how to be a bish *properly* 💋

how to be a bish properly 💋

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@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

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@Liveandletlive0101 2 ай бұрын

💯💯 Unapologetically notified my girls that I am not splitting the bill if I did not consume alcohol when they did.

@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

AND WON’T! I’m not a big drinker anymore either (especially hard liquor) so I completely understand. 💋

@Taesessence 2 ай бұрын

I need to listen to this everyday.

@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

LOL! I'm glad it helped you ❤❤

@Brwniee95 2 ай бұрын

Same here- it’s gonna be on rotation 🫶🏾

@Brwniee95 2 ай бұрын

My favorite thing recently is setting time boundaries like you mentioned, my phone goes on DND- from 6-8:30pm, and by 10pm I put my phone on the dining table so I can get the proper rest without being glued to my phone trying to accommodate or respond to everyone. I also like the new feature on iPhone for sending messages “Send Later” it really helps as someone who’s easily anxious and a ppl pleaser to not have to respond right then and there, I get to write my response and have it sent out at a designated time, it’s so nice cuz I can just forget about it and not be worried or feel pressure to respond right in the moment..

@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

Giiiirl! I need to update my iPhone. I didn't know about the send later option. I also need to start putting my phone in another room as well. Thank you for these tips!

@Brwniee95 2 ай бұрын

@ yes! It’s iOS 18, it’s a game changer 💓

@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

@@Brwniee95 Let me gon' head and upgrade then, friend!!

@taneishajohnson3790 2 ай бұрын

I am 42 years old, and wow, the video that rolled up on my timeline that I needed to hear today!

@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

@@taneishajohnson3790 just a gentle reminder 🫶🏽💋

@nyashaoden345 2 ай бұрын

This video was so good and helpful. I’ve learned that this is an ongoing practice and not a one and done type of thing. It’s so easy to slide back into good girl behavior. Thank you for the tips & reminders!

@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

@@nyashaoden345 I’m so glad it helped 🫶🏽

@bailey200 2 ай бұрын

I will not be answering the phone at work. I am working and I will reach out on my breaks.

@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

I love this! Do Not Disturb Hours

@missmax9280 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for the video i started to notice that people always speak over me or speak louder than me so i usually stop talking and let them speak i am glad i found your channel i want to be feminine but not sure what to do when that happens

@tehewhatthe 2 ай бұрын

Oh you have many options: 1) Walk off and leave them speaking by themselves. 2) Gently touch an arm (least nasty one) and speak your mind. 3) Also, if you can say ‘whatever’ or ‘anyway’ you will be politely asking the rude cutting one to try someone else. They hate to hear “whatever” more than “anyway”. 4) Always try to leave a conversation before them too. 5) Say bye very sweetly even if they have been rude when they try to annoy you, it bothers them when you do not get upset. 6) Lastly, do not speak to these types unless you have to if they do not want to hear your thoughts, they’re not worth your time. I work with so many sick bucket types, all the above gets me through it. 😂🤣

@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

Glad I could help! I would smile and nod while listening. Acknowledge something they said that you agree with. Then start your sentence off by saying: "I'm so glad you said that, I was just about to say the same thing..." then address what your original point. You can also smile and nod, let them talk and then offer a long pause and say: "Oh my goodness, I forgot what I was going to say originally beforehand."

@itsthatgirlbee 2 ай бұрын

I love that you all are helping each other with these tips! Maybe we need a communication video soon!

@missmax9280 2 ай бұрын

@@tehewhattheive been trying the as i was saying line and people seem to get it more i have to take my place more often