Theory of a Deadman - By The Way [OFFICIAL VIDEO]

[@RevsStallionDuck]

JUST got back from their concert. I was so close to the front row and I screamed "I LOVE YOU, TYLER!" He turned around, smiled big, and said "Love you, too!" in his mic. I've never been happier.

[@whatseatontim918]

That is so cool! 😁

[@isogenect3288]

Cool 😎. Wish an awesome artist like Tyler would notice me like that 😂

[@thicccastiel]

GIRL. saw them last night and i screamed “I LOVE YOU” and he was like “i love you too. let’s get married” and i DIED

[@amihebert7457]

@@thicccastiel He picked me up in 2006 and said you’re small.(4’10”) I like you. I had backstage access due to a friend that worked there. He’s hilarious well the whole band is.

[@Bill_tyler]

Funny y’all have to 1up each other’s thotery

[@MrOSUrocker]

Theory of a Deadman=best band for songs if you're going through relationship troubles!

[@gordenwood7853]

MrOSUrocker Well this and Phil Collins I don't care anymore.

[@tronicdeath1]

Or if you just like good music....lol

[@Shane-sf9pv]

Dude this would be horrible to listen to after a breakup..

[@alexmcm1999]

@@Shane-sf9pv the first step to getting over a loss is grieving and listening to sad songs help you get through that stage faster. Trust me this song helped a lot for me when my ex moved 1500 miles away and didn't tell me she was leaving until she was already there so I related a lot to this song

[@ktmchick1]

Yes, or Linkin Park's first album.

[@suemichalik5293]

I noticed Chris Daughtry immediately. You cannot mistake his voice! I love Daughtry!!!

[@devintrejos6263]

I've always loved this song and never realized that was Daughtry. Crazy

[@jodijohnson1101]

Love chris daughtry ❤ one of my favs

[@kristinalerback7757]

2024 and still jamming to theory! They were great in concert also :)

[@neverendingmunchies3750]

"Its sad to say that this pain is killing me inside, but its sad to say that this pain is keeping me alive" ~ my all time favorite lyric 😭❤

[@wendigota8274]

Who's still blasting this in 2020, 10 years after release?

[@rossthompson1686]

yuh

[@skinni_the_P00hBear]

Jeremy Combs My first time listening!

[@kevinthomas8467]

Only when I'm banging my ole lady while thinking about my ex

[@wendigota8274]

@@kevinthomas8467 hell yeah man, that's one way to do it I guess 😂

[@frankquiroz4279]

10 years? Ive been listening to bands since before 1960 and i wasnt born till 1980. This band is great but its better to see their influences and discover the sounds that helped this music survive. Trust me when i say that classics are where to start.

[@thelonelywolf88]

Byyyyyyyyy the waaaaaaaaay You left without saying goodbye to me I'm not afraid to sing the chorus out loud

[@sugarapplepie]

Lmao modern day ghosting ☝😂

[@dakotacarlton1728]

I miss my great grandma. For some reason this song reminds me of the times we shared.

[@ShakeNShred]

My wife of 13 years, a woman I love with all my heart and soul, is leaving me, and this song brings me to tears every time I hear it. Theory has touched a nerve for me, a sign of true art and a talent very few have. Nicely done, gentlemen.

[@RedmayneDeadmayne]

I hope your life has gotten better my guy

[@lenmatherne7903]

I get it I cheated on my fiance did everything to make it up on my knees begging she didn't say goodbye to me I'm still totally in love with her she has moved on so have I but I will always love her

[@lenmatherne7903]

The pain will never stop

[@lenmatherne7903]

I totally fucked her up and myself in the process I fucking miss her everyday

[@AdrianaSky]

Chris Daughtry singing the high notes in the background is insane!

[@Yukon_83]

Where ??

[@Jbull811]

@@Yukon_83 all over. Especially towards the end. Tyler can't really compare so it's really easy when you listen. Once you hear it, you won't hear anything else.

[@Monicalovesfob]

Oh wow I hear it

[@vintageretro83]

@@Yukon_83 @3:07

[@morganfoster3477]

Easily the best part of the song

[@HampusMusicSolo]

This band deserves so much more views than they've got...

[@krazerwolf8519]

this song reminds me of what my mom did to my father left him high and dry and now all that remains is a sad hollow shell of man but I am still their to help him pick up the pieces of the old life that she pissed away I love you father and I will see you again soon

[@TheMichaelAltman]

😭

[@thisguyy7503]

That's what true love will do to one who understands it... I feel for you and your father bud

[@dougbrown7150]

You find later in the video she didn't leave willingly but is dead

[@KayDaGymoholic17]

Him and Chris Daughtry sound amazing together. God Chris' voice is amazing. This song is awesome too.

[@natepolsky4398]

Didn't even recognize Chris Daughtry's voice in this until I read this comment!

[@kingkennedy7770]

@@natepolsky4398 same lol the was half the reason i like the song and didn't even know

[@amadeusagripino6862]

15 years later and it still hurts like it was yesterday

[@daltonevans3412]

Yeah, contrary to popular belief, time does not heal all wounds. Some stay with you forever. It's been 10 years for me, and i still dream of her every single night, hating myself for blowing up the only good thing i've ever had in my life all because i didn't know how to exist in the calm she brought. I was born and raised in chaos and my life has been chaos every day since, and while it sucks, i'm used to it, learned to live within the chaos and i'm good at it, so i didn't know how to just sit and enjoy the calm she brought so i destroyed things with drugs and instigating pointless fights just so i could feel back in the chaos. I will forever regret hurting her the way i did and i wished i realized what i just said before it was too late.

[@Maven0666]

How tall are you Tyler? I saw you all live in Penn..

[@Maven0666]

​@@daltonevans3412 Their live show was mind blowing. 😊

[@DarkKnight-q2d]

This, Hurricane, and Drown are my favorite songs by Theory. This song reminds me of a friend that got me through a lot of hard times and I got her through tough times as well. We started falling in love with each other and then right when I was going to ask her out, she was forced to move. I haven't seen her since...:/ I still think about her a lot of the time and she's my main driving force in life. I'll always love her.

[@jackbutler1290]

As sad as that is it's also beautiful. I relate just know you're not alone.

[@karimbaash8465]

I'm still listing to this day. And I'm not going to stop. Who's with me?

[@HannahsMusicAndNovels]

Daughtry's vocals on this song is the icing on the cake for me 🎂💖

[@DropDMurphy]

Here 14 years later to rock out to such an amazing song.. Adding Daughtry to this song makes it so much better..

[@Paul-y7m8n]

Seen them 5 times one of the best bands out here

[@jeremylatham1918]

I heard this on Octane today in 2020 and I amazed to find out it has been around for 11 years without me knowing about it. There is a little light in this ridiculous year now.

[@EclipsedMoon937]

this song is so relevant to my life it brings me to tears..

[@anonresistance4149]

I know the feeling...

[@deboraha.stammler5242]

Why?

[@kellymaney4354]

EclipsedMoon937 Mine too! And it brings me to tears also...

[@dodgeman808080]

At least I'm in good company then, we should start a support group!

[@astrunkman6988]

Mine too! Being young widow stinks

[@ariah-jademason7042]

My all time favorite group. Love almost all of their songs. Tyler has an amazing voice.

[@kellyandrews2375]

This Band Is The Greatest Ever!!! Definitely Have Helped me Through Some Of The Roughest Times Life Has Slung My Way, BY THE WAY!!!

[@bajeebies]

Remembering hearing this from a taxi and was immediately struck with nostalgia so strong my eyes closed. I'm glad I remembered the name of the song. Ahh good to listen to this every now and then.

[@joeymanning2757]

hard song to listen to. hits so close to home. tears in my eyes

[@sassykaren7587]

My all time favorite song by them! Even after all these years I can listen to it over and over!! I never knew Daughtry was in it but now when I listen I hear his voice!! That's too cool because I love some of his songs! They need another hit like this!!!!

[@michaeltracinski7307]

I agree,goose bump,s everytime !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[@kendallneiheisel6681]

I knew it sounded like daughtry! So glad im not just crazy 😅

[@Lunar_Moon765]

This is me and my dads favorite somg from Theory of a Deadman. We call this "Our Song", and it means so much to us. I dinno why, but this song makes me think of him.

[@agustincamposa]

the fact that Chris Daughtry is in this song makes me love it more

[@zilki1986]

This song is like a spear to my heart sometimes , the only girl i ever loved left me after 2 years without saying a single word , she just vanished and didn't give a damn how it will effect me. for me that backstabbing moment made me super suspicious toward every1 , even today I can't completely trust any woman so I try to make an effort to act as if I'm 100% opened toward her . You put your heart on the table and get screwed , people are not what they seem to be , dishonesty is a killer cause once you discover the true face of some1 you loved more than anything you will never be the same

[@bunnyhug4365]

Roee fdsfsadsas Grow a nutsack and move on. Life is too damn short to be tied down to one bitch anyway. My advice to you as a 31 year old man: stay single, find yourself a fuck buddy with no strings; that way you aren't obligated to spend time or money on her, you can hang out with friends without answering to someone or having her blow your phone up all night. You can spend your money on anything you want without having to explain yourself. If you meet a bad bitch, you can fuck her and not have to worry about cheating. It's just so much better, bro.

[@SuperDOCK91]

Roee fdsfsadsas same boat here man! I'm sorry and feel for you!

[@kristyhill5484]

Roee fdsfsadsas hope u r happy now. Every person deserves love and honestly

[@kristyhill5484]

Im so sorry

[@Parkwaymatt]

AMEN brother...im 31 too and i share the same fucking idea.

[@amanda1400]

After all these years this song is really hitting hard tonight after a horrible breakup I'll never recover from 💔

[@tianamariee6287]

I'm not now, nor have I ever been a really big fan of rock music, but this song along with All or Nothing and Not Meant To Be will forever be very close to the top of my list of favorite songs.

[@ImmortalDragon88]

This song is freaking awesome!! His and Daughtry's voices work perfectly together. Do another song together very soon! :)

[@alainag744]

I didn’t know Daughtry sang along since he is not featured in the video

[@MrChick-ql8jr]

@@alainag744 Same, but yesterday I recognized his while I was listening to this song

[@denisedaan-hummel8246]

@@alainag744 He does the backing vocals according to the info I found online so he wouldn't be featured in the video. You can hear it better when the song comes to an end, about 3:15, you can recognize Chris Daughtry's voice quite well :)

[@DakotaFuqua]

​@@alainag744He is featured in the video.. He's doing backing vocals.

[@stefol0u]

I'm so proud of jelly and Bunnie. Watching this man evolve to being the number 1 artist that long time legengds have even recognised and he isn't picky. Major or a fairly unknown artist he will work with. He's everybody's friend. He's just him. ❤

[@Theatrefan109]

I wish I can see this awesome band perform, my whole life I’ve been dying to see them ❤❤❤❤😢😢😢😢

[@Hexanna333]

My exboyfriend introduced me to this band when we met last year

[@KSJLM9295]

I'm sure I've played this more than 1, 838, 037 times. This is such an amazing song. I love this song

[@justinemcgraw6634]

How many years had he been trapped in this hell? Being shot by a robber in the night was not a pleasant way to go. After what happened, his beloved had moved out, leaving him all alone with their now-rotting home. Meanwhile, a group of girls were on an urbex trip...

[@LordAristaWings9798]

Prolly the best song by Theory where Tyler pours his heart and raw passion into it 2:42

[@J3S21CA]

In my mind I created a story that he died and soon after she left the house. Once visiting she keeps feeling his presence and runs off. He is trapped forever in the house :O

[@chrisfox7060]

not a story, but yes.. sometimes

[@brothernero370]

Jess Red thats what i was thinking as well im pretty sure that was the point of the video

[@lynngibeault6190]

chris fox

[@user-sz8md6lv6x]

It’s about his wife that left him without saying anything

[@piratepintoofficial5574]

Sounds like a supernatural episode

[@lenmatherne7903]

We been a lie from 2020 to 2022 as tears still roll down my face 😢

[@mitchhesselink3706]

I know this song is supposed to be about relationships, but Im always reminded of my oldest brother who died of an overdose august of 2016. All the feelings ring true with him. I miss you Keith. I could use your help right about now

[@THEAGENCYosf13]

[@DZpikes]

Best Theory of a Deadman song!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@AdventistHomemaker]

Yesss!

[@RBW1983]

When I first heard this song I could've sworn I heard Daughtry, but never looked into it thinking maybe it was one of the band members lol. Doing a little research on Daughtry because of his daughter (RIP) realized it was actually him lol, mind blown.

[@Ac.117]

Same here I just discovered this song last night

[@shorty004]

all of their videos,,,,,,,,the music, the women and his hair ,,,,,, all perfect!!

[@darlenespradling5258]

One of the hards things,I've survived was the man I loved,trying to murder me twice! He was facing 550yrs for the brutal crimes he committed against me! He resently passed away behind bars! I've healed and learned alot! Hope if ur reading this,if u have a heartache! You can ,survive and be whole,healthy and happy again, be gentle with yourself,do what's best for you!

[@kevinlarson1522]

Epic. Love the riffs and the longer ones just blaze a trail through my combat veteran soul

[@malycenyte]

Semper fi brother

[@suemichalik5769]

I think the only other greatest voice would be Myles Kennedy. Different singing style. How grateful am I. Getting to listen to such amazing singers. Again, thank you to whomever posted this 😊

[@shelbymyers3853]

I agree that the studio version sounds great with Chris Daughtry, but Tyler kills this song live. Super chills

[@Tina-ht1ms]

3:07 is the best part, when he screams it shows so much anger and emotion!

[@hilaryomalley6765]

My boyfriend passed unexpectedly on 11/19/17 and this song really hits home. I wish I would have got to say goodbye.

[@samannthah]

today marks 11 years since my previous boyfriend took his own life. He left me without saying goodbye, no notes..nothing. I was viewing our friendship on my Facebook and I posted this song on his timeline 1 year after his death. I *tried* listening to it again just now, had to pause 2 minutes into this song. I miss him so much

[@kylehoy3119]

Idk if you'll see this or not but if you do im very sorry.. nothing I can say will help but know im praying for you

[@OfficialSYK]

Damn. Im sorry to hear that. Keep your head up

[@samannthah]

@@OfficialSYK thank you so much. 🙏🏼

[@samannthah]

@@kylehoy3119 thank you 🙏🏼

[@CLEE52]

Saw them in concert. ONE AND DONE BABY 💯🥰 Chris Daughtry is another who makes these songs, and the compilation is OVER THE TOP!!!!!

[@OrThodinson]

Big ups to Chris Daughtry in the chorus of this song

[@rickybandit2]

Hes in the chorus?

[@deanrichmond29]

+rickybandit2 yes he is. You can hear his voice.

[@Howrselover01201]

no he isnt lol, its Tyler

[@rickybandit2]

Mare Hounslow yes he is right at the end that isn't tylers singing voice

[@adriankennedy4638]

Mare Hounslow He's actually singing in all of the chorus', as you can find on most lyrics/song sites. For example; Songwriters: TYLER CONNOLLY, DAVID BRENNER, DEAN BACK, CHRIS DAUGHTRY, BRIAN CRADDOCK From LyricsFind.

[@javelldunn3379]

Tyler’s voice is so amazing and I love when he sings ❤

[@ktiotns2008]

They are quickly becoming my favorite band

[@Mrs.Frankenstein]

Music with meaning! Nothing in the world like it! Love this song and love this band!

[@Jackjona123]

This song makes so much sense to me and i absolutely love it and listen to it before i go to sleep every night

[@williamestle6448]

Still blasting in 2024 whose with me

[@hotsaucejunkietim]

Me!!!!!!🙌

[@blaineskaggs4712]

Same 🤟

[@ronoooooo]

Me

[@AdriannaVela-yq7uo]

Me!!! 😂😂😂

[@RyanScharf]

Fuck yeah.

[@BandamameDkhar]

This is what I call Rock Music ...Loved it

[@buzoooka94]

I can't believe Daughtry was in this song. This is AWESOME. Daughtry should be showed even for a moment in this video. Love this song.

[@nicolebruesch9319]

Why all the hate below? This is an awesome band...

[@2002Archer]

"By the way you left without saying goodbye to me" Literally how my first relationship ended. We were long distance and about a month shy of our 2 year anniversary she started ghosting me until 3 months later I asked wtf was going on. She said she didn't care for me anymore and that was it

[@dinckelman]

Cant decide which of their songs is my favorite, this or "All or Nothing" :O Both songs are breathtaking

[@jackjohnson4570]

I personally like this one better

[@tylerdebaud879]

+Dinckle man I think it's bad girlfriend

[@cjc9925]

+Jack Johnson yeh i agree wit u this 1 is better den all or nothing

[@mutatedbird339]

@@tylerdebaud879 heck yeah, that's a great one

[@deniseperkins6559]

This group has great lyrics in their songs. Which is important . A message to the soul .. Great sound. "Scares & Souvenirs.' `~Love this music~'

[@joeywalker7392]

this is their best song. love it!

[@numh1991]

+Joey Walker santa monica is it

[@domr5976]

+Joey Walker Since You've Been Gone

[@ArtistTree]

Gods no matter what my mood this song feels AWESOME to belt out at top voice! Feels so good!!! That's some healing shit right there.

[@salukistyle]

Easily one of my favorite bands. Scars and Souvenirs is my favorite album by them. Easily

[@alexisrae1226]

By the way...THANK YOU for leaving without saying goodbye to me....sometimes the greatest gifts in life come disguised as heartache. Guess I didn’t realize how much better life on my own would be. ✌🏻

[@lavapix]

Is it weird this is the first time I've seen this video?

[@ashleynchetan]

Me too

[@duncanblack7359]

A little.

[@christineclemons7942]

Nope heck I'm just hearing this song and love it

[@cassandra2994]

No, I am so late!!

[@Snow-cg8jm]

I just came here because daughtry was the backing vocals, but still a good song

[@jackiedegroot6231]

This song reminds me of my husband who passed away in 2017 . I love you Dean DeGroot 😥

[@Teo040298]

Chris Daughtry as backup vocals in this song! Love him. Good song, btw!

[@morganfoster3477]

I love this song mainly because of the harmonies Chris Daughtry did with Tyler. So good.

[@dylannoonan6185]

You know I’d like to hear daughtys isolated vocals in this,

[@sidnon4496]

I absolutely love these guys. War out 3 of their CD's, thank God for You Tube!

[@ImaWreckU]

The comments are funny. So many people don't even notice that Chris Daughtry is singing in part of this song. Do you guys really not hear a voice other than Tyler's? They don't even sound remotely similar, it should be easy to pick out Chris's vocals.

[@ScuzzLuvin101]

I've heard it, I just didn't realize it was chris daughtry. I just thought it was the other members.

[@volmann35]

Now that you mention it, yeah, big time, appreciate that...what a voice.

[@metal_mo]

I never knew it was Daughtry either until I read the comments on this video. I always wondered who's voice was supplementing the chorus in this song.

[@Coolkidkarateman]

Ima WreckU Chris Daughtry is a fucking badass.

[@soulessshadow5356]

It's hard to miss a voice like Chris Daughtry's man. He's got a excellent voice and I love his music. It fits in really well with the whole ToaDM style too.

[@taylorstumpf8337]

Why is Chris Daughtry not credited for being in this song? It doesn’t even say “featuring Chris Daughtry” anywhere in the title, and he’s not in the video. He’s the best part.

[@Mel-fu9hg]

I was looking them up as they are coming to my town and wiki says he's on it but not in the video, but that's who brought me here lol

[@passionsquietrage]

Why is Chris Daughtry rarely ever credited for providing the epic harmonies and backing vocals on this song?

[@Atheistlibrarian]

Daughtry is amazing in this song. Needs to be in the featuring of the title

[@franciebeckett5473]

I heard him instantly in this song! I thought same!

[@joem8774]

I came to ask if that was him in the song. I heard it today and I was like" oh Theory".. wait is it Daughtry.... I was confused by the awesomeness.

[@adrianmathews9640]

Yes, it is Chris Daughtry singing. Love Theory of a Deadman and Daughtry!

[@KimiKenway]

I 💜 this!! Sing it everyday!

[@dirkroehler5331]

Top

[@banokles2288]

+Kimi K Some days I can hit the notes, with the raspy thing... Others, It's like trying to flex a muscle that's left my body haha. This one of my top "Nobodies home to tell me what I sound like" songs.

[@KimiKenway]

+Eric Peeters hehehe..!! that's the best time to sing your lungs out!! trust me...lol

[@brandonparrish8815]

Still here 2023...this songs has always been one of Numbers 1s...🎤🎸🔥🎤🎸🔥

[@AdventistHomemaker]

My favorite song by them. Fantastic.

[@sunnyclark185]

Yesss, a note by the door simply explains this is all of what remains.

[@aaronatherton261]

Sunny I don't know why anyone would leave you a note like that especially if that is you in the pic

[@Yukon_83]

It's sad to say this is my first Time listen to this song in many years .I use to listen ... But I've quit listen to many rock band in my day back then when I was in my earlier 20s

[@gixerloon]

One of the first racks I heard from Theory on internet radio all those years ago, still a fan. 🤘👍

[@leahmaloy6910]

2020 && this is still 🔥🔥🔥

[@kaylenecoil5256]

"Would it have hurt you to try" Hits me hard everytime💔💔

[@B_e_e_k_a_y]

Such an amazing voice

[@andyporter776]

This song hits so hard in my heart. I've lost so many people in my life including both parents. But the simple fact that I wasn't able to say goodbye hurts the most

[@evelynlessendencisneros8580]

One of these days on the bus in the morning I will bust out with this chorus just to get attention lol I will look stupid but still I will do it!!

[@RuiCunha01]

BYYYYYYY THE WAAAAAAY :D

[@thelonelywolf88]

did it happen yet? lol

[@evelynlessendencisneros8580]

No lol I wish

[@toccandocreacanaleulterior176]

Evelyn Lessenden so did you do it?

[@levihouse5345]

Daughtry killing the backup vocals

[@tiffanyr5674]

My favorite song by them . Love it so much

[@le_pingouinChristopher]

This is my favourite Theory song

[@neverendingmunchies3750]

Those harmonies are spot on 👌🏻❤🤘🏻

[@jamesmcnichols3817]

Lyrical PERFECTION !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@QueenBee1965]

OMG.... I LOVE EVERY ONE of your songs!!!!!

[@angela-vi2hh]

Hauntingly beautiful and gut wrenching at the same time...the pain in chris daugtrys voice ...

[@timothyhebebrand5576]

Probably there best song in my opinion

[@sunshinerayray3389]

i love this song! Cant get enough of it! Listen to it everyday repeatedly!! love your guys music, keep up the good work u guys!

[@Luna_Potato]

Why am I only now just discovering this amazing music

[@jamalsampson6179]

Scars & Souvenirs is STILL one AMAZING Rock CD!!! Rock On Theory of A Deadman!!!🤘🎤🤘🎸🤘🎤