I would have asked Chrome if I could work in his new space for the day. I'm sure he would have let you, to keep you out of the cold.
@ThecatladyVAN9 ай бұрын
As I mentioned, I'm on the mainland for some appointments, and his shop is on Vancouver Island
@LoriFranklin-ee4sh9 ай бұрын
Have you tried the repair products that are used on RVs and Camper roofs? I don't understand how they connected the top to van.
@kathieponder77089 ай бұрын
Praying
@mjmcinnesincanada9 ай бұрын
Hi to ~Emi & ~Kelly @ThecatladyVAN , could the windshield need a new seal, too?
@RollOnBusin9 ай бұрын
Nice of you to volunteer Chrome's space for him.
@ColetteMalette19 ай бұрын
I really feel weird hitting the Like button when you’re having difficult times😢 but I do it to help! Also don’t worry about always making adventure videos! We follow you because we care, in good times and the not so good. You are cared for by us for just you being the sweet lady you are! You give inspiration to so many, especially important for young and older women to show that not just men can do builds etc! Take care and stay safe and kisses for Ms Kelly❤
@margueritemitchell18299 ай бұрын
I think of it as a vote for EMI van life van repair is part of it not good that it happened so soon after the "FIX"
@ColetteMalette19 ай бұрын
I feel her frustration 😢
@BigV962209 ай бұрын
Here Here we'll said 👏 🙌 ❤
@Shihtzu999 ай бұрын
If we got her up to 100K subs it would likely help her with all this unexpected stuff. Let’s get our friends to sub when we see them.
@86daytonaz9 ай бұрын
Emmi…… buy 1 or 2 cans of “FLEXSEAL” spray cans and spray along the joint of the high top to van. It comes in a clear colour so you won’t see it. This stuff works sooooo good.
@stanbyme78749 ай бұрын
This was my thought. It can also be removed.
@Integrity029 ай бұрын
SO TRUE! GREAT IDEA!
@mjmcinnesincanada9 ай бұрын
Great advice 💐
@inquiringmind49769 ай бұрын
Flex-seal advertises that it can repair holes in boats! Give it a try!
@ronmoore39879 ай бұрын
Thanks for the flex seal tip !
@Shihtzu999 ай бұрын
I am so impressed. I would be still in a corner crying my eyes out for months! The way you can handle the downside stuff that happens is admirable.
@ketoauntie73019 ай бұрын
🙏🙏
@Syl-Vee9 ай бұрын
No matter what you live in, if you are not renting you have to maintain it yourself. A perpetual job. But you get to call all the shots, which is a blessing. Best wishes to you and Kelly!
@ketoauntie73019 ай бұрын
Exactly 👏👏
@Cicinboxi9 ай бұрын
I love you content. Peace, love and light in your spring.
@redpandabus-adventuresinlife9 ай бұрын
I have been thinking about your problem. I am wondering if it's the fiberglass not the seals. Have you considered putting a thick coat of rubberized Seal All? They claim it's a 20 yr fix. Flexible and good to minus 40. You buy a gallon and roll it on thick. And use a brush on the edges. You would also have to paint the top. I'm willing to bet a dollar that will fix your issues. It's amazing stuff.
@euphoricenergytodaywithlor27179 ай бұрын
I think that is a good idea myself ❤I’m watching this video right now aswell 😊
@redpandabus-adventuresinlife9 ай бұрын
It comes in black white and grey l believe.
@authordanigray9 ай бұрын
Oh, I wonder if this might help you?
@melisa82569 ай бұрын
It makes perfect sense that the fiberglass itself is what’s leaking. I think I’ve seen the product you’re describing, it certainly wouldn’t hurt the high top to apply it.
@redpandabus-adventuresinlife9 ай бұрын
Would make the top look all new again as well.
@msvg39 ай бұрын
For those who didn’t catch her previous video, she does have someone who will be helping her with a long term fix, but she has appointments for the next few weeks on the mainland. Then she will go to the location where her high top will be checked. It’s expensive and time consuming to take the ferry back and forth. Good job checking the old in the meantime, Emma. One less thing to do later! ✌️❤️🚐
@Notmymonkey359 ай бұрын
Also...check your mattress for mold. That can happen when the mattress doesn't vent well.
@renee29949 ай бұрын
Hey just throwing this out there .J5 has two vans for sale 1 is a high top. No leaks lot less rust. Might be something right up ur alley..
@bigpaulie78879 ай бұрын
Emi I have been a sub from when you had about 5k subs and I have to say how awesome you are!! You kick butt and you should pat yourself on the back for how far you have come!! You just grabbed some 2X4s and rebuilt your bed frame in no time!! I just didnt see you doing stuff like that in the beginning now 75k more subs and your a PRO girl!! Great job!! I also gotta tell ya your camera work and editing skills have become AMAZING too!! I just want to tell you I think you have come a hell of a long way in a short time!! Hard work pays off and you have always been able to jump right in and do it! Whatever needs done you make it happen with your own 2 hands and that is an incredible thing to see!! Keep up the great work girl your AWESOME!!!
@TerriLynch9 ай бұрын
Sorry you're going through all of that. What a mess😔
@stevemorris37109 ай бұрын
For less smoke! Switch your drill to '1' for driving screws, keep the '2' that you have it on, for drilling.
@kevinmarwick66759 ай бұрын
Hi Emmi ... one of the hardest things to do in a van is covering the exposed steel behind your walls FULLY with insulation to prevent condensation. The most important thing to remember is the insulation barrier should be continuous if ANY steel is exposed it will create water drip-lets when there is cold steel warm air. closed cell spray foam is good .. treat it like a house ... the best would be a closed cell spray foam kit from home depot and foam sections of the van as you go to get a full coverage and NO exposed metal AT ALL behind your wood. fill all holes voids and even cover the surfaces with a good 1" of foam. Start on the roof and work your way to the floor. Remember metal will condensate much much more than wood does. I watched when you built the interior this summer and I was concerned when I watched the videos and there were pieces and sections where the steel was exposed behind the walls and so today I think you should consider spray foam as a good option for your van. The foam comes in a smaller BBQ tank size so you could do a large portion of your interior all at once. Good luck. Kevin
@ketoauntie73019 ай бұрын
This means gutting the while Van first, right??
@MyCleverHandle9 ай бұрын
Yup. And where will she store her entire life while she works on it? Board the cat, get a hotel room, rent a car, just so she can do a major project? Wow. I think maybe that might break her. Her spirit and her bank account.
@kevinmarwick66759 ай бұрын
The right answer isn't always convenient. My advice is a permanent solution, not a band aid. AND it would be a terrific idea to make the chattles of her van removable for maintenance in the future. Something most vanlifers don't do as it just isn't discussed. I've built 3 buses and two vans in my lifetime so I have learned the hard way. Cheers! @@MyCleverHandle
@kevinmarwick66759 ай бұрын
yes temporarily this job after the van has been gutted would take one day including curing@@ketoauntie7301
@kevinmarwick66759 ай бұрын
If your leak is a seam use sikoflex or an automotive body panel seam sealer
@A.S.K.19 ай бұрын
I hope it helps - a little - with the costs involved. All the best to you Emi ... & Kelly, of course❤😺
@ThecatladyVAN9 ай бұрын
Awe ❤️ thank you so much. Have a beautiful day
@elvafae99029 ай бұрын
I’m amazed you got all that put away in time and after modifying your bed…lol Kitty says she’s going to have to start charging for her kisses 😂 I think you will sleep really well tonight 🤗
@karolmolitor46759 ай бұрын
Sorry you are having problems. You got alot done in just one day. Kisses for Kelly ❤
@drunkvegangal80899 ай бұрын
If you haven't already, it is time to call out the shop that installed your leaky high top. I understand they are trying to fix it but they are not succeeding. Warning your viewers against them would be helpful for others so they can avoid that shop.
@stanbyme78749 ай бұрын
Bob Wells called out a Company on his Channel for that reason. He was cautious in speaking. Only used facts & said "they’re great people but if you’re already low on finances, this may not be the best Company".
@willothewispl9 ай бұрын
I agree, I do not believe they are repairing it the way they should. Emi maybe should try to seal everything herself or get friends and hopefully they can do it themselves or find a very reputable repair company. And go after the people that are not doing their job. God Bless.
@southernvanlifewithrj27749 ай бұрын
I believe she bought it already installed it was a Sears service van when she got it. The seal does have some age on her unit not a new install
@jenniferpugh54029 ай бұрын
Hopefully you will get the High top issue taken care of when you rebuild your bed do plan on putting drawers underneath for storage
@momofbert9 ай бұрын
@@southernvanlifewithrj2774 no, if you go back to her early videos, she had the hi-top added on her own after she bought the van.
@destinysimplyme30119 ай бұрын
I understand how much work producing video while trying to be productive can be. You're doing great. Thanks for sharing the challenges of real van life.
@PupsforLIFE99 ай бұрын
Getting something done is better than not getting anything done, so be happy. ✅ The rest can remain for the next time you have available time. Take care and stay safe. Until the next video…💕
@MyCleverHandle9 ай бұрын
Emi, I so admire you! I've kept my Dodge Grand Caravan in factory stock condition, no build, just a bunch of plastic storage tubs around a twin-size airbed, because I have no knowledge or patience with fix-it projects. Hang in there! Your skills are awesome, and your pluck is rare!
@shawneeGoes9 ай бұрын
Hey girl. Idk if you’ll see this comment but I live in an old trailer home and we paint the roof with this really thick sealant paint. We get it at the Lowe’s. Might be something to look into. If stops the leaks
@dallastrujillo75409 ай бұрын
12:50 Awwwww…nice to see Kelly getting scritchies from Mommy! 🐈😃👩🏻❤
@ipaddlemyowncanoe.74419 ай бұрын
You're having leaking water in your van. You might want to try this. Get some dish soap. Pour it all around the top of your van where your roof meets the body of your truck and pour some down the door cracks and then go. Turn your defroster on full blast with all the windows and everything shut and it should blow bubbles and you'll find it where the water's coming in. Something to try. 👍👍🙂🇨🇦
@TeriDuncan80499 ай бұрын
Foam mattresses should be vented underneath, maybe drill holes in the plywood, so it won't mold 🤢. Take care ❤️
@CHALINOROSALINOSANCHEZ9 ай бұрын
Eternabond tape on Amazon. Works wonders on RV's. Will also seal fiberglass hightops. Just clean the surface area with isopropyl alcohol mixed with a bit of water before applying. Just a suggestion, Emi.
@lauracollier4579 ай бұрын
Run an ozone machine in your van for a bit to get rid of the damp and mold! I'm so sorry that you are having such a rough go with your van. Cheers from Ottawa 🇨🇦
@savanna63409 ай бұрын
I thought the suggestion to put a rubber coating on the high top was also an excellent idea…people use this on trailer and motorhomes all the time!
@kaytoka7179 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear your van is still leaking. Hope they get it fully fixed this time. In the meantime, maybe you can camp at a campground with a tarp above your roof? You are smart and capable of resolving mold issues. Just do what you can, when you can, it will get done. ❤😊😺
@valeriaproductions9 ай бұрын
I hear ya! Mold is the bane of a van lifers existence. How about taking some time in Arizona to dry the van out? The atmosphere is great for drying out moisture.
@franktielsch9 ай бұрын
Stay positive. I enjoyed your update and appreciate your down to earth personality
@NomadOverlander9 ай бұрын
Glad to see you have good power tools. Pick up some FlexSeal to seal up that hightop. I'm sure Chrome will let you use one of his shop spaces for a few days to pull out that bed frame and let the floor dry out well. Emi is really good at being self sufficient too. Way to go Emi!
@christophgrail9 ай бұрын
It's always nice to follow your real and lifelike vanlife videos, Emilie. Your van is very nice and I hope that you get some good help with your high roof to get it sealed! Your cat KELLY is so cute and adorable and my 4 cats excitedly watch the videos of your travels and your cat with me every time! Best wishes from Styria, Austria 🇦🇹, Christoph ✌
@ERNIE5559 ай бұрын
Even kitty 🐈⬛ looked exhausted… Just watching mum 😂 Good job
@Mhel20239 ай бұрын
Kitty attempting to escape all that madness at 4:00
@raylenetatum81859 ай бұрын
No kisses today Mom, I just want to take a nap. lol Looking forward to Kelly's kisses next time. Great job on your bed frame. You are such an inspiration. See you both next time. :)
@lilyamongbrambles44589 ай бұрын
Poor Emi- such frustrating issues. I was reading the comments here and it sounds like sealing the entire outside seam with flexseal as well as maybe sealing the entire fiberglass top with that product the other commenter was mentioning would cover all your bases. Blessings to you and kitty ❤
@dorissummers58649 ай бұрын
I wish I was good as you at fixing stuff you are really good 😊
@Dee-r9w9 ай бұрын
Until you get it fix buy a big tarp and put it on your van, Amazon have rhino tarps for $19.99.
@Dee-r9w9 ай бұрын
@TheCatLadyVANa I been with you since day one, KZbin change my name.
@suzannebiggins1169 ай бұрын
You go girl. Hang in there. You are an inspiration❤
@Neb.3339 ай бұрын
Good luck ☘️looks like a project you can handle! I admire you Emi 😊 oh and look at all of the views…come on people what does it hurt you to hit the like button ?
@ChloeMMorgan9 ай бұрын
Kelly was on her lead, she was seen in the background.
@AadanmaxamadCusmaan-y8n9 ай бұрын
😭
@michelleellis82019 ай бұрын
I hope you get it all fixed. I like seeing the bad stuff. It’s real life and it is important for us to see. Safe travels! 😊❤️
@victoriabaker44009 ай бұрын
I'm really glad to hear that you've got some folks who will help you look at the high-top situation. It's definitely time to get some new input on the problem. Wishing you good health and solid repairs.
@janpiper30689 ай бұрын
In the US we have a product called "Flexseal" . Clean the area on your high top on the outside where the water is comming and it will seal it so water can't get in. Flexpaste also works great
@johnringoo7569 ай бұрын
I guess the ultimate option would be to sell this van and get something that's already a high top.. there are so many of these used vans in America that were used for deliveries..
@sheilabartlett60449 ай бұрын
Wow Emi it is obvious that you have lots of advice to help you with your problem. I sure hope you can get it fixed, because you have your van fixed up so nice. Good Luck girl, you’ll solve this problem. Nice to see Kelly pretty face, she had an exhausting day.
@abbyechevarria53229 ай бұрын
Miss Kitty so cute she looks like she’s sleepy. Hope everything turns out good for you.👍😊
@tianikane33129 ай бұрын
Ye Gods! We watch both you and Chrome Emi - you are both having a crap time of it lately with your vehicles... We feel for both of you and Ms Kitty.... And Cruz....
@equynenergie9 ай бұрын
You go girl - you got this 💪. You are making a temporary plan and you have a better plan later when you get back to the Island. You rock ! Hang in there 🥰 Hope your appointment went well.
@ameliaraymond96729 ай бұрын
You're certainly having a time of it. But, one thing at a time. Sure sucks to have it so wet! Your carpentry skills come in handy.
@rettesvanlife9 ай бұрын
Everyone has an opinion.... and here is mine, do what you need to for now until you can get it into maybe Chrome's shop then pull it all out clean it up and redo, little repairs here and there are just dealing with the symptoms not the problem, so ok for now but a new fit out will hopefully solve it longer term for you.
@lizn98589 ай бұрын
No fun today Miss Kelly. You are the cutest.
@m.a.maliawojciechowskichat67299 ай бұрын
🌴 Bonjour et Aloha.💚 I am happy you got to do what was needed 💙I hope you had a good rest and your appointment went well🩵 À bientôt!
@traveldreamer46169 ай бұрын
I bet the guy that drove by has never seen a woman using power tools along the road in the winter. Truly a lady of dreams. 💜 It’s great that you dispel the myths held by some about female capabilities. You inspired many and are loved by those of us that follow you and Kelly on your journey. Take care and give Kelly some scratches. Emi, you are amazing. Big cyber hugs!
@dnixon2059 ай бұрын
You have my sympathy for having to rebuild your van. You had it fixed up so cute. We are living in a home we bought 3 years ago and have discovered mold problems.
@kimorsel6869 ай бұрын
Love your videos 😊 You achieved a lot for only 3 hours, well done you... Kisses for Kitty xxx
@meandmysunshine19 ай бұрын
I think Kitty still had fun outside. She seems pretty sleepy. You are so competent, Emi! You know what you are doing. I hope your leak gets figured out soon - frustrating! Take care Emi! 😊🎵🎶🍁🇨🇦 Eileen
@jimorsheryl9 ай бұрын
That wood wasn't showing any signs of rot. couldn't it just have been dried out and cleansed with bleach??? Did you actually get the leak stopped? If not, the new wood is just going to get wet also.
@jkxtc20169 ай бұрын
If they can seem to fix the leaks...try some of that flex seal...it cones In White.. see if that maybe help can apply wet as well. Look Into it...hope u get fixes up soon
@ruthwilson74519 ай бұрын
Maybe you could go to a Van conversion place and just get advice as to what to do about your Van. That wouldn't cost anything. If you're a bit low on money, you could always start a go fun.D main page as well.That's something you could look into
@scottsouza84799 ай бұрын
I wish I was there to help you.. in my opinion I think that high top should be designed to go over the rain gutter and maybe even over the back doors.. with clearance of course.. that way there is no exposed seal to the weather.. I hope it gets worked out for you
@myrnagarcia-y1x9 ай бұрын
I am so sorry about your van. I know you worked on it a lot.
@patriciadifferding76889 ай бұрын
We are with you in good times and bad! Praying for good times ahead.
@marilynking-hooper46249 ай бұрын
Wonder Woman! Great work! 😘❤️🙏🏼🌺🐾🐾🐾🐾
@spidrawebster9 ай бұрын
Sorry you've been having trouble, but I always admire how you handle it. You're very skilled and capable. I'm sorry the high top manufacturer made a defective product/install. I hope, for your sake....not my viewing whims, that you get to have some fun even during this time where you're having a lot of appointments and trying to fix the leak and re-do the bed.
@kayestafford52149 ай бұрын
Blessings to you praying for you. Be encouraged you are very clever to sort out these emergencies love from England 🏴
@user-kev-k5v9 ай бұрын
Sorry to see the trouble your having with leaks in your van I know it can be quite scary for you 👍
@izettal61089 ай бұрын
I feel for you Emi, van or sticks and bricks. Many things happen at the most inappropriate times. But, girl you have been blessed to have the talents or gift to fix things and to over come. You are truly an inspiration to others. God Bless and safe journey. 😊
@catea25519 ай бұрын
the old van i was living in at the time began to leak more and more during rain. it's like your safe, cozy home becomes an enemy. bedding and carpet soaked etc. it's completely discouraging and miserable. you are one strong lady with this going on for a few rainy seasons. i couldn't take it anymore and donated my van to a charity. living in an apartment now that drives me crazy with noisy neighbors. miss the van life but not the broken down van life or the leaking van life!
@ketoauntie73019 ай бұрын
If you dont mind, did you modify your old van at all with building it up in &/or outside?
@Musicescape179 ай бұрын
Im sending you good vibes….to you & Miss Kelly. 💜👍🏼
@kimhickman92109 ай бұрын
If you burn the wood it protects the wood from water.
@christinamann36409 ай бұрын
That sounds like a traditional Japanese technique I don’t remember the name of.
@BuzzConnection9 ай бұрын
You do a great job sharing your life on the road. Thank you! Don't worry about all of the nay-sayers and advisers, you know what is best is for you (and nobody else).
@bubbles79509 ай бұрын
I hope you get this issue fixed soon Emi, so sorry this is happening
@michaelketteringham94179 ай бұрын
When i converted my van i treated all the bare wood with 3 coats of clear satin varnish the first coat thinned 50/50 with white spirit so it soaks in the wood, It'll last for years and also its easier to keep clean. Vans tend to flex a lot especially over rough surfaces so maybe a flexible rubber seal is needed to cure the leak.
@michaelketteringham94179 ай бұрын
@TheCatLadyVANn Thankyou ❤️
@juliehoot39169 ай бұрын
Hi Emi, So sorry! I am seeing lots of good advice in your comments.
@lmetokg9 ай бұрын
I tried a while ago being a nomad and did not work out for me. But I watch you vicariously and I love you and Kelly cat!! But I want you to know I admire you and how self sufficient you are. I watch all your videos. You rock!!
@nosproutstv57579 ай бұрын
Take on more sponsors to save and do a new van build x
@jimreinhardt91659 ай бұрын
Sorry your having difficulty with the leaking high top. I wish we could help but we are too far away. Any good luck making the repairs.
@KathyClark-us9op9 ай бұрын
Those that repaired your high top; should had it fixed the first time. If possible, take it back to them. Don't let anyone rip you off. You have such a pretty van compared to what it used to look like. You are amazing hard working woman fixing stuff. I love your high top. I don't think I would want to crawl around on the floor.
@shirleydierolf71129 ай бұрын
Was told by a mold remediator that thyme based cleaners kill mold quicker. Un fortunately moisture is the food for mold..so I hope those hi-top guys soon get it right!
@jK-yj2tl9 ай бұрын
Have you considered building w/ PVC piping ? Might be more waterproof . Hang in there ; you are doing GREAT 👍🏽
@savanna63409 ай бұрын
Hi Emi. I realize that you can plainly see rainwater “pooling” in the top part of your high top. But I was wondering about the back van doors where you have a bad leak onto the floors. I too have a Ford E250 van and discovered that my van is leaking around the door gaskets…so I replaced them and it def helped. Gaskets wear out. Also was wondering about resealing around every joint in the high top?
@ketoauntie73019 ай бұрын
Good advice.
@gabsy64439 ай бұрын
I am not very good at building stuff but you are inspiring me to learn 😊. I need to build a cabinet 😮
@GuitarJohn4219 ай бұрын
Hope you are able to finally get the leak fixed. ❤🎸
@gabsy64439 ай бұрын
I was wandering, if you build a higher frame for your bed you could have more storage space underneath...
@dawnmoriarty93479 ай бұрын
Hitting "like" just seems wrong but I am definitely rooting for you to find a solution. You're also taking the opportunity to improve your bed and clean those normally inaccessible areas so I suppose it's not totally bad
@melisa82569 ай бұрын
I really hope you’re able to get your house sorted out soon. I wish you kind, knowledgeable and inexpensive people to help get you through this.
@nicod22139 ай бұрын
I feel for you Emi, you are doing a wonderful job and so practical sweetheart! 👏 ❤ 😊
@rachadventuresinliv9 ай бұрын
I sure hope better days coming for you soon. Look like you got the most of it fixed mold and mildew is so bad for your health and Kelly's. Downfalls of vanlife dealing with moisture and leaks. Stay positive Emi.
@racebanning63909 ай бұрын
SUCH A BUMMER.... ITS JUST 1 OF THOSE THINGS ON OLDER UNITS, THE SEALS EVENTUALLY SHRINK OR CRACK. I WAS JUST UP ON A LADDER TODAY LOOKING AT REMOVING MY ROOF RACK AND SOLAR TO RESEAL MY CALLEN CAMPER SEAMS TOO. THEY ARE LEAKING AFTER 25 YEARS. BEFORE IT GETS TOO WARM HERE IN IDAHO. BE BLESSED EMMY.😸😸💙👍👍🙏🙏
@ketoauntie73019 ай бұрын
I thought so too, will eventually leak; plus driving on very rough backcountry roads is hard on a high top added to a modified used Van. Do you think roof racks can cause roof leaks too?
@mikegainer82889 ай бұрын
So sorry for all the headaches you've been going through!
@melsmith58339 ай бұрын
Sorry you are having all this trouble! I admire you though for getting busy and making things happen!
@richardca3769 ай бұрын
Try sleeping with a cozy sleeping bag in a hammock for awhile before building another sleeping platform. You may like it.
@ButterflyKisses.9 ай бұрын
I try getting the rain water gatherer and L shape gutters 2. Seal outside with the stretch material on top of the stretch material, a soild white material. You choose the sealent. My two cents worth. ❤U virtual friend.😊
@JillC-w6o9 ай бұрын
Seriously, call me weird if you want, but I enjoy this type of video (where you are fixing things) as much as your adventures. As for the part that you didn't get to replace, can you just spray it with some bleach water until you can get around to replacing it. Your van always looks so cozy by the way. Take care, Emi and give Baby Girl Kelly a kiss from me.
@Dee-r9w9 ай бұрын
I seen Joseph build and fix interiors he could probably fix it. But he's in Bali now.
@lindacouvrette36119 ай бұрын
Enjoyed spending time with you...smart lady..and it looks great❤
@renzo96899 ай бұрын
Emi, check the brake light that's built into the high top right above the rear barn doors of your van. The leak could be coming from there.
@cherrylm29 ай бұрын
I can't imagine doing what you did, let alone in a day. You really are remarkable 👍x
@LSChestersMom9 ай бұрын
Be careful with the wood and mold. Sending prayers :) Could you get an ear b and b for a few days to self care and relax?