The "Use It or Lose It" Rule (Minimalism Basics)

Most of us are managing WAY MORE inventory than we can handle. But, it can be difficult to know what to keep and what to pass on. Introducing the "use it or lose it rule"...start using the things you have or donate them to someone who can make use of them!
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[@TheMinimalMom]

Thank you so much for watching!! I'm looking forward to hearing about the things you've decided to USE and not just store!! Here is a link for the Family Minimalism Basics Playlist: kzbin.info/aero/PLZ-AWUEixtg1yAnuggL_abE4xrQe0AkLF

[@kateruterbories2692]

5'1 1/2"!!! Oh to have that inch and a half!! I'm 5' even!

[@ЕленаПугач-е4ю]

Thank you a lot for all your's videos. You always admire me to change my life. From Belarus with love 💕

[@greenthumbelina7331]

@@kateruterbories2692 HAHAHA ...I think I'm 5' 1", and that's on a good day! I used to be 5' 3-3/4", at least that's what I told everyone, lol!

[@barbaracarbone4658]

@@kateruterbories2692 Lol. I'm 5'11".

[@kateruterbories2692]

@@greenthumbelina7331 🤣👍

[@heatherd5466]

I have started a new habit in my closet kind of like use it or lose it. Everytime I hang up a shirt fresh from the laundry, it goes in the back. Every morning when I get dressed I "must" wear the shirt in the front. If I hesitate, or don't want to wear that shirt, I ask why? Does it not fit right? Don't like the way I feel in it? Too clingy? This makes me love my clothes SO much more. I have decluttered my clothes so much that now when I open my closet I am excited to wear that shirt today! Also limiting the number of hangers in my closet helps too!

[@SKA1017]

Oh good idea!

[@katherinec7698]

What a great idea! I’m going to try this. 🙂

[@katepearlzorn7275]

I agree, great idea!

[@npigwnl]

This is how I got rid of all my bathroom stuff! Great method, would recommend 😉

[@LongHairCarolyn]

That "must" wear the first shirt is brilliant!

[@rebeccablaha6180]

I’ve started using things that I saved for a “special occasion” and realized that I never found an occasion I felt was special enough. It was time to just use items and appreciate them now.

[@nancyhurt7145]

My mom always said to use things or there’s no memories. We use my grammas serving dishes all the time . Makes me happy!

[@jessie9653]

That's awesome, I'm stealing that saying 😂

[@sundoesshine8800]

@@jessie9653 Wow, me too.

[@kathleengarness1660]

I love this concept! I have one pair of gym shoes; one pair of flipflops; one pair of comfy leather semi-dressy Clarks walking shoes I wear everywhere unless it's raining ; one pair of composite-toe work boots; one pair of LL Beans rubber shoes that I wear on errands when it's raining (to save my leather shoes); one pair of short rubber gardening boots I found at Target, and a pair of rubber knee-high boots I use for heavy fieldwork. None of these shoes have roles that overlap and ALL have lasted me well over 5 years so far.

[@briannelineback1636]

😁 I’m 5’1 & 1/2 too!! And yeah, that extra 1/2 is VERY necessary to throw in there!!😉😆

[@jennscott6858]

Agreed!

[@happypace9414]

I'm in the 5'1"...and a half club too! I admit I might round up for BMI numbers! Pregnancy caused me to lose a full inch, but I got it back after giving birth.

[@lilacscoffee9360]

Same! Technically, 5'1 & 3/4 :)

[@eileenheinkel2374]

Thank you for giving me permission to split up a set. I did it a few weeks ago for the first time and feel so MUCH better.

[@dianeleslie671]

👍I regularly 'demote'/repurpose my clothes and shoes! Things that I like, but are no longer nice enough to wear for regular use (or to donate). My old Sketchers are my favorite gardening shoes! I also limit myself to 1 bag of 'work clothes', a couple each of short and long tops and pants. Beyond that, they go to the 'rag bag'...(I love old socks as rags...use once (or twice), then toss instead of wash. No guilt!)

[@angelajoshsmith2485]

We used my husband’s hammock that he bought in Guatemala during college. It had been in a box as a souvenir for 20 years. Everyone loved resting in it, but after a few years, it broke. I thought my husband would be sad to see it go, but he wasn’t. He was glad we had enjoyed it. :)

[@suzierice9730]

Amen to that Dawn! This is exactly me. Great video. I have gotten rid of sooo much stuff through our local Buy nothing group. I started to wear the “nicer” clothes that i was keeping in our spare room. Haven’t bought any clothes since the pandemic hit. I shop the house first for most things now.

[@rebeccaramos3246]

My grandmother gave me a bunch of antique wooden Noah's Ark. Some were a smaller set that probably didnt out much to begin with, and some were really expensive hand carved pieces fro Africa. Well I had them in storage for years, just like she had, and I never even saw them. One day my youngest daughter asked if she could play with them and I decided right then to just give them all to her to play with. Now they are being loved and used and some have gotten broken but that's ok!!! They are creating loving joyous memories!!

[@pameehanson3866]

I have a best friend who challenged me with sort of same concept but she would ask me am I using this item? No I am saving it for good! Her reply was “ good for what”? She let her daughter and granddaughter eat off her china and crystal because that is what she used and loved everyday. 😱 So when I sort thru cupboards and start to say I’ll save for good and my self talk ask the question “Good for What” 😮 or thanks Dawn fir concept “ use it or lose it”❤️❤️❤️

[@janiem6347]

I now happily use a quilt my late mother made for me. I kept saving it to keep it nice. When my mother-in-law passed away I saw all the things she aired away and never enjoyed and I vowed to quit waiting for someday

[@janiem6347]

*stored away

[@eydiegarcelon8889]

Oh Dawn.... the second you held up the potholder.... my heart melted.... I had an older lady make me a few of those potholders and she is gone now. I do treasure those things dearly... and YES... I use every one of them every day!

[@nela4922]

Loved this video.. yes a year later .. just discovered you recently...use it or lose it helps so much with decision making... Thankyou so much!!!!!

[@shirleyhess7]

Like your potholder comments - because I have 2 that one of my of aunts made for me. I "protected" them for years until I realized that my kids and grandkids would not even want it or even know where it came from. I think of her often whenever I need a potholder.

[@annmerchant452]

Your phrase "if you don't like something now, you won't start liking it tomorrow" is a game changer! How true that is, but so simple. Makes me wonder why I never thought of that. But, Dawn, really, 3 pairs of shoes!? Surely you have more stored somewhere?

[@ellen8996]

I have 3 pair, plus a pair of slippers.

[@carol-destinationsinflorid5591]

I totally get that. I have a blanket that was made for me by a neighbor when I was in 6th grade. It sits on our spare bed and I only use it when I don't feel good. I find it to be more comforting than other blankets when I'm not up to par.

[@vzeimen]

I've been on a real "use it up" kick. I have so many products that I need to use up and then stop stocking up on. Makeup, skin care, shampoo, cleaners and yes, clothes too. I am realizing, like you, that I have things that I've kept for "good" and not used. I'm starting to get over that mentality but it's really hard

[@joscharf1080]

“Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without!”

[@MamaInTheMitten]

I have 4 soon to be 5 kids. The last 2 years I've been putting and decluttering. Saving kids clothes for just in case turned out to be never. So now I only keep, winter coats, snow coats(they ones built for snow and can get stained and dirty and I won't cry), snow boots, snow pants swim suits(all kids including girls wear swim trunks and rash guard tops) and rain boots (I live in Michigan so we see all seasons). For everything else my rule is, if I know I won't use it on the next year (like school uniforms) it's gotta go. Storing it will cost me more financially physically and mentally than to purchase again later IF I need it. I bring things I don't want anymore to a place called kid to kid to sell what they will take and what they don't, they will donate locally if you choose, I absolutely love this and it cuts down on trips and excuses to keep things. Hopefully I didn't rant too much (ADHD mom here 😜) but just a tip if any mom's of many need a push! Thanks again for this video.

[@car2nerr]

as we down size to spend a year or more RVing I try to tell myself and my sweetheart that if something isn't serving it's purpose, it should go to someone who can use it. I find it pretty simple most times. Harder for my hubby to do.

[@dianasimplifies]

I’m so glad you let the kids use those smaller glasses! They really are pretty.

[@augustineschaefer5522]

Use it or lose it works for everything from pantry to craft room to boxed storage

[@kathryndalton9867]

Another thing. The reason I keep a nice thing to wear is that if a friend asks me out for the evening we'll if I've worn it and haven't the money to buy a new item say for two days time well I thought best keep something ready to go in

[@danicegewiss862]

I am going through my clothes. I love my clothes and hate getting rid of them. I bought them because I loved them. It is an emotional journey for me. I don't wear shoes when I'm at home.

[@sct4040]

I got rid of 95% of my office work clothes these past 2 years. It was bitter sweet, knowing that part of my life is over. At the same time, I was relieved that part of my life hustling and bustling 9 to 5 is over.🎉🎉🎉🎉 cheers!

[@barbaracarbone4658]

Very good approach. No matter how much we improve, we will always need a little nudge like "would we pay to store it"? Lol. It's a great question and gives us the answer on what to do with an item. Thanks much!

[@amandamertz3037]

LOVE this so very much!! Just the pep talk I was needing!

[@pastorsteveramsey3445]

When I buy new shoes for walking, I always keep my last pair for yard shoes.

[@kimberlywalker1015]

GREAT THOUGHTS, here. I NOW don't feel guilty because I ...I AM THE ONE who got fingernail polish remover on our coffee table...the spots have forever marked the finish in that piece of furniture....UGH!🙄 I came to the conclusion (even more so after I saw your video)...its okay. 1) My granddaughter and I have good memories of us playing, "Nail Salon"...she's 4. 2) You don't really see the spots until you get right up to that table. 3) I'll get another table one day, ...but, for now, enjoy THIS TABLE....these memories... I'm finding the years with young children only fleet away, too quickly. I know these comments are long but I had to refer back to something that happened to me recently regarding this video as well in the light that you're telling it. I had a necklace that went with a dark black jacket ...dark black blouse and a long black and red rose skirt which was very subtle. I've had this outfit for a few years now and still enjoy wearing it. The necklace I had that I wore with this outfit ... I was never crazy about. FINALLY, out of looking at it displayed with all the other necklaces in the closet, I grabbed it one day, and, decided, "you're going to the thrift store!" Previously, I had looked MANY TIMES....trying to find just the RIGHT necklace....but, no luck. UNTIL, shortly after I gave it away....GUESS WHAT I FOUND? YEP, just the right necklace.🙂

[@faithlikecaleb]

I can't believe we share the SAME story about the estate sale in the house we were purchasing! I believe THAT EXPERIENCE made me start considering minimalism! We bought some BEAUTIFUL crystal drinking glasses at the sale which the woman had "saved" in a curio cabinet for how long? Apparently her son didn't want her precious things and I bought the glasses. I bought them and we used them. One day my daughter's friend was over...of course they had to be using my "special" glasses and my daughter was mortified when her friend broke one. GLASSES WERE MEANT TO BE DRANK FROM! The poor woman who originally bought them never got the chance to enjoy drinking from them. We did and 6 years later ALL glasses are now in a landfill 😆 ....and we are thankful to have used them. Not long after purchasing those glasses, I decided to use only crystal glasses. I also gave away all of our "every day" plates and we eat OFF OUR CHINA EVERY DAY. I LOVE OUR CHINA and I get to enjoy it (and crystal drinking glasses) at every meal! We use the things for their intended purposes and we enjoy the nice things that we have. I donate or sell the extra things and I'm making progress thinning out every week. Thanks for sharing your stories, Dawn You are a beautiful inspiration and encouragement to so many! Bethany ❤

[@christineo8510]

I live in an area with 4 seasons...so I need an assortment of shoes and boots. Between boots and shoes I have maybe 4 boots and 6 pairs of running shoes/sneakers. I was gifted 2 different pairs of brand new running shoes. Yes, they're expensive - nike and Adidas. Im not going to refuse brand new shoes (unless I don't like them) I have them in a box somewhere until my current pairs wear down and have holes. I ❤ running shoes...I'm not a hoarder, I just have a 'controlled' amount I can keep track and look after...

[@Maeve2001]

Something clicked when you put a $ value to the monthly storage. My answer changed dramatically on a lot of things. Thank you for your insight👍🏻

[@ChickTrucker]

So, the thing about travel size shampoos and conditioners....I take the ones I get and dump them in the bottles I am currently using and then discard the empty bottles in recycling. It doesn't really matter if they are mixed inside. Shampoo is shampoo...most of the time it stays separated anyway if you use a pump bottle. Try it! 😁👍

[@bobbihofacker2706]

I was given a diamond ring from a great great aunt. For many years I kept in the safe. Then one day I decided I'm going to start wearing that ring. Everytime so comments on it, I get to tell them the story of it belonging to her ❤️

[@cassondrahuff]

Old me: I'll sell it in a garage sale or on marketplace. (And never get around to it) New me: take it to the free store and get it out of my house 😊

[@pandamnk3]

I'm doing this currently with my makeup. I have more than I want to manage (still far less than many) so I've decided to set a bin aside. As I use items they go in the bin. I can't use them again until I've used everything else in that same category or made the decision to get rid of the remaining things that aren't my favorites. I'm just a few days in and I've already identified things to get rid of.

[@TheMinimalMom]

This is an awesome idea!!

[@anne-mareefalzon3579]

Dawn, I was wondering if you had a cupboard (container) to hold the things that you like to use occasionally upstairs, would that be a nice addition ?? 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@therapistandwriter]

What do you do about things like wedding china? My husband and I almost never entertain even during the holidays. At least during this season of life. I can’t imagine getting rid of it or even using it every day, but it’s just sitting in a china cabinet.

[@JasmineBrownOttawa]

I LOVE this video, thank you for sharing! I have a wooden salad bowl that was my grandparents from one side of the family, and kinda gold coloured salad servers from my other grandparents. My only set. Every time we have salad I think of my 4 grandparents and it makes my heart happy. I am so glad we use these. I also have some grandparents' china in storage in the basement...so I need to think more about your "use it or lose it" rule!

[@christinapennell5073]

I take my older shoes and they graduate to my gardening shoes. I don't purchase another pair of new shoes until it's time to graduate the next pair.

[@finnishcanadian3375]

I always wash my runners in the machine but let them air dry.

[@julien4741]

I was just looking at the martini glasses in my china cabinet hmmmm...

[@susangoodman4925]

Does it bother anybody else to break up the set and donate part of it, so that another person can't buy the whole set at the thrift store?

[@lucindapick2986]

This reminds me of a quote, "Ships in the harbor are safe, but that's not what ships were built for." Use the nice stuff!

[@DonnaCookAuthor]

I love this!

[@alisonsmith7162]

Heard Doctor Ramani talk on this quote recently.

[@Antonia-et5sb]

WELL SAID!!!!

[@Rosa-kf6yy]

Perfect!

[@4110Is]

My grandma gave my sister and me each a set of dish towels that she hand embroidered herself. I have been using mine and thinking of her everyday for 16 years and my sister has had them in a box to protect them. She just realized within this last year that I have been using my set all along and was so excited to pull hers out and use hers. She felt like she needed permission to use them because they were so special. Now she gets to think of grandma when she sees hers everyday as well. Thanks for this great reminder!!!

[@tambracarswell9896]

My grandmother did the same with towels. I finally wore one out this last week and I did thank it for all it had been used for and thanked her for giving it to me (in my prayers, she has passed on). She made a set of towels for my daughter to have when she got her first place and even wrote a note for her to read when I give them to her. Lovely memories

[@moegirl76]

I honestly think the "keep precious things safe" mentality came from the times like the depression when people didn't have much and things were very costly to replace. Also from frustrated parents whose kids would wear something once and destroy it! 😂 We're adults now. Let's decide for ourselves. ✨

[@Jabezgirl57]

As someone who is a craftsman I encourage people to use the things that I make for them. From quilts to crocheted dish cloths or scrappy potholders. Use them up. There is no better compliment than someone saying” I need some new dishcloths you make, mine are worn out! “

[@samanthamccoy15]

@@Jabezgirl57 such a great point! There is no better compliment than knowing what you made was appreciated to the point you're asked to make more! 😊

[@robinrios4715]

Precious love ❤️

[@tpeters7358]

If I have shampoo, bubble bath or soap of some sort that I don’t care for, I just clean with it. Everyday scrubbing of the toilet and sink doesn’t need to be harsh chemicals, unless you clean less often. Once it’s done, I continue with my regular cleaner.

[@jessie9653]

Me too

[@sundoesshine8800]

Same here, soap is soap! I also had a conditioner that didn't work too well, so now use it to shave my legs.

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

Same. Makes it somewhat easier to give up a shampoo I really didn’t like when it was being used to clean the bathroom. 🤣

[@tpeters7358]

@@sundoesshine8800 great idea!

[@tpeters7358]

@@TheDriftwoodlover 😂 no waste guilt.

[@alexinaaron1022]

One thing that hinders me from decluttering (and I'm actually pretty good at it) is the desire to be more environmentally friendly: to donate, to bring to my local recycling center, to bring to give to a homeless shelter or school or hospital, etc. OR to find a way to repurpose, so as to be more "zero waste". But all that stuff is HARD and takes time and thought and sometimes research or extra errands. One day, I just decided to use your "guilt free" method to just fill up a trash bag. It felt so good to just get rid of some stuff that had been hanging around for MONTHS because I was trying to get rid of it more responsibly. I do responsibly declutter most our stuff, but man, I just needed to give myself permission to not be perfect.

[@aromaofhope]

I 100% agree with this post.

[@bellaedwards9105]

Does Dawn have a specific "guilt free" video, and if so can you please share the link (I searched and can't find one)? I struggle with the same thing and would love to hear what she has to say about it. Thank you!

[@ZarahBee]

This! This has been one of my biggest challenges too

[@tiffanykelly9362]

This had been my biggest roadblock to decluttering too. I live in a fairly large neighborhood, so I have started putting all my "donation items" out on the front yard with a "free" sign on Saturday mornings when people are looking for yard sales. Almost all of the items are taken, which saves so much time and energy to not pack them up and take them to a donation center. And my neighbors frequently tell me they enjoy looking through all my items. I've gotten rid of so much stuff this way!

[@DwideShrude]

Yes!! Same! Decluttering isn’t a problem, I love doing it, but then the bags and boxes of stuff that are waiting to be donated adds up and causes stress. I have a huge pile in the basement of toys, clothes, shoes, kitchen stuff, etc.

[@greenthumbelina7331]

When our daughters were little, I started using our stemware and also the crystal snack sets we got for wedding gifts (which proves I'm old) for Sunday brunches at home. Our daughters loved being all dressed up and using the pretty' dishes, it made them feel more grownup, and they also were expected to use good manners at the table.

[@moegirl76]

I started using real dishes with my daughter when she was around 2. It taught her to be gentle with stuff very early on.

[@jcgnbd7410]

My aunt and uncle got a set of fine china for their wedding and also bought two sets when overseas in the military. They use them as everyday dishes. They have two boys that have had them as the only dishes they used growing up. They throw them in the dishwasher and are not particularity careful (careful enough that only a few have been broken). The boys knew from a young age to careful with their dishes (as they WERE fine china). It made me want china that I could use daily and care for and not put in cupboard or on a shelf (unless that is what you want and have space!) …..use it! Don’t be afraid to enjoy your things! Enjoy your things and take the best care of them you can!

[@Jessica_Jones]

I love that so much!! Definitely going to adopt this!

[@AmethystWoman]

@@jcgnbd7410 I know people with their dining room seat cushions covered with plastic. Same thing. "What, so the person who buys it at the thrift shop can enjoy that you took good care of their furniture?" Except for them, it's just used stuff. Sit on your furniture. Don't make your friends sit on plastic! lol.

[@susannabutkus4064]

My friend collects stemware and uses them for dinner every night. The kids get their milk and water in them.

[@EmmaAppleBerry]

There's a french saying *"the fate of glass is to break"* keeping that in mind with precious things i want to protect & never use allows me to realise that those things are made to be used. id actually be doing them a disservice not to, & that yes at some point maybe in 5 years, maybe in 50 itll break and thats okay. 😊

[@lelexoxo303]

Sorry, but I have to correct you there. They just say it like that in James Bond. The original French quote has a different meaning, as well as a different translation. It more or less comes down to "If you persist committing the same mistakes, you have to suffer the consequences", or the English proverb of "The pitcher will go to the well once too often". The made-up Bond one does have a nice ring to it though.

[@sarahouser3100]

Funny I made the decision to wear my race walking Nikes $$ when I painted on Labor Day Weekend. Sure enough I splashed Accessible Beige by Sherwin Williams on my shoes but my feet felt great! I feel pride seeing the stains knowing I’ve still got the energy at 60 to paint my master bedroom. Thanks for today’s video.

[@jessicawszalek5667]

We love that color! We’re on our third house of using that color for all of our main living areas 😍

[@talulahlives7893]

I love accessible beige! We painted our entire house with that color!!! 💜

[@talulahlives7893]

@@jessicawszalek5667 same

[@darcyharris5348]

You work wonders Dawn. I retired a year ago and have been watching you closely. I have minimalized and organized our home so much! I love how the open space makes me feel calm and relaxed. I love being at home more than ever and it truly is our home sweet home. My house is always 15 minute party ready and my guests comment all the time on how beautiful our home is now. Today I sat down to watch you and when you mentioned “if you don’t like it today you won’t like it better tomorrow, I marched right up to my closet and purged even more and have 3 bags to take to our local charity resale shop. You are amazing (and so is Tom). I love watching you, keep teaching us!

[@Lynntahl]

My favorite mug has a hairline fracture through it, which makes it unusable for liquids. I was devastated! Yet it wasn’t completely broken, so I started using it to organize drink powder packets. I didn’t want to lose it so I started using it differently. Great concept!

[@alisonsmith7162]

Good for toothbrush holder too

[@nice_flowers_are]

I put a candle in my tea cup that has a crack! It's beautiful and I love it!

[@fabienneclavier5984]

Mugs are great for pens as well. Looks nice on a desk.

[@runningwild8293]

I had the same problem. Used it for pens. 😉

[@melissamoreno1377]

The cost of storing these items is always my confidence, my self esteem and my peace. Imagine someone forcing you to look at one of your mistakes every single day..... this is what we do to ourselves when we keep these items.

[@barbarahvilivitzky1092]

This knocked me out!!!! Every time I go down to the cellar I see piles of dishes/mugs/utensils/pots and pans and junk waiting to be given/thrown away. This stuff reproaches me every time - hey! lazy - do something with me!!!! I have low energy and get tired easily so it's hard to get stuff out to the car and into the used stuff shop. But I will feel better if I at least get it out to the car. Baby steps. I know I'll perk up my confidence if I make a move in the right direction. Thanks for your comment.

[@AmythefirstA]

Good point!

[@nancycerreta5629]

Just this morning I went into the attic for my winter quilt. There were two totes with other quilts and blankets. I made all of the quilts in hope that my family would want them, they don't. So, realizing this I've decided someone else might. To the donation center they go. The End!

[@myrtlebeachsara]

Good job Nancy! That's great of you

[@jcgnbd7410]

Dang it - I love using homemade quilts! I love that they make me think of those that made them - them time and thought that went into making them - I t is like a warm hug!!!

[@stephanieschanno4573]

Someone else will be excited about the quilts and thankful that you donated them so they could enjoy them!

[@danielleroth2947]

My grandmothers made beautiful quilts, and my parents always kept them hidden in a cedar chest to "protect" them. They were handed down to me, and we use them all the time now, because I believe she would have wanted us to use them than hide them away and let them get old! We have a few with stains on them which is sad, but so much better than never using them. Love this!

[@TheMinimalMom]

yes! love this!

[@terrilynch5435]

I’m a quilter and I always say USE IT- LOVE IT- WASH IT. There’s love in every stitch using it is how you feel the love

[@RaeC]

I think dawn has a stained table cloth, the stain is now a memory of her child having a ball crafting. Stains are memories and add to the story. Enjoy the day.

[@bookreader8655]

The saddest thing a quilter can hear is: "It's too nice to use." I made a quilt for a soldier in Iraq and HIS MOTHER did not send it to him. She put it in the closet to keep it nice! Your grandmother would be so happy to see the stains on a well-loved quilt.

[@DonnaCookAuthor]

Yes, this! Whenever I give the gift of a quilt I encourage people to use and love them and if they get worn out, so much the better! :)

[@seanagarrow7488]

I’m a “crazy for holiday themed blankets” person…They make a huge “holiday” statement draped over a couch, chair, or bed. Unfortunately, I have limited storage space. So, I “use” them daily as folded up pillow inserts. Little do visitors know that the decorative pillows in my house are actually blanket holders. Easter, Christmas, & Thanksgiving (Fall leaves) blankets are folded inside the couch throw pillows, and Halloween & blue-starred blankets (stars for Memorial Day/4th of July/summer) are inside the throw pillows on the beds… If I ever decide to kick the blanket habit, I may fill them with sweaters or jackets..lol!😃

[@kimr4005]

That’s genius

[@NLY1WAY4U]

♥️♥️♥️

[@seanagarrow7488]

@@kimr4005 I have no linen closet…so I had to get sneaky. Sometimes it takes a bit of fluffing to get the blanket to look throw pillowish…lol!

[@sunshine3914]

Lol. Not even an hour ago someone complimented my big sofa pillow... that’s stuffed with a parka. It rarely get cold here, but I’m not about to part with my 20-yr-old parka.

[@NLY1WAY4U]

I store bed blankets in shams on the beds. Always handy when you need it!

[@arozsa-h57]

“Shop your house first” I love this advice! Find special items that can actually be used and not stay in a bin forever, also another amazing encouragement

[@leeibbertson1184]

This is such a great strategy

[@כמובבית-ל1ג]

Thank you, Dawn! This was a good reminder of the principle that I have applied to my stuff already for years! For example, I often drink coffee from luxurious cups which most people would use only in special occasions. Each day is a day that the Lord has made - why would we not celebrate it? One of the cups already got broken, but I do not have children who would inherit them. And even if I had, they would probably prefer a more modern style.

[@jcgnbd7410]

I have my GG’s cups that her and my grandpa used. Her silverware is out daily use and her dishes (all bought in the back in the day with gas station stamps-the original bonus cards) . We use her cups as coffee/tea cups and as plant holders for small plant and starters. So fun seeing them in my daughter window sill for her plants that she want to get to going…..

[@polystaircasesniffs2610]

I’ve momentarily lost the wind from my decluttering sails; I was told my massive decluttering progress (8+ months now) was not going to make a difference in calming the house and increasing happiness with the kids, that this decluttering road is just a red herring. Rewatching all your videos right now to try to get my sights back and convince myself they’re wrong!! Hugs Dawn, so glad you just dropped a video!!!!!!! It’s a sign! :) Sighhhh

[@CULady]

Totally understand. Remember all the positive things from your previous wins in decluttering💜 you got this👍

[@TheMinimalMom]

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this! Remember to take before pictures-- it's easy to believe we haven't made progress until we look back! You can do it, tons of love to you!

[@hettiekenny5185]

Shake off negative comments from those who don’t share your vision. How many KZbin channels are there of people who have been set free from clutter and stuff vs those celebrating their junk? Time to get back on the horse. You can do it! 🏇

[@naomih7954]

It will make a difference - because you will notice! You deserve to have a place that you know is better - even if it's only you! (Oh - and take pictures even if you're partly done, because your Negative Nellie side will LIE to you!)

[@florenciapietrangeloresnic145]

They are wrong. Just keep going 💖💖💖

[@de-deheeter2598]

As a maker myself, I can pretty much guarantee that if the lady who made your potholders had known you packed them away, she would’ve been very disappointed. I’m glad that you are using it. I made a quilt for some friends for wedding gift many years ago. They have lived far away from us for their entire marriage. This past summer, I got brave and asked about the quilt, because I had never taken a picture of it. “Oh, yes!” They had slept under that quilt every night of their married life, and though it’s well-worn, it’s still loved and used. I got my picture, wear and tear and all, and I was so thrilled that it brought tears to my eyes!

[@susanpeterson9947]

I’m retired and live a very casual lifestyle. When casual shoes (think slip-on Skechers style) get old and tired looking, I downgrade them to yard/garden shoes. When they start getting holes, or the sole starts breaking loose, I can toss them without a second thought, knowing that I got as much use out of them as possible.

[@sanibelpatty]

I have successfully washed skechers in the washing machine and love them again!

[@susanpeterson9947]

@@sanibelpatty yes! I do too, They’re my favorite shoes in the world!

[@darleneh608]

That was always my method, too. Gardening and lawn mowing ruins shoes so quickly. I'd rather ruin a pair that was already on its way out the door, than buy a new pair of cheap shoes for the purpose.

[@hannahr4111]

I appreciate the freedom you’ve encouraged us to have in actually using heirlooms rather than just storing them! I have an old songbook from my great grandmother that I used to just feel guilty about just storing. I’m now removing favorite hymns of my siblings, framing them in rustic frames, and planning to write a summary of my great grandmother and great grandfather’s spiritual legacy in our family to attach to the back of each frame. These are going to be Christmas gifts for my siblings, and my husband even asked me to make some to hang in our future music room! Now my great grandmother’s beloved hymns are going to grace the walls of the homes of the great grandchildren she never knew but who will know her better because of this! Thank you for helping me over the hump of feeling like I needed to preserve something I wasn’t using to the point of now being able to honor her legacy in this way!!

[@susanpeterson9947]

What a touching comment, and a fabulous way to honor your great grandmother and share with your siblings!

[@kittygumdrop7442]

That's an awesome way to do that! We kept quilts and knitted blankets "safe" but finally we started just using them. One of the makers actually told us to make sure to use them because that's what they're for. They meant for us to enjoy the things not just keep it tucked away somewhere safe.

[@janetmurphyca]

I love this. This is def something I try to do. For instance I live in a super casual style house with two teens, my husband and 2 dogs. Yet in the middle of the island in our kitchen is a fancy crystal candy dish. It was my grandmothers and is VERY connected to my memories of her. So instead of hiding it in our china cabinet we fill it with M&Ms and use it every day. It is super special and makes me smile daily.

[@rondaherriott]

I use all my special stuff. We break them sometimes, but we are enjoying my vintage dishes, vases, etc. As far as using it for something other than intended, I use a gorgeous vintage glass egg cup for my egg-shaped makeup sponge. It’s gorgeous and it’s being used!

[@JasmineBrownOttawa]

What a clever idea!! I'm going to share this for sure

[@melissabarnes617]

That's a cute idea

[@claudiaoterohernandez920]

Post a pic

[@mrsducky3428]

Exactly! All the time, I find wonderful unused stuff still in the box at thrift stores because someone saved it until they died.

[@NLY1WAY4U]

I had all sorts of travel bar soaps accumulating to use (someday). I packed them in my Operation Christmas Child boxes. Now I feel like they are going to good use and not wasted...win, win!!

[@danarzechula3769]

Great idea

[@marcelshepherd4694]

My grandma gave us a beautiful set of dishtowels and a tablecloth that she had embroidered for a wedding gift. She very adamantly told me they were to be used and not sit in a box somewhere. At first, I didn't want to, but I took what she said to heart and we use them regularly. Every time I get one of those items out, I think of her and I love it.

[@bethheerten1132]

For a couple occasions we gave my m-i-l some nice new towel sets. After rearing 5 kids hers were in bad shape and I thought she deserved something nicer. When we moved them out of their house 10 years later we found them in the attic still in the gift boxes. She said she was saving them for "something special". I told her she WAS special.

[@kimberlywalker1015]

You GO, GRANDMA! SO PROUD OF YOU! I tell my girls the same thing.🙂

[@wifemamateacher]

"There are some of you that are going to over-complicate this, because you're really good at that"...I feel so understood 🤣😂!!!

[@thursaheiner8256]

I had a light cotton dress in a pretty color that I purchased to wear to a wedding but then didn’t wear after that. Rather than give it away, I decided to use it as a summer gardening dress. Not only did I get lots of compliments when I wore it, but I felt good in it even though with its lace it was not made to use in the garden!

[@kimmiem2163]

An old video but just read this comment. I have pretty dresser that I wear during pregnancy but not after because they aren't as flattering on a postpartum body but they're still beautiful and brand new. Wearing it to garden and feel feminine is such a lovely idea

[@johnandkitty]

Stuff is made to be used. Sounds obvious, but is actually very profound.

[@jessie9653]

So true

[@kayelle8005]

I like the idea that objects are only “happy” when they are being used for the purpose they were created. Also considering how many of our objects were made by people barely paid a living wage, in poor conditions, in impoverished countries the least we can do is honour their labour and use the products until the cost per use is low.

[@jenniferchristopherson]

I love your point. That is so spot on and beautiful!

[@moegirl76]

This reminds me of Toy Story. A toy isn't meant to sit in a museum. It's meant to be played with.

[@arioctober]

YES that point about the laborers!!! I try to think about those people and send them a thank you and an I'm sorry up into the universe like a prayer. They shouldn't be taken for granted!

[@theresahoward7216]

I love this concept. There were a few weird things that I am attached to...like plates that were my godfather's everyday plates. They aren't a matched set but I just didn't want to get rid of them. I decided that I will keep as many plates as I have plants...and I use those plates under the plants so I see it when I water and I smile and move on.

[@katepearlzorn7275]

That's a sweet idea! I kept a serving tray my grandpa got at a conference for this purpose. Works great!

[@theresahoward7216]

@@katepearlzorn7275 that sounds perfect! It is nice because it is serving a purpose but not having to be managed.

[@martharamos1617]

Wow! Great idea! I’m going to do this!!!!

[@fivefootrachel]

I love this idea! Thank you 😊

[@beverlyfindley21]

This totally applies to "wedding china" - those nice dishes we registered for and stashed away for a "special occasion." In 2020, no one was going to anyone else's house for dinner. So I decided we would start using the nice dishes. Just the two of us. We made a big breakfast every weekend and used those dishes and it was so fun 😊

[@SR-xo9rd]

Thank you for this reminder! My mom and dad just opened a shoe box in my dad's closet and found some golf shoes he hadn't used in years. The rubber soles had completely disintegrated! If he had donated them when he was no longer able to play golf, someone else may have been able to get some use out of them, instead of them going to waste. It's something to keep in mind when I'm going through my house and looking at all of my "fantasy self" items! :)

[@herefortheplants9543]

Yes! Shoes don’t last forever. Even high quality leather needs to be conditioned to keep them from cracking and blooming. Please wear your shoes or donate them if they’re still in good condition ❤

[@calledandkept536]

I know you couldn't possibly have time to read all the comments you get on each vlog, but I love reading through them and finding the Sister Factor- womanly encouragement. My heart loves your kindness and servant attitude. You do these things to ultimately have more quality time for the things that matter... loving husband, cherished children, close family and friends. It all plays into how we take care of our own wellness, mental health, and meaningful relationships with others. What else is there? God, family, others, and self.❤

[@elisabethlasalle3529]

I feel the same way! How special are His children for God to take a young woman from Minnesota to “stumble” into creating a KZbin channel, that turns into a MINISTRY for so many of us !!!!Amazing!

[@Treebranch247]

Agreed! Thank you!

[@dianebruno4180]

We have a running joke in our house for the “good” stuff that we keep it in storage and only use for a “special occasion” (which is never), “what? Are you saving it for when the Pope comes to visit?” This is one concept that I have been adopting (slowly), but it makes sense to me now especially that I’m “older”. I remember how much I loved the China I picked out for my wedding yet that is in the closet while stuff that I’m not crazy about is being used everyday!! Why? Makes no sense! I’m in my 50’s. If I don’t use it and enjoy it now, I may never have that chance again! So I switched out the dishes and use my good China every day!

[@sanibelpatty]

Love that "saving it for when the Pope comes to visit"! Good advice!

[@bonesbigfoot2654]

Oh my goodness. I had some things that I got whether for my shower/wedding or as a birthday gift that I kept and didn't use it....it was too nice or special. I remember getting a very soft/pretty bath towel and washrag. I kept that well over 10 years before I used it!!!!! Candles that smelled good and looked pretty went for years of not burning. I didn't grow up with much money, got married at 19 and had a son right away so didn't have much money then either. I savored anything really nice I got. I no longer do this. Use it NOW! That's what it's intended for.

[@swisslions]

I started using my mother’s sterling silver flatware and antique goblets. They are beautiful and we’re just sitting there before.

[@DisMindy5767]

My mantra is "what are you saving it for?". I wore a mink coat to the grocery store after I saw another lady wear one. I also make an effort to use my china and silver even though it has to bew hand washed!

[@marycerrone3281]

Same here been doing the same.

[@sj6728]

Wow I have Silver Christmas spoons. I need to clean them with silver cleaner. I am going to begin using them. They were made in Iceland. My Grandmother gave me one every year for several years. I always wanted to display them but never figured out a way to do so. Thank you!

[@janetk5073]

@@sj6728 My Mom and sister collected spoons and had a spoon rack to display them. I wonder if yours are bigger, like soup spoons, though, and might be too big. But if so, maybe someone could make you one (or you could make your own).

[@moegirl76]

@@sj6728 there's silver cloth fabric that helps keep the tarnish off and can wipe tarnish off without needing the cleaner.

[@maggiefletcherscuriouscelt4199]

Yesterday I finally made it through round 1 of a massive declutter between my 94 yr old dad’s stuff and mine. I have so much space in my garage now! Holy moly! It’s taken since November 2020 to get to this point! Now I’m ready for round 2. I’ve had the thrift store do a home pickup 10 times! So energized to do the next step.

[@kirstenerickson5063]

This is so funny you put this out today!! I have been wondering what to do with this framed piece of homemade doll clothing that just doesn’t go with our current decor so it just sits there taunting me every time I walk past it downstairs. It was a very nice gesture of my husband’s aunt to do this for my daughter, but after I watched your video I have decided to take it out of the nice frame and let her actually play with it😊

[@HeidiLilley]

I am so glad I watched this today. I have very slowly been going through some things and I keep thinking "I may use that next summer" the reality is, I have not used it the past three summers, what makes me think I will use it next summer? Get rid of it. I had a huge rubber made box of (antique) cut glass cups, glasses, bowls, etc. I inherited it all and it is stunningly beautiful, I also live in a under 500sf apartment. I don't have any use for the glassware, and I don't want to keep it in a box in the back of my closet. I ended up picking one small bud vase and putting it on a shelf in the living room and getting rid of all the rest. I love seeing the bud vase and think of my grandma every time I see it. When it was all in a box in the back of the closet I didn't think about her in the same way. I love to go into the garden and pick one tulip (or something) and use that vase.

[@alisonsmith7162]

Peter Walsh comments that if you keep everything, none of it has value.

[@hazeleyes2115]

Yes!!! That's the rule that I needed right now. Things get worn out, broken and used, and that's fantastic because it means that life goes on, you live it to the fullest and you are enjoing it! I'm your viewer from Russia, a mom with three kids at home, struggling with severe depression and being a hoarder, trying to get my life toghether and be the mom that my children deserve to see everyday.

[@tdfulton1]

Well you just keep on, keeping on! One step at a time, one day at a time! Don’t despair!!! Life is learning that, THIS is life! Having to maintain, repair, restart and repeat…this is what living is. Over and over again. Don’t listen to the negativity, you got a brain and a heart. You need to know you are here for a reason, and the reason is, life needs someone(you) to pick up the pieces everyday. Pick them up, clean them, mend, fold, wash, restore, then put away and make pretty! Then we do it again the next day!! It is the reason we are alive! So change your perspective and realize that all the “stuff” you have to do, is because you have a life! It’s your reason for living! And as you go along, you get to change things up. Rearrange till it feels good to you. There is no right “way”! You are good to go. You are not behind. You just have to realize that this is living! You get to move, change, order, and flex things till that no lingers works, then you “get” the opportunity to mix it up till it works again! All I’m saying is, (I have a lot of the same thoughts of overwhelm as you)(anxiety and depression), I am also learning that to be able to address things, such as cleaning and fixing suppers, washing dishes and bathrooms, well, this is a blessing of living! Because once we are gone, who else will do it?? So it’s taken me a few years to realize, that being perfect is a lie. And that people who seem to have their life together…?well, they have to clean their houses. And they never stop. They just do it, cuz it’s what they NEED to do. We were created to take care of …LIFE. It’s not a punishment, it’s the purpose for which you were born. We live, and enjoy life…then we clean it up. Then we have the privilege to do it again!! I just want to speak to your discouragement and give you a hug and say, “you’re doing good! Don’t give up! Keep on goin! There are people in your life that need you! And you are beautiful in God’s eyes! Blessings from TX

[@hazeleyes2115]

@@tdfulton1 wow, thank you so much for your comment and for support! You made my day

[@Jessica_Jones]

Hey there Hazel Eyes! Just wanted to comment here and let you know I'm cheering for you! I used to feel crippled by my clutter and, as if the general overwhelm weren't enough, I also compared myself to those who managed to keep their houses clean. Well, like tdfulton1 said, that darn perfection is a lie! You just set your motivation reminders in front of you every day, and little by little, you will reach your goals. It sure does take some determination and sometimes even intense anxiety to face those things in the moment, but YOU CAN conquer it! Lean on the Lord when you need extra strength and it will keep you upright. (I speak from experience!) I believe in you, dear! Sending love from Seattle, WA ❤

[@hazeleyes2115]

@@Jessica_Jones thank you so much for your support! It means a lot to me ♥️

[@stephanieschanno4573]

Hope you are doing well and continuing on your journey of minimizing and finding joy in the little things!

[@VerveVarle]

This reminded me of me just catching myself about a year ago feeling like that :) a few years ago I got myself a cooking pot that I was so happy about. It has this wonderful surface that nothing sticks to, it is so easy to clean and, besides that, it just looks so lovely... :D so I took such good care of it. I would use it like twice a year only on "special" occasions and would put it back in its original box after using and cleaning it. Those days I would get excited just cause "oh great, I get to use my great pot today!" And it sounds silly, doesn't it? :D then one day, after like 3 years of having this pot and only had used it like 5 times I thought to myself "you are so happy about this pot, it works great, it so easy to clean, you paid more money for it than you would for a "regular" pot and yet you are storing it in a box and not using it with all the benefits it offers! It is silly. It is made for that purpose. To cook food in. Not only for when you have guests over, but whenever you like :)) " So it is no longer hidden in a box. Even though I'm still not using it very often, (mainly because it is rather big), at least I know I got over this weird mindset of having to keep it looking almost brand new and not using it for 'simple' cooking, cause it is so special :D that was an interesting moment just catching myself realising that :))

[@sj6728]

It is funny how things come to us. Like why didn't I think of that sooner.

[@rebeccaarcher3851]

One thing that I never saw in myself until I started into this course because now I see it in so many other people too now is how MUCH WE THINK AND THINK about things! It helps to motivate me to simplify! Hugs!

[@Jessica_Jones]

You have prompted me to announce: I am a box-keeper!! Only in the past year or so have I finally had similar revelation and found the motivation to actually take things out permanently and ditch the boxes! Thank you for sharing your story ☺

[@nancydickerson7920]

Yesterday I had a victory realization, after moving 3 times in 23 months at the same time as change of season (empty nest) and my mother's change of season (downsizing from homeowning and being independent) and thus a lot of her stuff coming my way into my apartment, I saw the result of 3 years of decluttering inspired by you and Dana primarily, and of course Marie Kondo. (My lack of tech ability means I don't have before and after pictures, but I estimate I've thrown out or discarded at least 50% of what was here in the beginning months.) I received a beautiful bouquet of flowers with a balloon from my oldest and youngest children who live far away in different directions. There was room on my living room table (once dining room table) for them to be, next to a portrait of the four children, and it looks nice! I had something else there when they came, but it was easy to remove to another space. Everything has a home, and I don't feel the flowers are lost among the clutter like I did last year. Such a reward based on the hundreds and thousands of little decisions previously made, that I couldn't have made without your inspiration. Thank you!

[@mage7603]

I inherited a lot of my grandmother’s fabric, thread (on wooden spools), and a variety of sewing things. Instead of storing it and buying new, I’ve been using her things going on multiple years! I think of her when I use them. She was VERY thrifty, so I know she would be proud I’m using everything, even the scraps of fabric for mending purposes, and I’m not spending any money in the process!

[@peggyw5279]

Be aware that thread deteriorates. I used some of my grandmothers thread from wood spools and the seams came apart when I washed the item. Maybe just display them to remember her by. Just a thought for you.

[@tngirlz4622]

What a wonderful way to honour your grandmother! It may depend on what the thread is made of - I’ve used cotton thread on wooden spools from my grandmother for hand sewing and mending, and it’s fine. Some older thread will break when you try to machine sew with it, though. The cotton-wrapped polyester type seem to deteriorate quickly.

[@lissam8988]

💗

[@girly3504]

I started reading a book after this video in order to use it.

[@rebeccablaha6180]

I’ve started using things that I saved for a “special occasion” and realized that I never found an occasion I felt was special enough. It was time to just use items and appreciate them now.

[@johannabennetts64]

I use all the pretty plates when I entertain, even if it is just having a friend for coffee. I used to save them in a box in the garage…. I guess I was waiting for the queen to visit or something 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@susie5101]

I love the "use it or lose it" rule! If I put on something and don't want to wear it, it immediately gets put into the donate bin. And no more saving things for something special. I'm actually wearing a shirt I was saving right now. My house is now so clutter free that I can be ready for company in 5 minutes or less!

[@susanthiel1229]

I always thought the spray perfume mists we for me to smell nice for someone else. So I never really used any up. Bam! I changed my mindset and spray me smelling pretty.....for ME. Use the body mists and perfumes everyday and not only for special occasions or people. It's the China of the toiletries 🤣

[@wooldashery-kerrycoganbrown]

I'm a knitter, and I love to gift handknit socks to family, and when I do, I always tell them that the best compliment they can give me is to ask me to darn a hole in one of those pairs that they have used and loved. No greater feeling than giving a gift that actually gets used and enjoyed!

[@user-vp5oo1no7g]

I started letting my kids use my grandmother's two mugs (they were small sized too) and sentimental to me. When one broke my daughter thought I would be upset but I wasn't because my grandmother wouldn't want me to be upset over something so insignificant as a mug. It was meant to be used, not stored in a cabinet. Your words have wrung true when I had previously put something aside to "save it for later" or for something "special" it was broken and damaged. Better to use it now. Keep up the great content. Blessings.

[@melindareuter1098]

I finally went through my “sentimental” things this past Saturday. I had saved a bath towel from my “hope chest” (😄) that I began building almost 50 YEARS AGO!!! I put it in my linen cabinet to use now. I still think it’s so pretty!! But I’ve “saved” it long enough! I’m going to USE it!😉😊

[@janetmay7788]

My great, great aunt hand embroidered a baby blanket for my first born, 7 years ago. She told me I must use it and not keep it stashed away in a box or cupboard. So I did. She died 2 years ago at 101 years old and now as I use the blanket with my 4th baby, I think of her every time I see it.

[@annettevanderklippe1653]

The last couple years I started using clothes and shoes for outdoor work that fit better and aren't as worn out and awful as what I used to do. The result is I'm a lot happier doing that kind of work and now regularly spend many hours outdoors every week and in all seasons. You need nice well fitting things outside, even if they get pretty dirty and get wrecked more quickly.

[@determigda]

In Denmark We have always been tought, that you dont buy secondhand shoes, as We all walk differently and wear out the soles differently

[@TheMinimalMom]

That makes a lot of sense!!

[@danarzechula3769]

I just put a good gel liner inside and get a half size bigger.

[@DonnaCookAuthor]

That's true and why I don't buy used shoes for myself unless they're in like new condition. I will still donate because I know plenty of people love used shoes and it's better than sending them to the landfill. :)

[@emilylong9887]

I typically hang my shirts in my closet by color, at the beginning of the year I stopped. As I wore something and it went back in I hung it at the front. Now in September, I’m seeing a whole lot of clothes I never chose. I recently pulled out all the spring and summer stuff I never chose and even some of the winter stuff I know I won’t choose. Using it or losing it. I also did the same with my summer shoes I never picked this summer. Hoping to use this tip to de clutter my kitchen (again)

[@TheFickleFauxsteader]

(Again)!!! I soooo ride that bus with you. The kitchen has so many things that need to GO! I waited 3 months before buying a specialty avocado scooper/slicer thing because I didn’t want to declutter it in 6 months. We eat a lot of avocado and my daughter would sigh and say, “man, it sure would be nice to have that slicer scoop.” I finally bought it and we use it alllll the time. 🥳 I’m so glad to be maturing out of my impulse buying habit!

[@emilylong9887]

@@TheFickleFauxsteader good for you!! I’m doing the same with an immersion blender. I can a lot in the summer and it would make things easier but using it only a few times a year doesn’t make sense to waste space for it. Idk, come next canning season I may change my mind but I made it through another one this year without it.

[@CULady]

Dawn, thanks so much!!! I pulled out my mother in laws tablecloths and we use it on Sundays and special occasions. 💜

[@heathercragun5065]

This is a fabulous concept! When we got married we got some China and crystal, which we love and use regularly-except some mugs a tea set and one style of crystal glasses. I was watching one of your videos and started thinking about those pieces and that we don’t ever use them and see no time in the future to use them and that I always feel guilty when I look at them. We decided to sell them to a replacements company and got about $1,000 for them! So now I don’t feel guilty not using them, I have more room for the things we use and got some money to boot! Thank you for all your inspiration! ❤️

[@AmythefirstA]

I didn't know you could do that. Thanks for the tip!

[@IndigoAwakener]

I caught myself the other day telling my husband not to wear his favorite sneakers to work, and then I said "what the heck? Wear em, enjoy them! That's what they are there for !" So much of my things I have failed to make good use of because I didn't want to ruin or wear something out. That is a mindset that I am changing right now, and if I still don't want to use it, then it has to go! Thank you for this reminder!! 💕

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

So true. When my grandfather died at 74 he had two or three brand new pairs of pjs he’d been given as gifts. Unworn. 😟

[@darleneh608]

My dad would buy more shoes than he could wear, keeping the unused ones in a box in the closet. Many times, when he finally tossed out his "everyday" pair, and went to wear the new ones, he would find out that the leather had deteriorated while stored away, and they weren't fit to wear, or didn't last long. Toss the ratty old stuff and wear the new.