The new politics of gender identity | Kathleen Stock

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Kathleen Stock protests against viewing gender identity as a private mental state.
To watch Kathleen Stock's full debate with Tommy Curry and Aaron Bastani on the topic of freedom of speech at universities, please visit: iai.tv/video/truth-prejudice-...
Kathleen Mary Linn Stock is an outspoken gender critical feminist whose views resulted in her being targeted by the group anti-terf Sussex.
Her ultimate resignation from the University of Sussex sparked intense debate on freedom of speech at universities, the need to voice controversial opinions and the potential dangers such open debate posed to both trans people and women.
00:56 What's your view on the distinction made between sex and gender?
03:55 Would separating biological sex from gender expression be the way forward?
07:02 How does fixtion come to be invovled in the transgender discussion?
13:55 How do we ensure the safety of women and trans women in public facilities?
19:04 What is the core driving force of violence against women?
#transrights #freedomofspeech #KathleenStock
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@TheInstituteOfArtAndIdeas
@TheInstituteOfArtAndIdeas Жыл бұрын
Do you agree with Kathleen Stock's framing of the public conversation around trans rights? We would love to hear about it in the comments! To watch Stock lay out her case on the problem with universities, go to iai.tv/video/truth-prejudice-and-the-university3?KZbin&
@Mirtillas1
@Mirtillas1 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree with Kathleen, she has the rights to express her views which are based on facts. There is indeed a serious concern of the safety of women, sex matters and by law must be protected.
@tommylakindasorta3068
@tommylakindasorta3068 Жыл бұрын
Kathleen has no academic background in medicine, biology or psychology. Couldn't you have found an actual expert to speak on this topic? What value does an uneducated person (in the relevant fields) bring to the table, exactly?
@beecat9951
@beecat9951 Жыл бұрын
@@tommylakindasorta3068 most people don't need to be an expert in biology to recognise biological sex in themselves and others, hence why the human race has managed to reproduce for millenia just fine. It's only in the 21st century that we could play make believe that medical technology comes anything like close to reframing this very basic, yet fundamental, fact.
@beecat9951
@beecat9951 Жыл бұрын
​​​@Astrid Alaniz please stop spreading false information. Sex is binary in humans since a third human gamete has never been discovered. It takes one egg and one sperm to create a human fetus. Two gametes = two sexes, male and female. No third gamete, no third+ sex, which is why you cannot name a third gamete nor a third or more sex in humans.
@Mirtillas1
@Mirtillas1 Жыл бұрын
@Astrid Alaniz facts are that women’s safety has been undermined by allowing anyone to enter to single sex spaces only. She is concerned about the erosion of women’s rights. People can dress however they please and call themselves whatever they like and live the best life in peace and security. But force women like Kathleen out of their job for stating that biological sex is real? It is absolutely disgraceful the way she has been treated. Whatever your argument is, the reality is that a man is born as a male and will die as a male and same is for women.
@paopper-ys7xj
@paopper-ys7xj Жыл бұрын
The fact that this ladies views can be seen as controversial is the real controversy.
@erasmus186
@erasmus186 Жыл бұрын
It is so tiring that the fact you have to explain it appears to make it contentious.
@anniemihn
@anniemihn Жыл бұрын
A shame, I'd say.
@RubyJeans943
@RubyJeans943 Жыл бұрын
💯 💯 💯
@debdoc100
@debdoc100 Жыл бұрын
Yeah. I wonder that because we treated homosexuality so heinously in past decades, and at last, thankfully, rights have been won...are we frightened to say something that might be seen as not supporting that? And I hate that right wing religious wankers tends to take an anti-trans view, then any critique is viewed as right wing. Its not in this case . Can we separate these concepts
@nanashi7779
@nanashi7779 Жыл бұрын
@@debdoc100 Separate which concepts
@Fee_V
@Fee_V Жыл бұрын
God this woman’s patience is phenomenal.
@cleopatraoatcake7364
@cleopatraoatcake7364 Жыл бұрын
With narcissistic, pompous asses who think they know everything, like the interviewer? Yes, indeed!
@gamer1X12
@gamer1X12 Жыл бұрын
the interview was asking the dumbest questions lol. him insisting adulthood is superficial had me pulling my hair. as if there's no difference between a 9 year old and a 19 year old! She has the patience of a saint. I would've snapped.
@brocktoon8
@brocktoon8 Жыл бұрын
Yeah seriously. When I saw they were having Kathleen Stock on, I thought I'd subscribe because I thought that signified that it was an intelligent channel. But after sitting through the unbelievably blockheaded questions by the idiot interviewer, I have changed my mind. Not subscribing if this is the level of this channel.
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
@@gamer1X12 He said "arbitrary", not "superficial", and that's because he's correct. You're taking an average of the population and trying to apply it to an individual. That's why it gets "fuzzy around the edges", because an individual is not a society. Some mature faster, some mature slower. You're choosing to make assumptions, instead of directly observing the individual, because it's materially-difficult to do so. You're choosing to not investigate the individual, because of a factor that's irrelevant to their level-of-development. That's, definitionally, arbitrary.
@lewreed1871
@lewreed1871 Жыл бұрын
@@Capybarrrraaaa A certain amount of arbitrariness is inescapable when deciding on things like the age of consent. In the UK and Ireland it's 16 on the basis that in the mean, most people will have reached a certain level of cognitive and emotional development by that age and are ready to begin learning about how to conduct intimate relationships. In that sense, it's not truly arbitrary at all. When it comes to competence to consent to medical treatments for example, anyone under 16 would have to meet what's known in law as 'Gillick competence', whereby their consent can be established as being reasonably well informed. In the former situation, typical development at a given age is taken as standard. In the latter, the individual is looked at. I wonder, do you think puberty blockers and hormones should be available to children under 16 on demand?
@michaelterry1000
@michaelterry1000 Жыл бұрын
At <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="153">2:33</a> “Well, I wouldn’t care at all if people weren’t trying to ratify it into law and policy”, Yep, that is how many of us feel and the argument, “They just want to be left alone to live their lives as they please” is a flat out lie.
@howardhutton6806
@howardhutton6806 Жыл бұрын
Ratifying equality will happen. But first we have to get beyond the radical essentialism of patriarchal misogyny adopted and internalized by so many females including Trans females . It’s the traditional discrimination of non confirmed in gender binary cultures like ours. And then we have to get beyond the fear mongering binary thinking that has produced over 436 anti lgbtq bills of every kind in 2022 and 2023 alone in the USA. We will get there. Accuracy and justice are coming because love wins. Fear and disinformation are powerful but love wins.
@b43xoit
@b43xoit Жыл бұрын
"reify"
@Kritikanbringer
@Kritikanbringer 2 ай бұрын
But what is the problem if we all share the same bathroom? What protects "women's spaces" from men entering? The law? Not even sure. But surely, in practise, mainly male police officers (some call it the patriarchy) will come, step in and eject men from women's spaces. But why are women not afraid of policemen? Why are women afraid of men in general? Why is this misandry allowed and accepted? And what makes women sure they are mot being assaulted by women? Facts > feelings.
@CC3GROUNDZERO
@CC3GROUNDZERO Ай бұрын
@@Kritikanbringer You bring only feelings, no facts whatsoever. Why are women not afraid of being assaulted by women? Because 99% of sexual assaults are done by men. "What makes women "sure" they are not assaulted by women?" is a pure straw man argument on your part. No woman has ever claimed that. Just that with men, there is a clear and present danger, and crime statistics prove it. So, just stay out of women's spaces. And cops are supposed to follow law and order. What you're saying boils down to "might makes right", which is a rapist's attitude. You're a creep, and you should probably be locked up.
@ishenrik
@ishenrik Жыл бұрын
Why are her views "controversial"? She talks nothing but sense
@divxxx
@divxxx 11 ай бұрын
I don't think they are controversial, I think they are a bit naive, banal and superficial.
@jezdavis1865
@jezdavis1865 Ай бұрын
@@divxxx could you engage with the ideas further? Which of her ideas are wrong?
@divxxx
@divxxx Ай бұрын
@@jezdavis1865 Sorry, I don't remember this video and I am not going to watch it again in order to answer to your question. Forgive me.
@slacktoryrecords4193
@slacktoryrecords4193 Ай бұрын
@@divxxxnaïve in what way?
@MaggieMMM
@MaggieMMM Жыл бұрын
Arguing that adulthood is arbitrary is very worrying, adulthood is clearly linked to sexual and biological maturation. Biology matters and sexual maturation matters. Women and Men are different and have different needs. I love Dr Kathleen Stock, she is so sensible and measured, how anyone could be offended by her is beyond me.
@lynseypringle9585
@lynseypringle9585 Жыл бұрын
When you know that at the core of all of this Nonce-sense is to lower the age of consent you will see!
@SchutzBoysband
@SchutzBoysband Жыл бұрын
Adulthood is based on how many times the planet has resolved around the sun since you were born, not sexual maturityor frontal lobe development. That's obviously arbitrary.
@kerrinorman2073
@kerrinorman2073 Жыл бұрын
It’s one of the dirty little undercurrents of this mvt that activists do not want to face. Basic safeguarding for women and kids.
@crescentsi
@crescentsi Жыл бұрын
Very good points.
@sparagmos4748
@sparagmos4748 Жыл бұрын
@@eatmanyzoos Why is it so hard for you to understand that having a problem with predatory or inappropriate men is not an act of misandry? Males hurt everyone in society more than women do. Just a fact, we all know it. We can't cook the books to change it. However many women predators there are there will always be more men, whatever their gender identity
@philoneussquire3877
@philoneussquire3877 Жыл бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1010">16:50</a> "Just because there's ambiguity around the edges doesn't mean it's completely arbitrary" Perfect response from Dr Stock
@Bradley_Lute
@Bradley_Lute 9 ай бұрын
It's like saying that just because viruses aren't easily categorized, there is no such thing as life.
@spacemess4607
@spacemess4607 17 күн бұрын
He said "kind of arbitrary" and he was right in that.
@philoneussquire3877
@philoneussquire3877 16 күн бұрын
@@spacemess4607 yes there is some arbitrariness around the edges but the categories as such are not arbitrary
@mikaham681
@mikaham681 Жыл бұрын
"Women are not skinsuits" <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1395">23:15</a> - Kath has reduced the discussion and argument to 4 words. Kath is a human totally in control of her intelligence and communication. Wow!
@b43xoit
@b43xoit Жыл бұрын
But the other thing is the threat to girls of having breast tissue taken away during their childhood, when they can't give informed consent.
@pommiebears
@pommiebears Жыл бұрын
I feel that women’s concerns are, by and large, completely pushed aside, for the feelings of trans people. I feel let down. I feel angry. I feel mocked. Outside of other women who feel like I do, and supportive men, the establishment has washed it’s hands with us.
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
^This... is the issue going-on here. Not what you said, but why you said it. Women's issues aren't being pushed-aside, that idea is incompatible with the claims of trans people. Your fear and discontent is being weaponised by people like Kathleen. Your upset about the issues are absolutely justified. From what you've been told and led to believe, you are being ignored. I can't say that I see that from trans people, though. If you'd like to step-through a concern you have, I have all the time in the world for you.
@highroller-jq3ix
@highroller-jq3ix Жыл бұрын
Can you please justify that silly-ass claim? So outside of people who agree with your transphobic hysteria, you feel like people who disagree disagree? What a stunning realization.
@commandershepard9920
@commandershepard9920 Жыл бұрын
Your concerns are valid, just make sure you don't go down the rabbit hole. You can be upset, for example, that sometimes transwomen are unfairly competing in sports against ciswomen; just don't hate all trans people for that (not saying you do), as even some trans people obviously are against that as well.
@highroller-jq3ix
@highroller-jq3ix Жыл бұрын
@@commandershepard9920 Name any instance in which a trans woman cheated her way into athletic competition. Genetics is never fair. Why should any trans people be HATED for competing within the rules?
@misfitm1457
@misfitm1457 Жыл бұрын
I agree. They claim they really are women, they claim to feel as women do, yet when you say keep out of women's spaces they suddenly revert to feeling like men. Men who are desperate to be in our areas. If transwomen won't change with men because they don't feel like men, and they feel at risk of harm (which we all respect), then respect that women don't want to change around a man and feel at risk of harm
@brooksiedoodle5087
@brooksiedoodle5087 Жыл бұрын
I'm thrilled to see her getting media attention. The way she was forced out of her job is shameful. We need sane, rational, educated, critical-thinking people like her in the limelight to fight this absurd ideology.
@JustinSmith-kn9ef
@JustinSmith-kn9ef Жыл бұрын
She's wasn't pushed she left because of her biased idealism
@francishooper9548
@francishooper9548 Жыл бұрын
@@JustinSmith-kn9ef She actually was pushed out because she spoke about truth and reality which is unacceptable to the emotionally immature trans activists and gender theorists.
@sarahsnowe
@sarahsnowe Жыл бұрын
@@JustinSmith-kn9ef Her life was made so difficult she had to leave. Would you want to be in a workplace where you're threatened with rape and death and your bosses don't support you? She was bullied out.
@JustinSmith-kn9ef
@JustinSmith-kn9ef Жыл бұрын
@@sarahsnowe she made her own position untenable sorry
@Hartley_Hare
@Hartley_Hare Жыл бұрын
@@JustinSmith-kn9ef They made her life as wretched as they could.
@SpikeyMikey341
@SpikeyMikey341 Жыл бұрын
"Kathleen Stock discusses her controversial views on sex and gender" - expect they are not really controversial at all are they?
@briancox9357
@briancox9357 Жыл бұрын
Only for people who read The Guardian or Independent
@ts4366
@ts4366 3 ай бұрын
@@briancox9357Nonsense. If I pick up a rag I’ll often choose either of these papers. I also align with Kathleen’s views. I also suspect her broader policy’s are left leaning. Please don’t let the populist right wing lure you in based on these types of issues.
@Out_on_a_Limb_Life
@Out_on_a_Limb_Life Ай бұрын
@@briancox9357 I read the Guardian and they're not controversial for me. Let's stop making huge generalisations.
@gailascari
@gailascari Жыл бұрын
Totally agree with Dr Stock. Why is it - again - women have to accomodate others for whatever reason, usually entitled men, now entitled men who want to be 'women'. Sooo exhausting for women who just want equal recognition in a masculine dominated society.
@lati_da
@lati_da Жыл бұрын
Can you imagine someone who is pro-gender identity coming on the show and being pushed on the topic the way this woman was. It will never happen! The pro gender identity person would wither and collapse, and then accuse the interviewer of transphobia. The fact that they can’t defend their ideas is further proof of the insanity of this premise
@zoeh8487
@zoeh8487 Жыл бұрын
I volunteer!
@noor5x9
@noor5x9 Жыл бұрын
The "anti-gender" movement is purely based on indulging in fictional scenarios that can reinforce your own prejudices. Whether it is fictional transphobia accusations or fictional situations of trans women raping people. Let's talk about things that actually happen
@JustinSmith-kn9ef
@JustinSmith-kn9ef Жыл бұрын
Disgusting remark
@heliusfacenna4109
@heliusfacenna4109 Жыл бұрын
I am pro-gender identity and very happy to discuss the subject in a clear and committed way. Where would you like to start?
@JustinSmith-kn9ef
@JustinSmith-kn9ef Жыл бұрын
@@heliusfacenna4109 fair enough anywhere you like like
@lechenaultia5863
@lechenaultia5863 Жыл бұрын
The intelligent, thoughtful, clear, patient and consistently kind Dr Stock.....the world has gone completely insane when someone of her calibre has to explain basic biology day after day...
@kerrinorman2073
@kerrinorman2073 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. It’s frankly embarrassing that she has to carefully explain reality.
@kenzi3168
@kenzi3168 Жыл бұрын
I personally think what we define as a clear biological divide between male and female is outdated. Even biologists will tell you that there is so much more than xx and xy genotype. It is a complicated debate and goes beyond a simple: a man is a man and a woman is a woman.
@dax2005
@dax2005 Жыл бұрын
@@kenzi3168 As a biologist I can assure you it is not outdated, and it will never will be. The developmental pathways are indeed very complicated, but the divide between male and female is pretty simple - two sexes, two gametes.
@Shalanaya
@Shalanaya Жыл бұрын
@@dax2005 It is totaly outdated, hence why so many scietists and biologists in this world fully acknoledge that trans women were born biological females, based on the criteria of gender identity that is fully biological and innate, as a guiding biological principle that deal with self perceptin and neurobiology, it has been officially recognized that way by the scientific community hence why it has been implemented in education and dictionaries. The world is moving on, and this lady is just resisting reality and basic science and the actual advanced biology with regards to what we know about transgender people. People like her are going to have a very hard time on earth, including conservatives.
@shinywarm6906
@shinywarm6906 Жыл бұрын
@@dax2005 Which biological characteristic(s) do you think is a definitive marker of the sex binary you assert ?
@paopper-ys7xj
@paopper-ys7xj Жыл бұрын
It's almost beyond belief that anyone can equate her claim that: "saying trans women are literally women is a type of fiction" with the idea that she thinks they don't exist. It's such a bizarre interpretation of her words that its difficult to understand how anyone could have put it forward. Of course she's not saying they don't exist as ppl. She's saying the claim that they literally are women is a fiction.
@beecat9951
@beecat9951 Жыл бұрын
The people who make this claim cannot define what a woman is, ergo erasing the meaning of both women and trans women in one swoop. Then they'll claim that's what you're doing. It's wild.
@janinemcmahon218
@janinemcmahon218 Жыл бұрын
Individuals having two X chromosomes (XX) are female; individuals having one X chromosome and one Y chromosome (XY) are male
@nickbarber2080
@nickbarber2080 Жыл бұрын
@@janinemcmahon218 That argument will get you bogged down by the lunatics,who will try to conflate men dressed as women with people with disorders of sexual development. The correct formulation is the potential to produce small,motile gametes or large sessile gametes. Why we have to descend to this level is insane,but that is what we,as a society,have come to.
@pwrite7273
@pwrite7273 Жыл бұрын
it's actually the opposite. If TW were W then the trans is erased
@nickbarber2080
@nickbarber2080 Жыл бұрын
@@pwrite7273 What's more,only men can become trans women...
@kayirvine8185
@kayirvine8185 Жыл бұрын
Highly intelligent, erudite and wise woman. Don’t know who was asking these questions but her patience and kindness towards the interviewer spoke volumes about where this debate is at and where we as humanity seem to have become lost.
@unnamed3932
@unnamed3932 11 ай бұрын
But no male should be allowed in women's single-sex spaces no matter how well HE passes b/c then how do you legally keep all other men out. Men cannot 'identify' into the female sex-class and belong in the male sex-class and the males need to sort this out in male spaces. Women are not men's shields and need to stay out of women-only spaces.
@lenaforsgren
@lenaforsgren 11 ай бұрын
I think the interviewer missed the obvious question about intersex, however. She seems to think that it’s easy to define biological sex, but it’s actually not. 🙂
@katharinaangelazafarani7220
@katharinaangelazafarani7220 11 ай бұрын
@@lenaforsgrenit's about "trans" intersex/DSD has nothing to do with "trans" , TrA just hijacked the term for their own purposes!
@evasilvertant
@evasilvertant 10 ай бұрын
@@katharinaangelazafarani7220 Intersex/DSD obviously has nothing specifically to do with trans, but the point still stands that biological sex is not easy to define; that it’s multifactorial and has a bimodal expression.
@slin2678
@slin2678 9 ай бұрын
​@@evasilvertant exceptions to the rule shouldn't redefine the rule. Just because intersex people exist doesn't change the definition of man and woman. It's like saying we need to rethink how many fingers a human has because some people are born with 6 instead of 5. Intersex is their own category and should not reduce their humanity in any way.
@MihirawhitiSearancke
@MihirawhitiSearancke Жыл бұрын
Commenting from New Zealand and as a indigenous Maori, feminist and lesbian it has been a harrowing time trying to understand the reactionary position of peoples drawing a trans argument coming fast and furious from the west. UK women like Professor Kathleen Stock, the author JK Rowling and academic Maya Forrest to Posie Parker who was attacked here when visiting. Just need to say thanks for all of you good women pushing back. This interview is the best and the professor has done fabulous in not missing an interview whether at Oxford or on entertainment news outlets. The erosion of women’s rights and the need to reaffirm indigenous rights in this instance with the changing laws to cater for transgender activism has colonialism all over it. Kia kaha waahine toa/Stay strong women of the world. Our children need protecting and in my view no child is born in the wrong body. Na Mihirawhiti Searancke
@Mikathedog100
@Mikathedog100 11 ай бұрын
My son was presumed female at birth. He has female external genitalia. We assumed him a girl and pushed back when he said at three that he is a boy. As it turns out he has xy chromosomes. It's more common than being trans - although I have no doubt there's an overlap. He is intersex as are around 2% of the population. Was he born in the "wrong body"? He feels he was. Regardless, we were certainly treating him as the wrong gender.
@adarkertriad
@adarkertriad 11 ай бұрын
@@Mikathedog100 Look intersex is still not the same as trans, despite any attempts in making the two overlap. Most trans people don't have any intersex conditions and when they make it a "whataboutism" they seem to be appropriating being intersex. And since I'm genuinely unsure and don't like the implications, what does it actually mean to treat someone as the "wrong" gender without using any gender stereotypes?
@Gingerblaze
@Gingerblaze 10 ай бұрын
@@Mikathedog100 how would you have treated him differently if you had known he was a male?
@lewreed1871
@lewreed1871 Жыл бұрын
It's very rare that I find myself in complete agreement with someone on a particular topic, but as a gay man and someone who has had a keen interest in this for some time, I am absolutely aligned with Kathleen Stock. Her perspective as a philosopher of fiction on the controversy around "gender" shines a bright light on an issue which is so often murky and shot through with intellectual garbage and political sleight-of-hand. She's a great ally in this fight -- and for any number of reasons I do see it as a fight -- against an ideology that I see as inherently harmful. Someone below said that Sussex University should hang its head in shame over her treatment. I agree. What a loss to teaching it is that this brilliant woman was thrown to the wolves.
@notreallydavid
@notreallydavid Жыл бұрын
Applaudable post, Lew. Yep, Sussex blew it and lost an exceptional member of academic staff - but I suspect she'll prove to be more influential away from full-time university employment than she would have been had she not been unjustly forced out of her job. All best
@serpentines6356
@serpentines6356 Жыл бұрын
Totally agree. Hope you are somehow using your good writing/communication skills to approach this cultural/political agenda, and bring it to the fore.
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
But she lied, Lew? She lied about what trans people claim several times and half of her points were just purely contradictory. Trans people claim that gender is innate, but want to "switch sexes" (whatever that means) somehow?
@highroller-jq3ix
@highroller-jq3ix Жыл бұрын
Either you're a cosplaying identity fraud, or you're a gay, bigoted hypocrite.
@nikmills
@nikmills Жыл бұрын
@@notreallydavid :Yup, like Peterson. These censoring idiots just help spread the word.
@joannawatson1584
@joannawatson1584 Жыл бұрын
Kathleen Stock is an absolute hero and all credit to her for keeping her cool in this conversation. It is unbelievable that what Kathleen is saying is considered in any way controversial. People have been captured into a cult and voices like Kathleen, Helen Joyce and Julie Bindal are vital.
@dale9724
@dale9724 Жыл бұрын
Well said.
@serpentines6356
@serpentines6356 Жыл бұрын
I admire Posie Parker a lot too. I was calling it a cult years ago when this was barely being discussed in public. I had to wait a while, but now more, and more people are learning. I just hope we can restore women's sports, private spaces etc., to being cie women only, like they are supposed to be.
@poissonnoir5762
@poissonnoir5762 Жыл бұрын
This cult you mention, I wonder what percent of it believed wholeheartedly in the mandates that turned out to be a lot less scientific than we were assured, the benefits of the v that turned out to be a fraction than what it was built up to be, and won't hear one word about side effects 🤔
@profplum5
@profplum5 Жыл бұрын
I could listen to this woman for hours. I hope she sells a million books. Her elegant bravery is a breath of fresh air.
@karlscher5170
@karlscher5170 Жыл бұрын
bravery because she acts in her interests as lesb ian?
@profplum5
@profplum5 Жыл бұрын
@@karlscher5170 No. because daring to have an opinion that mildly opposes far left ideologies often results in doxing and death threats. Not sure what her being a lesbian has to do with anything?
@karlscher5170
@karlscher5170 Жыл бұрын
@@profplum5 As a butch lesbian she views men primarily as sexual competitors, especially men in a female role intruding 'female spaces'. That is understandable but not noble or idealistic by any means. Trans ideology is not far left but extreme libertarIian.
@profplum5
@profplum5 Жыл бұрын
@@karlscher5170 did you really just say that? Serious homophobic undertones here. Yuck.
@jislaaikrockadopolis7215
@jislaaikrockadopolis7215 Жыл бұрын
Same here. She is FANTASTIC.
@Trackformers
@Trackformers 11 ай бұрын
The most basic concepts that a 3 year old can grasp, seem to be unfathomable for some people nowadays.
@Mel-wn9gb
@Mel-wn9gb 11 ай бұрын
Yes, a woman is a female human being. How hard is it?
@Trackformers
@Trackformers 11 ай бұрын
@@Mel-wn9gb No it's not hard. it's dishonest and embarrassing.
@emmiebl6605
@emmiebl6605 Жыл бұрын
I could listen to Kathleen all day! Always so erudite, clear and reasonable. It’s so shameful the way that she has been treated - the University of Sussex should hang it’s head in shame
@TheSapphire51
@TheSapphire51 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more.
@jasonsmith3202
@jasonsmith3202 Жыл бұрын
IAI should arrange a debate between Neil DeGrasse Tyson and this woman. Neil is in team cancel culture woke
@undertheriverstone
@undertheriverstone Жыл бұрын
Shame on those professors!!!
@luizalouyoga
@luizalouyoga Жыл бұрын
100% agreed.
@jonathanbailey1597
@jonathanbailey1597 Жыл бұрын
Hardly. If only you knew what actually went on at Sussex.
@Gingerblaze
@Gingerblaze Жыл бұрын
"Women are not skin suits". Thank you for saying so Kathleen. Seems there are quite a few in the medical industry with a "buffalo bill" philosophy that think otherwise.
@pommiebears
@pommiebears Жыл бұрын
Hear, Hear!
@zoeh8487
@zoeh8487 Жыл бұрын
Why she thinks that is such a 🔥statement when she argues “women are gametes!” I have no idea.
@ejtattersall156
@ejtattersall156 Жыл бұрын
Feminists have been teaching since the 80s that men and women were only superficially different. No backtracking, now.
@ambientjohnny
@ambientjohnny Жыл бұрын
@@zoeh8487 You have a problem acknowledging physical reality then though "literally no one is denying biological facts"?
@zoeh8487
@zoeh8487 Жыл бұрын
@@ambientjohnny I would be happy to respond to your argument if i could figure out what it is
@rogerflack415
@rogerflack415 Жыл бұрын
How she hears these ludicrous arguments time after time and maintains her cool is a testament to her commitment to rational thought and debate. The title of this video could be "Man attempts to lecture woman on how giving up her rights is good for her".
@maybefreeoneday906
@maybefreeoneday906 Жыл бұрын
omg it's thrilled to just get to know what happened! As a philosophy student I understand what she means by academics have the power to say things that look themselves fancy. It's really just a relief to finally hear someone say yes trans people can do things to aestheicize their body but nobody can change their sex, it's just a simple fact, I think academic has been immerse themselves too long in the philosophical thinking of 'yeah everything is a construction'
@evasilvertant
@evasilvertant 10 ай бұрын
What do you mean, “finally hear someone say...”? This is what most people say. How is this a refreshing statement?
@maybefreeoneday906
@maybefreeoneday906 10 ай бұрын
@@evasilvertantI mean normally when someone states that the statements become controversial and the person get cancelled. I wouldn't say it's what most people say now. What most people say now is 'we shouldn't be and we dare not to be transphobia (whatever that means)'
@Mina-pq4ml
@Mina-pq4ml 9 ай бұрын
thats a plain lie. in most places youre risking to be attacked in some way when you dont look manly enough as a man and so on.
@kerrinorman2073
@kerrinorman2073 Жыл бұрын
Well that was painful. Thank you Dr Stock for persevering in your insistence on a reality based approach. The twisting and torturing of what we can see with own eyes is cringeworthy.
@highroller-jq3ix
@highroller-jq3ix Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, there is never anyone more knowledgeable about and invested in reality than a philosopher.
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
But she's not taking a reality-based approach; she lied about what trans people claim several times and half of her points were just purely contradictory. Trans people claim that gender is innate, but want to "switch sexes" (whatever that means) somehow?
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
@@highroller-jq3ix The fact that she's a philosopher is very worrying, considering the stuff she's willing to spout. She's knows how, where and why she's wrong about what she's saying, and still choses to say it. It makes it easy to write-off incompetence in this case; this is intentional.
@highroller-jq3ix
@highroller-jq3ix Жыл бұрын
@@Capybarrrraaaa You may have missed my intended irony. I don't actually hold philosophers as a whole in particularly high esteem. I think you're probably correct however.
@lewreed1871
@lewreed1871 Жыл бұрын
@@Capybarrrraaaa Elaborate. You keep flinging the charge around with nothing to substantiate it.
@thejcquartet6943
@thejcquartet6943 Жыл бұрын
'Kathleen Stock discusses her controversial views on sex and gender'. Controversial? What the hell is controversial about knowing what a woman actually is? I wonder whether the interviewer would define a woman correctly? I doubt it.
@chinajazzcat
@chinajazzcat Жыл бұрын
Unbelievable that a person can be criticized for stating a plain incontrovertible fact. Most sane people will agree that we should not discriminate against people based on how they choose to identify, but it is highly problematic when we’re being bullied into buying into someone else’s fiction.
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
You're not being bullied into buying another's fiction. That's bullshit that she just made-up. Her argument breaks-down every single concept from personal-identity, to loving your parents, to your favourite colour as "fiction". It's unhinged. And then she lies about trans people "wanting to be a different sex" when transgenderism is all about wanting to associate with a different set of social-traits. All the while complaining that this is 'middle-class word-games' while she's just, plainly, refusing to address what trans people are saying.
@JohnJohnson-gg2xm
@JohnJohnson-gg2xm Жыл бұрын
@@CapybarrrraaaaYes you are bullied into anothers fiction, demanding to be adressed and seen the way you want to be seen is something different than how you present yourself or your appearance/behaviour is taken in. You can identify yourself as a sweet girl or boy, but when shouting to another i demand to be adressed and seen a certain way because of how you feel or think, you present yourself not very sweet at all. In american idol auditions some identify themself as great vocal artist mainly by doctrination of the sweet parent. And everybody can hear it is not great , accept the one singing and they get mad when told the truth
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
@@JohnJohnson-gg2xm You're presuming that you're not imposing because you default to society's default. We're recognising that all gender is arbitrary and calling-out people who impose their ideas on others. If anything, you're bullying into a fiction by imposing this system. Our entire point is about how gender is stupid and that we're trying to compromise with you. Yet again, willingness to compromise bites us... and you wonder why we get frustrated.
@divxxx
@divxxx 11 ай бұрын
Ugh, in a discussion about trans people she never mentions gender dysphoria, which is the basis. It's like talking about WW2 and never mention Germany.
@elliotsmith935
@elliotsmith935 9 ай бұрын
@@divxxx AMEN
@sulaimanjalloh
@sulaimanjalloh Жыл бұрын
I’m amazed how she could resist laughter at the idea that a man can shape everyone’s reality by simply declaring he’s a woman. But more importantly, I commend her courage and integrity for standing on sound reasoning, academic principles, and genuineness in stating her stances. I wish there were more like her in this discussion because shutting down opposing views isn’t the answer. We should have healthy debates about this in society and not just relegate it to the whims and desires of the academic elites.
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
"sound reasoning, academic principles, and genuineness" is the exact opposite of what she's doing. If she followed those qualities, then she's be aware of the criticisms that gender non-conforming people have instead of just waddling along with the disinformation about us. "that a man can shape everyone’s reality by simply declaring he’s a woman" Yes. A male is capable of associating with feminine-stereotypical behaviours. Why do you find this contentious? "shutting down opposing views isn’t the answer" It can be. When we all agree to be honest and constructive, it's never right to shut people down because any individual might have a valuable clue that'll help us. People like Kathleen, however, do not aim to be honest and constructive, and any space she's given will be used to derail the whole cart. See above, where she bases her entire opposition against a strawman instead of just reading out literature.
@suzie_lovescats
@suzie_lovescats 5 ай бұрын
@@Capybarrrraaaa Just because a man can associate with female characteristics that doesn’t make him a woman. Just like me being a Tom boy as a child doesn’t make me a man.
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa 5 ай бұрын
@@suzie_lovescats What you just did is the same foolishness as saying _'if you season the beef like this, you'll want to eat it'_ to a vegan; the man/woman/tomboy/etc. distinction (the seasoning) doesn't apply to my position because I'm a Gender Abolitionist (vegan). We need to discuss whether Gender Norms (meat-eating) should even be a thing, before the 'seasoning' even matters. We could argue until we're blue about what constitues 'woman' or 'man' or whatever other gender, and we'd get nowhere because we'd be presupposing a really bad foundation for our beliefs. Gender Norms just need to be scrapped. I mean well, Suzie, but this conversation doesn't have simple answers, just because so many people draw hasty conclusions. People, like Kathleen, weaponise these gaps in our abilities.
@suzie_lovescats
@suzie_lovescats 5 ай бұрын
@@CapybarrrraaaaActually no they don’t need to be scrapped. Men and women are separated in sports for a reason because we’re both different. Men are physically stronger than women which is why men who can’t compete with their own gender invade women’s sports for the purpose of stealing their awards. In the beginning God created male and female- enough said!
@karlfrancis546
@karlfrancis546 Жыл бұрын
Good luck Kathleen, stay strong! You've been harassed and bullied for the Orwellian crime of 'wrongthink'. Ideology is very much meeting reality, the edifice of manure is crumbling.
@PostScarcitytCat
@PostScarcitytCat Жыл бұрын
Orwell is when people say other people wrong hur hur
@SandraPenelope1000
@SandraPenelope1000 Жыл бұрын
I don't know how Kathleen managed to be so patient. Who is the interviewer? Does he actually believe that a man who "feels" he's a woman is the same thing as his own mother, for example? No difference at all? Does he believe that a trans woman has the same health issues as a woman? Does he not know that there are women in certain prisons who are being impregnated by other "women"? His comments about age being a social construct are borderline p*dophilia. Children are children and need protection.
@globnobulous
@globnobulous Жыл бұрын
Thank god there are still educated, eloquent people talking sense.
@CallyLawson
@CallyLawson Жыл бұрын
The interviewer was completely out of his depth with this eloquent lady, she explains the absurdity brilliantly 👏
@richardfraser7024
@richardfraser7024 Жыл бұрын
He was playing devil's advocate. And thus did a great job
@CallyLawson
@CallyLawson Жыл бұрын
@@richardfraser7024 🤣
@susandavorn3249
@susandavorn3249 Жыл бұрын
@@richardfraser7024 au contraire he simply sounded idiotic
@casscamden740
@casscamden740 11 ай бұрын
@@richardfraser7024 oh & there was me thinking he was a wrong un for saying that children are adults
@nickbarber2080
@nickbarber2080 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the way she doesn't let him get away with his BS
@kabirdas2786
@kabirdas2786 Жыл бұрын
He really tried it. Multiple times.
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
BS like?
@deborahcustance2754
@deborahcustance2754 Жыл бұрын
How do you present the debate if you don't present the counter-arguments? You might think the counter-arguments are BS, but the interviewer would not be doing a good job if he didn't pose the alternative points of view. He then let Kathleen Stock speak for as long as she liked to put her point of view. I thought he did a good job.
@FreedomForever2010
@FreedomForever2010 Жыл бұрын
@@deborahcustance2754 I agree with you. It's not the interviewer's job to set up easy answers with easy questions. A good interviewer asks those oppositional questions to allow the interviewee to elucidate their positions.
@lorraine.-.
@lorraine.-. Жыл бұрын
@@deborahcustance2754 the interviewer was being purposefully derogatory. Are you 77th brigade because your many comments would say you are.
@L_Martin
@L_Martin Жыл бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="995">16:35</a> uh-oh. Stock grimaces and my jaw drops as this dude keeps talking lmao He stumbles straight into post modern q / weer theory talking points. "Is a child really a child? 'Child' is a social construct, it is invented... therefore they can consent?" Ughhhh Interviewer, if you have a 10 y/o girl, I think you know damn well it's not merely a "social convention" that is telling you why you can't sleep with her.
@zaloo
@zaloo Жыл бұрын
how about a 16 yo? in Spain? in the USA? in Louisiana? in 1782? 2043? i think Stock is great. i don't get why ppl need to pile on to the interviewer. interviews are not supposed to be purely comfortable, its the interviewer's job to present different viewpoints, especially major ones, whether he believes it or not. ironic that people want to "defend" Stock with safe spaces, same as her opposers.. ))
@notreallydavid
@notreallydavid Жыл бұрын
Hi. I think it's sometimes useful for an interviewer to raise an opposing position, even if he or she doesn't subscribe to it. The point is to establish what the subject thinks. All best
@L_Martin
@L_Martin Жыл бұрын
​@@zaloo Exactly as Stock said though, it's going to be a ballpark, rather than, say, what grandfather of q / we/ er theory Foucault argued for: do away with age of consent laws down to infants because it's all just ~social constructs~ so why not? The interviewer specifically calls "child" a social construct, making a direct leap there from "Woman is a social construct". Why does this repeatedly come up in reference to q / weer theory? Because it is all about transgressing boundaries and undermining categories, "man/woman", "child/adult" Everyone should know basically ALL major figures in q / we/ er theory get into incredibly disturbing places with children very quickly. Highly recommend the video "q* Theory Jeopardy! with Professor Derrick Jensen" See: Jacob Breslow and Mermaids. I'm not piling on the interviewer. I just think it's hilarious that even as he appears to have not looked into this beyond a very surface glance, he homes right in on "Child is a construct" Where am I defending Stock? I love this debate, I love that the interviewer unknowingly makes a beeline straight to the logical conclusion of postmodernism & q / we/ er theory.
@fraiopatll633
@fraiopatll633 Жыл бұрын
Well said. I agree with your sentiments. But asking a question should not be interpreted as subscribing to a particular position. If someone makes the claim that X is a social construct, then I can claim that the claim that X is a social construct is itself a social construct, and that, therefore, as such, the claim X lacks legitimacy. Of course, being social humans, we can only do so much as humans to make statements about the realities we experience. So, one might say, everything we do is made by us as members of human societies. So, everything is a social construct. Then the problem becomes: Where does all this social construction menality take us? Nowhere but a society of confused speech, blagghh, ..., inane garbage talk. If the truth conveyed by the equality 5+2=7 (or the falsity conveyed by 5+7=3) is a social construct, then who cares ... about anything? An automobile is certainly constructed by a society of people, but that fact does not negate the (non-socially constructed) reality that the automobile takes us from point A to point B, which fact is not a social construct.
@L_Martin
@L_Martin Жыл бұрын
@@fraiopatll633 There's a great question to ask the "everything is a social construct" people, and that's: Is oxygen a social construct? If I deprived you of oxygen for 2 hours, are you going to be alive at the end? Is the socially constructed concept of "oxygen" required for that to be true? Of course, you will not be alive if deprived of the "thing" called "oxygen" by our "society". And you know this very well. This is just a language/categry game which postmodernism likes to play. This pretence that words and categories actually CREATE material reality is where the junk thinking comes in. Humans do not need the concept "oxygen" as our scientific model has it to know that, if held underwater for 2 hours, you will not survive. Even in the absence of language, this MATERIAL reality remains the objective truth.
@dukecity7688
@dukecity7688 Жыл бұрын
I'm grateful that we have her. The world needs to hear her.
@AlexM-ht9ff
@AlexM-ht9ff Жыл бұрын
You mean a person who wants to commit genocide against a tiny percentage of the population. You are a bigot. Trans people exist and there isn't anything that you can do about it. We won. You lost.
@karlscher5170
@karlscher5170 Жыл бұрын
Why?
@baconsarny-geddon8298
@baconsarny-geddon8298 Жыл бұрын
@@karlscher5170 Because it's good to have voices against religious authoritarianism, and against 100% evidence-free religious beliefs, which erase the rights of women, gays and lesbians, which mutilate healthy children, and which enforce conformity to gender stereotypes (bad regardless, but even MORE harmful, when done in defiance of biology, when it requires physical mutilation). Why WOULDN'T you want voices against a religion that mutilates children, in the name of the incoherent, evidence-free belief that "some men are REALLY women (in whatever mystical, undefinable sense of the word)"?
@jislaaikrockadopolis7215
@jislaaikrockadopolis7215 Жыл бұрын
@@karlscher5170 Because she dares to speak out for the use of basic reasoning and evidence.
@karlscher5170
@karlscher5170 Жыл бұрын
@@jislaaikrockadopolis7215 she would stand against every law of reason if it's against her interest
@Cola.Cube.
@Cola.Cube. Жыл бұрын
i fly to work every morning in my own helicopter and everybody tells me its a skateboard, they're all mad.
@lawsonspedding6136
@lawsonspedding6136 Жыл бұрын
This lady is too kind ! This destruction of the identity of women is appalling !
@maryannebrown2385
@maryannebrown2385 Жыл бұрын
@@eatmanyzoos if you are born male, you are a man. Full stop. It doesn’t matter if you are a manly man or a feminine man. You are a man. Our sex is encoded in the dna of every cell in our body. Hormones, cosmetic surgery and makeup do not change that.
@maryannebrown2385
@maryannebrown2385 Жыл бұрын
@@eatmanyzoos Separating men from women how? In single sex toilets and changing rooms? In sports, where men have a biological advantage over women? No one is saying all men are bad and all men are a threat against women. Of course not. The problem is that we cannot identify the ones that are bad from the good ones. Therefore, for women and girls safety and privacy, single sex toilets and changing rooms are a necessity. As well as single sex sports-for safety and fairness. It is shocking that we live in a society where this even needs to be said.
@maryannebrown2385
@maryannebrown2385 Жыл бұрын
@@eatmanyzoos CoEd bathrooms exist in my city (3rd largest in the US) as single use toilets. I have never seen one with multiple toilets. Here in the US we have these flimsy toilet stalls full of large gaps where you can see everyone doing their business. Are you saying there are large bathrooms with multiple stalls that are completely Co-Ed? Please tell me where you live so I can avoid that place. That is absolutely not acceptable.
@sparagmos4748
@sparagmos4748 Жыл бұрын
​@@eatmanyzoosYou have made a huge assumption of a random woman in the comments. Why do you have the right to decide that she is afraid and won't admit it? Single sex space is not necessary because all women are afraid of all men. Feeling uncomfortable or disliking a situation is not the same as fear. Personally I don't have a problem with almost passing transwomen in women's space, but I don't see why all women and girls should have to share my view.
@sparagmos4748
@sparagmos4748 Жыл бұрын
@@eatmanyzoos I don't agree at all. Of course the extreme will be used to really drive the point home, as actual danger and assault are what we really want to avoid, but in every day terms it is about not being uncomfortable with the vague unease that comes from a much higher probability of encountering a sexual predator of a male in women's space.
@M15Guys
@M15Guys Жыл бұрын
She is absolutely the most intelligent person I have ever had the privilege of listening to. The interviewers questions were loaded, but she provided measured responses which nobody could ever doubt. Thank you Kathleen Stock for everything you have lost (and gained) for this cause x
@irongalaxy3720
@irongalaxy3720 Жыл бұрын
You need to listen to a few more people.
@M15Guys
@M15Guys Жыл бұрын
@@irongalaxy3720 Really ? Well as long as it is not some non-binary drivel, I am certainly willing to do that. I also have massive respect for Douglas Murray 🙂
@Gaggerlotion
@Gaggerlotion Жыл бұрын
Is she the only person you have listened to?
@M15Guys
@M15Guys Жыл бұрын
@@Gaggerlotion No she isn’t, and the point has already been made 🙂
@user-fi7gf2nb9g
@user-fi7gf2nb9g 9 ай бұрын
Yes and that contacts only the dumb ones are saying stuff
@lizsimmonds5511
@lizsimmonds5511 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant Kathleen Stock. Thankful these conversations are taking place. She has more patience than I would have.
@leannedyson4925
@leannedyson4925 Жыл бұрын
Kathleen should have her own KZbin channel
@lukecarey613
@lukecarey613 Жыл бұрын
Agree, I want to find more of her stuff.
@nachtorchis
@nachtorchis Жыл бұрын
agree!
@TheMadsonLimpopoVlogger
@TheMadsonLimpopoVlogger 11 ай бұрын
I agree
@daughter_of_earth
@daughter_of_earth Жыл бұрын
That question about the arbitrariness of adulthood is, of course, salient for discussions about pedophilia. This guy keeps on wanting to deny all boundaries: adult vs child, man vs woman, etc. Thanks, Kathleen for standing your ground and speaking up against living full-time in a fictional world where we make things up as we go. I always wonder how smart people can believe in this, but, of course, it is exactly some smart people primarily living in, and maybe more comfortable in, abstract worlds who are responsible.
@nickbarber2080
@nickbarber2080 Жыл бұрын
And,indeed,some villains who are quite happy to keep the boundaries blurred...
@sparagmos4748
@sparagmos4748 Жыл бұрын
Love of post modernism / queer theory? Very popular in some middle class intellectual circles.😒
@DannyC_
@DannyC_ Жыл бұрын
Do we think the man asking the questions was a student of queer theory, he sounded like it!
@daughter_of_earth
@daughter_of_earth Жыл бұрын
@@DannyC_ He was annoying.
@tinabenson1492
@tinabenson1492 Жыл бұрын
​@@DannyC_ Yeah, that's EXACTLY what I thought!! 😒
@TheSapphire51
@TheSapphire51 Жыл бұрын
I look forward to her work on how and why academia allowed this to happen. This is one of the most important questions of our time in my opinion and I am delighted to hear that Dr Kathleen Stock is working on it.
@lewreed1871
@lewreed1871 Жыл бұрын
She and others have already done it. Her book, 'Material Girls', sets out in full the position she stakes out here. Helen Joyce has written a book called 'Trans', which deals with the political and cultural development of this, as well as current policy implications. Helen Pluckrose and James Lindsay have written a book called 'Cynical Theories' on the intellectual/academic background. Happy reading!
@TheSapphire51
@TheSapphire51 Жыл бұрын
@@lewreed1871 I have read both Kathleen Stock's and Helen Pluckrose's book and have listened extensively to Helen Joyce and I still think there is a lot more to be said about why and how the "Academy" have colluded in this travesty. I look forward to hearing more from Kathleen Stock.
@lewreed1871
@lewreed1871 Жыл бұрын
@@TheSapphire51 Me too. But I don't see how you can have read Stock's chapter 'How Did We Get Here?' or Pluckrose and Lindsay and still not understand how this swept through academe. They set out in great detail how the original schools of thought, from the Frankfurt School to the French postmodernists, swept through the humanities and "liberal arts" in English-speaking countries, particularly the US, incrementally and then in a tsunami as the literature grew. These are the subjects which activists, lobbyists, journalist and people engaged in politics tend to study. They're also subjects which keep a lot of people inside academia to become teachers themselves, and activism tends to begin on college campuses. With critical theory (of which queer theory is a branch) predominant in the humanities, this was almost bound to happen. College administrations are also saturated in it, which has meant that it is now flowing out of the humanities and into other disciplines, most worryingly the "hard" sciences. It's a disaster.
@slacktoryrecords4193
@slacktoryrecords4193 Жыл бұрын
Not just academia but law, sport, corporations and their HR departments, school, media/news/entertainment …
@TheSapphire51
@TheSapphire51 Жыл бұрын
@@slacktoryrecords4193 you are of course right. They all need to be investigated.
@marcellewaterman1034
@marcellewaterman1034 Жыл бұрын
There are no other words I can add to what has already been posted. But I so want to thank you Professor Stock for everything you are saying out loud may your voice never be silenced ❤️
@bbtfan7957
@bbtfan7957 Жыл бұрын
We live in a time where pandering to a delusion is preferred over telling the truth.
@heliusfacenna4109
@heliusfacenna4109 Жыл бұрын
There are eight billion truths.
@erasmus186
@erasmus186 Жыл бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="750">12:30</a> That is precisely where it goes off the rails. When she says that transwomen are not women, this is NOT a metaphysical statement. It would be like saying that brass is different from gold or that the sun is not the moon. These are scientific statements. The level at which such statements can be called "metaphysical" or "essentialist" is so abstract and fundamental.
@tcrown3333
@tcrown3333 Жыл бұрын
You can see Dr. Stock's growing frustration with the interviewer's somewhat inane line of questioning. He seems to deliberately misunderstand her perfectly clear responses. To me,the guy sounds naive and unaware of what has entered the social arena over the last 5 to 7 years.
@benl5946
@benl5946 Жыл бұрын
“Middle class academic word games” - I love this woman so much!
@jerrys5102
@jerrys5102 Жыл бұрын
I've never heard the Halloween costume effect discussed. People with social anxiety say that their anxiety is greatly diminished if they go out on halloween in a costume. I believe for many people the calming feeling they get by pretending to be a different sex is due to the costume effect.
@Doutsoldome
@Doutsoldome 8 ай бұрын
That's an interesting point, thanks for the insight. Identifying heavily with a social persona may be a way to avoid confronting deep inner problems. On the other hand, people who do actually confront for real their inner problems may have a greater chance to be socially confident and less sensitive to the opinions of others, precisely because they have done the hard work of trying to really know themselves. I can see trans people in the two categories. They are not the same. Social contagion facilitates this "costume effect," but there is a tiny minority for whom the gender dysphoria is truly a deep issue.
@hughmcdonnell849
@hughmcdonnell849 Жыл бұрын
So much energy expended on nonsense!
@itsallgood21
@itsallgood21 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Kathleen for saying what’s considered unacceptable. Great to here your insights
@casscamden740
@casscamden740 11 ай бұрын
yeh she also happens to be right
@kimdash8287
@kimdash8287 Жыл бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Thank you Kathleen for saying what so many won’t but that so many of us believe to be true!
@joannemoore3976
@joannemoore3976 Жыл бұрын
Well done for keeping your patience Kathleen. I'm not sure I would have done
@DoggieFosters
@DoggieFosters Жыл бұрын
I know I wouldn't have. Good lord. Interviewer was pickled in kool-aid because _obviously_ not well-versed enough to credibly ne seen as simply playing devil's advocate. Gave me a migraine.
@L_Martin
@L_Martin Жыл бұрын
@@DoggieFosters I think he represents the "at a glance" view most well-meaning liberals / progressives adopt. It was clear from his questions he had not looked into this too deeply...
@backintimealwyn5736
@backintimealwyn5736 Жыл бұрын
@@L_Martin not really , I think he's doing a very old thing, denying that there is a violent dynamic between men and women, denying rape. It always comes back to this ,one way or another.
@pilatesrebalance
@pilatesrebalance Жыл бұрын
The interviewer is annoying. It's clearly a mad situation that we are in that any man can claim to be a woman and there are obvious threats and risks to that claim....as we have already seen....how the hell did we get here?
@radicalcartoons2766
@radicalcartoons2766 Жыл бұрын
Read the 11th hr blog to find out!
@eatmanyzoos
@eatmanyzoos Жыл бұрын
the threats are exaggerated. men are only a threat because women draw lines and separate us and refuse to communicate and tell us what they want or dont want until its too late. stop being cowards. letting far right politicians spin the issue and use fear just like they do with qanon. congrats you are in the same camp as qanon and flat earthers. made up issues that somehow are spun into anti-left anti-democrat sentiments. its so transparent to people who are indifferent to trans issues like i am.
@Souxie123
@Souxie123 Жыл бұрын
@@radicalcartoons2766yes, major lobby underneath. Follow the money
@misfitm1457
@misfitm1457 Жыл бұрын
@@eatmanyzoos no, men are only a threat if they hate women and decide to use their biological advantages to harm us. So a woman has to communicate or yu're a threat? No normal man threatens women no metter what.
@christinechepeleffwaybackr8225
@christinechepeleffwaybackr8225 Жыл бұрын
She articulates so much common sense, it amazes me people react so angrily with her. She says what so many of us think.
@JustinSmith-kn9ef
@JustinSmith-kn9ef 10 ай бұрын
Have you a public opinion poll
@christinechepeleffwaybackr8225
@christinechepeleffwaybackr8225 10 ай бұрын
@@JustinSmith-kn9ef its a simple statement. I dont need to back everything up with polls or data collection. Mentally balanced peoole can discern their environment without consulting outside sources.
@evasilvertant
@evasilvertant 10 ай бұрын
I don’t think she does. I’m appalled to hear her dismiss trans people’s identities as mere fiction. She argues that identity has shifted from how you are perceived by others to merely how you feel, but identity has always been a combination of how you’re perceived as well as your sense of self. For instance, people may or may not perceive her as heterosexual, but that doesn’t change the fact that she is a lesbian woman. I wonder, if the gender identity of trans people is a mere fiction, why is her own sense of self not mere fiction as well? Her arguments about identity are just not coherent, and it strikes me as insidious to use the word ‘fiction’ at all. When the interviewer confronted her with the implications of that word, she engaged in a slight of hand and started talking about the supposed ambiguity and social shift of identity as a concept.
@evasilvertant
@evasilvertant 10 ай бұрын
By the way, I’m not sure why we should be impressed with a philosopher expressing common sense. Common sense often goes against scientific facts and truths which philosophers attempt to elucidate. If a philosopher says nothing beyond what most people already think, I have to question their utility as a philosopher. I’m actually really shocked that she makes no references to the work of other philosophers either. I think she is careful not to contradict the body of work of other philosophers, and articulate the thinking of the masses. It’s quite bereft of any intellectual depth. In that sense I’m not surprised so many people agree with her. I personally much more enjoy listening to philosophers like Slavoj Žižek-someone I don’t agree with in everything he says, and who made quite controversial statements about trans people, but who exactly doesn’t articulate common sense, but urges you to think about things in ways we didn’t consider. I find that a lot more conducive and satisfying, but maybe that’s just me.
@janetlamb6812
@janetlamb6812 Жыл бұрын
I actually dont care if some man in a dress thinks I am "phobic" and I am fed with men in general who dont think this isint a problem. Men cannot be woman, and it is an absolute fiction
@carolinaterri3569
@carolinaterri3569 Жыл бұрын
The description of this video says Kathleen Stock discusses her controversial views on sex and gender. Controversial? No, it's the view that the vast majority of the world holds.
@jsnedd66
@jsnedd66 Жыл бұрын
she says that trans women are a danger to women in toilets! ( has she been to France ? )....she come from the point of view the all men are rapists!.it is transphobia! yes but she is a Feminist Man-hater
@acetate909
@acetate909 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. The establishment want's us to believe we're a bigoted minority by putting out fake polls and spamming social media with bots that push this nonsense.
@mandysymons2142
@mandysymons2142 Жыл бұрын
​@@jsnedd66 are you admitting that hating men includes so called trans women then
@conshe
@conshe Жыл бұрын
she's astute and clear as always. interviewer seems a bit out of his depth - interesting he is neither named nor shown! bit of cowardice from IAI?
@SB-dh1gx
@SB-dh1gx Ай бұрын
“What do you mean by “male bodied”?” He literally asked her that question and was genuinely waiting for her to answer that question… this is where we are, it’s absolutely BONKERS.
@fireworkboy
@fireworkboy Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kathleen. Just bought your book 'Material Girls'. Looking forward to having an intelligent, nuanced, compassionate and philosophically stimulating summary of this extraordinary moment where a kind of late-epoch decadence is experiencing a divorce between language and objective reality. Kathleen Stock will be remembered with gratitude as someone who noticed that the Emperor's New clothes were a fiction, and bravely pointed it out.
@isabelcampelos8594
@isabelcampelos8594 11 ай бұрын
Great book
@ut0p1an
@ut0p1an Жыл бұрын
Interviewer saying that linking a specific age to the status of adulthood is arbitrary is the age-old cry of paedophiles and what are now known in bonkers circles as MAPS (minor attracted person/people). In the early 70s I met PIE guys who said exactly this. This is very problematic.
@JayJay-wg5ex
@JayJay-wg5ex Жыл бұрын
totally sick, whoever he is
@Michelle-vv9lk
@Michelle-vv9lk Жыл бұрын
Well done Kathleen. She’s trying to get the truth out there respectfully which is more than I can do
@evangelinewandering9547
@evangelinewandering9547 Жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more. She is well spoken, reflected and knowledgeable. The problem is not that she has a nuanced view on identity, gender and sex - the problem is that the militant identity activists do not allow any other views than their own and they immediately accuse any other views of being “transfobic” or “hateful”, which of course is nonsense. It is also a huge paradox - the trans militants want to be met with tolerance and acceptance, while they don’t grant the same to people who dare to disagree with or question their views.
@lettersquash
@lettersquash Жыл бұрын
The best bit is at <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1090">18:10</a> where it seems necessary to affirm the existence of the world. I didn't know of Kathleen Stock until last night's Gender Wars documentary on Channel 4. I've been in and out of these discussions for about a year now and experience the same baffling accusations, though not risked as much as this brave woman. Her attitude is exemplary, particularly something that wasn't explicit in this interview, her commitment to freedom of speech. It was implicit, however, that we're moving into a new normal where the thought police will arrest you for using the wrong pronoun. Kathleen also emphasises the opportunity that trans ideology has dug into a hole, of freer gender expression for either sex instead of the deepening of gender stereotypes that trans people too often are obsessed with fitting in with, particularly in appearance. It's meant to be about being who you are, but has become a demand for others to see you as you want to be seen, and then affirm that you are what you say you are. WOMEN ARE NOT SKIN SUITS GET OVER IT (and nor are men)
@casscamden740
@casscamden740 11 ай бұрын
we will be affirming anorexics next & legalising the mass sexual abuse of children we already did that though didnt we as long as you are in a protected minority you can do what you want kids are just ageist transphobes right!
@noreenbalfe2594
@noreenbalfe2594 Жыл бұрын
I too am very interested in finding out how institutions and academic classes have permitted this to happen.
@jaijai5250
@jaijai5250 Жыл бұрын
It’s happening because the trans agenda is not a grass rooted movement. It’s not driven by the people. It’s a top down movement. It’s driven by extremely powerful people, who have the control, power and authority to dictate to governments, hence the toxic legislation. Regardless of political ideology, most western governments, and developing countries controlled by the west, are all singing from an identical trans song sheet.
@vulcanhasnomoon
@vulcanhasnomoon Жыл бұрын
I can tell you absolutely how this was allowed to happen. The liberal minded, well intentioned, academics wanted to support the TRA movement because it came from homosexual activist institutions such as Stonewall. There has been huge repressed guilt about how gay people have been mistreated since legalisation 54 years ago. The outright prejudice of the tropes, the way that AIDS patients were ignored, the fight to have the basic rights that everyone else in society has automatically. The TRA movement have been exceedingly clever in manipulating and leveraging that guilt by using it to legitimise an authoritarian intellectual didact around gender erasure. It's misogynistic, it's anti-gay, it's even anti-trans. It doesn't advocate for the small number of genuinely transsexual people in society. It legitimises heterosexual males who don't want any societal constraints on their sex practices. It's attempting to enshrine these in law and make women secondary citizens and gay people non existent, reduced to fetishists. This is supported by social media groups which in turn feed into mainstream media until the idea becomes an unchallengeable monolith. It's been this way for over a decade.
@isabelcampelos8594
@isabelcampelos8594 11 ай бұрын
Stonewall got gay marriage. To keep being relevant, they had to find another crusade to fight for: hence trans
@rumo-mc4dp
@rumo-mc4dp Жыл бұрын
She is both knowledgeable and self-reflected. A rare combination in the public space these days...
@hunterlinton1672
@hunterlinton1672 8 ай бұрын
It is criminal that we live in an age where common sense is controversial or even considered hate.
@delmadonoghue283
@delmadonoghue283 8 ай бұрын
Yes absolutely agree.
@bubble8829
@bubble8829 Жыл бұрын
<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1055">17:35</a> You can see her patience disintegrating by the sentence as the conversation gets more and more removed from common and academic sense. <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="1134">18:54</a> Then you get her "Maybe?" and he tries to cover what he's said, and she actually does an eye roll. 😅
@janinemcmahon218
@janinemcmahon218 Жыл бұрын
I find the interviewer rude. His leading questions to a lesbian, were, in my opinion trying to get her to say something salacious. I was very disappointed in him. Disrespectful. He would never have said anything like this to a man. If he talked to a trans woman that way, he would be fired from his job. But since she’s gay, he could be completely salacious. I’m straight but support all women from the misogynistic perspective of many men. Men like pornography.
@emilianosintarias7337
@emilianosintarias7337 Жыл бұрын
There's no evidence that men in general are misogynistic, quite the contrary.
@Souxie123
@Souxie123 Жыл бұрын
@@emilianosintarias7337😂
@janinemcmahon218
@janinemcmahon218 Жыл бұрын
@@emilianosintarias7337 this man was disrespectful and trying to lead her into making answers that would excite him. Disgusting. I’m calling him specifically. Not men in general. She had to jump through hoops to make a dry response.
@L_Martin
@L_Martin Жыл бұрын
The interviewer seems to think the majority of t* identified males pass... The majority do not. I do wish the point about passing would be more underlined, and frankly, the point about HSTS (same-s* attracted males) successfully passing, while the straight AGP males do not. That is the crux of the issue. So central but so rarely spelled out: There are 2 types of t* identifying male. same-s* attracted (hsts) and straight (agp). The social equation changes entirely when that truth is exposed. Women do not want straight males in our spaces. We believed we were making this agreement with hyper-effe/ mi/ nate g* men who suffer great persecution, and pose us no threat. We did not think we were agreeing to share every space, e.g. women's pri / so /ns, our r* shelters, etc., with STRAIGHT MEN who have agp. Should straight males calling themselves women, who do not pass (because AGPs don't, because they t* later in life due to the nature of AGP) - be treated as if they are women? Should women be obliged to play along with something that is nakedly a lie? A fiction. It is very dangerous for us, and frankly totalitarian to force someone to say things that are obviously false. If a AGP male is in a women's pri / so/ n, what, the women are meant to play along that this straight male is indistinguishable from any woman? Come on.
@emilianosintarias7337
@emilianosintarias7337 Жыл бұрын
Would you also agree that women should not be allowed in male spaces?
@Souxie123
@Souxie123 Жыл бұрын
Thx for pointing out AGPs (pretending to be lesbians by the way). I believe they are the ones who made this cult gain more and more power, especially on the young generations. Most AGPs will never admit they exhibit a paraphilia and that they genuinely hate and envy women.
@Tina06019
@Tina06019 Жыл бұрын
I find men who dress as women more frightening that men who do not. If they are obviously gay, they don’t generally frighten me.
@ericcoyle3520
@ericcoyle3520 Жыл бұрын
Having long hair, wearing dresses, using make up etc are socially learned norms and have nothing to do with biology. I'm a man but don't care much for sports and like romantic films and cry at least 5 times every time I watch Now Voyager. I don't take that to mean anything in particular about my gender at all. I am well aware these are superficial signafyers but I do get upset when anyone uses the term CIS about me. I don't want to be put in a box I didn't choose thank you.
@marthahunsucker7310
@marthahunsucker7310 Жыл бұрын
👏well said. No personality trait or action should be linked to biological sex, ever! We are all individuals who deserve freedom from sex stereotypes.
@DecherWayte
@DecherWayte Жыл бұрын
This is my introduction to the Institute of Art and Ideas, and I have to say that it doesn't make me want to learn more about this organization. This interviewer seems to see ideas and social constructs as more important than facts to a point that he wasn't only setting up her responses but was advocating for the fiction interpretation of the world. Like all of this debate, that is deeply troubling to me. As Ms. Stock says, we are not skin suits we are women. We are unique from men and that is what needs to be "got over." I hope IAI will attempt to see fairness and safety for all sides of the debate rather than just advocate so blatantly for men.
@monkeymox2544
@monkeymox2544 Жыл бұрын
It seems to me that the interviewer is doing his job: posing questions and presenting counterarguments, whilst allowing the interviewee to get their point across. This person is an excellent interviewer.
@janetm2969
@janetm2969 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for affirming that females should not be expected to share washrooms with biological males!! Not just because it might pose a physical threat, but 1 in 3 women have been sexually abused by males, and having to share private spaces with male bodies is a deep psychological threat. As a biological female identifying as female, I believe I have rights too, and my right to use a washroom or a changeroom that excludes biological male bodies should be respected. I totally agree with 3rd spaces. I identify as a biological female, trans people overtly identify as the new category of trans. So they need to have their own spaces.
@Jenny-nz8fb
@Jenny-nz8fb Жыл бұрын
So clever but her super hero quality is her patience!!
@royrichards345
@royrichards345 Жыл бұрын
I'm appalled that one of the foremost topics of philosophical and political debate of this generation is the definition of a woman and a man. It feels very flat-earther trying to complicate and re-discover something so already fundamentally defined. In fact, flat-earthers might have more room for justified skepticism.
@bristolfashion4421
@bristolfashion4421 Жыл бұрын
Fabulously useful dialogue - thanks to all 🙂 (As an aside, the University of Sussex were disgracefully late in declaring support for KS when a member of their academic team, with respect to her right to peaceful and respectful free speech. I hope they have reflected on their actions.)
@minhearg8331
@minhearg8331 Жыл бұрын
You say in your preamble that "Kathleen Stock discusses her controversial views on sex and gender." In what way are her views controversial?
@neilolson3220
@neilolson3220 Жыл бұрын
This is an intelligent compassionate thoughtful and precise assertion of the reality of sex and gender. Great interview. Thank you very much
@meanymouse
@meanymouse 11 ай бұрын
I am yet again shocked that this is actually being debated. Every time I watch a video on this topic, and someone is disagreeing about sex, and the markers of sex, it blows my mind. It's a complete denial of common sense, reality, science, and biology. The interviewer tells Kathleen at <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="764">12:44</a> that they're probably never going to convince one another of their beliefs, and it's all so maddening. WHY are people having to be CONVINCED of a basic concept? Too many people are so far gone it's truly crazy. I am infinitely grateful for people like Kathleen who don't back down. I hope more people come around to it.
@Tempiku
@Tempiku Жыл бұрын
Kathleen Stock has the patience of a saint. I am so tired of people who think they understand this culture war debate demonstrating their ignorance and laziness when talking to women.
@elizabethbrown2705
@elizabethbrown2705 Жыл бұрын
Unbelievable that we millennials spent our lives advocating for freedom and acceptance of gender non conformity. Gen z are now created a million different boxes to conform to. Insanity.
@Nall412
@Nall412 Жыл бұрын
Pretty crazy ain’t it?
@lh2435
@lh2435 Жыл бұрын
It’s quite scary how the interviewer calls into question that objective reality exists.
@julieandpaulbeard7900
@julieandpaulbeard7900 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant and courageous. The university system - and the young generations it is supposed to serve - have suffered a great loss in her leaving that system.
@JustinSmith-kn9ef
@JustinSmith-kn9ef Жыл бұрын
No it's not right having been a student of philosophy myself that she can't contain her own subjective views unreasonable in teaching
@christianfulton3918
@christianfulton3918 Жыл бұрын
It’s asinine that what was once common sense has to be explained and defended here so articulately. Kathleen does an excellent job of providing concise and clear ideas and boundaries of where biological axioms meet human ideas and nonsensical self beliefs.
@helench6097
@helench6097 Жыл бұрын
The interviewer seems out of depth here.
@sallywilliams1011
@sallywilliams1011 Жыл бұрын
I’m shocked by the relatively recent dramatic & as I feel, disturbing change in the structure of society regarding this issue. I’m particularly concerned about the effect on children. It seems to me that we’ve moved from a highly patriarchal society to a genderless one, where biological women are still being undermined. I think Kathleen is a highly intelligent, measured & courageous woman.
@Capybarrrraaaa
@Capybarrrraaaa Жыл бұрын
Lol, I wish we were a genderless society.
@dra2033
@dra2033 Жыл бұрын
transgenderism is male supremacist to an extreme
@sansacro007
@sansacro007 Жыл бұрын
Excellent. One of the most eloquent and smart minds on this subject.
@marysalluce5475
@marysalluce5475 Жыл бұрын
Yes, it is interesting - how institutions and academic environments allowed this to happen. Group think, brain washing, etc.
@vhawk1951kl
@vhawk1951kl Жыл бұрын
It is very simple, it is religion and the religion that I call modernism is a sort of fashion, which is what modern means; men (beings) tend to be ovine, how else could they ever come to the insane supposition that there is a democracy of truth?
@lechakan
@lechakan Жыл бұрын
Reading and listening to Kathleen Stock articulate the issues and conflicts inherent with gender self-ID took me from an unquestioning supporter of T+, to conducting further investigation, and to ultimately finding myself on the same page as Stock.
@fraiopatll633
@fraiopatll633 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful! I support you Lisa English!
@fraiopatll633
@fraiopatll633 Жыл бұрын
@@SnarkyMarx I am deeply insulted by your UNIMAGINATIVE choice of a too prevalent insulting word "bigot". Insult me with something more deserving, something better, worse, anything other than "bigot".
@dra2033
@dra2033 5 ай бұрын
same here
@Madonnalitta1
@Madonnalitta1 Жыл бұрын
"What do you mean by fiction?". My goodness, it's self evident. She means that there belief is fictional.
@zoeh8487
@zoeh8487 Жыл бұрын
I love that this comment is shown as being edited. What was the original version? “Fiction is fiction”?
@lokihammerfall7781
@lokihammerfall7781 Жыл бұрын
Total RESPECT to this lady who has refused to sell her integrity and also to betray science.!!
@karlscher5170
@karlscher5170 Жыл бұрын
She is only acting in her interest as a butch lesbian
@Lauschangreifer
@Lauschangreifer 11 ай бұрын
I think it's quite simple: If I claim to be Sherlock Holmes, then that is a fiction, whereas I, as the person who claims to be, am not a fiction.
@nuqworld
@nuqworld Жыл бұрын
Women aren't skin suits. Wow. Imagine having to say it.
@PiperPurdon
@PiperPurdon Жыл бұрын
My question is why do women (fully mature adult female) have to seemingly acquiesce to all this? I really don’t care what someone decides to identify with that’s their choice but I do mind that it’s foisted upon others. I think what’s not being addressed more thoroughly is the psychological impacts.
@dra2033
@dra2033 Жыл бұрын
Transgenderism is a fundamentally male supremacist movement in every conceivable way. I accept that many devoted ideologues don't realize this, but that doesn't change the fact that this movement seeks to categorically redefine "woman" from female human to a feeling in a man's head.
@honeybunch6473
@honeybunch6473 Жыл бұрын
Because it intrudes on many other issues.
@PiperPurdon
@PiperPurdon 11 ай бұрын
@@honeybunch6473 yet it mainly intrudes on women
@TrackerNeil
@TrackerNeil Жыл бұрын
I encounter all of the time the argument that because anomalies exist there is nothing normal. That's like arguing that because humans are occasionally born blind, sight is not a standard part of being human. The existence of the unusual doesn't mean there is no usual.
@firstlady161
@firstlady161 Жыл бұрын
How do we get our Government to listen to this calm intelligent woman and understand that being a woman is not a caricature or putting on a skin suit (love that phrase).
@PaulChris-bk6fc
@PaulChris-bk6fc Жыл бұрын
The state of play. Self-evident truths are being challenged. Sex is real, human stages of development, childhood and adulthood are real. I feel sorry for Kathleen.
@desayuna9148
@desayuna9148 8 ай бұрын
Wow. This man is unbelievable. It's exhausting listening to him and the way he tries to make the most stupid points. And his tone... my God... Enormous kudos to Dr. Stock for her patience and calm when dealing with this one.
@joegatto9320
@joegatto9320 Жыл бұрын
Why are we afraid of offending a few, when they are quite happy to offend the majority they claim to be.
@burleybater
@burleybater Жыл бұрын
An awful long time ago, at the age of 11, I took a tentative few first baby steps into gender non-conformity. At one and the same time I was a boy, I was all boy, was quite content to be a boy, and carried on accordingly. The non-conformity bit? I wasn't entirely comfortable with the attitudes of most boys I knew (and I knew a lot!) toward girls. Simple as that. So rather than getting into playground fights every day, I just decided to quietly disagree with what I perceived at that time to be the conventional point of view. This didn't mean that I liked the color pink, or was inclined to play with dolls (Barbies were relatively new at the time, and all boys treated Barbies abominably. I was no exception.) Nor did I hanker after makeup kits, girlie movies, or most any other very gender-specific female kind of thing. I just wasn't on board with relatively Neanderthal attitudes and tendencies toward mild-form brutalities, lack of respect and making fun of girls. At worst, I could easily achieve a kind of neutrality. So how the hell was this gender-non-conformity? Like I said, it started at the age of 11. It didn't stay there and neither did I. I grew. So straight through puberty and beyond, into mid-teens (15) this attitude also grew, and grew stronger. One small story just to illustrate. At the age of 16 I met my first girlfriend. For the first 3 months I knew her, I drove her crazy. Waiting for that first 'real' kiss. She thought I didn't like her, or possibly liked someone else better, instead. (We did not live in the same neighborhood nor attend the same school.) The real reason was that I behaved like a gentleman and treated her with respect. To a fault. With great style, grace and aplomb. She had never encountered such a thing. But we worked it out. Was that a byproduct of gender non-conformity? You bet. Although I was of course, still decidedly hetero, a thing that never changed. Nowadays, this is the rock-bottom absolutist hallmark of gender non-conformity. Either switch to the other gender, or have none at all. Or 'fluid', or tippy-toe through the tulips, or something or other that more often than not has nothing to do with learning the skills and gaining experience of actually having a relationship with someone. Whatever: boy-girl, girl-girl, boy-boy. We now live in a society where a growing number of young people are fast approaching their third decade in life (that would be 20) and have never been kissed, never held hands, certainly never made out, never put themselves and their feelings on the line. Never experienced first hand any of what that sexual equipment down there is actually made for. And some will get rid of it before it ever had a chance to do its job. Tragic? I think so. My sincere apologies for the triple-dip. Sometimes I forget to check.
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