I’m Angry My Wife Wants A Bigger House!

[@maryannanderson2213]

A couple of years after we got married, my husband and I bought our "starter home". Next January I will have been in that starter home for 45 years. Neither of us ever saw the need to purchase a larger or fancier home. We are in a nice neighborhood, close to all the amenities and major arteries in and out of the city and we have never had any issues with any neighbor. Why would we need to move? My husband died 17 years ago and I am still perfectly content in the home we purchased back in 1980. Of course, I don't look at houses online and think that I need to have a house like that. No I don't. This house meets my needs very well and as I have aged I've added things to the house to make it so I can live here alone; things like a walk-in tub and rails on the stairs going down to my family room, etc. As long as I am able to get around, I will never leave this house.

[@saraphillips1038]

Yes to this! Being content with what you have is the best. I used to think we might move to a bigger house or a new neighborhood but we’ve been in our home almost 25 years and I don’t see us ever moving. I don’t think there’s anything out there that would make me want to start a new mortgage

[@Ka_Gg]

I'm a younger generation, a millennial. It blows my mind how much of a house that people think they need. I will see so many people in my generation that would be just a single couple with no kids and they supposedly need a four-bedroom two-bath house. People cry about the prices of houses going up and yes they are going up, but I remember all my grandparents owning two bedroom, one bath houses. Nowadays, a lot of couples my age would never consider a house like that. And then a lot of people act like they need their own special room for whatever hobby they have. Hell, I've seen single people on their own scoff at two bedroom one bath houses. Don't get me wrong, if you can afford it and want it, that is fine but the truth is a lot of people can't actually afford the houses that they are buying. Sure, they can be approved for the loan but they end up being house poor

[@StorybooksandScrapbooks]

Amen! We have been in our starter home for just over 20 years. We have no plans to move and it's almost paid for.

[@karendjohn8803]

^This! Glad to hear I’m not alone. We had always planned to move to a bigger house, but everytime we started looking, something would happen to delay our decision. Then 17 years ago, my husband almost lost his life. It’s been a difficult 17 years of living “a new norm”. I am now thankful we never did move, because if we did move to a bigger house, we would have lost it after going down to one income.

[@njfuentesrespecter81]

God bless you for not being difficult. I’m sure the sacrifice has paid off. Keeping up with other people keeps a lot of people broke and/or in debt

[@bigcahuna42366]

You don't want a bigger house unless you have a bigger family. More expensive to maintain, more expensive in taxes, more expensive in utilities, just more expensive.

[@bernadettenorris3513]

😊

[@lordbogus1985]

Only reason why I would ever want a bigger house is when it is downright more beautiful. A historic property with beautiful ornaments and things like that. But you only buy houses like that when you have much, much, much more to spend

[@flotaylor8170]

I don’t think most people who’ve never owned a home realize the accuracy of this statement. Bigger is not always (almost never) better when it comes to homes. We’re military, and we downsized during this last posting and I’m so incredibly happy we did.

[@aolvaar8792]

@@lordbogus1985 You get left with 5 grandchildren when your daughter dies.

[@sherriianiro747]

What's wrong with investing in a bigger house? You get what you can afford - to each his own, that's the American Dream.

[@debmoudy6272]

“I’ll be happy if”. When I hear this I run.

[@mamajojovegan]

She lacks discipline and self control. She should be happy she has a good husband who has made sure the family is debt free. She lacks contentment. She has a house paid for no bills , she should be grateful for a man who is forward thinking. Do not go into debt. Let her go to work and pay for it. Those homes she see people displaying on social media, if she just knew that they don’t sleep worrying about bills. Some men are going through a lot too oo.

[@queen.kristal8395]

I agree i am done if she wants a bigger house 🏠 let her work to get it

[@tashanapink7688]

I think Dave missed the part where he said the wife picked out the current house they’re in. That’s why the husband is pissed

[@SoccerPhoto]

I think you're right. But I've listened to a handful of shows where he's so focused on painting the guy as somehow wrong and in pushing the "we" topic, that he overlooks the real problem...an all too typical, entitled individual who wants "more", but won't work for "more".

[@Simpleharmonica]

@@SoccerPhoto you are correct. whenever the woman in the relationship is in the wrong it's somehow both of their faults he needs to work on his marriage. If the man is wanting more or being irresponsible Dave tells the wife that her husband is an immature child that needs to grow up and be a man. Seen it on many calls.

[@strangeroamer3219]

I remember one call where a woman called asking about her debt and trying to get ready for retirement. Dave's first question was if she was single. The woman said she was. If she wasn't, I guarantee that Dave was going to start bashing on the woman's husband.

[@vergespierre4271]

Great observation. I notice Dave tends to be harsh towards men;I wonder why?

[@michelepayton6922]

She picked out the house that suited them and that they could afford AT THAT TIME. Things have obviously changed; we just don’t know how. It shouldn’t be a big deal to get a bigger house if they can afford. We have only heard one side of the issue so for all we know it might come down to the husband being selfish and refusing to compromise. You can judge the issue based off the husband’s account only because he is biased and will naturally skew the conversation to elicit sympathy for himself.

[@gratefulketo2211]

When Dave was mentioning about staying off social media to avoid purchasing more, it made me think of something I discovered many years ago. Wherever you work you buy more. I worked for a liquor store and I bought more liquor.... I worked at a hardware store and I definitely bought more there! We are like crows who love the shiny things!

[@spiritualcosmeticss]

This is so true! I worked at a watch factory. Before I worked there I could care less about watches, but while I worked there I bought like 8 watches! 2 of which were for me one of which I’ve never worn!

[@dorothysewing9997]

I think the wife should be grateful she has no debt on the house and lives in a good school district. She should appreciate what she has rather than trying to keep up with the Jones’.

[@felixthecat2786]

They are not compatible with one another. That is the real problem here. She wants a bigger house? Fine, there's nothing wrong with that. Not everyone has to settle for the status quo. Not every has to "appreciate living in a good school district." I will be honest and say that I am not that kind of a person. I don't want to just settle for a cheap house in the middle of nowhere in a "good school district." I always knew what I wanted and I found someone who was compatible with my life goals. Not all of us has to want the same things in life, but you shouldn't marry someone like this. Why do men propose to these kinds of women? They're attracted to these types because they like the thrill of trying to please someone who can never be pleased. That draws them to these types of women and both people end up miserable and divorced.

[@marymoore3585]

She's not a grateful person. He's tired of trying to make her greedy self happy

[@maryatsina8023]

We do not know why she wanted a larger house. Maybe they had more children, etc. He doesn't say anything about her reasons.

[@felixthecat2786]

I don't feel like it's fair to just call someone greedy for wanting more things. There's nothing wrong with wanting to upgrade your house and life, but he clearly married the wrong person. They are wholly incompatible with one another. She's not a villain for being incompatible with him, she's just the wrong person for him. Why choose to marry someone like this though? There are some men who are more than happy to keep upgrading their lives in this manner, plenty of men get a thrill off of it. That's just how they're wired. I see so many men end up with the wrong person because they don't seem to know what they want or what standards to expect in other women.

[@nathanshackelford7812]

@@maryatsina8023Agreed. Obviously the only reason the person would have taken the time to write to Ramsey is they were seeking validation. But they left out details or context deliberately knowing it would change the response. Which means they already have their answer. Something happened they didn’t plan for when purchasing the home, and he is lashing out because he finally had it all paid off and now it’s back to a mortgage.

[@GoKU-xx2vg]

​@@felixthecat2786exactly she should have married herself a surgar daddy.

[@jinkazama2555]

@@maryatsina8023 doubt it, shes just greedy

[@nancyinsc5102]

His wife is a CB (Critical witch with a B). Does the couple have any children? My sister is a CB and made her husband miserable until he died.

[@richthepup]

He’s not mad she wants a bigger house, he’s mad he sold his investment properties and became poorer over some 🐱 that’s liable to leave any day

[@Tashas_Travels]

😂😂😂

[@garrenshot]

He probably couldn't afford the investment properties if he could only get a 1400 sq foot for her personal house

[@richthepup]

@@garrenshot or his capital was tied up on investments that would build long term wealth but cashed it all out to buy a personal residence that may appreciate at best but will never generate income

[@harp_for_mayor]

BINGO!! A simp is born every minute…

[@thomascoffin5267]

Exactly

[@MelindaRichie-ll5ju]

Tell his wife no

[@machintelligence]

Don't be angry, be steadfast.

[@beerkegaard]

Yeah it’s that simple. If you don’t know how to tell a woman No, you are going to be screwed!!

[@robertblaney5033]

Simple, tell her to get a 2nd job ( if she even has a 1st job ) & let her save up to pay cash for the price difference of the bigger house

[@sailingwiththegods538]

Couples that want giant houses dislike their partner. Why would they want so much room and debt to get away from each other? This woman will bankrupt him.

[@Jeff-xy7fv]

Hence the point of the classic country song "Little Houses" by Doug Stone.

[@NEGal40]

Or the current classic hit "Bigger Houses" by Dan & Shay! 😂 It's a great song, give it a listen! 🙌🏼🎶

[@aolvaar8792]

I like a walk-in Gun safe and an indoor pistol range. My wife likes an indoor pool, off her bedroom suite.

[@TheRealDeadhorse]

1400 ft is a small house, especially if they want kids.

[@NEGal40]

Agreed! 1400 sq foot is small!

[@norduferhandel4512]

I have a friend whose wife did this 3 times, they are currently talking about selling the 3rd house that SHE wanted and moving back into the previous house that her husband still owns and rents out. They have been married 25 years and in that time have lived in 5 houses.

[@Postokon]

If she wanted a richer man, then she should have been better looking

[@Spadesofbades]

Bingo

[@georgeelder8415]

Nailed it...

[@jillgott6567]

This house is ENOUGH ! Less than a year into it. Counseling needs to happen.

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[@christinawynkoop4027]

I personally don't have Facebook, Instagram, and any other social media but KZbin to grow and learn. That's a personal conviction but it works with my contentment.

[@bolivia.j]

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[@christinawynkoop4027]

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[@canecorsomom2023]

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[@snowjae9380]

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[@leviconspiracies]

She's gonna file after getting that house, she wants it for herself

[@MyBrooklynLife718]

😬😬😬

[@Spadesofbades]

yep. all part of a bigger plan

[@ericb8413]

I call her condition the “never enough” syndrome. I’ve had friends like that and they’re never really satisfied. I feel sorry for their spouses.

[@StephanieG.Augustus]

I’m in Ohio and the housing market here over the last 7-8 years is unlike anything I’ve ever seen. Homes that were bought for $130K in 2015 are now being sold for $590k. I’m talking about tiny, disgusting, poorly built 950 square foot shit boxes in quite mediocre neighborhoods. Then you’ve got Better, average sized homes in nicer neighborhoods that were $300K+ 10 years ago selling for $750k+ now. Wild times.

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[@DMBVR4]

The letter said "she wanted the house before we signed". This house wasn't his idea like dave said, this was THEIR decision together. It'll never stop.

[@tommyatkinson7312]

All of the male hosts seem to want to always place some of the blame one the male caller or writer

[@montymython754]

Did you make a poo poo 💂‍♂️

[@kurtjames9487]

Simp Dave came through to blame the man.

[@randysalsman6992]

@@tommyatkinson7312 "One" or on?

[@tristan2332]

Thank God Jade took this one...John would have somehow blamed the poor guy not making the wife safe.

[@nailatiyllufm7325]

I thought he was going to say they bought their house ten years and three kids ago and now need more room. Unless there’s something wrong with the house she needs to work on herself before making another huge life change thinking it will bring happiness, because it won’t.

[@Ja50nkAt]

Tell her if she wants a bigger house to go buy one by herself! What a selfish witch, sounds like she didn't contribute much of anything to attain the current house.

[@Neddie2k]

I love this response.

[@crazyinq8617]

Eve had EVERYTHING in The Garden. But, she still wanted more...

[@ga6589]

Ever notice how in fairy tales it's usually the wife or woman who is portrayed as the selfish greedy one? Guess who wrote those stories?

[@IrishFrank22]

If women wrote the bible it would end up as 50 shades of grey. Trust not for a woman who weeps for it is in her nature. ​@@ga6589

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

Right!

[@FortuneSeek3rz]

DUMP HER

[@TX1836]

@@ga6589 Yes men that understood female nature to never be satisfied.

[@Bellatticakes]

Got divorced over this, ex made sure she posted her new house and car with her new man, my house and cars are paid off, that’s what I was trying to lead her toward, now I can do whatever I want

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[@Hapjack11]

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[@XennialGuy]

Wife: I want a bigger house! Dude: But you picked this house. Wife: But I want a bigger house! Dude: There are plenty of other girls that would find this house just fine. -Discussion ended.

[@yuriy5376]

Yeah, but she's already tricked him into buying this house while being married. Now he's going to lose at least half of it.

[@anthonyb9364]

@@yuriy5376 100% Facts

[@zoemayne]

Simping won't last for marriages

[@ExposeFlyersDotCom]

DAVE TOTALLY JUST SKIPPED THE PART WERE HE SAID THAT SHE PICKED THE CURRENT HOUSE.

[@xsgtxbigboy1655]

Trust me he did that on purpose so he can blame the guy lol “you had a plan she wasn’t aboard on “ lol

[@maiaracarvalho6573]

I think he meant selling his investments and making sacrifices in order to buy the house. It makes it seem that the wife was not involved on this decision of what it took to get to the point of buying a house. That’s why he said he needs to get her involved to understand that getting a bigger house will cost them both something.

[@randysalsman6992]

@@maiaracarvalho6573 No, he meant it for the entire thing when in reality it most likely was all the wife's plan to buy the house by any means possible which included the selling off of all the husband's investments and all of his sacrifices while she got to just sit on her "throne" and bark orders. Trust me when I say I know the type, they are very plentiful.

[@bettysmith4527]

She will never be happy, even if you get the princess a bigger house, she still won't be happy!

[@reviewsbygen5591]

lol I must be the opposite. My husband and I have 4 kids and I want a small house. As long as it’s in a good school district with a backyard, I rather have less inside space. Easier to clean and you will accumulate so less stuff.

[@thefitcookie]

Thank you for mentioning social media, it plays a huge role in being discontent! She did pick out that specific house so she was involved in that choice, maybe not the sacrifice needed to get it.

[@dreadpiratewestley8599]

Wife is materialistic and sees her husband as a wallet. Her happiness is not his responsibility.

[@Gabrielle-Golds]

Some people will never be content. They'll always want a bigger house, a better car, another holiday, more clothes, and on and on. I wouldn't have even dated a man like this, let alone marry him; it would be too exhausting. I feel sorry for this fella.

[@nifralo2752]

The Taj Mahal is bigger than Buckingham palace

[@JK20239]

I would tell the wife: where's the money for it? Do you think there is a fairy in the sky that drops bags of money and all of a sudden we have it? 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Joel-Serra]

Some people are just never satisfied.. no matter how much stuff you buy for them.

[@1JohnnyCruiser]

I have a saying. He who pays has the say. Can't agree on where to eat out you pick and pay. Want a bigger house get busy cuz youre paying

[@arribaficationwineho32]

The “goLden rule”. He with the gold rules. If wife wants a larger house…..she can work too

[@PepeToTheMooon]

Stop keeping up the Jones’s!!

[@goofygirl1311]

We sold our first home after living in it for nearly 20 years. We bought a bigger home which gave ourselves and our kids more space. In the smaller house we were beginning to feel on top of each other all of the time with our small bedrooms super close to each other. I definitely don't regret "upsizing" - our former home sold for a higher price than the cost of our newer, more spacious home so we were not out money, but after 10 years we're now looking at downsizing for retirement - we want less home and yard to maintain which will give us the freedom to do some traveling and other fun pursuits.

[@as2223]

Before ya'll get married keep both eyes wide open. There are signs! And after marriage, keep one open :)

[@Elmerkeith-c5g]

good advice....ALSO , listen to redpill content....

[@chrissylong6001]

What if she got into the house and realized it just doesn’t really meet their needs? Sometimes you don’t know until you’re in the situation that something doesn’t work for you. It could be that she’s just not content with what she has and is ungrateful, but she also might realize that they actually need something different right now.

[@midkort]

That's fine, but she can wait until they can conveniently afford it.

[@CashmobDP]

Proverbs 31 is Dave’s go to lol I love it

[@GAFB1122]

Materialism and Keeping up with the Jones's is nothing to be proud of. Self respect, self worth, fulfillment and dignity does not come from the stuff you own.

[@katiejon17]

Caller says that his wife CHOSE the specific house they bought. This wasn’t a case of the husband leaving his wife out of the plan. She’s a malcontent that is going to constantly compare their life to everything and everyone else. If wife doesn’t change, the marriage is doomed.

[@yuriy5376]

She won't change

[@peterriggio9853]

Its ok to tell her no

[@marcosct86]

Leve her Brody. She's gonna cheat on you

[@hdsensing]

His house sounds a bunch like mine. I could afford more of a house but chose not to. I have found there is an amazing peace with contentment. I am content with what I have and it allows me to use financial excess to help others. A hobby of mine is going out to eat and paying for a stranger's meal...because I can.

[@seanriordan6726]

She didn’t make any sacrifices. Hence her entitlement to get a bigger house.

[@alexandersnow1963]

She’s not gonna be happy with anything. Take the hit in divorce court and cut your losses

[@Cucumberflavoredmustard]

She under the illusion that all her friends or IG idols own their homes and have money to burn. Most people I know with nice houses are mortgaged to the hilt, and if they missed 2-3 paychecks, their situation would be VERY flimsy.

[@tofuhunter3797]

"I want a house as nice as my friends." Get poorer friends then.

[@Yogastrong908]

I’d love to hear her side of the story.

[@richprokop5155]

Wife is never satisfied....Next is a new 70k SUV....

[@cpinecp]

As a already broke person this show is so helpful

[@rustykatt3870]

I've known seniors who have stayed in their small starter homes. They raised their kids who have grown and left home, and have children on their own. The parents never moved up in home.....they have said that they'll leave the home "feet first". Conversely, I've seen seniors who have had a history of moving up and up, to more and more expensive homes. And you know? They are renting in the last 20 years of their life. Good luck to Brody and his wife. and to us all.... ✨😊✨.

[@davidbrayshaw3529]

Not quite "senior" yet, but my wife and I are still in our small "starter" home. All 1100 square feet of it. No debt, it's well kept and there's room enough for more than just us. Our next move is the funeral parlor.

[@rhondahopkins4366]

Tell her no. If she wants a big house let her pay the mortgage.

[@yuriy5376]

How dare you. Her money is her money.

[@rhondahopkins4366]

How dare you, she wants the big house not him. If she wanted she can pay for it.

[@yuriy5376]

@@rhondahopkins4366 if she could buy it herself, why would she need to go through the hassle of marrying a simp who will bend over backwards to satisfy her every whim? 🤣

[@michelejohnson6459]

Nope! She needs to save up the cash. They are debt free now. No mortgage. 😮

[@rustykatt3870]

Brody and wife, please call Dave Ramsey Show to have an update- do it together. Hopefully the show has a couples show with both spouses on the phones. Have Dr. Delony on with Dad.

[@Chet_24]

Tell her no, and if she doesn't like it point at the door and tell her to gtfo.

[@alberttang6955]

I agree with this in principle, but she ends up with half of their assets, including the house, plus ongoing alimony payments, if they divorce.

[@commonenglishmistakes4360]

That woman is bad news and ungrateful - she has NO accountability for her own bad decisions. That's what some children can do and she's a adult. Very bad wife.

[@rustykatt3870]

If people only want to buy small starter homes, builders will build them. The customers with the dollars will dictate. We don't have to be force fed large homes. Good luck to us all.... ✨😊✨.

[@aolvaar8792]

builders will build them. Landlocked, building on new land is 40 miles away. My subdivision is "new" 1960

[@Gromitz101]

Not exactly true. Its easier to build certain size homes with specific lot sizes because there are less regulations. Making 1 big house instead of 2 smaller ones on the same lot is a lot less work and money.

[@DerangedSurfin]

The only way to make starter homes work is to reduce the cost of the lot. The biggest cost of the lot is the fees, permits, regulations, planning, etc. That's all government. My company builds in a state where that lot costs 250k minimum for the lot alone. If we build a 150k house on that lot, it's tiny and equipped like a Russian prison, and costs 450k, assuming we want to earn any money. And no one wants it. So we build 500k homes and people pay 800k. I want more starter homes, but it isn't up to the builders. It's up to municipal and state law, and they've made it clear that they don't want starter homes.

[@aolvaar8792]

@@DerangedSurfin 1. Negative Amortized mortgage $1000/mo but you pay $500 and the other $500 gets added to the principal. 30-year forgiveness clause. 2. Inclusionary Housing The government sells you a house at a sever discount but retains the right to be the first one to buy it back at set rise in equity

[@Kurtdog63]

If my wife wants a bigger house, she will need to get a bigger job.

[@9liveslisa]

Bigger houses don't equal happiness. What is the next bar going to be? They shiouldn't make any moves until they are on the same page financally and otherwise.

[@jeffreycole2816]

Tell her no.

[@countryboy9131]

Dave miss the part when he said she pick the house

[@Fishouta]

She may have picked the house, but it was the husband's plan. According to Dave, anyway.

[@socku5850]

5:19 husband spent hundreds of thinking about buying stuff for wife . She doesn't like. I never saw my dad buy anything for my mother. She usually buy it herself. Of he give her the money to buy it. Lessons, when purchasing something important or expensive always talk to your partner first. This relatable . 😂

[@TCR2025]

Time for a divorce asap!!

[@yuriy5376]

He's already screwed: he put all of his money into a new home after they got married. It's communal property now.

[@tcgtpl]

The husband should either ask his wife how much her boyfriend is going to chip in for the new house or tell her that she should just move in with him.

[@jilliangrant9730]

I own my home. I am a big HGTV fan, but I am just that, a fan.. Truth be told, I would rather downsize if anything. The house is starting to feel too big and definitely too much to clean 😂😂😂

[@babyluv3868]

I asked my husband if we can move into a smaller house that’s easier to manage and clean while caring for our baby, so now we’re moving into our rv! 😁

[@karenboyd6293]

Would be interesting to know what the wife is actually saying. I have a lovely house but it has design flaws and I would enjoy building a new house that solves my issues. I can say I would like a bigger house so I could buy a $20K long arm quilting machine. But my husband knows that I don't mean it. The perfect thing about our current house is that it is paid for.

[@daretodream...898]

I'm downsizing to 620 square feet. I consider it paradise. Caller's wife is SPOILED.

[@aolvaar8792]

My first wife said: " sure beats a 70 sqft Cell"

[@lacc790]

People probably end up paying less if they pay for KZbin with ad free.

[@nsr60ster85]

Screw the Joneses. Words to live by.

[@elkelewtschuk9894]

That the marriage has problems is for them to work on. Regarding the house, the wife wanted this particular house. Now that all is said and done, she wants a bigger house. Their debt is paid, and the house is paid. I'd tell that woman to take a long walk off a short pier. She doesn't know how good she has it financially. Some of us have had to come back from near total ruin on our own to get to that point.

[@DerDermin8tor]

In terms of wrong decisions, Dave may reconsider his choice of the shirt. If you are financially succesfull, it does not be a camouflage of mimicking Kim Y U.

[@fauxbro1983]

Can't let women get thier ways all the time

[@arribaficationwineho32]

Not the point. Women may certainly work and contribute. I am female

[@modenasolone]

He needs to look for a better wife.

[@sheryl7837]

Jade is spot on as usual!

[@anthonykence9954]

Stay debt free

[@MuratOktay-b8n]

The importance of community governance in XAI401C cannot be overstated.

[@myronedmond9500]

I was once very happy with my home and I felt like I had moved up in a class when I moved there and I’m still very proud of it. then I started doing Instacart and I began delivering to places that I did not even know existed, and it moved the goal post for me , and I wanted to move to one of those neighborhoods and live in one of those houses. One of the worst things that can happen to someone who is content with what they have is realizing that there is another level you did not even know existed.

[@mal7175]

This reminds me so much of my ex girlfriend, total princess and makes me realize what I’ve escaped. This stuff is so draining it makes your job feel like your second job

[@rosak.9855]

There are a lot of people out there that feel they need to keep getting things to feel good. Guess what, they're only temporary. Establishing good relationships and memories are longer lasting. Having a Home is more important.

[@BecauseWhyNot660]

Is she simply complaining? Then she's in the wrong. Is she simply stating a goal for the future? Then she's just stating her goal. Is the house a money pit and you should have bought a better house? Then you both are to blame! Unless he made the decision without her being on board!

[@mikejezek5214]

He said she picked their current home out which required him to let 2 real estate investment properties go. So he took a big hit just to get this home she wanted, now she wants something newer.

[@BecauseWhyNot660]

@@mikejezek5214 she. Ok, I could have sworn he said he. Lol!

[@ering7733]

I agree that what they’re saying is correct. I am curious how many kids they have. If they have 5 plus kids and she just made a mistake choosing the house and didn’t realize the size would be tight. However, it’s not been a year so she needs to figure out how to make it work.

[@Fishouta]

My social media is youtube. The more time I spend on it, the less time I have for shopping and spending money.

[@lauriechan2966]

I love Jade's sweater. It's a gorgeous green on her! Very festive

[@sherriianiro747]

I learned a long time ago in psychology most divorces occur after the second purchase or building of a bigger home.

[@yuriy5376]

Makes sense. It's a good time for the wife to take half in divorce and move on to the next victim.

[@matthewcgrammer]

Let's hope this one doesn't have a mid-roll ad...🤞🏻🙄

[@CaToRi-]

Bigger house = More cleaning and more mess. She should try to optimize the current available space before thinking about a bigger house. Being debt free is a blessing.

[@AnnMitt]

If possible, build an addition onto the house. Adding a family room and 2nd or 3rd bathroom can make a small house tolerable.

[@laserwizard2]

I've always been the happiest when I live below my means. I drive a paid off car that is now 9 years old. This replaced a car that I had for 22 years (since new). I would still have that car but it was worth next to nothing and needed major repairs and safety had improved so much since then. I was so stressed signing the loan paperwork for this current car. Paid it off a year early and I've never looked back. To me simple things make a simple life. I wouldn't have it any other way.

[@YildirimSevda]

I love how you broke down the XAI401C project in your video! Can’t wait to see it skyrocket!

[@reginadavis1028]

She sounds ungrateful. You can't reset ungrateful. Smh

[@Trackpad12]

Do you live in a 1400 sqft house?

[@lordaleksandre]

Sure you can. You develop gratitude. Have you never personally developed? SmH!!1!

[@colbymann]

Just be single. Life is so much simpler

[@reginadavis1028]

@lordaleksandre not if she's been spoiled all of her life she can't, or it will be extremely difficult for her too. Like Jade said, if she's busy playing the comparison game she'll NEVER be satisfied and the goal post will ALWAYS move hence NO RESET to being ungrateful. Her poor husband will work his fingers TO THE BONE and she'll STILL want MORE!

[@fredjames9867]

He brought here love and now he paying the price

[@wendybryan6071]

We need to be happy with what we have. We aren't all the Kardashians.

[@oliviafox6745]

Not all social media. You don't borrow money or rack up credit card debt if you look at frugalitas on their KZbin channels.