Harvard Psychiatrist on How To Get Ahead of 99.9% of People (Starting NOW)

[@whatsthisidonteven]

-Walks up to the show -Harvard -Psychiatrist -Monk -Gamer -Dad -Refuses to blame women for everything wrong in the world for 2 hours and 46 minutes straight -Gives god-tier relationship advice -Tells the hosts they love each other right in their faces and doesn't make it insulting or demeaning to their masculinity or heterosexuality -Cures narcissism and BPD -Elaborates -Leaves Absolute gigachad

[@8ightshark]

S tier human

[@jeredquidlars8819]

Firm handshakes 🤝💯

[@72-bit]

I can tell what kind of person you are

[@ziwuri]

I love the touch of "-Elaborates"

[@millsykooksy4863]

LOL

[@mykie]

I think Dr. K is brilliant and ahead of his time. Bring him back on for many more if you can.

[@VLAD1241]

agreed

[@dhepermana]

No. Have you heard what he’s saying on the theory of karma? "Lots of the karmic theory is proven scientifically" LMAO He’s completely nuts and a cult leader.

[@justus4423]

@@dhepermana when did he say that? That’s crazy tbh

[@aurelianspodarec2629]

@@justus4423 Its crazy and that's why hes making it and you're not. You can't even comprehend what he means because you're not at his level of understanding. How is so these crazy people who are at the top always make it and poor people always complain and sasy its crazy or impossible?

[@Quaberr]

@@dhepermanasounds like you’re the one that’s nuts tbh. Like use your brain

[@Thr4kus]

I straight up FELT the disappointment in Dr. K's voice when the subject shifted from his encapsulating story of self discovery on to the Tantric stuff and we never got to let him elaborate on it.

[@triston9312]

Don't believe him.i m an Indian so I Know dis tantrik stuff is a lie.tantrik yog is ancient and now extinct in India.

[@ryanbaker709]

Yeah after that he started calling the host's bro...

[@neowatson3567]

These people aren’t bright enough to understand Dr.K

[@morganseppy5180]

Listen to the whole thing. He has a way of explaining....everything

[@paoloriverin9598]

That was so stupid he was going to drop some real enlightened shit and then these guys started talking about edging. These guys should stick to basic finance dude interviews they kept interrupting him right when he was gonna drop some wisdom.

[@xavierxavier3610]

Please bring dr k back on for a 24 hour straight podcast. I could listen to this guy speak all day

[@eligoldman9200]

He has his own KZbin channel.

[@ZESTdabest]

Healthy gamer gg

[@gotthis5613]

Flow state

[@PuroInternationalPhenomenon]

He is pretty controlling. But yeah he's gregarious, a nice story teller, and a great teacher. So the apparent good surpasses the bad. Is it just me or did Graham Stephan have many brilliant moments of pivoting back to the foundation of the initial question?

[@w花b]

At this point just invite him at your house and speak all day with him

[@eligoldman9200]

I was just like DR K until I forced myself to get good at studying during college. I realized that if I focused less on passing my exams and more on just learning I was blown away with how cathartic it was. I realized that my anxiety for test taking and my comparison to my classmates and my pressure from my parents to do good made me forget how much I genuinely enjoyed learning chemistry.

[@misszoemuch9765]

darn that's how I feel recently😢

[@zack2804]

This is exactly the stage I'm at right now. Only, the pressure comes from the fact that I'm trying to transfer to a good college--and you're going nowhere without good grades. I'm long past the idea that "good grades = smart" as a source of validation.

[@Ryanisthere]

mental health is weirdly paradoxical

[@jannat_i]

same!!! im a college sophomore rn and after almost getting kicked out my first year, i finally learned how to study 😭

[@gaugea]

thanks for this

[@BDSandM]

The best podcast I've ever listened to. I wish Dr. K talked more about his monk journey. What he did, learned, how his mindset changed, etc. I'm so curious.

[@domojestic4155]

He talks a lot about it on his own channel! Trust me, there's plenty of info about his journey there out there.

[@luizguilhermelencioni6708]

you will love his channel, there is a lot there, so it may be hard to find that exactly, but its there

[@michaelfisher8435]

Dr K: "Going to India changed my life." Hosts: "let's talk about edging."

[@bperez8656]

I read this comment and doubted it But 1 and 47 mins in I see it as such high quality Jack is adorable and his intellectual curiosity is a perfect match for what Dr. K had to offer. Dr. K is brilliant

[@neowatson3567]

These hosts are stupid they are missing every point.

[@kito8968]

So this is what Dr. K was talking about when he said that he wanted to teach us more but he cant due to format bounds and he can only teach about 15% what he wanted to. Truly remkarkable almost 3 hours of deep conversation. Thank you so much i have taken a lot from it.

[@jewishgenes]

That’s exactly right. Hop in books like he did and you can sit in that seat!

[@just_q_8818]

this stuff falls under the 15%; I really recommend the members content on the healthy gamer channel, is goes sooo much deeper, its like you discover the channel for the first time again :D

[@harrygriffiths6180]

Please do a part 2!!!! This was one of the most interesting and intellectually stimulating podcasts I've ever listened to. Definitely gives me a lot of things to think about.

[@kushaladhvaryu2910]

This is genuinely the best podcast episode I have ever heard. The way Dr. Alok dives deep into each topic with credible proof is amazing. Need a part 2!

[@Paulchiefsquad]

33:50 Being Present = Being Happy 44:20 One cure to one disease 1:10:00 Desires 1:14:00 How to help friends: ask questions to make them find themselves 1:50:00 Not training the kids to control their desires and diminishing returns 2:13:30 solve the red flags, don't run away from them. Have shared emotions good or bad. What's wrong with dating now, not seeing the human 2:24:00 don't find the right person, make the right person 2:31:00 Real acceptance 2:38:00 How to start improving: Awareness and awareness practice

[@vanilla_bd]

thank you :)

[@mmennote]

Where is the answer to the question about how to be part of the 1%

[@JoeARedHawk275]

⁠@@mmennoteWork on your EQ and knowing how to control your mind

[@НиколайХанзо]

what is the timestamp from the intro?

[@パリ真珠]

My English is not super good...can someone make a list of the tips he gave? Thanks in advance

[@ShenobiYT]

Thank you for having Dr.K as a guest! Been watching him for 2 years now. I get so excited when he gets invited to these podcasts :)

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Our pleasure! We had such a great time chatting with him!

[@Ryan.G.Spalding]

He is pretty great. Awesome resource for the world.

[@AnonymousanonymousA]

​@TheIcedCoffeeHour you know who else was a Harvard psychiatrist MD. Ph.d Joesph Biederman, person migrated from Europe to Argentina with his family around 1945 as a baby then became a Harvard professor great documentary referencing him on 60 minutes years back, he's responsible for cosigning psychiatric prescription use in children and 2 year olds, the title was called Rebecca Riley, she would have been 21years old. Just learned the scu_ ba_ Biederman died in January 2023 too bad he deserved to spend years in prison with the inmates knowing who he was and what he did.

[@marksereno7849]

Please get that crackhead on Adderall out of there.

[@Loveabbie]

Same!!! I LOVE him!! & I can hear that man talk for 8 consecutive hours without losing interest lol

[@SandraLemenaite]

Because of you two, I have discovered Dr. K. Because of Dr.K’s wisdom, I’ve now connected dots and implemented actions in my life that are changing my life. This episode is hands down of the best episodes of any podcast ever, and I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.

[@AlphaExpansionTV]

Such an amazing testimony! Real, raw, and inspiring. Love it

[@Lacky546]

"A relationship is created by two human beings. It is not something that you fit someone in to"

[@gitgudgaming506]

I love when actually educated and qualified guests come on. The amount of value to viewers with this content is so much, thank you.

[@unnderneath]

👀 the shade

[@aysudolas4810]

Dr. K is my favourite online person of all times. He talks about heavy topics without draining and tiring people. It is always such a pleasure to listen to him. It's the first time I've come across your channel and you guys were awesome as well. A small viewer note: It is the personal elements of this conversation that made this episode epic.

[@BONKOYT]

This information feels illegal to have for free. By far is one of the most valuable things I have come across on KZbin. First time watching the podcast and must say the value is insane. Dr. K's speaking fee must've been huge. Thousands of dollars of therapy and self discovery in a 3 hour podcast.

[@australianpatriot]

mhmmm

[@jimbow25]

Yeah let's make it illegal to be able to read or watch videos for free

[@jewishgenes]

It was great! He reads a lot of books. There’s a lot of this stuff out there. Books!

[@jakub568]

@@jimbow25go away satan

[@BONKOYT]

@@jewishgenes I've recently been reading more into stoicism! It's absolutely changed my outlook on my troubles and life.

[@DynamicsofMoney]

Intriguing insights from a Harvard expert! It's amazing how small shifts in mindset and habits can significantly propel us ahead. This is a great reminder that personal growth is an ongoing journey, not just a destination. Starting now seems like the only way to go!

[@SavvyFinanceOfficial]

Mindset is everything

[@flycrack7686]

being from Havard is nothing to brag about! If anything its the exact opposite!

[@Lolipop59]

​@@flycrack7686there is no point in what you are saying now. The post wasn't about being from Harvard ,but about mindset

[@flycrack7686]

@@Lolipop59 yes there is a point ! If you are making it important being from a racist antisemtic woke ideological institution then you deserve to be called out, btw we are talking about the mindset!

[@yoshiwhere148]

@@flycrack7686 what do u mean by this?

[@steven99191]

I have listened to a LOT of podcasts in my life. This is in the top 3 all time. I'd been familiar with Dr. K previously, but this was top tier in every way. Definitely bring him back for part 2!

[@yiin]

bro what are the other two?

[@jakecathey7061]

david choe joe rgoan has to be one@@yiin

[@theimmoralcookie]

This is a gold mine of important topics.

[@MrSkme]

This is the feeling i have every time i watch dr k. I dont get this feeling from anyone else. He is incredibly wise.

[@malte4984]

Like edging

[@suparcamel5852]

@@malte4984 exactly

[@jackboa22]

@@MrSkmebuddhism

[@TanviKundliwal]

I have watched 100s of podcasts, whether it’s Joe Rogan, Chris Williamson, Steven Bartlett, Jordan Peterson, Simon Sinek etc. This is my first time watching The Iced Coffee Hour, and is hands down the best podcast I have ever seen. Thank you, Dr. K, Graham & Jack, for a conversation that hit all the important topics I resonate with.

[@Kazooieandbanjo]

I've been watching Dr. K for years and I've also been learning about finance and watching Graham for nearly the same amount of time. This was genuinely one of the best podcast interviews ever. You could tell that Dr. K really connected with you both and was willing to dive in deep quickly in a way that he normally does not with most people. It would be amazing to have a part 2 and see where it takes you all.

[@Tockin]

We definitely need another episode with Dr. K. This was without a doubt my favorite episode on the podcast, I’ve learned so much.

[@JFabric500]

I see this guy on my suggested videos all the time. He is literally blowing my mind. Same thing happened to my childhood, homeschooled, skipped multiple grades, I never learned to study. Luckily ended up with high EQ and I can never understand why people can’t read the room. The self awareness of people continues to blow my mind.

[@cashglobe]

One of the best podcast episodes I’ve ever heard. Wow. Dr. K is brilliant. Not only an excellent scientist but also open minded due to his training as a monk. He recognizes the limits of modern science and that’s beautiful. It’s also amazing that he recognizes their is evidence for karma, rebirth, etc, while maintaining a healthy skepticism.

[@claire6223]

what evidence?

[@MS-ov9sv]

@cashglobe.....totally agree.....I felt the same ....

[@empyrionin]

​@@claire6223epigenetics. But as he says, it's quite a stretch

[@zwlsx]

@@claire6223 try it yourself theres your evidence

[@ramgraphite6311]

This podcast was honestly incredible, even had me taking notes and wondering a lot, I can't believe I watched all pretty much in one sitting, I was too interested, I've watched Dr. K's videos before but a lot of the questions and topics you guys touched on were on point and actually very relevant in my life, and I'm sure a lot more people. I'd like it if you'd invite Dr. K back and expand on awareness, and techniques to discover insights within yourself and kind of build onto that

[@nic23lond23]

There's a You Tube Channel and Podcast... Healthy Gamer... you will be taking notes :)

[@PumpkinPotatoPie]

I love how DR. K saw Jack trying to creat a moment about Stephan, and instead turned it around and made it about him, you can tell Jack was not expecting that and was being truly challenged

[@acpjr]

Keen observation. Jack was looking for advice on how to "fix" Graham, and in so doing revealed that he's the one who needs fixing!

[@Kable10]

Part 2!

[@words007]

Part 2 of what? Getting ahead of 99.9% people? So that means all of the viewers who are watching it in HOPES of being that 0.01% are betting on succeeding with these odds? With these probability? Have you seen anybody ever successfully working to be that 0.01%? if it is yes? Then what are we? What are the rest of us? If all of us can be that 0.01%, NON OF US CAN EVER BE. I laugh at the futility of people's will to have everything, AND FAILING IN DOING SO. 😅.

[@kubasek1111]

@@words007 there is nothing wrong with failing. also if from all of the conversation you just come up with the idea of getting ahead of 99,9% of people it indicates its the only think that matters to YOU alone. bad assumption.

[@Optimistas777]

it's out

[@alejrandom6592]

​@@words007you seem angry, take a look inside u bro

[@monk_cat]

0.1% then help other do the same way, and that 0.1% will become another 99% then the cycle goes, this is how humanity evolves and grows to a intergalactic civilisation.​@@words007

[@TheBrentPopp]

The discussion about being a Vata with Jack was actually really relatable for me and gave me so much to think about. I've been watching Dr. K occasionally since about 2020 and I think this has been one of my favorite discussions. Please do another!

[@ArtistFormallyKnownasMC]

Incredible episode. Glad he came on the show. I discovered him by way of his “former gifted kid” video. I cried pretty hard. It’s been a hard life, and harder 5 years. Woof. I was not ready for THAT enlightenment. I have embraced it and laughed at the memes now. I’m back in school. Like so many, around the 30’s you reconsider. I’m happily on that journey into IT. I’m learning how to learn, post-concussions, now with crazy ADHD, lots of sickness that’s only just now under control as of November. 5 years of pain, sickness, left my career as a band director. It’s been hard. A life not worth living. But I’m starting to see the light again. And people like Dr. K are helping me get through! Thank you, Dr. K for your work online. ( in case you read any comments) You give us so much time, content, wisdom and knowledge!!

[@sherriflemming3218]

Happiness is an inside job. That starts with yourself. The most important relationship you'll ever have is with yourself.

[@ensumas8856]

One of my favourite interview and one of the best guest speaker ever! I love how engaged you both were in the discussion, especially Jack's curiosity and neverending questions. Hope to see more great stuff like this!

[@Razerhasgame]

The first part of this conversation and EQ and different measures besides IQ helped me learn so much about myself and not beat myself up over dropping out of college 10 years ago since I had no study habits and raw intellect that was unfocused

[@clarezajac3276]

Totally agree I'm kind of still in the early parts of this I'm probably an hour and a half in but yes that was.... It just told me a lot about myself as a younger person that I spent a lot of time beating myself up over:)

[@ViolentMLG]

I dropped out of school, never enjoyed school, thought it was pointless and boring. Taught myself most of everything I know on my own. Never could study until I learned how to study. I also never felt I could fit into society and the typical 9-5 life. I just stay in my own lane as an entrepreneur. Things like this 100% resonate.

[@kora4185]

I started to cry listening to it.. It was very obvious to me and everyone around me something was different, and every adult thought I would change the world or smt, and once I didn’t (because I couldn’t even finish school), it was hell on earth for too long to not leave scars.. Suddenly I had no discipline and no will, and this kept on going until I was somehow more tired of being broke than living, and I had to come up with a solution asap. I now have my own company that brings me more money than I need but _only_ because I wouldn’t be accepted in any so I literally had no other choice but to make one myself, which is hilarious but I can’t help but only feel heartbroken about what I went through and what so many people are going through right now because they don’t have the right guidance.. I hope the way we teach kids now will absolutely shock society in the future the same way it shocks us to see how mental hospitals were before.

[@LewisKelly-v5q]

this is my first full episode experience of the iced coffee hour and I love how they just listened for nearly 3 hours and spoke minimally Throughout there own podcast. Love Dr k, Love stephen. excited to get to know jack in another episode

[@alqoshgirl]

The gifted child being special needs is so accurate. My youngest brother was NOT easy and had some behavioral issues as a child. He’s gifted though. Top of class, just recently graduated masters in AI. He’s way smarter than any of us siblings, but was way harder to deal with as a child than any of us. He’s doing phenomenal now as an adult 👍

[@jzen1455]

I was in the gifted program and just found school torturously and mind-numbingly boring.

[@CobaltAITech]

amazing. what is a masters in AI?

[@alqoshgirl]

@@CobaltAITech artificial intelligence

[@Roobah]

What I enjoyed most about this video was watching 3 individuals who each are in such a different mental headspace interacting to try to come together mentally. I also noticed the last 20 minutes Graham was mentally checked out and exhausted. I already subscribe to the HealthyGamerGG channel, but this kind of converaation was way more interesting than his normal channel. I enjoyed this group discussion more.

[@Danzamagu]

I too noticed how at times, Graham and Jack we're alternating between getting it and losing him. Dr K being patient and trying to get through to them.

[@kyoshemonk]

This was the best 3 hours I think I've ever spent on youtube. I would love to hear more from Dr. K and you two.

[@MarelynGonzalez23]

I usually find it so difficult to sit through long videos but I was so invested in everything you guys were discussing, thank for the great discussion, part 2 would definitely be appreciated 🙌🏼

[@wildfyre-music]

Dr. K really hit the nail on the head when it comes to creating meaningful and impactful relationships. It's amazing to see the number of people my age (28) that are not willing, or ready, to put in the work to outlast the honeymoon phase. It's like the moment conflict crops up people run for the hills. In reality, it's through conflict that we learn the most about others and ourselves. I don't want a partner that agrees with everything I say, I want a partner that challenges me while wanting the best for both of us. There are uncomfortable moments that come with that, and they are worth it It's also really nice to see Jack and Graham openly talk about their platonic love for one another, it was moving to see two male figures not shy away from such a healthy display of comradery. Much respect 💯 Part 2 for sure

[@Franticity7]

Intimacy exists in the space between deconstruction and repair

[@findpeace6645]

Same

[@cattyily0]

what i love about this interview is that the audience and even when you look throughout this video on the hosts faces is that nobody knows what to say. nobody can say anything without sounding arrogant or not intellectually aware enough to combat what he says. he didn’t dominate the conversation they just listened. they were stuck in their thoughts, in their head while simultaneously trying to understand his words and also perhaps rejecting his words. yet we all stayed and were mentally capable enough to just hear him out for 2 hours straight. and he came from such a neutral standpoint that it is hard to disprove what he’s saying and it made sense. unless the audience had questions of their own or disagreed what have you, his point still stood and he still came out on top. he was the only person where i was able to put my opinions to the side and learn. and i think we all have the privilege to understand him, let alone hear him speak.

[@nikitaivanov7415]

This was one of the most eye opening and insightful podcasts you guys have done to date. PLEASE DO ANOTHER PODCAST WITH HIM. GREAT EPISODE.

[@alvinchu1]

what is so eye opening about this?

[@sovereignknight9290]

@@alvinchu1what is not eye opening?

[@alvinchu1]

@@sovereignknight9290 That is why I was asking. Can you provide your insight? I really do want to learn.

[@camsbluespace8404]

He has a great youtube channel

[@sethforesi307]

@@alvinchu1watch it in full, you’ll come away with something

[@spigney4623]

Ive watched dr k for years and even done a few of his programs, but your interview questions opened up a personal side of him that ive never seen. Incredible guest, but the interviewers are amazing too. Y'all asked all the questions in my head

[@Chrizbent]

Such a well spoken guy, this is pure gold.

[@youngbahss3220]

DEFINITELY need another one from him! So many of the guests that we see on podcasts are great but many kind of overlap in alot of ways. I really feel like Dr K has an insightful perspective that you can't get anywhere else.

[@cosmicpowa]

Appreciate so much of what Dr. K has to offer. Impressed with how Graham and Jack handled the little moments of disagreement. Watching people's body language change during these moments was the coolest part of the whole interview. Want to see more for sure!

[@frillsjane7753]

I can tell too! Haha glad all of them have so much patience and were very professional. If it would've been me, I have walked out already lol

[@uh-ooooh]

I never watched you guys before but your guys friendship and exploring that throughout this podcast - especially nearing the end on how much you gushed to each other - is honestly very sweet. That's genuine friendship seeing how comfortable you guys are saying all that stuff, especially with a lot of glee

[@IRSTAXENFORCER]

Being a HUGE fan of both Dr K for the past year and Graham and the Iced Coffee hour this has to be my favorite collab of the year. PLEASE do a part 2!

[@hitheresamhere]

I have NEVER watched a 2+ hour KZbin video in its entirety but it's Dr. K going off the riff and dropping his wisdom so now I'm done with this video and want more. Thank you for having him on!

[@nightmoose]

I love Dr. K but he doesn't deserve this clickbaity headline.

[@pinefilms3141]

it's actually not clickbait at all. the information in this video is priceless.

[@kiritalya2520]

​@@pinefilms3141I agree it's priceless information, but I think what OP is trying to get at is that Dr.K would never title one of his own videos like this, nor do I think he would frame people as being "ahead" or "behind" others. Just that we are different, not better or worse and not that we need to beat people like the title implies.

[@bperez8656]

It got a lot of ppl to click and it’s not far off from his message

[@tsoup919]

it's a fucking youtube video title 😂

[@kiritalya2520]

@@tsoup919 and this is a comment on a KZbin video. What is your point?

[@nicoleturney4706]

I will add that your reference to gifted kids as special needs is spot on. I have actually used that terminology in various settings. And yes, my kids also lack study habits for the reasons mentioned. My son would report that he would ace the math pretests without previous exposure to the concepts, which puts him in a position of boredom while the concept is taught. He had a very hard time making friends for years because he thought on a totally different level than kids his age. A lot of these children turn to drugs like marijuana just to numb their brains so they can fit in better.

[@ryanfrank1309]

It's especially hard for me and others I've found like me to connect to most people. It's very isolating. Having someone that can keep up/understand the things that interest us is difficult. It's incredibly exciting when you find someone who can though. Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@Anthony-ru7sk]

The study habit thing really hits me. I dropped out in 12th grade and got my GED. I was in the 99th percentile in 3 of the 5 sections, and above 90 in the other 2. My SAT scores were awesome too. When I got to college, I struggled immensely.

[@eligoldman9200]

I use to be that way until I forced myself to work and I found studying to be cathartic. It’s just a zen. It gives me this release of calmness.

[@arnavrawat9864]

Dr K has videos on this. "How being smart leads to failure. " That should find you the videos. they are immensely helpful. I think you should watch them

[@Alex-ns6hj]

@@eligoldman9200 what's a zen? studying? how does it give you calmness. man I really need to know how to let go of the fear of not passing exams and really trust and enjoy the process

[@FireBallDecay]

Didn't even know about these guys, but I clicked because of Dr. K, very, very good video, had a lot of fun watching, I would love to see a part 2 or even 3 with deep dives into both you and more questions.

[@citizenerased000]

Never watched Dr.K's videos outside of his own channel, but these two guys were fantastic at interviewing him. Great job!!!

[@lcam961]

PART TWO PLEASE! Quite possibly one of my favorite episodes to date

[@brannyvr5728]

This was incredible from start to finish. Honestly, I'm currently in a strange mental state where I feel as though I have learned so much about how to explore myself and my mind. Please invite him back, I'd love to hear more about awareness - exploring self. As well as the path to be taken when you get distracted by those desires. The process surrounding realising the desire is there, the awareness of it - and then following that train of thought to deciding on the next action to take. Thank you so much

[@ap822cornell]

This was amazing - 1st time in my life to ever sit through a nearly 3-hour long podcast all in a single session

[@GetBetterGolf]

1:07:12 This is one of the most incredible things ever said on a podcast. That amount of insight and understanding of the human condition of suffering is priceless!

[@comend1910]

If you haven't checked out Dr. K yet, you'll find so many more incredible insights, he truly is the most impactful person I've watched on the internet. If you want to be entertained as well, check out his interviews with content creators, checkout the ones with creators you know first.

[@AS-oo4gv]

@@comend1910^^^ definite! He’s got years and years of content. It’s really great

[@emekaukoha9847]

​@@comend1910absolutely comend, ever since I started watching healthy gamer I've had better understanding of myself a lot

[@jimbow25]

Lol pretty common knowledge

[@GetBetterGolf]

@@jimbow25 To some people it’s common knowledge, and to some people it’s not, that is the beauty of people sharing knowledge with each other. Hopefully someone out there that needs this advice or insight will hear what Dr. k said and it can help them change their lives for the better.

[@stashnites]

i watched so many dr k videos and they are nice and informative but i love this one right here the most, because in human interviewing and dialogue is such an amazing part of mental health and you guys asked interesting and on the nose questions, love it

[@Antarcticist]

This conversation made me subscribe.. I'm a HUGE FAN of Dr. K and seeing him outside of his own format makes me so happy and I learned so much! I LOVE YOU ALL

[@FinancialCharles]

This is such quality content graham. I started watching your main channel in 2019 and I gotta say that info was super helpful, but today, it's the iced coffee hour that provides soooo much value. so much....

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

I appreciate that! Jack and I put a lot of effort into the guests, questions, flow, etc!

[@BrookeReno-p9d]

JACK WAS AWESOME!!! Best interview I’ve watched in a while, bring him back! Bring more guests like this and let Jack soar!

[@Jet7Wave]

I didn't expect just how satisfying it'd be to see the excitement and curiousity from you guys talking to Dr. K in this way. Most talks with him are kind of somber but here I felt that energy as if twitch chat itself came alive to finally get Dr. K's full attention lol. Fantastic questions and engagement!

[@bulletfastspeed]

Bruh... This is by far the best podcast/interview I've seen Dr K on. Holy shit. Can y'all have him on again??? Great questions. Great pushing back and forth to get to deeper truths. Loved it

[@CahenBarlos]

KZbin Served this to me and I was neither a sub to either your channel or Dr. K's and I immediately subbed to both. So much value and thought provoking content Thank you. I hope for a pt. 2 at some point.

[@criticalhit114]

ive seen all of collabs with Dr K and while they are all great on their own this was without a doubt THE BEST! loved this episode!

[@ConradLin]

I really like how Dr K questioned what they were fearful of to help them understand his decision making. I think this act of trying to understand before needing to be understood is so powerful.

[@etherrr]

I know most people probably want the science but please talk more about the karma and eastern mysticism and esoteric stuff next time it really makes so much sense to me but he seems hesitant to give us those esoteric gems or more on doshas would be awesome. That is where I find the most value in this. Calling out vata traits vs others helps so much in understanding myself and others.

[@stanleyyelnats4524]

This is probably the first time I have watched a long podcast in its entirety. Very insightful and I appreciate the more niche ideas. I especially enjoy Dr.k being able to put real life examples for Jordans questions and experiences

[@demonsnails]

Im only 35 minutes in, and I am LOVING this conversation! Awesome seeing this collab between my favourite creators!

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@kentjaypepito2771]

That was absolutely perspective -changing. A treasure trove to watch.

[@danielh2869]

You guys are having the best guests!!! My God what a podcast

[@TheIcedCoffeeHour]

THANK YOU!!

[@kennylaysh2776]

The discussion around dating was SO good, thanks for this interview - love Dr. K! What was said about dating apps and everything around that, pinpoints exactly what I was trying to understand why I hate the apps so much. I had deleted all dating apps long ago, and just absolutely hated them - this helped me see WHY I hated them.

[@princesslola9449]

Omg I’m 5 minutes into this and already think yes! I skipped school for 3 months in year 12 (final year of high school) because it was so boring. I struggled to stay focused. Lucky for me my mum said as long as you pass don’t go to school. She had to have a meeting with the school supervisors. My brothers are way smarter so I thought I’m average. Still do. I’m clumsy so it kind of evens out in my opinion. I finished watching it now and would like to thank you for all the information provided. It will help me immensely. I was diagnosed with MS 2 days ago. I will need all the strength I can gather. It’s a shock still but being aware is the most important point I took from this. I already do Pilates and have done so for 20yrs and I meditate. Thank you very much.

[@twiggs.creative]

5 minutes in and I realized I didn't go from being smart and tutoring kids in grades above me to lazy and stupid in late high school and college...I was just unchallenged and didn't know how to accommodate a new challenge. I always say, if I were to go to college today I'd do way better than I did as an 18-year-old. Now I know how to deal with challenges. Then, I had no clue. Everything was so easy up to that point, how could I have? Thanks for helping me realize I wasn't lazy and stupid from 16 - 22 haha.

[@eugeneheimann8511]

This was the first Iced Coffee Hour I watched, love Dr. K's content, and watched the whole 2:46:01 of this pod, it was great!

[@Namulsi]

Would 100% watch a Part 2, so many amazing insights and advice, really made me internally analyze myself and I would just love to hear another several hour talk about many other aspects of life as a whole

[@VinceVintage]

You guys KILLED it with this episode. You guys asked the best questions and had great chemistry with Dr K I’ve listened to a lot of interviews with Dr K and this one by FAR is the best

[@HKCanadian]

This was very insightful. Please have a part 2, 3 and 4! If Graham is open to it I’d love to hear Dr. K deep diving into his psyche too!

[@gnatdagnat]

Yes pls😊

[@AviOW]

Dr. K has his own youtube channel and community.

[@zikaperic2133]

what's ur stance on tantric practice?

[@wilsonwong431]

Been following Dr K for a long time this was a great podcast elaborated on a lot of things you just can't talk about in only half a hour would absolutely love to see another 3 hours!

[@JTIrons]

This is becoming one of the highest quality podcasts available. I love the genuine curiosity with guests. I don't like when shows feel scripted.

[@jonathanticas6901]

Well said

[@violetselim6874]

Lowkey Theo von I still love his podcasts but he seems bored with the guests😂

[@GrahamStephan]

Thank you!!

[@Ur_clickbait_is_trash]

LMAO !!! Just googled him. He's another Skammer grammy interviewed for clicks and views.

[@jesssandhu9432]

@@Ur_clickbait_is_trashNo Dr. K’s not. I’ve learned so much from him that got me back into university. He isn’t even getting money from this, he’s a psychologist - he has his own job. He’s simply trying to help people that were lost like he is

[@brileecart]

As an ex heroin addict, Dr. K really hit the nail on the head at 1:07:00(ish). I hadn't been identified as autistic yet and trying to survive was killing me, but in that moment, it all fell away. It was all...fine and okay. I've always tried explaining it, but never could get the wording right. This was phenomenal.

[@deltacharlieecho4732]

Man, I've been depressed for years. I smoked weed for a long time and when I smoked it was from about 9pm to 3am every single night. When I was smoking that was when I was feeling the best in my life. As I've grown older and stopped smoking I've become far more aware of the areas in my life where I'm a failure and it has been weighing down on me ever since. I went from being an advanced kid in school to barely finishing my associates degree because of poor stress management to dropping out of 4 universities due to an inability to accept teachers presenting incorrect information or even requesting clarification on information being presented in a way that I was not familiar with. If I found out that I was autistic today, I'd probably go home and down an entire bottle of whatever I had in my medicine cabinet. I have gone from one of the kids in my high school with the most potential to a loser dropout making good money that can't even make ends meet; if someone told me it was a problem with me at a foundational level, I don't think I could continue living my life as a burden to others. It just isn't in my coding to be someone that can't fend for himself.

[@brileecart]

@@deltacharlieecho4732 I’m 13 years clean, working in top level management at my job, in a career that I love, going back to school(at the behest of said company) and maintaining a 4.0 GPA, and absolutely killing it. Finding out I’m autistic just meant I needed to stop trying to force myself to be a horse when I’m really a zebra. Sucks that you’re struggling and I hope you figure it out, but your comment was dripping with ableist bullshit. I’d rather be me than be you any day.

[@deltacharlieecho4732]

@@brileecart ableism is a made up concept; either you can do something or you can’t. No ideology applicable, just measurable practicality.

[@hassanbolagligsman]

@@brileecart What does autism have to do with heroin addiction?

[@brileecart]

@@hassanbolagligsman I’m not sure I entirely understand the question. Like how does not knowing I’m autistic lead to me developing a heroin addiction?

[@sonny5497]

Wow this was one of the best podcast I've heard. Dr K is amazing at communicating ideas.

[@austinmpranger]

Great conversation! Rarely do I find a podcast/conversation so captivating I don't want to multi-task while listening. I really appreciated how Dr. K helped bring certain points home by asking questions and allowing the hosts find their own answers for some topics.

[@unit333angel]

DR K is freaking brilliant. This whole episode and conversation between the three of them is BRILLIANT. Honestly, I am mindblown this conversation is even happening on this type of podcast. I am so glad that DR K's presence, energy and wisdom is being shared with this type of demographic who would watch podcasts like these. I am mindblowwwwn by the insight shared in this episode! Thank you thank you for having him on this episode! I love how Dr K combines the east and western perspectives in his advice and insight! Such an incredibly grounded person!

[@joeistead]

This is one of those rare videos where you feel better and better as you stick through it.

[@ivanivan4155]

This is your best episode so far! You've been constantly improving your podcasting skills, and you're choosing better guests every time. Thanks for doing this!

[@JJonwheels]

Definitely one of my favorite episodes. I loved the two of you talk and hearing Dr K easily talking with you guys was amazing. I always have questions like you did but always fear that I would come across annoying but Dr K being so open to the discussion, it makes me feel like i can connect with him and take in his advice more. You should definitely do a part 2, I would love for it to be on things like helping one finding the right doctor for themselves, more specifically like Dr K as his videos are always great and can connect with. Other than that, im sure you guys will come up with great ideas too.

[@seanshomestead]

Woah this was fantastic. Y’all need to have Dr. K on again… there’s so many rabbit holes y’all need to explore! Thank you guys!!

[@Antwerp87]

Please do a part 2 and continue your journey in India. Gutted we didn’t hear the rest of your story. As as subscriber of your KZbin and twitch. It’s cool to hear part of what happened.

[@ekt2656]

Been coming back to this video over the course of a week to watch it and as a Dr. K watcher for over a year now, I loved your guys' approach to just asking questions and being curious. I would love to see another episode with even more everyday questions and inquisitiveness.

[@lmelior]

I used to say that I hit that wall in my 3rd year of college, where all of a sudden I needed help in order to do well in one of my classes, and thankfully a buddy of mine had good study habits and was there to keep me on track. But it only occurred to me as I was watching this that I always needed help, it was just that up until then, the help I received came in the form of teaching other people. Since I was just quicker to understand things, I had always basically tutored classmates in high school and the first couple years in college, and having to answer their questions is what really built and solidified my understanding.

[@7Zyd]

This was an amazing collab. A great conversation with relateable experiences and examples! Great content from all! Hopefully we'll get a part 2!

[@anaca7789]

Pease bring him back this conversation was so insightful time flew and I want a 5 hour part 2 found you and subbed because of this!!

[@Wendy-ge5ts]

I have heavily advocated for my autistic child that progressively regressed on the spectrum over the years due to traumatic experiences. He is beyond brilliant. Dr. K, you’re spot on. I personally have experienced this phenomenon. It gotten so bad I coped in unhealthy ways until finally I was late diagnosed neurodivergent and I was able to recover from there. It took some trial and error but I was able to take the diagnosis and understand what personal modifications I needed to apply. Sadly there’s is so much misunderstandings about neurodivergence. I’m so hopeful. there are solutions but why aren’t we applying them in the public education system?

[@mathiaslovnes2667]

Dr K's amazing teaching abilities and your guys' genuine curiosity is a perfect match for a podcast. Definitely wanna see another one!

[@kierracastleyt]

Made it to the end and wow. This opened my mind up to soooooooo many things about myself that I didn’t realize before. Def need a part 2 😭

[@notme_jeff]

I didn’t even know I could finish watching a 2-hr podcast. The entire conversation is really insightful. Dr. K is brilliant and the hosts were very interactive too. ❤

[@joshtownsend7506]

This was awesome to watch. I watch a lot of Dr. K, but this has really helped me see more of the end game for asking all the questions. The closing your eyes method really helped put things into perspective. Also I liked the idea with why some people are all over the place with their ability to pay attention and need to have multiple challenging things happening at one time to really grow.

[@sellingsolutions2023]

Please bring him back. I would love to dive into why so many married people are on dating apps or other secret apps. Why do people turn to their phones instead of their significant others? Also, how meditate through a career change. You two are awesome! I watch all of the time, and I didn't realize I wasn't subscribed, so I am now subscribed. I am probably not your normal demographic as I am a 55-year-old woman. Lol.

[@DeepSketch]

"you are always using the instrument of yourself" beautiful

[@Artem_Gratis]

MORE!! And the solo dives are good because they allow you guys to actually pull out and discuss specific examples of things and then sort of weave out a broader application for the audience as the discussion evolves. So you focus in and then spiral out, focus in, spiral out. Great stuff 🎉

[@Artem_Gratis]

I watch all of y’all by the way so this was fantastic.