Struggles of Getting Married at 24

[@TheDownBadShow]

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[@erikascencen]

Shouldve called her out for domestic abuse

[@sungyeeyildirim1727]

Nnbbi lip pop JJ mmmkjjjkmmkkllkkoonjjjr

[@RoseBud24]

Michelle’s confidence is EVERYTHING like the way she’s just like “yeah” “I did” like love her

[@GinaCarden]

I really like her conviction and how she demands respect. She has standards for how she wants to live life and be treated, and doesn’t compromise on them. Especially now knowing her and Andy were so close for several months and the type of charming (but maybe immature) man he was, but she didn’t compromise or get swept away. It’s difficult what they both went through to achieve the quality of the relationship they have and it’s quite inspiring

[@karsam7751]

The way she look at him and the way he explain why she is the one . You know they are in such wholesome and beautiful relationship

[@joansbeef4035]

Ngl too early to tell

[@karsam7751]

@@joansbeef4035 you have beef in your name? Damn . Are you from 🇻🇳?

[@VinoDeRio]

Honestly I envy how strong they are as a couple. I was smiling and laughing through the whole thing! Andy's trust is incredible to see and Michelle seems very easy going and open. I hope to find and build a relationship like this one day. I'm 28 atm and comparing my past relation to theirs I can see the diff in maturity and hardships they went through to get to the place where they are now.

[@joansbeef4035]

We probably need another 5 years to see how this comment ages..

[@VinoDeRio]

@@joansbeef4035 true but we hope they stay married and not get into some scandal. Don't want to wish the worst on anyone

[@qcrctgavarcesxrfab8015]

agree

[@GinaCarden]

@ joansbeef4035 Young marriage like theirs will have to stand through many iterations of evolution, sometimes in a way no one can predict (especially under the spotlight on KZbin). But I see a maturity underneath the youthful demeanour that’s quite rare. Strong values from their upbringing and life experiences plus hard work, determination and trust in each other I think means they’re more than capable of weathering storms together and ultimately knowing what’s important.

[@GinaCarden]

@VinoDeRio Michelle is certainly easygoing and all those things you said, but i also see strength and expectation in the relationship guided by her. I also am inspired to play this out in my own relationship

[@vanessahuang6672]

They’re honestly the only couple that can make me watch an hour’s worth of podcast and not get bored

[@temmieluyahojurongbe2738]

Honestly them and kaed, they so awesome

[@lvrbc]

I said the same thing and quite surprised when I realized it😂 I actually watched 2+ hours with The Nectar gods…interview of Andy and Michelle. 2+ hours!😮😅 Yeah, I did that😅

[@elaineyixuan]

Yes I was about to do some stuff but then I saw this video once I clicked in I can’t stop watching

[@yomamaisgaming]

I love Andy and Michelle. And this podcast does so well to showcase that they really came from small beginnings and hardships. Well deserved

[@erikascencen]

Dude she's literally verbally abusing him every other video and playing it off as "skitz"

[@joansbeef4035]

@@erikascencen yeah might be too early to tell now that if they've both found "the one" for each other... or maybe they've never said that they're for each other and will eventually y'know.

[@phantomsniper1083]

@@erikascencenwell theyre acting.. it literally is a skit

[@erikascencen]

@PhantomSniper108 doesn't seem like an acting to me.Even if it Is she's making abuse against males a joke

[@lollololololololololol8116]

@@erikascencen u should visit some comedy shows to see how ruthless they r to women, males, and different races

[@sunnylotus]

Andy is so good at talking omg and the emotional maturity he has is next level

[@secrated]

We need more interviewers like this man, just let interviewees talk and give them a moment

[@amandamenezes5617]

I noticed that too. One of the best interviewers I’ve seen so far

[@christopherbarros6197]

I really look up to thier relationship. Having 100% trust and being able to be themselves as outgoing people without the other thinking anything other than being friendly. This is definitely a match made in heaven because they are so in tune with each other. I really love it!

[@erikascencen]

Lol she's verbally abusive,controlling and insecure,and trying to play it off as "skits" nothing to look up to

[@lincer4784]

@@erikascencen hater detected

[@Abby-ft1bu]

@@erikascencen Just stick to your bts shit & stop hating on people you know nothing about.

[@taylorkara9764]

@@erikascencen no. You can tell from her reaction and her replies when he is talking. You can tell that she absolutely trusts him and is definitely very secure of herself.

[@halo_582]

Andy is a really good story teller

[@brandonxiongxiongsta636]

Imagine him as a story teller

[@Aussiemz]

They’re just like their shorts 💀

[@jankoskai]

my dog

[@namelessgaming416]

@@jankoskai my cat?

[@pcha091]

My bat?

[@hanad.d.d127]

My rat

[@PixelDonkey-rj2uv]

it’s almost as if like the clips are from the vids 😱

[@buildtkingdom_wat]

There is such a wonderful level of emotional stability and maturity in this young couple that I truly adore. You can just hear it in their story that communication isn’t just talking but listening to understand before being understood. It’s inspiring to see the work you both put in come to fruition. Jimmy, you’re doing such great with the guest and I only wish you more success brother!

[@erikascencen]

Lol yeah her making skits verbally abusing him is sooo mature.

[@buildtkingdom_wat]

@@erikascencen that’s why they are called skits lol. Not gonna lie, I felt the same way when I first watched their skits too🤣

[@erikascencen]

@Build T Kingdom nah man she's literally abusive and playing it off "it's for the skit"

[@anxtrnn]

@@erikascencen seems like you didn’t watch the video at all. obviously you lack the maturity they have😮

[@Cloudnine422]

I feel like andy has won in life by marrying such a good girl such a content decent and fun woman like michelle! He’s lucky tbh

[@don.viitto]

She's lucky to have him

[@torchmilk9793]

@@don.viitto Lmao both of them are lucky

[@saechin20]

Andy loves her so much. It’s so beautiful to listen to how he explains love. It’s the same way I perceive love when I try to explain it to someone.

[@jaymeered7063]

you can tell Andy is still shy talking about how they met, exactly how he felt when he first saw Michelle. And you can tell by the way Michelle just stare are Andy while talking that she loves him. ASDFGhJKL this couple!

[@hungrymothergoose]

This is probably the only podcast that I listened to for over an hour long without losing interest...good content, humour, questions, overal good vibe. Great job!

[@Lesgotravel]

I have literally never looked up to a couple on the internet but man their values and their emotional maturity is on another level and has made it difficult for me to not admire them They’re adorable together💗

[@cuties1238]

My father said to not settle with boys until they turn 27 cause that's the age they slowly gets matured but I really respect Andy ready to settle at such a young age I really love their relationship

[@Just999Me]

Your father is a smart man -- i would listen. Most people (men & women) don't mature mentally and/or emotionally until 25 at least but late 20s is more accurate. of course there are exceptions to this. Andy and Michelle, are great examples of this. But you also have to follow your gut and natural instincts when you do find someone. ensure they follow your boundaries, bring out the best in you, appreciate what you do and the relationship overall doesn't change you for worse.

[@Hamyhamster24]

Nowadays, guys at 27 isn’t that mature either lol

[@Oak7565]

I met a guy who never dated when I was 24 and he was 27. We broke up a year later. 😢it wasn't meant to be - he thought making all the money he can possibly make by overtime to the max would get him to a more comfortable lifestyle later and even going out on dates was a struggle. He may seem mature with money but to the point where it's immature when you have a significant other. Then he dumped me when things got hard and his depression manifested.

[@liasisboa]

I would say this holds for women, also. Brain development in both genders is complete only in the mid twenties. But aside from strictly physical reasons, in today’s world adequate life experience/personality formation usually doesn’t occur until the later twenties.

[@captureholic]

I would say mid 30s is when they mature lol

[@warisjournal]

I love how they ask each other ‘’can i share’’ it literally couples goal , ask for permission 😊😊😊

[@Just1HotPringles]

Love how open, vulnerable and comfortable they are on sharing the intimate details of their storyline. And Andy seems so mature in his thoughts and values, which is a WIN for a lady! To get a grown up mature man!

[@idkwho1195]

Andy just sets the bar for the saying “if he wants to, he would.” 😌

[@Blade_Hell]

30:00 i love this part how they took a break and try to find their own worth in themselves and not just try to please the other and not care about yourself.

[@itsolivia8242]

And that’s why Andy’s married lol. Andy and Michelle should do more of these videos. I love listening to them.

[@seiko3565]

love these two and their humor, such a beautiful relationship

[@erikascencen]

Verbal abuse of males isn't comedy.Get help you're not right in the head

[@seiko3565]

@@erikascencen what are you saying? LMAO you got issues

[@Alien142011]

I loved hearing them on this podcast. They are so real and comfortable with one another. Bringing back the hope and faith in healthy relationships!

[@seandaman6509]

Its true what he said about bouncing around and settling with the one you connect the most. I felt that with my Wife. He literally spit all what was in my head going into the relationship. Theres never gonna be a perfect partner but you could work together toward a perfect compromise.

[@Warumnichtheute0]

This interview was great. Just a honest healthy relationship. Love you both. I found myself and our relationship in this interview and I asked my husband a few times how was it when we met, cause we are together since 21 years haha. 😅🎉I hope you stay together for a long time as happy as you are now.... It's great so see love so real💕all the best for you

[@triplerstudios6108]

27:17 love that he reassures her that’s what a secured relationship looks like ❤

[@Sonalsharma2016]

So true!

[@youssefbenazzouz9797]

Jimmy is so good at letting people talk i love the podcast ! keep it up man

[@GucciPow]

"She looked like a normal girl. There's something about that." - take notes fellas. Don't be too fixated on your ideal type of a woman and the exterior (tho it matters too). Modesty goes a longs ways.

[@GuamPhotographer]

id been watching this couple for a bit now, and they’re such a cute & wholesome couple & his outlook that there’s always gonna be something better around the corner, but the little things that is common between them is much more valuable in their relationship, that view is very refreshing.

[@TheGLOSSette]

I think this is amazing that someone can come into the life of an f-boy and through personality and compatibility change his perspective on dating/relationship/marriage. From what I've seen, f-boys stay that way for a long time till they feel "old" enough to settle. And some don't even settle. I feel with the fighting it does generally hit hard around 2 years and so why most relationships end around that time. And if you get through it then it'll make ur relationship stronger. Happened to my and my husband. For us, we are both Christians and that helped us get through it And then around 2.75 years we got engaged and then got married 8 months after that

[@soji404]

i’ve actually met her before and it was so cool to see them super happy

[@erikascencen]

Is she as abusive and insecure irl?

[@rihannarae6480]

@@erikascencen no i have actually met her too she was very nice

[@aimanrizal97]

@@erikascencen you seem to have a vendetta against her. Are you one of their exes per chance?

[@MahiAhie]

@@erikascencen Did you watch the the video…? They literally mentioned how the toxicity is only in the skits

[@khadijahjohari6180]

@@MahiAhie that person you replied to seems to have hate against michelle in every comment's replies ive seen 😭

[@sknk1823]

They both have crazy characters together. Must be so fun living in the same roof. They may have some cringe tiktok vids but they are fun cringe. Like the cringe is so good to fathom. It saved me once in my lowest. I had fun watching this. Still rooting to my jimmy boy also. Great show man.

[@strawberi690]

I'm here very invested on the whole convo and then a skin care routine made me go like NOOOO JWSJSKSOOSWJWB 😭😭😭

[@OcaOca]

What a great couple, they deserve all the success they are getting right now

[@iTiM50]

I literally went through what Andy is describing in the past year and real relationships take a good amount of work but is so worth it if you can work it out

[@amansidhu7989]

This was helllla insightful. Thank you for taking the time to make this episode.

[@user-fc6yp1xq1i]

Michelle, it is so admirable and inspirational that you were/are an innocent woman in this day and age. And look at you winning now. There’s something really beautiful about “waiting” for the special moment.

[@Courtannica]

It's not unusual. Men should also strive to be that way as well

[@deedee0824]

Watched two of their videos on FB and came across this video. I love their whole relationship and how open they are with one another. They knew earlier on that they were willing to work for things and had the emotional intelligence to work through their problems and came up with resolutions on solving it, rather than just arguing and becoming those toxic couples who end up hurting one another and staying in fear of being alone. Glad I came across their videos. Needed this video haha timing is great And also, GMU! Love it! 😊

[@TonyFordDotNet]

Hey Andy and Michelle, just finished watching your video about the struggles of getting married at 24, and man, that was solid! 😂 First off, hats off to both of you for tackling the wild ride that is relationships. The way you guys handle life together is impressive. I couldn’t help but laugh at the part where Andy was sweating it out during the three-month waiting period. Classic move! It's like a test of willpower that few can handle. Kudos for not cracking under pressure, my dude! But two minutes? Come on, man! 🤣 And Michelle, I love your perspective on the whole 'holding out' thing. You really know how to make a guy work for it! It’s more suspenseful than any action movie out there. I can only imagine the internal panic Andy was going through: "Don’t mess this up, don’t blink, don’t trip on your own feet." 🤦‍♂ Your patience truly paid off, and it’s clear the chemistry is off the charts now, even if it began with some rookie mistakes. The discussions about trust and communication really hit home. That’s the bedrock of any solid relationship. It’s all about having that open dialogue so you're both on the same page. It’s great to see how you both navigate through challenges with respect and humor-takes a real team effort. You’re both living proof that when it comes to love, you can have fun and still be serious about getting it right. And let’s be honest, keeping the fire alive with intimacy is crucial. It’s not just about the physical stuff; it’s also about having each other’s backs and building that bond day in and day out. So here’s to both of you: may your adventures continue to be filled with laughter and challenges that only strengthen that bond. You guys are setting some serious relationship goals! And Andy, time to step up your game-two minutes needs to be revised; it’s about endurance, my man! 😂 Keep it real, you two. Looking forward to your next hilarious episode!

[@Princess-di2zx]

And let me have another comment. I love Michelle! She is like cool, pretty, and hot at the same time. She is like strict and hard appropriately, and she is naughty when she is with her husband only. THAT IS VERY RESPECTABLE.

[@once4all125]

For someone who didn't pass English, Andy is a good at storytelling/speaking

[@felixsfreckles8925]

I actually learned so much more in this video than my college classes

[@becomingtawana8253]

I like the Honesty. I found this couple last month and have been watching them since. Love their relationship bc it’s real, honest, relatable and you can see the love they share. Throwing in the funny stuff makes it even better. ❤ Thanks for Sharing

[@snowball6677]

Sh!!!!!t she's only a year older than me only and she's already all set with the love of her life while I'm still here struggling... Smh...

[@rosariolarion9319]

Andy and Michelle’s chemistry is at par. This is hilarious 🎉love this podcasting ❤.

[@lloydn6095]

Love this couple! As a man, so much respect for Andy. That is just pure maturity at such a young age. Respect brother!

[@loloioi]

Andy spittin fire about the right fit part @26:42 mark and onwards. There's def always someone going to be better but the right person is what matters the most.

[@ukrose]

Facts. There's always a bigger dick or bigger wallet, just gotta find the guy with the biggest heart ❤

[@lizzybuhay2919]

i hope they stay good to each other and their relationships last forever, Amen🥰

[@modernbassheads5051]

Watching them interact makes me wish my relationship was like this, my girl is not the type to say sweet affectionate shit to me and I’ve had this talk with her multiple times she just can’t change

[@AiBkomachi]

Is there any other way she shows you her affection? Some people might not say it but show it instead.

[@JeLLoH1000]

The communication and honesty is so it with the both of them. Love it

[@TubeDeviant]

Such a wholesome (but probably sanitized story) about love.. Compared to the toxic, passive aggressive or downright hostile garbage that happens out there on the dating scene..

[@berniezhong]

This is so funny LMFAO, I feel like things like this aren’t talked about enough tbh. Love the video

[@ohtouko8352]

such a good episode love the energy between you all

[@n_Y_c__n_Y_c]

When she's all around GOOD and a plus her kitty kat is top notch SHES A KEEPER 💯👍

[@bigballer4594]

These r the types of guests we love to see

[@amybarthwick4975]

Yo. This turned out to be your typical Bad-boy-falls-for-good-girl trope! Loved every bit!😍

[@yngtadpole]

I love their content- this 1.5 hour video was filled with so much comedy 🤣 I laughed so much. I got to know them so much more too!

[@thefamilycat86]

This is a very wholesome podcast! I really enjoyed the conversation between Jimmy, Michelle and Andy. So many points which I can apply to my relationship to work on.

[@cwang3388]

This is actually really great. Good couple with solid advice. Love Andy and Michelle !

[@nobu368]

first podcast ive ever fully watched and it was awesome. Loved seeing andy and michelle and I love jimmy. Hes hilarious

[@xuimod]

Man this interviewer is really good. He asks such good, probing questions.

[@Xarthius2021]

Wow. Good job Jimmy. This couple took me by surprise by how they met and how they were able to proceed together as a married couple. 😊😊😊

[@MelsLife163]

Wow they story is beautiful!! And the way he said he doesn't want her to be on birth control 🥹More guys need to be like Andy .

[@nicholasroberts4043]

I love how she let's you talk. She isn't timid so her letting you talk and staying quiet while you gather your thoughts has everything to do with respect and not shyness. You're stoked dude!

[@sheisstrongpodcast]

they are so cute tho, this is one couple i love following on tiktok, love their honesty its very much needed for us in this generation nice to see a young couple doing marriage well

[@valeriefry6380]

You seem to be more concerned about getting someone pregnant than sexual transmitted diseases. Some are undetected initially, for example vaginal herpes, the wart virus, chlamydia etc. Some younger people watching your show may think that unprotected sex is safe or the withdrawal method will prevent pregnancy. This could be a vital topic of conversation after much research. From a concerned and open-minded Grandmother with 5 strapping grandsons & 1 granddaughter. Keep safe and well. I'm finding your show very amusing and interesting, curiouser & curiuoser. PS one of my daughters was a condom baby! Oops it broke! Love her to bits she is a blessing. Have a Great 🤶 Christmas, from the land Down Under.

[@dustf1nger118]

20:25 "I was laughing but dying inside" Bro, we felt that one.

[@LeBeautiful]

Infectious episode, this is going to be great!

[@wy5335]

It was never 50-50, it was always 100-100. ❤

[@roseofsharon8427]

Urologist for guys, gynecologist for ladies. Lol If you work in Healthcare, you're cleaning shit, vomiting , blood, and whatever bodily fluids people are putting out.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. It's all part of the job. This podcast is really good. I'm watching it instead of doing my damn paperwork. Thanks guys, this is entertaining 😄 😁🤗

[@poochieming928]

Urologist is not just for men!

[@roseofsharon8427]

@@poochieming928 aware. Thanks

[@cressi9362]

Oh my...I freaking love them.... They're so fun n honest!....JUST KNOW THT I'LL ALWAYS BE SUPPORTING YOU...I LOVE U BOTH SO MUCH!!❤

[@travinatolbert5905]

Michelle is just so gorgeous!! I already knew I loved her but seeing a little more into her personality here is awesome..

[@K0isu]

My favorite couple on here. They're so cute together. Love yall Andy and Michelle

[@aaronrefugio6461]

22:05 I had to pause cause I was dying from Jimmy’s reaction

[@bettsboo]

I feel men of all ages should listen to this chat 🎉

[@ButacuPpucatuB]

So lovely to hear how they met and fell in love 🧡🧡🧡 Also it was great to hear how they approach their channel and content. Thank you so much it was a wonderful conversation 🧡🥰🧡🥰

[@DangerGes-ic5oz]

I like how they also talk about their background and build from that❤

[@LaprimKane]

Oh shit, my favorite content creators on the same podcast... Thank you so so much! Absolute purest of content!

[@bchang227]

Andy kinda reminds me of Kang Hanuel. A buffer version of HaNuel. 😆 It happens to everyone. When you meet THE PERSON, you'll do whatever it takes to win her over. Even if it means waiting on sex. When we only dated ppl we think are our "types" and we meet someone who is completely different. 🥰 It happened to me, too. Best wishes to them both.

[@unscriptedmess]

wow! this is the first podcast I listened to and just didn't get bored! I love this couple, they are so insightful about one another! I'd love to be friends with Michelle! I love how chill she is. so so so mature!

[@gloriaquinker6638]

1hour and 30 mins yet I didn't skip a bit for the first time . Raw and fun 😅👍

[@RachelmumHar98]

Carers 'care' for people. This means cleaning ALL areas. If you could not help a person in this way, please respect those who do this job, at very low pay, every day. ❤

[@niajef]

"struggles of getting married at 24" 1 min in the video, "i was 22, he was 25" not one of them was 24 🤣

[@xiaobao4757]

Happily married for 20 years, still haven't had a wedding ceremony. No regrets. Don't break the bank when you do it, just have a fun party for family and close friends.

[@echo-ul8lt]

I'm a kid but I wanna get married one day and hearing about people like you who stay married for over 20 years without any regrets that's really what motivates me to find a good person to spend my life with thank you

[@ang4390]

It’s crazy to know that they grew up where I grew up and that we even went to the same college 😮

[@ma.melinegarcia5639]

Jimmy bring them back again..I love this couple..Their so much fun

[@jerryclleung]

Ppl fall into routines and stop trying, that’s the #1 reason why ppl separate or cheat…

[@jellyzluv]

i love them a lot

[@neaonsynth]

Thanks for having Andy and Michelle on the show! I loved it.

[@neaonsynth]

My only suggestion is to think of using some audio compression because the voices were quiet and I turned up the stereo to hear them, then everyone would laugh and it broke my ears and windows ;p

[@JangBu78]

This is the first podcast I've ever watched. Didn't disappoint XD

[@MarciaW.]

Ok tbh he is like an instant crush for me lol, he has all these great qualities I have always wanted in a guy, so yeah I just wish I was her lol. They seem to have a really great marriage! Hope u get ur basketball team!

[@briibird]

I got married at 19 to my husband and have been together in total for 7 years. Honestly we were lucky to find each other quickly in life and have managed to mature together which made our bond more stronger. I say it’s total luck imo

[@JAMoore-zz3ki]

Such a real conversation. I love it.

[@iwannajustinhan]

the part when he said the song dont ---- i was like omgg-

[@melquin4852]

This is so cute. This kind of relationship nowadays is rare.

[@animesongsluv]

Glasses are underrated, they're so cute and make people look smart :3

[@jewelines6738]

Jimmy is learning, and at the same time he looks like jealous but at the same time he wants to enjoy his (maybe) single life lol

[@pearlvang5689]

Andy and Michelle are like literally the bestest couple I’ve ever seen on all social medias!