Girl Chat Vault: Leading More with Love

[@krisbf]

When Loni sad “when you feel anxious watch this show” I felt that

[@gaila.9852]

Tia isn't any more black because she married a black man, and Tamera isn't any less black because she married a white man.

[@sammierose1150]

*BIG FACTS*

[@phomololekolwane8629]

I have LOL I have I need Iogu

[@phomololekolwane8629]

Vn

[@phomololekolwane8629]

LOL I have I ha ha

[@phomololekolwane8629]

LOL I have

[@deziebethel]

This is girl power and unity in diversity right here. I love this segment so much

[@gaila.9852]

I agree!

[@cheyennenicole2114]

Same!

[@shaynalavon]

"that doesn't take away my blackness" i felt the sass in that! 🖤

[@cheyennenicole2114]

Me tooooo!

[@ShareTheGospelTV]

Tony Evans once said , "racism is an insult to God's creation." Love you Tamera

[@jemimajanvier4706]

I’m going to say something very unpopular, but I think there’s a lot of truth to it. I am not originally from America, but when I immigrated I was bullied a lot by other black people because they didn’t think that I was black enough because of the way that I spoke and the things that I liked. This was so weird to me, because I grew up in Haiti, a country that is filled with other black, and not once was I made to feel that I wasn’t enough. I’ve realized that black people in America uphold a spectrum of blackness, where you’re degraded if you’re too foreign, whether in your heritage or too different in your personality. I spent so many years convincing the other black kids in my school to like me. Luckily, I’ve learned to accept myself. I have nothing wrong with black Americans, but this was my experience when I first immigrated here. I never expected that the people who looked like me would be the ones to make me an outcast.

[@serafinaobi]

Some berate you for being foreign, some berate you for not being foreign. I’m African and I was severely bullied by African Americans for not being “black acting”. So it is messed up

[@jemimajanvier4706]

stainthegemini yesss. This was my childhood in a nutshell. I literally used to practice my “black voice” so that I could be accepted.

[@gaila.9852]

Don't think that what you are saying isn't valid. Many truths can exist. I'm sorry that was your experience, and I'm glad you've gotten through it.

[@iah5423]

this comment is so important. im african & was raised in the US too and experienced the same thing from african-americans. i've never been shunned by any other group but them. no hate, just facts :/

[@heavenlandry2917]

It’s true. In America, the black community has a real problem with excluding black people if they don’t sound, look or act the same. Anything that’s different is automatically deemed as “white people sh*t”

[@gaila.9852]

I honestly feel bad for racists. They can't even comprehend that they're missing out on so many amazing, beautiful people and experiences because they judge others on the color of their skin. What a shame.

[@indigobeauty1]

I felt that!! I can't even imagine never have meeting all the non Black Amazing individuals in my life. 💚💙

[@SSBMA1994]

I don't fell bad for them, I find them annoying. You live in a world so diverse and especially online you are exposed many cultures. To me, there is no excuse to be racist, none. At least not today in such a digital world.

[@gaila.9852]

SSBMA1994 I’m definitely not saying there is an excuse to be racist.

[@SSBMA1994]

@@gaila.9852 oh, I wasn't talking about you. I was saying in general like the racist people that exist out there.. Ofc I understood what you mean and where you are coming from lol 🤣

[@gaila.9852]

SSBMA1994 Gotcha! Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[@SSBMA1994]

Btw I love the bond between Adrienne and Tamera. I watched the real a lot and I noticed only Tamera can make adrienne cry. Tamera when she gives advice, you can tell its from the heart and she is sincerely looking out for you. Tamera can feel Adriennes hurt and she felt it too and she stand up for Adrienne. Then Loni just looked at Tamera like a proud mama. This is what I call sisterhood. Everyone helping each other up and cheering each other when someone is down. This is true friendship ❤ P.s Adrienne: forget the haters, you are my spirit animal and I always love your presence on the show. Don't stop being you, the kind loving fearless amazing you🥳🙅‍♀️

[@gaila.9852]

There's no point in hating on Tam. She's happily married to someone who happens to be white, and they have two beautiful kids together. You want their family to break up or something? Get over it.

[@zoriahfrancis2270]

Gail A. Same. I don’t get the tamera hate, I don’t know her personally but I love her. She’s so pure and I hate the fact that people use her husband’s race against her.

[@gaila.9852]

@@zoriahfrancis2270 I agree with you. They should be over it by now. Seriously, what do they want to happen?

[@person8520]

@@zoriahfrancis2270 her husband is rasict

[@nette9836]

If people have a problem with her husband for being white then they are racist. Plain and simple.

[@siadara8874]

Her dad is white so they are cruel to come at her like that, she's half white

[@MajesticMyronn]

I think this discussion was one of the best ones cuz displayed here like most of the times... they always wear their hearts on their sleeves... and people always got the nerve to come hard st these four women that try their damn best to not be a representative for the entire community but be themselves... they can’t speak for everybody ! Tamera is Tamera... Loni is Loni... Jeanie is Jeannie... and Adrienne is Adrienne ! They know the minds and hearts they have as people so it can suck when you’re judged every damn for something u say and people love u one day and hate u the next based on a point or a misconstrued headline for views and likes and that can cause anybody to just shut down and be closed off and not say what they want cuz no matter what is said from whatever side of a discussion somebody will find a way to disagree and make the discussion about the person that made their point and not the discussion itself

[@SSBMA1994]

"I think its also hurtful, well, it doesn't hurt me because I don't really care about people on the Internet because they don't pay my bills." #Facts Jeanie Mai ❤👏👏

[@gaila.9852]

I always chuckle when Loni throws a tissue across the table.

[@cheyennenicole2114]

😂

[@annika2944]

this talk right here is what the show is about and has always been about. one of their most amazing talks, love you ladies x

[@J_ik]

I absolutely love these women and their friendship. Love conquers all!💖

[@yasminejasmine4368]

Please don’t call me a terrorist because I wear full niqab... ninja is cool though

[@oumouhaidara_]

Asalamwalekoum sister !

[@asiyah7714]

@aragsan lirjib thank you, they act like we don't have a choice, and that we don't know what we want. We choose to wear hijab, we choose to wear niqab. Just because you choose to be naked doesn't mean that we can't choose to be covered!!!

[@manibilley2101]

Me to!!! Xx

[@zoriahfrancis2270]

Damn, they bully Tam so much, I didn’t even know it affected her. I’m fully black and I feel some type of way when they call her the “white” twin and say they prefer Tia. Then when she doesn’t speak up, y’all still bully her.

[@zoriahfrancis2270]

Multicultural Fangirl they call her the “white” twin and call tia the “black” twin simply because she married a white man. I consider biracial people “biracial”, but black Americans use that “white twin” narrative negatively towards her.

[@gaila.9852]

How could you not know it affected her? She's human.

[@gaila.9852]

@Multicultural Fangirl C'mon now. You knew exactly what the original comment meant.

[@forroses.2445]

its like people forget Tameras dad is white

[@scarmarvel4810]

She is white. She love to talk about how Black ppl treat her different but she never mention how her white side never even gave them a chance!!!! Her white side outcasted all of them because her dad decided to sleep with her black mother. She dnt talk about THAT tho

[@zuleyka20ify]

Wow such a deep topic! Thank you ladies for speaking on it.

[@joym6629]

When tam cries, I cry 😭

[@wilfredodelgado5041]

This conversation was so needed thank you ladies 🙌🏽✨🦋🌊❤️🌸🌈🍃

[@AnaClara-sm4rl]

i love this show! the way loni looked to tam was soooo cute. the way this girls support each other is beautiful!

[@MajesticMyronn]

I appreciate every single thing that was said ! I believe when it comes to way this world is especially with all the stuff we’re seeing with Black Lives Matter at the forefront & the way people have come together no matter what race , creed , color or gender for the sake of saying they support this movement ! I’m seeing White & Latinos Police Chiefs give words of wisdom & March with citizens... I see people praying , I see people saying I can’t breathe on behalf of George Floyd’s horrific death and etc That right there is a prime example of Leading with Love

[@SamanthaN92]

I miss these 4 ladies so much!! I never understood why they needed a 5th co host. They did so well with just the 4 of them. Amanda left for a reason. She was never meant to be at the table with these ladies. Now that Tamara left, im curious to see how next season is going to be. Hopefully they bring Tisha Campbell as a permanent co host 👍 Id like to see Tisha on this show.

[@DoriDior]

I agree. The 4 of them together brought such balance and tranquility 💕

[@clarissagold1090]

Hey you reading this,hope you are staying safe...my goal it's to reach 2k and your help to get there would mean a lot...💗

[@theelolicious9302]

amanda left because these 4 snowflakes and the yt producers who tried to police her

[@gaila.9852]

I truly enjoyed Amanda's input while she was on the show. However, I think they should have just four people at the table.

[@gaila.9852]

@TheElolicious Amanda has made it clear that the hosts had nothing to do with her decision. Stop spreading lies.

[@h3artands0uLL]

This was a great segment. I’m going to miss Tam so much. It’s not going to be the same without these four together. I hope whoever the producers choose to take Tam’s place will be another lady to represent a different race: Indian, Middle Eastern, or someone mixed with a variety of races so that the panel can keep representing diversity and give other voices a chance that haven’t been there yet. Either way, Tam, I hope you come back as a special guest so many times it’ll feel like you never left ♥️

[@gaila.9852]

I love this comment! Thanks for spreading positivity.

[@sarahcijntje5067]

Chileeeee This baby blue color of munchkin's suit😍😍😍 Sooo damn gorgeous😍😍😍 And Tam is also slaying

[@gaila.9852]

Aww, Adrienne hardly tears up.

[@tamerilee]

When y’all see that bsb troll with all the TaMaga comments, REPORT THEM!!

[@gaila.9852]

I second this!!!!! I am so tired of the bitterness.

[@Mamdrmamdr]

Wish they would’ve had this convo when Amanda was on cause she got bullied THE MOST for speaking her truth. Yet they all kept quiet about it

[@MajesticMyronn]

bsbgirl85 They literally are work friends they even said that this season 😂😂 they like working together hence why they made it so far cuz the chemistry is real lol

[@gaila.9852]

How did they keep quiet? They addressed it on the show more than once.

[@rhon715]

I agree stop with the labeling....includung the "karen" label. So immature and rascist. Tamera, you are such an authentic, beautiful soul. Do not let those of ignorant, cruel hearts dull your shine or silence your voice. You are such a positive light in this world. All races are beautiful and I believe biracial is especially beautiful, because it shows how 2 souls got passed society's ignorance, and saw each other for WHO THEY ARE, and loved each other for their authenticity. I will miss you so much on TheReal. You bring so much love, acceptance and sincerity to it. God bless you and your beautiful famiy Tamera.

[@aamarmanor8490]

How is Karen racist?

[@kberry6564]

Adrienne’s hair is so pretty here

[@jessicajax5109]

I needed to hear this🙏 struggling with depression and I needed to hear this from my idols.🙌

[@ReemThearab]

I love these ladies. They all have beautiful souls. They have amazing styles and they are all such sweethearts. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DoriDior]

Love this! Love wins every time 🧡

[@dess887]

Hurt people will always want to hurt others and tear others down to make themselves feel better. The irony is they cannot see that true self healing comes from focusing on and giving love.

[@catherinejohnson9555]

This Episode is a missed Emmy award Right here!!!! Jeanie's beginning Eloquently blew me away, (while simultaneously) instantly Glued me to the video!!! Then the video... this was honest, real true true magical moments that happened here!!! Such beautifully spoken words we're used herein again and again!!! So INCREDIBLE!!!!! Soooooooo MAGICICAL and Incredibly Blessed to get the chance to come across this video!!!!!!

[@dianaelizabeth2324]

ADRIENNE SPEAKING ALL FACTS BUT SOME PEOPLE THAT ARE STILL ON DEFENSE MODE AREN'T READY FOR THIS CONVO.

[@yasminejasmine4368]

TamTam noooooooo.......😭 hate it when she cries about these things...

[@franslinem]

Damn, I felt this episode in my soul! Thank you ladies ❤❤ much love!!!

[@faridahnakayemba1496]

Jennie and Adrienne u killed lt today the look is amazing

[@kristeninglesby3964]

❤️ this conversation , tam at the end, I cried , it was so powerful

[@quailbanks4483]

Tamara is so smart by making the moves she made to get here but we can't lose too many😂

[@iah5423]

@@Lacey424 wait i dont get it explain lol :p

[@iah5423]

you mean like being non-political?

[@quailbanks4483]

Bruh she's for the street😤👃💧

[@mball-enhlengcobo1481]

Im not crying you are...😭😭touching

[@magicalrealm3972]

You guys are amazing, and I love you all. Focus on the positive and ignore negativity.

[@jayyysworld9242]

“Not the bayang” 😭😭😭😫

[@hopemcgee1003]

I love you ladies so much, keep on being great!!!

[@mikaelabarrett9802]

I feel like Loni loves Tamera more than Tamera’s own mother. I love that. I would too.

[@SoshiStars]

*All the ladies do get hate sadly, definitely Tamera gets the most but I think that’s because she’s the most well known on the show, “the more famous you are the most opinions you’ll have”* I think that’s one of the many reasons why she left the show

[@gaila.9852]

I love this conversation so much.

[@jll1357]

10:12 loni is always ready ❤️😭

[@arisquad9618]

I liked this video 💕🔥👑

[@dawnnguray903]

Great discussion ladies 💜

[@indigobeauty1]

I personally would Never read the comments if I was famous but I'm not sure how realistic that is 😕.

[@XxMimiYasxX]

Think ppl find Tamera :/ cos of the type of white man she married. Adam has tweeted some sideways things about Trayvon Martin and other issues surrounding black ppl and Tam has never addressed it But has stood up for him and in the past tweeted things like “love me some interracial love too” under a “black love” post that may b why people say she’s mentally the white twin ...

[@XxMimiYasxX]

bsbgirl85 which is so crazy Cos Tia spoke about how her white family shunned them cos they were half black so Tameras appeal to a whiter crowed is so odd. Anyway, the way she’s out of touch with why people find her problematic is mad esp cos she thinks it’s cos she’s with a white man...Eve is with a white man and no one drags her Cos her man isn’t out here saying ignorant things and she’s not standing by it. Maybe the wifey material title has gotten to Tameras head and thinks she gotta always stand behind her man no matter what he says.

[@hannahfbiggley0793]

Loni looks so proud of Tamera when she said even though she married a white man it doesn't take away her blackness

[@asmabegum8824]

I love you ladies. You are my one thing that brings me love and joy. Keep spreading happiness x love you sisters from another mister X

[@baileybourque864]

I freaking LOVE all these women, so much.

[@tianamarie1995]

Yes jeannie❤️ I also agree with loni ❤️❤️

[@shashavengesayi6055]

I'm gonna miss Tamera. I think Garcelle will mall make an excellent addition to the show

[@Sonia-gi2iw]

This conversation would have been completely different if Amanda was there, just saying

[@Sonia-gi2iw]

@MAPULE VELLY Mampuru more negative. She has previously said she is against conversation, as Jeannie is saying on this clip

[@sandykhosa570]

Jeannie looks beautiful ❤️😍😍

[@fidelisobiajuru9451]

The slim girl on black dress is really passionate on what she's saying...

[@buttercupsthehotone1419]

Geez I'm crying I'm gonna miss Tamera

[@venusmoodie4874]

I swear Tamera is always drawing out my tears girl stop it. It's like Loni said ppl out there are crazy we gotta learn to be respectful even when we disagree

[@jaylachambliss2043]

The main issue people have with Tamera has nothing to do with her being married to a white man. It's the fact that she has been more quiet and tip toed around issues concerning black people. There is no reason Jeanine and Adrienne should be more vocal and outward when it comes to racism against black people. Tamera has rarely added anything to the conversation of race besides that she is married to Adam. I shouldn't see Justice for Breonna Taylor on Jeanines and Adriennes IG and not on Tamera's, who claim to be a strong and proud black woman. That's the problem.

[@gaila.9852]

Actually, your first statement is false. Many are bothered that she's with a white man. Others are (also) bothered by what you've described. I've heard Tamera speak up quite a few times over the past few months on her IG.

[@iah5423]

she's afraid of the backlash tbh that lots of biracial people get. think she knows about her own experiences and how to move forward than you do for her. she's grown! i'm a black girl & i don't need to post about breonna taylor on instagram to show people that i don't know that I care about social justice. maybe she's like me: keeps her opinions to people that matter to her. no hate, no smoke, just life. get over it sis, we don't know her

[@jaylachambliss2043]

@@iah5423 lol girl..don't tell me what I need to get over. I said what I said. Tamera has a HUGE platform that she should use to speak on against issues especially like Breonna Taylor's! Again, I SAID WHAT I SAID.

[@jaylachambliss2043]

@@gaila.9852 Actually my first statement is true bc I said its not the MAIN reason. And posting a picture is not speaking up.

[@gaila.9852]

@@jaylachambliss2043 I've seen just as many haters on both sides. Also, I said "heard." She's spoken about it.

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Hi edagdwg when god bless you with a forever love no matter what race god is always around Being yourself sharing time with others from a another country living a real life is real love is soooooo real to enjoy other people linda j. Peace

[@troylobatongustilo989]

Is this a new episode, i miss the real so much. With just the four of them.

[@MadisonPettway_]

It’s an older episode!

[@pymkjewels1449]

J’adore les entendre parler meme si je ne comprends pas tout ce Qu’elle dise, J’adore L’émission !😃

[@jahcurec8736]

Good talk ladies, only who feels it knows.

[@NewCreationInChrist896]

Seek God daily.💕 John 3:16-17 Romans 10:9

[@irakayeestrada5077]

Adrienne look stunning... my goodness

[@yenitaylor683]

I love this segment

[@octavia8942]

Jeannie saying ”blacks” 🤣❤️ I love her so much but I’m wheezing.

[@gaila.9852]

I honestly hate that.

[@dangilymarine9930]

I’m going to miss Tamera 😔

[@randoomly39484]

That was real for real 😔

[@larayaandrews6228]

Maybe I’m being sensitive but Jeannie saying “blacks” is .... 😕

[@gaila.9852]

Don't worry; you're not being sensitive. I cringe when people say that.

[@afqhansoul]

u know I get and agree with everything they are saying but when jeannie mai said the thing about being called the asian girl... I mean if I didn't know your name or couldn't remember I would've referred to u as that too... I never thought theres a problem with that...just because someone says the asian girl that doesn't need to be taken as an insult... You are asian, and you are the only asian one amongst the girls there.... so whats wrong with saying that? saying that doesn't seem to be rude in any way....

[@user-om8lu4nq4v]

It'll never be a victim of racism's job to educate racists. Never.

[@heroncabo3756]

Hello good 😷🙏🙏🇧🇷 abençoada por Deus paz no mundo ok respeito educação ok

[@tainagutierrez8622]

If jennie leaves this show im done

[@lamarjohnson4035]

San Jose for life!

[@pinkbailey7829]

This feel good tv is pre amanda lol. She be leading with hatred

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Hi edagdwg Miss A. Is soooooo extra she likes to sound like she cares sad pay attention to what you say to people linda j. Peace

[@shykhiaruchanivictoriawalk6707]

I thought Ms Tamera left the real. Unless this was pre recorded

[@cristinalebron4077]

If you ever see them post and it says Girl Chat Vault then it is from a previous taping, whether it was taped months ago or from last year.

[@sophiapierre8233]

Wedding dress rings Sophia. Church ⛪️ Emmanuel a very Pierre birthday 🎉

[@sophiapierre8233]

Love ❤️. Sophia church ⛪️

[@sophiapierre8233]

Love ❤️. Emmanuel a very Pierre

[@hannahgoad628]

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[@kilaj4390]

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[@johntom1327]

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[@abdulark2514]

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[@azekiaelise9338]

So you think solving Racism is hating on white people and calling them names?No, that's also racism. Be the change you wish to see!

[@jeromebaxter2987]

13:05

[@zimkhithaxauka8666]

Good thing there was no Corona then😂wouldn't be comfortable with anyone holding my child that close

[@bellevie2918]

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[@ria_pseudovev0386]

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