Should Men Be Asking for Permission to Pucker Up?

Amid the #MeToo era of dating, should a man ask for permission before laying on a kiss? Is it just better to be safe than sorry? Plus, would you rather be called sexy or beautiful? Guess which one of us would rather be sexy!
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[@thandekamangwiro8562]

The bi panic of everyone in the episode is my fav thing 😂

[@venusdabratt]

!!!😂

[@kamrontimothylibertone]

As a man, I have found it safer to ask to kiss a woman in a charming and/or flirty way instead of going straight for the kiss. Basically, Adrienne explained it quite well. 👍

[@phoebecasey6920]

My first boyfriend always asked(before we had our first kiss) because he could tell I was uncomfortable. I found it really sweet and considerate. I didn't want to have my first kiss around other people and in general, was just nervous him asking gave me the power I guess and it comforted me a lot. I think when it is a first kiss or someone you don't know as well or at all you should ask.

[@meaganbianca2978]

I prefer beautiful. I don’t like being called sexy because of that exact definition given at the beginning. Hearing Tam talking almost made me cry. I recently realized I never considered myself sexy. The rest of the girls noticed her voice and I don’t think they meant to cut her off it’s just they couldn’t stand hearing her sound nervous/sad

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

Same I agree. Whenever a guy calls me sexy I know instantaneously he wants to sleep with me and 10 times out of 10 I’m right. Hate to bring race into it but some black men do this to me aaaallllllllllll the time😐 they think it’s a compliment because they’ve done it before to other women and they like it. This one guy he couldn’t have made it any more clear he wanted to F me. He tried to hide the fact that he was married and just recently had a baby. Red flags went off. He wife was dating someone and he wanted to date to and get back at her in a way. I saw a car seat in the back and I never saw him again. He lied about having a 10 month old. How you just had a baby and you looking to have sex with another woman. Found out he had several baby mothers and he found out his daughter wasn’t his. Most men try to mask things with sex so they can feel desired and cover up the pain but that’s the very same reason why he was in that mess in the first place. People think just because they find me attractive or beautiful or sexy that I think the same and it’s the opposite. I used to have the lowest self esteem because of things men and my father said about me. He would tell me if you think you all that god is going to take your looks from you. He hated himself and didn’t have hair, eyebrows or teeth 😐😂😂😂 so he hated anyone with confidence. He abused my mother and she passed because of it. He didn’t and me er made her feel sexy, he shaved off her hair and eyebrows and she stayed having blood shot black eyes. He treated her so horrible. Beating all over her body with with belts ropes cable wires. He hates women. He feels that a woman shouldn’t be beautiful. When he saw me modeling on tv he had something to say about that and I was a grown ass woman. He tries still to this day to paint this picture of me as if I’m some loose woman just like he did my mother but he’s the insecure one and sleeping with several woman and he’s never made anything of his life, 73 still being a player. I’ve had men tell me and even some women that I should be glad I’m being called sexy or they say people call you that all the time just take because one day you’ll be old. And they’ll stop looking. I don’t care if they look now. I’m not no Ayesha curry or Meaghan good,. I’m confide in who I am and I don’t look for a man to define me or societal beauty pressure. I know who I am in Gods eyes! Sexy is internal. Doesn’t have to mean sexy to get laid. I don’t need penis that bad 😐😁 that I care what a man thinks or his fleshly desires.

[@Truther1903]

JEANIES SCREAM 😂😂 I am CRYING

[@fumanejafta8515]

Am I the only one who still watches the real even though it’s no longer on air?

[@jayjanzee9059]

I used to feel highly offensive when being called sexy while living in NYC. Not sure if Adrienne has ever experienced this, but men there are extremely vulgar and say whatever is on their minds. Being called sexy there lacks the serenity that being called sexy in Ohio brings. Now living in Ohio, I find that men wait to see that you are in fact interested in them before calling you sexy, which shows respect and courtesy. It feels a lot better to be called sexy from a partner or an attractive friend than from a random stranger

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

Amen! I’m from New York and I can attest to this.. I’m in Texas and the men are different here. The southern hospitality but some I fought them taking a peep 👀 👀😁😁😁 men in New York and New Jersey and even California can be very sexual and vulgar and they’d rather test drive you than court you… black guys do this to me all the time… hate to bring race into this.

[@RTA6226]

President Obama asked Michelle if he could kiss her. That was the second or third date. This was also before the #MeToo movement. I don't see that as weak. We know how much swag he has! 💘

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

I think a gentleman will ask it's important to know how a person feel before kissing them

[@novemberr_]

Lani had to say Adrienne has a crush on Tam?😭🤣

[@anwaaraldehani1561]

This season 👆🏻 I JUST LOVED ALL JEANNIE LOOKS! Gorgeous 🤍

[@thequeen3834]

No it’ll ruin the moment. I think it all depends on the mood and you should be able to tell if the kiss is welcomed or not

[@kathleenweinberg6442]

Just what genie Mai said beauty is within and no matter who you are always feel sexy no matter what it's about you

[@bangervlogs8751]

Lol Adrianne saying she’s so left out ! So funny

[@akymrinkovsky289]

Hello ladies 💐... Okay so as a rule, a guys should never-lean-in more than (80%) As it has always been given, that if she is interested in you. She will make up the other (20%). Personally, sometimes, i will lean-in & just say "kiss me" & that can work too 🤗 Thus 80% to 20%

[@chezzehead]

OMG!!! So funny Loni did that cant believe it. I love this show down to earth and fun. 😊☮💜💫✝️🙏🏾😳🤣

[@ric3939]

Was Adrienne about to say yes to Tamera🤣 this clip is just filled with🏳️‍🌈.....I know it's just playing...but🤔

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

I get what Tamera is saying because check her demeanor and how she’s not all out there. Im a cancer and I get it. At times I have felt sexy when I was with someone I cared about and they brought that out of me but I don’t wake up and do selfies, like most women and the whole makeup thing and clothes. This is why I quit modeling and acting I couldn’t do it. It’s very superficial and I’m the type I want you to feel me and my emotions not pay attention to my looks. I could never be a Meagan good. Some women love being sexy 24/7. They really love themselves like that. It’s kind of vain. And in this industry you gotta be vain lol.

[@yokimawhittaker9252]

Tamera I love your top!💜

[@GiveHerFlowers]

I prefer beautiful and not sexy. I’m over being sexy unless it’s for my future husband. Beautiful isn’t just about physical, it’s an aura.

[@Thewifelife40]

I love this!!! I agree! I don't want just any man saying I'm sexy, especially because of how they say it but I love love love love when my husband says it to me. I prefer to be called beautiful, and it doesn't have to be about looks. I love your outlook❤❤❤

[@GiveHerFlowers]

@@Thewifelife40 Exactly! 😊 In my opinion, beautiful is something you radiate and sexy is a feeling of attraction you invoke in someone. I want to invoke that in my man but not in anyone else! Lol. I always find myself saying pretty, stunning, or gorgeous when it’s just about a woman’s physical looks. But when I say, oh wow she is beautiful, it’s more than just your aesthetics. It’s your spirit and aura.

[@Thewifelife40]

@@GiveHerFlowers Boom! Period!💛

[@yokimawhittaker9252]

He doesn't have to ask. Just lean in and get it honey 😜😂

[@emmavari9530]

Please always ask!! Not everyone are the same, some girls get frozen when they feel intimidated and can’t do normal reaction

[@lalosalamanca8574]

Your a liar that not what you want. A real man dosen't asking permission to kiss he goes in for the kiss. If the girl moves its rejection. So you move on to the next women who won't reject you. Your pushing this false narrative to suit your wierd agenda. Dont lie that's not how it works

[@lalosalamanca8574]

Maybe your agenda is for men to chase you like some mindless dogs. Like men dont have lives. The worst thing a man can do is ask for permission. It kills the romantic vibe and the spark. Maybe your too stupid to understand that

[@gracedunn2012]

I would rather a man ask me. A guy kissed me on the cheek once without my permission, and I got really upset about it because technically, that was my first kiss, and I wanted it to be a special thing. I didn’t talk to him for 6 months after that. I would rather be asked because then I would know what’s about to happen and be able to (somewhat) wrap me head around it.

[@kennyray4883]

Great topic

[@Iknowyoumadnow]

When you thought the title said phuck

[@CJ-dg3bm]

Adrianne is so cute😊

[@juliannesharpe3066]

SERIOUSLY: They have crushes on each other? Hmmmmm....

[@alayna1242]

Did no one notice the lowkey shade jeannie threw at adrienne? No wonder Tamar didn't like her...now she's gone, there's no one to keep jeannie in check.

[@yokimawhittaker9252]

That's true💯

[@diannematthews4436]

I like a guy old fashion way be perlite ask can he kiss open doors for u an said u beautyfull.that the right way. Like the real lady's have a bless day.🙂

[@ShalayKyles]

The man asking permission is him showing you respect. If y’all become a couple and he continue to ask then I’d start feeling like he’s weak

[@zidijaan786]

Emotions. Nice emotion is good.

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Gm edagdwg I love what Jeanny said and Loni pay attention to what you do and say to anyone children to being yourself is a real gift from god soooooo blessed to feel true love everyday linda j. Peace

[@manasseh7777]

Beauty

[@teetawn9454]

Loni messin up these ladies make up... for what??? Wow!!

[@jamesn3999]

Man I miss Tam!!!!!

[@billucf96]

I never asked for consent. Body language tells me what she wants. I give her exactly what she wants. Pretty simple.

[@zidijaan786]

Love a lady character feels nice sensitivity and sadness and worry and protectiveness over the sexy people if they are sexy and nice.

[@Thewifelife40]

😂😂😂Adrienne thinks everyone likes what she likes. I wouldn't like being asked in that way...I prefer the lean in, if you are dating you should be able to feel out how that person feels.

[@brittneyrenea210]

💜💜💜💜

[@RTA6226]

Tamera looks like she was gonna throw up!

[@ramzyy5362]

I ain’t kissing or asking to kiss girls have to make the first moves

[@zidijaan786]

Should men be asking permission for a kiss? Marriage.

[@8luvbug]

11:04 11:22

[@zidijaan786]

McDonald’s oooo! Is what type of American culture? I think African American? Because I think barbeque meat is African

[@zidijaan786]

Selfishness a character a lady loves herself hates errybody else everyone should hate her back fictional story

[@zidijaan786]

Bash love and sleep with and worship and be woooped by the selfishness done. Fictional story. Now selfishness loves herself and hates everyone else and everyone hates her too. Errybody else loves one another.

[@michellemayela6086]

8:20