What's The Difference Between Dating and Courtship? | DATING VS. COURTSHIP

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THE BEAT by Allen Parr

THE BEAT by Allen Parr

7 жыл бұрын

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What's the difference between dating and courtship? Does the Bible give clear instructions on dating and courtship? The truth is that poor dating leads to poor marriages which leads to divorces. Dating and courtship are not the same. In this video I share what I believe are the top 5 differences between dating and courtship.
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@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
Hey BEAT family! I'm on spring break and I'm loving it! At any rate, today's video provides what I believe are 5 best practices or differences between dating the world's way and courting God's way. After you watch, I would really love for you share your thoughts and please press the like button IF you like the video. It helps increase exposure. Love y'all!
@j.e2107
@j.e2107 7 жыл бұрын
THE BEAT by Allen Parr can you pleas do a video about unclean food and if they are unlean till this day.
@j.e2107
@j.e2107 7 жыл бұрын
THE BEAT by Allen Parr and what can i watch as a christian are all series bad to watch. sorry my english is not very good i'm from the netherlands. thankyou in advance !
@reee5717
@reee5717 5 жыл бұрын
Can you make a video about what age is dating ok cause I'm 14 but very spiritualy mature
@r.batista7015
@r.batista7015 4 жыл бұрын
THE BEAT by Allen Parr - I dated a guy years ago from my church; it didn't work out, which to my surprise, I also gained enemies mainly from the single ladies because I wouldn't just quickly decide to go into marriage; in order words, they thought that I wasted their turn" or something, but what they didn't know is that, I was being emotionally abused by my ex who seemed quite "elegant, he was tall, nice car, ladies wanted him, especially the older woman. Lol! I remained quietly about the real issue; I was hated, but the singles didn't know I was suffering inside. The real person who knew I wasn't happy was a best friend and my Pastor. ** I didn't listen to that "discerning" in the Spirit when I first saw the guy at my church! I discerned alcoholism and depression, after we dated, I saw adultery. The alcoholism discernment I saw came to pass, 1 day he sat next to me with a hangover; 2 spirit of adultery also came true, he was UNFAITHFUL, 3, He confessed his severe depression. I have prayed and really expect NOT to meet my "future husband," in a chuch. Not everyone in the house of God wants the best for you! Per your video, I want COURTSHIP! but if all possible, I wish thiscan remain private as much as possible until marriage. I believe my Testimony can help other ladies. **Ladies, never, never ignore DISCERNMENT no matter how long the wait!!
@gypsyaspen1297
@gypsyaspen1297 Жыл бұрын
Those different things
@skypeters3034
@skypeters3034 4 жыл бұрын
So courtship basically is the pathway to engagement
@bunsbuns9072
@bunsbuns9072 4 жыл бұрын
I didn't even know there were different terms for this. But I always had the heart for courtship. Never understood the "dating just for fun of the moment" thing. I'm looking for marriage, not a waste of time.
@bunsbuns9072
@bunsbuns9072 4 жыл бұрын
@@Avarice297 no, it's a girl holding a stuffed rabbit and she's biting one of the ears. The frame of the KZbin profile cut off the rabbit's head. I'm surprised you thought about a BJ, though? That's the first time anyone's ever said that about my picture.
@awaiting_YHWH_return
@awaiting_YHWH_return 3 жыл бұрын
So you have no interaction with the other sex until your 30-40?
@bunsbuns9072
@bunsbuns9072 2 жыл бұрын
@@awaiting_YHWH_return Dude, I have male friends, associates, and coworkers. Of course I interact with the opposite sex. Being romantically involved isn't the only way I can talk to men. Also, I'm willing to go on dates if asked by a Christian man, but I'm not dating just for the fun of it. Make the intentions clear. If it's obvious that a long-term relationship/future marriage with this person isn't going to happen, then I'm not gonna just keep dating someone recreationally.
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic 2 жыл бұрын
totally. my mom said people should "date around" and honestly, it made me afraid to date in high school, so I waited til my twenties and had a much more difficult time finding a worthwhile marriage partner, versus alot of my classmates who married their high school sweetheart.
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic
@Sunnysidestoriesandmusic 2 жыл бұрын
mom talked about dating a guy who drank alot, knowing that she would never marry him, but he was someone to spend time with. I was like, what's the point of that??
@04DynaGlyde
@04DynaGlyde 6 жыл бұрын
Pray for me, I think I'm ready for a biblacally based relationship. I want to be ready for the right one at my age.
@jessyjonas4988
@jessyjonas4988 4 жыл бұрын
Father we come to you in the name of Jesus. Teach Carl's heart to wait on you. Teach him how to be a husband who will love his wife like you love your church. Let him be patient as you bring him his spouse. In Jesus name , amen ✝️
@daveritchy2034
@daveritchy2034 6 жыл бұрын
We just gon act like my man dont look like Denzel Washington?!?
@gammat1890
@gammat1890 6 жыл бұрын
Dave Ritchy right?!!!!!!! I was looking for this comment.
@didyouhearthat6550
@didyouhearthat6550 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@micaskustomdzignz7169
@micaskustomdzignz7169 5 жыл бұрын
Right i was like wayment nie
@corneliathefifthya7452
@corneliathefifthya7452 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@debceke1353
@debceke1353 4 жыл бұрын
Dave Ritchy he could be his brother or something 😂
@saraayala205
@saraayala205 6 жыл бұрын
I've decided to quit dating. And I have decided in the future to court instead.
@ericjackson9634
@ericjackson9634 3 жыл бұрын
Great choice...
@randomgirl2178
@randomgirl2178 3 жыл бұрын
Did you find someone ?
@sespotlhaselo9315
@sespotlhaselo9315 3 жыл бұрын
that makes the two of us Sara
@awaiting_YHWH_return
@awaiting_YHWH_return 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t get it am we not supposed to interact with each other until we are ready to marry
@JohananRaatz
@JohananRaatz Жыл бұрын
Stupid. Good luck getting married. lol
@CowpokeCannoneer
@CowpokeCannoneer 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t even know what courting really meant until I watched this. I’ve always “dated to marry”, pretty much the only reason being in a relationship was with the intention to someday marry that person. So I guess I’ve always courted in sense? But I know now, 1. I’ll wait on the Lord to show me who is meant to be my wife. 2. To focus on courting in full. Thanks for the wisdom my brother. God bless you
@mlester3001
@mlester3001 6 жыл бұрын
Best most succinct and clear compare and contrast I've seen between dating and courtship. In my humble opinion, teaching this to EVERY young person growing up today is THE most important message to teach to counteract the evil of indiscriminate sex amongst young people. Loose sex destroys lives more than any other social ill in our world today. It destroys families and the peace of the soul.
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Meesh! I appreciate those words!
@REVIVEinRevelation
@REVIVEinRevelation 4 жыл бұрын
I am glad there are Christians who distinguish dating from biblical courtship. This is such an important topic and I believe is at the heart of the poor rate of successful marriages we witness today. Thank you for the upload.
@thekohapink
@thekohapink 7 жыл бұрын
Oh my! I dated a non-Christian guy who admired and respected me and my Christian beliefs. In my head, I mixed up dating and courting and we had kind of a mixture of them in our relationship. The video really made it clear to me how he saw the relationship more as dating me, with no clear intentions while I saw it more as a courtship. That's what made it so hard for both of us. Cause I was submissive and didn't want to break it up, praying for his salvation the whole time.. (I knew I wasn't supposed to be in that relationship, but I gave in to the temptation over time :() I really hope God will use my story to His triumph one day. But atm I just need to be healed from this pain of not listening to His voice. It saddens me so much. It seems as if I waisted these months and hurt God, myself, this person and everyone who got fond of me (his family and friends).
@ramonaturner401
@ramonaturner401 5 жыл бұрын
I understand...
@dr.dermixgirlmd7479
@dr.dermixgirlmd7479 5 жыл бұрын
Better wasted months than years sweetie.
@matesoul970
@matesoul970 4 жыл бұрын
Am in this same situation right now, this is really a difficult thing for sure
@chrystalstewart5519
@chrystalstewart5519 4 жыл бұрын
Your not alone and he understands.. We got to learn.. But dont hide away you just have to pay attention to what their ideas are and pay attention to their actions.. You can see their intentions. It doesn't matter if they're in a church or not it matters if they love the Lord or not. And if they're mature enough to take a relationship serious. Cuz there can be immature men even in the church. Basically you got to ask for God to bring you your match. And keep your standards High. If that other person doesn't believe the same way you believe drop them. Because they cannot change right there and then. If they don't understand what courting is. They dont have no business dating lol
@mimagitonga1423
@mimagitonga1423 3 жыл бұрын
Am currently in it...am born again he is not...we got so many differences...I have to stop this and wait upon God I came to learn am doing it my way... thanks for sharing your experience
@damienshai3408
@damienshai3408 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your insight Denzel!! Appreciate it
@Tochi23
@Tochi23 4 жыл бұрын
Damien Shai 😂😂😂
@ke-she
@ke-she 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😭😭😭😭😭
@ANTWXN
@ANTWXN 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@inthemixwithleahbpodcast
@inthemixwithleahbpodcast 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mindyabusinesses649
@mindyabusinesses649 3 жыл бұрын
I THOUGHT THE SAME THING WHEN I FIRST SAW HIM…!! 😭
@johnlauland6785
@johnlauland6785 7 жыл бұрын
Great video man. I wish I would have understood the difference between dating and courtship and the seriousness when I was a teen. You are spot on. Most of my past relationships were mostly all about me getting what I can out of them like sex, hanging out and not being alone. Occasionally I'd talk about marriage but come on be honest how serious is marriage at 13 to 17? I wasn't concerned about baggage from break ups and hurting others. It took giving my life to Jesus and meeting my wife to truly see the difference between dating and courtship and having a God honoring relationship with a woman. Thanks for the video and Jesus bless
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
John, I understand. Unfortunately for most of my twenties and early thirties I did the same. I did not court in a way that honors God. I'm glad that I learned these principles so I could make a wise choice in choosing my wife. God bless bro,
@johnlauland6785
@johnlauland6785 7 жыл бұрын
THE BEAT by Allen Parr yeah man and another thing I forgot to mention was honesty. That was a big difference in my past dating relationships and my wife and I relationship. I was never honest with anybody in the past. I played myself up like such a great guy but in reality I was the biggest womanizer and perverted guy you'd ever know. But I didn't want them to know otherwise they'd want nothing to do with me. While I did hide who I was for awhile eventually I shared my struggles and God delivered me and my wife and I are doing great . honesty makes a world of difference in a relationship and while the truth my not always be pretty it can save heartache and make you trustworthy in the end
@awaiting_YHWH_return
@awaiting_YHWH_return 3 жыл бұрын
So are you saying I can’t interact with females until I’m 30-40?
@awaiting_YHWH_return
@awaiting_YHWH_return 3 жыл бұрын
Are we just supposed to feel lonely and pray about it?
@FinalLugiaGuardian
@FinalLugiaGuardian 4 жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship with a girl that could be described, in practice, as somewhere between dating and courting. We were both routinely Alone Together, but we never had sex with one another. We did kiss quite a bit though. And before we ever engaged in any sort of recreational activities, like going to the movies, I always insisted that she get her school work done first and any other life activities that needed to be done first. What I brought into the relationship was the desire that even if it did not work out I at least did not leave her in a worse situation then what we were in prior to the beginning of the relationship. The reasoning behind our type of relationship was out of practicality though because neither of us had any religious beliefs. We went our separate ways but we left on good terms. Last I heard she was doing well in her educational career and was on her path to graduate and get a good job. Am I a little disappointed the relationship didn't work out? Yes. But I am glad we are both still in a better place than what we were prior to the relationship. Sorry for the long comment.
@chrissame
@chrissame 3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful story. No hard feelings for the other. This is how it should be.
@sanna4963
@sanna4963 6 жыл бұрын
I’m almost 20 and I’m courting for the first time and I love this sound wisdom! Thank you for being clear and talking on this subject. I’m sending this to my partner
@michelledengramthomas3193
@michelledengramthomas3193 7 жыл бұрын
Personally, I believe in relegating anything noncommittal to 'friendship'......something public and amongst others until courtship, a genuine pursuit with goals, ensues.
@amaldavid3886
@amaldavid3886 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you.
@awaiting_YHWH_return
@awaiting_YHWH_return 3 жыл бұрын
Ok so it’s ok to be friends with females until I’m ready to be married?
@adaliavasquez6552
@adaliavasquez6552 3 жыл бұрын
I think it is important when we are in friendships with the opposite gender to guard our hearts. I was recently friends with someone who indicated that he liked me and I was really praying about it, but suddenly he just got into a relationship with another girl. He really hurt me. I pray and ask that all brothers in Christ would be careful with how they treat their sisters--caring for their hearts and not leading them into false hope (if they aren't interested in a relationship). I know sisters in Christ should do the same but men are the pursuers in this area.
@KatieAJ
@KatieAJ 2 жыл бұрын
What do you think made him want to jump into a relationship so quickly with another person?
@ladyofspa
@ladyofspa 10 ай бұрын
God tells us not to be silly or foolish. Being wise and atune to what is in order. Everyone is not healthy no matter how kind and sweet they present. They must prove worthy of your time, and attention and of course your feelings. I use to think just because a man told me he liked me he was capable of relationship and had the readiness I desired to be taken serious..... Nothing could be more gullible. There is an order verification process that must be completed along with him being consistent before you hand over your trust feelings and love to anyone. You are kind cause you are kind but you know your value and there is a price for your time feelings and prescence. Be glad he moved on you will remember this for the next time- let suitors court you first before you believe. Otherwise its just pretty words... Communicate clearly and watch his behavior and words. : )
@ten7192
@ten7192 4 жыл бұрын
But when I’m courting... I don’t want to break up😢
@adventuresofxyz22
@adventuresofxyz22 3 жыл бұрын
lol right. In for the long hall, it hurts just the same and even worse when there is a deeper commitment
@BeautyforAshess
@BeautyforAshess 2 жыл бұрын
courtship is still a way to get to learn about the person and see if thats who God wants you to be with so we got to stay open. But i get what your saying I hate getting close to people just to walk away. I feel the pain. But God will lead the way
@yes2542
@yes2542 6 жыл бұрын
Im 13. Glad I saw this video now vs later :)
@autumnmciver8050
@autumnmciver8050 5 жыл бұрын
I felt this on a deeper level I’m getting courted for the first time after dating way too much too young. I pray this time it works out 👍🏻
@KittyKatt69
@KittyKatt69 5 жыл бұрын
I agree. I told myself no more 'boyfriend girlfriend' nonsense. I'm over it and nowhere in The Bible does it say anything about this. For now on, courting only. But I'm NOT ready for that step just yet. Waiting on God to work on me and prepare me to be a Proverbs woman.
@kellyparadis1039
@kellyparadis1039 2 жыл бұрын
Truth.
@ceciliacarreras8331
@ceciliacarreras8331 7 жыл бұрын
great insight! I felt bad that I'm not dating but now I understand that's a world idea. I'm going to start praying for a courtship for my present future.
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
Amen Cecilia! Courtship is the best option!
@aaroncade4528
@aaroncade4528 4 жыл бұрын
😂sure
@awaiting_YHWH_return
@awaiting_YHWH_return 3 жыл бұрын
Damn it’s a lonely life waiting until marriage
@Swiftninjatrev
@Swiftninjatrev Жыл бұрын
@@awaiting_YHWH_return I don't think you understood the view. I'd rather do that than just be sinical.
@Yipper64
@Yipper64 3 жыл бұрын
Ohhhhh this made me understand why I cant get a date. Because everyone else just wants to have a time, like pure dating, meanwhile im trying to find a girl who I could reasonably see myself living the rest of my life with. Which... I mean, it kinda sucks not gonna lie, but im glad I intuitively am coming into this with a relatively good mindset.
@mariathompson6236
@mariathompson6236 2 жыл бұрын
Sir, you left no room for anyone to make any corrections. You're very clear and correct. Thank you.
@crystaldblevins
@crystaldblevins 7 жыл бұрын
Wow, I wish this was clarified years ago. I could have been spared the heartaches.
@anahu6544
@anahu6544 5 жыл бұрын
Same here
@JohananRaatz
@JohananRaatz 3 жыл бұрын
This is stupid. Don't listen to this. The heartache is far worse if you get this courtship garbage imposed on you. Worse yet, you will end up in perpetual singlehood if you adopt courtship. Courtship is essentially a way to block you off from marriage, and if you believe it is "God's will" too, you will end up with outright contempt for God. This stuff is fundamentalist trash that destroys lives. I speak from personal experience on all of this.
@vannierei9892
@vannierei9892 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this. I was actually asking God what is right courtship before His eyes. And this video made a clear cut. Keep on blessing others! God bless you!
@jacobmark8810
@jacobmark8810 6 жыл бұрын
I think before you do either it's really important for both parties to really get to know each other and establish a strong relationship before they get comitted on that next step. That's what I plan to do for my first quote on quote "relationship", because I think it would establish trust and a commitment for long term. Great video as always brother Allen.
@Toniceshenell
@Toniceshenell 6 жыл бұрын
That was freaking Amazing!!! I needed all of that teaching it gave me such Clarity God Bless you and your Ministry
@texd300z
@texd300z 7 жыл бұрын
Very good teaching. I will be sharing this video with my daughters..
@chelseawarren8774
@chelseawarren8774 7 жыл бұрын
You did with this video , my questions were Definitely Answered !!
@katehu7194
@katehu7194 3 жыл бұрын
Great video! I absolutely wish I had committed to courtships over dating. I already have been "compromised", so I can only redeem moving forward. This gave me clarity. Thank you for the way!
@shareofmoney
@shareofmoney 7 жыл бұрын
Great video. This is good wisdom. This is the kind of information that I wish I would have known much sooner in my life.
@thekohapink
@thekohapink 7 жыл бұрын
What I like about your videos is your teaching skills! And how you visualize things, I learn and remember very visually. :) Thanks for the effort!
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Loviisa, that was also encouraging once again because it takes time to create all of the visuals and sometimes I'm tempted to get lazy and just talk. But I too think the visuals help people learn. Thanks so much.
@brittanylashae4350
@brittanylashae4350 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this SOOOO badly! Thank you thank you so very much!
@edwardbrient3723
@edwardbrient3723 4 жыл бұрын
You broke this down so well for me, thank you sir!
@eddieteddie5559
@eddieteddie5559 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for clearing this up this, brother Allen. And thank you for all the inspiring Biblical explanations of how to live! You've helped me discover my God- given purpose and the Lord definitely led me to your channel. I hope He continues to lead you in these videos, they're real blessings!
@tanyagermain
@tanyagermain 2 жыл бұрын
So anointedly articulated!!! I love the part about disappointment vs. devastation. There is a peace that surpasses understanding when you involve God. It makes it so that you don’t feel like your whole world is tumbling down without the other person, but instead you know God is working something out for your best.
@jarrodthelander2458
@jarrodthelander2458 6 жыл бұрын
Love this I am a new pastor and this is spot on Good bless you and keep it up
@briannacollie2742
@briannacollie2742 6 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video, Thank you for the clarity between the two
@trueabby1162
@trueabby1162 6 жыл бұрын
I never knew what was courtship until now and now I know what is dating that explains alot of my personal experience. Thanks for the upload..
@gracimills6516
@gracimills6516 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this very enlightening video. I was new at dating. I gave it try and unfortunately had my first lesson. Some men are very crafty and manipulating. They care nothing about gaining your trust and walking away. The only problem is courtship requires patience and being able to openly communicate. Most men do not have either of the two. Unfortunately, they are use to having their way with women. However, this video is on point. Courtship is certainly better than dating.
@joyderon8548
@joyderon8548 6 жыл бұрын
This is very clear u explain it well my bros God Grant u more wisdom bless u
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 6 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Joy Deron, I'm so glad you found it helpful! Thanks again for taking the time to watch. God bless Joy Deron,
@artofelijahtan
@artofelijahtan 3 жыл бұрын
thank you for this Sir! I will share this with our youth in our church. God bless your ministry!
@yourcreativeyaya2715
@yourcreativeyaya2715 7 жыл бұрын
Your videos are A-MA-ZING ! You're so blessed and God uses you to bless us throught all your vids, thank you ! And, yeah... you really really reaaaally look like a younger Denzel Washington, REALLY !
@missbilliedavis
@missbilliedavis 7 жыл бұрын
By far one of the best videos that breaks down the differences between courting vs dating. I'm going to share your views and perspectives at a singles connect group I lead for women and of course share this video. New subbie & keep up the great work!!
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
Ah thanks so much Billie! that just made my day! I hope and trust you will enjoy this channel and the BEAT community we have formed. We love to interact and have great discussions around God's word. Thanks again!
@maureenbeavers9923
@maureenbeavers9923 7 жыл бұрын
This is so awesome! Unfortunately, my children are already married but I will send to my son to share with his children.
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome, thanks for your continued support Maureen!
@jessyjonas4988
@jessyjonas4988 4 жыл бұрын
"Courtship is intentional. "The scripture supports being intentional as a way of life. " But solid food belongs to those who are of full age, those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil" Hebrews 5:14. " The plans of the deligent lead to abundance, but everyone who is hasty comes only to poverty" Proverbs 21:5.✝️
@uriahlendsey
@uriahlendsey 7 жыл бұрын
omg... just hearing the word dating gives me a headache. thankyou for this 😏 reaffirms my desires
@gzSING
@gzSING 5 жыл бұрын
Precise and concise. Good video. I stopped dating but the girls in my church still want to play the dating game and thinks that I am too intentional when I say that I am exploring the possibility of marriage with that person. I see girls in my church getting wowed by guys and going on romantic holidays. I dont do that and they think I am boring and conservative. So i am still single.
@coopersviolet9580
@coopersviolet9580 5 жыл бұрын
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@cocomageeda
@cocomageeda 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! God bless you
@juliannaokike31
@juliannaokike31 5 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I have already came to terms with all my experiences in life. This is for the babes in Christ.
@tel5690
@tel5690 Жыл бұрын
This is powerful right here. Brother Parr I never liked dating and rarely ever consider it. But courting oh my. You covered some serious ground on how it should be done. Why I am still single. Courting is the only way.
@tamtamdavis
@tamtamdavis 7 жыл бұрын
Great video Sir! Thank you!
@josphatthomas516
@josphatthomas516 6 жыл бұрын
Wow Man,You helped me a lot I was looking for such inf.....Thanks stay blessed n wisdomised
@Shamoy_Dougallsingh
@Shamoy_Dougallsingh 3 жыл бұрын
I love your view on this. Keep up the good work.
@clayhardy2845
@clayhardy2845 7 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed the video and appreciate your opinionated enlightenment from a males perspective. I thoroughly enjoyed it and well received. Peace & Blessings
@talentdavid845
@talentdavid845 2 жыл бұрын
Mi think u jus killed it dear. I jus greatly appreciated di advice. Thou art great bro.
@DevotionsWithDemarcus
@DevotionsWithDemarcus 5 жыл бұрын
Great video!!
@TruthSeekersTarot1
@TruthSeekersTarot1 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I did not know the difference. All my life l have been dating. From now on its courtship.
@ThePinkdiva101
@ThePinkdiva101 5 жыл бұрын
Great video! Wish I saw it when I got saved as a young adult. I was not being held accountable for how I conducted myself with men. Accountability is so badly needed! How many pregnancies could be avoided if my sisters in Christ knew how to set boundaries.
@adventurousdaydreamer
@adventurousdaydreamer 7 жыл бұрын
This is so insightful! You have a new subbie!
@royb8246
@royb8246 4 жыл бұрын
Helpful tips! Thank you!
@dondupit58
@dondupit58 5 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. Im learning a lot
@bostonhampton4113
@bostonhampton4113 7 жыл бұрын
Amazing video just like all the others Allen. I want to do my best to give you some encouragement, because although you may not get a million views at this moment, because of the overall quality of your videos, your amazing love for God, and the fact that all your videos are from the beginning built with the foundation of God and His word, you are truly helping me, and so many other people with their walk with God. Simply thank you so very much. Also, could you possibly make a video about sexual sins other than just intercourse?
@thebeatagp
@thebeatagp 7 жыл бұрын
Boston Hampton hello my friend! Thank you so much for taking the time to send this wonderful word of encouragement. I actually do have other videos on my channel about sexual sins. Feel free to check out my video on masturbation and then I have another video on the problem with pornography. If you go to my website, you'll also find a blog about pornography as well. My website is allenparr.com.
@bostonhampton4113
@bostonhampton4113 7 жыл бұрын
THE BEAT by Allen Parr No thank YOU for taking the time to respond! And you don't have to respond to this one, but I've actually seen those videos as well! I'm meaning more of, sexual sin other than intercourse, within a dating/courting relationship. But I do completely understand if you feel a video like that wouldn't be necessary! But seriously, thank you so much, have an amazing spring break Allen!
@lungaelchanaan9079
@lungaelchanaan9079 4 жыл бұрын
This hook up culture has damaged so many people! The boundaries set by the holy word of Elohim makes it to where we would not have to go through anything, If we just do what is righteous. Grate video!
@usl911
@usl911 3 жыл бұрын
This is really good You now have a new subscriber.
@forgotusername182
@forgotusername182 4 жыл бұрын
This guy is spot on. Thank you
@MODGNIKCULTURE
@MODGNIKCULTURE 7 жыл бұрын
Dope stuff! A lot of people consider them the same.
@dmetriusdew
@dmetriusdew 6 жыл бұрын
Good stuff man!!
@TechGalDiaries
@TechGalDiaries 2 жыл бұрын
So good needed this video!
@karlahairston6284
@karlahairston6284 5 жыл бұрын
That was perfectly explained.
@carissaplustwo
@carissaplustwo 7 ай бұрын
Thank you this was a great explanation.
@SIRENTHEROCKER
@SIRENTHEROCKER 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with everything you said. I was raised Pentecostal christian and I have an open mind. I am practicing courtship and have been celibate for 5 years. I dont put myself in compromising situations. I date myself until there is someone that meets the basic requirements to courtship.
@katiehyper5129
@katiehyper5129 3 жыл бұрын
Love this!
@hoodxocalum7473
@hoodxocalum7473 4 жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense now!!!
@sheribemissionaries.3945
@sheribemissionaries.3945 6 жыл бұрын
wow you really explained this very well.
@big_fishrichie6463
@big_fishrichie6463 2 жыл бұрын
Yes thank you. Very helpful👍✅
@K_kkk___k_
@K_kkk___k_ Жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Thanks so much
@angelafayesims1563
@angelafayesims1563 2 жыл бұрын
Great Video, Ty soo much!!😊😊🙏🙏🙏
@mellaneice
@mellaneice 8 ай бұрын
❤❤love this!
@franceslester2537
@franceslester2537 5 жыл бұрын
Very well put 😍
@tonywilliams6876
@tonywilliams6876 7 жыл бұрын
Nice Words my Brother
@faithsandstrom3883
@faithsandstrom3883 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. I subscribed!!
@TigerWoodard
@TigerWoodard 2 жыл бұрын
You sir are amazing, I'm currently single, this video has helped tremendously boost my overall well-being confidence and everything to find my future love wherever in the heck she may be. Brother Parr pray that I find her and that she finds me. God bless you sir
@JoseSanchez0795
@JoseSanchez0795 Жыл бұрын
Amazing! 😊❤
@TheRjmsca
@TheRjmsca 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. My daughter is young but the subject of marriage is going to come up in 9th grade literature. My husband and I became Christians after we were married so we have some idea of what not to do and some idea what not to do and how to define it. One thing for sure is that you don't see dating anywhere in the bible.
@phyllis_Zee
@phyllis_Zee 3 ай бұрын
Well explained 🌸❤️❤️❤️
@JustNiaB
@JustNiaB 6 жыл бұрын
I'm young but when I'm older I'm going to court
@mariahkristinerealtor
@mariahkristinerealtor 6 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing!
@joshsimpson8588
@joshsimpson8588 Жыл бұрын
This is so true and what happened between me and my soon-to-be fiancé. Last spring, she gave me a letter stating how she felt toward me and we soon started "dating" throughout the summer. I was hesitant at first because of my relationship with her ex and that time was one of confusion and a little bit of hurt between us. Eventually, I knew I wanted her and I asked her to be my girlfriend and that's when we officially started "courting".
@iamricoluna
@iamricoluna 5 жыл бұрын
Great approach! 👍🏼
@coopersviolet9580
@coopersviolet9580 5 жыл бұрын
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@vessel4thelordjesus
@vessel4thelordjesus 6 жыл бұрын
Much respect for "not inserting your person view" into Scripture
@BirdLadySpeaks
@BirdLadySpeaks 6 жыл бұрын
I love this!!!!
@miagrant7812
@miagrant7812 7 жыл бұрын
Awesome!!!
@GLRYB2GD
@GLRYB2GD 8 ай бұрын
Very well said my man! 👊🏻 Dating is like hook-up culture. Courtship leads to marriage & long-term commitment.
@mr_jchristian
@mr_jchristian 2 жыл бұрын
This might be part of the answer to some of my prayers 🙂
@tomhibbeln3431
@tomhibbeln3431 4 жыл бұрын
great video...thank you
@deec3561
@deec3561 5 жыл бұрын
This is good!
@joshuawood1428
@joshuawood1428 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Pastor
@salsaqueen4911
@salsaqueen4911 5 жыл бұрын
My goodness thank you for this video I made all these mistakes when younger, but what do you know when your that young.
@Jaythecook
@Jaythecook 4 жыл бұрын
Mmm great video...Thank you
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