I'm 30 & Still SINGLE | How to Manage Your Single Season, Remain Celibate, & more w- Tim Ross

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[@TheBasementPodcast]

Familia! We are thankful y'all are joining us during this 30 min mash up! We hope you enjoy it! Do yourself a favor and buy Ryan's book! 👇🏾 www.amazon.com/Single-Today-Conquer-Yesterdays-Tomorrows-ebook/dp/B0CCNGN612 Want to financially support B-Side? www.paypal.com/paypalme/bsideapp Join our Discord: discord.gg/NRHEm73BB4 Sub to The B-Side Channel youtube.com/@TheB-SideAPP?si=EImX0JC1F2bBzxlr LOVE YOU ALL!!! Order my book TODAY: www.upsettheworld.com/welcometothebasementbook#Retailer-Links Apple: Download The B-Side App TODAY: apps.apple.com/us/app/b-side-app/id6469474522 Android: Download The B-Side App TODAY: play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.bsideapp&hl=en_US linktr.ee/timross Musicbed IDs: MB01IRXMHDRVRCJ

[@yearofthevoice484]

Just ordered the book.

[@dionnesain7220]

"Intensity is the counterfeit cousin of intimacy" that really spoke to me. The world makes you feel like you are crazy for desiring intimacy. It's all about intensity .

[@Chelseabeardon22]

Yessssaaa I loves it also. That’s a Word within itself!!!!!💚🤔🥹💚💚

[@GST_Z]

Just broke up and am now single, who else NEED this word!?

[@anataye88]

Meee 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@anataye88]

Mee 🙋🏾‍♀️

[@drake_snowflake]

Been single

[@sophialaurenceman]

Meeee sir!!! Just broke up and need this 🥹

[@FarrahParis]

🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

[@chatwithanns]

Ryan won’t be single for long after this interview 😂

[@yanisalewe7678]

😂😂that’s exactly what I was thinking!

[@shellybelle6781]

Yeah he will . He has a reason he’s single. It must reason

[@sheisstrongpodcast]

no he wont hahaha

[@frandiabazelais8186]

Yeah it doesn't work like that for women😶

[@divineanne5661]

Lol 😂😅

[@evelynvargas1870]

Single since my divorce 35 years. A Christian where intimacy is biblical only with a marriage. Celibacy has however bought me closer and without compromise, my beautiful relationship with God

[@kimdaniels7150]

I honestly loved this video. Preparing to attend a wedding as a single person in my 30s later this year. This brings inspiration ,hope and a new perspective to me. Thank you. 😊

[@madelineormaza5119]

The Lord really knew I needed this word. What a blessing. I have been single for three years since giving my Life to Christ and broke up with my ex who was an atheist. Sometimes I get really sad waiting for my husband. I have been moving my house and business this past month. Literally the most difficult time of my life and I felt the enemy attacking me on how easy it would be if I had a man to help me with this move. And I have been crying out to God on his timing like God you know a man would be super helpful right now moving this couch. This message reminded me that in all of this, we are a living testimony and someone is looking at us seeing Jesus or Satan depending on what we show them. I have been trying to stay grateful even in this because its made me stronger and closer to deepening on God. Thanks for this message brothers!

[@shaiiiiii.]

ugh why couldn’t this be longer it was sooo good 😩👏🏼👏🏼

[@nakishr03]

44 and still single.. love this interview

[@nkechionyido398]

Hey, great discussion, and expression for single people, especially connect with the piece about weddings and how we show up. I’m 47 and single most of my life, I think the church but many people in general have not understood the triggers single people go through. It’s not just the weddings, it’s also the hen nights, baby showers, kids birthdays etc. I once saw a tiktok where a lady said single people invest way more in married friends so it’s never balanced because we attend all these events but if we are lucky get a birthday. Single people in the work place are expected to do more over time because we have no life apparently and now are also expected to invest more of this free time in the church. I think this is why there is a rise in self care or self focus because single people have been ignored for a long time, work benefits like maternity / paternity l/ kids leave don’t apply to us. singles ministries have been dwindling with lots more focus on marriage counselling. There is a deeper conversation about this perceived selfishness which honestly in my case and I know many others is as a result of exhaustion from support we give others working like crazy, but are not supported in the same way, so we need to be careful we don’t push this narrative. As a single man Jesus went away from his disciples many times to be alone with God 😊 we need that too. Thanks 🙏🏾

[@da1kidmillion]

"I'm not going to bring a dark cloud...I'm going to bring the wine!" Woooo!! I felt that!! I'm going to bring the wine!

[@walterreed9737]

Marriage can be a beautiful thing. As a widow I have learned and accepted the fact I didn't want to remarry again. Perhaps it easy for me to say this because I was blessed once to have a good marriage (not a perfect marriage). Marry couples can have a let to offer but single people also have a lot to offer too. So, either married or single embrace where you are in the season of life. One last thing the only disciple that was married accordingly to scripture was Peter all the others were single.

[@YoungNOfficial]

I have never clicked on a video so fast in my life 😂😂😂

[@kendrahoard958]

Same 😊

[@angelsaraiwatson]

Yesssssss

[@JustUdoro]

Showing up as a blessing and not a burden…my goodness!!! Thank you for sharing this portion! Such newness to this single-life with my three blessings. 🙌🏾❤️🙌🏾

[@ElinaDaniejan]

“I’m not going to bring a dark cloud, I’m going to bring the wine (the celebration).” Noted!

[@teenspirit9837]

Selfless over Selfish 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️

[@shaniquemccain]

I hollered when Tim said Ballin 😂. This young man mental and spiritual maturity is outstanding. Stay the course Sir 👏🏾🙏🏾

[@christinacoltrane4682]

“How can I use this gift of singleness to bless the world?”🎯

[@evelynvargas1870]

Amen. I am a mother, a grandmother and a sower in my years of post divorce singlehood.

[@aleishahurt2001]

Can we please see this entire interview? This was a blessing to me, thank you Tim and Ryan.❤.

[@SashaSafeHaven]

Ironically I'm watching this sitting at the airport getting ready to go to my bestfriend wedding as a single woman. I was getting some anxiety on my way to the airport but I couldn't figure out why. I needed this message right in this moment. I wasn't searching but it popped in my feed. Apparently God heard me even though I couldn't utter the words of how I was feeling but knew I was feeling something. My silent prayer was, God help, I don't know what's wrong... 😮‍💨🙏🏾 Thank you! Going to get the book now. ☺️

[@vonaninkuna1008]

❤❤❤❤As a single 34 year old, I can relate so much. This guy has a way of explaining some of the things I've felt but never quite had the words for it🤯....especially in Christianity where we sometimes underestimate the struggles of being single and overspiritualize things. Loved this interview 🙌 👏

[@vivedvicky6660]

Dude I literally was telling my family that weddings feel like a funeral and it’s really hard because it feels like there’s a small death happening in the my relationships. I’m fine now but it was so rough for me when my mom and best friend got married within a year of each other and moved away or out of the house. 😢

[@tynesha3710]

That is bananas. My dad moved us around a lot when he worked for General Motors too and I never met anyone with the same story. It's always hard answering that question: where are you from and where were you raised... No, not a military brat... AND I moved to Austin sight unseen. Left the city years ago but I will need to visit Red Rocks next time I'm back.

[@raquongreen6712]

Man this blessed me thank you B-Side

[@leeannandrademokiao6610]

This pod was a Powerful perspective shift and blessing!

[@AshleyKristyen]

Interested in this, I'm 37, have always been single, it will be nice to see this from a man's perspective!

[@christthelord91]

33 me too.

[@melodineruiters1602]

I'm here to renew my strength a little bit while waiting on the Lord... Also 30 so let's see how I can sharpen my ax for the journey ahead! 😁💜 #imlovingitbtw😎

[@ramsaval]

Skip to 15:00 for the topic.

[@sydneyysull]

this is so good! I love his heart and insight about the word of God. Truly beautiful! I want more conversations of him, thank you for putting him on the Pod!

[@caseyrobbins886]

Exactly why I always say attention is not connection.

[@Georginna123]

None of Ryan’s info was in the details 😢 Ryan Wekenman, he has his own podcast too “single today podcast” and his book is called “Single Today” I really got a bonk in the head with his perspective on singleness I got some work today, and feeling encouraged

[@Jess_quez]

28:00 making disciples is the race we should be running.

[@Rashaadthegr8]

30 and still single? That's like saying I can type. Most ppl are still single at 30.

[@musicalqueen716]

Really looking forward to seeing more people use the phrase, "however long you are single/married/divorced" in the church. Covers a lot of situations and seasons

[@JustSimplyBecky]

Thank you for this. I appreciate that it's a perspective I never even knew I needed and could have.

[@lifeofannbianca]

This guy.. where did he come from? How come he articulates everything so perfectly? Jesus!!

[@Monique_Diedericks]

Once again this is so powerful. wow, wow, wow, the miracle of the wine

[@bridgetlilly-02]

Is this a full video ? Cuz that was soooo good

[@skylaellis]

This was so needed!

[@brittanyungermann]

Wow wow wow wow. So good, I'm speechless!

[@yearofthevoice484]

I receive the rebuke to not make the wedding about you. But the bible also says to not lie. So if I as a single person am invited to a wedding and it disturbs me to attend them, should I decline the invitation so as to not bring that cloud? I am asking for those who can't bring the "wine" to the wedding, even though I can and will.

[@FlaLovely87]

I’m 36 single and abstinent lol I get it!

[@YolandaMarieMason]

❤❤❤❤❤ this is so powerful

[@CED.Dweller]

Great conversation. I have to check out the book. B-SIDE 🅱️👈🏿

[@Meeksworld10]

It’s crazy how we really be so hurt by things the Bible says to rejoice over..I’m not saying it’s easy, it’s extremely complicated and nuanced but man when is the breakthrough. Rest is the finish line though In the complete presence of God

[@charlenenurse1880]

Even widowhood is a blessing. Thank you for this perspective.

[@courtneyv.440]

This is beautiful🌹

[@yearofthevoice484]

And how do I deal when the Church as a whole present marriage like it is the end of the race? Like we are less without it??

[@marybennett250]

❤😊, awesome and informative information

[@karmaslyrics]

Literally 30 and single

[@miraclewilliams1655]

This was soooo Good….

[@christinalovesgod3040]

So encouraging

[@LearsiMusic1]

I’m actually 30 and single so this is weird 😂😂😂

[@danellarochester5456]

Saaammmeeee lol

[@melodineruiters1602]

Let's gooooo🎉🚀🚀

[@Notyourbaby9958]

Single and selfish has never been a thing to me. How are you gonna walk into your married season any other way lol

[@LostAngel19]

I go to Red Rocks Church this is awesome

[@thetravelpalette]

Listennnnning

[@TonyC0101]

Who is this guest?? I can't find his name anywhere on this page.

[@yearofthevoice484]

18:54- 19:12 spot on.

[@tbee1575]

WOW. 🙌🏾

[@Rashaadthegr8]

If you ever want to have a interesting conversatiion with a woman. Tell her it might not be God's will for her to be married.

[@Ellie-translator]

謝謝！

[@scottyBlu_1099]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@stephbli1337]

My future husband is a faith based person located in Orange County are you my husband? WTFreak, a coincidence. 🤭

[@janisthomas6634]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@EngrRonald]

Hallelujah!!! I’m favored and blessed with $60,000 every week! Now I can afford anything and also support the work of God and the church.

[@KupetzHardin]

Oh really? Tell me more!

[@EngrRonald]

This is what Ana Graciela Blackwelder does, she has changed my life.

[@EngrRonald]

After raising up to 60k trading with her, I bought a new house and car here in the US and also paid for my son’s (Oscar) surgery. Glory to God.shalom.

[@EthelWilliams-m]

I know Ana Graciela Blackwelder, and I have also had success...

[@EthelWilliams-m]

Absolutely! I have heard stories of people who started with little or no knowledge but managed to emerge victorious thanks to Ana Graciela Blackwelder.

[@jbyates4316]

Its the when God makes it OBVIOUS the thoughts I'm having are from HIM!!

[@adriennedyke]

I am not single and happily married - but I am still gonna watch this.. 🤣🤣🤣😜😜

[@drake_snowflake]

Rubbing it in 😅

[@adriennedyke]

@@drake_snowflake I'm sorry - I wasn't trying to! I always try to honor my husband and the Lord for the marriage that I have, even when it comes to leaving KZbin comments

[@jaybah836]

Man get out of here

[@briew6116]

Umm ok. Congrats? Please pray us single folks who are burden

[@lindasamuels1764]

62….2018 last true relationship….although I’m in my middle age considering God has blessed us to live 120years….i refuse to just live a life that is not honoring my God.❤🙏🏾

[@kimberlygover7703]

67…2020 decided that walking with God is serious no relationship before 2020 I would stay been not in a relationship for 25 yrs or more .. i decided to find out first what I was doing wrong But I do struggle my heart desires marriage I am finally starting to look as singleness as a gift just as much as the gift of marriage…..

[@amaryllisvelazquez2384]

He’s so cute! (Sorry, great message) but have to be real 😂

[@theultimatefoodie2666]

That part lol

[@angelahairston4761]

I’ve been single my whole life. I spent a lot of that time doing quite a bit of the things that are iterated in this 30 minute clip, and honestly, I’m tired of doing stuff by myself…transparency. At a certain point, it felt like there was no purpose being served anymore. I guess I’m just confused as to what purpose my singleness is supposed to serve because often times it feels like it’s not serving a purpose at all. And I’m not really sure how I feel about it or what to do next.

[@all4god116]

40 and single here

[@yearofthevoice484]

"Selfish with their time..." this is convicting, but only to an extent. I might just have to speak to the exception on this. So when we as single people take care of the ailing parents or grandparents with little to no help, but every body comes lining up.for the will to be read, what then? Even Ryan's "by in large" segue was not satisfactory enough for me. I may need to get on this show. It may never happen, but still...

[@GodSaveYourPeople]

Oh Lord how I needed this discussion! So much in this talk I’m going through right now. 2 years ago Christ adopted me and I discovered true peace and freedom. I’m still being healed, set free and delivered from my past. Lived as a lesbian for most of my adult life. Came to Christ after a very toxic relationship. Recently had a boyfriend for almost a year and I just broke up the relationship. I’m 36, no children and I want to be married but I want a relationship with a man whose heart is on fire for God the same as mine. That’s the intimate connection I am hungry for. This discussion was wonderful to hear of how a time of being single can be a time for you to bless the church and others. So badly I needed this word!! Thank you Lord and Bside!

[@estelacardenas6546]

Wow men sitting around talking about Gods blessing then flipping the script and talking about “signal life” as a brag! I’m confused! It’s he a “teacher” of God word?

[@CJLee-yu7rq]

Let’s getiiii. Ryan repping Red Rocks‼️

[@samlacrosse]

Let's go Ryan!!

[@crystallight369]

🙋🏽‍♀️

[@c_mercedess]

Such a beautiful perspective of singleness. The only thing is throw 5 boys in the equation 😮‍💨 God knows I’m trying my best after a year breakup ❤️

[@annalisemartinez2353]

Just wanted to comment and give some encouragement, you got it mama! You are doing amazing and those boys are you're future body guards.. lol. From one single mom to another ❤. Blessings.

[@ree4214]

27:01 “There’s no one that has ever articulated this!” Nah, y’all just don’t listen. With the stats he shared, the church is still in the 50’s in how we treat one another based on marital status.

[@dvjames9]

This blessed me! I have a wedding coming up in a few weeks for one of my best friends. I am going to make sure I remove myself from it and bring the wine!

[@Amlyv]

Wow beautifully said. That’s what I needed to hear 😢🤗❤️

[@yearofthevoice484]

And is everyone called to be parents and spouses?

[@Cesar-Avila]

This deserves millions of views

[@islandQueen246]

Oh Ryan! I know you’re gonna kill this 🔥🔥

[@dfwprissy]

wow.

[@thato3094]

So good!