Why You Are Not a Loser

[@theschooloflifetv]

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[@swiftadz1]

i like this video a lot well thought out - hit me up if you ever need an editor in a pinch!!! - swiftadz.com

[@greys2015]

Some questions I have about this: 1) What about the races that are necessary for one to take part in, like acquiring money or being a good parent? If we accept that the necessity to take part in some races exists, doesn't that eventually lead to every person being ranked at the same race, making some winners and others losers? 2) Also, what do you have to say about the relative 'importance' of some races over others? Surely some races must be more important than others (at least when we look at it from what society marks as 'important'). So if it matters more to take part in some races, how can it even be regarded as sane for one to argue that 'okay I might not be a winner in being good at relationships, but I am a winner in enjoying the taste of fruit'...? As you mentioned in this video, society has a tendency to focus more on some races over others which it perhaps has ranked as more important. Should we just ignore this 'social importance' given to some aspects of life? Aren't the results of some races, like social acceptance and admiration, better than the results of other races? - From a big supporter of the channel. Thanks for your amazing content!

[@tibex7498]

I have a question on courage. Is it malleable or is it innate. What i mean by that is is it a developable virtue or is it like u either have it or u don't.(specially on things we are not familiar with). I would really appreciate your response.

[@randomstuff3046]

can u talk about rebound relationship and ex move on fast

[@matju2]

strange subtitle in this video says "around thoughtful but underconfident three year old children" and the voice doesn't say "thoughtful but underconfident" !

[@tauntaun9660]

“There’s no competition between the sun and the moon. They shine when it’s their time.”

[@polrusstomakriss9001]

Bars big Dawg Bars

[@secrethehe9738]

This is a dumb quote. Of course there's no competition they're not alive 🙄

[@honeybee6646]

@Adnaan A. one needs to shine, for the others to shine.

[@suchithosecan7564]

🔥

[@fahada.979]

Yet one shines brighter than othen

[@josyjosy7495]

A lot of kindness from the school of life. I cannot be more thankful. True suffering is when we are crushed under unnecessary measurements.

[@FutureMindset]

"You can't judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree" -Albert Einstein

[@broski8314]

"Everything you read on internet is true." -Socrates

[@N0Xa880iUL]

Ayy bro nice to see to here! When is the next video coming out?

[@Hosker25]

@m gal Are you sure about that?

[@FutureMindset]

@@N0Xa880iUL Same here man. It should be out next week.

[@N0Xa880iUL]

@@FutureMindset Thanks for the reply. I really like your content. Excited for the new video!

[@TheVibeMindset]

How you label yourself is how you see yourself. You act in alignment with those labels so choose wisely.

[@thereisnosanctuary6184]

I'm a Magnificent Bastard, then.

[@TheVibeMindset]

@@thereisnosanctuary6184 YES YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!

[@bluebeka2458]

Ummm, that complicates things... like a lot.

[@ricardomartinhodacruz]

meanwhile charlie sheen still winning

[@mokie7421]

I was worthless garbage before I realized it. My very existence is a self fulfilling prophecy.

[@haisesasaki3944]

Unfortunately, today's society has been pushing us to evaluate our values according to financial accomplishments and productivity, sitting aside what makes us a human society like empathy, collaburation and trust. This actually creats more distance between successful narcissists and ambitious people who want to add a real meaning to our lives.

[@dirtyunclehubert]

“In a way, you’ve already won in this world because you’re the only one who can be you.” Mr. Rogers

[@jomo2483]

Funny fact, Hitler was told the same by a doctor to boost his ego and recover from his injuries during WW1. Look what happened. These empty quotes don't help anyone.

[@dirtyunclehubert]

@@jomo2483 well, if they helped adolf, they can help me too!

[@aerodylluk2543]

@@jomo2483 As much as I would love to derive wisdom from somebody with your username, I have to point out the flaw in your logic. If you are saying this quote had a hand in making Hitler into what he became, then it is hard to deny how effective the quote is right? I mean he is universally hated, but you can't deny that he did some major things. Yeah he died in the end and lost the war and some of the decisions he made may qualify him as deluded or even evil (though I doubt anybody sees themselves that way). But it did not make him a 'loser'. He was not sitting at home letting life pass him by, he saw a situation he wanted to change and tried to change it, he will be recorded in history long after we are all dead. You cannot call somebody a loser for trying and failing, a loser is somebody who never tries to begin with. Or of course you could be saying the quote is pointless and had nothing to do with Hitler. But then one wonders why you decided to weigh in here at all then.

[@omniscientomnipresent5500]

It was true when he said it... But now a lot of people are disposable and identic due to forced conformism.

[@aerodylluk2543]

@@omniscientomnipresent5500 I think given context we are all identical or unique, it just depends what you choose to focus on. But I do get your point and it does indeed seem that way many times.

[@anshuman1962]

You cannot be losers at every race. Me: Challenge accepted

[@hakimdiwan5101]

Well then you will be winner in race for being the most loser.

[@robertdobie2544]

@@hakimdiwan5101 Yours is the winning reply! :)

[@tizianafernandez9932]

I'm laughing so hard by this

[@hakimdiwan5101]

@@robertdobie2544 Haha thanks btw still needs 42 likes to beat the him/her/it. Edit : I lost to comments but I won replies 😂

[@mortinx]

This thread reminds me of an episode from big mouth. The Gratitoad.

[@doctordolldesigns4009]

"If one cannot be a winner at everything, then is it safe to say that one cannot also be a loser at everything." Most comforting words I have ever heard..

[@29subhra]

❤️Yes

[@DanilaPit]

You don't have to do anything to be a loser. So it's much easier to be a loser at everything.

[@SamBKearns]

Personally I thought this statement was a non-sequiter. It's obvious that we can't win everything as the video describes, but this has nothing to do with the idea that no matter who we are or what we do we must always be winning at something or other, that is a completely different assertion for which the video provides no evidence or arguments at all. It makes about as much sense as saying that being a loser is a form of winning, which sounds a lot like toxic positivity to me.

[@sparshchugh]

The comments saying "first" on this video are most ironical comments ever.

[@Tru2112]

Sparsh Chugh “ironical”

[@SSR00000]

True! too funny. 😜

[@John-cq3hk]

The "first" comment always takes me back to the race to the water fountain- back in Elementary School.

[@juliandavidac]

LMFAO

[@robertdobie2544]

I’ve been hanging around and stalking some videos for years ... so that I can leave a comment that says, “Last to comment.” Still waiting.

[@Shifty4L]

I'm a winner at being jobless and living with my parents with no friends or lovers.

[@havazmohammed485]

His girlfriend called him a loser yesterday, this is how he retaliates

[@lawrup]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/gKOyZWl5f8lspNU

[@ArcaneEiro]

🤣🤣🤣

[@lizerdspherex]

"Well, yeah?! You're... IN LOVE WITH A LOSER"!

[@MarkWTK]

chubbyemu?

[@thereisnosanctuary6184]

Nobody wields the word "Loser" like an ex girlfriend. Cuts like a knife!

[@gc8002]

Great job with the stop motion!!! The camera work is subtle and wonderful.

[@claufelippio8401]

Yeah, I even had to re-watch some parts because I was keeping attention to the very good stop motion...

[@myriadmediamusings]

Before the video starts I will say half sarcastically half seriously you become a winner only when you no longer give a damn when people call you a loser or you stop feeling that you yourself are a loser.

[@camez2345]

I concur and would say that goes for both labels -- winner or loser. Once you start making those an issue at all, whether they come from others or yourself, you've already "lost"/missed the point.

[@ccgarciab]

After the video: there's a race for giving the less fucks

[@bluebeka2458]

But then.... There's yourself. How do you ignore that?

[@joew2450]

@@Abdulrahman11717 theres a difference between sane levels of caring how you are perceived so that everyone doesn't avoid you and caring whether people think you are a winner or a loser at certain parts of life.

[@soniaperezportillo4935]

I'm early today just to give kudos to the animator. Seriously, that madlad rendered FINGERPRINTS on the diferent props.

[@just_a_guy3346]

where are the fingerprints bro?

[@philnightjar1971]

Do note that was a stop motion in which hands are used to move the figures around.

[@gabrielborjas7923]

Was it really 3d animation?

[@soniaperezportillo4935]

I initialy thought it was computer animated mainly because of the light effects, but it might as well be stop motion. Anyway it is still outstanding animation, even so that i really can't tell how it was made. :D

[@soniaperezportillo4935]

@@just_a_guy3346 i saw them more or less ay the begining in the shot that closes on the wooden camera following the racing cars, You can see the fingerprints reflecting light in the black part of the camera.

[@QuietlyMagnetic]

Look in the mirror and ask yourself how do you treat others? If with kindness, compassion, respect and justice, then you’re not a loser. No matter how you feel or what others may say.

[@koriroti]

Just don't be a dick to others , and that's enough.

[@thereisnosanctuary6184]

Shut up! j/k

[@conformist]

it’s all relative. you can definitely be a loser, but it’ll be at something else.

[@dreamthedream8929]

@@koriroti yes, clean public bathrooms after yourself because others will have to use them.

[@koriroti]

@@dreamthedream8929 of course I flush before leaving. Why are you taking it personally?

[@neurotransmission6825]

Or how about life isn’t a competition, and measuring yourself by other people’s accomplishments isn’t a valid way to determine self-worth?

[@lebronjames7041]

Perfect

[@certifiedhabits3765]

^^^ Came here to say this. There are no races, it’s just your life and how you define it

[@br9964]

Isnt that the message of this video or am i confused?

[@idoneakw9996]

I mean that's a nice thought but doesn't really help someone who actually feels like a loser. This video shows a viewpoint that most people have not seen, but they've definitely heard ‘don't compare yourself to others!!!!!’ before; easier said than done!

[@neurotransmission6825]

@@idoneakw9996 Of course it's easier said than done. If it wasn't, so many people wouldn't struggle with it. That, however, doesn't change the fact that if your end goal is self-acceptance, focusing on the accomplishments of others is the wrong way to go about it. We're all unique individuals with unique experiences and unique capabilities, and being upset that you haven't achieved what others have is like a hippo being upset that it can't run as fast as a cheetah. I mean, you're talking to someone who, by society's standards, is a complete and total loser. From the time I was 15 to when I was 30, I struggled to function on a basic level. Even at age 41, I'm still barely able to work 15 hours a week, and I have to to things most people don't just to accomplish that. But none of that means that I haven't accomplished anything or that I haven't made great strides in who I am as a person. If I was to worry about how I stacked up to everyone else, I'd be miserable. So, it's like I said, life is not about how you compare to others. It's about accepting what you have and realizing that your position is unique to you. It may seem cliche, but true acceptance DOES come from within, not worrying about what others are doing.

[@reallifepsych3309]

When I put wine in my ice cream, I feel like both a winner and a loser haha

[@thereisnosanctuary6184]

Is that possible? Hmm. I'll try it.

[@jessykaros]

This person knows how to party

[@hakimdiwan5101]

That should be criminal offence.

[@augustmedbrod]

I mean who doesn't enjoy a good Merlot and chocolate float?

[@timgawertdrums]

This comment is pure gold

Alain, I’ve been conditioned to feel hope when I hear your voice.

[@joelfehrman6097]

The School of Life makes you feel better about yourself that’s why it’s so successful. You can be a loser but then watch this video and say “well at least I’m a good friend” when the reality is your friends are probably more successful than you and don’t care much for you in return.

[@david.walters]

To the person who is reading this: You’re amazing stay blessed, stay safe and have an amazing rest of your day!✨

[@bluebeka2458]

Thanks, you too

[@guidoguido2245]

Thank you. You too!

[@Taleof2heads]

Me who is going to rob fort knox

[@someonesomeone25]

Thanks. Im still a loser though. My main goal is to stop caring.

[@ahmadtime8534]

@Someone Someone well ur not since ur here

[@WisdomWealth77]

Winners are not people who never fail, but people who never quit. 💪

[@BrenTenn]

Amen sibling

[@unknown_chillhuman]

Thanks I needed to hear this since I failed my communications exam today... lately a lot has been going on but I will certainly not give up!

[@WisdomWealth77]

@@unknown_chillhuman Sorry to hear that. But indeed, it’s apart of the journey. When you succeed you will look back at the moments you failed and maybe even be happy for them.

[@WakefieldTolbert]

Horseshit

[@sumnertano]

In Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules For Life, he uses almost the exact same analogy in Rule 4: Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today. Comparison to the "winners", as you say, is meaningless and a hindrance to personal growth. Because personal growth is, well, personal, and only you yourself can determine if you are going to be a winner or loser.

[@spencerlukay5809]

No one: Absolutely no one: Brain: wanna be a winner at depression?

[@hwggeggtgwygahgsh531]

Let everyone be the light, I'm happy being the darkness....

[@nehainthebay]

And yet, we wait to “win” for happiness, when we could be happy because we are in the race. ✨

[@cw2526]

this video does its purpose. it makes losers feel like they are somewhat important :)

[@rashikabhardwaj9554]

The reason i click is for the titles, the reason i stay to watch is the visual and the reason i dont unsubscribe ever is the thought the video leaves me with. Great work team!!

[@fe4000]

People in TSoL have a very fine tuned sense of what we need to be remembered in our most secret and painful moments. Once again, thank you for sharing what you have.

[@TheGoodGuy777]

Everyone wants to be the most successful, financial secure, popular, vanity built and greediest.. Sure life is about being satisfied and being the best person you can be.. Everyone is a wannabe and that’s all they’ll be until they let that Ego rest and realise.. Be the best you you can be, be a good person!

[@darwinwatterson1050]

As long as you stand a good chance to win whilst challenging someone, you’re a winner. That is the definition of a winner, someone whom stand a chance to win by the input of an evident effort.

[@TheDhammaHub]

Winners rejoice in their mistakes as there is much more you learn from failing as from repeating a successful procedure!

[@mammontustado9680]

"You're a clown, Lawrence!" Lawrence of Arabia: "We can't all be lion tamers."

[@PsychedelicActualization]

"I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work." ~Thomas A. Edison ❤️🙏🏽

[@thereisnosanctuary6184]

Stealing from Tesla worked.

[@Kevin-cy2dr]

"I have not failed.I've just found 10,000 ways to rip off Tesla" - Thomas Edison 🤮🤮

[@kaizenryan3390]

@@thereisnosanctuary6184 yeah he stole But he still tested a lot of metals to get his required material to make a bulb. He had determination,but at last still stole someone else's idea

[@GibranC0r0na]

Sublime animation. They always get just the right visual representations that propertly depicts what Alain is talking about

[@TheWeirdlyenough]

Nobody: Me in the military: I'm gonna pretend I didnt see that

[@wren4077]

Its nice to be the winner when being a loser might possibly involve being dead.

[@ancoraspot]

​@@wren4077 Not like killing someone is a big victory

[@wren4077]

@@ancoraspot staying alive is. For me.

[@ancoraspot]

@@wren4077 You are already alive. And didn't have to kill anybody (I guess?)

[@wren4077]

@@ancoraspot what the fuck I'm obviously talking about a very specific situation. Are we under the same comment? That's like if I said I was Asian under a comment talking about Asians and then you come in and say "You are a human". Yes. Thank you.

[@nonno318]

Thank you, i teared up bcs Ive always thought that it was beautiful how I never failed to see the pretty sky, but no one ever sees that, I’m unemployed and fail again and again going forward in life, I live with my parents, and so I’m a looser.

[@revokdaryl1]

You're not a loser, my friend. We live in a world where money is everything. Money is an illusion. The only reason you live with your parents is probably because you don't have enough money to afford your own home, right? That doesn't make you a loser. Many people live at home now because it's too bloody expensive to find affordable housing. Don't be hard on yourself because of that.

[@rohilthomson]

Step 1 to find out if you're a loser: *LET A RANDOM PERSON ON THE INTERNET DECIDE THAT FOR YOU.* Jokes aside, another great video!

[@royalredbird9717]

Man the animation quality is damn good!

[@grilledcheese9297]

School of Life: you are not a loser Me: Hold my loses

[@jeremymenning56]

"Are you winning son?"

[@renegroulx7029]

Oh my goodness. 😆 This is the best comment. 💯

[@joulsw3739]

What a wonderfully animated video. ❤ Love the message Alain is sharing.

[@lllamaface3047]

I don't want to feel useless and a loser, but I can't stop this. This feeling gets very strong especially when I fail...

[@pancholopezpaz]

Amazing video! I realized I did not succeded in sports (football and racquetball) as I wanted. I grew in a poor city and I did not get support form my parents. Now at age 30 I had the opportunity to play racquetball in a club and in the club was the number 7 in the world, and I realised that he had all the support form his family from childhood, his father was obsessed with the sport and he had to give up on many things in life to be able to succeed in sports. I succeded in moving to another continent, becoming independent, learning languages, be able to sleep well, and also succeded in other fields.

[@mitalikshatriya6365]

Someone brought me to this channel through a tweet, and I am gald she did.

[@marjorienavarro6337]

I heard about Alain Dr Botton way back 20years ago, when he made a series about historical philosophers, where he interviews other professors and etc.. I was about 14yo and I took notes of each series, he broke it down so well and keep it interesting until the very end. So much respect for him, and those notes kept me grounded throughout life.... thanks Alain ✌

[@z0uLess]

Yet, in any context, when someone ask whether someone is successful, everyone suddenly knows what that means.

[@matsuo680]

hi pls reply to me :D

[@philipfisch3143]

Building multiple streams of Income is exactly what everyone should be pursuing right now.

[@tomwilde5444]

As the economy crises keep rising, one needs to have different streams of Income, one needs to have diversified portfolio in order to survive.

[@mirandaanniston1347]

Multiple sources of Income is the best way to go.

[@elliecarlson1028]

Having one stream of Incomes are super insecure.

[@brunorachke4367]

Stocks are good but I swapped into cryptocurrency and forex trading and I have been making good profits.

[@gabriellameyer7537]

Yeah, Cryptocurrency is really profitable when it comes in investing.

[@manta567]

I'm a loser at 32yo with no job, still being a student. I never wanted that. But I kind of failed to move on. No money. No perspective. How can I not feel like a failure, if I'm not able to take care of myself?

[@jimdotbeep]

It *is* possible to be a loser at everything. You're smart enough to know that.

[@retroplayyt]

Im a winner at hating my life and being utterly useless

[@daniel.duarte]

This is the best animation of all your videos. Please, do more of this kind

[@lydiarosebrita4901]

I think the only way to feel truly happy and fulfilled is to decide whats important you, work towards that and refuse to compare yourself to anyone but yourself.

[@davidguerrero941]

As an engineer, we strive to make approximations to such a complex world through the use of linear equations. And in-so-doing we are well aware that life is a nonlinear mess of events. So these winner/loser categorizations are a dreadfully narrow generalization of human beings and their extraordinary differences.

[@esabkhan7901]

Why consider LIFE a Race at all? Because we are all born into different circumstances, some are born poor some rich, some healthy some with defects, some with great parents, and there are some who don't even remember how their parents looked like because they died early. I can go on but you got the point. In a race circumstances for every participant are same e.g the ground is same for all, the time limit is KNOWN and same for all, they all have a same finishing line but in life we dont't have such fairness . We all have our goals and we can achieve them without calling ourselves a Race Participant. In the race, you can't help others to succeed, but in life you CAN. ! So let's call life a wonderful journey we are all supposed to enjoy together and not a race where everybody is for himself.

[@erianpena2908]

Now I feel like a loser in every competition

[@rudig5698]

I believe the only thing that is important is the law of attraction. If you tell yourself you are a winner, you will become one. Btw thank you guys from the school of life, you’ve inspired me to start my own KZbin channel! Keep going!🤗❤️

[@juliz2500]

At which race?

[@thereisnosanctuary6184]

I attract mosquitos

[@SkyMist227]

Great video, School of Life :) growing up, my race was educational prestige. After getting ruthlessly rejected, I wallowed in my failure for a good while (and honestly, still do sometimes) before finding my way to other racetracks that have since eased my mind & heart :')

[@UHFStation1]

Well, it appears I watched this 2 years ago. I can see myself coming back here again and again desperately never finding an answer.

[@ccgarciab]

The stop motion of this video is so good. The animators are doing an excellent work

[@zharkoo]

This fantastic video once again reminds me that in our world there is so much depression, anxiety, angriness, hostility.... for no reason whatsoever. Why is our society so rotten? Just how did we, despite all the progress, got it so wrong?

[@zharkoo]

@mz. white - nelligan sadly u'r right

[@lazarusblackwell6988]

Often people destroy the winners because they dont like to be near someone that is better then they are and makes them feel inadequate So being a winner is not the solution But being a loser might at least free you from the expectations of others

[@atilanasiri]

Beautifully animated and created. THANKS SCHOOL OF LIFE 🙏❤️❤️

[@tourrama9778]

"There's a race of who can become kindest to children. There's a race measuring how gifted someone is at friendship... There are races focused on how attentive someone is to the evening sky."

[@pacer1705]

Everyone can be a winner. No one will appreciate every winner.

[@seph4667]

You are the only trustworthy person on earth. It is now time to begin living in full and constant harmony with what you respect.

[@abhaysharma9003]

During 4 minute video: Oh I am not a looser! After that: Carries on to default self-loathing.

[@manankpanchmatia3470]

Thanks for the personal attack 🙂

[@lakshacc5954]

Lol I felt it too

[@heyitsjodes]

😆😆😆

[@charthers8903]

Everyone is laughing at you, can’t you hear?

[@freddyjimenez6434]

😂😂😛😝😜😃

[@tghostpipe5472]

My adult children still come around to see me. I did something right.😍🤗

[@dr.samuraisminutelecture7064]

BEING A LOSER COMES FROM COMPARISON WITH OTHERS🍀

[@tinnitusxtogether]

I'm here to have my daily dose of depression.

[@koriroti]

F

[@tree490]

I need a gf to be depressed with together. You up for that role?

[@coolpfpbut]

Ha nerd

[@henk-3098]

@@tree490 You already have your right hand.

[@kellyfortes5949]

I may still struggle a bit in being super confident in myself, but I know that I win in kindness and lovingness 🤗💪🏼 Besides every time I have a hard time being confident, I am given a chance to practice confidence and understand what difficulty is it that I have. So I'm always given a chance to either win, or practice more

[@dkkoover]

Failing professionally, but at least I'm winning in appreciating autumn figs.

[@sammyj9367]

I'm sorry but I chuckled bitterly at the ending because it's giving a child being sad and disappointed because they finished the race last by an embarrassingly huge margin and their parents swooping in telling the kid to just make up the prize and pretend it's equally as important 😭

[@janicemurphy7878]

In reality there's no such title that makes you a winner, because the attributes are to the title and not you personally. Awm

[@just_a_guy3346]

LOOOVED the animation style!

[@delancyj67]

I didn't learn the term 'loser' to describe a human (outside of track & field events) until I was in college. Ignorance was bliss!

[@JoshuaPryce-ps7hx]

I believe that winning is a perspective. It comes from a spiritual outlook and is focuses with the mind of Christ.

[@whideoreviews573]

Nice job by the stop-motion animation team with this video.

[@somegreybloke]

Thanks! The team is me

[@ChantelleONeill-rq8hw]

Winning Tyler Posey ("Legendary") & Colton Haynes ("The Gates") Funny

[@ChantelleONeill-rq8hw]

Funny

[@camez2345]

Oooh, no me gusta. The use of the terms "winners" and "losers" at all keeps us in a race mindset and thinking that there are all kinds of goals to achieve and feel good/bad about reaching or not reaching. I felt a knot in my stomach the whole time watching this. "Winning" at one race after we "lose" at another should give us no real comfort, because it means we're still judging ourselves (and others) unfairly and holding tightly onto the idea that we need to constantly be "doing" during life. I understand where they were going with the underlying message of the video, but it was a poor choice to keep the win/lose metaphor going, in my opinion.

[@natesamadhi33]

Its all to keep everybody runnin in the same machine & slaving for the elites. Gotta go off-the-grid & live life your way

[@peculiarlittleman5303]

would like Buddhist practices.

[@travisbickle3835]

agreed.

[@akbar_khalid]

How very beautiful and calming. This video brought me peace. Anyone else?

[@ArcaneEiro]

🖐️helped me relax. That's why I watched it on the toilet. TSOL Really loosens up the movements

[@guidoguido2245]

You know, it’s easy to look at the world and wallow in all that is wrong, but, to an extent, we can also just sit back, appreciate what is immediately around us, and get lost in our thoughts. And we can realize that life is not so bad, or so serious, after all. We can pick our own priorities, goals and races...

[@thereisnosanctuary6184]

If you lose graciously, you are a winner.

[@attor90]

Theses animations are getting better and better each day

[@amuhald2785]

Wow.. it was beautiful.. the script.. the thoughts.. the message .. the animations.. and it was needed for me.. to see this.. so very thank you...

[@andrewmatthews1481]

Todays winners , in the current world arena Idid not get gold for being loving ,kind , gentle , compassionate and honest . Today’s winners are living comfortably only through financial stability that affords a healthy and balanced lifestyle. Todays winners did not volunteer their Time or give away without a price or any expectations .. The only reason I got gold was a life time of practice , but in actual fact I’m the biggest loser , I have nothing .. And it’s just been confirmed by the fact I just watched why am I a loser ,, no winners are reading this…,

[@mrpalmero1]

I'm a loser but I can still win at learning to love myself cause nobody else will 😎

[@MalicahCharles]

I needed to hear this, times in my life where I thought I was a loser causing I was focusing on the thing I’m not good at.

[@Skylove06]

This channel is the reason why I am alive. Thank you💕

[@jamesshaw6862]

Thankyou. You have the right advice, available when needed and given so eloquently.

[@emilcioran8873]

There are many races. But few are worth participating and winning

[@HiddenWen]

Sometimes, it just feels like I am indeed a loser. When I observe others who make the same mistake I do sometimes, they don't seem to receive the same nasty remarks. There are too many situations where it seems like I'm purposely targeted. Why is it so easy for others to just live their life?

[@mb8kr]

In life you win some you lose some.

[@allisong.4280]

I won the empathy race 🙃 currently reaping the “benefits” of my trophy.

[@ahmeda.kareem3454]

But why do we keep making the “ noble “ acts as an acts of “ losers” , why is it always the story about that kind, forgiving person who helps others but still a “loser” by the general opinions.

[@jJust_NO_]

Its all about reward one gets after an action. Being too nice is draining and you are open to be exploited thus in the long run having a noble character is not rewarding. That's just how it works.

[@jJust_NO_]

Have you practiced this kind of persona? I did. It lead me to a victimized mentality. I developed great empathy yet I was hurting all the time. My psyche revolted this development. I've always been a fixer and logically oriented growing up. When I tried to develop another system of navigating the world, it was an opposite transition because it needed this emotional aspect of my self to be harnessed. I practiced self awareness and aspired to be agreeable. Along my journey, I wanted relative peace and tried to practice forgiveness but I couldn't control my external environment so I cowered and avoided any perturbing stimuli. However, isolation wasn't helping the aspect of social growth. Whenever I get to socialize, I cross examined myself if I was nice or kind enough. This in turn developed a scrupulous conscience. After many years of being introverted, focusing my energies into self contemplation, I want to channel my energies externally this time. You can practice this if you want and learn from your own experience. ☺️

[@Robert-yc9ql]

With our society now mesmerized by "influencers" and "famous for being famous", most of what we are exposed to amounts to not much more than vanity. We hear stories about famous people who show their humility (and humanity) and they remind us about what really matters... Keanu Reeves and Tom Hanks both come immediately to mind. "Noble" acts are noble on their own, no matter who does them. My takeaway from the video is this: No one is good at everything... yet everyone can be good at something. We shouldn't feel "less than" no matter what we excel at. In truth, there are really no "losers". That is a name given by the shallow minded to anyone they feel is beneath them. "Participation trophies" were first given to Special Olympians to remind them that just for trying, they succeeded. The idea has lost favor among some, but the message is still intended to be one of kindness and confirmation.

[@ayshb2150]

Because we measure success in very brute terms of financial success and having a house, car, spouse and kids, because we live in an emotionally disconnected, capitalistic world

[@Eyesayah]

@@jJust_NO_ I'm not sure I fully understand. I feel a certain comfort with the notion of sincerity. The type of sincerity I mean is not held captive to conscious thought, or the will. I'm not sure what socialization is, but I think if it is something that is striven for it is bound to be long term unfulfilling. It is probably not easy to give up the notion that one needs to put in work to love another and get their love in return. I've had the rewards of that, they have been bitter. Perhaps in a sense it might be better to let all that go. Some kindred spirit might recognize and prove a blessing. At the same time, one might avoid being hoisted by one's own petard.,

[@ArcaneEiro]

I didn't know there was an Autumn Fruit Enjoyment Contest🤯. Suddenly my life has meaning again😇

[@tarunakhatri9541]

these animations just keep getting better and better!

[@_sahildahat_]

Can we appreciate the way this video is made?👍

[@afreen5058]

_I may not be great with success, but I absolutely win when it comes to my appreciation for the fuzzy lint catch after a good laundry load._