I’ve been tired my entire life - the art of actually resting

‘I’ve been tired my entire life’ - the art of actually resting
I hope you’ve had a lovely November! As you know, I’ve been a little absent lately, and I’m sorry I’ve been so delayed on an upload - sadly I have been slowed down drastically by circumstances and I am doing my best to navigate them with a light and positive heart, but it has required a slowness of pace on my end. This experience got me thinking about how differently I feel about ‘resting’ and being ‘tired’ and how those terms mean something quite different to me now. I’ve always been someone who works long hours and has a lot of responsibilities to manage, but I’ve slowly been learning - over the last several years - a new lifestyle that suits me quite well. I still have a lot to do each day, but the way I treat my ‘down time’ is so different than before. I really try to embrace quality rest now, and perhaps something in this video brings you a moment of respite from a busy day. Much love.
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[@TheCottageFairy]

My sincerest apologies, I’m having trouble with my language captions today - something is glitching on my computer! I’m trying to correct it and hope I can have captions up soon :( sending much love and hope you’ve all had a lovely week! I am a bit of a turtle right now but doing my best to keep things moving. I am open for limited orders on my Etsy shop (using code ‘EXTRAGIFT’ for an extra free bookmark with your purchase). Thank you for being here and hope this video brings you a moment of peace ❤

[@naturally.natalie]

Do you know your human design type, Paula? You sound like a projector❤

[@ellenbragonje9221]

I was very moved by your story of the girl and the fox. It too made me appreciate who I am and that it's okay, for I work with little children every day and I like to enjoy the innocent and playful way they are thinking and talking. I also never like to lose my inner child and I love to be in the presence of these children full of joy and happiness.

[@francoisecleroux1053]

Goodday ! Have you ever heard of Myalgic Encephalomyelitis...? I do have so, this almost unknown Ilness caracterized by very , very low energy. I do have this very low energy you live with - since 35 years - due to a Virus. It is an almost unknown illness and no cure known at this moment Except Resting , Resting, Resting as often possible - is the best way to Cope with it- just the way you do, going always- as often possible- to your Own Rythm. I would say- going in Nature as you do so often ! is the best way to Cope with this state. I would say, you have also a chance with your artistique talent to benefit of rare moments of quality despite your low energy. You are a Beautiful exemple of courage and serenity to the million of people around the globe, Living with this - invisible illness.Bravo ! And thank you for sharing !

[@lindaconnelly7836]

What a beautiful story. It touched my heart 💞. Thank you.

[@Grazie_32italian]

Love you darling !❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@olgaw5082]

"Just because you can't match the pace of someone else doesn't mean you're too slow, it means you are listening to the beat of a different song." Thank you so much Paola❤ I didn't know how much I needed to hear that! I'm tearing up now😅

[@524FrmGrl]

Oh Paola, your story made me unexpectedly cry. I feel like that little old woman. Praying daily that you continue to be well. 30 years younger than me, and you teach me so much. Take care of yourself, rest, and savor each and every moment of this new season in your life. We could all learn from slowing down. You will be such a present; loving, mother, I’m so happy for you and Luke and your fur babies. I’m sure your parents can’t contain their excitement for you. God Bless and I hope you had a beautiful Thanksgiving. From, Southeast Missouri

[@flamingogirl57]

Totally agree with you ! Hugs from a Great Grandma in SE Kansas

[@lailalivsdatter6660]

❤

[@BarbyDailey-Rurallife40]

Paola brings out the little girl in us. 💖

[@barbaramazzacco6644]

@@BarbyDailey-Rurallife40 yea she sure does. And it feels wonderful 🤗

[@KateRichards67]

The story made me cry too, it was so beautiful. I'm a 67 year old grandmother from the UK and the only regret I have about my 2 pregnancies is that I allowed life's pressures and anxiety to distract from the joy. I wish I had slowed down and savored the experience more so you're doing the right thing, my love. Wishing you all the very best 💖

[@user-nt5mc5kc2y]

I was deeply touched by your video and your story. At the end of your story, the tears were flowing. I hope someday you will find the time and energy to publish your beautifully written story about the little girl and the fox. I am a 70 year old woman who lives on the edge of the woods, in the countryside with all my animals. I embrace the slowing down movement wholeheartedly. Happy Holidays 🎄

[@marianl3447]

what state are you in? Just wondering if we are close. We are in age.

[@loreofyupu]

On the edge of the woods with my animals is exactly how I want to be living when I'm 70. I'm 23 now, and it seems so silly to admit this little dream of mine, like a distant childish fantasy, because most people don't get it. But coming across someone like you gives me hope that it's possible and I shouldn't settle for less. 💚

[@Luna-nq3de]

I am a struggling senior in high school, and I have been through a lot. I often go into the woods to calm my ever beating heart and forever shaking hands. The story you read touched my sporadic heart and soothed it with a gentle hand. One day, I hope you get the chance to write a book of little tales like this one. Thank you for always being here for me.

[@kristinjayne6720]

What a lovely young one you are! Wise beyond your years. I have such hope in our current youth. Please write that book!

[@barbarawatson1667]

I sense you are a powerful empath and I can highly recommend a wonderful book and or you tube for Matt Khan. He is an incredible human being with a soft, compassionate and caring nature. Healing energy literally radiates from his voice. Be well, you are loved.

[@ngockhanh4689]

gosh, just looks like my situation right now

[@carrad123456]

Hi dear, What is bothering you so much ? May be you will get some help here• Till then just deep breathe whenever possible, relax and remember you are part of this universe with love and compassion•

[@loristromski1334]

Sending healing energy to every part of your body. I just quit as a lunch lady in public schools in Wisconsin. The things I saw in over a month made me sad for the children in public school.

[@daragropper682]

You should have a story telling channel. You have a very soothing voice that children and adults need in our lives 💕

[@WoodlandFaerie0610]

I agree! I’d love to hear her tell stories.

[@juliewood6270]

Great idea!!!

[@lacuna_matata_9261]

I was going to say this too !! 🥰

[@LionTheHeart]

Absoulutey

[@ayidas]

This is a fantastic idea!

[@Lemonn0707]

I can't describe how I felt while listening to the story. I didn't realise I was in tears until it fell down on my palm. Thank you so much for such a warm story. From now on every time I'd be in a forest, I'd close my eyes and listen to the breeze, looking for what I lost on the way of life.

[@TheCottageFairy]

❤❤ I am so honored it spoke to you, thank you for sharing, it means a lot, sending a big hug

[@vickiwills9950]

Beautifully said! I love the quote "Nature speaks if only you listen!"😊❤

[@marybooth1361]

I listened to your story and found myself crying like a baby. You are so special, @Cottagefairy

[@turquoisetreee]

Oh yes, it moved me too ❤🦊

[@naturalrealm7850]

I shed tears too. So beautiful. I'd love to listen to more stories like this.

[@gulafshasheikh8757]

I'm from India, 27 years old and I am struggling in my abusive marriage. I shared this just to say that you're not alone who is going through any phase, we all have too. Remember one thing as you are on you tube so are not alone we all are with you dear. God bless !!

[@sjwells04]

I hope you’re able to safely leave. You deserve to feel safe and relaxed ❤

[@virginiacreager4331]

Paula if you read this I can’t express how vitally important it is when growing a baby and being a mother to rest whenever you can. I still lay down with my three year old instead of getting things done because my health depends on it. Everywhere I look mothers are pushed to keep being “productive” beyond and outside the real of motherhood and it can be extremely depleating. Please honor yourself above all else. 💜🙏

[@carolynnilsen9270]

So much emphasis today on having it all - but compromising your deep wellbeing for the perceived expectations of others / society is destructive to the spirit.

[@LoreleiWakefield]

"The amount of things that you get done in a day does not dictate your worth." Thank you for saying that! We are enough just exactly as we are, just for being us. Wishing you a joyful and healing weekend.

[@Fruechtchen]

I wrote that down for me too! ❤

[@ehpeachylove]

This should be on a tee shirt… it’s so true and takes many of us to realize as we get older.

[@wandastarr-hk2ig]

@@ehpeachylove Our culture glamourizes and celebrates the cult of busyness, and that is not healthy for most people.

[@naazahs9045]

​@@wandastarr-hk2ig be the good little cog that keeps grinding on relentlessly to keep the big machine going until you can no longer do that and then are discarded and replaced like the true worthiness that they actually attach to you. Collectively our species has got all its priorities @$$ backwards.

[@hughdfukairs1768]

Being tired is simply the underlying hush of Earth telling one to slow down and just listen to its quiet lessons.

[@theraspberryrabbits7390]

You are such a gift of light in this world. That story was absolutely wonderful and one this 55 year old, messy, gray haired woman who is finding her lost voice, needed to hear. Thank you so very much, Paola. Light, love and hugs to you.

[@danielledegeorge2129]

My cat used to lay across my belly when I was pregnant. Animals definitely sense things that we don't really expect them to! Congratulations Paola!!!!!!

[@sonipitts]

Count me in with the dusty-eyed crowd swept away by your story. So beautiful, and so poignant. That absolutely needs to be a gorgeously-illustrated and dearly-cherished children's book (as long as us grown-up children can have a copy, too).

[@sarahrose9944]

I’m now always correcting “grown-ups” to grown-up children”. It’s way more descriptive of who we all really are.

[@rosaliefunk1629]

In my life, many have poked fun of me for being slow. What I know is that I have taken the time to see, hear, smell, taste and feel things. This has been on both an emotional and physical level. Rushing through life does not GET you more. Being slow GIVES you more. To be slow is a blessing. ❤️

[@robot_collective]

Thats beautiful 💜

[@sylvain123]

Beautiful comment. Thankyou for sharing

[@meloniestewart2940]

Exactly. Living in a past which no longer exists or in a future that is yet to manifest means we miss out on the present moment. It is the only, one we ever truly have

[@norajasna2306]

❤️🙏🏼

[@julietfauvet9977]

Paola, I always felt so alone living with my “tired disposition” until I found you. I always felt something was wrong with me. But you have helped me accept that I am simply “listening to a beat of a different song.” I’m okay now not fitting into the fast-paced hustle culture that I once believed I needed to. The slower, intentional life has been so healing. And very much more suited to my nature. Your videos, book, and other content have done wonders for me. You have inspired so much, and have been a balm to my soul. Sending you so much love and thanks for all that you do💗 You are such a beautiful light! ✨🕯️🕊️🧚‍♂️

[@health.bites.5615]

I was attracted to your channel awhile ago because of the peace it gives me. I am an HSP (high sensitive person) and an introvert, so I've had to live more simply and slowly in my life too. I just came across the Slow Living movement this year and it's helped me so much. Your journey has helped me incredibly. Thank you for having much transparency in sharing with us. You are a beautiful role model and inspiration! May you have the peace and strength you need--every single day. ❤

[@ConnieHeartsValentino]

It seems like we HSP/Introverts are in a constant battle against this fast-moving, ultra productive modern world. It can be exhausting.

[@kierlak]

INFJ/HSP here. I can totally relate. I love simple life. Intentional/slow living is often so important for HSPs. Cottage Fairy seems to me as INFP/HSP. This channel is simply amazing and cozy.

[@ConnieHeartsValentino]

@@kierlak I agree!

[@-living4jesus4ever-]

Especially if you’re an INFJ on Myers Briggs personality. ❤😊

[@TeriHargraveartist]

As a child, I was often called lazy....I was just slower than those around me! Much love to you :)

[@kripaharris237]

Me too I was happy with books ,time in nature and not interested in the activities of my family Shopping ,knitting ,gossiping ....

[@karicastanza5216]

Yep, me too! I recently turned 50 and find it amazing how people just can't sit still and enjoy the simple things in life. And they rarely cost much!

[@dcny69]

❤️

[@loriar1027]

Same here. My dad always said I had two speeds-slow and stop! 😂 I’m still slow and methodical.

[@shwetashyam838]

Me too! I’m still called slow when in fact I get more work done in one day.

[@tomas5376]

The occasional discomfort of pregnancy will soon be replaced by the joy of parenting! Your child will be happy with such a talented mother.❤

[@veganwitch13]

Joy of parenting😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@EllenObrock-gs4tq]

And even less sleep 😴. 😝

[@iuliaaghirculesei986]

Indeed, we should be honest with these things. Maybe we should encourage her to be prepared for very difficult days, for lack of sleep for extended periods of time, for a lot of worries, for feeling really, really tired, and many more. Being a parent, being a mother, is the most difficult thing to and it seems to never end.

[@donna-marie9100]

Some women experience constant discomfort during pregnancy. My Goddaughter had the most awful pelvic pain in both her pregnancies. Important to be honest about these things. It's tough for many, but definitely worth it.

[@lisab9734]

@@iuliaaghirculesei986I agree. Parenthood is so so hard. It’s full of joy, worry, sadness, anger, all the emotions.

[@sherryhicks4156]

Pregnancy is hard in the beginning. Your body is changing rapidly. 9 months is not very long when you think about it. Your body is creating an entire new human being. Relax and enjoy the ride. It will be over soon enough. Then a new life begins again. God Bless you and that precious one growing inside of you.

[@lovethelighttruth8330]

Finally someone who has helped me to identify what I have felt most of my life and I am 61. You my sweet friend are a gift 🎁 to the rest of us! Your beautiful, gentle spirit speaks so clearly and gently to our 💕 hearts❣️The story you shared is DEFINITELY BOOK WORTHY ❣️🦊🧝‍♀️

[@hilltopvt]

You're actually more productive than you have ever been - you are creating a new little life - this is very hard work even if you are sitting still, as well as all the work you normally do. 💖 Your videos are an oasis of thoughtfulness and beauty. And what a lovely fairy tale - you are a very talented writer.

[@elizabethm.5947]

Paola, you are a true artist. I loved your story, and I think you should publish it. But first, illustrate it and make a book out of it. What you have to offer is exactly what our rushed, exhausted and overly intellectual world needs. You bring so much soul and heart. In my mind, your gifts are priceless. Please don't compare yourself to those who have a different mission in life. You are a true gift to so many people.

[@debbieconnelley342]

Couldn’t agree more ❤

[@bonniebinsky6666]

Beautifully said. 🧚‍♂️🍂🍁

[@loriburgess1866]

I am wondering if there were illustrations if they would muddy my imagination of what the fox and fairy child/woman are to me? I do love your illustrations, Paola. I also love the images of what your story created within my mind. Both ways, I’m sure are good.

[@elizabethhasen2116]

Absolutely this should/could be a children's book!

[@pamurdiales2740]

Oh my goodness! Paola, your sweet and honest meditation and your tender story was just was I needed this morning! Even though we’re 40 years apart in age, we share a kindred spirit. I’m a mother of 6 and grandmother of 15 and lately as the world grows ever more dark, I find solace in your videos; I keep you and your little one in my prayers..May all of us continue to seek Truth, Beauty and Goodness in this world and be at peace. ❤️

[@penny6254]

Growing and nurturing a new little human inside is plenty productive! And yes, actually resting, attuned to my needs, is really an art, which I too am still learning. Really moving story, loved it, and your rendition too!

[@judithgrace8359]

Don’t declutter too much. A warm cozy home with interesting beautiful things around, stimulate baby’s imagination and capture their attention. Your home is a reflection of you, a warm, creative, gentle person. Baby will love being in it.

[@JuliaFlorencee]

In today's society, it is so easy to forget that resting is so important. I can really relate to what you said about "always feeling tired forever". It made me think that maybe in the past I too was living a fast-paced life that was not suited for me. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and your insights. I have learned a lot about myself through you. It shows again that resting is so important

[@robinparsons8949]

What a beautiful story, Paola. You should publish it and create the illustrations yourself. Sending you positive energy for a healthy, happy, peaceful pregnancy

[@maryanncrowl1624]

When the time is right for you, I'm envisioning a beautifully, gently illustrated book from this sweet tale you've woven. You have plenty of time. There is no rush, no hurry. All in the right season. Thank you for sharing your gentle soul with the rest of us.

[@mtilford]

Paola, you write (and narrate) so beautifully, and your art is so endearing that I'm sure if you wrote and illustrated a children's book, it would become a best seller! Best wishes for the rest of your pregnancy and birth. From a fan in Australia.

[@jenb7472]

I agree! And I’m also a fan in Australia! ❤

[@maydanavabarnett5177]

Oh, what a beautiful story! You must publish these stories for the world to be blessed by them! What a gift you have to share, Paola! God continues to bless you abundantly 🌈🙏🏽🤟🏼💕

[@wendybrown-jensen8408]

I really really loved the little story!! I got in touch with regrets and a sadness that I let myself get swept away in busy. Now I’m 61😳 and will retire from teaching this year. Good for you for insisting on listening to your body’s rhythm. 💕

[@BZSchnoodle]

I don't know when in your life you will pursue writing seriously, but I feel that you are a born storyteller. I loved that story! I would love to see it in print. Morning sickness and tiredness aside, you glow in this pregnancy. All the best to you.

[@susanmary4752]

After many years of working as a Critical Care nurse I looked forward to retiring and slowing down. I find I'm much more productive now and can actually partake in the things that bring me peace and happiness. I loved your story! It was so comforting and I could visualize the details. Keep writing!

[@laurathurlow3634]

That story made me cry Paola. Three times. I haven't lost him, I know we'll find each other--but the months feel long. I hadn't realized how hard it can be to live a fairytale. He's in my heart--in my core--laughing, always smiling and joking and turning the world into warm gingerbread loaves--but I look forward to finding 'the other me' again. 'out there' . I sometimes wonder who we'll be then. Good job resting Paola. I am prennially impressed withe the beautiful powerful vulnerable mighty becoming you are. Thank you for sharing. Please write that lovely story into an illustrated children's book, Paola, and let me be the first to order a copy! xx

[@itsmejanny]

I have 4 daughters and they found the book "What to Expect When You're Expecting" to be so helpful. Take good care of your beautiful self and your precious new life.

[@andeechristian9436]

6:18 “Everytime you let go a little more of anything that's holding you back, you feel lighter, more rested, more whole. That is quality rest. It's not always easy. It teaches you how to surrender. You're not always the one in control. And I think there's freedom in that acceptance.” (Paola) ❤

[@ElizabethPoet]

Very Buddhist

[@FatemeLife]

Amazing❤

[@rockyduck9133]

Growing a human can feel like climbing a mountain every day. It's normal to feel very tired. I know you will take very good care of yourself for your very loved baby. You look beautiful and glowing.

[@MaryBeth1965]

Raising a human is the really tough part! ( mom of 4, granny of 1 here...)

[@christianjacquesbennett]

....................Is the video over? Paola - seriously your story telling technique is magical. And I don't just mean that story about the Fox... every one of your videos tell a soulful story. You are one of the few KZbinrs I can watch where at the end of the video there is a calming silence which lingers. It stops time. It is a silence that cuddles one's senses, as if you have reached out of from the screen and given a comforting hug to say "It's okay, everything is going to be okay" ... Bless you xoxo .....oh and a Merry Christmas to you and the family.

[@amandasymon4363]

My husband of 40 years died a week ago. I met him when I was 15 and he was 17 . I haven’t stopped shacking and am jumping every time the phone rings. . Cracks have a way of letting in light - Wonderful deep words. They have given me a glimmer of hope. 🙏

[@traveller6744]

That is so sad to read, my condolences, sending you strength, love and peace of mind ❤your husband is with you always and helping you on your earthly journey ❤😊

[@serenataylor4836]

Love to you Paola from Australia . Please look after yourself , your baby and your peace . I learnt a valuable lesson tonight , aged 63 . I let go of a man who said he loved me however his actions did not back these words up . I will look back on your journey to brighten my days and read your gorgeous book . Sending lots of love and hugs 😘🤗😘🤗🧚🏾‍♀️

[@larsstougaard7097]

Thanks for sharing sending you a hug 🫂 can be hard to let go even if its for the best.

[@LindaKayHolevas]

I am proud of you for letting go. I am 59 & it was 7 years ago I left go of a man who I had been with & known for many, many years. It was the same situation. He talked to good talk, but he certainly didn’t walk it. I’ve never been at more peace in my life. It took me a couple years to really get back on my feet, but it was so worth it. I finally learned how to love myself & you will, too. You’ve already taken the first step. Sending you love & light ❤️✨

[@rachelkingsley668]

That’s a very courageous thing to do! Blessings on you xx❤

[@elizabethwidlund3859]

I left an abusive 5 year marriage with the certainty I would never ever get involved with anyone ever again. God had other plans, and I've been happily married to a wonderful man for 5 years. Sometimes you have to let go of the bad stuff so something wonderful can take its place...even if you're not looking for it. Be proud of yourself. Sending hugs.

[@user-pf7lr3zx7h]

​I'm so glad you found happiness.May it lasts forever!❤❤❤🎉

[@gamingisabellajones6880]

I've always had low energy all my life. This is just who I am, and I've accepted it with grace. You're going to be a good mother. I've been one for over a decade now. My secret is I make time daily to embrace the art of resting. It energizes me like a charger charges up a cellphone.

[@teresacabebe27]

Tranquility oozed into my soul as I watched, listened to your video. I'm spending time in prayer for you. God bless you, Paola. ~ Teresa

[@MyMerryMessyGermanLife]

Yeah pregnancy can really take a lot of us. Your body is indeed growing a whole other human. I think it’s wonderful that you’re leaning into it and listening to what your body needs. ❤ I was diagnosed with ADHD this year and it has opened up the world of neurodivergence to me (Autism and ADHD). I have learned SO much and so much of what you talk about on this channel sounds like the presentation of Autism in women. Sensitive natures, preferring to be alone and in quiet, deep in thought, frazzled with busyness, often tired, thriving in quiet solitude in nature, and more. I’ve wanted to say this before, but I was afraid to. I don’t want it to come across as a criticism or anything negative - I say it instead out of care and love. Because I’ve found a diagnosis to open up answers, clarity and help I didn’t even realize I needed. The autism research and knowledge has changed drastically in the last 5-10 years, and many women are getting diagnosed as adults. Anyway, just sharing. You are

[@himikadastidar9482]

I would not mind getting an audiobook from you... your voice is so calming and wonderful

[@BarbyDailey-Rurallife40]

Paola, you look extra beautiful today. I think your pregnancy is giving you a glow. Your story is beautiful. Please keep writing. You touch so many with all of your creativeness. This sweet story brought tears to my eyes, maybe because I'm at the older woman's age. It could be a story of things missed because of business in life, but then peace found.

[@cintiaardevol3543]

I was just thinking the same thing!! She is gorgeous

[@bethoneill7011]

Give your book a title, write it, illustrate it. Publish it. AND definitely READ it/audiobook for all to hear the calm and peace (and tiredness-understandably so) in your voice. Im 56 y/o with a terminal illness and I'm in awe of your channel (long time follower), I feel wonder and comfort when watching your videos, and that feels great to me. Thank you.

[@denavigil5529]

Learning to navigate this will help you in motherhood as well. As a young mother I often found myself rushing my children around. My daughter was (and still is) very slow. I called her the Pokey Little Puppy, like the book character. But when I realized it was more important for ME to slow down, and to go at their little pace, my stress level went down, and I actually began enjoying the little moments more. The best thing about motherhood is that you're not alone. We've been doing this since the beginning of time. Lean on others for help and support when you need it! Best of luck to you.

[@OctoberBride]

As a mother of two children, all I can say is you are not alone in what you are experiencing. Pregnancy is hard and tiring and exhausting and beautiful and wonderful all at once. There were days I couldn't get out of bed, much less do anything productive. There were days I would cry over absolutely nothing. I'm rooting for you and I hope this sickness passes soon. Also I loved your story! You're very talented and it's such a lovely tale to read to your child some day! Much love to you.

[@stephaniewillson9383]

Well, I mean...you are building a human...thats exhausting!!!

[@deannaclayton6934]

I am 73 ….. your sweet yet poignant story brought me to tears. Thank you for touching my soul this beautiful November morning 🕯️Blessings abound .

[@jeanninef2110]

Ah, the first trimester our bodies are so busy making a baby that we are so tired! Rest when you can. Happy thanksgiving to you and yours! Hugs from Canada.

[@janetclaireSays]

I have never been more tired than I was during the first trimester of my first pregnancy! Your story was lovely, so charming and meaningful. And I love foxes, which made it all the more special.

[@lorikirkwood5414]

I have had 5 children. I am now 72, but I feel a very young 72. Listening to your impressions and musings and philosophy on life takes me back with a smile to my first pregnancy. You are going down the correct path with taking it easy and resting and getting, Yes, 10 hours of sleep. Take good care. You are growing a human, and you are becoming a mother, which is a wonderful thing to be. Congratulations! By the way, I have 3 grandsons, and my youngest son (born when I was 37) and his wife are now expecting their first, another boy, due in February, so a fourth grandson for me. Perhaps they will decide to have one more after this, and I will get a granddaughter. But if not, We Love Our Boys! 😊❤

[@billstarr9396]

Animals are truly intuitive. Their powers of observation is enormous and their sense of smell is so much higher than our own. You are giving off ferimones and because of that alone all of your pets know that you are with child Paola.

[@katashley1031]

The rhythm we are encouraged to adapt is wholly unnatural. Slow living is real living. Sure, sometimes a little speeding up is fun or necessary, but you miss being present when you multi task and rush. It's not what we are meant to do very often. Presence, awareness, rest and calm. That's what allows us to live more fully than the grind and frantic pace. You're doing just fine; life in the slow lane is filled with wonder and magic. ❤

[@mrstiggywinkle]

I have 3 boys and each pregnancy definitely gets you ready for the baby in all ways. Letting go of expectations is the best advice ❤ you’ll be a wonderful mummy! Xx

[@AM-bm2xw]

Letting go of expectations is the best advice, I wholeheartedly agree.!.. I also have 3 boys, almost 8, 6, and 4 months😊

[@lillybrooks7662]

Your story is absolutely lovely, and I’m so thrilled to be able to hear it read by you!! Your voice and cadence are so gentle and sweet! I look forward to (perhaps, hopefully!) being able to purchase the book itself for the young children in my life. Books are such a magical portal for me… With that being said, it would be wonderful to have the book available in an ‘Audible’-type option, because your voice absolutely DOES add so much !!! I’m so thrilled to see you being so absolutely true to yourself, especially now… Sending you and your sweet family so much love, and bright blessings!!! It is a joy and an honor to have found you!!! 💐🦋💐

[@erinrj]

Not going to lie, watching this with my morning coffee and that the story made me cry😭 loved it❤ also I love watching this video right now I recently hurt myself because of how much I'm trying to stretch out work being an artist and a million other things. Definitely helpful

[@donnamarcotte5809]

You are so wise to listen to your heart, your body, and your own rhythm. I'm trying to do the same. You and your videos inspire me. Thx for sharing this important message and the possibilities.

[@francescawollaston2227]

Dearest Paola, what a magical story to wake up to on this Saturday in Australia ❤ ….balm for mind and soul. I remember the tiredness and bursting into tears at the drop of a hat, when I was pregnant. Very normal and completely understandable. The hormones are racing around making a little fairy child, which is hard work. Please don’t ever feel you need to post. I am quite sure, all of your loyal followers, including myself, don’t expect it. We all know that this is a time of flux and change. Take time to look after yourself. And as my darling late father, John, would say “everything just is”. Sending you much love and hugs, Francesca ❤❤❤🎄🫂🌻🌼💐🌈

[@WitchOfThePage]

I love that your cat holds your hand. 🐾 Instant classic that story was. It reminded me so much of "The Giving Tree" an all time favorite of mine.

[@AG-ql4dn]

Your story is beautiful- thank you ❤

[@daniellenoblet5131]

Thank you Paola, your story touched my soul.

[@cherylbfrey5936]

What a lovely story! You know, sometimes things happen for a reason. This little story may not have been intended for a video, perhaps it was meant to become a children’s story book.During your pregnancy, if you were feeling up to it, perhaps you could watercolor some little scenes you imagined for your story. Your book dedication could even be your little one to come. ❤️❤️

[@MathandMakeup]

Beautiful honest and raw feelings in this video. That is what I love about this channel the most. I'm so happy for you and soon all of this will have been worth it when you meet your little one and they will have some of the most wonderful creative and imaginative parents! I enjoyed this video, the music is excellent choice too.

[@hilltopvt]

great idea!

[@rchhtt5210]

Fellow low-energy person here. Pregnancy was by far the most challenging for me because of extreme fatigue. It lasted the whole pregnancy. I remember taking 3 naps one day lol. I never felt guilt for resting though. Wishing you well on this journey ❤

[@elliebelle5244]

I join the many comments to tell you that your story of the girl and fox captivated my thoughts. You have the gift of tale, and with your talents for illustrating the world-this would be such a beautiful gift to your child to turn this into a book. Whether it is a private one between you and your child, or if you should ever choose to share it with the world. Thank you for sharing this story with us.

[@sandrazboinski6473]

Love your story. Prayers as you embrace this season. Be well

[@lareekline8232]

This lesson about productivity and value is something everyone should hear and hopefully take to heart. And while you may feel tired, you are glowing!

[@NotPrincessElise]

Your story was so cute! I love how you can interpret the story in the mythical way that its told but also evaluate that the fox represents our childhood pleasures and the things we must stay true to, but as we get older we forget, get occupied, or lose the way entirely. But only when you take things slow, you remember who you are, and the pleasures you once enjoyed. Beautiful story Paola.

[@narelleking9040]

I don't know why, but I found myself crying listening to your story. It was truly beautiful and I could picture everything so clearly. You have a very soothing voice to listen too. I hope we can one day see this story in print and I can already imagine the gorgeous illustrations x

[@isabelcrabtree692]

What a sweet story! Continued health to you!!

[@seriouslywhatever1031]

I am really feeling this today. I've been tired my whole life as well. I just want to sleep, nap, lounge, eat and play like a cat all day every day. But life says no unfortunately.

[@sloganhammond]

I can’t wait for you to write a children’s book!! I am captivated by your writing and illustrations

[@rachelgreer5295]

Thank you for this absolutely beautiful story!!!

[@annat.s.3600]

Gosh, you made me shed a few tears with that beautiful story.❤ Wishing you all the rest you need.

[@laurasvoyages]

What a lovely story, Paola. You are indeed a very talented woman. Wishing you all the very best.

[@TheCottageFairy]

I am honored ❤ thank you so much

[@darviecampbell2763]

What a sweet story! It does make one wonder what we've lost along life's twisting turns. Gentle patience comes to mind, which is something that your videos are rich in!

[@nancycarranza7013]

Your story made me cry unexpectedly. I loved it!

[@user-pw7bo3lq1h]

You are speaking to my soul. This blessed me xox

[@sarajmatulich]

Thanks for your beautiful story! I listen to it when I was feeling blue, and it lifted my spirits. I appreciate your gentle way of life, and I am trying to adopt the same mentality. Have a joyous Christmas season, and I look forward to being inspired by your videos.

[@TheCottageFairy]

Thank you so much ☺️ I am honored, sending warm wishes

[@cynthiahamblin-perry5880]

I love the idea of painting on pressed leaves! I collect so many every Autumn because they are so beautiful I can't resist. Take care of yourself.

[@sandralanas9542]

Such beautiful story!!! Gracias Paola!!! ❤

[@sadiaishaq7427]

Your videos are my therapy.

[@booknerd4317]

I made myself a cup of hot chocolate and listened to the story of the girl and the fox. Thank you Paola. You make me feel at peace and remind me it’s okay to be me - a girl who lives in the country with her animals and reads books laying in the grass for hours gazing at the sky listening to the birds. Picking wildflowers and making art. Cooking and taking care of our many animals. In a world that moves so fast this reminded me and was profound when you said you are simply listening to the beat of a different song. Now I take care of my mother who has leukemia and is bed ridden and I know when I’ve filled up the cup I pour from I’m much better equipped to give more and for my loved one’s when I’m in a depleted state. Sending blessings to you and the magical bean sprouting within you.

[@denisehall956]

I loved the story. You should do a story reading often. Your voice is so calming and wonderful to listen to.

[@saradonson9849]

Dear Paola, What a lovely story...it struck a chord with me. You look lovely and blooming. Such a blessed time🐣

[@rimonagale1625]

Your story is beautiful! Hope you feel better soon.

[@elizabethheyenga9277]

Along with everything else you are a spectacular artist. Your child will be so fortunate to grow up in a real natural world in this day and age.

[@jmk1962]

Would love to listen to an audio book of yours. Your voice is so soothing.❤

[@plantsbythemoon9049]

Your child will be so blessed listening to you read stories. That was lovely.

[@irenetorres8848]

this story just revived my childhood joy and inner child's curiosity and laughter

[@LindaKayHolevas]

Your story was beautiful. Thank you so much for trusting us enough to share it with us. I can see it being made into a children’s book, with the cover & pages beautifully illustrated by you. ❤ I would buy many copies.

[@elisasmith1609]

What a very lovely story you wrote💗 It brought tears to my eyes. I don't know how many meanings you embedded in the story but it resonates on many levels and calls one home to ones true self in a truly beautiful way. 💗

[@RaisedConsciousness]

This is such a beautiful story- thank you!❤

[@alexandrareynolds6493]

awe i loved your story, your little boy is going to be so blessed to sit on your knee and listen to your tales.

[@metsahaasi]

Hi Paola, greetings from Finland. When my wife was pregnant with our first child, she was tired literally all the time (and also very cold although the first trimester happened in the summer, she would just feel comfortable with her feet in the sun and the rest in the shade) in hindsight she says that she needed all the rest to be with herself. Having a high need baby around you ALL THE TIME for months is challenging, and my wife likes being by herself alot. Surrender is not defeat. All the best to you and your loved ones!

[@popinfresh]

Your story was beautifully written, and I hope one day when you have time and energy that you do bring it to life as a short film. The part where the old lady reunited with the fox with her apology of losing her way brought tears to my eyes. I often find that life’s distractions and fight for survival in society robs us of our happiness. I’m glad she eventually found her way home.

[@saltybloom6284]

I loved your story, it touched me deeply.

[@judyfrost5785]

I loved your story. You have a wonderful gift.

[@maryryan]

Hello Cottage fairy 🧚‍♀️ I have been your subscriber for quite some time.... I love your solitude.... Tranquility..... Your scenery of forest... Your home life at the cottage ❤.... It's lovely to see you back..... You do bring some peace to my life.... With all that you do... Quietly spoken.... Well spoken... Softly spoken... Sensibly spoken.... Thank you for sharing your life with us 🙏🏻 😊 ❤️ Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦