I Can't Help You Until You're Ready

[@MikeWalksWithJesus]

Got out of credit card debt this month.. 52k deep and I couldn't sleep at night. Next step is the 25k student loan! Thanks Dave for your channel

[@MikeWalksWithJesus]

Lowered my expenses drastically and only took 11 months making 80k

[@Shortballa11]

thats amazing. you are gonna knock out that 25k in no time. Keep killing it. Im one to two months from being done with it all too. had 55k in student loans and 3k in taxes.

[@sendit3251]

Crazy Get it done now !

[@chicanoazteca8614]

Nice!

[@DadinWA]

This is first time these callers were called out by someone about their finances. Truly needed a wake up call. Glad Dave is calling them out. Thanks for sharing.

[@JustinCase780]

Huh? She's calling them out and called in knowing that it's going on.

[@kbanghart]

​@@JustinCase780ummm lol

[@jimroscovius]

Some people think Dave's mean. No, he told her something no one else has said. She needed to be called out and told what to do.

[@kendrapratt2098]

@@jimroscovius Of course no family and friends would say anything. They’re getting all the gifts 🤣 Unless they just don’t realize caller and husband don’t really have all that money

[@jimroscovius]

@@kendrapratt2098 She was just giving excuses - gifts, baby showers, etc. If you don't have the money, you don't do the gifts. Period.

[@DJRiyzen]

Sometimes you need to hear, something that no one else wants to tell you. Thats what Dave exeles at.

[@mbank3832]

Because everyone afraid to be the bad guy, saying truths that are negative and antagonizing

[@untouchable360x]

If you want to help to someone, you tell them the truth. If you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.

[@foreveranuj]

*excels & yes, I agree with you.

[@vixxcottage]

I put a new roof 2 years ago metal less than $7,000. I have a small house. My life changed dramatically when I learned about Dave Ramsey and your baby steps. I developed an emergency fund. Sunday my water quit. I was able to call a plumber without panicking. Making changes that other people don't agree with is difficult. You can do this!!

[@ricoma6037]

I love it when Dave speaks firmly but softly. Makes his point without unnecessary emotion! 👍

[@annaburns2865]

It’s only because people are finally calling him out. He used to be so mean to people . I’m honestly surprised that he toned it down. Maybe because he knows it’s not her fault. It’s her husband’s fault. A lot of women are in that position.

[@TinaMyles]

Dave Ramsey's insights have been a game-changer for me! His practical approach to financial management has empowered me to take control of my money and work towards a debt-free life. The Total Money Makeover is my go-to guide, and I appreciate how he breaks down complex concepts into easy-to-follow steps.

[@kleindropper]

It really is amazing how much you save each month by not using credit cards and budgeting your cash every month; I transitioned off my card this summer and my savings rate has gone through the roof! Every purchase gets scrutinized now and even the little things add up fast.

[@Bamapride1985]

I think I am programmed differently. If used cash, I felt like had money in pocket to spend. When using credit card, I hated to see the balance going up and so that made me spend less using a credit card whereas even with a debit card and seeing the amount left in the bank always felt like I was alright bc had xxx left in the bank...

[@voidfroze]

@@Bamapride1985same!! Swiping a credit card is nerve wracking for me because I know the bill is going to sneak up on me, so I’m careful. Cash/debit makes me over confident because I’m like “ha! I have the money right here! Let’s spend it” lol

[@ginab.4605]

She won’t stop giving gifts to people. They seem like people pleasers.

[@Tashas_Travels]

Lmao when dave said " SHOCKING"😂, i almost lost it 😂 🤣 😭 😅😅.

[@tate6809]

I love/hate when someone makes a proclamation, dave immediately calls them out for being completely wrong, and they respond agreeing. Like are you even thinking about what is coming out of your mouth?

[@jayfilm3023]

Every call , ‘ we have 200k in student loans and credit card debt , but we decided to buy a house/ car that we can’t afford and I’m not sure what to do ‘ 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@stevenporter863]

Nobody seems to build in any margin then act surprised when in a pinch. Most likely they are surprised too when summer ends every year and winter comes.

[@blacksnk]

And I’m pregnant…….

[@jimroscovius]

@@stevenporter863 And they can't pay the heating bill because they didn't plan ahead.

[@jimroscovius]

And the furnace goes out.

[@jayfilm3023]

@@blacksnk yup , they’re always pregnant 🤰🏼

[@jeffreywhitaker5154]

Gosh to me it’s refreshing to hear caller talk like we did 10yrs ago-not using the word SO after each question asked. 👍🏾💪🏾🙏🏾

[@sblijheid]

It could've been worse. She could've started every sentence with like.

[@jeffreywhitaker5154]

@@sblijheid yes. For some reason “like” doesn’t irritate me as much as “so”. Idk why that is.

[@saintsandsin3885]

I am absolutely amazed by these student loan amounts. I had absolutely no desire to go to college and I thank God every day. I can just imagine the debt I would have racked up for myself as a stupid 18 year old kid in college. This is borderline criminal.

[@redfox_84]

We have 80 grand in student loan debt but hey let's buy a house that needs a new roof. 🤣

[@dnah02]

No more gifts, no more weddings, no travel, work and pay the sucker off the answers are easy.

[@kbanghart]

Lol "easy"

[@jill9606]

We moved into our house in 2019 (that we had been saving for for years after paying off all our debt), had 2 babies, paid cash for an SUV along with cash flowing all of life’s expenses until now. We have similar income and life events within the last 4 years. Get your act together. You’re the problem, but you’re also the solution. Your last 4 years could have been so much more productive and I am proof of that.

[@reesercliff]

I know Dave says have kids even if you are still getting out of debt but that's one of the few things I disagree with , having kids while not being a homeowner and still in debt is just asking for trouble. Get your shit together and then have kids, its called delayed gratification.

[@jill9606]

@@reesercliff 100% agree with you! I’ve said the same thing before- I disagree with them saying you shouldn’t wait to have kids until your finances are in order. Daycare is insanely expensive and Dave doesn’t get it. This show never talks about how expensive it is. They tell you not to take on a mortgage, but you can take on daycare that’s just as expensive?

[@cajbaf]

If it's one thing I have learned from listening to Dave, it's the fact that money management is badly needed in schools....long before getting yourself into all that student loan debt

[@iwrist313]

FPU is taught at high school level but it should parents and child course training

[@eclipse.5295]

$7,000 for a roof is cheap!! 😮

[@lot2196]

Yes. Mine was leaking. 100 years old. Asbestos slate.

[@byronbranch4645]

Yeah that's nothing. Ours would be 20-30k

[@eclipse.5295]

@@byronbranch4645 I’m in south Florida and mine was $20,000

[@curiouscat3384]

well it depends on the size of the house of course! And how many gables and angles. A simple 1200 sq ft rancher can be done for $5-7k in my midsize city.

[@MikeNapoli1989]

Yes. Especially lasting for 30 years

[@christophercarrigg3775]

I don't understand how people can own a house but not have 1000 dollars in the bank

[@cajbaf]

Living above their means. Everyone wants a new house ( not one they can actually afford), new cars, eating out all the time, in her case buying presents for everyone...we could go on and on.

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

Dude seriously how the hell do people make 9k a month and I’m here making 2500?! It’s fucking annoying hearing this

[@kbanghart]

Me and my wife adopted, that helps

[@mhodge0890]

They make it together as a couple and they live in NJ

[@janelleg597]

are you a shepherd

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

@@janelleg597 no

[@kokoskokso]

@@janelleg597 😂

[@bigcahuna42366]

$7K for a new roof is rather cheap unless they are using a low quality shingle on top of an existing one or have an extra small home with not much roof coverage. I was quoted $11K to replace the roof on my house when I decided to go for a minor repair instead, which is a 1,300 square foot ranch.

[@lisalister8002]

My mother was quoted 24K for a roof which was 1600 square foot

[@genglandoh]

We have finished all the baby steps and tonight we are eating beans and rice because we like beans and rice. 15 bean soup made in the crock pot $3 for 16 meals more if you put it over rice. Great wintertime meal here in Cleveland OH

[@zachaddington5264]

Don’t eat too much beans lol

[@dyates6380]

I live in Cleveland Ohio and I can tell you people aren't eating like that. I go to Sam's Club in Oakwood and see people with overflowing carts and they (most of them) pay with a government provided EBT card. Trust me, no rice and beans, unless they want to. 🤫

[@SusanMarie3]

Grew upon that in Dayton Ohio - parents and 6 kids - dad worked in factory - didn’t hurt any of us 🤣🤣

[@mssmateus]

Here in Brazil people eat rice and beans everyday, usually with meat and salad. It is a cultural thing.

[@dummgelauft]

Throw a sliced jalapeños in there and try cumin in it.

[@yvonneluc5582]

I’m sick and tired of BEING SICK AND TIRED. I’m truly inspired by the Baby Steps.

[@sblijheid]

I like how Dave knows exactly what's going on eventhough she beats around the bush. He has probably heard this at least a thousand times.

[@dummgelauft]

If dave put all his show recordings into Chat GPT, Dave won't have to do the show himself..that's how much experience/data he has

[@stevegolacks8731]

These people will change nothing. Sad, but true.

[@comment2250]

What you say may be true, but I guarantee that having nothing will change them.

[@michaelwoods4495]

When I was younger, my 6-year-old son and I replaced a shingle roof ourselves. We climbed up there, stripped the old shingles, put down the underlayment, and nailed the new shingles there ourselves. The mistake I made was in accepting the delivery of new roofing materials on pallets, so I had to carry them up a ladder one bundle at a time. Thereafter we specified delivery to the roof. The lumber yard will send a boom truck that can do that. Have them put on the peak of the roof, distributed along its length to distribute the load. That'll also break them apart as the bundles flex when put on the peak. You can find instruction and videos on KZbin.

[@carojames6776]

Proud dad.

[@charityclark7910]

You brought your 6 year old son up on the roof?! 😳

[@RPMcMurphy33]

Nothing changes until you’ve absolutely had it with your own crap.

[@timbenzel1751]

Exactly

[@angelescobar1761]

Dave patience is going down quicker than the stock market

[@kokoskokso]

Can't blame him!

[@flygirl2447]

He speaks truth. Nothing changes if nothing changes. No advice can help them if you’re not ready to put in the work. Doing what they’re doing doesn’t hurt or scare them enough yet.

[@NYNC88]

Don't wait until the roof starts leaking. If you do that, you'll have interior damage that will cost you more.

[@PinballPreparedness]

People need to stop trying to impress other people and take care of necessities!

[@davidgerholdt5416]

It gets to the point where trying to impress people with your money all the time leaves you broke. I'd like to think of myself as a generous person, yet I know there is a limit and I know when to say "I'm broke"; "I no longer have any money left in my budget for you. Respect me. Respect that I need to pay off my debts. Respect that I am disciplined with my money enough to prioritize needs of my family first".

[@captainkrunch6372]

What's up with all these people with student loans, and the amounts OMG.

[@kokoskokso]

just listen to all the wisdom they gained for all that student debt

[@evanl889]

How do you make $9,000 a month and not have any money saved?

[@kokoskokso]

keep buying them gifts while sinking in debt and roof almost gone 🤯 It weirdly fascinates me watching Ramsey how some people on 30K start cleaning up their mess while other with 250K at their disposal simply cannot stop from getting into more debt.

[@annaburns2865]

It’s heart in your throat. I haven’t heard that phrase in a long time. “Yo’ mama don’t get a vote.” Best thing Dave has ever said! 😂

[@carpenterkyle69]

Please don’t wait till your roof is leaking to fix it … have a reputable contractor give you the info on when the roof needs replacing and pricing , then place it into your snowball accordingly ….btw a $7000 roof in 2019 is probably an 11-14000. In today’s market ….

[@aaronmurphy8796]

She got off the call and financed a roof for sure

[@stephencaramenico8698]

And solar panels

[@workinonit9562]

The look on Dave's face at the beginning says it all!

[@chrissmith-yg5xn]

😂

[@ryanbreedlove7694]

A $7k roof in NJ? On what, a backyard shed?

[@kokoskokso]

2019 price.. lady hasn't got a clue about prices aside from gifts 🤦‍♀

[@axslinger99]

The first year we were on Dave's budget, we managed to save $10k and we tithed $10k. It's amazing what you can do when you tell your money where to go. Fortunately, my wife and I are fully on-board.

[@wesleysmithForklifts]

You spend money on what ever your heart desires. You just have to desire paying off debt more than you desire to go out to eat.

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

I hate hearing we HAD to get new cars. Both of them took nothing serious. The two cars say so much to me because this usually means it's a shared impulse. They justify and egg eachother on in the moment. Fun times are over. Retirement seems like a fantasy. Then, the panic happens. Hopefully they both notice the writing on the wall and work together in order to build instead buy. Ramsey is right. Sounds like she called in to hear a quick fix without acknowledge of the bad decisions they've both have been making to get here. 4:05 - They want to keep up appearances.

[@blacksnk]

Seriously. My car packed up last year and I paid cash on a used car that was 4 years old at 15K. A year later this car is still in perfect shape, looks nice and no issues. Why go into debt for a car when you have student loans the size of your annual paycheck.

[@linuxsurfer2002]

So many people think they HAVE to get a new car (or finance a relatively new used car). We save up and buy ours with cash and have them worked on when they have issues.

[@AndrewLaw87]

I think it's hard to look poor for a couple years and look cheap to other family and friends for a time because of our natural pride but if we can shed the pride and be honest with people that we have a lot of debt to clean up and we are broke they may be proud of us for acting and open up about their own struggles.

[@mikeshaw4610]

You don’t do gifts, including weddings, until you’re out of debt.

[@JustinCase780]

Obviously she didn't mean laughable as in funny haha. People use that term implying pathetic especially on the east coast.

[@Miggy2222]

How about they gift themselves getting out of debt?

[@Hlaford2009]

Never had a house. Never had a car. Always rented nice flats, even houses. And used taxis and public transportation. I know I am a freak, but who cares. I will buy a house, but later on. I will buy a car, but a little bit later. If I had 100,000 in debt, I would drink a lot ))). Just to soothe the stress )). And I make 120k a year. Thanks to our frugal lifestyle my wife doesn't have to work, and and she never did for the last 5 years. She is happy. That could have never happened had we had 100k USD in debt. We would have to work like crazy with such a debt. Astronomical debts. Americans have gone crazy.

[@MrJimmy3459]

Plumbing, HVAC, roof, fencing, appliances can ALL be very expensive to fix. I know from experience heed the warning potential home buyers do NOT buy a house unless you have $20-25 grand in your savings

[@kbanghart]

Lol not happening

[@jimmymcgill6778]

Those do not need o be fixed every year.

[@aolvaar8792]

New house with 10-year warranty.

[@MrJimmy3459]

​@jimmymcgill6778 you figure that out all on your own

[@Chet_24]

Im about to take a second job to pay off my last 2 student loans and credit card debt in 3 months. It'll free up $800 a month. It'll suck for 3-4 months, but it'll be don 18-24, months sooner than if i just stayed the course.

[@FrankS111]

Can someone explain how they immediately jumped to the conclusion that “the husband wasn’t on board” in the first two minutes of the call? There was nothing said that supported this conclusion. At the end…. she openly states that he’s on board. Dear Ramsey personalities…… STOP DEMONIZING MEN!!!!

[@lonestarrk9308]

One of the first things she said was her and her husband have different mindsets. If she’s calling because she’s scared of the debt then we can infer that he isn’t. She articulated it poorly.

[@yoddy0]

They’re not demonizing men they are calling it like they see it or in this case hear it. She took the initiative to call, she took the initiative to sit down and have a talk with her husband. He isn’t in the same mindset like the caller states and ramsey said.

[@DericAnslum]

...desperate and sickening attempts to stay relevant...

[@tonytoni1150]

Let’s be real man, this guy isn’t on board at all, that’s why his wife called in. Y’all act like men are saints, when most ain’t worth a fart in a windstorm.

[@kbanghart]

Oh look, an apologist for guys who blame women for their problems

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

Why have a kid and buy a house when you're in debt? People are insane!

[@strangeroamer3219]

It feels better raw.

[@justinc8293]

​@@strangeroamer3219lmao! Dude's pull-out game was weakkkkkk

[@kbanghart]

I got married, bought a house and had kids with debt, I have a great family.

[@dmbgator86]

@@kbanghartit was irresponsible

[@justinc8293]

@@kbanghart no one's saying you have a bad family, it's just the normal American does house and kids while in debt. Which to me, and many others, is insane.

[@tarawhite4419]

Some of us will NEVER be ready

[@jimmymcgill6778]

They make enough money for a new roof. Like 3 money and they'll have the money. They should have fixed it 3 years ago. Just because it's not leaking, that they can see, does not mean it's OK. Their debt is not that bad. Asides from the student loan, only 30k. That's nt that much with what they make.

[@kokoskokso]

I bet if they added all the money spent on gifts since 2019 the sum would be a multiple of 7 thousand. Just goes to show you can buy education but not wisdom...

[@dinahcharles6502]

Excellent advice 👍

[@stud6414]

2 years is unrealistic thats 5K a month and they live in New Jersey and homes are expensive so the mortgage is probably $4K per month

[@garyzimmerman6316]

He said 2.5 years. $3633 average per month. You're spinning stats to favor your position worse than Dave does 😂

[@scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal]

$3600 a month when they bring home 9k....if they can't swing that then they need to sell the house

[@cljerjr31]

thank God the roof isnt leaking.

[@kokoskokso]

maybe it would help with motivation

[@carojames6776]

So do I.

[@comment2250]

It's just absolutely pathetic how these callers get themselves into stupid debt and then call The Ramsey Show seeking damage control advice.

[@Shortballa11]

I mean thats what the show is for. Dave gets more money and they get help. Its mutually beneficial. Do you really think the show would be this popular without the tragic story? Most ppl listen just to feel better about their own lives.

[@6feet6figures]

Americans in a nutshell

[@RhinoXpress]

Don't get how she is concerned about not having gifts for holidays and weddings when they are in a mountain of debt. Oh i get it. It's all about image, well image doesn't pay off your debt.

[@strangeroamer3219]

Their image isn't going to matter when they end up living in a cardboard box.

[@kbanghart]

Because gifts are important.

[@scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal]

​@@kbanghartthey are, ut they shouldnt wreck your budget. Birthday gifts should be less than $20 and wedding gifts can be $40 and when you're bringing in 9k a month that's not going to throw you into a tailspin

[@kbanghart]

@@scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal agree. Not $1,000 lol

[@mhodge0890]

Finally someone in the same area I live

[@tashanapink7688]

I hate when couples don’t call in together. She blamed him not having the mindset but they BOTH are not doing what they need to do. Sounds like it’s more her and she threw him under the bus because it’s easier to blame the absent party when Dave begins to make you feel small about your situation. A gift budget don’t sound like something a man allocate to and a woman is more than likely to justify a new car when a baby is added to the equation. It’s not all him. Same mindset my foot 🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@kbanghart]

Sounds like it's more his problem

[@dyates6380]

I have been following this channel for quite some time, and I don't think I've ever watched one video when two people were on the line simultaneously, or even one after another. Am I missing these?

[@alleycatparts]

Could have avoided the car payments and dumped that payment into a sinking fund for the roof… or should have got a roof certification before closing and requested closing credits to offset the roof cost.

[@martinmowbray4304]

9000 a month and they have 180000 in debt ?!!😮

[@scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal]

Im pretty sure she said 108,000 which is better but still a lot

[@rosette4088]

Hello from Australia

[@NoName-jm4ev]

Roof life of 15 years doesn't mean the roof is garbage and needs to be gone like immediately, I hear that all the time people saying oh I need new roof it's 15 years old... WHY.. roof can go 30 years of you take care of it. Someone somewhere told them you need to replace the roof in 2019. If the roof is still in decent shape, replacing few shingles is just fine. Their problem is that they don't want to change their lifestyle, that's the biggest thing, impressing neighbors and friends

[@kokoskokso]

Can't buy a new roof because I keep buying all those presents for family and friends.. Did I hear correctly??????? When do these people plan on growing up??

[@NaNa-lt1po]

Dave on 🔥

[@djpuplex]

Me and my husband. Blame the husband who doesn't want to hear the wife complain. I'd love to see the breakdown of income. "We" woman's for take no responsibility. Take two to tango.

[@scotttaylor9133]

I agree, this isn't a problem you can fix in a show, and it's not simple. Dave loves to pretend everything is simple, and it is once you're out of the weeds. This is like the worst kind of Dad advice, it's not based on the reality on the ground, and based on sacrifices that don't sound bad when you're not the one making them. It's the biggest problem with him, it's a super harsh and terrible for the other half of the marriage (you always have one that's more a saver and another that's more a spender). The spender side of the marriage is also not without merit, it's certainly not financially optimal, but it's absolutey not without value added to you life (because money is not the only thing that matters, right Mr. McDuck???). The Dave Ramsey plan skips the opportunity cost; without that cost (ieg, if you're not paying it because you're a talk show host) it doesn't seem complicated at all. This is, to me, a pretty childish take and is only going to work at the cost of the spendier partner. When one half of a marriage loses, both halves lose. If you have a spouse that just wants to spend, the best you can shoot for is some partitioning of resources, so you both move forward with your plans, just at a slower pace. That's the hardest I think it's reasonable to push if you care about your spouse. If you want to charge super hard and get it all moving in one direction; well, you just can't do that with two captains on the ship. You do that when you're single. That's not going to work while you're married to someone else; particularly not without massive effort to keep them focused on something they don't see as highly important by nature. And it WILL extract a cost in resentment because they likely see the opportunity cost in far starker relief than you do. You're building and living a life together, not trying to optimize some video game playthrough with your NPC/henchman.

[@glittergirl333]

@@scotttaylor9133wonderfully put

[@mxerb5912]

But our gift budget!😂

[@keilana6]

Sorry Dave. I cannot make it in this economy - low income, alone, increasing costs. What do low income do?

[@NinoInTheComments]

Hamilton is 10 minutes from me 🥹😂😂

[@resaboutb.9566]

The moment "our gift budget goes crazy every month because we have so many family and friends and weddings and baby showers ..." I mentally put this call on mute. Oh, and the "we *try* to get on a budget ..." to which Dave says, "No, you don't."

[@brettrichards8332]

Roof looks good from far but far from good 👎

[@kokoskokso]

🤣

[@maryfox9432]

If family lives nearby give a service for a gift....detail their car, a certificate for babysitting etc...offer your time instead of money....

[@kendrapratt2098]

Ooo, that’s a great idea!

[@Charismafire]

Oh and any gifts you've already bought go return them for a refund immediately!

[@johnlanier3616]

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only person in this world with no debt.

[@kbanghart]

Well, that's a kinda typical human trait, to believe we're the only ones going thru a particular situation. Also there's always debt.. remember maintenance, taxes, etc

[@mhodge0890]

Well you’re not

[@Shortballa11]

i'd say a lot of the people listening and commenting don't have debt. But yes by the stats we are in the minority.

[@mbank3832]

I also have no debt, which always makes me feel good listening to these calls

[@sendit3251]

Get off your high horse

[@curiouscat3384]

You guys in the comments are awfully sensitive. My observation is that whoever calls in is usually the responsible one. So if a woman calls in it's logical and likely that the spouse (male or female) is dragging their heels. Go back and watch all the videos to see that Dave does criticize plenty of women for being the "spender".

[@ryanj357]

The problem is that Dave is bias against men. He will literally throw the man under the bus the majority of the time. Usually there’s a debt problem because a majority of the time women will influence the man’s spending. I’ve seen it in most of my friends marriages where the woman will spend something without his consent and they get in to big arguments about it. Most women that call in on this show are terrible with money.

[@DaveW74TVN]

Gift budget?! For extended family and friends WTH!

[@urbansolis]

I owed 5k in credit card debt. I now owe 1.9k I payed 3.1k in about a month. My only issue now is that I'm addicted to paying off my debt lol. I owe 1.9k on my last credit card and any little extra cash I have, I send it to them. Is that bad? Lol

[@cajbaf]

No, not bad at all. If that's what you are addicted to, it's a good thing. I actually just told my financial guy the other day..now that I have money I don't want to spend it..😂😂. He guided me to do the things I needed to get out of debt. It's a very free feeling. Keep up the good work and good luck!

[@urbansolis]

@cajbaf that's exactly how im feeling! It feels weird to have extra cash and not have to worry about it going to bills. After this credit card my goal is to pay off my car. I owe 5k on it. But not sure how to do Principal payments😬

[@philipgerry5228]

After you’re debt free you can build wealth at $2k + per month in investments.

[@Kurtdog63]

There's over 330 million people in the U. S., but only 2.8 million wanna be debt free. Almost there. Come join us.

[@andreack9983]

As for gifts, bake 'em a casserole or offer to babysit for their new addition. Be the role model and admit to your circle, proudly, that you are living within your budget.

[@ShermaineLit]

If I started Dave's plan and decided to go against it, I would be embarrassed to call back.

[@ShonTolliverMusic]

They make too much money for their own good.

[@crow-vz5lx]

It's scary how common this story is. EVERYBODY shows how undeveloped that specific muscle is.

[@kendrapratt2098]

Let’s finance cars instead of getting a literal roof over our heads!😃

[@cajbaf]

Guess they can live in those cars when the roof collapses?? 😂😂

[@Echodot232]

She's making excuses. Good luck

[@TharsanJeyachandran]

lit ep

[@paulmitchell1580]

All i hear on Dave Ramsey is student loan, student loan, student loan!!

[@cajbaf]

Yep, so many were told that is the way to go.

[@CrypticCobra]

Ya, if your not in debt you have no business following Daves advise. His advise works for the financially illiterate. People who know how to budget and have discipline would underperform following him.

[@unclebenny]

I think Dave’s reached the point where he realizes the other side of what he teaches is growing exponentially faster.

[@martinmaynard7669]

Could you expound on what you mean? I am not quite sure what sides you are referencing .

[@unclebenny]

⁠@@martinmaynard7669 Steak and lobster is the other side of rice and beans. Use that as a guide to figure out what I am referencing.

[@pauljoseph2400]

They probably haven't been making the student loan payments either..waiting for Santa Claus to bail them out.

[@Shortballa11]

As a new home owner, can someone help me. Is there some sort of roofing compliance law? Like you get fined and penalized if you don't get a new roof? How does that work?

[@jonbohn3854]

No you dont, but a failing roof will damage your house. Water will leak into your attic and top floor and cause all sorts of problems.

[@Shortballa11]

@@jonbohn3854gotcha thank you! Good to know for the future.

[@aolvaar8792]

Go online and look up your City Code Enforcement

[@vixxcottage]

Homeowners insurance can get huffy if need a new roof. They can cancel you. But a roof can be patched very reasonably priced.

[@Shortballa11]

@@vixxcottage how does the insurance know if you need a new roof?

[@mhodge0890]

120k a year after taxes making 9k a month

[@TSULLY210]

I love how she threw her husband under the bus like she’s some perfect little Angel 😂 I swear I will never get married in the US.

[@kbanghart]

When did she do that? Lol you're a bit sensitive

[@itsdavidlo]

Trust me, no one wants to marry you.

[@ManyMannyMan]

That's what passports are for

[@TSULLY210]

@@kbanghartafter she lists out all the debt and Dave mentions them buying a house while still in debt, her exact words “ me and my husband… yeah, my husband doesn’t have the same mindset as me” then they proceed to take shots at the husband, who isn’t there to defend himself. No one’s sensitive, I’m simply calling out where she blatantly pointed the finger at her husband and I then used that as yet another example of why I personally will not marry. I’m 4 months away from My debt free scream.

[@comment2250]

It doesn't necessarily matter WHERE you get married e.g. U.S., France, Japan, etc., but WHOM you marry.

[@coolaunt516]

9K a month. Oh boo freakin' hoo.

[@kokoskokso]

Right? It weirdly fascinates me watching Ramsey how some people on 30K a year start cleaning up their mess while others with 250K at their disposal simply cannot stop from getting into more debt. Lady will keep buying them gifts while sinking into debt and roof almost gone 🤯

[@snackman2005]

It’s always the husbands fault. I’m sure she has had no role in their debt.

[@alanj9978]

Yes. I'm sure he's the one taking gifts to baby showers, for example.

[@kokoskokso]

So many butthurt men on these comments. What's going on? Taking responsibility is the only thing that'll help you improve your life.

[@thethoughtthatcountspodcas1581]

She was trying to have a casual conversation and Dave was not allowing that at all lol

[@dnah02]

109k and they bought a house do not ever get into a house with a 6 figure debt. Just buy right now no clear your debt, do the math, be cautious, oh and layoffs maybe coming soon with that corporate refinancing. Oh jeez good luck folks and don't get in this situation.

[@jasonleatherwood2172]

9000$ bring home are they on drugs a 7000$ roof means they bought a small house so i dont get it

[@strangeroamer3219]

Drugs. That's the part that nobody ever brings up.

[@kokoskokso]

@@strangeroamer3219 another video just came out on Ramsey show highlights here on KZbin called "There's Nothing Great About This". Those people are a 100% on drugs.Or something else sketchy. Of course nobody's going to call and say that is the problem. But you can smell it when they tiptoe around the issue..

[@curiouscat3384]

Dave and crew need to embrace the "D" word. DISCIPLINE! Sacrifice just sounds miserable. Discipline for me means progress - whether it's sticking to a budget or practicing your sport to get better. This couple has good intentions but they are obviously not getting the "need" vs "want" vs how to say "No" to other people influencing them. He mentions Everydollar but they should always provide a link to it and a card linking to a video describing how it works. I think Rachel has something like that

[@cajbaf]

But sacrifice is what you need to do. Yes you need discipline to stick to it, but you have to give many things up until you are where you want to be.

[@curiouscat3384]

@@cajbaf Of course sacrifices are involved, like going out to eat or buying the latest fashions every year. I'm just saying that the words we use affects our mental health. Using a positive mantra like determination gives energy and optimism and perseverance vs. a negative word can keep you feeling miserable and victimized and more likely to quit before achieving the goal. Determination: I know I can, I know I can, I'm watching my debt balance get smaller, I can see a future without debt, I'm excited watching people on Dave's show doing their debt free scream....(while giving up your favorite restaurant foods and Starbucks) --- Sacrifice: I'm miserable I can't have Starbucks anymore, I hate this, I really want a new dress to wear to my best friend's wedding, We don't get to have fun anymore 'cause we don't have money......

[@rbraxton00]

Magic wand

[@robloxvids2233]

Your gift to people should be telling them you are too broke to buy gifts. You need to admit and accept it. Then you are ready to jump in.