Every Aromantic Spectrum Identity in 16 Minutes

[@zezeyoyo-oo9br]

As an aromantic person who feels ZERO romantic attraction, I LOVE romance. I think couples are cute, I love to see people being happy and in love but I would never in a million years ever want to be in a relationship of my own.

[@ostyne5523]

Same here, I guess!😐

[@cherryb893]

​@@ostyne5523That's a wonderful attitude. I know a few aromantic people who make it firmly known that romance isn't their thing. Which isn't very polite. I really appreciate your attitude, both of you. ❤

[@LolmixYT]

same aaaaaaaaa i think its cute but i would absolutely never get into a relationship lol!! i think its called “bellusromantic”

[@itsnotrememc3236]

That's literally me but I make excuses

[@FlickerTheGoofyGoober]

Yuhs, it's freaking ADORABLE but for me? Nah nope, noooo thanks

[@beeshark222]

Slight correction: Cupioromantic can want to fall in love, they just can’t

[@Daughter_of_Hecatee]

I was abt to write it,bc I was super happy that someone knows what cupioromantic is and the I was like: WHAT

[@beeshark222]

@ Nice user!

[@AspynAeraki]

👌👍 I wish there was some explanation of concepts like queer platonic relationships beforehand.

[@LannyLeArtist]

Thats honestly kind of sad

[@banana_syrup]

@@LannyLeArtist i hate my heart :3

[@457R4L_xX]

I LOVE THE AROMANTIC STICKFIGURES AND THE ICONS IN THIS VIDEO BRUHH THEIR DESIGNS ARE SO CUTEEE

[@457R4L_xX]

Aw man the stickfigures stop appearing after cupioromantic :(

[@thebluehairbrush]

FRRRR I LOVE THEMMM

[@thebluehairbrush]

​@@457R4L_xX :c

[@neoqzz]

0:46 THANK YOU for mentioning that aro people can still date, as an aro person myself im in a relationship even though i feel little romantic attraction

[@thaloblue]

What is that like? Are you happy? What keeps you interested? Does intimacy overwhelm you at all?

[@neoqzz]

@thaloblue woah I didn't expect anyone to ask me about this, but answering your questions: I'm the happiest I've ever been, honestly. We are long distance though, so I've never got a chance to be intimate with them (yet), but I don't think it would overwhelm me. I think I might be demi, because I noticed I developed some romantic feelings after forming a deep emotional bond

[@OldSoulYoungMind]

I’m think I’m aromantic, and whenever I like someone, it’s not in a romantic way, I just look at them and I’m like “man, I want to be friends with them”

[@OGCalicant]

@@OldSoulYoungMindI think that’s called being friendly haha. Pretty sure that’s normal

[@OldSoulYoungMind]

@@OGCalicant oh, thanks 👍😂

[@W8LLOW]

6:45 I’ve Heard that for cupioromatics that it’s absolutely horrible. Some people REALLY really want to be in a relationship but it’s just not possible because for somereason you just don’t feel it :(

[@its.sugarberry]

As aroflux (that has to do with with cupioromantic), it was absolutely suck 😔

[@ABird_Person]

Yeah, as a cupioromantic myself I do not enjoy being cupioromantic. I want a romantic relationship, I want to experience romantic attraction but, like you said, don't have the feelings for it. I still want the companionship and affection and overall just a person to spend my life with but our relationship would be different than most because I can't feel romantic attraction. It's not that I don't want to feel romantic attraction but that I physically can't. I want and plan on being in a romantic relationship someday, but it's not a necessity like it is for some people. Feel free to ask me any questions. Also, sorry for the essay :P

[@CowboyMillie]

As a cupioromantic it really sucks. I want to be able to fall in love with someone but I just…. Can’t 🫠🫠

[@-LiZz_Rd-]

@CowboyMillie Same...

[@OceanGlow-jv8kj]

I am may or may not be cupioromantic (I'm certainly quoiromantic), but a lot of hesitance for me is that I'm very much content (now) with the idea of never feeling romantic attraction. I would be very very happy in a romantic/queer platonic relationship, and the lack of romantic doesn't bother me because I know I'd love the person, just not romantically. Engaging in romance and romantic activities and all of the cheesiest stuff is something I still want. If I am cupioromantic I definetly have it better than most, and while the definition fits like a glove, I feel guilty putting myself in the same group knowing that I'm not suffering from the same anguish that almost everyone there is To all the cupioromantics, yall are beautiful, never forget it ❤

[@LondonMidlandBuses]

POV: you click on a ‘the evaluator’ vid not knowing what it is about but just watching it for the sake of it

[@judgemanamacarsanar3626]

Fr

[@daetomrossington3623]

Heh.. Why yes!

[@KestrelKelpian]

Exactly!!! Love this channel!!!😁😁😁

[@XxMushroom_frogxX]

How'd you know 😰

[@lav-kitty]

I'm not a fan of this types of videos, I just click when I know about the subject to fact-check

[@AzulObsessedWithLuciferand1D]

As a demiromantic person, this little explanation explains it VERY well, nothing more complicated, I love it 💕💕

[@Sum_thing_blablabla]

Luci picture spotted 🦅🦅🦅

[@mayatarapanova3248]

I thought demiromantic meant something else but when I hear this definition, I realised I may be a demironantic!

[@Destr0yedbyPlut0_]

AROMANTIC SPECTRUM MENTION‼️‼️ WHAT IS ROMANTIC ATTRACTION‼️🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@Cool_Adrian7]

REAL 🔥🔥‼️🔥‼️🔥‼️🗣🗣

[@KassneTetosWife]

YES‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@eyeslanderer]

ts shit is so incredibly unfunny it makes me want to cry, js leave it to the americans

[@AveragePortuguese]

YESSIR ‼️‼️‼️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@StrangersCallMeHantu]

​@@eyeslanderer ???

[@CelenaGomeez]

there's another thing with being aromantic where you think you have a crush on someone, you get all the same feelings as having a crush but with some slight differences, but you really just want to be their best friend... this has happened so much to me and it's so confusing lmao it's kinda like quoiromantic but a bit different

[@the_power_gm]

A friend of mine recently informed me that it might be called a "Squish" instead of a crush! and boy do we have squishes 😔

[@CelenaGomeez]

@@the_power_gm yeah, I think that's what they're called! I couldn't remember lmao, they're so confusing 😂

[@SaromeGamer]

Yeah i had a "crush" on a boy once that was in my class, but i realized i wanted to be his friend after i found out i was aroace, but hes no longer in my class 😢

[@maio0077]

Yes, it is very strange when you enter a romantic relationship after thinking you are in love but you just want the person around, not as a romantic partner, but as a friend, all you want is for it to be over as quickly as possible. Doesn't help that you don't know the difference between romance and platonic.

[@DuneClaw-vk8kz]

I’m a gecko

[@KaylaPearlCPNinja]

Evaluator, THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO! As an aromantic asexual person myself this is so important to me as us folks on the aromantic and asexual spectrums try so damn hard to tell people that we’re not broken and that we don’t need to be looking for the right person!

[@CatboyyyX3]

Yes! I'm not aro, but i understand the irritation you go through^ ^

[@coolstraw7682]

yessir aroace here as well :’) my mom doesnt know im aroace (but shes supportive to lgbtq) yet she makes jokes like “when you have kids” or “i wonder what your kids will look like” “how many kids will you have?” And im just like “well uhh.. im gonna go draw ill get back to you”

[@huggystoriesbr7998]

YES!! EXACTLY

[@OGCalicant]

I kinda hope I do find the right person though lol. I’m cupioromantic and I don’t just want to do love activities I *want* to have a crush. I just don’t get to :/. So basically I hope I’m wrong and I eventually love someone

[@KassneTetosWife]

Chat I might be WTFromantic

[@Teardroppy-ew4tv]

CHAT IM RECIPRO-ROMANTIC HELP--

[@frosgare]

oh shit me too

[@funkisimp1229]

Same

[@thatdudethatcommentsstuff]

yeah what is romance anyway

[@XorbityXorbGlowbe]

Same Romance is stupid

[@stringbean5259]

WOOOOO ARO REPRESENTATION!!!! i'm demiromantic and aroflux (which is under the greyromantic umbrella), and now also discovered that i'm fictoromantic as well

[@tabz906]

same! but not aroflux

[@leirot3460]

i fell bad for fictoromantics cuz they are in love with something that can't be real.

[@AstroAuthor1]

Real. I think I am, and it’s really depressing sometimes.

[@ittszimyikes]

im ficto too, help

[@dbh.cybers4life]

im fictobi and i have a crush on a fucking robot 😭

[@1waitwhat2]

I’m comfortable saying most people don’t know what “aromantic” even is, glad you made a video on this topic :)

[@Bobbiejoinscore]

Fictoromantic here (also asexual) I don’t really feel romantic attraction, but those fictional characters are people I’d date, real people?… no, absolutely not, I can’t imagine that, but I’d date fictional people, not irl ones😭

[@Spleenchomper]

YESS FINALLY ANOTHER FICTOROMANTIC I'd rather just be in love with a fictional character and be like "teehee they're so silly" or something like that idk instead of going around dating people who just use you and suck, plus real people are already stinky they're not cool 😭 I'm also asexual, but I'm a hypersexual asexual!!

[@Taxevasion-1416]

BRO SAME

[@autumnsred]

Yeah! Fanfic reading aces unite! ᕙ⁠(⁠＠⁠°⁠▽⁠°⁠＠⁠)⁠ᕗ

[@Therianpaws-]

Demiromantic here! I'm so happy to see more representation on the internet. When I realized I was demi(both aro and ace) there was little to no info, thank u

[@AspynAeraki]

Psst! Another demiromantic here!! There's an anime called 'Bloom into You' that captures quite a few aromantic identities :3 It's one of my favourite stories and I'd 100% recommend it if you're feeling alone in your experience or even just looking for a new show. The music and visuals are great

[@Therianpaws-]

@AspynAeraki Thank you so much! I'll check it out :D

[@Supercuteflowermomo]

WHY DID I JUST FIND OUT I'M LITHROMANTIC AND FICTOROMANTIC???

[@Su-su-su-supernova-x2c]

Same

[@blankabusics2130]

Yeah same here

[@CeaselessWatch3r]

definitely cupio lol. Idk if I experience romantic attraction rarely or never, but I know that regardless of that I love the idea of romance and romantic gestures. I will absolutely bring my friends flowers, go on romantic Picknicks, kiss, etc (as long as they're fine w/ it) I just don''t fall in love.

[@RedPawedCrafter]

Omg I'm also cupio never actually heard anyone else that is also one :00

[@BeatUpToys]

I feel that way as well. I'd be okay with doing romantic things, but I don't know if I actually want a romantic relationship

[@mysryuza]

@@BeatUpToyssame here

[@DuckIS_happy]

I am the type of person who loves seeing other people being shipped or a couple but I do NOT like the idea of being romantic to someone, I don't want a romantic attraction to anyone but I like seeing other people be a couple

[@chatoui783]

I've actually been very confused about my romantic attraction for a while. It's always been weird and inconsistent and stuff, but this video actually helped sooooo yea thanks

[@loneshewolf74]

At first I misread aromantic as "aromatic" and thought this was going to be about different fragrances. I thought it was kind of weird, lol.

[@PICKLESSS77]

Ty for bringing this up and explaining it for many others! It's so hard for me to explain myself sometimes!! 😭

[@pq44animations56]

bro will download this on their phone in case of aro emergencies

[@ashmax3228]

​@@pq44animations56 aromengancies is wild

[@LorenzoDraws]

I would just like to say, these characters all look so good! I love how you made their clothes look like the corresponding flag

[@damnthisisalongname_4764]

Omg I’m so fricking Quoiromantic cause I was watching this like “yeah that kinda sounds like me” “yeah that also sounds like me” “could this be me?” “Why do all of these sound like me but also not??” And then Qouiromantic came up and I legitimately started screaming at the screen like “YES! YES! FINALLY! WTF IS ROMANCE?? WHEN DOES PLATONIC END AND ROMANTIC BEGIN?? WHEN WHERE WHAT HUH??” And honestly I feel so seen rn because “you just know when you’re in love!” NO I DO NOT 😭

[@darla4528]

Yet you might not fall in any of this categories. It's fine to classify, but remember that to define is to limit. Live and love however and whoever makes you happy, as long as you don't hurt others and act responsibly.

[@MonAhgasInsomniAroELF]

to define isn't to limit. in fact i would argue finally finding a definition/explanation for something you've been feeling can be quite freeing. the younger generation seem to have a real distaste for queer labels. it's sad to see so many misunderstand them and paint them as some kind of limiting prison. queer identities aren't limiting, they are flexible and maleable. it's not a one and done label situation. you can use whichever you feel fits the closest, but it doesn't have to fit 100% either. it's your identity, so you get to choose how you use it and how it defines you. for example, personally, while a few of the more specific identities/microlabels in this video (lithromantic and cupioromantic) fit what i experience more accurately, i choose to use aromantic instead as a broader, umbrella term, and then i can either leave it at that if i don't feel like sharing, or explain further if someone is interested in knowing more about my experiences and i feel like telling them. the point of these identities is to use them as descriptors for your experiences (which may or may not change over time), not boxes you're confined to.

[@lovestumacher]

@@MonAhgasInsomniAroELF Thank you! Learning about gray romanticism helped me realize there is nothing wrong with how I experience romantic attraction. Using the label is also helpful when describing my experience to other people who aren’t on the aro spectrum.

[@glamethyst9144]

I am asexual aromantic and honestly, I just can't get romantic attraction, it's not even that I don't know what it is, I've seen enough media to know what it should feel like, I just don't get it. The closest thing I've gotten to even a hint of a romantic feeling was for a fictional character, but even that was because he was one of my hyperfixation characters, and honestly, I'm perfectly happy with how I am.

[@tabz906]

tbh as a demi I've felt like this for a long time but ive had a million fictional crushes lmao

[@cherryb893]

​@@tabz906Hey, no judgement. Fictional crushes are great fun!

[@benji485]

I have questions what’s the dieffrence between a romantic and asexual or are they the same?

[@tabz906]

@@benji485 they are similar but basically aromantic means no romantic attraction and asexual means no sexual attraction

[@benji485]

@@tabz906can you give example im so sorry 😅

[@SingleIsFreedom]

i fucking love your videos man. They explain so simply yet somehow in a way you wouldn’t need to so needlessly complicate and explain. My therapist says she always learns something new whenever i come over, whether it be this Alexithymia or for me learning about what AroAce is and what i am.

[@basicallydeadkitten]

damn I've always felt like I'm somewhere in aro-spectrum but didn't know the right label, so i kinda brushed it off.. but damn finally i found reciproromantic. thank you

[@Lindsey-Td]

Yess!! Cupiormantic mentioned!!!! For me I don’t feel anything but desire it

[@urfavfrenderbender]

5:04 two recipro-romantics be in the stalemate of the century frfr /j Srs tho this vid actually explains things pretty well and I appreciate that!!

[@Ranpo_Edogawa954]

😂

[@DasigJack]

I'm recipro-romantic-- and it's funny as hell because if I think someone has a crush on me I'll fall for them.. even if they don't have a crush on me. And as soon as that's disproven the spell in which I was under just completely vanishes

[@arcticblast_]

SAME OMG IVE NEVER MET ANOTHER RECIPROMANTIC PERSON HI HI HI​@@DasigJack

[@HatsunaYamagi]

I think I'm a mix between Lithromantic and Fictoromantic. 🤔 This was a really good video. Thank you for that. ❤ I think I understand the Aro side of me even better now. 😊

[@BeatUpToys]

Agree

[@longlivetheking482]

I DO NOT know what butterfly in your stomach feels like.

[@lav-kitty]

anxiety lmao

[@lav-kitty]

being fr though, it's just a silly way of explaining excitement

[@longlivetheking482]

@@lav-kitty oh is that what it is??? Ohhhhhh okay tysm.

[@grammy_hnng]

but i DO know what a butterfly in your mouth tastes like

[@Mrsun13]

Why do i feel like all of these 😭

[@Alexmealexmealexmefly]

Skidibi skidibi🤫 hawk tuah hawk🦅💦 skidibi king👑 who gives out blumpkins💵 edging🔥 and gooning🤪 and learing👨‍🎓 to munt🌈 dripping💧 cheese🧀 all over my lunch(ly)🤤

[@marciofutevolei6340]

Cause you are none of them

[@jasminev5103]

they can all be labeled under the Aromantic label :) you can have more than one of these, and thats enough to count as being on the Aro spectrum. You dont have to have it down to a list of labels if you dont want to ♡

[@0R4NG3_AQU4]

Kinda same but not ALL of them tho

[@Hazelnut_bunnie]

If your all of them you could be myr romantic

[@DragonKazooie89]

Quoiromantic sounds like me, probably because of my Autism/Asperger’s

[@vibrantgleam]

It's def more common in those who are neurodivergent bc of the way we interpret social cues. I'm not Quoiromantic, but I totally relate to the social "norms" that confuse tf out of me.

[@scottscotty7100]

recipromancy "do you wanna be my bf?" "well now i do"

[@cheseisreal]

YOURE POUTING IN YOUR SLEEP IM WAKING STILL YAWNING

[@KassneTetosWife]

PROVING TO EACH OTHER THAT ROMANCE IS BORING

[@Lebattlecatsenjoyer]

SURE THERE ARE THINGS I CAN DO, IF I WAS HALF PERPARED TO

[@dreamy1244]

Prove to eachother that romance is boring

[@hearsecurse]

Woah ace attorney

[@cheseisreal]

@@hearsecurse FEENIE PFP??? ive met my people omg

[@PsnWasTaken]

Im in a QPR and never had a word for what the hell I even am, finding what Platoniromantic is, is so helpful!!!

[@Sleepyy.]

5:49 As someone who is Electio aroace, or in different words, someone who is both cupioromantic and cupiosexual, I think this is a great description of it. In simple words, I just don’t feel people attractive. It’s always been hard for me to say “I love you” to people, even my family. I do want to experience having a relationship and the things that come with it but it’s really difficult when I can’t really feel love. I remember it was especially difficult when I was in my pre teen years and everyone was talking about crushes and it was extremely confusing to me because I have no idea what a crush feels like so I ended up sort of forcing myself to have “crushes” on my friends which caused most of those relationships to end. Luckily that was back then and I’ve learned a lot more about myself and found out I was electio aroace which was a huge relief to finally have a word that describes what I feel. I hope others who are struggling with their identity find things like this video that help them find themselves like my best friend did for me. Thank you Axel

[@alllittlethingzz]

As a demiromantic person I love romance and when people are in love however for myself I want a relationship one day but not so fast!

[@mkjirak]

It'll happen. I'm demiromantic too and so I really need to trust someone before feelings become possible. I was friends with my partner for a year before we tentatively started dating. He swears he fell in love at first sight, but it took me a while to catch up. We've been together 18 years now.

[@Xxs0lv3r.bitezzxX]

YAYY LITHROMANTIC MENTIONED!!!! I'm lithromantic and I don't see too many people talking about it so it makes me really happy to see someone describe it PERFECTLY :D

[@Iris_Entity]

*platoniromantic description is said* "It's me!!!" I have a friend that fufills the position of platonic soulmate, and we both feel that way, it's amazing.

[@uzisq]

OMG YES

[@Silly_dude_xd]

I have platonic feelings for someone

[@gnoot50]

the little characters representing the flags are really cute!! i want to draw them but im terrible at drawing human-like characters

[@mulameow3209]

Hello! Litho here! THANK YOU FOR MENTIONING USSS!! We are so underrated, I cant even find any Merch of the flag!

[@marvelhero_red9284]

Thank you so much for posting this video! Ive been able to find a label that fits me for every aspect (gender and sexuality) except for romantic. And have struggled with figuring out what I am romantically for almost 5yrs now. But Caderomantic is definitely what I've been looking for for so long, with some grayromantic involved. I've always felt like a mix of many and none of the lables I could find in the aromantic spectrum. But Cade and gray just makes sense and feels right!

[@Oleander_Tea]

Didnt quite get EVERY aro-spec term but over all it’s a great video! Off the top of my head there’s also aroflux, bellusromantic, and aegoromantic

[@sadimmortalprincey6927]

Yippee!! I'm on the aromantic spectrum sort of! It's hard to explain because my experiences with romance and attraction are so specific and intense... For me, platonic and romantic attraction are basically the same thing? There are differences in those I see as friends and those I see as partners, but the line is very blurry. I tend to enjoy typically romantic things, such as cuddling or kissing from friends! I experience love so intensely that it's hard to tell what I'm actually feeling! Because of this, I usually focus more on what I'm wanting. Do I wanna be friends, or just partners? Do I want physical affection or something more? So on and so forth. It's very confusing and sometimes troublesome for me and those I'm close with given how much I struggle with differentiating them. Especially since most people want to know "do you like me as a friend or as more?" Rather than "what do you want from our relationship"

[@fibecheee]

10:24 🇮🇹 I also identify as sideways Italian

[@ashmintyrina]

HELP

[@grammy_hnng]

< - Σ < Σ < Σ

[@proto_117]

Me throughout almost all this video: Oh, I'm none of these *fictoromantic show up* Me:... oh

[@Olivia-t9e4g]

Absolutely love this and it help me explain aromatic to my best friend

[@twisteddanid]

This is how I find out I'm Caed and fictoromantic lmao. Can't be traumatized if the person isn't real.

[@ice15464]

what a wonderful video, im sure the comments will be nice and wholesome

[@ice15464]

actually theyre not bad.

[@valarian4423]

@@ice15464literally fren I had the exact thought process

[@Onyxistaken]

3:23 This kinda descripes me. I had two girlfriends. But once we got to the thrid month of begin togheter my feelings vanished. Never knew that I was just maybe Lilithromantic

[@Onyxistaken]

7:30 Or fray romantic

[@existincey]

Maybe I’m this has I had a crush for at least 5 years on this girl and in 6th grade it got to her that I liked her. She did too and we told eachother. My feelings for her left and it was never brought up again unless asked if we liked eachother (fun note we look like we could be related and our names share a pattern our family did “Br[rest of name]”

[@HeikaGubatan]

i love how the first artist creates characters using the colors of the flag omg (quoiromantic is mine)

[@zerkon6773]

yeah ngl i wanted to see the designs for the other attractions especially platoniromantic, first artist was cooking

[@yddtzdzdzxd]

He doesn't want you. He is quoriomantic.

[@ThatDogCalledCharlie]

I honestly love to see couples happy, and have helped make a relationship be, but I have ZERO idea on what the heck liking someone is suposed to feel like and keep wondering "Okay do I like that person or do I just really trust them"

[@lav-kitty]

I mean it's really tiring when you try and follow the rules people made up about what "liking" someone is that's why I don't. - amatopunk.

[@thatdudethatcommentsstuff]

ight, just found out i am literally WTFromantic, THANKKK YOUUUUUU i was about to have a goddamn mental breakdown about this whole world of romance, so... damn you saved me one breakdown thx thx

[@ultravioletUltimatum]

so happy that lithro is mentioned

[@thelonelywolf88]

I'm demiromantic and demisexual. Since there has been no one who has gotten to a point where I feel deeply connected with them is why I'm still single

[@Alexmealexmealexmefly]

If I spot thou in thy tavern thy shall clapt the cheeks untill they reach blue color

[@Odd-w3y]

It sucks, everyone I am close to is in a relationship.

[@thelonelywolf88]

@Odd-w3y I'm not even trying anymore. All the years of stress is starting to affect my heart. One of my coworkers is trying to play matchmaker with me. I'll go along with it, but considering my past, I won't hold my breath

[@tabz906]

same it feels super lonely when you wanna be with someone but have no friends or when u actually like someone but they can't like you back

[@cherryb893]

Don't give up! I'm demiromantic and asexual, but I've been married a long time, so you're not struck out yet.

[@FunnyDolphin-is2mi]

As a cupioromantic, I always tell my friends how being in a relationship would totally cure my loneliness, and I always find myself fantasising about romantic company. But the moment someone asks me if I have a crush, it’s an instant “no”.

[@AnIdotHyperfixator]

As an Questioning AroAce (Aromantic Asexual) artist I just want to say I LOVE THE CHARACTERS FOR THEM AHHHH❤❤❤

[@Cider8]

There's also orchidromantic where you feel romantic attraction but dont want a romantic relationship, like i have a big crush on this person but i dont want to be romantic with them at all

[@Sandoichigo]

3:00 I FOUND MY IDENTITY

[@nephelechong6889]

Same bestie

[@Staredstar]

Nice !!

[@floofyratboi]

yay! :D

[@May-n1u2r]

Me too :)

[@peggyschuyler156]

as someone who is demiromantic, this makes me so goddamn happy

[@Silly_dude_xd]

Same

[@Im-at-yo-door]

Once, some kid at school asked me to date him. He didn’t know that I’m trans (he/they) and Lithro so just said “I’m not ready” as politely as I could I laugh so hard at that for some reason 😭

[@uzisq]

why didnt you just tell him the truth? maybe he wouldnt have minded

[@uzisq]

oh and also they would be more accpeting if you reject them

[@Im-at-yo-door]

@@uzisq well, I wasn’t fully lying about not being ready. There’s that also I am still very very deep in the closet.

[@shjilz]

Bisexual aromantic trans man here 🫡🫡🫡 This is a very good video for our representation in my opinion, thank you Mr. Evaluator

[@shjilz]

My only personal edit would be that I can get that butterflies/anxious/jealous crush feeling for people I'm sexually attracted to and/or people I really want to be friends with. I've never gotten that feeling for someone and felt the desire to start a romantic relationship and be lovey-dovey with them. It makes it kind of complicated because I'll be getting that butterflies/crush feeling for people that I just want to bang and/or befriend. And let me make it clear, platonic love is one of my favorite feelings in the world, I'm committed to my friends and I treat them like royalty

[@Peaches_Juice]

I like the little flag drawings, I hope you do the ace spectrum next!🫶🏽🤍🩶🖤💜

[@escaped_cephalopod]

ooh yeah he should

[@flowerpatchtoons1101]

I used to think i was cupioromantic but recently i got a partner and found out i was recipiomantic. Thanks for the video!

[@backkslashhh]

im not a big fan of this style of video trending but the evaluator makes it work more than any other youtuber. You own this style more than any other youtuber!

[@brianandkatescott8019]

I think I have a platoniromantic relationship with my best friend. We do a lot of “couple” things like talking or texting all the time, cuddling, being there for each other and always the first one we turn to. It’s gotten to the point multiple people have thought we’re a couple, and I’m pretty sure like a third of acquaintances still think we are

[@pipi-caca]

Demiromantic here, ive had 3 crushes ever‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@THErealS0R4akaSora]

Omg those human art of different aromatic spectrum is so cute

[@Moonie_Is_Tired]

LITHROMANTIC AND DEMIROMANTIC MENTION HELL YEAH!!

[@SpaghettiForBreakfast]

Oh, I am so greyromantic. I have only had one crush in my life- surprisingly recently too- and they have the same exact way of talking as me, what games they like, and everything. I usually only feel attraction to people once I know what they like or talk about, and even then they might not be for me. So yeah, that fits pretty well-

[@AveragePortuguese]

IVE BEEN WAITING AND DREAMING ABOUT A VIDEO LIKE THIS FOR SO LONG, THANK YOU SO MUCH YOU JUST MADE MY DAY!

[@Gudegooby]

This guy explains it better than google-

[@lav-kitty]

I identify as 2 that were not mentioned in the video. xumromantic and quaromantic xumromantic is a term for people with OCD who feel like there never is good enough of a label for their experiences, they often spend a lot of time researching about their romantic orientation. quaromantic is basically just aromantic but you replace your romantic attraction with alterous attraction. In my case, I choose to bring more attention to my alterous orientation than my romantic orientation, since I'm literally just aro but with similar experiences to allos. My alterous orientation is way more important to me than my other orientations, but obviously no one asks about it. I am omni-alterous.

[@Bluebirdpie2]

Isn't Quaroromantic just Aro Oriented? sorry if im wrong they just seem very similar

[@lav-kitty]

@@Bluebirdpie2 I haven't heard aro oriented before, is it like oriented aroace but just aro? If so, then I guess it falls under that, but it's more specific, since it's about alterous attraction specifically

[@Bluebirdpie2]

@@lav-kitty yeah i'm assuming so, being aro but having the teritary attraction

[@MarbleOSCalt]

definitely not me tryna figure out my sexuality by watching this

[@lav-kitty]

there's way more to it than that, I most probably have OCD though so maybe you're not gonna want to spend hours looking through every single label 😭

[@MarbleOSCalt]

@@lav-kittyliterally what I’ve been doing this past month 😭 🙏

[@lav-kitty]

@@MarbleOSCalt oh!-

[@nodwolf]

Ah, I'm pretty much Caedromantic, but with a partner currently that understands that he will be my last relationship. I didn't know that it had a clearer and more precise name. But I'm not digging the color scheme of white/grey/more grey. But I get it.

[@Umbrakinesis207]

AROMANTIC ACTUALLY MENTIONED? HELL YEAH!

[@CrystalCrynight]

1:45 this analogy is the same one I used to this guy only met me for a few days and wanted to ask me out, I told him Im demi aroace and then on hes been persistent on trying to be friends but the idea of romance with him is dead in my eyes since I know his actual intentions 😐

[@ticholopeluche]

I'm aroace like "no sex and no romance at all" and I knew the "asexual" word first and I thought that just by saying "I'm asexual" people would understand that I want no sex and no romance because I used to think romance was like a best friend relationship with s3x included and long-term comitment. After I learn the word "aromantic" I tried to imagine the extreme cases to differ romantic atraction from s3xual atraction. Someone who love casual s3x but doesn't want to commit to a relationship and someone who wants a life partner and share all with them but it's not interested in s3x. Now with all this words I think is easier to say "I don't want romance or s3x at all" than using these words and expect people to understand what I mean XD Some are so specific I'm still struggling to differ them (or even remember so many words), thank you for the video 🤣 Sorry for possible English mistakes, It's not my first language

[@its.sugarberry]

Yeah...after this video, i think i'm struggling back to find which aro spec i'm at this point😔

[@prageruwu69]

there's no need to label it if you don't want to, there's no rush either way.

[@yaB0i_Hawkx]

My aromantic experience is just friends with benefits, but the benefit is just me living life easier. Like for example i am fine with finding a life partner or going on dates, but thats only for the benefit of "having someone taller than me so i can grab that one snack on the upper corner of the shelf", "opeen that one bottle, bc i am too weak to snap it open", "an excuse to go outside"... Im still unsure whether i can call myself aro, but I'm slowly realizing that my view of romance is different than nost people. Like thinking about your type, daydream about the best couples in your head, the perfect date, prince charming, etc. When a friend asked me at which age i want to start dating (was around 10, 12) and i said 18, bc i didn't felt ready currently and thought maybe when i reach adulthood, then id be ready. I was surprised that they were surprised, bc it sounded logical to me. When i think about romance now, its not like im disgusted or anything or cant understand people when they say i are so in love to want to do anything for that person. I thought about it and id be ok if i were to get into a relationship, the benefits definitely helped with realizing that it might be good hahhahaha. But I'm also content with being single or at least for a long time. (Like im surprised that people tend to stress you about finding a life partner. Like if it happens it happens, if we vibe we vibe. Ok i do think i have an attraction towards male characters, but thats more like aesthetic attractions or i just like their personality. For example i have a obsession with hawks from mha in a way, like i love that man's personality, wings, every frame hes on screen, have hundreds of his fanarts saved on my phone (to use as profile pics). But the second i think about dating him, kiss him or anything romantic or intimate at all, it feels uncomfortable, weird and also kinda disgusting in some aspects. Even if i dig a real life mens aesthetic, it feels more cosplay than anything, and i have a more stronger desire to BECOME him than actually dating him. Like who tf doesn't want to become a sexy man with dope as drip??? Anyways its 4 am, im tired, i like ranting and its probably bc of my adhd idk.

[@sootzies]

finally the guy who always comments about it has his wish granted (but my god 2:29 is TERRIFYING)

[@huggystoriesbr7998]

MAN!! thank you so much for explaning about us with care and depth! Im an aro ace and im just so fed up of people telling me i will die alone... like, and?? It's simply how i am xd

[@HeikaGubatan]

4:04 WOAH QUOIROMANTIC IS SO... GUYS HEAR ME OUT.... 😳

[@MarshallLunix]

Wowza… same…

[@457R4L_xX]

I'm listening-

[@MarshallLunix]

@@457R4L_xX yeah, I’d let him hit…

[@NOTZeroBlank]

im all ears

[@SunnyDragons_901]

I can't say your wrong my guy

[@asher-360]

13:48 holy shit i’m in the video ( note: for me it’s not about having some niche “requirements” to be attracted to someone. hell, i can’t even answer what my “type” is. i think practically anyone has the potential to be attractive in one way or another. i just happen to not feel the romance often)

[@fibecheee]

4:10 baby don't hurt me 🗣️

[@warbes6200]

No more

[@Fnaf_202]

WhAt Is LoVe???

[@DianoSol]

Aa an Panaspec person, it wsa vyer intresting to learn about different identiys on the aro spec im in!

[@arinashishko9101]

Tysm I finally managed to understand who I am exactly (smthn between caedromantic and fictoromantic)

[@randomlafourche]

Yayy! So glad you did this one, did a really great job explaining the different identities. Im Demiromantic myself :)

[@IrkenEmpireFurry]

thank you - i think im most likely aromantic

[@He4rtlessc0rpses]

I really dont know what I am. I literally go crazy for him. But the next day, I hate him. But that evening, I fall madly in love with him again. Sometimes I say love is nonsense, sometimes I do everything for love.

[@SkatezzGlow]

GANG I THOUGHT I WAS AROACE TURNS OUT IM JS LITHOROMANTIC

[@lav-kitty]

could you do one about tertiary attractions or attractions in general? AND PLEASE include alterous and exteramo attraction. just a nitpick though those are NOT every arospec identity, 9?, not even close, but go off, aro rep I guess

[@Raniraimbow_officiall]

@@lav-kitty what is exteramo

[@lav-kitty]

@@Raniraimbow_officiall exteramo is a type of alterous*, but it specifically refers to not being platonic, romantic, nor in-between * alterous reffers to something that is similar to romantic and platonic at the same time, it can be a mix of both, be in-between both, or be classified as neither

[@vibrantgleam]

I am totally a Demiromantic bc the way it was described to me was super accurate to how I feel with relationships.

[@_.skipp_.]

This is how I find out I'm Quoiromantic??? 😭

[@Plague.477]

I found out from Pinterest, don't worry🫶

[@3denx]

i’m questioning aro ace rn and these types of videos help a lot, i love ur channel!

[@kaylinphiri4418]

You should do a video on every romantic trope

[@prageruwu69]

i've always loved how the aro-spectrum flags look.

[@DragonaJoestarrr]

demiromantic people roll call!!! 👇

[@FreakyEmmetRealll]

I’m not Aromantic but I’m just watching this for the information.