I am a Christian woman preparing for marriage. This teaching has blessed me. God bless you, Paul Friedman ❤️
@christinatakesphotos3 жыл бұрын
This man is a complete Angel, I am taking notes on this, as for I am the one who needs to change the most in my marriage. Everything he says is everything my husband says and I just didn't believe him. I am so blessed to have found this channel!! Thank you Paul, you are changing lives!
@Fitzy-09152 жыл бұрын
Me too! I am right there with you.
@Finxina10 ай бұрын
This was reassuring, I’m on the right track. My husband was being cranky the other day. I chose not to react, I listened and met his needs, he was soon happy again and apologised. He was just tired and hungry, he wasn’t upset with me.
@TheMarriageFoundation10 ай бұрын
Amazing how this thing called cause and effect is 🙏 always going to rule. We might as well use it to be happy!
@hairdelush3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤!!
@Bright-It2 жыл бұрын
Eliminate anger. Listen beyond the words. Smile at him whenever you look at him. Express your love with physical affection. Never react. Praise and support. Never blame him. Be calm. Be proud of him. Push the boundaries of love. Fall in love.
@MiguelDiazDrivenLife Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@brokendreams195 Жыл бұрын
Seems this is pro husband.
@Saasou Жыл бұрын
keep sweet pray and obey
@natashadickson4819 Жыл бұрын
@brokendreams195 Yes, but it's not anti-wife. This doesn't hinder her from doing self-care nor does it hinder his care for her.
@Jewelsessences9 ай бұрын
It’s NO ONE’s job to read anyone’s mind or read between the lines. If you want sth COMMUNICATE CLEARLY.
@tracirogers971910 ай бұрын
Thank you so much. I woke up this morning in prayer and had a conversation with HS that I was to focus on a restoration on my married of 32 years ( after many destructive years) this immediately popped up on my KZbin as I was looking for worship. I subscribed and am excited about what my Father wants me to learn from you.
@TheMarriageFoundation10 ай бұрын
Its so cool how God guides us when we are recptive. Glad for you 🙏
@NUNGI_6 ай бұрын
I really want to be better for this wonderful man of mine. I like the “give yourself reasons to be happy”
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
You have the right attitude, keep on the path of opening your heart and being happy all the time.
@marketingmatters12863 жыл бұрын
This video offered a breakthrough for me. The idea that we can say to ourselves, "I can boost my feelings of love even higher and higher still" helped me significantly. I say this to myself all the time now. Thank you.
@TheMarriageFoundation3 жыл бұрын
We are not taught that we can intentionally love or increase our love yet it is clearly true.
@crystalr.89132 жыл бұрын
Paul has been a breath of fresh air!
@blancaorozco75373 жыл бұрын
Oh, Dear Lord! What a blessing and mind opening! Thank you so much for teaching this, I know that God has given you this undertanding of love to stop brokenness of marriages. Even thought my husband loves me, he is not happy with me, today I pray to Father God -whats wrong? It´s amazing how quickly gave me the answer through this video! Thank you!!!
@betruechristian Жыл бұрын
Same here
@RagbirJuillet3 ай бұрын
Everything you said, my husband has been asking me to do. I refused and continued to be hard-headed. This week, we had a big fight he said he can't be married to a woman who's no understanding. This brought me to your page. Thank you! You're a blessing and refreshing.
@TheMarriageFoundation3 ай бұрын
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@boholanaindaylor73634 ай бұрын
It’s a life changing. This is what i badly needed to hear all of this time. I need to work out extra mile to work on my marriage and I am the one who needs to hear this! Love is all we need! Thank you for sharing this! ❤️
@TheMarriageFoundation4 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Some need more like we have in our offerings themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@mamadoom972410 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this 🙏 it’s the best advice I’ve found so far. I’ve been feeling like a bad wife and wanting to quit hurting my husband with my bad moods. I keep trying and keep messing up, then I feel so bad for him because I know I’m messing up and he deserves so much more. Thank god he’s a patient man 😅 anyway thanks so much. I’m subscribing and going to watch more.
@TheMarriageFoundation10 ай бұрын
I am so glad you found some help 🙏
@denisechurchill85092 жыл бұрын
Found you just in time. I now understand what my husband has been trying to delicately tell me. I’m going to hold on to him tightly with these points. It’s not just about them making us happy is it? We also need to play a part in our marriage. Thank god I found you.
@samantharaulin2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these amazing videos. I've only been watching a short time, but you are already helping me so much. When you say to get rid of anger you are so right! I loved the focus on love in this video, when you spoke of pushing the boundaries of love because love has no boundaries I could feel the truth and it felt like a spiritual experience, although I know you say you are not here to teach spiritual things. But thank you, thank you, thank you. I will keep watching to keep myself on the path to an ever happier more loving marriage.
@madamecurious3 жыл бұрын
You can choose your behavior and reactions - if only more people would understand and apply this! The world world would be a better place and we would have many happy marriages instead of divorces and heartbreak! Thank you for your wonderful lessons 🌸
@lovinglife5810 ай бұрын
I have gotten so much out of this! Just what I needed to hear and I’m going to listen to this every single day. I’m not married yet, but my boyfriend and I are looking towards the future together, so this is very valuable advice. Thank you, thank you thank you!❤
@TheMarriageFoundation10 ай бұрын
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@thashumpertfamily10 ай бұрын
Thanks for such knowledge.. much needed today! I do my husband this way already but I’m going to increase it. He pours into me so much and deal with so much from my family. This is truth. Try it if you haven’t. Don’t think you’re kissing his butt because you’re not. Plus he can think the same about you. ❤❤❤❤
@TheMarriageFoundation10 ай бұрын
It is ALL about LOVE, not ego. You got it! 🙏
@priscillaspeicher47157 ай бұрын
Better yet, a man who speaks horse sense. Thank you. I grew up in an abusive home and have had no idea to act, love and think . 42 years of marriage has been hard for me .
@TheMarriageFoundation7 ай бұрын
You are very welcome. Remember that the past pain will fade as its never been when you start to live your marriage rightly, it is designed to produce joy and it is never too late
@kumariwickremasinghe8682 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Thanking God...for bringing me to this video ..its A message of Healing and love in itself...God bless you.
@marcelitanava Жыл бұрын
Wow this video is beyond helpful! Thank you so much for sharing ❤
@magdas169811 ай бұрын
Thank you very much, Paul, for sharing with us this another beautiful and true teaching. As you say, this is common sense, yet it is difficult to put it into practice sometimes. I wish you could talk about humility in marriage as well. Without humility, this may be more difficult to achieve. I have just bought one of your books, looking forward to reading it once arrives. God bless you:)
@jawahirhokal95053 жыл бұрын
Thank you I feel like I can’t go ask for advice from my family and I feel like you answer every question I got in my mind
@syldzifa234 Жыл бұрын
Paul, thanks very much for this deep insight. You have just gotten a new subscriber from Accra, Ghana. God bless the marriage foundation ❤❤❤
@LanaMurillo-b4h24 күн бұрын
I am the one in my marriage that needs to change. I need to add some of these things in my relationship, for sure this is a game changer.
@TheMarriageFoundation24 күн бұрын
Yes, it is a start...themarriagefoundation.org/system/
@jessicalong601110 ай бұрын
I really need this message. Thank you so much ❤
@TheMarriageFoundation10 ай бұрын
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@JamieHager0727 Жыл бұрын
I feel blessed to stumble on your advice Thank you for your videos.😊
@Minister-Delina.13 күн бұрын
The best ive heard Learning alot.
@JHKCreations2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Can't wait to apply everything to my husband.❤️
@anybodycancook172 жыл бұрын
It's really helpful.thankyou sir
@Chubesidonie78302 жыл бұрын
Your teachings have helped me alot. I will keep following you to learn more. My husband and I are picking up
@nahabweruth73753 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much ,may God richly bless and long live
@TheMarriageFoundation3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@Christine-p4c27 күн бұрын
I believe that anger is a messenger - when it appears, it’s because you want something. You’re not sure how to get what you want, or maybe you’re not sure what it is that you want. It’s a message, telling you to look for what you want - do you feel unfairly treated? Are you hungry? Do you need to change something? Many people don’t know how to get what they want, or, they just don’t think about what the best way to get it is (they may act on impulse instead of weighing the options). Releasing yourself of anger takes practise to pause, notice that you feel angry, ask yourself what you want, and then ask yourself, “what is the best way for me to get that, whilst feeling proud of myself?” This is just my take on it. My perspective. Happy for your feedback on this, Paul.
@TheMarriageFoundation27 күн бұрын
Only because you asked... the mind's job is to control its host. It is best to rise above it and its endless desires. "Seek God first" and all you need will be well provided.
@cathyyin6622 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving us a very unique theory system from main stream psychology today, I believed your tips in each one of them. Those words are the rest of the world need to hear about more as people are deveating from religion, from unit with each other to pursue personal enjoyament and achievement. Not easy to do but we need to start having these enlighment reminders!
@NejelTocayon5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sir its very helpful. Your an angel😊
@TheMarriageFoundation5 ай бұрын
So nice of you, I'm trying 🙏
@denisejmackelprang52425 ай бұрын
This is amazing thank you so much.
@TheMarriageFoundation5 ай бұрын
I am glad you find our philosophy about marriage helpful
@lisaseverino51142 жыл бұрын
Yawning is very contagious too lol just making a joke even though it’s true. Loved this video, it’s helping me learn 😊
@mirabelukeje8241 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir 😢
@SkaterChick1972 Жыл бұрын
Here for another video!!!!❤❤❤ Also Merry Christmas!!🎄🌟🎄🌟
@sapouche49823 жыл бұрын
Thank you, going to try
@marcela10822 жыл бұрын
Great approach the past is the past
@Lena-uh3ky2 жыл бұрын
thank you sir I needed those words very much
@priscillaspeicher47157 ай бұрын
Better yet, a man who speaks horse sense. Thank you. I grew up in an abusive home and have had no idea to act, love and think .
@TheMarriageFoundation7 ай бұрын
We all have "reasons" for not striving to be our best but those are from the mind to derail us from our true mission as human beings, to learn to love and live in joy
@Ada.is.honest Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this
@sylvayangazya62695 ай бұрын
Thanks sor
@sonamdekey29537 ай бұрын
Thankyou🙏🏻
@TheMarriageFoundation7 ай бұрын
You’re welcome 🙏
@ltp27345 Жыл бұрын
thank you ☺️
@PositiveLiving008 Жыл бұрын
This video makes sense❤
@barrysmith8183 Жыл бұрын
Brrakthrough is an understatement..i started crying
@sarabuchanan81924 ай бұрын
I agree with you on all points but doesn’t all this work both ways!
@TheMarriageFoundation4 ай бұрын
There are no "both ways" in marriage. It isn't a business. It is about learning to love, unconditionally and being in joy all the time themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@jennyandrews16712 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!❤
@allie43882 жыл бұрын
I wish you were my grandpa I could call all the time.
@angelbrigadier6124 Жыл бұрын
Even I wish ....
@ruthdecell17626 ай бұрын
I hope i can
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
Learn how and do it. I am sure you can
@zainabkhan88468 ай бұрын
If my any one lying to me how can I forget this it's very hard .what should I do.
@TheMarriageFoundation8 ай бұрын
Instead of worrying about it, your not a policeman, concentrate your efforts on creating a love filled and joy filled marriage.
@melkerner8 ай бұрын
You can do everything on this list - but when you withhold your affection, kissing and sex from your husband - no amount of gifts, compliments or niceness will make up for not connecting with him, period - it simply won't.
@TheMarriageFoundation8 ай бұрын
I would say you are right. Affection is very important to our connection and one must be proactive in showing it. 🙏
@Pawn-tsbgameplay Жыл бұрын
You are like My father.
@ag-xq7zg6 күн бұрын
So if he has habits that affect his family but he won’t stop. I’ve talked about it and he refuses to discuss. When subject is brought up he is angered.
@kotieboshoff574610 ай бұрын
Is marriage not to be for both sides It makes it difficult when only one partner tries and the other one keep on doing all that can be wrong
@TheMarriageFoundation10 ай бұрын
Marriage is very much for both soulmates, one "side" so sometimes only one can build the bridge. But both will use that bridge
@officialGlobalnet Жыл бұрын
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@moniquesbeautylifeover502 жыл бұрын
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@kangwakabwe27982 жыл бұрын
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@jawahirhokal95053 жыл бұрын
I have a question my husband loves to stay in house and doesn’t allow me to go out alone and doesn’t take me out what should I do he says I want to protect you and he doesn’t like to go out as much I want to create memories and enjoy doing activities together what to do sir
@TheMarriageFoundation3 жыл бұрын
Put more attention on your husband for now until the love within you is so stirred up that all else counts for naught. Then, that love will deliver all you need.
@ruthdecell17626 ай бұрын
Is so hard wife will stay calm and the husband is crabby ,he is a temptation,stress you up ,accoused you ,angry and be proud of him .how can you be proud of him.Yes he is a provider but a hisband should make a wife happy first and he should be calm and love and be patience to his wife so the wife will be a loving person.If a husband is crabby everyday how can a wife be loving ,wife will dislikes and hate the husband like that.He is like a devil a temptation everyday
@TheMarriageFoundation6 ай бұрын
Bringing your preconceived ideas abour marriage to me won't help you with yours. Listen to more videos until you start to see the light.
@Yxyxyxy-i8w Жыл бұрын
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@thixcinikki2 жыл бұрын
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@Channelinterrupted2 жыл бұрын
So we have to become saintly and angelic.... but you're right . Hopefully he follows my example.
@TheMarriageFoundation2 жыл бұрын
More hopefully you learn to love without expectations of him.
@mawulawoedorwu18154 ай бұрын
Should you be doing all these things even when the man is a chronic cheat??
@TheMarriageFoundation4 ай бұрын
Ah, of course you should always behave in the most admirable ways you can, from the heart and not depend on anger and hurt to decide how you will be... have you looked at all our offerings? themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/