Boyfriend Disgusted By Girlfriends Behaviour | TDK Podcast #94

[@laurenho3467]

Have this story about a guy, I don't know who he is but here's the story There was this guy on the train that noticed that I had my period. I was standing in front of him and he was sitting down. He stood up and handed me his hoodie and whispered that I stained my shorts, and to use the hoodie to cover. He asked me to sit down but i was too ps that i ran out at the next station. I still have the hoodie till this day, washed of course. But man this guy....

[@Garnishes]

so sweet. 🥲

[@rtrn_1369]

dude’s a walking W

[@jiaahtong]

I died when sherms went “aiya these boys..” 😂😂😂😂

[@lecherhao86]

As new age men, we ought to understand how menstruation works and how to use panty liner/ sanitary pads. It's no longer just mum's Job to teach the daughter about their body. Dad can do just as fine teaching their daughters. Then, PMS is premenstrual syndrome. And men should stop using PMS so conveniently at school and work to explain ladies' moody period of month. Regarding carrying around sanitary pads, men don't have to do so but they don't have to feel shy going to retail stores to get one.

[@kingseiryu929]

It's not difficult. Google teaches everything

[@SpecJack15]

I'm a guy who spent 4 years in a majority-girls CCA and now carry spare pads in my bag whenever I go out. You never know when you'll need one. And pads can be used to soak up blood not just from menses, but on a deep gash as well.

[@xxuenii]

Ehhh i think you just trying to wait for the perfect moment to "save" a girl who needed it. But seriously, if a guy offer me a pad when Im caught staining, I. Will. Freak. The. F. Out. .. even more than me freaking out tt i stained my pants 😑 As for deep gash or something.. please just carry gauze next time 😑 i want a material to stop my blood, not soak up my blood 🥶

[@desrexius]

JOHN PAUL IS SO HYPED THIS EPISODE. I do miss his bodohness hahaha. Welcome back!

[@funwithrandom360]

Indeed! He is THE BEST

[@xxuenii]

Think cause boss not around lol

[@vivienkoh8708]

Some girls don't like wings because where it wraps around, the plastic can be irritating/itchy/chaff. I was surprised that some people were taught to flush pads down the toilet. But tampons can be flushed down the toilet, which is great.

[@dailup]

"A woman's period is like once a month, her body accidentally hits caps lock on her emotions."

[@Dee-nv8ye]

I’m from New Zealand and you guys were right! Students in school get free Pads and tampons and most companies/workplaces including my own here have free pad/tampon vending machines inside the bathrooms

[@markshippo]

Any bodily fluids be it blood, snog, pee, shit mucus, saliva or pus should not be left on another’s person’s property. Period. Pun unintended.

[@rowenasim1956]

There are period underwear if she didn’t want to wear pads or tampons.

[@bayernjames9546]

I was telling my female friend the other day how we guys aren't really that aware of all these things. Good that the podcast spoke about something like this.

[@zukamofukitoji2455]

Interesting episode! Would be nice if there is a topic about irregularities in period and PCOS/Potential infertility. I am an unfortunate female whom is suffering from PCOS and there is once where I didnt have menses for prolonged period of time. As much as some may find it a blessing in disguise, but it was truly painful as I suffer the multiple side effects from hormonal imbalance which absolutely wrecked my self-esteem (acne, weight, oily hair)

[@felixisaac]

I think the main reason in co-Ed schools that there is a secrecy between girls and guys on periods is the way how sex education is taught to children in primary and secondary schools. From what I can recall they separate the guys and girls whenever they go through sex education. So guys like myself never really know 100% how periods work and how we can help and understand the girls better.

[@wdymimsad4987]

this ep is so wholesome omg

[@blue_red_unicorn5913]

Really nice to see TDK talking and normalizing talking about periods. If you really wanna learn more you can check out Mama Doctor Jones on KZbin. She is a gynaecologist and I swear I learnt more from there then I ever did from any older female or peers. We need more of such education. 🙌

[@Joannemackers]

One thing we have to do is regular ultrasound at the very least, it's something you can do for yourself. Every year your body can change alot! I used to not have any pain but now the cramps are really bad. Cyst are very common and can lead to problems. When I was younger the gynecologist always said my period is irregular due to my weight once I had a heavy period that lasted a month and it'll skip for a few months - apparently everything was linked to my weight 88kg/160cm at my heaviest. So far I'm at about 77kg and my cramping is really bad previous blood test was a little low on iron. KK gave me hormones medication that messed me up reaaaaaal bad (mood swing and depressed). Tbh I believe as long as your ultrasound is clear and you're fit, irregular periods isn't a very big issue. So get yourself checked every year!! Go to polyclinic/GP and ask for a referral if you need to, it's cheaper than walking into ultrasound clinic.

[@shensterng]

❤❤❤ wholesome discussion and everyone is so sincere and cute and unabashed. Felt so liberated just listening to this episode. No more taboos. GREAT WORK ❤❤❤

[@ysh8]

Totally agree with how people always treat menses as a taboo topic 🙄

[@alau672]

Jon’s laughter when Dan says he does not have period

[@mittysealie]

The number of guys I know who thought that the wings on the pad stick to the body instead of the underwear is more than you will ever imagine. Also a funny period story, I was shitting once and my cup was kinda loose (this was when I just started using it, never put it in properly). I pushed my shit out a little too hard and my cup popped out of the canal. I now joke that I gave birth to my period cup.

[@meekayluh]

THE WAY I LAUGHED AT THIS HAHAHAHAHA

[@anniekoh3573]

Good job guys! These are exactly things in people’s mind but no one talks and ask about it. I am sure many is able to resonate. Time has changed and let’s open up to better understand one another in every ways.

[@ssa7882]

Really enjoyed the discussion! As seen in the video it highlights the fact that there is quite a lot of things ppl are unaware of regarding female health. I was just diagnosed with endometriosis (stage 4) last month and had a laparoscopy done. It hit me out of nowhere as my menses had always been "normal" so I only started reading more into it after my diagnosis (never heard of endo before this). Hope you guys can cover on it so more girls can get themselves checked.

[@ashleyyee2746]

Love the podcast guys!! I look forward to it every week :))

[@cleffa3000]

eh? I was also in co-ed school. During Secondary School, only girls were invited to school hall and there would be people talking about menses and showing how to use it. I was even given w brand pad. Also, i dont really think guys need to carry a pad since i think ladies would know usually when their menses will come ? I mean at most always bring one for standby cause you donnoe when you need it or others who also need it right ? Think about it, at the end of the days, if it really leaks to the clothes, we are the ones that ended up being embarrass ☹. Oh, also regards to pills, yes it could prevent menses but... really not healthy. I also heard stories that that after stop taking the pills, your menses cramp for that month was bad. Lastly for guys, if your have gf, I think your gf just want your understanding during menses. Cause I do heard stories of menses cramp that is so bad, they need to go to hospital for painkiller. And symptoms varies for different woman. HAHAHAHA, maybe your can try period pain simulator to see what woman need to go through every month 🤣🤣🤣

[@lululu5799]

the only way to completely not have periods is to get a hysterectomy (removal of uterus). but there are side effects to it like early menopause, dryness down there etc. But it's great if you're not considering kids in your life and if you suffer from other things like anemia from heavy flow periods. Another way is also IUD. Usually first few months really heavy bleeding - but after that barely anything at all, but IUDs can be very uncomfy and achy. Abnormally heavy flows and cramps so painful that you get bedridden are not normal! Try to see a doctor and get an ultrasound scan done or other forms of checkup if you can. If your doctor dismisses your claims as "something normal", change to another doctor. I recommend going to the polyclinic to see a doc first then get a referral from there if you are not keen on spending alot of $$ for private.

[@flamethrower1390]

U guys are sooooooooo adorable!! Keep up the good work!

[@theniecextn]

Loved this episode! Menstral cups changed my life too! Haven't used pads ever since I started using them :)

[@alui5362]

yay welcome back JP. eh, I think don't be shy about it, but find it quite ridiculous for people to talk about it like its something to be excited to talk about? we naturally find it dirty because we associate discharges from our private parts as dirty/unhygienic - perfectly normal to think so, and we shouldn't gaslight each other/mindfuck ourselves into thinking that it isn't, or that it's something fun to talk about. in short - on one hand, it doesn't need to bring shame or taboo, but on the other, just clean it up and move on lah. like if you have a runny nose, just go blow your nose/clean up and not make a big deal about it. same concept applies.

[@totototottake9769]

Can you guys talk about the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard issue😃

[@angiemf9033]

JP is back👏 but where is Jonathan????

[@angiemf9033]

I agree with JP. Ladies, pls carry your own sanitary towels.

[@kenchongks]

After a hysterectomy, a woman can no longer have children and menstruation stops. The ovaries generally continue to produce hormones, although in some cases they may have reduced activity. Some hysterectomies also include removal of the ovaries, so the supply of essential female hormones is greatly reduced.

[@GGTBoss]

Use menstrual cups then! It’s much more hygienic then bleeding into the bed or sofas

[@shufangina]

John Paul this episode quite funny with all the one-liners

[@jarrenleow]

JP really got baited into asking for marriage advice from the Initial D guy lmao

[@zooanimal7578]

AHAHAHHA THE BTS DOG ONE WTF I DIDN'T KNOW

[@JuzNicky]

27:30 plus point ? Stories isn't mine... I do it occasionally for team members during shifts at a curtain water park. During break time I would go grab one at a 7-11 in the underground city. it was swopping spots with her or watching the area turn red so... its at the big play ground with the big bucket sometimes just be nice. it makes working together vibe better. and I don't mean by that " mr nice guy " shit or a simp thing. the ladies will return the favor. I do ice their bottles too ! Shout out to those team members ! fun times...

[@abcabc-bu9wn]

30:26 real man speaking the truth

[@leejess8066]

Free bleeding? SERIOUSLY UNHYGIENIC!

[@poppymusic1760]

Why was the thumbnail which showcased pants stained from menses blood changed to the current thumbnail?

[@QQ-ql7vs]

What a great episode

[@libraries144]

1st week, PMS, 2nd week Period, 3rd week OVULATION 4th week back to PMS

[@Danzo_Dattori]

what if the post of the "undeniable iron smell" is to mask up another case of heavy bleeding that has taken place 😶

[@ammo_conscious]

Hi, question from a guy🙋‍♂ here: During your periods, what are some of the common comfort food, drinks or things that we can prep so that it can help tide through the crampy shitty period? I only know of hot chocolate or warm drinks, no cold stuff and something warm and fuzzy to hug. Thanks in advance!

[@constanzzcheng5377]

Hot ginger tea with a bit of sugar helps me! Just boil old ginger with water. Filter out the ginger and add half a teaspoon of sugar. I hate ginger tea but I have to drink it. It helps with the cramps. Before period, having proper sleep, eating enough fruits and vegetables, exercise (yoga) also helps reduce cramps to a certain degree! Overall, taking care of our body in every small step is essential

[@constanzzcheng5377]

Hot ginger tea with a bit of sugar helps me! Just boil old ginger with water. Filter out the ginger and add half a teaspoon of sugar. I hate ginger tea but I have to drink it. It helps with the cramps. Before period, having proper sleep, eating enough fruits and vegetables, exercise (yoga) also helps reduce cramps to a certain degree! Overall, taking care of our body in every small step is essential

[@kazami5699]

It is normal for ladies to have periods and it is very understandable .

[@eeivriell]

I think buying pads is easier than buying condoms/lubes from the shops haha There'd been many times where my female friends would be embarrassed that they're carrying pads in their bags and I never made a big deal out of it since it can't be helped, it's something natural. I understand how they can be shy about it but I feel like they shouldn't. But then again, as a guy, it's easier to say it la.

[@passawayla1740]

Shouldn’t have listened to this while eating spaghetti

[@xiiaowanable]

I love the idea of M cup too! Save a lot of money in long run! But I did gave birth before I started wearing M cup, so not sure if it does help with M cramps. Really like to hear ideas of other girls who had serious crumps before but had none after that. Fun Fact: Women can still have period cramps after birth. Mine did and 1 time so painful that I almost crawling to nearest doctor to get a inject of painkillers. After that I learnt that it was caused by the bacteria in the pad which caused cramps and worn ionised pads. Then when M cup started to get common in US I got 1 to try. Happy Ending for me!

[@Fadingfader]

if there's mucus coming up from my nostrils, does that mean I don't clean it up?????????? its natural what... (sarcasm obviously) real talk..very grateful to the men who try their best to be extremely understanding and ok with girls staining or cramping or pmsing during their period. because some girls can take it to the next level for instance that girl that demanded to having her period stain everywhere. that's nuts.

[@Whiteroca]

Where's JOHN?

[@teomengyew]

genting based on his insta

[@leesiyin]

Men should not be ashame to help their female partners to buy pads...Period is a natural thing for all women...I helped my gf to carry around when we go shopping and she asked me: am I ok to hold? I was like why not? It's not like I m carrying drugs or something illegal what...I think male should know all these period information to help and ease their female partner's struggle BUT in this case, the girl who bled and causes blood stain here and there is not being respectful to his place...

[@mobilenotherwise5000]

The blood attracts flies and makes foul smells after. They should clean it up tbh, it makes the living space really stinky period or not.

[@chengshengway]

22:43 Female - Pre-Menstrual Syndrome Male - Irritable Men Syndrome

[@pearlynlo8095]

Movie “Desert Flower” true story abt a Somali woman turned model ,Waris Dirie, her vagina was sewn up when she was 5. (Practise of the nomads.)Go check it out.

[@pearlynlo8095]

Lol… 🤣 Yes! Period shit is real. Like having monthly diarrhoea. 😵‍💫

[@angiemf9033]

Mine was 4 seasons..in other words I have my mensus 4 times yearly. The chinese herb ‘pa chern’ helps with cramps. As soon as mensus ends, brew it & drink it on a weekly basis.

[@chiajeslyn446]

can share more. Picture or Chinese character. My friend got bad cramps every time.

[@angiemf9033]

The sales Asst at Hock Hua medical hall will be able to assist you if you say “Pa Chern”. It comes in a rectangular plastic container. Hope this helps. My apologies…don’t know how to write in Chinese characters:(

[@vhalia]

JP….”you do you”….Wah ha ha ha

[@hw985a]

The UK "tampon tax" was actually caused by EU rules on VAT, all products have to be taxed a minimum of 15%, but a small number of products can have a reduced rate of 5% which was what pads and tampons were taxed. After Brexit the tax was abolished because they no longer had to abide by the EU rule, but plenty of EU countries still charge 5% or even >15% tax on tampons and pads. Nowadays in the UK pads are available for free in all state schools, and I think all government buildings.

[@rahmanjamalsson]

hey nice t shirt aaa shermane ☺️

[@frostbitepokin9520]

Jon Paul the biggest joker ever 😂😂

[@friedsotonghead1732]

wheres the resolution bro

[@xxuenii]

I always thought the without wings was for girls who still wears very short shorts or skirt without safety pants during their period and didnt like their pad to be seen

[@samesamebutnotsame1172]

I having mense while watching this on same day

[@wenxuanify]

I've ever had such a big and hard poo, my period cup came out halfway :)

[@minzzles]

menstrual blood is the only blood in this world that is not spilled by violence or illness. let that sink in

[@kingseiryu929]

What about blood donation drives

[@minzzles]

@@kingseiryu929 blood donation is voluntary, I'm talking blood that is spilled involuntarily

[@gilchong9083]

probably should have brought in examples & demonstrate (panty and sanitary pad/liner) to show the boys..they seemed genuinely confused..😅

[@g.o.a.t4393]

the girl in black got a sweet voice

[@jerminho]

Don't the Abrahamic religions see menstruating women as unclean?

[@cherriemay528]

If only guys will understand such situations 😂

[@ivanhere6292]

a real pirate sail the red sea

[@gcsy14]

I’m curious about men, like what JP joked about peeing when he sneezes ahhah..does that really happen ??😅

[@hayheyk]

Bleeds all over!!!…..it’s a freakin spot lol It’s not like we’re leaking gallons of blood jfc

[@planetplum]

YALL CHANGE THUMBNAIL HAGA

[@Mistersuaku]

DENISE RECOMMEND UR CUP!!

[@benwong2061]

algooooooooooo

[@Ben-kh2rh]

Algooo

[@thestaringenclave]

i don't agree with the way you guys gaslight others who think menstrual discharge is gross. What's wrong with feeling that it is gross? It is afterall a discharge from the genital, like how urine is gross too. Even more so, this is blood. There are diseases that can be transmitted through blood etc. So i don't see why people cannot feel gross about menstrual discharge.

[@thisgrace9834]

“People” meaning just immature men who have no knowledge of what it means to menstruate? also immature men who use “gaslight” without understanding its exact definition. women’s bodies are programmed to hold babies that women are forced to go through this every month if they don’t finally get pregnant. it’s a natural process, not any dirtier than you bleeding from a cut on your arm. period blood isn’t made of toxins or bodily waste, so there’s nothing gross about it.

[@matt9445]

Whooppp first! I’m too free

[@toufjs]

nice recycle bin mug. drinking trash recycled water #savetheearth

[@notmelah]

Weh...dinner time....

[@Ben-kh2rh]

Algoooo

[@boredafff]

first

[@jaylenehong]

It is called sanitary pad because it is sanitary. 🫥🫥

[@chanelcoco]

period sex is awesome, real men know