Do Men Want Weak-Minded Women?

[@TheRealDaytime]

Do Men Want Weak-Minded Women?

[@TheAlkebulanTrust]

No men especially Apha males want a woman that is in her nature that is feminine. Feminine don't men weak when it comes to women. Feminine is only weak when a man acts feminine as he is not in his nature being masculine.

[@annatar6453]

Strong men like feminine and submissive women that doesn't give him a headache from constant arguing and nagging.

[@ceterisparibus8966]

@@annatar6453 You must be one of those women that are always arguing and nagging. 🤣

[@jcbentleyalley154]

@@TheAlkebulanTrust im feminine n I'm not weak.

[@agustinaespinola3448]

They want weak minded women to control and manipulate them. That means that the man himself is weak

[@tamerilee]

To me a weak man/woman is someone without a strong sense of self or boundaries and will compromise just to have a partner

[@lighteningsnips]

Spot on 👏

[@lala-091-m7s]

@@bsbgirl85 you have serious issues

[@melissalitus8879]

Facts. Someone who has low self esteem and will settle for any man just to show people she has one 💯

[@hollyshropshire6458]

Or be overly dependent on a man, it’s important for two people to have their own identity even if in a relationship. Not to loose yourself

[@SarahR2D2]

@@bsbgirl85 Bet you are unhappily single

[@limonade0]

I agree with Lonnie, I was thinking the same. Why do we say "weak-minded". I think it is about submissive versus dominant. Two dominants either succeed or clash same as two submissive who will either relate or clash. It's human qualities. Some people want to be submissive and some want to be dominant in a relationship. If a man don't want to be with you it's just that the heart wants what it wants and why are you an option in the first place to a man. If the woman came after and he left then good, they deserve each other.

[@randomcommenter1237]

This is really harmful rhetoric. It encourages women to size each other up as weak or strong when, in a situation like this, they’re BOTH being manipulated. It’s classic triangulation where a man pits two women against each other and they hate each other instead of hating the person putting them in that situation to begin with - HIM

[@haryel5058]

Thanks you. Being whatever woman doesn’t remove the fact that he was playing both of you even though you the one who’s still won. Women can be gullible sometimes 🙄

[@margaritamcdaniel3476]

Farah, Agreed! Thank you! I’ve been screaming that for years! Men have put women against each other and women still fall into that trap today. Women should be empowering one another, encouraging, uplifting, promoting etc. Not tearing each other down. Not jealous of another woman’s beauty or success. Women are worse on each other and more critical Of one another than men are of us. So sad. And this video demeans women. Why are we even discussing this topic? Why are we even considering for one moment what men prefer? This should bring outrage in your soul. My husband loves me for who I am. FOR WHO I CHOOSE TO BE. His opinion is always duly noted but never a deciding factor in my life. I make my choices about my values and ethics and personality for myself. He makes choices that have to do with his person and ethics and values for himself. WE make choices that complement, encourage, and uplift each other’s values and ethics and personalities TOGETHER.

[@BetterDeath]

Alpha Female = Masculine Women No dude wanna but up with that headache and compete with they girl 😂

[@queenbbeaute2654]

Facts just because ur loud and aggressive don't mean u not weak mentality

[@Carlyon100]

Loni preaching todayyyy!!! Men want strong but feminine women same way women want sensitive but manly men. In other words stay in your lane boo and do you.

[@lighteningsnips]

👏

[@husniwazir9006]

now you preaching 👏

[@tovah8841]

Yesssssss ... You IS smart...

[@walterbrown798]

Loni Love need some spiritual healing if she's that toxic towards black men I'm waiting till James her white boyfriend can put up with her attitude and then he's going to be a dog law about to attack his master !

[@MY6797A]

@@walterbrown798 I've never heard her saying anything bad though about black men... Maybe you just don't like her.

[@tamerilee]

If the man/woman isn’t SURE about you then they’re not for you, NEXT CASE 👩🏾‍⚖️

[@antoinettejohnson2188]

Facts

[@zanellemutoko4372]

My prayer is to get a strong man because Lord knows I need one.

[@faithM828]

All the best dear 🤗🤗

[@CatLover7112]

Say That Ish... I would definitely prefer a Strong Minded Man.

[@mfonabasiikpeikpe1929]

Guuuuurl 🙌🏾 same here. If a man is intimidated by my confidence, then he's definitely not for me. 🙄

[@queenbbeaute2654]

U need to be in ur feminine energy to attract one if not u will only attract feminine-beta men

[@ribbitquack]

Yes Loni! Stop with the labels. People and situations are unique, you cannot label a whole group of people based one personality trait.

[@CatLover7112]

True....

[@queenchels7669]

I honestly hate the label, weak, because it's weaponized. Just understand that WE are all human with value and purpose NOT ONE person is better or stronger or weaker than the next.

[@karlenewilliams9353]

Amen.

[@ashtonv1730]

Thank you for this!! I agree.

[@dannyheart6607]

Love this! Totally agree

[@Luigucci117]

Weak mindset

[@queenbbeaute2654]

Facts because weak can be used for anything there are plenty of weak aggressive masculine women

[@SamanthaN92]

Jeannie and Garcelle looking like beautiful school teachers 🤣❤️❤️❤️

[@joycedominguez1828]

They all look great. I wonder if they have a glam squad. Make them wear a mask.

[@SamanthaN92]

@@joycedominguez1828 I think I heard Adrienne saying she does her own makeup. She looks very glam here. Like someone you would see at a fancy gathering at an art gallery 😂 And Loni looks like a hot cowgirl! 🤣🤣🤣👍

[@nialapin]

Loni is right, these labels aren't right. Besides in one segment they'll say "Be strong, stand up for yourself. A man is going to treat you how you allow them to treat you." then in the next segment will say "You're too strong, be soft and let your man lead you. You don't always have to be so strong, it's unappealing." Like... women can't win no matter what. How about just value yourself and don't bother thinking about men and centering your behavior and world around them? Men are gonna do what they do, nobody is worth all of this headache and all of these standards and rules that are really just nonsense anyway. Communicate, be mature and honest and try to be kind and cause as little harm as possible and beyond that whatever happens happens and it's not always gonna be your fault or his fault.

[@lighteningsnips]

Well said

[@babasolaosikoya5947]

I agree with this. Communication is key.

[@Joy-ut6yi]

PREACH SIS!

[@christinamounts2375]

Exactly! Live your life. Don’t put up with trash and don’t be trash! Simple.

[@lighteningsnips]

@@christinamounts2375 👏

[@pppsss77]

People have different personalities, depends on how you define weak. Some people perceived as weak have powerful abilities that the world can't see till you get to know them

[@babasolaosikoya5947]

Exactly

[@niarijewels9828]

Wow! Powerfull words...so true! 🙌

[@MacyHarrell]

What she’s saying is the strong woman is going to hold him accountable when doing his dirt

[@ellandecampbell6279]

There's a big difference between strong and controlling. A strong person expresses their opinions, but accepts the fact that the other person may disagree (& is willing to compromise when necessary). Controlling is, "This is what I think, so you better fall in line (or else)."

[@Prosper927]

💯👌🏿

[@Teetee_joliee]

Jeanie sounding like Adrienne when she first got married lool. And she doesn’t beat around the bush anymore

[@lashondarochell7584]

I am a feminine woman and submissive the bible says about how a contentious woman makes a man want to go on his rooftop of the house, no man wants a combative woman, And I am not a weak woman by no means.

[@lashondarochell7584]

@Truth Teller What you said has no affect on me

[@marioher4978]

@@lashondarochell7584 And what that lil' old book you call the bible has no effect on me

[@lashondarochell7584]

@@marioher4978 Go away

[@25fadeaway]

Who wants to have a relationship with someone you have to "handle"? People want a fun peaceful, loving , kind , respectful relationship. Usually when someone says a man can't handle a strong woman it's usually because that person is bossy, controlling, hard-headed ,violent and they need someone who can handle that level of crazy. Let's be honest, when was the last time you heard a man say that a woman can't handle a strong man? Usually that person's pretty abusive and toxic.

[@babe8917]

I have to agree. You do not have to be meek or anything but giving off that I don’t need a man, I am independent, don’t tell me what to do. You can’t disrespect me but I can vibe is not alluring. A lot of women became more masculine because they thought that is how you win. I mean it is good to be independent but don’t bash or belittle a person or rather a man because he has a 9 to 5. Also be realistic. I know how I look, I know my social status. My looks won’t get me a Tyson Beckford. And I know I don’t live or work in an environment were I could meet or interact with some rich guy. That is not bashing myself. I am just realistic.

[@CatLover7112]

True & agree...

[@joannamonique707]

Exactly. Do what works for you. Anything that is too much work is probably toxic. Still must keepbin mind that a person who is "difficult" with you can be very compromising with someone else. Different people bring out different sides in us.

[@queenbbeaute2654]

Facts but some women need to something to make themselves feel good about even when reality smacks them right in the face ..if ur woman and single its for a reason not because a man can't handle u ...ur not a animal

[@emk4593]

I think the stronger woman will leave first if u messing with another woman💯

[@lotuswolf1518]

Stronger woman will leave at slightest signs of non sense, weak women will stay just to be in a relationship

[@zamkwagala9807]

I agree.

[@patriciajones4622]

Facts!!! If she can't leave right away due to her situation (ex: marriage), she is surly making an exit strategy.

[@jyn88]

@@lotuswolf1518 Are you saying the beloved Queen Bey is a weak woman for staying?

[@lotuswolf1518]

@@jyn88 yup ofc so is Beyonce so is Hilary

[@Gheuns3251]

Jeanie is a smart women . 🔥 Let’s everyone give their opinion. Then drops that knowledge 🤯👏🏽

[@karlenewilliams9353]

With topics like these, whenever Adrienne talks about a man not wanting to be with you or a particular woman, it can sound real harsh. My feelings be lowkey hurt for no reason lol. It must be that New York in her. Super real. Super blunt. Love her tho! I lowkey want a friend like that.

[@rebeccat6825]

To me a weak woman is a girl. Someone who is fully dependant on people, has no standards and would except it all, cheating, abuse etc. Someone that NEEDS you A strong woman is a woman who doesn’t NEED you but WANTS you. She won’t stand for being treated less than she deserves because she knows her self worth and isn’t afraid to stand up for herself

[@cha9165]

I have been preaching this for the longest time

[@evelyng8923]

We all have our weaknesses and strengths. No one is better than the other. It's ultimately an emotional decision humans make on who we share energies with. Chemistry is undeniable. We go where we feel good.

[@TheLandingFlights]

But, Jeannie said that long before she got married.. I'm strong in many areas of my life...so, I don't mind being submissive to my husband....people dragged her on social media... but, full circle.. Nothing is wrong for a strong woman to be led by her husband

[@queenbbeaute2654]

It's not but to attract a leader men u must be in ur natural feminine woman energy they are not attracted to masculine bossy aggressive controlling women

[@melindasaddler559]

Just because you are Cooperative doesn't mean that you're weak. I think a guy wants someone who has a good energy and is not domineering. He doesn't want somebody with masculine energy.

[@kanikagaral7637]

I have seen plenty of men with domineering women. Who looks as feminine as they come. They will tolerate anything these women do. And reject a girl who is nice and sweet. So no it is not about feminine or masculine energy.

[@melindasaddler559]

@@kanikagaral7637 yeah the key word is tolerated. But are they really happy?

[@joannamonique707]

Part of the problem is that people think being controlling is "masculine." Being more dominant might be masculine, but being an arrogant asshole who refuses to compromise with others at all is toxic wether you're male or female.

[@joannamonique707]

@@melindasaddler559 there are men in the world who like aggressive women and women who like passive men and there is nothing wrong with that.

[@melindasaddler559]

@@joannamonique707 honestly that sounds like a toxic relationship.

[@luckylife116]

Jeanie has a pretty “lawyer” look.

[@veronicaivanova]

As someone who works in a law firm, I have a couple of things to say/ask: 1) What do you consider as a "lawyer" look? and 2) If you refer to the traditional lawyer image, no, she doesn't 🙂

[@justbu3797]

Regardless of which one you are every man is not going to want to be with you. Women can't force men to want to be with them. Some men appreciate strong women and some think some women do too much. IF HE REALLY LOVES the woman he will probably compromise.

[@inyourface9674]

They really contradict themselves except Jeannie. I remember in an older segment in winter Jeannie said she wants to be submissive using the explanation of being always in control in her career, but wants to to do different in her private life. Adrienne talked so much about how independent every woman should be blabla and how old fashionend the mindset of being submissive is just to bring up in this segment what Jeannie said earlier. But whatever :D

[@helenmayberry6010]

I agree...Jeannie's the only real one, Garcelle stays true to herself.. I don't always agree..Loni..I believe speaks what she feels...Adrienne 's a big flip flopper..always using "evolved" when she changes her mind...and that's fine..at some point..."STAND FOR SOMETHING"

[@anellamorrison738]

Don't care if you are a strong or a week woman a men will leave if he want too. I will say women have to love themselves and know who they by themselves. and stop trying to please man because some man not even please with themselves. it because they choose not to say it. women love yourself for who you are because don't care how you are beautiful are smart or in good shape. some man will still cheat on you love you for you.maybe you not in the share you like to be in but still love you. and if you choose to work on yourself do it for you not for no men.

[@ft8078]

❤❤❤❤

[@ChatiseE]

so sweet

[@ikeilajackson7884]

People are definitely missing the point. The post is saying, a (weak) man will choose a weak woman over a strong woman. He wants a woman he can run over and manipulate as opposed to a woman that will speak up and hold him accountable.

[@bruceleeroy8302]

Loni hit the nail on the head. Sometimes, being strong is not the compliment you think it is. Men don't want a woman who is hard-headed and wants to always compete with him. Let him be the man.

[@ceterisparibus8966]

Nice dog whistle, misogynist.

[@bruceleeroy8302]

@@ceterisparibus8966 Boo hoo! I don't care about your faux victimization. It's okay for them to call women _weak-minded_ but it's misogynist to say you don't want a partners to fill different roles?

[@ceterisparibus8966]

@@bruceleeroy8302 Boo hoo! I don't need you to care about anything, misogynist. They didn't call women weak-minded, in fact they stated very strongly that no women were weak-minded, even if they wanted to be coy and submissive to their their male spouses. Since you obviously watched the video you should've known this. But, then again, I doubt you're honest enough to admit that. I shouldn't have had to buttress this nonsensical comment from you, but I did it very lucidly, with facts. Not to mention that your red herring had nothing to do with the issue I pointed out about your comment.

[@bruceleeroy8302]

@@ceterisparibus8966 Okay you just want to argue. I'll just agree with you, can you go away now?

[@ceterisparibus8966]

@@bruceleeroy8302 Wow, all of a sudden, you like what I'm saying? That was fast! What are the things you agree with me on?

[@Nique1986]

I agree with all the ladies sometimes it’s just that your not a good fit together and it might not have anything to do with weak minded or strong minded !!!!

[@caylachristian5635]

The point was a “weak” man will more than likely choose a “weak” woman. Meaning a yes girl who doesn’t push him to be better. A “weak” minded woman can choose a man like that as well. Someone who is secure in themselves doesn’t have a problem being with someone who holds them accountable. Not controlling but an accountability partner. I don’t know why everyone is acting like “people only choose what they want”... no sometimes people choose what is easiest at the time until they grow up. So the statement isn’t incorrect it really just depends on the person. I personally don’t want someone who doesn’t push me to be better and let me push them to be better. That’s only me some people don’t prefer that and that’s okay!

[@caylachristian5635]

Opposites do attract sometimes though so it’s not always the case. You can me strong minded and love a passive person but if it comes down to choosing sometimes the passive person may just seem “easier to deal with” at the time.

[@marcellusbarnes4752]

"Not controlling but an accountability partner." Reverse the sexes and ask yourself how that sounds to you.

[@caylachristian5635]

@@marcellusbarnes4752 Both ways. I want someone to hold me accountable and I want someone who will allow me to hold them accountable. Growth on both ends is the goal for me personally.

[@norbertdelicieux1454]

I like jeannie every topic she makes more since than all of them.she seems smarter to.

[@humilis42]

I agree with Garcelle. The other’s read too much into this story. Weak men do choose weak women. A man will tell you that. I have male friends who broke this down to me. They (men) struggle with self esteem issues quietly. This is why you see a lot of them with women they are not happy with. They want to feel better about who they are by choosing women who allow them to feel good about being a man. They struggle with a strong minded successful woman because she challenges them to be better and some of them just simply don’t know how. The weaker minded woman does nothing but accept their behavior and never makes them think about being and doing better. So they think it’s okay to never change. That their behavior is normal. Ask men, they try will tel you exactly how they are. We women just don’t listen. 🤦🏽‍♀️ I had a friend tell me once that his girlfriend does whatever he tells her to do. “She’s weak” were his exact words. Yet he had been in a relationship with her for 6 years and they live with each other. He was explaining why he’s nowhere near ready to propose to her. Sad story. She’s wasting her youth on him.

[@illuminata8097]

A lotta men are looking for a mother not a wife.

[@invisiblepaper9400]

Vice versa...if you father didn’t spend money on you...neither will i

[@illuminata8097]

@@invisiblepaper9400 Who’s talking about money

[@pearlynoloyede6368]

How many times must they have this conversation?

[@phillipswatson3452]

😹MEOW😹 OK

[@moyahabothoka8634]

Loni almost always articulates my thoughts and perspectives. Women are different and our approaches to life are very different.There is no one way to be a “woman”.

[@treed3842]

Love the look Loni!

[@Remi_marie]

Strength is worn differently on everyone, so I agree with not worrying about the label

[@phoebeallegra]

It sounds to me like the woman was talking about men cheating and having two women at once. Lots of criticisms on women lately from yall. Go back to uplifting please. We go through enough as women without tuning into a show led by women and being criticized. Yall been doing this for a couple of weeks. Looking forward to more positivity. And there is nothing wrong with being a strong woman. A real strong man won't be threatened by a strong woman. Also yes Garcelle you can still be a strong woman and want a man to lead you in the bedroom, your point is correct.

[@mgmtgirlyeah7493]

I get what you're saying, but it's still not 100% clear that original post was about cheating. And if that's the case, everyone in that love triangle (the man and the 2 women) are all weak.

[@britmarie4859]

Some men do feel threatened by strong women

[@kishajones841]

Adrienne was dropping gems in this one. Interestingly, the older I get I hear a lot of women saying they want a man to lead in their relationship. All the independent talk of your twenties gets real old when you’re forced to lead in a relationship bc the man you’re with doesn’t possess the qualities to lead your family.

[@josephlovely7759]

I agree with Loni and Adrienne. Let stop labeling each other, finding excuses for men action. They choose what they want. It's not about US not strong enough or too strong or weak.

[@queenbbeaute2654]

Facts its pick me energy when u degrade a women for a man

[@sv7977]

Appreciate this convo... Wish it was a bit longer tho

[@mimirodriguez2708]

I think men want the easy way and for her to agree with all the bullish and to agree with him playing games and want to believe where like that and we're not built like that period

[@Kimmieziven]

I agree with all of them I think manipulative men go for "weak minded women" now the definition being used in situation can be in many ways like easily forgiving, too considerate, ignoring red flags, etc but then not all "weak minded" traits its "weak" it can be powerful coz of "patience & lenience" And men that need a 2nd mind to support him in his day to day life might go for "smart women". Though i feel like strong & smart is very thin line, it CAN be interconnected For "strong minded" women i prefer to use that when a woman knows her worth, know when to put her foot down, know when to have her voice heard, know how to give off the charismatic energy towards men that thinks they could disrespect/mistreat her and get away. Theres more to it but i wanna keep my opinions short, theres many ways to interpret a word

[@yoditassefa7126]

How do you define a weak woman... i feel like if the man isn't for you move on and find one for you.

[@lotuswolf1518]

Is Hilary Clinton a strong woman ?? Megan markle ?

[@MS-pk2gs]

Since when did being submissive make you weak? In a team you have a leader and a follower, the follower still contributes a lot and has an important role! You can be submissive and strong. And you can be a leader and not be strong.

[@tamerilee]

I love Loni’s look!!!!! I want that hat!!!

[@melissalitus8879]

She's killing the fashion game since they've been quarantined

[@Aishya476]

Man they all look so good today but omg Loni at home is just wow. She looks soooo damn good. I love this outfit and hair on her. Loni and Jeannie made sense.

[@lilliannatovar7777]

Yassss A!! I would love a leader I'm over it!!

[@meowlife2662]

If he's for you nothing can stop that.

[@didntask4793]

I feel tho there is a lack of representation for dominant women. The media constantly plays into the same type of women that is strong in life but submissive in her relationship. Some women ARE the leaders in their relationship with their partner, but the lady’s in the real don’t ever discuss this when speaking on topics like this.

[@henrybrown9711]

I believe for most men it doesn't matter if your interdependent or independent, as long as he feels that she is feminine, that she respects him, and her presence brings peace. Some women label themselves as strong when they are difficult, have nasty attitudes and argumentative. I believe strong women are intelligent, yet wise at the same time; capable of working, being a mother or whatever in order for her desire and the families success.

[@queenbbeaute2654]

Noone mentioned anything about being independent lol but that last part where u did agree they want feminine someone respects him and his presence +brings peace..facts

[@abenameena691]

I hate the term weak, I agree with Loni....wanting to please your man doesn't mean you are weak minded.... We are all different 🤦

[@fionaj7340]

Loved this clip ❣❣ I am with Garcelle all the way....sometimes I do need to remind myself to take the pants off 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️and though I am strong and very proud of it, I have no problem in being led at times, especially when it matters to my man.

[@ceterisparibus8966]

When it matters? Like?

[@niolab7]

A real man can handle a strong woman and he doesn't need her to check her voice or brain at the door for them to have a successful relationship.

[@businesslady3075]

Yea!

[@25fadeaway]

Who wants to have a relationship with someone you have to "handle"? People want a loving , kind , respectful relationship. Usually when someone says a man can't handle a strong woman usually it's because that person is bossy controlling hard-headed violent and they need someone who can handle that level of crazy. Let's be honest when was the last time you heard a man say this woman can't handle a strong man? Usually that person's pretty abusive and toxic.

[@ifeoluwaoyinlola7046]

I agree wholeheartedly with what Loni said. Is a woman really weak-minded just because she defers to the man in the relationship. That might be her recognizing where to play her strengths and where to leave someone else to take the reins. I’m not talking about abusive or toxic co-dependent relationships, those are usually a result of certain defective traits in both parties. Like Loni said, if it doesn’t work out, that’s not the one for you, each person will gravitate towards what they need/want (good or bad), it’s not a competition where someone won, it’s just mutual attraction. There’s no need for the labeling honestly.

[@daevijones]

can somebody tell me where tamera is? Like is she out of the show now or.....?

[@latriceking8887]

A man wants whatever he wants. We want whatever we want. It’s ok ladies. Strong AND Weak are RELATIVE. If a guy doesn’t want you, it’s ok and go your own way. Question: have you ever seen a guy years later and been thankful that you didn’t end up with him?!

[@kinndah2519]

I disagree with Garcelle. When many men say they want a "strong woman" it means they want a woman who they don't have to worry about being good to her bc "she can handle anything." She'll carry his behind and her own. A woman that'll have standards and boundaries and be considered "high maintenance" is actually the strong one.

[@indigobeauty1]

They say weak, i hope they're not talking about Feminine women who allow they're Men to lead because they know it makes them feel good.

[@KCNwokoye]

Only truly strong men want a strong partner. Like attract like. That quote may make her feel better but it has no basis on facts.

[@mgmtgirlyeah7493]

So what does this woman think when she eventually gets chosen... does she continue to think that she was the weaker of the 2 women?

[@elizabethbaca9684]

Yes they are on hiatus

[@aliciap5462]

It's not a game, some people take pleasure in making others happy. But of course this should be done without sacrificing your own happiness.

[@Gratefulphyl]

Unfortunately such people are easily taken advantage of

[@Amberrechelle]

Yes ...... and .... no .. I think if they were single they would have a different perspective . There are some men who really don’t want women who hold their own .Also, this when topics like these come up ....... they sound so back in the dayyyy ...

[@caramelking-zf8wu]

Strong Women = Strong MOUTH !!! ( 100% of "her strength" !! )

[@rosa9005]

So much projection going on in this conversation 😂

[@latoyascott4526]

I disagree most man don't know what they want, im a prime perfect testimony i spent almost 11yrs with a older man gave him everything yet still he was constantly chasing pavements and prostitutes not to label any woman

[@zannieholmes8555]

Sometimes what other people say to you has more to do with who they are.

[@yijia8421]

Where can I get Jeannie’s glasses?

[@ClaireHaire]

*True strength is silence* I do not understand how there is still confusion about this. I see this all the time where women think you are weak because, you check in with your man or don't have your cheeks out for the world to see. It is a respect thing and in regard to being a side chick, do you really want to value a man who can't commit to one woman?

[@babybree175]

I can understand that but some men do like a woman that is weaker

[@cat56789]

Strong Women know their worth, weak minded women don’t

[@Missdaphanyma13]

I agree with Adrienne ❤️👏🏼

[@GerardD85]

Amen Jeannie....you done said the truth!!!! I love you!

[@xomcrrockstarxo]

Awe, precious Garcelle messing up in the beginning. We got what you meant, Queen. ❤️

[@alexandraanderson3988]

I know she seemed so sweet here awww😊😊 its almost as if she be like can I get a redue whe she smiles and covers her face and the lais be like no you can't but its ok we know what you meant lmaoo awww🥰🥰 sweet I like how they were like don't worry about it its ok just words of encouragement😉😉😏👍👍

[@cwytchsparks]

I have no problem submitting to a man. He just has to be worth submitting to.

[@agathachris9722]

It depends heavily on what people consider strong and weak.

[@margaritamcdaniel3476]

This video lost it’s value at it’s inception. The power for themselves as women was lost from the start. The title alone is disgusting. Why are women even discussing this topic? Why are women even considering for one moment what men prefer? This should bring outrage in your soul. I’ve been screaming that for years! My husband loves me for who I am, not for who he wants me to be or who/what he prefers. He loves me FOR WHO I CHOOSE TO BE. His opinion is always duly noted but he is never the decision maker for my life or for my choices, and vice versa. I make my choices about my person, values, ethics and personality for myself. He makes choices for his person, ethics, and values for himself. WE make choices that complement, encourage, and uplift each other’s values, ethics, and personalities TOGETHER. Many a man have put women against each other for years and women still fall into that trap today. And while women fall for it and get caught up in fighting each other, the same type of men have already forgotten the subject and are out having lunch together or looking for a new pair of women to put up against each other. 🤦🏽‍♀️ Women should be empowering one another, encouraging, uplifting, promoting, etc. Not tearing each other down. Not jealous of another woman’s beauty or success. Women are worse on each other and more critical of one another than men are of us because they’ve allowed themselves to be conditioned to think this is ok. This video demeans women. So sad. #feminist #NOW #womensupportingwomen #womenpower #women

[@Simplelivingslowliving]

Just a random question for yall: do yall think the music industry that sells and buys sex/sexual content is empowering women or enslaving women?

[@genwilson7741]

A bit of both. On the one hand it’s allowing women to make huge figures of money on their own. On the other hand it’s promoting the vibe that women are nothing but play objects. That is a problem because sometimes men can’t seem to differentiate between “entertainment” and real life. Some guys are starting to expect women to look like the Kardashian’s and do celebrity sex tape level stuff in the bedroom on a basic 9-5 budget and time frame. Real women look like real women and they are not professional sex workers for male enjoyment.

[@damoniquebester7820]

Enslaving for sure.

[@jackieboo6776]

Love the hairstyles!!!

[@joanncodding788]

Weak-mind women what's does that mean? I don't understand how any person who's not in the relation can define whether women are strong-minded or weak-mind base on their barometer of how they're to be in their own relation. I think this sounds of the ego vs unselfishness/humility. If the person isn't trading off their core values just to appease, then being malleable is a requirement and a sign of maturity that its not bout winning bringing out the finer qualities

[@kiyakassa1726]

Jeanie is a wise woman. I want to be like her I don’t care if that’s weak for some people.

[@MsForeverFly]

first time i agree with loni wholeheartedly 💯💯🙏🏾

[@jinaq]

ive never agreed with loni like i do in this clip

[@deandres1445]

In my opinion sometimes Loni can be a bit close minded but she stays looking goooooood

[@SweettCurls]

I don’t understand wanting to be lead? You don’t want to have any say when making decisions regarding your relationship?

[@leni6864]

Where's Tamara? Have seen her in a while

[@JT-ef2qy]

What Jeannie said going to to go right over y’all ladies heads 😂 🤷🏿‍♂️ can’t make this up!

[@Deisi666]

I don’t believe in this whole “strong vs week woman “ thing . A first of all why do we have to be week just cause we are women? Men are just as week as any other person walking this earth! We are all multifaceted and just cause some people aren’t loud and outgoing or because some don’t always go after what they want or don’t get what they want (even though they’ve tried) doesn’t not make the person week. It’s a label I’ve never liked because being able to go though life is hard enough and that makes you strong, having morals makes you strong , loving and caring for other as well as yourself makes you strong. I feel like the anger to this question is that this the man just want feeling the woman for other reasons than her not being “strong”. Maybe it had to do with physical preference or maybe they just didn’t connect on a deeper level.

[@namiahajarah3473]

This is so real

[@jaeeluv]

Yep.. They shole do! (SOME) The strong minded women are NEVER "Too much to handle" to real men 🤷🏿😂

[@25fadeaway]

Who wants to have a relationship with someone you have to "handle"? People want a loving , kind , respectful relationship. Usually when someone says a man can't handle a strong woman usually it's because that person is bossy controlling hard-headed violent and they need someone who can handle that level of crazy. Let's be honest when was the last time you heard a man say this woman can't handle a strong man? Usually that person's pretty abusive and toxic

[@faithfo7255]

Is this another week of pre-recorded episodes?

[@natashajoyy4223]

Thank You Adriennneeee

[@vanessawalker5366]

omg they are all so pretty in their own way. i am loving loni's pretty country girl look. and yes i completely agree with Ade and Loni.

[@deborah8194]

They sure do.... if you watch any of these KZbin gurus like Kevin Samuels they say they want to marry a woman who has nothing going for her except being fit and submissive.

[@lighteningsnips]

I know right? That's why I've stopped watching his videos because he discourages women from having a mind of their own.

[@ceterisparibus8966]

@@lighteningsnips You mean he's an open misogynist.

[@AbigaillOwusu]

Lol y’all missing the point once again.

[@xalimox3525]

That's soo true

[@JayeKisses]

I can handle myself but in a relationship I want & strong LOYAL man to lead in the relationship. I’ve dated guys who didn’t lead so I broke up with them. If u can’t take control in holding my hand or leading me to the dance floor or in making plans then u can’t handle me. I want a guy that’s not afraid to take charge

[@chelseamalford8791]

Submissive isn’t weak-minded. It’s submissive vs. dominant

[@ragingbull3157]

I want a submissive woman.. That doesnt mean she weak. Lol