Parenthood Q&A | Terrible 2s, discipline, & golden years

[@sonchie68]

As a parent of adult children, I realize it's never too early to start teaching to clean up after themselves, even if it's just getting them to help you clean. It's less about what they want or like to do, and more about what is going to help in their development in good character as they grow.

[@Rynn74]

I totally agree.

[@allydore]

One thing that really helps me stick to my word is remembering that our toddlers need security. So even if they don’t want to do it in the moment, it’s actually better for their development if you stick to their word because that consistency it provides them a sense of security ❤

[@kremmiz1]

As a mom of teens and a preteen, I could go on with a million bits of “advice” but really, I just want to say that you’re on the right track. The fact that your having these conversations the way that you are, shows just how great you are as parents. It changes and evolves but clear and open communication, along with rules of course, works at every age. 😊

[@alexissmck]

My parents, whenever I was getting punished, made it a point to emphasize that they were upset with my behavior or choice I made. They weren’t upset with who I am as a person or I was “being bad”. I was just making a bad choice. That, I think, really made an impact on me in a positive way.

[@sophialarocca8958]

Ivey truly seems so amazingly smart so early. Shows great parenting

[@Thecordlefamily]

🥹🥹 thank you for this 🫶🏼

[@kristinhopecocke3751]

I most definitely second this comment for sure. I honestly just recently started subscribing to y’all’s channel and I am so glad that I fount y’all. ❤️❤️❤️

[@Bailey_Bauer]

Something we keep in mind is that the world isn’t raising your baby, you are raising her. She will grow up to be kind and honest and compassionate because that’s who you guys are and how you are to others. Don’t worry about the dark world out there, she’s got you guys to be in her corner and always love on her.

[@bowfal]

Social media has skewed parenting expectations. Devine you are a good person, go with your instincts. Not wanting to go to bed is every parent night-time struggle. She needs the structure, for her future, school, events, work etc. Just reassure her she doesn't have to go to sleep right away and hand her books to read to herself, with the reasonable explanation the only time to get out of bed is to use the bathroom. Does it work every night, absolutely not, but she knows the expectations and eventually it sinks in. You don't need to entertain her all the time, she will organically develop her imagination/and curiosity if left alone, this healthy for her development. Successful parenting is basic, but there are times we all question our style. Bottom line, love, acceptance, boundaries, security in the home and faith. And a few adult tears and or bad words screamed into the pillow is also needed. ❤

[@LuisaD93]

My son who is 29 now needed me to lay down with him for about half hour to an hour every night from the age on two to nearly three . I treasured that alone, quiet, one on one with him just being present, peaceful and loving. We are to this day as every day in between, very close and open and honest and I truly believe that the time we give them in their early years helps shape who they become later. You guys are doing wonderfully! 😃🌹✨

[@smurfmonster]

You hit the nail on the head when you talked about a young child’s behaviour. As adults we tend to take the way a child’s behaving personally, like they’re doing it TO us but they’re not. They’re trying to work stuff out and learning and we’re fortunate enough to be seeing it and experiencing it WITH them. I think it’s easier to deal with tantrums etc by thinking ok they’re trying to work out their feelings, they’re looking to us to guide them in how to do that so if you imagine them saying “mom/dad please can you help me work out XYZ “ rather than thinking that they’re actively trying to be naughty. You’re both such fantastic parents, and it shows in your daughter by the way she always interacts with love. Good job guys!! Love from North Wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 U.K. xx

[@brittanyhopkins5385]

I can totally relate to all of those "mom guilt" feelings. My kids are now 16,14, 11, and 9 and I can say that I keep having to remind myself that God gives us the answers and guidance in the moment. I totally overthought things when they were little and stayed that way and now the moments/conversations are so much "bigger and heavier" and I literally cannot bear the burden of it all. I have wasted so many hours stressing instead of trusting and remembering that God will hold it for me and my kids. He will fill in all the gaps. It's not about me and how perfectly I can be a mom. That's me making it about myself and not about God. I just need to show up, be in the moment, remembering who I AM in Christ, and Pray pray pray. YOU got this mama!!

[@PatrickHardison-bk4mh]

One of the things I firmly believe is important is consistency. I know when I was little I knew what I could get away with, I knew when I was getting close to the line, and I knew when I crossed the line (and got punished). When my Mom said something and pointed her finger at you, that was your final warning, if she called you by your full name consequences were on the way. But the most important thing to me is I learned respect, I learned right from wrong, and I feel like I'm a pretty good person. Discipline with children is a good thing, Mom used discipline, but there was never any doubt she loved us.

[@bonniepaora8664]

I was absolutely mesmerized by Hunter talking about Ivey being mesmerized by the girl with the guitar. Its beautiful to see girl dads love their daughter's so purely, and to see the complexities of that love

[@sarahwhiddon3140]

My husbands’ grandmother gave me the best advice that I live by. She is a mom of 4. One day her mom came to visit her. As Grandma was doing the dishes, her kids were asking her to come play. She told them to wait until she finished the dishes. Her mom told her, “One day they won’t ask you to play anymore.” Grandma said that from that day on, she always stopped what she was doing and spent time with her kids. She said that the dishes will be there tomorrow; that won’t change. The clothes will be there tomorrow; that won’t change. Your kids will change; be there with them today.

[@cathirodrigo2933]

You will appreciate disciplining now rather than later!! That’s the best advice as a parent of teenagers I can pass on. ❤

[@kaitlyngrassel8132]

I love y’all so much! Y’all are definitely parent and marriage goals for sure! One thing I read somewhere about being a parent which y’all kinda touched on was that on the bad days to pretend like you are you from the far away future and you went back in time to experience your child at this age one last time. I feel like that just puts into perspective how fast time goes and how you’ll never get these moments back. Definitely helped me with my patience and appreciation

[@samanthagreen3125]

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[@gwenloker8788]

Consistency is the hardest part of parenting. They want and need those boundaries. Love love being a parent. I have two grown sons that are our world.

[@debraphipps1028]

Being a parent is like going to school for life because it’s never endless learning even when your babies are grow I’m a momma of 5 ages 33,30,25,7&6 so take it from every child is different it don’t end at 18 becoming a grandma is the best part of being a parent

[@essliedavis]

I have a toddler your age (boy). Having the same struggles and I read happiest toddler on the block. It helped me with my guilt over how I would respond to my son. I was just not communicating with him in a way that really made him feel like I understood him. It also seemed like he felt like he never did anything right or won. This book teaches you how to let them win while you ultimately win lol. It’s amazing and has transformed my relationship with both of my toddlers. It’s hard!! You guys are doing great. I get the guilt - I work from home with my kids and my daughter has said she hates my job. I just explain why I have to work and that I’m pushing back everything I can to be with her and play. It helps them learn patience though because if you’re like me you’re together a lot. They can’t always have your attention 💯 of the time but you can be intentional or set things up for her to do before you’re on your phone. You got this! Love that you posted this video because I’ve been shouting happiest toddler on the block the last month because I feel like a way better mom. It gave me communication tools, not just info on how their brain is developing.

[@leslier.1236]

A bad mom never questions whether they’re a good mom so the fact that you worry- means you are a good mom. And wonderful parents she’s extremely lucky. You’re figuring it all out and that’s parenthood.

[@Nellbae]

I really liked this type of video , just you two talking freely and openly. You both seem like such thoughtful and loving parents! Ivey is beautiful and you guys are so great with her!!❤

[@ronaldstump2672]

You will worry about your children, then you will worry about your grandchildren. Love you two. And your relationship with God. You are the most positive out there.

[@angiejenkins2003]

Thank you Devin for saying that you feel like you are too much or dramatic, I have an anxiety disorder and I always feel like im too much, too blunt or whatever to other people but i just need to understand i am who I am.

[@victoriapeterson4843]

Y’all are doing an amazing job. I couldn’t help but laugh as you described the things Ivey is doing at 2.5 years old bc my 2.5 year old little boy does the same things. He keeps me on my toes but it is truly the sweetest age. You guys are raising your little girl in a loving home and pointing her towards Jesus. You can’t really do any better than that. ❤

[@kathy-iz9cx]

Y’all amaze me with how y’all parent! Not many people think of parenting like this or like they should. I think it’s great how y’all have patience and love and understanding with Ivey and still hold boundaries and structure. I would say having boundaries and structure is so important AND showing love and warmth and understanding and patience is just as important. One without the other is unbalanced and unhealthy. The four styles of parenting show this. The last Q&A podcasty style video y’all did was one of my favorites of y’all’s! Devin talked about how after she has a bad day it’s hard for her to know it’s just a bad day and that it’s not going to be like that every day moving forward. Because of her past struggle with depression. I had just gotten out of feeling depressed and the day y’all posted that was a bad day, and a few days before that we’re too. And I was feeling the exact way devin described and it really helped me to hear her talk about it!

[@julianacarlinginski9711]

Loved the book “Raising Book Humans.” It really helped me to talk to my daughter in a constructive and patient way!

[@georganergaard7955]

You are such a good mother. You two are the best parents, the best family. Don't ever doubt that! X

[@seanhobbs1989]

Best God fearing children raising power couple on youtube I love it.

[@stacydilks5260]

All stages have their moments. It’s just how you handle it. You guys got this!! Every child is different and has different needs. I believe it’s just an instinct to the parents how to raise their kids!! No one can tell people how to raise their kids. They should just know you got this!! I don’t even know you guys and I know your great parents❤❤

[@tristaharp]

Y’all validated all my thoughts as parents. I have the same thoughts. Also, my son is only 4 days older than your Ivey. The toddler stage is consistently encouraging me to be more Christ like when my patience is being tested. ❤

[@MrsWard]

The fact that y'all don't center your content around your child demonstrates how much love and respect you have for your daughter. I genuinely appreciate y'all respecting her privacy and placing her safety as a priority.

[@marseelifeeverydayallday7934]

Y’all are truly amazing Godly parents and it shows! the love of God definitely shines through y’all! ❤❤

[@peppermccullar3479]

Yall are being great parents,she seems very good,she is a child and yall are doing ur best,yall r first time parents,I have an 18 and he is doing fine and I was a first time parent, I had no idea what I was doing,God bless you both

[@shamrock2682]

Parenting with love & logic. Best parenting book ever.

[@KRIS-sh8wp]

11:05 Babies come into the world without a pacifier & you can't miss what you never had. So if you don’t give your baby a pacifier (which isn't a necessity in any capacity), then you'll never have to go through the headache (& the heartache) of having to wean your baby/toddler off of them. As a Mom of 3 & a Grandmother of 2, I had to learn this invaluable life lesson the hard way when I had my firstborn who was given a pacifier by the nurses @ the hospital. Needless to say, I didn't make the same mistake again by letting my other 2 babies (or my grandbabies) have a pacifier & not 1 of them has ever sucked on any of their fingers nor did they have any problems falling or staying asleep, calming down, or needing anything to "comfort" them.

[@dezijones4779]

You make me excited to be a mom one day. Thank you for being such a great example ❤️🥹

[@readaloudchildrensbooks]

Hugs to Devin. I can relate to the feeling of mom guilt and inadequacy once they turn 2 and things become more difficult. I promise you'll continue to learn as you go, especially as you are led by love and God - and forgiveness for you and her. You are the best mom. The beautiful thing is that kids are so resilient and forgiving that no matter what you do, you are still a superstar in her eyes

[@readaloudchildrensbooks]

Just got to the end of the video and your request for advice: the only thing that is consistent in parenting is change. Both the good and bad are constantly evolving so I try to remember that literally every "hard" stage is a season. Ive also recently learned (and continue to remember) is to surrender what I cannot control to God so that it frees up my heart from impatience and anger.

[@dianagreen3361]

I was told don't sweat the small stuff. And pick your battles. Both along the same line pretty good thing to live by.

[@MrMuDD01]

Everyone still a child, until they have one!!! If your responsible, they will HELP you grow up real quick like!! Then and only then and you truly begin to understand what you put your OWN parents thru! You begin to understand that same WORRY!! Love them while you can, they all seem to grow up way to fast!!

[@stephanieschneider9001]

We have a two year old and felt the same way at bedtime. We ended up getting her a Yoto player that allowed her to calm her body down by listening to some of her favorite books. Even cards with us reading her a book or saying prayers. It’s been a game changer! Our five year old and seven year old now have them too 🤷‍♀️

[@ayanaanaya4830]

I literally needed this so much! My daughter is about to be 2 and I feel everything you guys are saying! I legit felt like I was going through this on my own,but to know I’m not alone means the world!

[@kimroot8883]

I loved the book "praying the Scriptures over your children." I5s great and can be used over and over again! Ya'll are amazing parents by the way!

[@alyssaduenas-martin6591]

The conscious parent by Dr. Shefali is an amazing book that changed my perspective on parenting.

[@beckyklepper315]

All of my children are 20 and older. My youngest son is high functioning autistic...all had food aversion due to textures. 1st thing...never make food a battle ground. 2nd ...I told my students this today too...as she gets older and tries things, learns things, etc. Let her know so long as she does her best at THAT MOMENT, then it doesn't matter to you if she comes in dead last on something. That you will always be proud of her for doing her best at that moment. That takes the pressure off of "what if I fail?" (OH BUT WHAT IF YOU FLY???) Third I know he was a firefighter. Take her on Father's Day and Mother's Day to deliver baked goods to your local firefighters or Police Department. She will learn to always love to serve those who serve. As she's older...do a donate of toys before the holidays for children in a women's shelter. Also, we used to take crayons and coloring books to the local pediatric ward on holidays. Most importantly, teach her to love God in every season. In seasons of little to thank Him. In seasons of plenty, to thank Him. She will learn to love His word if you're consistent with reading the Bible to her. My 20 year old knew more at age 12 than I did because he just couldn't get enough of God's word. Teach her that when she makes a mistake that it's ok to come to you...by modeling "I'm sorry." when you fall short. Love your little family ❤ Big love from small town East Texas

[@kaleethompson4402]

A fellow Mama recommended that I read Parenting 14 Gospel Principles! I will admit I have not read it yet but intend to soon. My little Isaac will be one next month after 14 years of prayer, 11 weeks early, and 3 months in the NICU. Praise God!

[@francesauraliadelacroix]

It must be very difficult for young children to make that transition from communicating through crying to having to learn a new language that they don’t yet fully comprehend, and leaning on that in order to communicate their needs and wants; all the whilst being told they cannot communicate using the old method of crying anymore. That perspective always makes me much more patient in general, especially if I ever see a child having a tantrum or if I am speaking with other parents who are coping with that difficult transitory stage ❤❤

[@mechadoggy]

I love Hunter’s haircut with the backwards cap look!

[@kaytlynnesmith9112]

Y’all are so wholesome!! I love you guys so much and seeing y’all grow over time is so inspiring!!! Love ya a

[@Thecordlefamily]

Thank you so much 🥹🥰🫶🏼

[@kaytlynnesmith9112]

@@Thecordlefamily it’s great seeing other Christian people!! I look up to you guys as Christians ❤️

[@bellazizzo9075]

I love these types of videos! Y'all are my favorite content creators of all time! Sending love 🩷

[@ashleyr2425]

We love kiwi co! You two are doing incredible parenting 🙏

[@kelleypritchard]

When my kids were little my grandma told me when your kids want to talk to you stop whatever you are doing and listen ask them questions give them time to answer you because when they are teenagers they will remember you doing that and will be more likely to talk to you about everything.

[@koverbaugh91]

You both are amazing, conscious parents 💗 the world needs more like you 2. I love learning about Ivey; she is the CUTEST

[@elizabethbartels1113]

Your videos are so fun for me to watch. This video just Reminds me of my early parenting years with my girls. Stay true to who you are and Ivey will turn out as wonderful as you both are!❤

[@kaciemichkowski5413]

The way you title a video is everything tooo!!!!!!

[@alishalynn1987]

Raising kids is no joke. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Expectations are important. Rules along with positive reenforment works well. And not giving into their tantrums along with helping them understand what they feel after they calm down of course. Children are so intelligent. Consistency and a schedule are a good way to go. Sticker charts are fun too. You guys are doing great. Keep it up she will grow up beautifully.

[@shannondougherty5668]

As soon as she is talking well, have her order her own food, talk to her doctors at appointments etc., this gets her used to talking to adults.

[@Kaitlynb259]

You guys are great parents! We are going through the same worries and fears. But just do the next right thing ❤ I always like to think, you’re raising a future adult, make them agreeable-not entitled, hard working, polite.

[@Catherineann413]

It’s so hard like you said raising kids at this time with what’s going on in the world, But you all are going to be fine. Just love and guide her just as God has been guiding You both, and ask God to carry your worries & help you make the right decisions. God bless you all🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@katelynnk2795]

The fact that you care and have Guilt about being a bad moms means you are far from it ❤ bad moms don’t care if there bad or too hard on punishment you can see your generally concerned and worried about it your doing amazing 😊

[@MrMuDD01]

I saw a show on youngins and not wanting to go to sleep. I think it was The Nanny years ago. The nanny told the child that you don't have to go to sleep, but you do have to go into your room and close your door. That child was really happy when she heard that. But it turned out being in her bedroom alone at night was boring, so she went to sleep on her own and not long after she went in her room and closed the door!!! Ohhhh the boredom of being a lone child😅

[@DarleneWhite]

Every parent parents different and that is what it should be!

[@highlyfavored2768]

When it comes to guilt... My grandmother once told me that it was not my job to keep my daughter happy all the time. That it was my job to keep her safe, to raise her to be a Christian, a good person and a functioning member of society. That seemed mean when I first heard it but as the mom guilt kicked in, I have reminded myself over the years that boredom is ok, saying "No" is ok.. you can't make them happy all the time because it's just not humanly possible. They don't understand the intricacies of life yet (finances, safety, logic, time, resources). Even though mine is 16 now, I still have to remind myself that it's ok that I can't give her the world on a silver platter... She has God which is most important and she has plenty of love and experiences although she doesn't get EVERYTHING. It does help the guilt, to not feel the pressure of ALWAYS trying to keep her happy. You two are amazing parents and Ivey is beautiful and blessed to have you! ❤️

[@jillyrae7]

Your daughter reminds me a lot of my teenager. As a toddler, she was jumping on stage and dancing with the mechanical Chuck E Cheese. She does theater now. Things I’ve learned so far is to be flexible. As kids mature your parenting style has to change too. Explain the ‘why’ especially when you tell her no. For ex: when she wants you to stay with her to sleep you can set a timer and tell her when the timer goes off you have to leave. Let her know you need to get your time alone or with Hunter. Set boundaries before the meltdown begins that Mommas need time at night to unwind and take care of themselves. The biggest thing is for Hunter. He needs to spoil that baby girl and make her feel special - take her out on ‘dates’ etc. Show Ivey what is to be expected for her future relationships.

[@hokiekat97]

Shepherding a Child’s Heart is a wonderful parenting book, especially when it comes to biblical discipline!

[@brendachaves6375]

Happy Friday Devin and Hunter! Could you link the chicken recipe from your previous vlog? It looked delicious.

[@carlysobolewski3298]

Check out the nurtured heart approach. There are books out on it. It’s a style that gives attention to the positives and de-energizes the negative.

[@candiemcclain8353]

Appears like you’re doing a great job! Mama Bear Apologetics is a great book. You’ve got some time on that but a good idea to read in the next couple of years maybe. Advice: look for opportunities to say yes, there will be plenty of times you have to say no. Also, it’s a LOT more about your child’s heart attitude than just a simple yes or no. Keep that in mind!

[@05pmcs]

Guysdd ur so amazinggggg

[@pattucker5272]

A thought on giving her small chores to do like maybe helping you dust or helping with dishes. I used to work with multi handicapped kids and that was part of their IEP's, the parent would say, but they don't do it right. Not the point, it made them feel useful. If you feel you need to go back and redo it, don't do it in front of them because then they will feel like they failed. Do it when their not around. You can also make a game out of it

[@christiedanielle.x]

The Happy Baby Show Podcast is run by an Australian Children’s Health Care Nurse named Jen and she has very interesting factual tips on children’s brain development and how it relates to behaviour, sleep and all the things. Most episodes aren’t excessively long either which makes it a little easier to get through a couple episodes too 😅

[@jdd1979]

Parenting has less to do with it than you think… my firstborn was an angel, no terrible twos, or terrible anything. He’s about to head off to college and hasn’t changed. We thought we were just the BEST parents you could find! We weren’t. My daughter taught us that four years later.

[@amelimagnon3146]

Well both of y’all can sing! So I’m sure ivy will too!!

[@JB11334]

Most parents don’t know this but pacifiers are supposed to be used only for the first 3 months as an infant so it doesn’t develop into a habit, speech delay, ruins teeth, etc. Some really good books are baby wise, toddler wise, child wise, teen wise- all Christian authors. Started teen wise this year because I have a teen daughter now 😮 our other daughter is 7. I also like the power of praying parent and power of a praying wife. Of course the holy Bible app with Bible plans on parenting.

[@kenneditompkins3609]

Ya'll should reunite with Taylor and Soph!!!!!

[@pamjohns1520]

Recommend Focus on the family, James Dobson parenting books.

[@brittany7836]

There are sooo many good books for parenting out there. Ginger Hubbard’s “Don’t make me count to three”, is the best in giving Biblical parenting discipline. She also has a chart (Wise words for moms) and a podcast that is amazing (Parenting with Ginger Hubbard) The other book I would recommend is “For the Love of Discipline” by Sara Wallace There are so many more that I’ve heard good things about, but those are some I’ve read personally and love.

[@shelbyloftins]

Something I heard from a friend about discipline in a Christian way: bringing everything back to the fruits of the spirit. Was hitting your friend showing kindness or gentleness to them? Was yelling at mommy and daddy showing love or patience to us? - teach them the fruits and what they mean and then bring everything back to those.

[@laurawilliams6981]

Risen Motherhood is really good! Their IG account and podcast/book is great!

[@savannahhansen7571]

Always remember in those times of parent guilt, questioning, and feeling inadequate… God CHOSE to bless you with your sweet daughter!! Out of everyone in the world He chose you to be the stewards of her. He created your family just the way He wants it, meaning you are exactly what she needs. As long as you rely on Him and have Him at the center of your life/marriage/family then you will show her Jesus. You’ll love her the way she needs to be loved. You’ll discipline with grace. And when you mess up you’ll apologize. You’ll seek Jesus for direction and look for Godly advice. She’s in the best home she could possibly be in, the one God chose for her.

[@paigepowell4853]

Anytime my husband and I find ourselves in a tough season of parenting or simply have questions about how to handle things, we always turn to the Bible. The book of Proverbs gives great instructions❤

[@cindyvw]

My 6 year old sonetimes wants to fall asleep in my bed. When he says... so mom how was your day, my heart melts.

[@tylercrew1473]

You guys are such great parents 🤗 I’m currently reading “Hunt, Gather, Parent” by Michaleen Doucleff and it is super interesting! Definitely worth a read!

[@jeannedumond285]

I second that I just finished reading it and my mom anxiety has pretty much gone away. Its an amazing book.

[@lesliecaulder8901]

I love y’all y’all should start a podcast.

[@bd1324]

Your wife Is a Extremely Beautiful Angel That God has blessed you with...

[@tracygabrielson6933]

That is one thing that I wish I could’ve enjoyed, but I didn’t. The taking it in, the enjoying every day life.I had 4 kids by 22. I feel like I didn’t get to enjoy any of it.

[@morgankail2184]

My best advice is to find some parents of adult children in your church that you respect and pick their brains (Titus 2:4). That's been my biggest lesson in the 4 years I've been a mama. The Internet can be such a helpful place, but God gave us the church to walk with us in these times where we don't know what we're doing (which seems like a lot in parenting 😂). Also, I've found a lot of James Dobson's books to be helpful as far as biblical parenting. Meg Meeker is also great (the book "Hero" is an awesome read for Hunter). ❤️

[@bonniepaora8664]

Have you looked much into Montessori style parenting and particularly the montessori bedroom and home? From what you were describing in this video it seems like that might really align with you guys and what you want for Ivey's independence. I watch a mum on KZbin who makes Montessori parenting videos, her channel name is Hazie in Motherhood. I found her videos really informative and helpful when thinking about the kind of parent i want to be and setting my children on the course for independence at a stage-appropriate level. I'd recommend her montessori home and montessori bedroom/floor bed videos to you, as well as her How we Montessori at Home video Im sure if you do check her out you'll fall down the rabbit hole like i did too haha, she has great activity ideas for littlies as well

[@LH-ef1jd]

It’s best to look up all the developmental stages kids are in. And parent within ea. of those different stages. A 101 psychology book will delineate ea. stage and how they develop.

[@melodyhuebschman4126]

A book I’ve been reading by Paul David Tripp is a really good reminder to have grace with your kids just as Christ has had grace with us. Still leading them in truth and love and correction. As well as giving yourself grace especially as a first time parent.

[@faithswicker7197]

Tell us what lipstick you use! It’s beautiful

[@MegaTelenovela]

Unless hubby gets this haircut in spring and grow it out for the winter.

[@mikalapearson2573]

Focus on the family or right now media has great resources ❤

[@Jbucci]

I heard a statement on TikTok: If you are 80 years old and this moment (the moment you’re frustrated with your child) is the only moment you could get back how would you choose to act something along those lines

[@Sassy_Alaskan]

It's called "imposter syndrome" like you don't feel you deserve to be where you're at. And every parent EVER has experienced "mom guilt" God specifically picked Ivey for you. She isn't gonna remember every little mistake you made. She will remember family, community, love, and above all God. So, go easy on yourself. You're doing an excellent job and Ivey's lucky to have you. The number 1 thing a girl needs is good self esteem. She learns that by watching her Mother.

[@ashleysanchez5063]

Read “Good Inside” by Dr. Becky Kennedy. Best parenting book! She gives such a great perspective to those hard moments and gives you some strategies other than discipline to handling those moments!

[@mrswray]

I agree, kids aren’t “bad” at that age they are just more demandin

[@angiepennell6136]

I think you should follow Milena Ciciotti if you do not already. You both are young families, got married young, are not afraid to show your faith. Im almost twice your age but would have loved to have Christian sisterhood and families to lean on and guide me during my early parenting stages. And it just goes to show that even as a mother and firewife of three at 41 years old I am still learning because I enjoy watching both of your channels.

[@morgantrageser1059]

my mom cannot say enough good things about the love and logic parenting book

[@chrisbutler2598]

In all honesty. Y’all might be helicopter parents. Let them cry, eat dirt, skin a knee and don’t freak out. Man has been on this planet for a bazillion yrs. Your youngin will be fine. ✌️❤️🇺🇸😎