THE SECRET OF THE CAVERN REVEALED!

[@ballybliss4844]

Only Selma could go from a human waste container to playing Cupid in a white suit while entertaining us with his great sense of humor. You were all at your best. Great vlog.

[@aleta5873]

IKR

[@robert3302]

He really should have been wearing at least a mask, preferably a respirator in that area.

[@susancureton1060]

If I could put 2 thumbs up on this statement, I would. Too fun! Who are all these incredible people who have found each other??

[@jj3111]

I found your channel as I was sitting with my mom. I moved home to take care of my parents. My mom has since passed. We would sit and watch your videos and dream. I would tell her that some day I would go and visit you someday, she made me promise. I’m not sure It will happen anytime soon, as I’m now taking care of my amazing dad. This all being said, I would like to thank you for posting such happiness all the time, I feel like I know you all and you are my friends. I now watch all the amazing channels connected with you and maybe someday when it’s safe, I will make a extended trip and stay at all the amazing Chateaus featured on all your videos... I love watching all the progress… Thank you for sharing Stephanie...Blessing to all at Chateau da Lalande

[@tessnadin8674]

The

[@BehindtheseEyes]

Sadden to hear loss of your Mother....Prayers for Father and Yourself. I hope that Dream/ Promise of la Lande will come true❣

[@twobluestripes]

This is so sweet. I hope your dad is doing well. I love that your parents want to make sure you make some dreams come true after taking care of them in their elder years!

[@HelloHello-zo4dd]

⁰

[@shannonmoore4201]

This comment is so sweet. I’m sorry for the loss of your wonderful mother.

[@ricoatthebeach]

As a lowly Lord of LaLande, I am happy to receive a fully pre-printed card with just a hand signature. The extra gesture of handwritten sentence is indicative of the grace with which you show your appreciation for your patrons.

[@svg7335]

You guys make everything such fun! I love the way Philip views a table as a Tableau for the gorgeous fabrics and dishes.

[@Rosa7388]

Selmar exclaiming "Happy Halloween!" and then remembering that it was Valentine's day made my day🤣

[@moiragoldsmith7052]

Freudian slip?? 🤣🤣🤣

[@megankazukibuttons9334]

Nah, he meant that it was a dress up day. My question is , how does he have room for so many wonderful outfits in such a tiny camper van?

[@moiragoldsmith7052]

@@megankazukibuttons9334 Because secretly he is Mr Benn! 😂💞

[@megankazukibuttons9334]

@@moiragoldsmith7052 I am afraid I'm not familiar with. Mr. Benn. I'm from Philadelphia PA, USA

[@moiragoldsmith7052]

@@megankazukibuttons9334 Ahh. It was a children's programme many years back. Mr Benn wore a bowler hat and smart suit usually; but if needed would go into his wardrobe and come out wearing exactly what was needed for the occasion. 😂💐

[@Hellyers]

I can totally relate to Nati... all dressed and "ready to run" only to find myself 2 hours later still avoiding actually going out for a run! 😂😂

[@cynthiamac650]

Selmar is a real gem. So fun and sweet to be around and very kind. He's a good man, indeed.

[@mayfleur36]

Not to mention rather humble and down to earth.

[@dmacisaac9382]

And very good looking too 😁

[@mayfleur36]

@@dmacisaac9382 Oh my goodness, you’ll never get any argument from me about that 😉

[@clairecooper1754]

Did Selmar have wings in his camper as well? The man is a miracle.

[@BDThomas]

I have long suspected that Selmar is a time lord and the camper is in fact a tardis.

[@kathysyphrit5713]

Selmar is a gentle soul with his vibrant laughter, so much love he shows.

[@hayleykent656]

Ahh, Marie's dress is beautiful on hee and Selma, well done that Man. Stephanie and Phillip, you keep me smiling. X

[@johncunningham1098]

Don’t you think the gifts last night were exceptionally creative. Everyone completely enjoyed them. I love how everyone is free to be whoever they are. It is a place of great safety and respect (and love) for each individual. Only a loving person with a huge heart could have so much room for everyone. As I tell all my friends, you can’t fake this. Deep respect and love for Stephanie, Queen of LaLande.

[@ntakovacj3644]

Exactly: "You can't fake this."

[@suzannahmacaulay7768]

Well said, Cheers to that! 🍻

[@SuperSunshinesue]

I second that emotion !!!

[@scpmdt]

Stephanie is a genuinely lovely person. May she always be blessed with happiness, prosperity & love.

[@chasethecat3839]

John - what an exceptional comment.

[@rachaeljones6564]

Adventerous Selmar went below the loo, Too a mysterious, magical land of poo. And although no tunnels could be found, He brought us new footage from underground! Thank you for such a fun video, happy Valentine's Day all! ❤

[@carolcarmichael2677]

Hahaha Rachael Jones That was brilliant

[@sandicoppins]

Well done Rachael

[@andrewjones2453]

I am Racheal Jones, too. With an e-a-l. So... Romantic Selmar dressed all in white Made ValenDine's Day a pure delight, With a bow in his hands and wings on his back, He launched arrows in a Chateau Love Attack!

[@chasethecat3839]

That was cute, witty, creative, fun - perfect. TY for sharing it. I'm grinning ear to ear after a very stressful evening

[@sinthesouth]

^^Elite comment

[@sadielaurentiwhitley3762]

I absolutely adore that you waited for Selma, I’m not surprised, you are all full of love!

[@ibosquez5238]

Selmar

[@hectorbrown656]

Marie you look lovely in your dress .

[@pw4075]

Philip's, "Ooh, hello, Nati!" had me giggling!!

[@nataliedrysdale7238]

Selmar you are so sweet, kind, hardworking, gentle and adorable

[@laplibrarian6094]

"I've got no objection" says Philip. Love it! 😂

[@shelovesitaly]

I just adore Selmar..."no beer and cheese"? hahaha....and then with his Cupid angel wings...he brings so much joy to the world...as do you all!

[@hayleykent656]

And Nat, you look beautiful. Always a happy face.x

[@amandaoosthuizen9065]

I had such a harty laugh in the middle of the night (I'm LA Lande midnight feasting), when Philip reacted to Naties dress at the Valentine's table

[@jimm8682]

Selmar “ I’m a bit claustrophobic” as he goes into the tunnel, and getting all mucked 🆙 .......then later appears as Cupid with wings and all in white, .....have to love this guy!,,,

[@futabulousco.3881]

I have said Selmar is an angel sent to LaLande. He even has the wings to prove it. Happy "Valendines" to you all. The cake looked amazing as did you lovely ladies and handsome gents.

[@carolehanrahan]

I am constantly amazed at Selmar's wardrobe!!!! Every special occasion, no matter what it is, he has a fabulous suit, shoes, ties and even wings at the ready. You all looked so lovely at your dinner and that cake looked delicious. Happy Valentine's Day to you all.

[@chasethecat3839]

And all kept in a small home (his camper)

[@hematite2588]

It wouldn’t bother me at all exploring the cavernous site. Selmar is an adventurous person to challenge his claustrophobic fears and just get in there and do it. Fearless! This is a very cute ChateauDiary edition. Thank you, Stephanie! Love to everyone!

[@gertsgarden]

Is it a hedgehog home? I’m so excited! Thank you so much for Sunday’s episode. You show such gratitude and live with such humble grace! You and your colorful cast of friends and love and laughter are such a blessing to us all. That’s why people want to give to you and your dream, because your dreams have become ours. A magical place place far away where we can make a difference and plan an adventure! Thank you so much for all the strength it took to be where you are today. You have worked hard and have earned it!

[@kinou_clem__6366]

Imagine a giant mama hedgehog living there 😂😂😂

[@0999milky]

what has happened to the Lalande hedgehog ? does anyone know ?

[@kinou_clem__6366]

@@0999milky They just come and go.

[@martinethevenau69]

Your Valentines heart shaped cake looked delicious with the strawberries covered in chocolate. As usual Phillip created a stunning table decor.

[@hatshepsut8329]

Everyone looked so nice at the Valendines Monday dinner, especially Cupid! Such a beautiful cake too!

[@TheIreneSchulze]

It was worth waiting the extra day to celebrate Valentine’s Day together, just to see Selmar play Cupid. Brilliant! And that heart shaped choc cake looked devine. Sending love to you all from Melbourne, Australia 😘

[@eastcoastartist]

I vote for a photo shoot of Selmar in his Cupid suit💘

[@sokyoul]

I love how Selmar always knows how to dress up🕺

[@hollykeller1545]

Beautiful ❣️👏🏻👏🏻

[@fatimademendonca6009]

Stephanie as always you are very elegant!

[@kaihandren9309]

WOW!! I have no words ... you made us all appreciate Valentine's Day forever !! Selmar in white w/ the wings !!....think that only happens in dreams .... Natie, boomshell ! Thank you all ❤ 🌹

[@barbaragrace1992]

Maybe a calendar with Selmar in all his different costumes. As well as all of you in your different attires. Nati could have a sultry glamour model look. ????

[@moiragoldsmith7052]

Loved the Atlas game...sending love to the entire world on the QT though 🥰😘

[@k.j.2481]

That was beautiful Stephanie. So many countries represented around the table. The best Valentine's Day at the Chateau because you have a great love for each person that is there with you.💝💝💝💝

[@kerryannestevenson6099]

It’s true,this is the best show on TV.Thankyou.Big Valentine bisous 💋

[@lyladepaula3291]

Semlar has major Fun Uncle energy

[@pamkullman8839]

who knew that an old septic tank would be exciting. I almost threw up when my septic tank had to be pumped and never want that experience again, and yet I was excited about yours!

[@sugarlady901]

Diverse Mr. Selmar~ Man of many talents ~ Climbing in a cesspit in the afternoon then dressed in a white tux with feathered wings in the evening shooting love across the world! 💕

[@suvarnawm3034]

Can't wait.. Can't wait.. can't wait.. ooh the suspense 😁

[@lewisnapton8399]

Stunning! Stunning! Stunning! Absolutely Stunning! All of it!

[@marilynmees1690]

Valen-dine ??? valen-dine ?????? I feel the word-play of our Philip here. Cant wait to see what the subterranean room reveals - so exciting. thank you for sharing ... so enjoyable. I particularly loved the valentine 'unwrap' episode ... Selmar and Philip were in great form

[@michaelwoodbodley8099]

In the modern era of commercialization it’s more like valen-dimes day!

[@marilynsanneh8959]

@@michaelwoodbodley8099 LOL ... I see what you did there ... and you are soooooooooooooo right

[@jf1a8x1]

Oh my goodness! Selmar’s wings are spectacular! Your Valendine’s dinner was lovely as usual! ❤️❤️❤️

[@ttbko]

What a gorgeous collection of people!!! However, I have to say, Natalie, you have excelled yourself! That gold top you're wearing is absolutely magical!!! x

[@simplycooking4578]

I had a crap weekend but this just cheers me up. I hate COVID

[@mariak9727]

🥰I hope the coming days are better for you!🥰

[@kathyvick2710]

LOL! The exploration under the Chateau was so cool; however, I don’t think I would have been as brave as Selmar was. The thought of going down where poo could have been makes my stomach churn...😝 Phillips answer to Stephanie’s question about how he felt about Selmar being the one to go down instead of him was priceless. I could tell on the other video about going down there he wasn’t too thrilled....not like Selmar. You all looked fabulous for your 💜 dinner. The chocolate cake looked delicious!!! 😋 Stay well...be safe...and blessings to you all!!!

[@Sgirl]

All you people getting icked-out by the pit ... what do you think dirt is, that you touch all the time when you garden? It's decades and decades of poo, dead animals, dead humans, rotten food, rotten vegetation, and rock dust. After 75 to 100 years, what was in that pit has turned to dirt. And probably very rich and fertile dirt at that.😉

[@kellysullivan1755]

I loved it all.. the excitement..the reveal... phillips snorting laugh....and then cupid... we allllll need a selmar cupid... xo

[@lindacunningham6596]

Love Phillips laughing snort! Makes me laugh evert time...

[@mattsmithlon]

Thanks for the arrow on London! All Londoners need all the love and support this year! xxx

[@bredaswitzer1948]

Brilliant, well done on having valentines day a day later so selmar could be there,he did a great job of being Cupid and the cake looks delicious, ❤🐝🦋🌻

[@sandiebell1676]

Selmar the Brave in the cavin to Cupid wings on Valentine. Wonderful! The spreading of love all over the world with close friends epic.

[@sarahfoster6765]

Only Selmar can get away with one minute looking like Indiana Jones On a underground mission & then a vision in white as Cupid sending love around the world. ❤️

[@bigboy77dk]

You all looked wonderful, and what a beautiful cake 😍 But... Can I just say.... Marie, you looked absolutely stunning in that new dress 😁

[@nigelbullock9039]

Selmar is simply an angel with a lot of hair and a beard. What cant he do. Amazing episode

[@laurabellesandiego]

For the life of me I cannot understand how anyone could give these videos a thumbs down! I love every minute of them! I laughed so much tnrough this eposide.

[@lourdescastillo841]

I really like this Video. I really enjoy when Phillips said oh Nadi. It was funny and she look Gorgeous.

[@cerwelt]

We’ve had such abominable freezing weather here in Texas, we didn’t get to celebrate Valentine’s Day at all. I loved watching your video. We’ve begun to thaw from our extreme weather, and after three days without power or running water we are thrilled to have heat and be able to use the shower and loo. Selmar as Cupid was priceless. You were brave to stand behind the atlas. Glad he’s such a good aim!

[@francesaggarwal22]

So funny, Cupid firing arrows round the world. Nearly choked on my cuppa. 🤣

[@trinitystarclararose7118]

Happy Valentine’s Day beloved ones thank you for the joy you bring.🌈❤️🇨🇦

[@cindymarie2475]

Selma you make one cute cupid! Thanks for sending love our way❤❤❤💐💐💐

[@fast800journeylifebeyond5]

Loved this vlog but even more that you are so considerate that you waited for selmar and diesel to get back. You are a team and the respect for each other is evident. Omg that cake made me drool. Happy valendines day to you all ❤️❤️

[@GabrielOsson]

So much fun! Many THANKS to all of you and specially Cupid, AKA Selmar!

[@mindquestinc]

Salmar is super adorable in the shot.... both such sweet souls .... can’t wait

[@BehindtheseEyes]

Selmar... such a Renaissance Man! Explorer of Cesspool by Day and Cupid by Night❣

[@annettewalter2273]

Love the balloons and spreading love into the world. We need more of that. 💞💞

[@lisaburns1660]

Selmar is a superhero! He works so hard!

[@libbyrudolph6302]

Philip is so cute, I love his humor! Mint-amalist! I so enjoy all of you!

[@endeavouringit]

when Phillip said he had no objection I definitely laughed out loud, don't blame him one iota

[@debimacinnis5548]

This vlog was so entertaining (as are all of them lol) everyone looks so beautiful and the cake looked amazing. Thank you for sending love to Canada and I would like to send it right back to you. I must admit that I am a bit confused about Selmar's camper; ahhhhhh where in the camper does he keep all his clothes? work clothes he uses everyday beautiful dancing outfits and his many costumes and the gifts of clothes he receives from viewers like ties , scarfs , sweaters and suits not to mention his many shoes and also Diesel's jackets. I am beginning to believe that he is magical. He showed up at LeLande exactly when you needed him , he can fix anything he became a mason overnight then he was exploring caverns in bright yellow wellies and to top it all off making a magical Nativity stable for the baby Jesus. I guess I really should not be surprised that his camper can hold all those pieces of clothing. I do just wonder why he didn't just make he camper fly home thru the night when the battery died perhaps it had something to do with not being able to make his coffee elixir. All in all I think you are all fantastic and LeLande is magical and that is why Selmar is there.

[@mlev8223]

My advice replace the parsley with cilantro (coriander leaves) for an authentic taste for your tacos and guacamole.

[@OhSoLovingly]

HAHAHAHAH Selmar on Valentine's Day with heart-shaped balloons, "HAPPY HALLOWEEN!" I adore this man...

[@marjoleint3592]

That chocolatecake looked so delicious and pretty! I love that you show the French supermarkets. This summer we hope to go on holiday in France again and I love the different products in each country. I especially love the 🥖 baguettes! Love from the Netherlands

[@southcoastlady5732]

Only at La Lande could someone dressed as an Angel, sit down to dinner and act as if it's a normal occurrence. Lovely vlog as always xx

[@debralpateart8862]

Oh Selmar! Your arrow of Love was so close! I'm just a couple hundred miles south of Canada! Loved your Cupid's Valentine Suit complete with wings. I had chocolate cake with cherries atop, yummy 😋 Take care, hugs to Diesel 🐕 ❤️

[@lindawentink2725]

Looove that table setting🥰 you all looked beautiful😊💕❣💕 and the cake...!!!😋

[@TatyanaValdaBelindaHill]

I probably get way too excited about all the goings on on this channel! Heheh. I sit here clapping and cheering so much, I have to laugh at myself. 😹

[@TatyanaValdaBelindaHill]

@@selmarduinofficial ❤️x

[@GRANDIPRGROUPTravel]

Thank you Cupid for all the LOVE ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ruthiepooh86]

When you describe your father as your best friend...Mine was too and I too went into a deep spiral down following his death.

[@chasethecat3839]

I remember telling my therapist that I spent a bunch of money on my credit cards when my dad died. I was expecting him to say something to confirm my guilt- he didn't. I was trying to buy myself things to avoid the depression, the grief. It eventually grabs you. Your comment took me back to that year. I was just telling some friends earlier I miss my dad today.

[@jennistevenson796]

I still cry a little most days remembering my best friend, my Daddy, seven years on from his death. I think it is very special that Steph shares her grief and her love for her Father . I hope you are feeling stronger . Love never dies xxxx

[@Helen-us1ly]

You finally got to see the hole. Selmar got to be the mole. He is such a braisin soul. Standing on a mound of poo and goo Philip say's I'm glad it's you. Stef who see's the glass 1/2 full: There within we shall seek and find us gold a big heep

[@andrewfrench4087]

Selmar's cupid stunt with the atlas was really great, and perhaps, a new sort of after dinner game.

[@mmeduplechin1577]

Wonderful Valen-dine vlog! Made my day! Texas is freezing and it's very serious. However, I could escape for a few minutes. Thank you. Selmar is a fabulous Cupid. (I also am familiar w/cesspits from off-grid life) What a wonderful group!

[@taitweigel64]

Your new woven scarves look perfect! Shenanigans with the plates. Cute guys! Even a septic tank was made well and to last. Fascinating! The Dutchmen are darling! Selmar "no coffee and a little bit, aaah". I love your plates with chinoiserie borders. Looks like a wonderful Valentine's dinner complete with Selmar in white with bow and arrow.

[@michaelmarshall9090]

Need to do a video on normal shopping for household items such as groceries and supplies. It would help viewers in other countries to see how locals live and shop. What is the nearest town/village/city near the chateau and show what is available there for groceries/bread/meat etc.

[@laurieanne9712]

O how you have brought us such great high jinx with your cess pool continuing adventure and a lovely Valendine's!! Everyone looked gorgeous!! Loved Marie's perfect red Valentine lipstick!

[@julieeyre-tanner6074]

That cake looked AMAZING! 😍😋

[@kimphilpin1062]

Oh lala, Nati you looked super. You ladies always go all out. X

[@nataliaoliveto7077]

thanks lovely!!!

[@lorrainechircop4411]

So wonderful to see you all celebrating Valentines Day, even waiting for Selmar. Love is in the air, sharing the love of friendship.... ❤🇦🇺

[@ktkt9982]

Selmar looks fab in white with wings. I'm sure every female heart is now in love with him🥰

[@myownlittlehouse471]

Now now ... tomatoes are a fruit, actually -- right? Steph was in charge of the veggies, so tomatoes are not her department. But Philip was in charge of the wine, which comes from grapes, which is fruit. So the tomatoes were on him, haha!

[@christinevr7698]

LOL!!🤣🤣🤣

[@gailcraig4495]

When I've used up fresh tomatoes & it's Mexican food night, I open a can of diced tomatoes & use that.

[@charlotteortiz1233]

Everyone looked stunning.

[@stinki97128]

I luv it when Selmar gets so excited and the cake is a masterpiece!

[@jmk1962]

Olden day version of a septic tank or 'thunderbox'. Wooden toilet box dropped contents into a collection vessel that was emptied via the outside stone manhole.

[@cherylmcgrath9081]

"Happy Monday Valentines Day" your cake looked amazing! LOVE from Chicago

[@carolweaver3269]

Everyone looked so lovely for Valentine's dinner and especially Selmar as Cupid, just love the wings too! Shooting love into the air into the world is a sweet ending to it all!

[@chrisadams8166]

This was a fantastic vlog, what with Selmar braving the poo cavern, hectic food shopping.. Baguettes at last minute... Loved your Valendine celebrations and what a beautiful cake 😍

[@lancestricklin5271]

Wow.....aaaand another WOW! Nati, you make that Valentines dress look incredible! Selmar you struck the perfect chord in your Cupid suit complete with bow and arrow! Bravo!

[@anthonylewischurchill-theg233]

Wow, that cake is stunning Guys. Happy Valentines

[@elsiegatels4060]

Omg those Faberge plates are stunning. Antiques and yet so contemporary. You guys are so much fun to watch, I can't explain how I ended up here but I am glad I did!

[@zant4113]

Sending love to the world....Perfect!

[@kittycarr123]

Such a fun vlog and your valentines dinner a day late was just magic and selmar being able to join in Just heartwarming.

[@nancylayden6006]

My father was born on Valentine's Day 1918. He passed in 2007. My mother, who passed in 2014 always made a heart shaped black velvet birthday cake topped with cherries!

[@mariak9727]

🥰Sounds delicious! What a sweet loving gesture! 🥰

[@jeanoliver3784]

My birthday is Valentines Day. I have had a lot of heart shaped Birthday Cakes in my many years. 😄