is left from your absence. :3

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Hetero cringe prognosis: It can only get worse.

[@Markus-ko1ph]

Holy shit I just love all your clothes! You always have the best outfits 🎉

[@katwim9169]

I swear I saw the majority of these things in one of The Clicks most recent videos. I think that’s a funny coincidence

[@MinerBat]

2:00 not really true. this is an AR headset, rather than VR. VR puts you in an entirely virtual environment, while AR just overlays extra thing on top of the world you are seeing. while this device also has VR capability, it is mainly used for AR and that is probably what he is using them for right here

[@EmillyOrr]

Two reasons on the sourdough thing, at least in the US: one, it's considered an "older" bread, hence conservatives; and two is, while anyone CAN make their own starter, how a lot of bakers get their starter is asking church volunteers, or older women in general. Pair conservative beliefs with religion, especially in the South, means we're talking Tradwife 101 indoctrination.

[@ThatFont]

This channel deserves more exposure, Kiwi’s commentary is so real and relatable

[@MogamiKyoko13]

I think the sourdough being a tradwife/conservative thing is because sourdough starters need fairly constant care. They're like a little pet that you have to feed every day because there's active yeast in it. If you're not at home every day, you can put it in the fridge to slow it down, but it still needs to eat and you have to discard some fairly regularly. In my mind, they're implying that only good housewives can make sourdough successfully because of all that.

[@kailynbostwick7291]

earliest i’ve ever been here ONLY 2 HOURS

[@BoReads]

If I found out my wife wrote a book on her time off and earned our family thousands of dollars, I would be so impressed with her, I would give her the night of her life if you know what I mean. I saw that post before in a writer subreddit and could not believe my eyes.

[@sad_doggo2504]

I have known someone for some time now who was very stoic, until he met me. Gradually he opened up to me more and more and it really threw me off at first. But rather than put him down for it, we TALKED about it. How bought and sold by traditional gender roles do you have to be to put gender performance above a committed long-term relationship? Don't get me wrong, I get it. It was hard to be vulnerable and admit that I was uncomfortable with seeing a new side of him. But that's what you do, if it actually matters on any level.

[@binkyrobinson]

The guys wife being disgusted by him having emotions is awful! In the first few months of being together I saw my partner cry so so much. Because he wasn’t used to how I was treating him, didn’t think he deserved to be treated like the absolute sweetheart he is. And I reassured him, loved him, cuddled him, because he’s my person and I want him to be able to come to me whenever he has issues!!

[@envie.mi.obadia-wong]

omgggggggggg the straights are NOT alright! i briefly had straights as roommates a couple months ago, it didn't last, I moved out before the lease was even close to up... i used to think these videos were just like oh haha here's some rediculous straight people things, but like obvi this can't be the norm for normies... can it? no, yeah, it totally can and is and just WOW the straights are not at all alright! 100% serious rn, thank you for your reporting, this is genuinely quality hard hitting journalism and I should have payed better attention to your warnings; heed the straights and for the love of all things gay, don't move in with them!

[@liamodonovan6610]

Always love you're video's the straights will never okc

[@katashworth41]

I love my partner to bits, hell next week we’re going on holiday for our 10th anniversary, but he gets on my nerves occasionally. He’s the worst at buying mushrooms (which I cook with almost every day) and snores like a freight train, that being said I talk in my sleep so swings and roundabouts.

[@Eranrenrae]

22:55 I'm ASSUMING that the sourdough thing is because they want everything to be "homemade" and it's the whole thing about sourdough is that the bread is better the older the starter is. Like they want their wives to make fresh bread everyday bc of tradwife ideals i guess

[@awfuldynne]

"Paying for dinner" chapter I thought I heard the normal arrangement (not limited to romantic dates) is that the person who invites also treats-you can also arrange beforehand to split the bill, but springing surprise costs on people is rude. For gendered socialization reasons, men are usually the people taking the initiative to ask others on dates. Also for patriarchy reasons, it's traditional for the man to pay for the date. (couldn't say how intertwined the history of "women aren't allowed to have jobs or their own bank account" is with the tradition of "it's the man's job to be breadwinner/pay for the date" but I struggle to imagine that they aren't connected at all) To my knowledge, in the era where a man _had to_ pay for the date (because women had no finances to speak of), it was _not_ traditional for a woman to put out after the date. And as Savannah pointed out, you are never entitled nor obligated to have sex.

[@madmyc6836]

Apple vision pro is actually an augmented reality headset not just vr so it isn’t actually designed around putting you in a virtual world rather they are designed around adding stuff to your real world experience with that being said I still think it is ridiculous to wear a headset that covers half of your face to your wedding. Your wedding is meant to be an intimate bonding experience

[@laraoswaldd]

the amount of men not being aware that a LOT of women have facial hair is worrying

[@arcaneSae]

27:32 im a believer in the you both pay for what you ate that way it gets rid of any of the expectations that some people seem to have

[@panicoutbytheromancepilotb513]

The first bride is so gorgeous oh my GOD

[@katashworth41]

24:05 My partner cried at a film recently, I was surprised (he’s just not one for crying) it made me love him more.

[@chinemapictures]

3:30 ma’am, this is a wendyz

[@kristijankonc5838]

I feel like the body/facial hair thing should't be a gender thing, I am not attracted to facial or body hair and would prefer a shaved guy or girl and thats not a hot take most People i know (of any gender) wax and shave. Just bc hair is Natural it does not mean shaving is bad. Conpromise ppl

[@ttintagel]

The thing with this guy is, he stated that the REASON he doesn't like his partner to have facial hair is that he is a heterosexual man. If he had said that he doesn't like his partner to have facial hair because that's just his own personal, individual taste, nobody would have a problem with it.

[@tylerhoppert5077]

The sourdough bread was made by the stay-at-home wife. The veggies are the garden.

[@NettylSpryngs]

Ahhhh yes. Gay people definitely don't garden lmao. So rebellious (the sarcasm is aimed at the op, not you!)

[@idioticweirdo8139]

LADS THE MASC VERSION OF LADIES IS LADS‼️‼️‼️‼️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@marsfeathers]

I like that you don't just say "everybody has nipples" bc im a trans guy that didnt keep em so im smooth like a ken doll now 😎

[@cloudyskyz2237]

Now you can truly cosplay as either a Ken doll or a manhwa guy lol

[@saskiakraft]

I think to the expectation of getting sex for dinner, you can ask if they think you‘re a sex worker. And also ask them if they really think like the price of a dinner would be an acceptable amout of money to pay for sex.

[@rebeccatomlin3916]

If you drink water every time they get upset about nipples we’d all be hydrated 🤣