WHY I MOVED BACK HOME WITH 2 KIDS!!!

After living alone for half my life, I decided to move back to my mother's house, with my kids. Here's how it's going.

[@madimetjagodfreytloubatla5504]

From a man's perspective, I also moved home. I am the "son" and I do chores and look after the three young ones. But it gets hectic when there's clash in parenting patterns. The bigger picture for me, my mom and I communicate better. Learnt to say NO to her without feeling guilty and also got answers to a lot of questions of our family dynamics from our daily evening chats. Went to bed drained emotionally and mentally from the convos as they's always results in arguments in between, but little did i know that it was the anger and a whole lot of emotions leaving my system.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Oh G, that sounds amazing. I'm glad you were able to set your boundaries, I feel so guilty after saying no. Eish, I need to work on that.

[@abongilengobo2373]

I love how honest you are about everything we single mothers go through, especially mentally. You're a wonderful mom! Thank you for this.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thanks so much my friend :-)

[@ziphezinhlemoyo4895]

One year later, I’m so happy I found this video! I came back home a few months ago after becoming a single mom to a toddler. I’m also the eldest daughter. Yeyi this is ghetto. Today nje I wanted to move out, but your video reminded me to see the bigger picture and endure for the sake of mine and my daughter’s future. Thank you sisi

[@JustMissKalea]

Turning 29 and still living at home, and totally relate 🤣🤣. Abiding by the rules is the way to go.

[@NdinaNehemia]

You know what, I love you girl!!! KZbin suggested one of your videos a week ago, I never clicked but it kept popping up so I watched. Listen, I’ve now gone to the very first video you uploaded and binge watching. I don’t even have children but I love your aura, your honesty, authenticity and vulnerability. I wish for every good thing and blessing to come your way because you deserve it. Love your new subscriber from Namibia❤️

[@kavulinyali81]

I keep telling you that you speak about the most important subjects!

[@bmshik]

Hi Mandy. What i loved about your living at home with parents moment is you looked visible happy. That's worth all the dishwasher moments babe

[@Tokisom]

Support is so important. Glad you were able to get it 💛

[@stellanzula8146]

Watching these sit down videos now and am so happy for your growth❤️

[@um6498]

Real talk gurl, you've opened my thoughts on both sides being a parent and understanding my adult children lool, thank you, I hope and pray you achieve your goals. Privacy & freedom is a must for mental clarity for every day function. Bless you. X

[@passionwithMsbee]

Bless your heart ,I've been binge watching all your videos since the week started ,I resonate with alot of your topics ,Your stronger than you think ,I see myself in you so much,God bless your heart 🤗

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Oh my Gosh Ms Bee. Thank you so much 🥺🥺❤️❤️

[@Tokisom]

You are amazing mama. Depending where you want to star, kuna some really good public schools. Also I think once your child is in the private school there are bursaries. Your dreams are soooo valid.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thanks so much mommy 💕

[@sinovuyomaselana2513]

I'm so glad you didn't take your own life you are such an amazing person. You are doing great Mama.

[@setladiconnie8365]

You are so relatable, so real. May the universe meet you half way in all that your heart desires. You are doing amazing

[@thandomcutha3059]

Love love love your openness and honesty Mandz. I enjoy watching your videos 🤍 Living at home pretty much destroys the mother and daughter relationship or you have to make peace with always being the bigger person.

[@sinovuyomaselana2513]

I went home for 5 months last year after lockdown it was great interms of support but my mom and I were butting heads all the time. Being so independent and now having to be kid again. It was a tough 5 months yhooooo but I miss my mom at times shame

[@sinovuyomaselana2513]

I'm glad you at a better place you even look happier

[@kgothatsodavhie7288]

I relate so much with that first year of varsity with all the girls from the private school, yey!😔

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Yhuu that thing is painful. It makes you realize that your life isn’t as great as you thought. You don’t realize the differences until you get to varsity. Yoh 🥺💔

[@sharonuahupirapi2719]

I can relate too but I didn’t care, in fact I was proud that I made it to university. And I proudly represented my village school

[@khensybakes]

😂 Book yourself into a hotel one weekend per month? Tell them it’s a “work trip”. Use some of your hard earned savings for some much needed self care.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Girrrrl, I might just do that, because WOW 😂

[@zealous2621]

Am home as well since 2017,a first born sister and it was hard coming back home for good lol I missed the city life it hit me hard but now am used to it.

[@hloniphileradebe7966]

Ever since I started watching your content I'm going back to all the videos oqale ngazo and I love them

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Thank you Hloni 🙂

[@karenclark3206]

I can relate to you as I myself have moved back to my parents house after my divorce

[@sinovuyomaselana2513]

I really get you I'm in jhb alone with my son and literally my life revolves around my toddler .

[@ncumisampongwana4961]

Yho Wena I can relate with her, I stay in Durban with my toddler only. I don't have any family here. Like literally I cannot go anywhere without my child. I can't even enter liquor because am always with a child.

[@leratosebetoane8333]

Me currently. My son is 6 and is so attached to me n refuses to stay with anyone else except me. I literally live and breath this lil man.

[@bekz3]

Lmao I was also living with my mom when I got retrenched ah the thing of hiding bevs I can't 🤣 the nicest part is is not paying rent but the rest no ways the rules the clutches

[@TheMillennialMom1]

Babe, you pay in other ways. Yhuu ah ah. I will never do this again 🤣

[@bekz3]

I've moved out yoh the peace I just miss my boy cause I left him at home the way I'm obsessed with ur channel ❤

[@refilwekhiba8633]

Lol I've been meaning to watch this video and I relate soooo much. Lol I never want to be home for too long. No i cant

[@refiloelegoale1140]

Girl I hear you on the private school chat😩. It does leave you with insecurities even as an adult.

[@TheMillennialMom1]

I feel seen. Thanks so much for this babe. I always thought I was the only one.

[@marciamohale6720]

Yep that's motherhood. It's a lot.

[@sinovuyomaselana2513]

When you back in JHB we definitely need to meet ❤

[@sinovuyomaselana2513]

She is so cute 😍

[@refiloelegoale1140]

11.11 🕯🕯for you to get that 2 million house

[@hlonimaluleke4091]

This is so relatable!! 🥺 I moved back home after living on my own for a year, I fell pregnant and I needed to regroup financially. I’ve been home for a whole year now and some days are better than others. I live with my mom’s parents and my uncle who’s a drug addict. My grandparents are quite old and getting someone to help with house chores and baby was a major priority for me. I’m financially responsible for most things in the house so it takes its toll on me quite heavily. It’s hard to try and focus on the things that I want for myself at times because of my financial commitments in the household. That part when you said one pays with something for living at him. I’m certainly paying financially and with my mental health but ke, it is what it is.

[@andilentuli]

♥️♥️♥️

[@sinovuyomaselana2513]

I wish I can give you a hug

[@yandisantlahla9190]

Hey, what about a good government school,that might decrease the financial pressure 💗

[@sinovuyomaselana2513]

Lol so vele you are stealing that wine hhahahahaha

[@donnam.5578]

Did you rent a truck or use a moving company? Did you take everything with you or leave stuff behind?

[@nompumelelomyeza2206]

Honey there is good public schools.

[@OniccaM]

😭😭😭😭 living at home is the pits shame, more when u have kids and 5 siblings.

[@antaneiaelliott7350]

Not my husband