The WORST Parents Ive Ever Seen

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[@noeeeem]

as a daycare worker, so many people should NOT have children. please. please don’t have kids unless you are absolutely ready for the responsibility of caring for a human being.

[@realglutenfree]

And also, if you happen to have a child and you know you arent capable of raising it because of mental issues, its not too late to give it up for adoption or bring it to a place where someone else can take care of it.

[@mileidyclass]

​@@realglutenfreeSome people are too entitled to do that, sadly.

[@WildBerryAura]

I have a bad health condition that would likely pass down to my kids. and yet I still get called selfish for not having kids

[@IWantToPetYourDog]

The possibility of passing something to a kid is one of the least selfish reasons to not have a kid. No one should have a kid because they're "supposed to".

[@traytonvanderecken3311]

​@IWantToPetYourDog I'm very thankful for having parents that doesn't force me to have kids cause I don't see myself as a father.

[@IWantToPetYourDog]

@@traytonvanderecken3311 It's good that they don't push you to have kids. Most parents will push wanting grandkids, but not see that as selfish.

[@traytonvanderecken3311]

@@IWantToPetYourDog I hate that shit so much I mean it's they're choice and body they decide if they want to have kids or not.

[@sporemaster97]

I will not have any children, I'll even get the snip snap when I can. However, when people try to say something like that, I tell them I'd more than happily adopt if I change my mind. A child above 8 too, because the adoption rates at that age or higher are so depressingly low. Make a difference for the people already here instead of bringing more people into an overpopulated world. I'm the selfish one how? Lol, they never have anything to say after that.

[@Aveysaur]

i hate how society is like "get married and have kids!!" when 90% of people *should not* have kids.

[@IWantToPetYourDog]

And the people who deserve kids are biologically less likely to be able to.

[@tonypeppermint5329]

It's nightmarish at the fact there's people who think having kids will help them

[@IWantToPetYourDog]

@@tonypeppermint5329 Some people just want kids to have someone to take care of them when they're old and expect it to be their child.

[@Revealingstorm.]

Right? It's infuriating

[@grouchyolddan]

I think people who encourage families also want the parents to be responsible and ethical lol but they have too much faith in humanity you're correct.

[@Teb_Cosplays]

Some people don’t deserve kids. And a lot of people feel entitled for having kids

[@Cam1an]

all kids deserve a parent, but not all "parents" deserve a kid.

[@storymaster21]

"It ran in front of me!" the dad: what did? "the fence??" Man, I hate it when I'm busy playing human being in my car drunk and the perimeter fences have too big a ping and they keep spawning randomly in my driving path.

[@voiceofthelegion578]

Same, you'd think the dev's would fix this very obvious bug.

[@wolflord0817]

Unfortunately CPS doesn’t even do anything when a child is dead either. I grew up constantly talking to social workers, telling them about being neglected by my biological mother. I even called multiple times telling them I was worried about what would happen to my younger siblings when I moved out. Long story short my little sister is dead because of medical neglect and my dad and I are worried something will end up happening to my baby brother. If the mom has custody, it’s nearly impossible for her to lose it.

[@AnagramMK7]

I got hit a lot and got a lot of bruises and yelled at like shit for stupid stuff, and when cps got called, they didnt do shit. I plan to get out of my house as soon as possible

[@kenirainseeker539]

It's weird because sometimes they investigate and try to take kids away from completely healthy and normal families for the slightest little thing. I almost think it's intentional. Like they want healthy, non-abused kids to sell to prospective adoptive parents, while "damaged" kids are less likely to be adopted, so they don't want those, they won't make any money, so they leave them in their abusive homes. I know it sounds conspiratorial af, but sometimes I wonder.

[@Miki-gz4jy]

​@kenirainseeker539 its not a conspiracy that's quite literally what they do, they don't want damaged traumatized kids cause they're not easy to sell and will get send back more also extra medical care while the healthy ones are worth more in their eyes

[@AnagramMK7]

@@Miki-gz4jy fucked up system, its a fucking joke and I hate it, they dont actually give a shit

[@realglutenfree]

@@Miki-gz4jy In what country do you live in where children that still have parents are open for adoption? They become foster kids, not adopted kids.

[@iammyself7885]

Growing up in an abusive household and only getting out of it 2 years ago at the age of 23 - I'd LOVE to be a dad one day, but I would have to plan it well and make sure my economic situation is stable My dad had 5 kids and no one of us are in contact with him anymore

[@the_agate_gate3782]

The dude Pig was talking about probably didn’t want to give up their kid because of the tax breaks you get from dependents. Apparently a people will foster/have multiple kids for that reason.

[@jamielovesbts3976]

My ex shook our son when he was a baby. Then the judge gave my ex custody of him. My son was dead by age 2

[@MagicPotion1612]

God I’m so sorry. I hope your life is full of so much goodness now, after all of that terror and anger.

[@lindsayrose26]

There are women that have 5 kids but neglect all, then there’s women who would die to be a mother but their body just doesn’t allow it to happen. It’s heartbreaking

[@Lavenderskullz]

Man I had an acquaintance in HS that would constantly gush about wanting to get pregnant (she never took birth control or used condoms and basically bragged about having to take the morning after pill constantly) and right after we graduated she got pregnant with her on/off-again boyfriend at the time. She had no job, no college experience, still lived at home, and probably broke up with the baby daddy bc he looked miserable the entire pregnancy and they couldn’t even stay together before the child. Long story short everyone that knew her knew she was making the stupidest choice she could’ve made for both her and her (at the time potential) child considering she had no means of taking care of it being 19 and jobless. I would like to also mention this girl gave off narcissistic vibes and seemed to only really want a child so that it could unconditionally love her. I feel like that’s what a lot of bad parents do but when they realize that it’s a living being with their own thoughts and opinions the parents start to hate/resent the child for not being their “perfect” in child.

[@ambisanders9840]

Had a teacher call CPS on my mom. Lady got there checked me and my sister. She saw the bruises on me and yet because I had a roof over my head and there was food in the fridge she looked me in my eye and said “Deal with it, you’ll be fine”

[@allisoncastle]

Oh my fucking god. I’m so so so sorry

[@missfeisty]

That sounds so horrible and I'm so very sorry that the system failed you. I hope your life has improved drastically and that you are able to find solace. You deserve it 💜

[@mileidyclass]

I hope that woman is no longer working with children.

[@Cressyextraeepy]

i am literally one of 3 kids from an abusive cheating situation and had to go into foster care before i could have died. my mother was NEVER ready for kids and my dad already had 3 with his WIFE WHO HE'S STILL WITH. i cannot see myself having kids, i am asexual and being responsible for child safety makes me very uncomfortable from bad incidents with my own siblings. yet ive heard the "ohh you may change your mind!" so much in the past. at least now i am around people who get it and dont mind that i feel that way.

[@CheerUp2]

I'm 26 and my mom was like "I hope in like 4-5 years to be a grandma" and im like dude. 1. im not even married yet 2. I've always mentioned how I dont think I would be a good parent

[@Kaylee-ki4qx]

This! And I’m a teacher who adores the kids around me. I don’t want children nor have a partner but people were quick to say I could do IVF. Like. No. Look at this world I don’t want a child in it.

[@lunamoona4920]

CPS is ABYSMAL in this country 😡

[@lynnanderson1538]

The drunk mom story breaks my heart cuz that daughter is trying so hard for someone who clearly has put her through hell and back

[@Teb_Cosplays]

8:55 he is right CPS does not work at all. I myself lived in a very bad situation, and CPS told me unless I had cuts and bruises they could not do anything about it. I have very sensitive skin and I do not show bruises. It was all emotionally abusive that I went through

[@bigschmill294]

CPS won't do anything about actual abuse cases but will take kids from responsible parents based on gd rumors. The whole CPS system needs a huge overhaul

[@OisìnMuirgen]

All the effort my parents could have put into learning how to be a parent, instead went to psycho shit like being emotionally and verbally abusive to avoid drawing attention from the public, and learning down to an art how exactly to hit me every now and then without leaving a mark. I commend Pig for his reasons on why he wants to be a father. From my personal situation, my parents started the same way but never made any effort to educate themselves on child rearing. It started and ended with the selfish reason of wanting to use me and my sibling to prove to their parents, my grands, that they could be better. In their minds, a way to go back and cure the trauma they grew up with, by making an outward show of how good me and my sibling had it. Behind closed doors was a different story entirely.

[@lordoffrogsinbogs]

I’ve always wanted to be a parent ever since I was young, now I’m 22 in college, and I have taken every child development class my school offers so that I can prepare to have a child of my own and ensure that I will do everything I can to be a good parent. I completely agree with you that most people should not have children, most people are not and will never be ready to have a child. I wish parenting classes were mandatory for all parents and parents-to-be

[@cdogthehedgehog6923]

Just adopt. We have enough kids already.

[@madness_mania]

No cause same, and some people let their trauma ruin their parenting which isn't most people's fault but don't bring a child into this world without solving your problems first so you don't make the same mistakes your own parents did, I can't wait to be a parent either I'm just waiting until I'm financial safe, mentally prepared and very educated because I love children

[@Catglittercrafts]

@@cdogthehedgehog6923 she never said that she wanted to have a biological kid only. She’s probably considered adoption. Chill.

[@Alt__Amy]

We’re in a generation where parents want their kids to be parents, and have adult responsibilities but when these kids then act like adults and get arrested, pregnant into drugs parents act surprised as if they hadn’t already sealed that kids fate

[@ScarlettStunningSpace]

People having kids is like that meme Step 1: Have kids Step 2: ??????????? Step 3: Profit

[@builttoscalevideos]

You can tell the dad in the second clip is a good dad cause the first thing he asks is “is my kid okay?”

[@Carriesue1982]

He let the kid leave with her like that. He’s an enabler and his denial is going to get his daughter killed

[@RS-fy9hb]

Doesn't mean he soesn't have good intentions. That's usually what fucis enablers over, is too much empathy and too many second chances combined with a lack of boundaries, and a lack of enforcing the boundaries you do have. He's just hoping and praying that she gets over her drug problem, making him almost blind to her bad behavior.

[@chiomorii]

@@Carriesue1982 it’s his wife, he likely hopes she’s getting better or thought she was. Not everyone is able to ruthlessly give up on their spouse. Regardless, it doesn’t change how he showed care for his daughter. There’s no issue with acknowledging how he acted towards his daughter. As well as how his daughter was instantly happy to see him, should show how he is as a father.

[@Hellscap3]

my mom told me about how basically; she never wanted me but she couldn't put me up for adoption or else she'd be a 'bad mother'. So many people should not have kids.

[@missfeisty]

I feel like if my mom wasn't raised in a Catholic home (had me out of wedlock), she would have given me up. The best thing to come out of my situation is that I consider my grandpa as a father figure because of how much he helped me and wanted me to succeed in life. I wouldn't be where I am today it wasn't for him. I don't think my mom should have had me or my little brother.

[@BoglinZilla]

Can confirm CPS is completely useless. There's a guy in my neighborhood who beats his kids on his fortnite streams. One of them is severely disabled. Sent all the clips to CPS but they couldn't do anything?...

[@clarissalol1019]

this is an old comment, but id recommend to call the police instead the next time this happens

[@kolbythurlow2422]

it so heartbreaking to know there are Children out there with Parents that don't care about them.

[@___Bruh__]

I worked with this 25 year old girl at Wendys one time and she had 8 kids with a 9th on the way. She worked 15 hours a week and I regularly had to speak to her defax agent since I was her manager. All of her kids were taken by defax. She had reduced herself to a drug intaking breeding machine and it was one of the saddest things ive ever witnessed.

[@allisoncastle]

What is defax?

[@___Bruh__]

@@allisoncastle CPS in Georgia

[@voiceofthelegion578]

A 25 year old with 8 kids didn't do that to herself, she probably had a history with sexual abuse and was using drugs to deal with the trauma. She still needed to get it together for her kids or they should have been taken but I don't like the insinuation that she just did that to herself with no outside influences.

[@___Bruh__]

@@voiceofthelegion578 bruh you’re just speculating. I’m the one who actually knew her. Stfu trying to say I’m insinuating shit.

[@QuikVidGuy]

I love how in the first minute he's already like "My child is my light, I will do anything for him, I don't trust any of you bastards." I wanted to be a dad when I was younger. Then I realized I'm way less mentally stable than I thought. Then I realized I'm not even a dude and that helped a little but I'm still a mess. I can at best be a babysitter for a night or 2, but the whole all-day commitment to parenthood, I know I would fuck something up. Your talk about how your shitty dad inspired you to be a good dad was really kind of heartbreaking. I hope I'm not making it shallow when I say it had the energy of Will Smith saying "Aint a damn thing he could ever teach me about how to love my kids!" Jackie's kid shattered my fucking heart. I got the barest glimpse of her eyebrows and was just like "She is legit terrified for her mom, she doesn't want to be having this fight, she's not in this to win anything, she just wants her mom to be ok." Okay the drunk teenager being all stand-offish and douchey makes a lot more sense after hearing the mom sound drunk too. He probably has a hard time taking shit seriously because he's used to 1) his behavior being excused and 2) having to deal with this shit all the time. One of those spoiled-but-not-spoiled situations

[@Jayson_Atrack_43]

As a child I have had CPS be called so many times on my parents, they do NOTHING.

[@jaidenmarcinizyn2078]

Cps where I live is crap. Som rumor was spread around the school and cps was called immediately. But a kid can to school with literal bruises and scratch marks plus cigarette burns. They didn’t do jack crap. That system is f’ed up real bad.

[@titansaint]

23:39 the mom talking like a seventeen year old boy is driving me up a wall god bless her daughter for trying to care for her! I know if my mom acted this way i'd be just like that girl. doesn't make the situation any less hard.

[@MidnightUmbra]

A big reason CPS doesn't work is because the parents tutor their kids on what to do, and spot clean everything when suspected for a visit. Tmi probably but I remember one time my step grandma begged and pleaded me to help toss all the trash from a room into the basement bc they were scoping the outside. The kids still love their parents most of the time and don't want to be taken away that's scary. It's more of the legal system that's broken

[@sparkedskull5452]

I strongly stand by I don’t want a child until I’m in my late 20’s at least. My family started a whole joke about how I break the generational curse and it’s like idk if graduating highschool without having a kid should be an achievement

[@YW2324]

Why do I keep hearing stories about CPS, where they take away a child that doesn't need to be taken away, then if there is one nothing happens. I'm not talking about all the time. Just in some cases I've heard about. Confusing 🤔.

[@RedKobalt]

Children? In this economy? Even if I wanted kids I wouldn't have them because I'd feel like I'm bringing them into a world of constant struggle unbefitting of human life

[@kbwolfe9491]

I'm in school to be a social worker and they teach us to preserve the family unit because the system and being taken away from the parents is really traumatic to the children. It's also pretty much up to the courts in the end what happens when it comes to taking away kids. All we can do is document and offer up our recommendation. I took a class where we had to look into older cases and write up the case like we were the worker and I hated it because it really is so complicated sometimes and when the system does fail people it sucks so bad. Everyone I've talked to who has worked in social work has at least one story where they did all the could within the confines of the system and it still wasn't enough. I'm not going into CPS because I would not be able to be impartial at all when it comes to kids. I'm going into victim advocacy where I help the kids who have been victimized because at least then I know I'm actually helping these poor kids

[@Bluepheonix0513]

34:29 there was no accident in ba sing se.

[@alcoholicflow]

(from AFs fiance) my sister is a horrible parent. she lets her kid just throw her trash everywhere on the floor even if shes not done eating it (usually junk food that they then just leave there for..... god knows how long) theres roaches everywhere, they ripped all the carpets up so theyre just on the wood flooring underneath (thats literally only supposed to hold the carpeting in place cause otherwise SPLINTER- WHICH HAS HAPPENED TO EVERYONE IN THAT HOUSE MULTIPLE TIMES) she mooches off her grandmother, she took her kid out of school to "home school" her wich consists of her playing fornight all day while her kid plays roblox on the ipad. her daughter will be 10 this year and still speaks like a 4 year old. weve tried to call CPS SOOOOOOOO many times. but in her case, they always call her first to tell them when their "surprise" visit is gonna be. she and i are both ex foster kids except she got to stay with the family when everything went into effect cause she was pregnant. my family says they would have chosen me over her if she wasnt pregnant and i WHOLE HEARTEDLY think their lying but also fully believe that if they did id be an entitled piece of shit like her and i just cannot do it. (you said youve tried calling CPS multiple times on your 'friend' and it stirred up ALOT of emotions. sorry pig and everyone else lmfao.)

[@Bunneeko]

I recently watched Explore With Us Bodycam's video about the Turpin family and I think that they are, without a shadow of a doubt, the worst parents I've ever seen. Really recommend it. It made me feel sick and I had to wash that down with a few drinks. Coincidentally, it's also called "When evils parents realize they've been caught"

[@Spectrum0122]

So she was going to a drug related court session while drunk? Why are criminals so stupid

[@emilylaird9125]

A lot of the stuff you're saying in this video just proves you're one of my favorite KZbinrs AND one of the most genuine humans out there. All the best to you and your family.

[@madhonib]

They send CPS to all the wrong places. My son was terminally ill, he was born with DMD. DMD kills boys there is no cure. Well, my son was approaching the end stages of the disease. He started to miss a lot of school, I was in the kitchen It was winter break I was making cookie gift baskets & CPS Showed up knocking at the open door, I invited them in, and they Asked to speak with my son, I said, okay, sure & showed They went to his room & I went right back to the kitchen. They were in with the kid for about 10 minutes. I didn't find out till much later, they found he was clean, Not hungry & he had a handicapable bathroom & shower & A bunch of gifts under the tree, There was still a week till Xmas. I guess the school had called to have a check, Because he was missing so much school. I was confused by the visit, but I do understand. It is better safe than sorry. Too many kids, if only they got a CPS home visit their lives could have been saved.

[@myeyesburn641]

I 100 % agree …people really need to stop telling others that they have to have kids. If you always wanted to be a parent and you want to raise children and are good with kids then yes absolutely go for it, have kids. But if you don’t, please don’t have kids.

[@t-blood9358]

Ok, if you know someone who is severely neglecting their children, you need to call child services immediately and save those children

[@GlacieThat1Dog]

cps does shit to good parents. my buddies got their son taken from them and CPS refused to get him the glasses he needed to help fix his lazy eye. she was telling me after every visit that "his lazy eye is getting worse"

[@TheSavvyPlayer]

I am so excited to be a mother. I was shown every example of what not to do when i was young. Same with my spouse. Even if i'm unable to have children I want to adopt to give a better life to those who fell victim to their own parents. Give them a life full of love and honesty.

[@cassiehartford8997]

14:50 THANK YOU! You are honestly such a fucking gem for making this statement. Make this the new normal, PLEASE 🙏🙏🙏 I am a 33 year old childless woman who is often looked at as "less than" because of it, while in actuality, I'm making a responsible choice NOT to. Children shouldn't be an afterthought - they should be THE thought, or it's not for you. Buy a gerbil or something instead if you feel the *need* to care for something...

[@IWantToPetYourDog]

The fence "ran out" in front of her? An inanimate object?

[@bigschmill294]

"Excuse me, someone put this fence where I was driving!" Should've arrested her then

[@jannecapelle_art]

i live in germany, and boomer-aged people looove to talk about how people need to have more children bc we have so many old people and whos gonna pay our pension when we're old??? like...and whos gonna take care of all those children?? inflation is crazy, many people live on minimum wage, for people my age its a fucking pipe dream to ever own a house - but yeah, we should all have children. nevermind how these children grow up and if theyre taken care of and healthy. thats irrelevant. the most important thing is that more babies are born so they can grow up to make money as fast as possible and then create more people who can make more money as fast as possible. i love me my capitalism.

[@Roll_dude]

Yoo I'm from Germany too

[@RubyRedbird333]

That bad here in the U.S. people don’t want to have kids because they can’t afford it because taking care of them is EXPENSIVE. Then there are the people complaining about spoiled brats “well if their parents didn’t have to work 3 jobs just to feed them then maybe parents would have time to actually BE a good parent.” 😅 there are always exceptions and stuff but honestly.

[@Emmerichpendragon]

cps workers should be required to use cams like cops do now

[@mayoryoshi9794]

IT's the reason I stopped talking to my best friend. He got with this girl who is a shit parent. Lost custody from drunk driving, still has her kid because her parents got custody and they are just as bad if not worse. then took him down to alcoholism with her. I can't tolerate it. Dude if you see this, that's why we stopped talking. CPS is a joke.

[@nataliehaag3595]

People like this make me feel physically nauseous. I know I’m 50/50 about having children when I’m older and more mentally healthy, but it makes me feel better knowing that I will NEVER ever want to treat my child like these people. All children deserve loving parents or parental figures. :(

[@donutwolf9547]

The drunk mom really ticks me off. My dad had driven absolutely plastered with me in the backseat many times. Luckily the worst that happened was him swerving and hitting a curb. He even had 2 past DUIs as well. It really makes me thinj i could have been in the same position as that little girl, just older. Fuck drunk drivers

[@cassiehartford8997]

"My tires are so bald that the breaks went out"... uh, Ma'am, thats not how that works

[@dizzisliving2355]

Im almost 25 and as of now i think id be a jack shit parent so im not having kids. Maybe one day ill be ready but honestly, probably not and if im not sure its not a good idea to have a kid. At least I'm lucky enough to be a lesbian so that shit isn't happening on accident.

[@littlerockgirls]

Great the 20th of December my birthday, thats mental driving drunk expecially with a child that's unforgivable and absolutely unnecessary when there's taxi

[@sammcburney148]

As somebody that grew up with an abusive mother, and an absent father, I agree most people shouldn't have children. Even if I feel like I would be a decent mother, I feel like I'm not suited for it. (Not in an abusive way. No way would I ever be even a fraction of my own mother) but I feel like with how overpopulated we are, a few people could afford to not have kids lol

[@mriaschug5432]

I want 1 to 2 kids max to and I absolutely, my dream is to adopt. My only reason why if I ever have more kids is if I foster and end of keeping more children needing homes, I want to adopt older kids as well. People all want baby’s the older the kid the less likely they are to be adopted. I know it in my heart I need to adopt I just wish I was financially stable enough to. And financially stability is another point towards when you should start a family.

[@cdogthehedgehog6923]

Definitely adopt. We have enough breeders that refuse to care for their spawn. Its annoying that conservatives only care about pro life until the kid is born, then its not their problem and YOU NEED HELP CARING FOR THIS CHILD YOU WERE FORCED TO HAVE? Thats your problem now.

[@CoolausdtinDT]

If you're slurring your words and look like a complete mess, I feel like a field sobriety test should be skipped.

[@giraffewhiskers2045]

I may never have a kid considering my fiancé wants a break, however I would want 1 boy and 1 girl My mom hated working for cps mainly because seeing the kids hurt

[@ymirs4400]

I desperately want children, but I know I wouldn’t be a good parent because of all my mental problems, so even though there’s a lot of pressure to have kids in your 20’s I’m not doing it… at this point I’m hoping my brother has a kid so I can at least be a aunt lol

[@Peteeymhh]

I'd in theory like to have kids but just couldn't put in the financial and emotional support I feel is needed.

[@thelastmelinian1750]

Society seems to think you’re only happy with a kid. Parents that followed society’s romanticisation of having a kid, also seem to be the same people who should not be having kids.

[@Indefeasable]

i wish i could leave my parent but these damn apartment prices are unbelievable

[@annamcb1529]

Not me with a planned kid, surprise twins, and a birth control baby 😬😬😬 I’m pretty sure we have our ish together, but it he is 100% right. Don’t have a bunch of kids until you’re ready because kids will make you realize how not ready you truly are. I usually don’t watch vids that involve kids but I like Pig’s content and take on things. This has me fuming 😡 these people make me sick

[@Bb-bg8gf]

I just saved a baby bird and decided to keep it under my care. I know nothing about birds and I'm contanly anxious that I'm doing everything wrong even if I follow instructions from internet. If keeping a baby BIRD alive is so hard then imagine a whole HUMAN baby

[@sofiaaravosis4209]

My mom got pulled over by a skeezy ass cop and then he wrote that I was a minor while she was making a moving violation after my mom had told him that I was literally 24 years old LMAO

[@RianaSmawls]

I agree having more than 2 kids isn't for the faint of heart but I had 3 siblings and I have four kids now and I wouldn't change anything for the world. They fight sometimes or disagree but they're all in the living room right now cuz the eldest bought them all snacks and they're binging horror movies and playing roblocks. There's nothing worse than living a life that you were forced into by people who don't love and guide you. I love my kids and my siblings but I loathe my parents for this reason. Too many people are dead set in this extreme way of parenting and restricting kids and tests and all of this.. what about free healthcare? Parental support after having kids? A class? Mental help for parents? There's ways to help break generational cycles than to tell people not to have more than 2 kids if they desire them.

[@LilAnnThrax]

I have one child and she's incredibly easy for me as she's just like me. I knew one kid was my limit especially when I almost died having her. We have a good, comfortable life. Having more kids than her would change that. I took a bunch of parenting classes in college and have babysat and worked in daycare for years. I love kids but one is my limit. ❤

[@polterboo3515]

One of my grandma's best friends used to work for CPS and she literally had to quit because the system is so unbelievably broken Caseworkers get assigned way too many kids at once, the criteria for having a kid actually removed is so busted that even with clear signs of neglect she couldnt get the kid help, and when something went wrong or a kid died the higher ups would quietly shift blame onto the overworked caseworkers so they could take the brunt of the backlash even if they literally tried as hard as they could to fight for the child's wellbeing This was a woman who worked for suicide hotlines and adult protective services for years but less than a single year working for CPS absolutely destroyed her and she never went back

[@witchstateofmind]

I think you should be psychologically tested before having kids.

[@RustinRoark]

I know my partner and I would be responsible parents but I know deep down I do not want any children so, there it is, I will not be having any

[@kirausamaria5409]

Dealing with a drunk parent is not fun. My mom would drink to the point of falling and hurting herself and her husband would yell at my brother and I to pick her up even when he should help her too, like it was our fault. Both would drive with both of us while being very drunk and yelling at each other for hours. Sometimes it'd be very late at night, and her husband would drive faster and faster specifically if I told him to stop yelling just to spite us. This happened to us even as adults, because both would get mad at use if we wanted to take the bus Instead of traveling with them. Now I can't sleep while traveling without sleeping pills and suffer from anxiety and panic disorder.

[@QuikVidGuy]

Only an HOUR is INSANELY FAST. Especially if this was a jury trial, because each piece of evidence has to be read, evaluated, and logged individually, and that's BEFORE the vote. I'm not saying it's not super obvious what pieces of shit that first pair were, but the process of getting TO the verdict is so tedious that there was not a single second of hesitation. Nobody had questions, nobody had a hint of doubt, they probably didn't even put up much of a defense, it was just like "No, we already know you're done." The second dad seems a lot more... not sympathetic necessarily, but understandable. He seems like he's just scared out of his mind and isn't defending the mom because he wants to protect her, but because he's been in denial or had secrets hidden from him. He sounds like he legit didn't know how she could have slipped past all the daily check-ins and got into that position, but come on dude you had to KNOW that you should've kept a close eye on her, drug court or not.

[@CassieMichael]

I was just wondering if Pig knows he puts on the autotune randomly throughout his videos or not.

[@javis88h]

Maybe if they didn't protect her so much, she wouldn't be bold enough to put her hand on her mother.

[@flash980]

If makes you mad there's a channel the name is the misery machine they only talk about child abuse cases

[@theuniquename5288]

Yeah, it kinda sucks always thinking you're gonna die when you're like 4 and 5 years old.....

[@bugsbugsbugsbugsbugsbugsbugs]

never felt frothy before but now i know if i go for three kids im probably gonna be feeling pretty frothy

[@meatworm3828]

cps does NOT care. the amount of times cps came to my place, but i was still hurt is disgusting. they DONT care.

[@johnmorris9063]

I love defensive dad mode Pig

[@KamajiiTheMog]

Yes not everyone should have kids, but in the flip side people like me were saved by our children. I didn't understand what true love was until I had my daughter, and some days if it wasn't for her I would probably game end

[@kenirainseeker539]

Please don't encourage people to have kids with the promise that they will magically solve all your problems. That's probably why a lot of these people had kids

[@Carriesue1982]

I don’t think anyone should rely on their kids to save them

[@gremlininblue2601]

As a little kid I would be given baby dolls and barbies because they were "correct toys" by a lot of my relatives on my dad's side and I would always get so irritated that I had to pretend to be grateful while my brothers got to get cool toys that I liked while I had a boring doll that I was just going to pretend to feed to my toy dinos when I got home anyways. But "you can pretend for when you have your baby!" and always getting told "you'll change your mind when you're older" or laughing as if I was some naive little kid because I always said I didnt want kids. I have six younger siblings. My childhood was spent being parentified. I love kids, I'm great with them, I never want one of my own. I'm 23 now. I haven't changed my mind at any point. I still get told I'll change my mind or "well, kids just happen" or "I used to say I would never have kids either, now look at me" It's so irritating. I've gone through potty training five times. If I have to change another diaper in my life I'll die. I'm still the one my sibs go to for help with homework, because stepdad will get impatient and yell at them and mom will get impatient and just do it for them, while I will sit there and work through it with them and try to fig the best way for them to understand the material. I always get told "but you're so good with kids!" when 'uh duh, I've spent my whole childhood taking care of kids instead of getting to be one" I love my siblings more than anything. I would do anything for them. But I still wish I had gotten to be one, too

[@jdking5366]

How did you describe my life exactly so crazy. Only instead of siblings I had a lot of younger cousins and was always in charge of watching them for long periods of time ever since I was really young. It’s almost like that was enough of the experience for me and it really taught me how big of a job it really is. 32 now and still haven’t changed my mind 😂

[@christinefaul3811]

I don't understand not liking your own children. I tried for 9 years to have one baby but had twins. I love these little dudes so much. I couldn't imagine harming them in any way.

[@SapienSafari]

Y’all know that children are necessary for the species not to die out…right?

[@funmachine694]

Yes and there are plenty of people in the world that want to have children, it’s okay for there to be people who don’t want children.

[@MissSallyB1]

your chat's reactions are the worst jfc

[@katsukirenka1629]

Absolutely agree on the not having children point. If you want kids and are actually prepared for them and everything they come with, go for it, but it shouldn't be a forced societal norm. I have medical issues that would make it really hard to conceive, and pregnancy itself would be very hard on my body. I grew up wanting to be a mother but when I actually became an adult, I realised everything that comes with children. I love kids, I am more than happy to babysit and be the fun aunt/cousin whatever, but I don't think I should have children of my own. My current plan is to live my life, travel, and be comfortable in myself and do what is best for me (I've always tried to live to other peoples expectations) - and then if I ever get a comfortable retirement age/financial situation, I want to foster older kids because from what I know, they have a particularly hard time in the system. But right now, absolutely not on children front. I'm worried about getting a pet and those responsibilities, let alone another human being! Even if I did want children, it's a question of whether it would be fair to the child. It's not even about love because of course I would love and do everything for any child I had, but if I know that having a child wouldn't make me happy or bring further strain or upset into my life, I don't want a child to have to experience those things with me. To me, it's the exact opposite of the rhetoric "You're not having kids so you hate children". No, I'm not having kids because I love children. Why would I want to bring a child into the world knowing that no matter how much I loved them, I couldn't give them 100%? Which also makes it awful to watch some of these videos and know that there are children who are born purely to be pawns. My mother said when she was growing up, girls in her area would keep having children they couldn't afford because the government would give them money. I remember watching a segment on tv about a blind (I think) couple who had numerous kids so there would be someone to take care of them - on a similar vein, one of my father's favourite lines was "Why do it yourself when you have kids to do it for you?" And that's from a parent who loves us with no history of abuse.

[@aliceclark9120]

Members of the clean plate club cannot understand that their kid needed fed???? Wtf.... food is such a basic !

[@buggie_plant]

My mom had like 10 siblings growing up, two adopted but jesus christ granpa and gramma THEY WANTED 13!!!

[@CatherineMcClain]

I look forward to being a parent... when I'm ready with my partner. Do we both have baby fever? Yes. However, that doesn't mean we SHOULD have a kid right this second. Luckily, no one is pressuring me to have kids... yet.

[@LeXyStAr77]

We don't have kids. We both knew we didn't want any. Well, when I was young I always said I wanted one kid, and people would guilt me saying "no, that's not fair,you can't just have one",..then in my early twenties I said "ya know what, maybe I shouldn't bring kids into this terrible world", this was around 2003-2005. Then I met my current partner in 2009 and we both were on the same page, though we went back and forth a little, until our sisters started to breed and especially his one POS SISTER who had kids with two different men and she doesn't have anything to do with the kids and my partner and I pretty much raised them along side the fathers. Our oldest nephews are now 13, and 10 and we have four nieces ranging from 8 to 2yrs old and we are perfectly happy being the Thea and Theo, aunt and uncle that Keep then overnights on the weekends, spoil them, and then give them back. And now that we are 40, and I really probably can't get pregnant and probably shouldn't get pregnant at this point and time, people freak out that we have no kids. Meanwhile we have friends that have kids graduating from highschool and also are now GRANDPARENTS! at 40!

[@TrrainWrreck]

Grew up with a mother who fostered kids, and divorced parents who had me when they were teenagers. So much about my upbringing taught me that having kids was not on the cards for me as someone with severe mental health, and I knew by the time I was 15 I did not want kids. It took my mother over a decade to finally understand, who constantly pushed me to have kids so she could be a grandma, and delicately explaining to her I am not in any position, financially or mentally, to raise kids. Maybe in my 40s/50s I will foster, as I have seen first hand how a good foster home can impact children whose parents failed them. These videos make me SO angry and saddened for the kids, that this behaviour is normalized from such a young age to them. If CPS/Social Services did their damn jobs, these kids could have a healthy and stable chance at life. tl;dr: listen to pig don't have kids.

[@friendly-1ntrovert865]

Coming from the 3rd oldest of 10 kids, PIG is completely right. If you're planning on having children, DO NOT have more than like 3.

[@jhkgyg098]

My mother was abusive when I was younger. She had a whole host of problems. That can be boiled down to the need of love from a man. But none of them ever being worth shit. Mega selfesteem issues that still crop up today. No one ever really talks about how that fucks you up as an adult. (If you make it to adulthood) An I got off light, i like to call it. Now that im older my mother no longer has to be a parent so our relationship is better syndrome. Doesnt help that im disabiled so i have to rely on her so thats a nice cocktail of fucked up emotions. On one hand forgiving her feels like death and on the other shes been "trying". (Honestly i needed all this trying back when i was a kid getting bullied and crying all the time. Living in the basement and never going outside or going anywhere.) If these kid make it they are gonna have some major issues that therapy is gon a have a hard time trying to iron out if they even go.

[@string1235]

I really don't want kids. I just want to enjoy life. Me and my gf. No kids screaming and crying 23 hours of the day

[@Popper_Drop]

15:18 I 100% agree that having a child is something that is still heavily fetishized. It was only really until late last year that I realised I didn't want children after idolizing it since I was a child (25 now). The funny part? That was after entering a relationship with someone I really love and who actually respects me for once. I think a part of my subconscious mind thought that areas where my partner wasn't providing for me emotionally would be fixed with being able to dote on a child. Not only that but I grew up in an extremely emotionally neglectful and volatile household and I wanted to have the opportunity to "do it right" and make some little kid happier than I was growing up. Boy am I glad I came to the realization that's not what I want because then I would only be continuing the cycle. I'm perfectly happy to just live my life with me, my partner and maybe a couple cats. Who knows what happens later on but honestly I think I'd rather adopt if anything, I personally don't think I could deal with pregnancy so I'm not going to bother stressing myself out with that just to feel like I've "accomplished" something in life by making a family of my own. As long as you enjoy your own life and I don't impede anyone else's that's what matters, right?

[@fatangrygeek5746]

You have to have one of the most unique outros on youtube. Better than that Vegan Teacher's songs. You put her to shame with that talent. 😂 Glad to be a subscriber! I might join a stream even. Eventually, sometimes I don't have time to chat on streams when I have things in life that's more important. But I'm still enjoying your reactions.

[@shawnwelch6203]

I’ve never heard the little man’s voice or even seen him but he sounds like the coolest kid cause he has the coolest dad I love y’all’s relationship it warms my heart everytime

[@tammysickler672]

Hello to all.

[@ghostguru9156]

CPS is garbage and it’s one of the reasons why I’m trying to work to be a social worker. Too many kids murdered by their parents, too many calls about those parents where the people on the case just shrug it off. It’s evil and it’s just awful

[@TheAngryYumm]

The fact people like this can have kids so easily but I was cursed with infertility makes me so mad. Having a child is a GIFT for some. An impossibility, a way to pass on information and intuition, it's not something to take for granted. Parents like this leave me so mad...

[@wok7152]

i’m very adamant about not having kids because of my own trauma that i think would make me negligent at best and i swear when i explain this to people they just brush it away and say ‘oh no i’m sure you’d be great’ like bruh why do you want me to have kids so bad 😭