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[@hellodolly9879]

Get out of your house, make friends, get a job, get a dog, go to church, take courses online, exercise, volunteer, etc. YOU absolutely have to make the effort. No one will do this for you. I've been there many times.

[@sonicmoj1]

10000% percent. What is wrong with people. This shouldn't even be a matter of discussion. Common sense 101. You move to a brand new place. You have to plug in and get some elbow grease.

[@Jzzonem]

Women complaining about this while their husband's are working always gets me. She's complaining about about having nothing to do all day. Get a job or something.

[@NrthrnKnght]

that house and yard better shine

[@Jzzonem]

@@NrthrnKnght better smell dinner when i walk throught the door!

[@melstarr1864]

Actually, what she is complaining about is not so much boredom, as much as the lack of a support system. I’ve been there, so I get it. But like John said, she will need to make the effort to create that. It doesn’t tend to just walk up to you.

[@Jzzonem]

​@@melstarr1864sounds like the same thing to be perfectly honest with ya. Not disagreeing as both can be true at the same time. Still changes nothing though.

[@melstarr1864]

@@Jzzonem Having been in this situation myself, a lot can be changed when you choose to step up and create your own support system. It can be hard for some people who are introverted, but once they make it happen, they will be much happier, and boredom will be a thing of the past.

[@victoriansmart8716]

I moved from Mississippi to Butte, Montana. It was a huge transition that was not ideal at the beginning. We've been here four years and are *just* now feeling connected, mainly because we found a great church and became stable in our jobs. Now we are looking to buy a house here. I will say too that Montana has one of the highest, if not the highest, depression and suicide rates in the country. The seasons and long winters really do get to you - get outdoors (even in the winter! skiing, snowshoeing, etc) as much as you can. Take a vitamin D supplement.

[@lisaowen7617]

Montana is terrible.

[@victoriansmart8716]

@@lisaowen7617 Sorry you feel that way!

[@Essays4College]

I heard about that about Montana and I was a bit surprised. I'm even MORE surprised that anyone would actually move to Montana!

[@lisaowen7617]

@@Essays4College Montana is a terrible place. Yuck.

[@firstlast8258]

I love winter time and the holidays in general

[@redfox_84]

"Isolated and don't like the winter weather." Chose to move to Montana 🤦‍♂ Do people not research where they plan on moving to?

[@bradleymaravalli2851]

Hard to know how bad winter might be in Montana until you live it.

[@TedFarabee]

I’m a Montanan. I lived in Marathon FL at one time then we moved up here. I know-from the beach to the mountains. Love the cold. Love the beautiful area I live in. However, the transition was tough because I loved the ocean. My sixth grade teacher the first year was a piece of work. However, going to Whitefish Lake tomorrow with family. Going to see wild horses. I’ve learned to see the beauty wherever God leads me.

[@maryeverling8238]

U can research n have an open mind doesn’t mean u will like it enough that u feel comfortable…🤔🙄

[@redfox_84]

@@bradleymaravalli2851 Yea but all it takes is to look where it is on a map and see what the elevation is. They shouldn't be surprised winter is bad.

[@bradleymaravalli2851]

@@redfox_84 Everyone knows Montana's winters are worse than Tennessee's winters. I just doubt this couple knew exactly how bad it would be.

[@alaskahaul2085]

You moved to Billings MT, what do you expect? People don't think before they move thousands of miles away.

[@redfox_84]

Just looking at dollar signs instead of what they were moving into.

[@kekejefferson9219]

That city sounds boring.

[@dianem6951]

@@kekejefferson9219 She sounds a little immature. She seems spoiled.

[@bradleymaravalli2851]

​@@kekejefferson9219 yeah because theaters, galleries, museums, breweries, historical sites, hiking, kayaking, fishing, skiing, hunting, and more are all so boring.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

@@kekejefferson9219 You should get out more..

[@5thdimension625]

Moves take a minimum of two years to adjust to. Give yourself at least two years before you throw in the towel. HINT: it’s not the outside that’s bothering you, time to look within.

[@3ofus135]

Not necessarily. I moved from California to Texas years ago. It took a year to adjust. Some people adjust sooner...some will take longer...some never adjust.

[@AP-fq1iv]

I’m from Texas and moved to Havre Montana. First year was rough. I never experienced such a hard winter. I’m a little more acclimated now and seasonal depression is real. Luckily I have made great friends and now I can see myself living here forever. It’s crazy how just two years ago I wanted out!

[@adamseidel9780]

Whoa, you DID move to a small place.

[@lisaowen7617]

Montana is awful.

[@cur244]

@@lisaowen7617 There's a ton to do in Montana if you like the outdoors. It's definitely a more beautiful state than Texas. No doubt the winters are awful though.

[@carmenross1077]

When my son asked me if he should moved because of a job, I told him sometimes you have to go where the money is.

[@mithicash1444]

Moving from California to Iowa to do the same job, for a much better pay, with much smaller bills I wholeheartedly agree with you! Although I always wanted to get out of that liberal hellhole

[@MikeyB_1972]

Sounds like somebody should’ve investigated the winters and the location before they moved. It’s not all about money. That’s what I learned when I moved to Bethel Alaska from Michigan.

[@ana10g]

you moved to MT. what did you expect. LOL.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

All she had to do was research the place first.

[@lisaowen7617]

It's terrible.

[@adamseidel9780]

Another person who thinks “being sad” is the same as mental health. Even it’s the right decision long term there’s always going to be a transition.

[@terriesmith2616]

Don't you know that _her_ feeling is the only one that matters.

[@kurtjames9487]

@@terriesmith2616 no. Feelings aren't the end all be all. Mental toughness is a part of mental health. She can get over her feelings.

[@ganymedehedgehog371]

Yeah I hate that people have made mental health a red herring.

[@ldv02]

Same here, we moved to TN from Boston and we ain’t going back. Love it here!!!

[@Mexicanita1904]

My cousin was married to an Air Force soldier for 12 yrs. Every single place they move to she hated. She was a total California girl and missed family too much. She made him get out of the service because she hated the travel and then a year later she divorced him. Not everyone is cut out to relocate. A lot of people can’t get out of their comfort zone, need familiarity and are miserable if they’re not in the city/area they grew up in.

[@humblekind4189]

Isolation is a terrible feeling. Dr. Jon nailed this one. I had a similar experience moving from my rural hometown to urban college setting. Say yes to people and once you form a community anywhere can be home.

[@paulatripodi3989]

I would say yes, anywhere can be home for a while. Enjoy the experience of where you are. Learn to do different things, meet new kinds of people, develop interest in a place by learning local history. If ultimately a place doesn't suit you, know that you can make an exit plan at some point. But Montana is tough in the winter. That's why there aren't so many people there. You might not be able to go out at all sometimes. Maybe they didn't think it through as well as they should have. If her husband is on the road more now, it means she feels even more isolated more often. Make the most of it now, and re-evaluate in a year or so. More money does not always equal a better life.

[@3ofus135]

Isolation is terrible for some, but others love it.

[@dalefrolander3583]

Way too many people moving to MT, don't discourage them from leaving.

[@SwayzeeSoul]

She sounds entitled

[@riissmith5836]

This is why I watch this show. You guys help change perspectives for the good.

[@kara2162]

Does she work? Even part time? Iit's important to jump in and make a life for herself. Being busy helps significantly with being home sick. I moved to a new continent. I get it.

[@nnyv0040]

Dr. John was very compassionate regarding Kayla's feelings and predicament. Missing home, family, friends and familiarity is very real. Some people can adjust quicker than others. Some need more time and others are just not vibing with the new change - AND THAT IS OK. I like how Dr. John didn't dismiss her feelings or made her feel like she failed, complete opposite. Kayla and her husband made a huge change by moving away from their comfort zone which takes a big step already (so kudos to you!) and now doesn't like it. That's ok! Try living there a few more months with a shifted mentality and see how that goes. And if you really don't like it apply to go back to your home town. But at least you tried and experienced something new! Don't let that new experience drag you down. Make it a growing and learning experience. :)

[@aprilkendell6601]

Kayla is experiencing culture shock. She's moved from her home to a new place that's completely different than what she's used to. If she can figure out how to get through the culture shock, she should be fine. Good luck, Kayla!

[@firstlast8258]

The entire US has the same awful culture

[@ahmadabdelqader388]

So no one asks how the husband feels? I guess his feelings don’t count. Princess probably approved this move and now wants to go back

[@nancyt6895]

Also, when she married her husband, he became her family.

[@terriesmith2616]

In this channel, husbands are just an ATM to wives. His feelings don't matter, only the wife's feelings count.

[@ahmadabdelqader388]

@@terriesmith2616 of course

[@Naturenerd1000]

It takes a while to make new friends and connections when ever you move.

[@jamestyler3698]

I've gotta say, I live in Billings MT. We do get all four seasons, we just get them about every other week xD I've always loved it, lol.

[@adamseidel9780]

Yup, all four montana seasons: winter, second winter, summer, and early winter!

[@taylorsmith9629]

That doesn’t mean she has to love it

[@andnew1335]

Why don’t you get a job lady. Being at home will drive anyone crazy thinking too much. Grow up buttercup

[@firstlast8258]

She is way too soft for Montana hubby should have known better

[@kaylagartrell1666]

I actually do work. Appreciate the comment :) shouldn’t make assumptions.

[@Ryan_DeWitt]

Some people are always unhappy.

[@AmberCaprie]

I sympathize with her. I moved for my husband's job to Colorado and a year later to Texas where we currently are. We moved during the pandemic but he gave the perfect advice to not isolate yourself and to branch out and make friends. Even if you move it will make the time that you're there more enjoyable.

[@mrskitty7929]

I grew up in a state and moved in my early 20's with a toddler and baby to SC. The weather was such a shock, we were called yankees and the southern culture felt like another world. We plugged into a church and got very involved. It took about a year, but I grew to really enjoy the location. You have to make yourself meet people and make friends.

[@TheDriller100]

billings montana is a gorgeous place .. you are just home sick

[@lyndaslocs]

In my case, I moved to dramatically different areas of the US for college and grad schoool. I hated being away from my hometown, but looking back, it was something I needed to do and I grew from it. It allowed me to reach my career goals.When is was all over, I moved back home.

[@mariad3011]

Great advice! I needed to hear this because I just moved from TX to SC and I miss my family/friends. I hope to find a church here that I can connect with soon! Thank you!

[@ezyryder11]

Surprised to see the negativity towards Montana in these comments. It’s clearly not for everyone but it’s a nice place.

[@saradeaton687]

Except for the cost of living!

[@victoriansmart8716]

I think one particular commenter might be a Montanan that is sarcastically commenting to deter incoming folks lol.

[@bgbusiness_]

Why does she have to get "connected" to everything? Seems like she want to keep up with the joneses. Many mature woman just focus on their husband after they are married. She doesn't seem too happy with her marriage. She can get a new job, get educated, work on herself, etc...doesn't have to become the next most popular person in town.

[@texasbornrefinerymade753]

Get involved with your church, find social groups that you have common interests or hobbies with

[@fongluu]

problems of the first world! SO much whining for just moving to a less "fun" nice weather place. Dude I lived in the hood and hot/cold extreme places and ultimately it's the life you build together not just outside influences!

[@oshahid1983]

Really good advice here! I moved to LA from Colorado. Miss my family a lot. Nice to hear that this is normal and great advice to make some changes and try something new.

[@ytr8989]

Grass always looks greener on the other side. Didn’t you do any research “before” you moved there.

[@RJRussoVids]

If a wife doesn't feel like her husband is "family" then the marriage is not long for this world. 💁

[@fauxbro1983]

Excellent observation. Lol

[@crzyruskie86]

Of course. Hes just a wallet to her.

[@eligreg99]

@@crzyruskie86 That’s how many of them feel. They just don’t admit it because women have accountability issues and it’s been proven time and time again,

[@mariel7964]

Let's not be too judging here. I moved once and hated it. My husband and kids are my family, but my husband was gone at work and loneliness is a very real thing. Many blessings to you all.

[@Sara_The_Feral_Housewife]

You sound so ignorant. He's a truck driver so probably not home alot. She's home with kids and no extended family. You have no idea how difficult that is. I've moved away from everyone I've ever known twice. I love my husband more than anything (which is why I moved with him) BUT that doesn't mean I don't miss my friends and family and that I don't get depressed. Luckily my husband is not offended by this like you seem to be. He supports me through it and helps me move pass it.

[@Rob10288]

She will never be happy.....

[@cn4492]

Immerse yourself into where you are! You have not given it long enough. It takes a long time to develop friendships . Don’t live in the past

[@PInk77W1]

I retired from my state job in Santa Cruz Ca. A few weeks later my landlord said she was gonna double my rent. So I went on line and bought a home in Texas sight unseen $23k. Moved to Tx. Hate it here. But I now have No debt. No rent. No mortgage. So I love it here

[@cpirtle]

Yikes. Santa Cruz vs. Texas. That sounds like a rough adjustment. Santa Cruz is one of my favorite places on earth. No mortgage is nice though.

[@Erica-wz8yv]

I couldn’t do it. But good for you

[@ykciR]

The things people get depressed for lol. First world problems.

[@ryanhumor]

** Kevin Samuels enters the chat. **

[@bigdikcramer76]

Get a job? Do overtime!

[@fireseeker4him]

I moved 600 miles away from my family, friends, and hometown almost exactly one year ago, knowing no one in my new town. Of course, there were things that I didn't love about my new surroundings, but I chose not to focus on them. Every time a negative thought would come into my head, or I'd make a negative comparison, I'd start to list reasons why I loved my new place. I also did what John talked about with forcing myself to go places and be a part of groups. I don't know what I would've done if I hadn't gone to church and participated in outreach groups. I'm not saying I'm perfect -- just trying to give ideas to someone who might be going through the same thing.

[@too-da-loo]

Me and my wife can move anywhere because we love isolation and don't care much for other people.

[@Bluedog777]

Billings Montana is beautiful and a great place to live! Just saying

[@JohnnySmoove]

John is so annoying. Dude adds no value to this conversation except acting as a fake psychiatrist

[@cutehumor]

It's why I call him Dr Baloney

[@KillstormSH]

I'm considering moving to Omaha, NE from Orlando, FL since I work from home and Omaha is where my job is headquartered. Also rent is a nightmare here in Orlando. Omaha rent is cheap. And I'm a single male with no kids or debt.

[@Koolej98]

You work for Berkshire lol. Might as well just leave the country.

[@KillstormSH]

@@Koolej98 LOL I wish

[@Ep1cRainbow]

couldn't you just live somewhere cheaper in Florida?

[@KillstormSH]

@@Ep1cRainbow I've found decent rentals in up north Florida, but they're few and far between for what I make. And many of them are bottom of the barrel in terms of amenities and space, but the prices remain high on even those.

[@texan903]

Move to Nebraska, as a single guy? Florida is the place, hands down.

[@cathyfaust9657]

Great advice!! The minute she said she was from Tennessee, I knew why she missed it. We LOVE Tennessee.

[@PaintingandExercise]

I tried living in TN from 1995 to 1997 and I never felt more rejected and alone because I was an outsider and did not grow up there. I tried church and was snubbed. I couldn't wait to get out of there and go back to the west coast.

[@NotMuchHere]

the pay is higher because no one wants to live there ... Beulah ND .. where is that ... exactly

[@alyssawanders406]

Too many people moved to Montana because they watched Yellowstone. Montana has become trendy. Hopefully, people fleeing Montana will become trendier. 🤞

[@elizabetha8565]

Maybe she could work then not all the finance issues aren't on the husband and they don't need to move so much.

[@therandysmith697]

She needs to get over this and settle in

[@hudsonmilbank]

John, I'm not being critical, but shouldn't you ask some basic questions like--do you have children? Do you have a job? Do you go to church?

[@sonicmoj1]

I moved to a new place but I made the effort. Joined an adult ice hockey team, community strings orchestra, local crossfit gym, made a huge garden and took advantage of outdoor activities. There's no excuse for loneliness, boredom, etc. It's called effort and becoming a grinder. Get plugged in and you will find people that you connect with. Eventually things will fall into place but sacrifice is needed girlfriend. Things don't magically fall from the skies without effort.

[@africanqueen1655]

They have made us believe that money is more important than Life & Happiness, it’s not. I believe we should live where our heart is then find the best career you can there. 🙏🏿🙌🏾

[@cur244]

One easy way to make friends is get a part time job that requires exercise so not cubicle stuff. You'll feel better because you're making some money, exercising and meeting people.

[@bign1667]

She either wants a divorce or needs a job

[@crzyruskie86]

I just looked at Billings on the map. There is everything you could possibly want there. Lots of food, lots of fun things to do in the town, and best of all you go a little out of town and have amazing outdoors! This woman is not trying to settle in on purpose. She probably didnt want to move because her friends made her feel like some sort of important socialite and now shes having a tantrum. Good grief.

[@dianem6951]

She does sound spoiled ‘mental needs’. How privileged she is. She didn’t say anything about what her husband thought of it.

[@bradleymaravalli2851]

Right!? Seems like a great place. Be brave, make friends, join clubs, and travel more come the winter time. Problem solved.

[@adamseidel9780]

There is definitely not lots of food in Billings Montana. It’s not even in the mountains, though it has close access to them a few hours in most directions. If you like outdoor activities, camping, hiking, fishing, etc., it’s got all of that nearby. But if you’re not so much into that, it’s definitely short on other things.

[@coreysmayfield]

There’s a LOT of assumptions in this comment.

[@johnper2302]

Looks boring af

[@stephenskayla2079]

Change is never easy. The ease of where you were in life to where you are going takes a strong person to handle this type of change. Find a church family.

[@firstlast8258]

I would say do some volunteer work if you are not religious

[@darkgalaxy5548]

Get a job! Any job. A reason to get up in the mornings, interacting with work colleagues & customers will give you purpose.

[@KristySI]

Great advice guys! 👍 grow where you are planted honey.

[@krobdawg]

As someone who is from Boston, I wouldn't wanna come back if I were George either lol

[@porterosbournejr.5083]

I know how she feels. I felt the same way when I moved the family to Austin, TX. As it turns out the wife and kids ended up enjoying Central Texas even though I didn’t. Now that we are back home I can honestly and pragmatically say while I didn’t care for it I am glad they got to experience living in a different part of the country and experience things they never would’ve been able to. I wish she would’ve included how the other members of the family feel about the move. She sounds a little selfish. It seemed to be all about her.

[@donnaleesalerno]

@Peter Osbourne, Jr I think the purpose of her call was to identify her own sadnesses and the changes she is recognizing with this move. Since she is not in the midst of current mental health therapy, she viewed the move as something they did for the money/career aspect only but then noticed a shift in her own moods and true happiness.

[@cur244]

They could transfer back and she could get a job. Easy!

[@jimmymcgill6778]

Them two moving is not the same as her moving. There's nothing to do in Montana. Unless you like hiking and go camping.

[@lisaowen7617]

Montana is terrible.

[@johnlanier3616]

When will women realize that life is tough? Husband is out there providing for his family as well as trying to take care of their retirement and she's not happy. People in this country need to wake up and realize how good they have it.

[@firstlast8258]

Not any time soon

[@michelleadams5609]

The sun is so important for health, I couldn’t imagine being without it everyday. SAD seems like it is hard to navigate in a place like where she is. They probably jumped at the chance to make more money because they heard Dave’s voice. Another example where you have to do your own thing and stay where you are happiest. I’m home here where I can go to the beach, mountains, desert in less than an hour.

[@dmb3428]

I have a slightly different issue to this, I hate the area that I live in and have for a decade + and want to get out ...except I have a decent job and own my home...the area for me has too many negative reminders so I bury myself in work. Ive actually been working on upgrades to my house so I can eventually sell it in the next year or so, the older I get the more I feel the window is closing on me to make the change ...Im not a huge risk taker either so I do lots of research on areas that I am considering moving to.

[@mariatrotter6889]

Moving is often difficult physically and emotionally . Just try to focus on you . One step at a time . Rebuild slowly . It’s hard I understand. You may discover new things . Great advice . Find joy and own it 🥰

[@desertguy1362]

I had a discussion with a friend about this exact same discussion. Who cares how much money you make if your miserable. On the flip side it's not worth living somewhere where you on the poverty line even if your in decent paying career.

[@superblump87]

Who cares how much money you make if you're miserable. Just end the sentence there. How would you be on the poverty line if you make a decent wage? By definition that is not decent.

[@desertguy1362]

@@superblump87 if you make 60k a year in NYC or Seattle that's next to poverty line in terms of income to expenses however if you live in Kansas and say make 45k same career your middle class. Not too hard to figure out.

[@superblump87]

@@desertguy1362 are you trying to say 60k is a decent income?

[@nicolcacola]

It takes a few years to acclimate. She needs to step back and breathe.

[@Thenagymom]

Good advice Jon but join a church is missing.

[@Will-if7wp]

I lived in NY for work and never felt at home or used to it. I always felt depressed. We moved to Tennessee for my job and we love it here so much. We will probably retire in the mountains.

[@michelesusanne1]

Where are good places to live in TN? No income tax state and lower property taxes are a big plus!

[@addisoncoughran7326]

This call came at the right time. We made the decision to leave the county that we grew up in and began raising our kids in but affordability is ridiculous. We bought somewhere where we can afford while still keeping time with our kids and giving them a yard to play in but were worried a bit about feeling isolated from current family and friends. Mindset! get connected. make new friends. grow our community

[@TheSpyder699]

Military people are going through this a lot and every place we went we miss Poeple from those town or others province and we have language differences not everyone speak English in Canada.

[@firstlast8258]

So don’t join the military

[@OpenBlank4723]

Change Is Part Of Life

[@bigt1114]

BILLINGS.... Montana!!!!???😳😳😳😳😳...yes...Winters.. are...LONG!!!!.....ALL..for a Truck driver!!!!???job!!!??..🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@ahmadabdelqader388]

Easy and quick answer for you.. Get to work!!!!

[@neomatrix1467]

John is a 🤡

[@kondrasellers2740]

I did the same thing when I moved my family from Florida to North Carolina and he is right you have to get your self out of the funk and go out and make life fun where your at home is where your kids and husband are not your friends and mom and dad are

[@djpuplex]

Poor husband. This woman is gonna trash "their" finances..I never heard someone coming up.with soo.much 🐂💩 to justify a move. Never heard someone so chipper say they are depressed.

[@kaylagartrell1666]

You never met someone depressed then or never been yourself to know it’s not a down and crying every second of the day. And people can get really good at hiding it. Those who appear happiest may be those hurting the most. Hearing someone talk for two mins doesn’t show their whole life.

[@MyGoodnessSakes]

Waaaaa....life is rough

[@ashdobbs7492]

things are rough when you move to find a better truck driving job

[@Gooselip]

The answer is always you got to plug in

[@ripwins]

My NEIGHBORHOOD HAS BEEN GENTRIFIED, DOG PARKS & COFFEE SHOPS I HATE IT, ITS NOT FUN ANYMORE.....I MIGHT NEED TO MOVE 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@firstlast8258]

That sounds like a nightmare 🙄

[@Mc.flyyy11]

Its takea time to adjust to a new place. But you have to get out and meet people, join local groups, a gym, go out on dates, local outdoor stuff. I've done it many times over and I always end up missing where I just left because I miss the life I make in that particular place. Started over in Houston, San Diego, las vegas, austin.....helped me grow and I've made a great life in every city.

[@Mr_Fairdale]

Billings winters can be rough. Almost went to MSU Billings back in the day for football :)

[@larryhawes8295]

The grass is always greener - if you're willing to fertilize.

[@melinda67]

Why would someone who lives in an area with jobs move to another area for a job? You can’t tell me that they didn’t have a six figure job in TN. The move was completely unnecessary

[@chimi505]

Exactly and Billings, Montana is a small city of 109K population. There are many metropolitan areas in TN with thousands of jobs. Nashville Memphis Knoxville Chattanooga Kingsport-Bristol-Bristol(VA) Clarksville Johnson City Morristown Jackson Cleveland

[@valeriagomez2677]

Wow this comment section is not it. She can't get out if her situation right away. So she needs to make the most of it in the meantime or else she's going to continue being miserable or depressed.

[@Primitive_Code]

👆👆 send me a copy of your book please, I need something to read.

[@letsbefreeletsbefree7183]

Where I live in europe most People stay around the area they grew up in especially if you grow up near a big city. I live in Stockholm sweden and have not more than 20 minutes to everyone i know and I love it for me staying with near my parents brother Sibblings grandmother nephews etc is important and more important than earning more money

[@bettygrable6440]

Wah wah wah

[@mattenderle1766]

She misses partying with her friends.

[@ahmadabdelqader388]

And meeting up with Chad and Tyrone

[@Koolej98]

The whole point of moving to the Midwest is for lower cost of living and high wage, not mental health!!!

[@thinkforyourself9334]

Mental health matters just as much as money 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@Wall2000x]

Depression is the brain's biochemical reaction. I think most people have decided the modern marriage is for them. Men are talked into it. It is based on feminism, etc. Once you go down that rabbit hole many traits that most people would not even notice now become annoying. People move all over the planet let's say from India to the US (mainly for a better life), they survive. One person in the marriage wants more control in the relationship. It is about self. Don't delude yourself into thinking you are depressed chances are you are sadness, frustrated, and angry because you can't get what you want: freedom. You should probably just go home and leave your husband because you aren't really willing to put in the work to have a successful relationship. He deserves more than you are willing to give him. Doctor John is saying it differently. You should have found yourself before you married. I do think some of these calls are fake but that's me.

[@braddavid902]

Dr John always has the best advise. Love having him on Ramsey

[@mikepaulus4766]

The hardest part about living in Montana is the 5 months of winter. Back in the 90s people with lots of money would come on vacation in the summer, say "It's so beautiful here, let's move." They'd buy land, build a big house, and after the second winter they'd sell it and move back to California. Old man Winter used to keep out the riff raff.

[@philipgerry5228]

Her husband can easily get a trucking job anywhere.

[@ahmadmartin7971]

I'm a otr driver, he can definitely find otr work. Might have to leave FedEx.